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I Am So Depressed Because of My Somewhat Boyfriend

Are you with a guy, and you're his #2, and its depressing you. 19 People

    Boyfriend And His Son

    I have been seeing my boyfriend for over a year now..We have had many warm and wonderful times and we are both in it for the long haul. My situation is that his son, who is 35 years old takes up so much of his time.His son had a traumatic brain injury 3 years ago and although on...
    glittered glittered 51-55, F Jun 15, 2012

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    Still Standing

    I thought that I would have left him alone after the last breakdown I  had. But I'm still here, even though I'm giving him the silent treatment  for a couple days. The next statement that I'm about to say surprises me. But I know deep  in my heart that he loves...
    chelsa chelsa 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2010

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    My boyfriend doesn't see me

    for weeks at a time and when I ask him to, he says sure but makes up a reason not to. Now he wants me to spend more time with my friends or even date other men instead of spend time with him. He says he can't be the 24/7 boyfriend. Sure, but I saw him for 3 hours the Friday...
    ateamgirl ateamgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Breakdown

    Its been a long time coming, this breakdown was unavoidable... I wasn't on project experience for a while because I thought I didn't need it... I thought I had this situation under control, but I didn't and don't... to get into details... our relationship had tremendously...
    chelsa chelsa 22-25, F Nov 23, 2009

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    Light At The End Of The Tunnel

    He has a trial in October 2011. Our relationship will likely come to a conclusion at the end of the court proceedings. I love him with all my heart, but I have given my all for the past 5 years and received little in return. I don't know what else to do but give up. He's refused...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2011

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    Breakdown

    Its been a long time coming, this breakdown was unavoidable... I wasn't on project experience for a while because I thought I didn't need it... I thought I had this situation under control, but I didn't and don't... to get into details... our relationship had tremendously...
    chelsa chelsa 22-25, F Nov 23, 2009

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    Unsure

    Its been quite a well since I logged on, and trust me it was not due to the fact that everything is suddenly going good!!! Things have been like ka-boom!!! I have been on more than just an emotional rollcoster, I've been on a battle ship... It sounds just as disturbing as it is...
    chelsa chelsa 22-25, F Sep 1, 2010

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    DEEPER In the Hole!!!!

    Yesterday I should have been more detailed with my story, however I was so upset that I couldn't even type. I got my somewhat lovers name tattooed on my finger(left finger)... I feel stupider then yesterday but not as mad just hurt. If you have read any of my confessions, you...
    chelsa chelsa 22-25, F Aug 19, 2009

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    Up and Down

    Up and Down Usually I feel so much joy and happiness but lately I have been extremely depressed. Maybe questioning myself, my self worth as a woman... feeling incomplete and insecure... I have never been a person to doubt myself... I question my weight, hair, and...
    chelsa chelsa 22-25, F 2 Responses May 6, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I am a 32 year old woman. I have been single for 7 years. I have only had one "serious" boyfriend and since then all I have experienced is heartbreak. Disastrous dates, flings, no...
    firecracker1 firecracker1 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 20

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    Please forgive me if this post is extraordinarily long. I'm well aware that anyone out there shouldn't be asked to sit through this, but I would really appreciate it if someone did...
    jojo2450 jojo2450 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 4

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    Don't even know why i am doing this, but here it goes. I am 22 year old guy, who had his share of sorrow trough most of my life. My first memories as child are of my grandfather...
    TheLostSoulTravaler TheLostSoulTravaler 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    i can't believe i'm deeply depressed again... i guess i was just holding my depressed feelings down so now they're stronger, 0 days clean... again...
    jayissosadlike jayissosadlike 13-15, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    It seems like a stupid reason to be depressed considering that there are 7 billion people on Earth, but I can't interact with them properly. They don't seem to like me. I try to...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Is it just me or.....? I think I'm depressed Most days I wake up ok but then others I wake up soooo happy it hurts Burt then outta know where I'm so pissed off for no reason...
    waverunner94 waverunner94 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    Right now I have a girlfriend but as with every relationship (the few I have had) once something goes wrong I'll always assume the worst. I made her very mad and she is right to...
    shyslh shyslh 22-25, M Aug 24

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    I cannot take it any more. I've got no friends here. No girlfriend. I'm just so depressed. I'm sick and tired of seeing the same ******* 3 places: My house, My Grandparents house...
    stormofarrows stormofarrows 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I am 30 and still single and it's SO painful! :( I feel like I'm at a very low point in my life and I need friends, someone to listen to me and actually care and someone genuine...
    Singlegirl30 Singlegirl30 26-30, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    It is about an overall thing. Nobody likes Indians. Nobody likes how Indians look. And you know what's worse? I don't like Indians. Not because of any particular reason since I...
    theo84 theo84 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I'm 29 and haven't had a friend (or group of friends) in years. It's crazy how time has gone by and I still haven't been able to overcome this obstacle that others don't think...
    jab321 jab321 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I'm not lonely yet. might be later. I did a bad thing. I have a lot of problems only one person can deal with, but I think I went to far. haven't made up my mind on what to do if...
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I miss my friends. They all hang out with each other without me :,( it's an awful feeling. Nobody wants to be around me anymore... I just want it all to end.
    Brudy6 Brudy6 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 17

