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I Am So Confused

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    Idk, I'm only 15 so I shouldn't really be

    worrying about this but...... My family is Korean. My mom came to Canada when she was young (to study). I was born in Canada though...The problem is I don't really feel "Korean". I know nothing about my own culture, and I can't speak my own language (except maybe a few words...
    karenoohhh karenoohhh 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I'm really confused about my feelings right now.

    I've been having a great time in life and even had a super fun day yesterday, but realized I felt sad and kind of depressed. I felt so down that I ended up scratching myself a few times pretty badly. Which is not good. And I have no idea why I felt the need to hurt myself like...
    waterwolflover waterwolflover 13-15, F 2 Responses May 26

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    if you had feelings for your bestfriend

    and they were in a relationship with someone else, would you still kiss them and pressure them to end their relationship and pick you, even when there was nothing wrong with their relationship
    jmsinnyc jmsinnyc 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 27

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    My crush keeps trying to hold my hand

    and he stares at me a lot so take that as a good thing, but then he flirts with his ex right in front of me like DIRECTLY IN FRONT OF ME. then his ex tells me they kissed the other day while I was sleeping in class. Should I just back off him or?
    YoursTruly214 YoursTruly214 13-15 4 days ago

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    There's this guy that has stared at me

    and I knew he probably liked me so I went to him and had a small conversation. It didn't go well, like I didn't get good vibes so I thought I was wrong about him liking me, but then he still continued to stare. Ugh idk if he likes me or not or if he's shy to talk to me 😒
    erika514 erika514 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    My dad has always been a good father

    until recently. He whipped me harshly and raped me when he was drunk even if I did not do anything wrong. I am confused about whether to actually report him to the police. Besides, every time dad hurts me, mom just stands by and watches, without any intention to stop him and...
    ElsaBlack ElsaBlack 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 5

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    Sure, I know he doesn't have any romantic

    feelings for me and he s made it quite clear to me. He has clearly rejected me but even though he is treating me rudely and shrugging me off completely, I can't let go that feeling that he doesn't feel anything like that for me. I am really confused as to why he would get...
    Bella2911 Bella2911 18-21, F Oct 9

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    now i just wanna say

    that plzz come back tomorrow :(
    Amitoohandsome Amitoohandsome 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 29

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    The Hardest Decision to Ever Have to Make...

    When I was 16 I was introduced to a man. Charming, caring, a  man with a definite way with words. I was scared, shy, timid to the max. Although I found him greatly intriguing, those around me did not. My parents shunned him, my friends called him a freak. I myself had my own...
    bloodrayne bloodrayne 21-25, F 7 Responses Jul 25, 2007

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    So I just started school.

    . And there is this boy in my class who is really cute and we don't have assigned seats and he sits next to me.. But the thing is that I don't have very good people skills and I don't flirt very good.... Any advise??!! ):
    werebentnotbroken werebentnotbroken 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    If your best friend randomly kissed you,

    knowing that you're already in a relationship, and you felt something from the kiss, would you end your current relationship to be with them, even if there were no problems in your current relationship, and would you let them pressure you into ending it?
    jmsinnyc jmsinnyc 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 22

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    Myself

    I try to please others so much and fit in with how they are...that it confuses me, as to who i really am.Like I know it seems silly or cliche. I try to be all sexy for those who want me sexy. I try to be strong for those who want me strong. I'm girly with my girl friends when we...
    lakeserpent lakeserpent 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    coffeelover123 coffeelover123 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I'm not really sure how to start.

