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I Am So Confused

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    Blood is thicker than water

    but not thicker than Green (money). I have been staying at a hotel looking for work and to relocate. My credit card declined and I would have no gas for a 8am interview. The next day. Could not buy food or hotel the next day. I called and told my desperate situation. And he said...
    asherjoh asherjoh 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 4

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    Most of the Time

    I have so many thoughts running through my head at one time it is easy for me to get confused.  If I am under a lot of stress and someone just starts throwing questions at me I get really confused and can't answer simple questions.  It gets so aggravating sometimes...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2008

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    Omg! Confused.com Lol

    Well here's the thing.. I'm in a relationship with a girl. And damn I love her so freaking much!. I do. But I've been thinking to myself? What sexuality am I?? All my life I have been with guys and they have all treated me like crap to be fair. With my girlfriend its like I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    My friend and I, each 17,

    worked together and there was this guy, 20, we both found really attractive. I thought he was way out of my league so gave her dibs. We live by dibs. Our job ended and she added him on Facebook, which is more than I would've done. She messaged him and had a normal conversation...
    Stresser0987 Stresser0987 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    toiletwater toiletwater 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    There's a lot that's been going on in my life

    that I simply just don't understand. I hope someday the pieces will fit together so I can feel whole again.
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Hi everyone my name is Bianca I'm 20

    and I'm going through a really hard time right now and idk wat to do I've been in a relationship for 6 years but 2 years ago we moved in together and in the beginning everything was going great after a year that we moved in we had a daughter and everything was ok for a while...
    bianca94 bianca94 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    Rareforever0524 Rareforever0524 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    About Life

    My friends are sometimes my friends, the guy I like sometimes seems to like me back, my teachers are never clear on assignments, my family sems to love me and then act like I'm the black sheep the next, and I just want to know more answers and less questions.
    elliebear22 elliebear22 16-17, F Oct 4, 2010

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    Girls are really confusing sometimes!

    One minute they flirt with you and like you! And then as soon as you ask them if we are a thing she acts like we don't know each other!
    BBolch BBolch 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 19

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    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    This Battle........

    Between me, myself & I. Me=My brain, Myself=My heart, & I=My soul. None of them want the same things. It's annoying as HELL! Sheesh.... How am I suppose to fight my demons, get over my fears, & live...if they won't give it a DAMN REST & work together...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 23, 2009

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    Abigail498 Abigail498 22-25, F 17 Responses Mar 21

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    I am a married woman

    for 4 years, but in that circle its very complicated. i came from Philippines. i feel so horrible having the kind of marriage. like were on and off, to think that we have a child.. after being separated with him over a year we once decided to get back together. and for now we...
    yien yien 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    There's this guy that has stared at me

    and I knew he probably liked me so I went to him and had a small conversation. It didn't go well, like I didn't get good vibes so I thought I was wrong about him liking me, but then he still continued to stare. Ugh idk if he likes me or not or if he's shy to talk to me 😒
    erika514 erika514 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    Rollercoaster

    My  life   has  been   a   rollercoaster   sometimes    I   feel   life   is  getting  better    and  I'm  okay   then  it  lunges...
    rockybear397 rockybear397 47, F 6 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    I Am So Confused, To The Point That I'm. . . Speechless

    It is so confusing. . . i don't know what to think or what to do.To make a long story short . . . my friend with benefits, which he has told me many times that we will never go out, acted in ways that makes me so confused.1.) At one point i went to his house to do some homework...
    simplyawesome3 simplyawesome3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2011

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    I'm not really sure how to start.

    So about 6 months ago I met a guy and we hit it off really well. We would talk every day (we sat right next to each other in class and had 3 classes together). After a few weeks he started walking me to class and then asked for my phone number. Then he texted me every single day...
    waterwolflover waterwolflover 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I am really confused right now.

