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I Am So Confused

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    I am not sure what to do.

    I was in a relationship with the love of my life for 6 yrs. The last 2 yrs of the relationship was nothing but arguing. We both said and did hurtful things never physical but emotional and mental. When we broke up I didn't tell my family because I know that they truly dislike...
    chrys1783 chrys1783 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    So, my head at my job,

    Sam. She's 23, I'm 21. I didn't really ever have a thing for her and I'm kind of slowly starting to now because I've been working a lot when she is so we talk more. She's really pretty, she's got adorable freckles on her face and a beautiful smile. She also has a good body...
    Taylor1993 Taylor1993 18-21, M Aug 20

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    Idk, I'm only 15 so I shouldn't really be

    worrying about this but...... My family is Korean. My mom came to Canada when she was young (to study). I was born in Canada though...The problem is I don't really feel "Korean". I know nothing about my own culture, and I can't speak my own language (except maybe a few words...
    karenoohhh karenoohhh 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    :(

    Everything was fine as 2013 approached and then it seems like as soon as the year changed and the snow came things became harder and less sensible. My car broke down Jan 2nd. I had it all figured out, my tax return I was going to use to move my family out of my father in laws...
    missmeganxoxo missmeganxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Myself

    I try to please others so much and fit in with how they are...that it confuses me, as to who i really am.Like I know it seems silly or cliche. I try to be all sexy for those who want me sexy. I try to be strong for those who want me strong. I'm girly with my girl friends when we...
    lakeserpent lakeserpent 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    There's a lot that's been going on in my life

    that I simply just don't understand. I hope someday the pieces will fit together so I can feel whole again.
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    This Battle........

    Between me, myself & I. Me=My brain, Myself=My heart, & I=My soul. None of them want the same things. It's annoying as HELL! Sheesh.... How am I suppose to fight my demons, get over my fears, & live...if they won't give it a DAMN REST & work together...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 23, 2009

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    The Hardest Decision to Ever Have to Make...

    When I was 16 I was introduced to a man. Charming, caring, a  man with a definite way with words. I was scared, shy, timid to the max. Although I found him greatly intriguing, those around me did not. My parents shunned him, my friends called him a freak. I myself had my own...
    bloodrayne bloodrayne 21-25, F 7 Responses Jul 25, 2007

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    I Don't Understand

    I've been friends with this guy for a while & have had a bit of a crush on him all along. We live n a small town where we have the same circle of friends & go to all the same events. Every time I see him he allways comes over to give me a hug which I love & I think is awesome. So...
    fractalpterodactyl fractalpterodactyl 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 15, 2012

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    Why is life so hard and hurtful I'm full of

    questions and can't find an answer...but god had a plan so hold on because I am
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    ok met someone here. we talked a lot usually

    with no effort. yet somehow something changed. don't know what that is yet as I haven't talked to him in almost 24 hours. kinda scared to find out. he is such an amazing guy not sure if I happened to say the wrong thing to make him not want to talk. he works 6 out of 7 days...
    aloneagainnaturally2014 aloneagainnaturally2014 46-50, F Aug 16

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    There's this guy that has stared at me

    and I knew he probably liked me so I went to him and had a small conversation. It didn't go well, like I didn't get good vibes so I thought I was wrong about him liking me, but then he still continued to stare. Ugh idk if he likes me or not or if he's shy to talk to me 😒
    erika514 erika514 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    At some point tonight memories from my past

    started emerging. I started listening to music on my phone to try to alter the feelings and emotions rising up inside of me. I'm so confused, I feel fine, but at the same time I'm holding back tears and avoiding my coworkers because I'm afraid that if I speak out loud, about...
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M Sep 1

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    I Can Stand Up Again

        I married over twenty years.  Recently found out that my husband has an affair oversea with his business partner.  I finally have a chance to talk with the woman who is wiling to share my husband with me when he is over there.  She said she would n't mind at all to be...
    sufferme sufferme 46-50 6 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    I am happy for now...

    But I feel like its all gonna come crashing down.... What should I do?
    werebentnotbroken werebentnotbroken 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    i'm really confused right

    now bout mysely, am i bi?? (sigh)
    emily036 emily036 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Why Is She Doing This To Me?

