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I Am So Confused

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    ok met someone here. we talked a lot usually

    with no effort. yet somehow something changed. don't know what that is yet as I haven't talked to him in almost 24 hours. kinda scared to find out. he is such an amazing guy not sure if I happened to say the wrong thing to make him not want to talk. he works 6 out of 7 days...
    aloneagainnaturally2014 aloneagainnaturally2014 46-50, F Aug 16

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    Abigail498 Abigail498 22-25, F 17 Responses Mar 21

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    I don't like boys now.

    I don't like girls now in 'that' way. I like to text chat with boys,but I (haven't and) can't imagine talking with boys over phone. I am so shy that I can't utter even a word in front of a boy as casual talk. But I'm comfortable with business talk.why??I don't want to marry...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I have had a very close friend

    for 10 years now. We have always supported each other in what ever this crazy life has thrown at us. I am currently supporting him during his divorce with his wife. I am married myself. He texts me almost everyday to either talk about how he is feeling that day or we will just...
    kalelizabeth kalelizabeth 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    I Can Stand Up Again

        I married over twenty years.  Recently found out that my husband has an affair oversea with his business partner.  I finally have a chance to talk with the woman who is wiling to share my husband with me when he is over there.  She said she would n't mind at all to be...
    sufferme sufferme 46-50 6 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Why Is She Doing This To Me?

    I know for the fact that we can never be together due to DISTANCE. She knows that I have feelings for her. I don't know if she feels the same way. But what confuses me to death is, just when I try to detach myself from her (like, not talking to her through Instant...
    darkmood darkmood 16-18, F 6 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Why is that other people's opinion matters

    than most of us... Like when someone says "he's a bad person" then everyone will start believing it without knowing if it is true or not.
    mouthclosed mouthclosed 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Myself

    I try to please others so much and fit in with how they are...that it confuses me, as to who i really am.Like I know it seems silly or cliche. I try to be all sexy for those who want me sexy. I try to be strong for those who want me strong. I'm girly with my girl friends when we...
    lakeserpent lakeserpent 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    I Don't Understand

    I've been friends with this guy for a while & have had a bit of a crush on him all along. We live n a small town where we have the same circle of friends & go to all the same events. Every time I see him he allways comes over to give me a hug which I love & I think is awesome. So...
    fractalpterodactyl fractalpterodactyl 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 15, 2012

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    I'm not really sure how to start.

    So about 6 months ago I met a guy and we hit it off really well. We would talk every day (we sat right next to each other in class and had 3 classes together). After a few weeks he started walking me to class and then asked for my phone number. Then he texted me every single day...
    waterwolflover waterwolflover 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    We had so much fun together,

    he said he was coming back in two months after boot camp. We laughed, and cuddled. He held me while we slept. It feels like a dream, it feels like this tornado flew into my life and left as quickly as it came. I haven't heard from him in over 24 hours now, and what I did hear...
    SilverCold SilverCold 22-25, F Aug 1

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    Livelovelaugh92 Livelovelaugh92 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    Omg! Confused.com Lol

    Well here's the thing.. I'm in a relationship with a girl. And damn I love her so freaking much!. I do. But I've been thinking to myself? What sexuality am I?? All my life I have been with guys and they have all treated me like crap to be fair. With my girlfriend its like I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    Your words hurt me, but it's like you don't

    even notice. And I'm falling cause the pain is unbearable. I don't know how much longer i can hold onto this crumbling ledge that you call love.
    isacake isacake 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    why cant i be pretty?

    not even close to okay, i really hate myself i wish i could undo all my mistakes and not have so many flaws but oh well i guess thats just how life is soecially when everyones agaisnt u but u still feel enptyinside like u need a hug and a brake from all the crying no ones...
    xxSuicidalPrincessxx xxSuicidalPrincessxx 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    Im So Confused In My Mine I Dont Know Who I Am , Male Or Famale

    my body parts say im male , but my thinking says im famale my pic
    Rachelsamantha Rachelsamantha 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    There's this guy that has stared at me

    and I knew he probably liked me so I went to him and had a small conversation. It didn't go well, like I didn't get good vibes so I thought I was wrong about him liking me, but then he still continued to stare. Ugh idk if he likes me or not or if he's shy to talk to me 😒
    erika514 erika514 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    So, my head at my job,

