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I Am So Confused About Life

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    I dropped out of college. Cause I was failing and what not. I feel like everyone is pressuring me to go back to school. What if I am not meant to go to school, what if I am not meant to be someone. I am just so confused. I am so sick of school..   My whole life it...
    IamOnlyMeDontAsk4Much IamOnlyMeDontAsk4Much 18-21 2 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    Life...

    Life... Life it is confusing, rough, and twisted; but can also be beautiful -so beautiful Every single one of us has a destined road -imposed by the ancient one, yet, I believe paths can be switch; fate can be change, for everything is possible if we just believe!
    palewhitemaiden palewhitemaiden 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 5, 2012

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    Help Me Please,... I Am So Confused..

    I am a married woman,23 years old with 2 kids... I think my marriage is going to fail... I have been feeling unsafe with my husband eversince he starting beating me.. anyway, he has not been doing it for the past 1 year i think.. I felt like my love for him has disappeared (not...
    confused104 confused104 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    Who Am I?

    "Time After TimeI find I question my lifeHow I went wrong? Will it ever be right?Will I rise? Will I fall? Stand tall?Continue asking but,  only God knows."  "Woke up this morning glanced outside my bedroom window i can see. my life so clearly, in this place i'm not supose...
    JBecerra JBecerra 18-21, M Mar 4, 2011

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    I don't want to keep being punished

    for the pain I've gone through and had no control over in my past
    DeLos1985 DeLos1985 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    Confused About Everything

    I am so confused right now about college and work and my boyfriend its kind of doing my head in. Well see I don't have a full time job at the moment but I have applied to go back to college by day and have gotten a place and everything at college. But I can also do this course...
    justin55 justin55 22-25 Aug 15, 2009

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    Ma Life Is A Mess

    he says he loves me,he says he doesnt have kids yet he has two kids,right know i could be pregnant with his child...i feel like throwing up...
    sista2012 sista2012 22-25 2 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    Have you ever realized how you can think

    and think and think about what life's about; but everytime you feel close to understanding what the secret is behind life: God throws a curve ball to you and it throws you off track and shows you if you knew the reason he wouldn't be God.. He wouldn't be big and powerful!
    KellsThr13 KellsThr13 13-15, F Jul 9

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    When I Think About Future

    I get completely confused all the time. When I think too long I don't know anything anymore. I don't know what I want anymore. I get completely confused and have no idea about anything anymore. SO I simply try to avoid planning too much.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 15, 2008

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    So a guy I liked used me

    for sex and lost my virginity to him now he doesn't care. There's another guy who likes me and he cares but I'm not sure I feel that way for him and I'm scared to tell him I'm not a virgin. Should I tell him? Should I even talk to him? I feel dirty
    bingerprincess bingerprincess 16-17, F Jul 7

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    2 Be Who?

    Who am I? Am i just a random person amoung millions of others? How Can it be that I cant even decribe myself? I really hate to be in my own head! There is to many thoughts and questions... So ill start with one. Why am i not who i wantto be?
    Gbdenmark Gbdenmark 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 2, 2012

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    Emmy And Me

    so i dated this girl i have a GIGANTIC crush on for a month then she said she wasnt ready for a relationship at the time...but then she started talking to me less and hanging out with me less and i dont know how else to tell her how i feel if she doesnt talk to mei know she loves...
    splinterx splinterx 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    I Am So Confused I Know What To Do

    I think I am going crazyyy.........................Life in usa is not easy at all
    anjuairi anjuairi 22-25, M Feb 9, 2010

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    If Im honest I have no idea what my life wants

    from me. My dad abandoned me for being a lesbian, my mom is always disappointed in me for every reason she can think of, im going through court cases thanks to my dad being jealous of my mom having me so much and he now wants possession of me, and my gf left me recently because...
    IndiaSnowflake IndiaSnowflake 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    I broke up with my bf.

