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I Am So Confused

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    BrokenHeartedGirl14 BrokenHeartedGirl14 26-30, F Apr 9

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    So There's A Guy...

    We met over a year ago through a mutual friend. He added me to Facebook and we started having regular conversations. After a few weeks, he asked me if I'd like to hook up with him. See, at the time, I was only interested in no-strings-attached casual sex due to getting out of a...
    heathencrossing heathencrossing 22-25 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    I'm in love with this man.

    We have been in a relationship for over a year and half. There were arguments, fights and sour moments. But we pulled ourselves from it. I'm usually the one who wants to run away as soon as I feel he does not understand me and may be I am going hurt him by saying or doing...
    Gill7 Gill7 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I am a really confused person,

    i am so indecisive i cry myself too sleep
    charlotteK charlotteK 13-15, F Mar 25

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    Myself

    I try to please others so much and fit in with how they are...that it confuses me, as to who i really am.Like I know it seems silly or cliche. I try to be all sexy for those who want me sexy. I try to be strong for those who want me strong. I'm girly with my girl friends when we...
    lakeserpent lakeserpent 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    My ex who broke up with my last week tweeted

    this "I should have told you told you what I feel next time I won't stop cause what I feel is real #np" It's kinda weird. I don't know if it's just a song for him or if there's a meaning.. Btw when we were still together he didn't tell me that he hated me being clingy and...
    ilycomewhatmay ilycomewhatmay 13-15, F Mar 29

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    I Am So Confused, To The Point That I'm. . . Speechless

    It is so confusing. . . i don't know what to think or what to do.To make a long story short . . . my friend with benefits, which he has told me many times that we will never go out, acted in ways that makes me so confused.1.) At one point i went to his house to do some homework...
    simplyawesome3 simplyawesome3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2011

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    My husband has gone to hang with his friends

    which I am completely ok with. He never goes out, he does need some time to himself occasionally. I'm freaking out in my head that he's going to be tempted to hook up with or hit on the women that are there. We haven't been connecting sexual like we use to and I know I've been...
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    :(

    Everything was fine as 2013 approached and then it seems like as soon as the year changed and the snow came things became harder and less sensible. My car broke down Jan 2nd. I had it all figured out, my tax return I was going to use to move my family out of my father in laws...
    missmeganxoxo missmeganxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Idk, I'm only 15 so I shouldn't really be

    worrying about this but...... My family is Korean. My mom came to Canada when she was young (to study). I was born in Canada though...The problem is I don't really feel "Korean". I know nothing about my own culture, and I can't speak my own language (except maybe a few words...
    karenoohhh karenoohhh 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    So I was at basketball practice

    when a friend of mine told me that one of the players liked me. I wasn't expecting her to say that. I deeply into peer pressure thinking of what would happen if I asked her out, because my parents want me to be someone I'm not. If you understand where I'm coming from can you...
    MiamiHeat4Life MiamiHeat4Life 13-15, F Apr 3

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    I am going through so much right now

    and I am hurting , sad, lonely and I feel like I am being played like a fool. My situation is so messed up but I am trying to think positive about everything and hope that there is can be some type of way out of this. I need to find a way to keep my self from falling apart and...
    rd2btrme rd2btrme 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Confused Of People Not Staying My Friend

    Lately I been writing allot of stories of wanting to end my life and sharing stuff that are effecting my life. I can stay today I'm at a much better stable state than other days. I had one person was willing to review my stories and explain to me when people are not interested...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Mar 8, 2013

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    I don't know for real what is going on with my

    life and wish if things will be cleared soon. Am i that bad for showing how much i am in love with some girl and being there for her all of the time. Am i the worst guy ever for showing my love how much she is the one and i always support her and be there when she need talking...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    We dated 2 years then he tells me we should

    take a break. But even though were on a "break" he's still texting me everyday trying to make conversation. I'm confused.
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I know I was born into the wrong family.

    I hate everyone. They all go against me. I just hate them so much. As soon as I can I am going to leave and never look back. I hate everyone. :(
    truthtobetold truthtobetold 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    i always thought i was a pretty great person,

    wife and mother...but my husband and i have been having problems and we are baring our souls to eachother, and it seems he has been disappointed in me for so long, about so many things...i am sad that i have made him miserable and at the same time i am mad that he makes me feel...
    gatesgirl gatesgirl 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    Who Are You???

    Ive been cleaning out my circle for three days. I dont like going over 50 friends. It gets too hard to keep up with everyone. Im not a friend collector. I like to truly keep up with people. It keeps saying I have 51 friends!!!!! But when I go to my circle it says 50!!!!WHO ARE...
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 12 Responses Dec 19, 2012

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    Omg! Confused.com Lol

    Well here's the thing.. I'm in a relationship with a girl. And damn I love her so freaking much!. I do. But I've been thinking to myself? What sexuality am I?? All my life I have been with guys and they have all treated me like crap to be fair. With my girlfriend its like I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    so the title says it nuff said!