    Sam. She's 23, I'm 21. I didn't really ever have a thing for her and I'm kind of slowly starting to now because I've been working a lot when she is so we talk more. She's really pretty, she's got adorable freckles on her face and a beautiful smile. She also has a good body...
    Taylor1993 Taylor1993 18-21, M Aug 20

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    Currently I am unemployed.

    I want to start up a new business but my mom doesnt allow me to. Should I take master degree instead?
    iambacknow iambacknow 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    littlegirl03 littlegirl03 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    There is this guy who i strongly like

    but everyone tells me is a man-*****. But i think he does actually have feelings for me but he doesnt want to give up being able to pick up all the other girls. It gets worse, there is another girl like me that he actually cares about and im pretty sure he is confused about what...
    croda croda 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Why do my emotions feel the need to taunt me.

    They are always getting in the middle of things. First they tell me, you like this girl, date her. Next thing I know, I'm finding out that Jenna likes me back. It made me flip out a bit. Until I plummeted down back to reality and thought. "Do I want to date her?, Do I like her...
    NiennaG125 NiennaG125 13-15, F a week ago

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    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response May 3

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    Im with my fiancé for about 5 years

    but im confuse shes a awesome partner but i like to cheat i like to flirt with girls a lot i don't know what to do please i need your advice please thanks
    cesarin1082 cesarin1082 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    HELP!!!

    I've been with my boyfriend for three years. I really do love him and care about him, but I don't appreciate him always yelling at me for stuff I don't do "right" in his eyes. He's threatened to leave me if I ever decide to drink alcohol, ever, legal or not. Which I don't agree...
    SarabearPark SarabearPark 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    so many different conflicting emotions fighting

    for a place in side of me right now. When i'm feeling either happy or sad at least i can work on embracing or dealing with the relevant feeling... but this? This is just plain confusing.
    uknaz uknaz 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    deadrosez deadrosez 16-17, F Aug 17

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    There's a lot that's been going on in my life

    that I simply just don't understand. I hope someday the pieces will fit together so I can feel whole again.
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I became friends with two amazing people

    through a mutual friend. They were a lesbian couple and I spent a lot of time with them. One night me and one of them got drunk and had sex. Ever since that night we have been having a fling behind everyone's backs. I have been wanting to end it for awhile because I know it's...
    Fickleheart Fickleheart 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I am happy for now...

    But I feel like its all gonna come crashing down.... What should I do?
    werebentnotbroken werebentnotbroken 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm really confused about my feelings right now.

    I've been having a great time in life and even had a super fun day yesterday, but realized I felt sad and kind of depressed. I felt so down that I ended up scratching myself a few times pretty badly. Which is not good. And I have no idea why I felt the need to hurt myself like...
    waterwolflover waterwolflover 13-15, F 2 Responses May 26

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    Whats up with all these random women commenting

    stupid **** that are pointless? .-. And then blocks me, cowards.
    InnerEgo InnerEgo 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    coffeelover123 coffeelover123 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    The Chronic Sting Of Betrayal

    I'm not the kind of girl who has boyfriends. I'm very . . . unique. So when I had a boyfriend it was the best thing that ever happened to me. My dream came true. I stayed with him through my first year of college and it was bad because he was the only thing I had. A little over...
    TeaAndCrumpets TeaAndCrumpets 18-21 Nov 29, 2012

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    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I am really confused right now.