    slept with a guy that broke up with his gf. now he's back with his girl and I feel so alone.
    rike6 rike6 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Just the Confusion

    what can i say, if you picture the earth from 299 million miles away were as small as fleas. and here we are walking around thinking we have some purpose or something. i dont believe the big bang started everything cause what was before it. i believe creation is just one big...
    nihilistic22 nihilistic22 22-25 1 Response Apr 1, 2009

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    angie2000 angie2000 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    How can I help my friend brake up with her

    boyfriend ? His such a jerk to her ! He hits her,he uses her social media to check up on her,and be gets mad when she talks to any guy. When she told me he hit her she also told me they had broken up and then three weeks later I see a picture of him on her phone screen.i got so...
    lebarana lebarana 16-17, F Apr 17

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    Am I lucky to be born in raised in Hong Kong

    as a Canadian? Why do I hate it so much? Why cant I become a professional anthro artist? Why cant I have a life like all the other autistic kids in Canada? Why cant I be popular? Why cant I just stay in 1 country? Have I wasted my whole life in Hong Kong without good books, tv...
    Miserablechildhood Miserablechildhood 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    My life sucks a right now.

    ..I have no idea how to deal with these things I don't think that I can.
    juliahamilton24 juliahamilton24 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Help Me Someone Im So Confused

    Can anyone help me? I dont know what to do anymore and im only 18. I feel like im to young for this. I dont know what happen to me im just not happy anymore. Last year in 2009, it was probly the worst year of my life emotionaly. And now all i do is look back and think what went...
    Christiann Christiann 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 28, 2010

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    So my parents made me move to this place

    and after years of living here and learning new things and living like this people my parents are mad cause they say I'm not the same person I used to be seriously how can they ever be ******* happy who ******* understands them first they made me move cause they didn't want me...
    Hazel216 Hazel216 16-17, F May 11

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    I cheated on my husband.

    I am pregnant, but doubt is completely his. I just couldn't keep lying to him, so I came clean tonight. I told him about the other man, and how the baby might not be his. I told him I never intended any of this to happen, but he was just to obsess with his job I felt left out. I...
    justagreeing justagreeing 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    ahaydonh ahaydonh 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 18

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    I need to talk to someone.

    ... Urgently, it could possibly save someone's life. (Message me)
    Shadow167 Shadow167 18-21, M Mar 24

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    I think I'm in live with a guy I have known 7

    years I think he used me for sex... I miss him.. What should I do
    wollyandlash wollyandlash 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    Some people are just strange

    that this universal common sense does not work. And I get mad so much I break things crying hating myself. Help me.
    angie2000 angie2000 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    What Are We All Here For Anyways?

    to love ,fear,experience emotions? i dont believe that after living a lifetime, my life will flicker out like a candle flame. after all whats the point in learning life lessons if you cant use them right? i remember once, when i was 5, i remember thinking "this is it? this is...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Dec 28, 2010

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    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Need Help :(

    I honestly hate life right now. I have no one. I feel like I'm all alone in this world. I have a 5 year old son that I don't even know if I want. Ok here's the story...I'm now 22 years old living with my mom with a 5 year old kid. I'm living in my moms garage sleeping on a...
    confusedanddepressed confusedanddepressed 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    I cheated on my husband,

    and I am currently pregnant, but I don't know if the baby is his or the other man's. The other man is a former friend of high school, who happens to have a son that goes to school with mine. My son was invited today to go play at his house with his son. When I dropped him off...
    justagreeing justagreeing 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    What Am I To Do ?

    i feel hopeless at times alone depressed and im hurting i cry all the time and when people ask me why im cryiing i dont know why im crying im sad im scared  i dont want to be here right now i hate my life what am i to do 
    msdlspencer msdlspencer 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2010

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    Help Me Any One?

    i am just 15.. but i have gone through too much in my life lately... i am fat n ugly.. i make friends but i dont know after a while they all hurt me and leave me alone.. i am too much of sexually attracted to opposite sex.. its like hard to control... i wonna lose weight but then...
    devanshisukhija devanshisukhija 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    It's just hormones...