    So about 6 months ago I met a guy and we hit it off really well. We would talk every day (we sat right next to each other in class and had 3 classes together). After a few weeks he started walking me to class and then asked for my phone number. Then he texted me every single day...
    waterwolflover waterwolflover 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    Omg! Confused.com Lol

    Well here's the thing.. I'm in a relationship with a girl. And damn I love her so freaking much!. I do. But I've been thinking to myself? What sexuality am I?? All my life I have been with guys and they have all treated me like crap to be fair. With my girlfriend its like I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    I just don't know what I'm

    even doing anymore. I left him, I left him because I wasn't happy. I left him because he made me cry more times than I could count. I left him because he made me feel like I wasn't good enough. I left him because I missed my family, my friends and my hometown. I left him...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    Abigail498 Abigail498 22-25, F 15 Responses Mar 21

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    I think pushing people away is the best thing

    to do, that way I won't get hurt.
    ggboo ggboo 13-15, F 3 Responses May 3

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    I have to break it off with this guy

    because I have this feeling in the pit of my stomach that he just isn't that into me. Like we don't really have conversations that are all that good. I also feel like he doesn't really want to know anything about me or want to get to know me. I ask him things to get to know him...
    Sumtimey Sumtimey 31-35, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    hey! actually i am not use to all this stuff

    but i hope u people will understand my story. so it started this way. i had this friend for two years.she was bossy and her attitude was more than her height. yet we were good friends however we had a fight and the friendship ended. according to her i was a bad influence on...
    udaan21 udaan21 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Livelovelaugh92 Livelovelaugh92 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    For the last 14 years I've been a great

    employee at a solid organization but I've reached a point where I think I need to get out. I have fantasies of quitting and feeling amazing, but as a single income I need to have a good income and frankly, walking away from this job doesn't seem to make sense on the surface...
    wayjay55 wayjay55 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    There are some days I know exactly how I feel,

    know what I think... Then there are days like today. Where I'm just confused.
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F Sep 8

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    rubyy25 rubyy25 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    i'm really confused right

    now bout mysely, am i bi?? (sigh)
    emily036 emily036 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 9

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    how can someone start saying they love their

    new boyfriend a couple of weeks after they ended their previous relationship when they know they still have feelings for their ex after more than a year of loving them, and yet they still go along with the new relationship anyway?
    jmsinnyc jmsinnyc 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    So today has been another one of them mornings

    where I wake up and sit there staring at the ceiling for at least 10 minutes just thinking about my dream, my recent dreams. Recently I've been having a lot of them, mostly about a specific person that I don't speak to anymore, but he was a very big part of my life once, things...
    ohsoradical ohsoradical 18-21, F Sep 18

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    Rollercoaster

    My  life   has  been   a   rollercoaster   sometimes    I   feel   life   is  getting  better    and  I'm  okay   then  it  lunges...
    rockybear397 rockybear397 47, F 6 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response May 3

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    It's been a while I know,

    but you must know I still think of you. Every time I talk to someone or there's a boy out there that looks like you. Every night I see your pictures and I miss you, trying only to remember the good things. Every song I listen , there is you once again. And yes, I still cry...
    Mags40 Mags40 41-45, F Sep 23

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    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    There's a lot that's been going on in my life

    that I simply just don't understand. I hope someday the pieces will fit together so I can feel whole again.
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    ohh maaan i'm board out of my mind

    and i don't know what to do, i want someone to talk to....... but i got no one i'm hardly tired even though i took my pills sometimes i just wish i wasn't alive and at the moment that "sometimes" is now
    catsrule5678 catsrule5678 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    Why is life so hard and hurtful I'm full of

    questions and can't find an answer...but god had a plan so hold on because I am
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Idunno how I feel about people I used to want

    to be around people more and I used to feed off the buzzing energy of a random stupid conversation with friends and now I'm not feeling it anymore how ducked does that really sound what is wrong with me?
    squiggled squiggled 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am really confused right now.

