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I Am So Confused

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    What?!? I didn't even mean it like that.

    -.- are you ******* kidding me?
    TheSoulessWorld TheSoulessWorld 16-17, F Nov 4

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    TheSoulessWorld TheSoulessWorld 16-17, F Nov 4

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    Why does my ex randomly feel the need to

    message me out of the blue ? I just don't get it. Do you randomly message your ex? I don't...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    Kitry Kitry 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    Livelovelaugh92 Livelovelaugh92 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    Omg! Confused.com Lol

    Well here's the thing.. I'm in a relationship with a girl. And damn I love her so freaking much!. I do. But I've been thinking to myself? What sexuality am I?? All my life I have been with guys and they have all treated me like crap to be fair. With my girlfriend its like I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    I'm really confused about my feelings right now.

    I've been having a great time in life and even had a super fun day yesterday, but realized I felt sad and kind of depressed. I felt so down that I ended up scratching myself a few times pretty badly. Which is not good. And I have no idea why I felt the need to hurt myself like...
    waterwolflover waterwolflover 13-15, F 2 Responses May 26

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    Idunno how I feel about people I used to want

    to be around people more and I used to feed off the buzzing energy of a random stupid conversation with friends and now I'm not feeling it anymore how ducked does that really sound what is wrong with me?
    squiggled squiggled 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 18

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    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    "you're dead." "wat?

    y? "grounded!" "LOL" "I am not kidding." "K. *wink*" "[], this is not a joke." "DAD, ILY2" "I don't understand half of what you are saying. I will call you in 10." "You old fart BAHAHAHAH" He calls. "you are so grounded, you don't even know!" "dad, I'm twenty one years old...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    if you had feelings for your bestfriend

    and they were in a relationship with someone else, would you still kiss them and pressure them to end their relationship and pick you, even when there was nothing wrong with their relationship
    jmsinnyc jmsinnyc 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 27

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    Abigail498 Abigail498 22-25, F 15 Responses Mar 21

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    why does my ex have to come back

    after he has already got a gf and mess up my life and relationship with a sweet guy and him being a dumb *** player
    jessica12345616 jessica12345616 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Sure, I know he doesn't have any romantic

    feelings for me and he s made it quite clear to me. He has clearly rejected me but even though he is treating me rudely and shrugging me off completely, I can't let go that feeling that he doesn't feel anything like that for me. I am really confused as to why he would get...
    Bella2911 Bella2911 18-21, F Oct 9

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    I Can Stand Up Again

    Β Β Β  I married over twenty years.Β  Recently found out that my husband has an affair oversea with his business partner.Β  I finally have a chance to talk with the woman who is wiling to share my husband with me when he is over there.Β  She said she would n't mind at all to be...
    sufferme sufferme 46-50 6 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    I think pushing people away is the best thing

    to do, that way I won't get hurt.
    ggboo ggboo 16-17, F 3 Responses May 3

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    So confused about what to do,

    should I go left, right, up, or down? Do I take the high road or the low road? Go with the flow or against? It's never ending and I don't know what I'm doing.
    Doof00 Doof00 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    Feel so ******' weak today.

    Days like this i wish i was dead..
    xoxotoinfinity xoxotoinfinity 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response May 3

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    Who Are You???

    Ive been cleaning out my circle for three days. I dont like going over 50 friends. It gets too hard to keep up with everyone. Im not a friend collector. I like to truly keep up with people. It keeps saying I have 51 friends!!!!! But when I go to my circle it says 50!!!!WHO ARE...
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 13 Responses Dec 19, 2012

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    My husbands dad got a job promotion

    and now they are moving to Indianapolis. When I told them I was going to stay his mom kicked me out. I'm also 16 weeks pregnant. Now she is trying to make him divorce me for wanting to stay here where I can have my families support. She talks all this **** about me and I just...
    dearnoone96 dearnoone96 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    Why can't people just tell the truth?

    Life is hard enough without mind games. Why do you think divorce is so high, because someone always has to play games and then mad if the other person fails. idk what to do
    shadowpaw88 shadowpaw88 26-30, M Nov 5

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    :(

    Everything was fine as 2013 approached and then it seems like as soon as the year changed and the snow came things became harder and less sensible. My car broke down Jan 2nd. I had it all figured out, my tax return I was going to use to move my family out of my father in laws...
    missmeganxoxo missmeganxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    I don't know what just happened.

    .. I tried helping and I guess that didn't work... :( What did I say wrong T_T
    imgivingupnow imgivingupnow 18-21, F Nov 3

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    so many different conflicting emotions fighting

    for a place in side of me right now. When i'm feeling either happy or sad at least i can work on embracing or dealing with the relevant feeling... but this? This is just plain confusing.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 28

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    They say that what you don't know won't hurt

    you. I guess it's true but once it comes to your knowledge,it'll hurt so much you'd feel numb at first. I know because I'm just in this current pit. In this hole I dug for myself. We met 3 years ago (by some really mean prank pulled by my classmates),in those 3 years he tried...
    dauntlessK dauntlessK 22-25, F Oct 22

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    I am really confused right now.