    right? That's what i'm always telling myself but im bloody 18 years old and i'm losing my mind. It's the old cliche that no one undestands me and heck to be honest I dont even understand myself. I feel extremely Isolated, an outcast in society might as well just call me a UFO...
    Yomarion Yomarion 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Mind is pulling me Heart says no Drama feeds

    here So many choices Time moving too Quickly My body begging My mind is disappointed Waiting for answers
    Froggy420 Froggy420 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    school. home. escape.

    freedom. love. myself. all my problems. I don't know where to begin. I'm failing in school because of my adhd my mom refuses to medicate me for and if i fail school now i can't graduate on time next year and i get fired from my job. at home I'm trying to fit in where i just don...
    spazzyc spazzyc 18-21, F 1 Response May 18

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    My life is one big jumble of problems.

    I'm an 18 year old girl, in my second year of med-school. I have been mentally tortured during my childhood. I was kidnapped by my own dad, he didn't allow me to go to school for 2 years. My mom homeschooled me during that time. During my senior year, he made me stay at a place...
    CoffeeCookie CoffeeCookie 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    Confused and Afraid of the Future

    I am going to turn 30 soon.  I feel like I am having some kind of crisis about it.  I don't know why I am here or what I want to do with my life.  I don't even know what makes me happy anymore.  I am confused about my relationship. I am seeing a man who I...
    foxxy0404 foxxy0404 26-30 3 Responses Mar 11, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    i have Heard my perents having sex and i thing that have done something with my sex life i am very confused even iam 35 and merried
    ag1111132 ag1111132 31-35, M Aug 3

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    Ah, the age old question...at least in my case. My whole life I have struggled with this. I've been confused about my gender since I was little girl. Back then, I wanted to be...
    conflictedismymiddlename conflictedismymiddlename 16-17 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I used to be super confused about my sexual orientation. As a teen I feared I might be a lesbian. As a stronger supporter of the LGBT community I couldn't figure out why this...
    megmeg526 megmeg526 22-25, F Aug 15

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    well in the city i was born in and i live in and grew up in has many memories and there have been people i have hurt there... i still live there yes but i applied for a college...
    heeeeey heeeeey 16-17, F Aug 8

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    When life acts like a timeline of the biggest events of your life, when you feel like you're at a crossroads in life, when the clock ticks away the last precious minutes before an...
    TheNextSin TheNextSin 22-25, F Jul 30

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    Hello, I just want to have a piece of advise 'cause I'm really confused about my problem now. I'm a girl and I'm straight, I love boys, men but I've never had a boyfriend. I have a...
    ishi0000 ishi0000 18-21, F Jul 27

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    I am really confused about my studies, should I carry on , I dont know, I will have next semester soon but the thing is the fees, I dont know , It just too much and still two...
    rockfordseagull rockfordseagull 22-25, M Aug 4

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    I'm so confused about my relationship ,or shall I say my past relationship..we have had our share of ups n downs ...like all couples..however here's where I'm lost at I have tried...
    crissyred33 crissyred33 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    I am confused about where I am right now in my relationship , I know i gave it my all, but things have taken a sour turn and I know he loves me and I do love him, very much, the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Maybe he's a beard... Maybe he's not. That's not what I'm confused about though. I love spending time with him, being close, sharing the closeness between us, kissing him, touching...
    cantlovealone cantlovealone 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Not True. I was never Confused about my any Relationship. My Heart is Clean as Crystal. I could see through the other persons. My Soul as Pure as it could be as a humble Allah's...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I was watching My Blueberry Nights and it made me think a lot, especially about a topic that seems to recur here on EP, namely breakups, broken hearts, lost loves, and starting...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm afraid to write about my current life experiences because of how strange they have become. I'm afraid that no one will believe me and that no one will listen.
    Universal3xpression Universal3xpression 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    Every now are then we have a wake up call. We realise life isn't as bad as we think it is! We realise how lucky we are in fact! Working in the hospital I meet people who need me to...
    cjay89 cjay89 22-25, F 1 Response