    ! idk if I should or if I did or wth happened I just know that its there. and I know this doesn't make since but that's how I feel I well I guess noooo maybe things will get cleared up cause I don't think...... im done writing oh its prbly not what u think im talking bout! on...
    mizzcola17 mizzcola17 18-21, F Mar 31

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    The Chronic Sting Of Betrayal

    I'm not the kind of girl who has boyfriends. I'm very . . . unique. So when I had a boyfriend it was the best thing that ever happened to me. My dream came true. I stayed with him through my first year of college and it was bad because he was the only thing I had. A little over...
    TeaAndCrumpets TeaAndCrumpets 18-21 Nov 29, 2012

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    My partner died 20 years ago aged 42.

    I met someone in thailand 2 years Later 32 years younger than me we stayed friends until a week ago I sent two abusive messages I don't know why Living alone for 20 years has affected my state of mind That evening he cut me off telephone cannot be reached Defriended on facebook...
    calacar7 calacar7 66-70, M Mar 23

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    I am quite confused over a few things

    that may be relatively difficult for me to explain. In the past few years life has been... odd. I say this not because I am struggling with my life in the outside world, but because it's my own reality that is confusing. I am one of those people who dream vividly and always...
    pneumaGrey pneumaGrey 16-17, T 1 Response Mar 29

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    A New Day

    Today is a new day. I feel a little better a made a few new friends on here. I guess I'm a little confused how long will it last with the new or the existing people I have. I decided I try my best to not let me emotions go over board. But I know deep down inside I feel like a...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Mar 9, 2013

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    hey! actually i am not use to all this stuff

    but i hope u people will understand my story. so it started this way. i had this friend for two years.she was bossy and her attitude was more than her height. yet we were good friends however we had a fight and the friendship ended. according to her i was a bad influence on...
    udaan21 udaan21 16-17, F Mar 16

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    This Battle........

    Between me, myself & I. Me=My brain, Myself=My heart, & I=My soul. None of them want the same things. It's annoying as HELL! Sheesh.... How am I suppose to fight my demons, get over my fears, & live...if they won't give it a DAMN REST & work together...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 23, 2009

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    Hi there, sorry if this post is a bit long,

    I feel like there's a lot to explain so 1st of all thank you if you take the time to read this! Here goes... So basically i've always identified as straight, i've been with boys, and never been with a girl up until recently, and i've always felt physically attracted to boys...
    pinkdiamondxo pinkdiamondxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Confused...

    Do you ever feel unwanted, where no one understands you. All you want is happiness but your heart and mind can never find of place in your body for it to be placed. The moments when you feel like everything is finally coming together then BAM out of no where it all falls apart...
    xXxmrangelxXx xXxmrangelxXx 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2012

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    Is It Worth The Pain?

    This is very complicated and my thoughts are racing so it may not make sense but here goes...my boyfriend and i have been together since 2008 following the arrival of our daughter. I also have a son from a previous relationship who is six now but has looked at my bf as a father...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    I live with three girls,

    my mom and my two sisters. I'm a boy. I wasn't raised at home and just moved back. I had nowhere to go. I'm 26. My mom and sisters act like I'm not even in the house. They don't look at me. They don't talk to me. They leave without saying anything to me. I'm grateful that I have...
    Venturawhite Venturawhite 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Most of the Time

    I have so many thoughts running through my head at one time it is easy for me to get confused.  If I am under a lot of stress and someone just starts throwing questions at me I get really confused and can't answer simple questions.  It gets so aggravating sometimes...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2008

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    HELP!!!

    I've been with my boyfriend for three years. I really do love him and care about him, but I don't appreciate him always yelling at me for stuff I don't do "right" in his eyes. He's threatened to leave me if I ever decide to drink alcohol, ever, legal or not. Which I don't agree...
    SarabearPark SarabearPark 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Confused

    I dont know i m so confused right now....i hurt sm1 bad today but he has been hurtin me since long....it wasn revenge but i was don wit d way he was treating me...i really lyk him n i kn he likes me too but he doesn take enough efforts to make me feel better.... I don kn... I...
    florabloom florabloom 22-25, F Jul 27, 2012

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    I don't understand why I can't get over her.

    .. Ok here's the story.. We were really good friends for about a year and then we got together... I became 10 times the man I was because of her.. I joined the national guard got back in school and really took control of my life.. Long story short we broke up because when she...
    jayteezy205 jayteezy205 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    Why Do I Feel This Way?

    I moved out of my ex bf's apt yesterday. We were together for two and a half years. A few months after we moved in together, things went downhill. He was emotionally abusive. I felt like I had to tiptoe around so I wouldn't get him upset. Yesterday I felt like crying. Tonight I...
    lovelady19 lovelady19 18-21, F Jun 4, 2012

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    I need help...im confusing about my ex?