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    don't have any real friends just fake ones so I cant talk real with them. keeping it all in isn't good but there is no one to turn to
    Gdoza207 Gdoza207 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    So horrible.. i have a p-enis so when i say hi that means i want s-ex. Dumb a-ss girls these days.. feel so bad for this generation and more the next.
    ipiceno ipiceno 18-21, M Aug 19

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    Having no friends in the area can really bring a guy down hard
    Q133ml1 Q133ml1 26-30, M Aug 20

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    When ever we are in public my husband leaves me and ignore me. He always chooses his friends above me. I don't feel like he truly loves me for so many other reasons although he...
    msg1814 msg1814 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    i understand depression...and lonliness...if u ever need a friend to hear u out..u can rely on me...
    ThatPrettyGirl ThatPrettyGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I am feeling like this today. Sharing it here just to try to make the burden lighter.
    Danceofhours Danceofhours 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I feel sad all the time now and to find out I was being used and lied to. To know that I was just a goal and now that it's all over I'm nothing to him. I wasn't happy with him and...
    Saabatt Saabatt 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    He was close to me, he flirted but i ignored it, he joked but i was always angry. I never took him seriously. Thats what he thought. He was the only reason i smiled, but now its...
    wargoddess1 wargoddess1 18-21, F Aug 30

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    Someone a little while ago brought up (unintentionally) a very low point of my life for my memories. I don't understand why it still hurts me so much, since it was such a long time...
    Austinforshort Austinforshort 18-21, M Aug 31

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    I lost my wife of 20 years at the age of 43 to breast cancer. My two daughters where 14 and 16 at the time. This was four years ago now. We had a great marriage, she was my best...
    Intothewind Intothewind 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 1

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    I feel so lonely ,its like my existence is cursed in this world.I bring misfortune to everywhere i go .I really hate this world ,but i don blame it ,its all my fault to begin with...
    Appolo123 Appolo123 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    Do people just hate me or something today?
    bandnerdbandkid bandnerdbandkid 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    My wife has moved out. We're separated and it's all too quiet now. It's what we both wanted but loneliness sometimes feels worse.
    livinglife08 livinglife08 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    For all of you fighting this, I'm one of you, I write a blog, on how I fight my everyday life.. How I cope with being a full time student and at the same time fighting depression...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Can some talk to me I'm so lonely:(
    Selen21 Selen21 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't have any friends I could talk to bc they won't listen and my family would say I need to get over it but I just need somebody to talk too...
    muhhryaa muhhryaa 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't know what happiness is. Some say that love is what makes you happy, but I've never been loved. Some say that money, but I don't have any money. Some say that God, but I...
    DeniedWings DeniedWings 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I feel like nobody gives an effing **** about me. That nobody cares about me, nobody notices me, nobody wants to talk to me, that everybody hates me, that everybody talks about me...
    gotohell227 gotohell227 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 7

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    I've been so deeply depressed as though I have lost all hope of anything I thought I wanted life. I feel numb and helpless as though I don't know what the meaning of life is...
    gongetit121 gongetit121 26-30, F Aug 23

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    My boyfriend and I spend a healthy amount of time together, our families are close, we have a great bond and are very open. I am his first serious relationship, and there is one...
    classic00 classic00 18-21, F Sep 6

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    I always thought that I am an unemotional person who doesn't get too sad or depressed with whatever happens. But, recently all this changed with an incident where I hurt a person...
    amiabadguy amiabadguy 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Lately i haven't been myself yes i smile and laugh but i just been so depressed because i don't know why just have
    LovelessTeen LovelessTeen 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I have manic depression and I am a self-harmer (clean for a month and three days) but I am so close to relapsing! I have been talking to a girl I like daily for a while now and I...
    sm1ttay sm1ttay 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 20

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    hi am all alone and depressed. my friends are getting away from me because they have found new friends in their college/high school. i am the only one left behind. i am losing my...
    pauladrian377 pauladrian377 22-25, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Hello, About 2 weeks ago I was diagnosed with depression, though I would say I have been depressed for a few months it has really got me to a point where I need to write this...
    guethary guethary 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    I hate myself for all the lies and deception I inflicted on my current boyfriend. I blame my family particularly. I am a cheater and this means I have broken my own value system. I...
    Deadlynightshade5 Deadlynightshade5 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27