I Am So Confused

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,195 People

    dabram71 dabram71
    18-21, M
    Nov 8, 2015

    Hey there, I'm new here

    and this is my first post. Recently something new happened to me. My best friend and I were watching a movie when suddenly I turned my head and I caught her looking at me. We were close. We've always had a great chemistry but just as friends. That night it felt different. I...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 30, 2015

    I don't understand how someone

    who gave birth to you can hate you so much... 😁😁😔😔😢
    GirlWhoCuts GirlWhoCuts
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2014

    I just found the strangest iOS game of all time.

    Turns out this game has a 'secret' animation that rarely happens... but it's funny as sh*t.
    dabram71 dabram71
    18-21, M
    Oct 26, 2015

    Most of the Time

    I have so many thoughts running through my head at one time it is easy for me to get confused.  If I am under a lot of stress and someone just starts throwing questions at me I get really confused and can't answer simple questions.  It gets so aggravating sometimes...
    rondat rondat
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2008

    My husbands dad got a job promotion

    and now they are moving to Indianapolis. When I told them I was going to stay his mom kicked me out. I'm also 16 weeks pregnant. Now she is trying to make him divorce me for wanting to stay here where I can have my families support. She talks all this **** about me and I just...
    dearnoone96 dearnoone96
    18-21, F
    Nov 4, 2014

    I'm not really sure how to start.

    So about 6 months ago I met a guy and we hit it off really well. We would talk every day (we sat right next to each other in class and had 3 classes together). After a few weeks he started walking me to class and then asked for my phone number. Then he texted me every single day...
    waterwolflover waterwolflover
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 24, 2014

    There's this girl I started becoming good

    friends with a month ago, and we hit it off real quick and are best friends now. We have become best friends because we hang out everyday, do almost everything together, and stick together all the time. I bring this up because I wonder if she's crushing on me, and I have a good...
    NoEmotion NoEmotion
    18-21, F
    Nov 29, 2015

    I recently posted on Facebook I'd be saying

    "happy holidays" instead of "merry Christmas" this year out of respect for people who don't celebrate Christmas. My mom mumbled that I was ridiculous for it... I don't get it. She always taught me to be respectful, but now she's calling me ridiculous for doing just that. She...
    intimidatingpinkbutterfly intimidatingpinkbutterfly
    Nov 11, 2015

    My mom told me to clean my room

    because my relatives are coming. Are we going to party in MY room?
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2015
    stupid28 stupid28
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2016

    What?!? I didn't even mean it like that.

    -.- are you ******* kidding me?
    AGreenDayToRemember AGreenDayToRemember
    18-21, F
    Nov 4, 2014

    We only been dating 2 weeks you tell me you

    love me . All I said was 'I never had someone say it so soon, I hope you mean it'! I tell you good night and get no response. Than I see 2 hours after I said good night you changed your FB profile pic to a half naked selfie, removed any posts I posted on your page, anything I...
    Pinkshoxx23 Pinkshoxx23
    31-35, F
    Nov 25, 2015

    I don't see the colors on paper,

    but in my head the words are made with different colors. I see A as red, B as blue, C is yellow, D is green, E is a dark blue, and also F is purple. It goes farther but I don't know if what I have is actually synesthesia or not
    siena1295 siena1295
    13-15, F
    Mar 29, 2016


    My  life   has  been   a   rollercoaster   sometimes    I   feel   life   is  getting  better    and  I'm  okay   then  it  lunges...
    rockybear397 rockybear397
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Apr 25, 2008

    So, potential boyfriend hasn't spoken to me AT

    ALL recently. Since Sunday when he left I received a snapchat later that day asking if I'd managed to track my phone as I lost it that night, I replied but haven't heard anything since! He's not opened my snapchats and not been active on facebook either. I can't text him as I'm...
    EverlyLeex EverlyLeex
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2016

    There's this guy that has stared at me

    and I knew he probably liked me so I went to him and had a small conversation. It didn't go well, like I didn't get good vibes so I thought I was wrong about him liking me, but then he still continued to stare. Ugh idk if he likes me or not or if he's shy to talk to me 😒
    erika514 erika514
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    I am only attracted to complex people.