    I know for the fact that we can never be together due to DISTANCE. She knows that I have feelings for her. I don't know if she feels the same way. But what confuses me to death is, just when I try to detach myself from her (like, not talking to her through Instant...
    darkmood darkmood 16-18, F 6 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    The Chronic Sting Of Betrayal

    I'm not the kind of girl who has boyfriends. I'm very . . . unique. So when I had a boyfriend it was the best thing that ever happened to me. My dream came true. I stayed with him through my first year of college and it was bad because he was the only thing I had. A little over...
    TeaAndCrumpets TeaAndCrumpets 18-21 Nov 29, 2012

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    Abigail498 Abigail498 22-25, F 17 Responses Mar 21

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    cwebb1221 cwebb1221 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Why do my emotions feel the need to taunt me.

    They are always getting in the middle of things. First they tell me, you like this girl, date her. Next thing I know, I'm finding out that Jenna likes me back. It made me flip out a bit. Until I plummeted down back to reality and thought. "Do I want to date her?, Do I like her...
    NiennaG125 NiennaG125 13-15, F Aug 21

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    Ok so this boy i know,

    i use to call him my twin but now he my ex-twin. He doesnt go with his gf anymore (but he aspect me to break up with my boyfriend to go with him because he want me i am not sure what should i do or say to him or my boyfriend
    marie123469 marie123469 16-17, F Aug 21

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    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response May 3

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    deadrosez deadrosez 16-17, F Aug 17

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    Why is that other people's opinion matters

    than most of us... Like when someone says "he's a bad person" then everyone will start believing it without knowing if it is true or not.
    mouthclosed mouthclosed 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    Currently I am unemployed.

    I want to start up a new business but my mom doesnt allow me to. Should I take master degree instead?
    iambacknow iambacknow 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    hey! actually i am not use to all this stuff

    but i hope u people will understand my story. so it started this way. i had this friend for two years.she was bossy and her attitude was more than her height. yet we were good friends however we had a fight and the friendship ended. according to her i was a bad influence on...
    udaan21 udaan21 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Im So Confused In My Mine I Dont Know Who I Am , Male Or Famale

    my body parts say im male , but my thinking says im famale my pic
    Rachelsamantha Rachelsamantha 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    how can someone just completely change their

    mind about a person that meant alot to them just because of a random thing a random so called friend did to them? does that make sense to anyone?
    jmsinnyc jmsinnyc 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    why cant i be pretty?

    not even close to okay, i really hate myself i wish i could undo all my mistakes and not have so many flaws but oh well i guess thats just how life is soecially when everyones agaisnt u but u still feel enptyinside like u need a hug and a brake from all the crying no ones...
    xxSuicidalPrincessxx xxSuicidalPrincessxx 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    Why does my ex randomly feel the need to

    message me out of the blue ? I just don't get it. Do you randomly message your ex? I don't...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    Rollercoaster

    My  life   has  been   a   rollercoaster   sometimes    I   feel   life   is  getting  better    and  I'm  okay   then  it  lunges...
    rockybear397 rockybear397 47, F 6 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    I'm not really sure how to start.

    So about 6 months ago I met a guy and we hit it off really well. We would talk every day (we sat right next to each other in class and had 3 classes together). After a few weeks he started walking me to class and then asked for my phone number. Then he texted me every single day...
    waterwolflover waterwolflover 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    littlegirl03 littlegirl03 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I just wanted to share an experience

    that I'm confuse about. I hope someone gives a time in reading it and give a little advice :) I'm in a relationship with my first boyfriend. I'm 21 and he's 23 He's the best! I can see he's a very loyal guy and would never cheat on me. Doesn't have bad habits like smoking or...
    thebeautifuldisaster13 thebeautifuldisaster13 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Im so confused about everything at the moment,

    I hate things being uncertain and lately Im considering giving up my violin lessons because despite the fact I do like it, I just have no motivation to practice, but I know if I do give it up that all the last four years of me doing it were a waste, all the money and the grades...
    Verix Verix 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Most of the Time

    I have so many thoughts running through my head at one time it is easy for me to get confused.  If I am under a lot of stress and someone just starts throwing questions at me I get really confused and can't answer simple questions.  It gets so aggravating sometimes...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2008

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    Im a 13 year old girl im bisexual

    but im not sure but i might be lesbian i look at band members and they're guys and they are ******* hot but then i see a really hot girl a movie and i like it a lot but then again im just not sure im so confused oh and im dating a girl if that helps please please reply
    piercetheveil22 piercetheveil22 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Do I actually have depression?