    He will send me message now then few days he will ignore me!. We have plan to met next month i was excited to see him again. But the thing is after that maybe he will left me again. I want to ask him if what is our situation or if he has plan with me. But maybe it was awkward to...
    peterlene peterlene 26-30, F Mar 31

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    I have been divorced

    for 4 years. I got remarried 3 years ago. My divorce was crazy. I have 2 children 16, 17. My new husband has 4 children. His youngest is 6. His ex wife, and his family, and my family told me that he will never be able to support me. I did not believe them because he told me...
    mcl0504 mcl0504 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    I Don't Understand

    I've been friends with this guy for a while & have had a bit of a crush on him all along. We live n a small town where we have the same circle of friends & go to all the same events. Every time I see him he allways comes over to give me a hug which I love & I think is awesome. So...
    fractalpterodactyl fractalpterodactyl 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 15, 2012

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    There are time when she just doesn't understand.

    I mean how could she? She did so much for me. Alot. I want her but the slightest thing gives her the thought that I want another. Trust. I just want to be happy with you. U have a whole other life besides me. Nobody knows about it but u and me. Not even your boyfriend. Not even...
    mkenzi0924 mkenzi0924 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I don't know from where do females urinate Coz

    in chat some of them tell they urinate from vagina ,******* etc etc So girls I m expecting the answer from u Don't be ashamed ,it's a part of life
    Ilovegirls4321 Ilovegirls4321 16-17, M Dec 10, 2013

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    Hi all, let me tell you about my relationship.

    I have been with a guy for 3 years already as a couple. I sort of feel like he is not my type anymore now. Although we bearly fight each other but I think that it is because he doesn't want to talk about our problems, like when I mention one he would just go quiet and let the...
    AsianMoh AsianMoh 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Ok so I really need your help ,

    my parents are thinking of moving to England at the end of the school year an d I'm on my senior year next year so I don't no what to say. Because I think it would be hard to make new friends in a different country and especially on senior year were everybody is like best...
    carla5021185 carla5021185 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I think my alters are starting to mess with my

    personality. A while ago, I started feeling like I wanted to kill someone just to feel something. That's something Damon would do, while I would never hurt anyone. A couple days ago, I just felt like I wanted to have sex. I wasn't horny. Just felt the need to go have sex with...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F Mar 13

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    Rollercoaster

    My  life   has  been   a   rollercoaster   sometimes    I   feel   life   is  getting  better    and  I'm  okay   then  it  lunges...
    rockybear397 rockybear397 47, F 6 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    I Can Stand Up Again

        I married over twenty years.  Recently found out that my husband has an affair oversea with his business partner.  I finally have a chance to talk with the woman who is wiling to share my husband with me when he is over there.  She said she would n't mind at all to be...
    sufferme sufferme 46-50 6 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    What'S Going On??

    What the hell is going on?! Why do these young boys keep messaging me here asking me about my belly button?! When the first message came, I didn't really give it much thought. But after 50+ messages, all from very young teenage boys, asking for me to describe my belly button...
    wallpainter13 wallpainter13 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    hey! actually i am not use to all this stuff

    but i hope u people will understand my story. so it started this way. i had this friend for two years.she was bossy and her attitude was more than her height. yet we were good friends however we had a fight and the friendship ended. according to her i was a bad influence on...
    udaan21 udaan21 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    I don't understand how the excuse of being a

    teen makes anything we do ok. Examples include: disrespect to parents. Sex. Or drugs. It doesn't make sense yet. I've just been terribly disrespectful to my mom.i hate myself so much. I'm just selfish. I always want help bc I'm to weak to fix my own problems. I'm not good...
    SelfBattle SelfBattle 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    am having difficulties right now.

    . soo to start off when i was born i died and my mother was told that she wouldnt be bringing a baby home and that they were going to try their best to re-vive me and they did then wen i went home 3 months later my mom noticed a lump i had right above my eyebrow the doctors said...
    ayramtorres ayramtorres 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I always say that I need a boyfriend,

    but I have met a few guys and I talk to them for a bit, and then I loose interest or don't have time for them and eventually stop talking to them. Is it that they just aren't right for me? The guys that I really do like have no interest in me, and the ones that do like me, I...
    desertangel1123 desertangel1123 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    My friend got proposed to yesterday.

    What the hell...she and this guy haven't even been together for four months. I'm so confused about it.
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    I Wonder...

    I wonder why I live. Is there a reason? I feel dizzy all the time, staring at the angels carved into my ceiling as I ponder on the thought of me being a live human being. I wonder to myself why I breathe. And then I suddenly feel tired so I use up my energy to cry myself to sleep...
    simplymexo simplymexo 13-15, F Sep 7, 2011

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    Why Is She Doing This To Me?

    I know for the fact that we can never be together due to DISTANCE. She knows that I have feelings for her. I don't know if she feels the same way. But what confuses me to death is, just when I try to detach myself from her (like, not talking to her through Instant...
    darkmood darkmood 16-18, F 6 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Blinded By The Light....

    Its been Three days since I have cut things off officially with the man I so loved... Everyday I still think about him and am constantly wondering if he thinks about me and if he even cares that I am gone? Today I got an answer of sorts when he had realized I had blocked him, he...
    caniremainanonymous caniremainanonymous 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2013

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    I don't know if I'm still in love with my

    boy-friend or if we are used to being together ( 6 years) . so how can I understand my feelings?
    LovePhotos LovePhotos 22-25, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Abigail498 Abigail498 22-25, F 17 Responses Mar 21

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