    ..my thoughts are blurred and my head hurts.I don't know what is right and what is wrong..I don't know if I should go with the wind or have self discipline..I can not trust myself and I don't know which direction to choose.. I am so confused that I can't even express it clearly...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F Jul 6

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    I want to study biotechnology -I found this out

    today while browsing the web about zoology,my dream subject-and I want to do a major in it through distance education.All my favorite courses is included in boitech! I currently live in India. After 1.5 years, I'll shift back to Canada. It's time to apply for Dist. programs here...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F Aug 8

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    my BFF naomi watches youtube

    when we are allowed on the computers and i ask to watch something differant and not the super seven girls on youtube but she says just wait a sec then about 10 muinetes later shes on a differant video HOW CAN I SAY SOMETHING NICE TO TELL HER TO NOT WATCH THE SUPER SEVEN GIRLS...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 31

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    I Am So Confused, To The Point That I'm. . . Speechless

    It is so confusing. . . i don't know what to think or what to do.To make a long story short . . . my friend with benefits, which he has told me many times that we will never go out, acted in ways that makes me so confused.1.) At one point i went to his house to do some homework...
    simplyawesome3 simplyawesome3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2011

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    Rollercoaster

    My  life   has  been   a   rollercoaster   sometimes    I   feel   life   is  getting  better    and  I'm  okay   then  it  lunges...
    rockybear397 rockybear397 47, F 6 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    how can someone just completely change their

    mind about a person that meant alot to them just because of a random thing a random so called friend did to them? does that make sense to anyone?
    jmsinnyc jmsinnyc 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    Ok, so a while back I met my first bf on EP,

    and we like fell in love, then he said I was over obsessive and dumped me, then I met someone else, and me and him got in a fight about weed, and how I don't like it, then we broke up, then the last one I thought was fake, but he wasn't, and now I feel horrible, now he thinks...
    KoolKandon KoolKandon 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    Ok so this boy i know,

    i use to call him my twin but now he my ex-twin. He doesnt go with his gf anymore (but he aspect me to break up with my boyfriend to go with him because he want me i am not sure what should i do or say to him or my boyfriend
    marie123469 marie123469 16-17, F a week ago

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    I think pushing people away is the best thing

    to do, that way I won't get hurt.
    ggboo ggboo 13-15, F 3 Responses May 3

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    Some girl said to me "from the darkest fears

    come the deepest loves" wtf does that even mean? if anyone could help me out that would be great.
    FrostyMethod FrostyMethod 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    Idk, I'm only 15 so I shouldn't really be

    worrying about this but...... My family is Korean. My mom came to Canada when she was young (to study). I was born in Canada though...The problem is I don't really feel "Korean". I know nothing about my own culture, and I can't speak my own language (except maybe a few words...
    karenoohhh karenoohhh 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    You tell me im wrong :( You tell me im

    different :( You disproove everything I say Making me feel so stupid But... I am right, Im no different Like i said Im just a ******* sheep
    SingItForTheKids SingItForTheKids 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Most of the Time

    I have so many thoughts running through my head at one time it is easy for me to get confused.  If I am under a lot of stress and someone just starts throwing questions at me I get really confused and can't answer simple questions.  It gets so aggravating sometimes...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2008

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    hey! actually i am not use to all this stuff

    but i hope u people will understand my story. so it started this way. i had this friend for two years.she was bossy and her attitude was more than her height. yet we were good friends however we had a fight and the friendship ended. according to her i was a bad influence on...
    udaan21 udaan21 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Who Are You???

    Ive been cleaning out my circle for three days. I dont like going over 50 friends. It gets too hard to keep up with everyone. Im not a friend collector. I like to truly keep up with people. It keeps saying I have 51 friends!!!!! But when I go to my circle it says 50!!!!WHO ARE...
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 12 Responses Dec 19, 2012

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    About Life

    My friends are sometimes my friends, the guy I like sometimes seems to like me back, my teachers are never clear on assignments, my family sems to love me and then act like I'm the black sheep the next, and I just want to know more answers and less questions.
    elliebear22 elliebear22 16-17, F Oct 4, 2010

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    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M Jul 24

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    I am a married woman

    for 4 years, but in that circle its very complicated. i came from Philippines. i feel so horrible having the kind of marriage. like were on and off, to think that we have a child.. after being separated with him over a year we once decided to get back together. and for now we...
    yien yien 22-25, F 1 Response