    ..my thoughts are blurred and my head hurts.I don't know what is right and what is wrong..I don't know if I should go with the wind or have self discipline..I can not trust myself and I don't know which direction to choose.. I am so confused that I can't even express it clearly...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F Jul 6

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    Constand strugle and hurry.

    .. Where are we running...? Are we heading the right direction...?
    caramellacrisby caramellacrisby 22-25, F Jul 3

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    I'm really confused about my feelings right now.

    I've been having a great time in life and even had a super fun day yesterday, but realized I felt sad and kind of depressed. I felt so down that I ended up scratching myself a few times pretty badly. Which is not good. And I have no idea why I felt the need to hurt myself like...
    waterwolflover waterwolflover 13-15, F 2 Responses May 26

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    I Can Stand Up Again

        I married over twenty years.  Recently found out that my husband has an affair oversea with his business partner.  I finally have a chance to talk with the woman who is wiling to share my husband with me when he is over there.  She said she would n't mind at all to be...
    sufferme sufferme 46-50 6 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    The Chronic Sting Of Betrayal

    I'm not the kind of girl who has boyfriends. I'm very . . . unique. So when I had a boyfriend it was the best thing that ever happened to me. My dream came true. I stayed with him through my first year of college and it was bad because he was the only thing I had. A little over...
    TeaAndCrumpets TeaAndCrumpets 18-21 Nov 29, 2012

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    What does Lorde (Ella Marija Lani

    Yelich-O'connor) mean in the song "Team" when she says "even the comatose, they don't dance and tell" ...I love her music with that teenage voice and how it's all put together, but my feathers are a little ruffled because currently I have surmised that she knows nothing about...
    mulhern24 mulhern24 18-21, M Jun 23

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    I have had a very close friend

    for 10 years now. We have always supported each other in what ever this crazy life has thrown at us. I am currently supporting him during his divorce with his wife. I am married myself. He texts me almost everyday to either talk about how he is feeling that day or we will just...
    kalelizabeth kalelizabeth 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    The Hardest Decision to Ever Have to Make...

    When I was 16 I was introduced to a man. Charming, caring, a  man with a definite way with words. I was scared, shy, timid to the max. Although I found him greatly intriguing, those around me did not. My parents shunned him, my friends called him a freak. I myself had my own...
    bloodrayne bloodrayne 21-25, F 7 Responses Jul 25, 2007

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    I think pushing people away is the best thing

    to do, that way I won't get hurt.
    ggboo ggboo 13-15, F 2 Responses May 3

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    I sat drawing with hundreds of people around me.

    I'm not an attention grabber or even someone that stands out. I enjoyed every my day but something continued to bother me. I saw so many couples hugging and families playing together. It was sweet but jealousy made it's way in my heart. I hate this about myself. I hate wanting...
    solojo solojo 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 23

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    You tell me im wrong :( You tell me im

    different :( You disproove everything I say Making me feel so stupid But... I am right, Im no different Like i said Im just a ******* sheep
    SingItForTheKids SingItForTheKids 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I Don't Understand

    I've been friends with this guy for a while & have had a bit of a crush on him all along. We live n a small town where we have the same circle of friends & go to all the same events. Every time I see him he allways comes over to give me a hug which I love & I think is awesome. So...
    fractalpterodactyl fractalpterodactyl 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 15, 2012

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    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    why cant i be pretty?

    not even close to okay, i really hate myself i wish i could undo all my mistakes and not have so many flaws but oh well i guess thats just how life is soecially when everyones agaisnt u but u still feel enptyinside like u need a hug and a brake from all the crying no ones...
    xxSuicidalPrincessxx xxSuicidalPrincessxx 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    I hate when you think something is written

    towards you buut you don't know if it really is or not. Like that person says something but in your heart you feel like it's pertaining to you. Idk. Maybe I'm just crazy
    toiletwater toiletwater 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 15

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    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response May 3

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    There is this guy who i strongly like

    but everyone tells me is a man-*****. But i think he does actually have feelings for me but he doesnt want to give up being able to pick up all the other girls. It gets worse, there is another girl like me that he actually cares about and im pretty sure he is confused about what...
    croda croda 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Myself