    ..my thoughts are blurred and my head hurts.I don't know what is right and what is wrong..I don't know if I should go with the wind or have self discipline..I can not trust myself and I don't know which direction to choose.. I am so confused that I can't even express it clearly...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F Jul 6

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    My dad has always been a good father

    until recently. He whipped me harshly and raped me when he was drunk even if I did not do anything wrong. I am confused about whether to actually report him to the police. Besides, every time dad hurts me, mom just stands by and watches, without any intention to stop him and...
    ElsaBlack ElsaBlack 13-15, F 6 Responses Oct 5

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    rubyy25 rubyy25 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    I have to break it off with this guy

    because I have this feeling in the pit of my stomach that he just isn't that into me. Like we don't really have conversations that are all that good. I also feel like he doesn't really want to know anything about me or want to get to know me. I ask him things to get to know him...
    Sumtimey Sumtimey 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 19

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    now i just wanna say

    that plzz come back tomorrow :(
    trulyher trulyher 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 29

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    Rollercoaster

    My  life   has  been   a   rollercoaster   sometimes    I   feel   life   is  getting  better    and  I'm  okay   then  it  lunges...
    rockybear397 rockybear397 47, F 6 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F Jun 27

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    There's this guy that has stared at me

    and I knew he probably liked me so I went to him and had a small conversation. It didn't go well, like I didn't get good vibes so I thought I was wrong about him liking me, but then he still continued to stare. Ugh idk if he likes me or not or if he's shy to talk to me πŸ˜’
    erika514 erika514 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    This boy likes me and I like him.

    He's friends with my friend and she introduced me to him. We talked for a few weeks and one day he asked me out, I said yes. The next day he didn't talk to me. Then when we saw each other he ignored my presents like I wasn't even there I saw him hug another girl and I was heated...
    confusedoneoh confusedoneoh 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    why cant i be pretty?

    not even close to okay, i really hate myself i wish i could undo all my mistakes and not have so many flaws but oh well i guess thats just how life is soecially when everyones agaisnt u but u still feel enptyinside like u need a hug and a brake from all the crying no ones...
    xxSuicidalPrincessxx xxSuicidalPrincessxx 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    I'm not really sure how to start.

    So about 6 months ago I met a guy and we hit it off really well. We would talk every day (we sat right next to each other in class and had 3 classes together). After a few weeks he started walking me to class and then asked for my phone number. Then he texted me every single day...
    waterwolflover waterwolflover 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    Idk, I'm only 15 so I shouldn't really be

    worrying about this but...... My family is Korean. My mom came to Canada when she was young (to study). I was born in Canada though...The problem is I don't really feel "Korean". I know nothing about my own culture, and I can't speak my own language (except maybe a few words...
    karenoohhh karenoohhh 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I don't understand how someone

    who gave birth to you can hate you so much... πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜’
    GirlWhoCuts GirlWhoCuts 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    My crush keeps trying to hold my hand

    and he stares at me a lot so take that as a good thing, but then he flirts with his ex right in front of me like DIRECTLY IN FRONT OF ME. then his ex tells me they kissed the other day while I was sleeping in class. Should I just back off him or?
    YoursTruly214 YoursTruly214 13-15 Oct 16

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    hey! actually i am not use to all this stuff

    but i hope u people will understand my story. so it started this way. i had this friend for two years.she was bossy and her attitude was more than her height. yet we were good friends however we had a fight and the friendship ended. according to her i was a bad influence on...
    udaan21 udaan21 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    so im talking to this girl over the past few

    days, i just asked her what she likes to do with a guy shes in a relationship with, and she just blows up at me, why?
    GoldGuard GoldGuard 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 18

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    ohh maaan i'm board out of my mind

    and i don't know what to do, i want someone to talk to....... but i got no one i'm hardly tired even though i took my pills sometimes i just wish i wasn't alive and at the moment that "sometimes" is now
    catsrule5678 catsrule5678 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    Now after my last post husband has ignored me

    but within about 15 mins someone rang my door bell and just to prove my theory my husband started talking to me about the doorbell ringing without hesitation and with enthusiasm...
    honeysweetness10 honeysweetness10 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    There's a lot that's been going on in my life

    that I simply just don't understand. I hope someday the pieces will fit together so I can feel whole again.
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Oscar wilde knew society was fubar.

    And he died in 1900. So why has nothing changed. Lies for profit grew when industry did. Now my mentor says lie to survive. Me says me cant. Him says thats crazy talk. Me says why. Him says everybody lies. Me says me dont. Him says why you blame me...
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    how can someone start saying they love their

    new boyfriend a couple of weeks after they ended their previous relationship when they know they still have feelings for their ex after more than a year of loving them, and yet they still go along with the new relationship anyway?
    jmsinnyc jmsinnyc 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    He asked for my number last week

    but hasn't texted me yet mmmm okayy?
    FlyMeToTheMoon708 FlyMeToTheMoon708 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 2

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    Most of the Time

    I have so many thoughts running through my head at one time it is easy for me to get confused.  If I am under a lot of stress and someone just starts throwing questions at me I get really confused and can't answer simple questions.  It gets so aggravating sometimes...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2008

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    Im So Confused In My Mine I Dont Know Who I Am , Male Or Famale

    my body parts say im male , but my thinking says im famale my pic
    Rachelsamantha Rachelsamantha 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    For the last 14 years I've been a great

    employee at a solid organization but I've reached a point where I think I need to get out. I have fantasies of quitting and feeling amazing, but as a single income I need to have a good income and frankly, walking away from this job doesn't seem to make sense on the surface...
    wayjay55 wayjay55 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    There's this guy at my school

    and i like him. We don't talk to each other...at all. I don't like him just because of his looks (he is cute tho), but i like his funny personality and he's cool. In school I'm the nerdy average chick. All my friends say i have really pretty eyes and a really pretty smile. I'm...
    Tina5335 Tina5335 13-15, F 1 Response