    Do people think I'm faking it ? I 'm really doubting myself now because of my counselor. Do I actually have social anxiety that I had no clue that I might have it? I'm so confused about my sexuality. Am I bisexual or is it just a phase I'm going through? I really don't know any...
    candyteen candyteen 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Your words hurt me, but it's like you don't

    even notice. And I'm falling cause the pain is unbearable. I don't know how much longer i can hold onto this crumbling ledge that you call love.
    isacake isacake 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Omg! Confused.com Lol

    Well here's the thing.. I'm in a relationship with a girl. And damn I love her so freaking much!. I do. But I've been thinking to myself? What sexuality am I?? All my life I have been with guys and they have all treated me like crap to be fair. With my girlfriend its like I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    So I just started school.

    . And there is this boy in my class who is really cute and we don't have assigned seats and he sits next to me.. But the thing is that I don't have very good people skills and I don't flirt very good.... Any advise??!! ):
    werebentnotbroken werebentnotbroken 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    We had so much fun together,

    he said he was coming back in two months after boot camp. We laughed, and cuddled. He held me while we slept. It feels like a dream, it feels like this tornado flew into my life and left as quickly as it came. I haven't heard from him in over 24 hours now, and what I did hear...
    SilverCold SilverCold 22-25, F Aug 1

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    I don't like boys now.

    I don't like girls now in 'that' way. I like to text chat with boys,but I (haven't and) can't imagine talking with boys over phone. I am so shy that I can't utter even a word in front of a boy as casual talk. But I'm comfortable with business talk.why??I don't want to marry...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    my BFF naomi watches youtube

    when we are allowed on the computers and i ask to watch something differant and not the super seven girls on youtube but she says just wait a sec then about 10 muinetes later shes on a differant video HOW CAN I SAY SOMETHING NICE TO TELL HER TO NOT WATCH THE SUPER SEVEN GIRLS...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 31

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    I want to study biotechnology -I found this out

    today while browsing the web about zoology,my dream subject-and I want to do a major in it through distance education.All my favorite courses is included in boitech! I currently live in India. After 1.5 years, I'll shift back to Canada. It's time to apply for Dist. programs here...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F Aug 8

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    Livelovelaugh92 Livelovelaugh92 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    Some girl said to me "from the darkest fears

    come the deepest loves" wtf does that even mean? if anyone could help me out that would be great.
    FrostyMethod FrostyMethod 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I Am So Confused, To The Point That I'm. . . Speechless

    It is so confusing. . . i don't know what to think or what to do.To make a long story short . . . my friend with benefits, which he has told me many times that we will never go out, acted in ways that makes me so confused.1.) At one point i went to his house to do some homework...
    simplyawesome3 simplyawesome3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2011

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    There are some days I know exactly how I feel,

    know what I think... Then there are days like today. Where I'm just confused.
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F a week ago

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    so many different conflicting emotions fighting

    for a place in side of me right now. When i'm feeling either happy or sad at least i can work on embracing or dealing with the relevant feeling... but this? This is just plain confusing.
    uknaz uknaz 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    I think pushing people away is the best thing

    to do, that way I won't get hurt.
    ggboo ggboo 13-15, F 3 Responses May 3

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    There's this guy at my school

    and i like him. We don't talk to each other...at all. I don't like him just because of his looks (he is cute tho), but i like his funny personality and he's cool. In school I'm the nerdy average chick. All my friends say i have really pretty eyes and a really pretty smile. I'm...
    Tina5335 Tina5335 13-15, F 1 Response