    ..my thoughts are blurred and my head hurts.I don't know what is right and what is wrong..I don't know if I should go with the wind or have self discipline..I can not trust myself and I don't know which direction to choose.. I am so confused that I can't even express it clearly...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F Jul 6

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    I Can Stand Up Again

        I married over twenty years.  Recently found out that my husband has an affair oversea with his business partner.  I finally have a chance to talk with the woman who is wiling to share my husband with me when he is over there.  She said she would n't mind at all to be...
    sufferme sufferme 46-50 6 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Most of the Time

    I have so many thoughts running through my head at one time it is easy for me to get confused.  If I am under a lot of stress and someone just starts throwing questions at me I get really confused and can't answer simple questions.  It gets so aggravating sometimes...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2008

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    Now after my last post husband has ignored me

    but within about 15 mins someone rang my door bell and just to prove my theory my husband started talking to me about the doorbell ringing without hesitation and with enthusiasm...
    honeysweetness10 honeysweetness10 41-45, F Oct 12

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    We're not dating but he says he loves me.

    Yet he hardly ever texts/calls me anymore. He says he just doesn't text. Should i be worried ?
    pinkk44 pinkk44 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    So confused about what to do,

    should I go left, right, up, or down? Do I take the high road or the low road? Go with the flow or against? It's never ending and I don't know what I'm doing.
    Doof00 Doof00 18-21, F Oct 10

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    :(

    Everything was fine as 2013 approached and then it seems like as soon as the year changed and the snow came things became harder and less sensible. My car broke down Jan 2nd. I had it all figured out, my tax return I was going to use to move my family out of my father in laws...
    missmeganxoxo missmeganxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    I've been talking to this guy

    for a few months now and we're both in our final year in school together. Everything has been going smoothly, we talk till past midnight, we always snapchat and talk almost everyday, we talk in school at times and joke around and when I miss a day he questions why I wasn't at...
    Ashlovert Ashlovert 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    Im a 13 year old girl im bisexual

    but im not sure but i might be lesbian i look at band members and they're guys and they are ******* hot but then i see a really hot girl a movie and i like it a lot but then again im just not sure im so confused oh and im dating a girl if that helps please please reply
    piercetheveil22 piercetheveil22 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    Why does my ex randomly feel the need to

    message me out of the blue ? I just don't get it. Do you randomly message your ex? I don't...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    Who Are You???

    Ive been cleaning out my circle for three days. I dont like going over 50 friends. It gets too hard to keep up with everyone. Im not a friend collector. I like to truly keep up with people. It keeps saying I have 51 friends!!!!! But when I go to my circle it says 50!!!!WHO ARE...
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 13 Responses Dec 19, 2012

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    Im So Confused In My Mine I Dont Know Who I Am , Male Or Famale

    my body parts say im male , but my thinking says im famale my pic
    Rachelsamantha Rachelsamantha 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    why cant i be pretty?

    not even close to okay, i really hate myself i wish i could undo all my mistakes and not have so many flaws but oh well i guess thats just how life is soecially when everyones agaisnt u but u still feel enptyinside like u need a hug and a brake from all the crying no ones...
    xxSuicidalPrincessxx xxSuicidalPrincessxx 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    cwebb1221 cwebb1221 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    There's this guy at my school

    and i like him. We don't talk to each other...at all. I don't like him just because of his looks (he is cute tho), but i like his funny personality and he's cool. In school I'm the nerdy average chick. All my friends say i have really pretty eyes and a really pretty smile. I'm...
    Tina5335 Tina5335 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    This boy likes me and I like him.

    He's friends with my friend and she introduced me to him. We talked for a few weeks and one day he asked me out, I said yes. The next day he didn't talk to me. Then when we saw each other he ignored my presents like I wasn't even there I saw him hug another girl and I was heated...
    confusedoneoh confusedoneoh 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    so finally she stopped talking to me cuz we

    live far from each other and she thinks that her love doesn't matter anymore cuz we can't meet each other..,she left me despite she loves me a lot :(.,i know she cries a lot nowadays cuz she truly loves me and it hurt me so much :( :(.., but i still believe that she will come...
    Amitoohandsome Amitoohandsome 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Do I actually have depression?

    Do people think I'm faking it ? I 'm really doubting myself now because of my counselor. Do I actually have social anxiety that I had no clue that I might have it? I'm so confused about my sexuality. Am I bisexual or is it just a phase I'm going through? I really don't know any...