    I make friends and lovers out of the most damaged, tormented and aloof people, though this only leads to perpetual agony. I wish I were interested in more simple individuals. Ones who aren't emotionally damaged beyond repair or masochistic enough to sabotage their own happiness...
    oodleskaboodles oodleskaboodles
    18-21, F
    Jul 27, 2015

    I have this guy friend

    who really show those sweet gestures towards me. He walks with me till I got home, he waits for me to finish things, even though his tired and wants to go home when I say that I don't want to go home yet and I want to go somewhere else, he'll just nod and say yes to me. Because...
    HiyaPhil HiyaPhil
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    My boss texted me that he loved me with hugs

    and kisses and hearts, then he texted me about aggravating senior citizens who keep stealing things from the store... Im guessing i was the wrong person but i have no idea XD IT MADE ME FEEL SO MUCH BETTER THO
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 6, 2015

    Many people in America

    and the UK, places like those, think that girls having big chests is a good thing. But here in my place, I've be teased and laughed at for them. I can't even stand doing sports in public now. It is a pain and I would rather have them removed. So girls out there, sometimes having...
    colourflame colourflame
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 3, 2016

    Some people are actually ridiculous with the

    whole mixed signals thing. Like this guy tells me that he checked me out on my first day and he CONSTANTLY flirts with me, but then he asks for advice on how to ask another girl out. *******. And then today after I've asked if he's okay and he says he's good and asks (as you...
    inconspicuousuniverse inconspicuousuniverse
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2016

    I'm so confused about my life!

    I don't even no how to begin saying. I feel trapped and I'm not happy I'm not where I want to be its like there is something inside of me that's not ready for this path I'm heading down! Confusing....
    AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Oct 14, 2014

    I am so confused. Since coming on here it has

    opened my eyes to things I didnt even know about and its kind of making my head spin. I feel like iv been on an emotional roller coaster especially this last 24 hours and im not sure if its a good thing or a bad thing. I feel like iv made such a huge change and I cant get out of...
    LJglasgow LJglasgow
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 27, 2015

    My friend that was ignoring me,

    calls me and pretends nothing happened!
    RadiantRuby RadiantRuby
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    I was raised my entire life with these

    christian values. To put others before myself, to never judge, to help even of means sacrificing something you hold dear and you know what? I have upheld them to the best of my ability to even people that hurt me deeply. And why is it that when the moment where ones devotion to...
    hidden616 hidden616
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 30, 2016

    She said she loved me.

    We went on quite a few dates. She says I'm a great person. We hugged, and kissed, and the whole shabang. I ask her to be my girlfriend and even after all that she says no? There is a whole story behind it... Basically she has a friend that... Isn't quite there in the head. She...
    Joshx0xWar Joshx0xWar
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    I want what I can't have.

    I don't know why I let myself want it in the first place.
    bethany444 bethany444
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2015

    All of my life I have imagined myself

    as a writer. I went to college for it but ended up dropping out due to zero motivation to go to classes. I spent 100% of my time obsessing about boys and partying and gave zero thought to class or actually what I would do with my life once the party ended. I always imagined...
    alesek7 alesek7
    26-30, F
    Mar 13, 2016

    There's a lot that's been going on in my life

    that I simply just don't understand. I hope someday the pieces will fit together so I can feel whole again.
    Jess7787 Jess7787
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014

    One minute you're all caring,

    sweet, thoughtful like we're dating — then the next minute you're MIA or cold or even that romantic side of you never surfaced! When you send those kisses, are they meant to be friendly or more? When you send those hugs thingy do you just feel like it? Because you are...
    veexarvlo veexarvlo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2015
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    6 Responses Nov 8, 2015
    catherineeac catherineeac
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 22, 2014

    My life is out of order.

    It's upside down, in all truth. My life has taken a turn, a flip and a spin in a direction I didn't want to go in. I've been a mess (we won't get into too much detail there) I will just say I've never been such a mess in my life before now. I vent. I cry. I mean, wow, do I ever...
    LavenderDarling LavenderDarling
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 6, 2015

    How come when I saw you in person on Monday,

    it was not really a big deal? I had my wall up, & we were just buddies. Yes, I noticed how good-looking you are, but it was no big deal. But when I see a picture of you pop up on my Facebook feed, my heart suddenly leaps? What is this?
    SaundraMae SaundraMae
    31-35, F
    Oct 21, 2015

    yup so many things going on in my head,

    that's why I watch shows to keep me away from that
    bloodyzombie19 bloodyzombie19
    18-21, F
    Nov 29, 2015

    Omg! Confused.com Lol

    Well here's the thing.. I'm in a relationship with a girl. And damn I love her so freaking much!. I do. But I've been thinking to myself? What sexuality am I?? All my life I have been with guys and they have all treated me like crap to be fair. With my girlfriend its like I...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2013

    I asked my crush out

    and I'm so confused on what's going on
    TristanMcMichael TristanMcMichael
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 11, 2016

    So I met this guy on me too (not saying his

    name) and so I fell so much in love with him and we were together for a month and then he just disappeared.....like completely.....I started going out with guys to get over him but I couldn't get over him at all!!! And then a couple months later he texts me "Hi?" I texted him...
    Takenandinlove Takenandinlove
    13-15, F
    5 Responses Apr 10, 2016

    Why can't people just tell the truth?