    I try to please others so much and fit in with how they are...that it confuses me, as to who i really am.Like I know it seems silly or cliche. I try to be all sexy for those who want me sexy. I try to be strong for those who want me strong. I'm girly with my girl friends when we...
    lakeserpent lakeserpent 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    gummball gummball 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    I became friends with two amazing people

    through a mutual friend. They were a lesbian couple and I spent a lot of time with them. One night me and one of them got drunk and had sex. Ever since that night we have been having a fling behind everyone's backs. I have been wanting to end it for awhile because I know it's...
    Fickleheart Fickleheart 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Why Is She Doing This To Me?

    I know for the fact that we can never be together due to DISTANCE. She knows that I have feelings for her. I don't know if she feels the same way. But what confuses me to death is, just when I try to detach myself from her (like, not talking to her through Instant...
    darkmood darkmood 16-18, F 6 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    What Am I Doing?

    I'm not understanding a part of my life. I'm a high school student, and my mother has an enlarged liver from drinking so she has to stop now.But it made me think what am I doing? I'm not going to live forever so why am I in a house all day studying at only 16 when every other...
    shelby9955 shelby9955 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2010

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    coffeelover123 coffeelover123 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Im So Confused In My Mine I Dont Know Who I Am , Male Or Famale

    my body parts say im male , but my thinking says im famale my pic
    Rachelsamantha Rachelsamantha 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    Hi im in a relationship

    for 5 years but i don't know how to said this im getting tired of my partner shes a great women but i just wanna have sex with another women's what can i do?
    cesarin1082 cesarin1082 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F Jun 27

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    Im with my fiancé for about 5 years

    but im confuse shes a awesome partner but i like to cheat i like to flirt with girls a lot i don't know what to do please i need your advice please thanks
    cesarin1082 cesarin1082 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    hey! actually i am not use to all this stuff

    but i hope u people will understand my story. so it started this way. i had this friend for two years.she was bossy and her attitude was more than her height. yet we were good friends however we had a fight and the friendship ended. according to her i was a bad influence on...
    udaan21 udaan21 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Whats up with all these random women commenting

    stupid **** that are pointless? .-. And then blocks me, cowards.
    HighOnMisery HighOnMisery 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    What the actual ****.

    Like seriously.
    CrownedWithLaurel CrownedWithLaurel 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Ok, so a while back I met my first bf on EP,

    and we like fell in love, then he said I was over obsessive and dumped me, then I met someone else, and me and him got in a fight about weed, and how I don't like it, then we broke up, then the last one I thought was fake, but he wasn't, and now I feel horrible, now he thinks...
    KoolKandon KoolKandon 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    HELP!!!

    I've been with my boyfriend for three years. I really do love him and care about him, but I don't appreciate him always yelling at me for stuff I don't do "right" in his eyes. He's threatened to leave me if I ever decide to drink alcohol, ever, legal or not. Which I don't agree...
    SarabearPark SarabearPark 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Who Are You???

    Ive been cleaning out my circle for three days. I dont like going over 50 friends. It gets too hard to keep up with everyone. Im not a friend collector. I like to truly keep up with people. It keeps saying I have 51 friends!!!!! But when I go to my circle it says 50!!!!WHO ARE...
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 12 Responses Dec 19, 2012

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    :(

    Everything was fine as 2013 approached and then it seems like as soon as the year changed and the snow came things became harder and less sensible. My car broke down Jan 2nd. I had it all figured out, my tax return I was going to use to move my family out of my father in laws...
    missmeganxoxo missmeganxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Idk, I'm only 15 so I shouldn't really be

    worrying about this but...... My family is Korean. My mom came to Canada when she was young (to study). I was born in Canada though...The problem is I don't really feel "Korean". I know nothing about my own culture, and I can't speak my own language (except maybe a few words...
    karenoohhh karenoohhh 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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