    Life is hard enough without mind games. Why do you think divorce is so high, because someone always has to play games and then mad if the other person fails. idk what to do
    shadowpaw88 shadowpaw88
    26-30, M
    Nov 5, 2014

    This night is weakening my body

    and spirit. i have already lost contact with my animal spirit and am feeling weakened by it. i can barley lift my sword. ugh my head hurts i think i need to meditate on this now my chest hurts as i type this . think i'll leave to go get some medical help see you guys later
    SladeBolinLeaderofEp SladeBolinLeaderofEp
    18-21, M
    May 3, 2015


    Everything was fine as 2013 approached and then it seems like as soon as the year changed and the snow came things became harder and less sensible. My car broke down Jan 2nd. I had it all figured out, my tax return I was going to use to move my family out of my father in laws...
    missmeganxoxo missmeganxoxo
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2013
    xoValentina xoValentina
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Apr 4, 2015

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    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    emilyccaa emilyccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 8, 2015

    Have you ever got that antsy feeling like

    someone likes you, but you don't know them well enough and you already made a mistake by calling one of his friends that you liked him even though you really didn't but you were in a complicated position at home and you have to act happy all the time even though you're dying...
    Bfischer1416 Bfischer1416
    16-17, F
    Feb 9, 2016

    so im watching shane dawsons movie "not cool"

    and the character tori's voice reminds me of lucy from fairy tail, while they may not be exactly the same, they are very similar, does the person who plays tori in "not cool" play lucy in "fairy tail" or does she related to the person who played lucy?
    SterbenReyne SterbenReyne
    16-17, M
    Oct 29, 2015

    I need to be happy ..

    .but I don't want to make the worst decision ever
    Angel1Hinojosa Angel1Hinojosa
    16-17, M
    Jun 5, 2015

    So I haven't been on in a while

    because of the opportunity I got that required my undivided attention (so all my friends who messaged me, I'll be getting back to you today). Anyways... I was suppose to take the test tomorrow morning to get my personal training certification and when I tried to schedule the...
    wantingtobehappy84 wantingtobehappy84
    26-30, F
    Dec 25, 2015

    At this point I actually have respect

    for anyone who asks first before sending unwanted photos of their southern regions .-.
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jul 31, 2015

    In our group, she liked a boy I was close with.

    I helped her talk to him and then convince him to talk to her, I really did pushed them back together but it's just not working. I did all the things I can to help her with him, but he just doesn't like her the way she does. Now after all that happened, I am in shock to know...
    SaarahCarisse SaarahCarisse
    16-17, F
    Feb 5, 2016

    He said he loved me tonight ,

    and I kind of just stared at him him in shock.. we've only been going out for about 2 months.. I don't know how to explain how I feel to him, or myself honestly.. I feel so horrible because I know it hurt him when I didn't say it back...
    Layla19992501 Layla19992501
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 30, 2015
    Abigail498 Abigail498
    26-30, F
    14 Responses Mar 21, 2014

    Who Are You???

    Ive been cleaning out my circle for three days. I dont like going over 50 friends. It gets too hard to keep up with everyone. Im not a friend collector. I like to truly keep up with people. It keeps saying I have 51 friends!!!!! But when I go to my circle it says 50!!!!WHO ARE...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Dec 19, 2012

    So this girl I have a massive crush on made

    some comment yesterday on how we would be the perfect couple because we're already together and always share everything (food, homework awnsers...). And then she said " now take my hand and walk me to class and buy me food". She said it in a goofy voice and I don't know what it...
    Ilikeagirlnamedkaitlyn Ilikeagirlnamedkaitlyn
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2016

    Im So Confused In My Mine I Dont Know Who I Am , Male Or Famale

    my body parts say im male , but my thinking says im famale my pic
    Rachelsamantha Rachelsamantha
    41-45, M
    9 Responses Aug 24, 2012

    There's this girl following me around at school.

    We used to go to the same school and then we moved to high school and she went to the same one as me and she's following me everywhere! And I'm not trying to be mean as if I just don't want to be her friend but she gets REALLY jealous of my friends because there friends with me...
    AimeeThePineapple AimeeThePineapple
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Nov 29, 2015
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