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I Am So Fed Up With My Marriage

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    Dirty Movies And Lies

    When I got married there was already troubles. I loved her. Still do. NOTHING has changed in those regards. I still think she is sexy, funny, and smart. But I watched porn0graphy, she caught me and swore I'd never look at it again. I did. I got caught and swore, got caught...
    UgOlLi UgOlLi 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    Thinking About Leaving

    I married a woman from another country. We dated for almost 2 years long distance. I would visit her 2 times a year and stay for extended periods of time. About one to three months each time. She came to the states and we married. I had reservations because, but I never listened...
    alwaysconfused77 alwaysconfused77 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2010

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    Searching For My Patricia

    In summer/autumn of 2009 I had a profound experience which turned my world upside down.  I had recently given blood and learnt how the black and Asian communities were three times more likely to need a kidney transplant than Caucasians.  I took upon myself to tell as many of...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M Feb 28, 2012

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    Why Do I Bother?

    I should be so lucky as to HAVE a gun... I don't and wouldn't know how to use it if I did.   What would be comforting is to win the lottery and really get out of this marriage.  Fact is, I think I'll be ok financially on my own with the girls, but...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 13 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    Why Do I Stay?

    He never can have a conversation with me without turning into how he wouldn't be married, it doesn't hurt me to do it I don't do anything else, me screwing someone else, my vacation I took, not doing enough for our boys or losing the house. I didn't ask him to marry me, he asked...
    lonelyrunawaytrain lonelyrunawaytrain 46-50, F 3 Responses May 1, 2013

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    Tired, Fed Up, Confused, And Lonely

    I met my husband in high school also, I felt like it was a dream come True because, we got married right after high school. He was my high school sweetheart also. But as soon as I ended up living ith him he changed. He got on myspace, tagged, facebook, zoosk, and any other social...
    Datsrite2 Datsrite2 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Today I cried because finally I realized the I

    no longer care! I have all that I could and I was holding somehow hoping that maybe my husband would realize what he has. I no longer need that validation! I know I'm a good person and have done all I could! I felt guilty for leaving and wanting to be happy. Not anymore! He can...
    Thundakatt Thundakatt 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    Have Already Divorced You Emotionally

    I love my husband. But it is clear that our marriage is just not going to work. My husband is 16 years older than me. I work full time and he stays home. We have 3 kids together. He is a great man, father. But some where down the line we just lost it. We always fight over the...
    SexyAlize SexyAlize 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    How Is Marriage Supposed to Be?

    i met my husband in high school, and were high school sweet hearts.. he join the military for 4 yrs yet during the first year when i was 19 i went to my first party and got messed up where i was taking advantage and since that time i confessed to my husband.. lost respect, trust...
    steph7894 steph7894 22-25 9 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Fed Up & Trapped.......

    After 46 years and lots of ups and downs I've finally gotten smart enough to accept there was nothing, NOTHING I could have done to have made this marriage any better or worse. I finally accept that my husband is a total narcissist and the only one who can change him is him. He...
    lexxicat lexxicat 66-70, F 6 Responses Mar 22, 2010

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    So Boring

    i have been married 36 years i am 3 1/2 years older than my husband you would think he was ten years older than me . we live opposite a social club he goes over every night we havent been out socially other than there for about 3 months we went out tonight with his brother and...
    noriam193 noriam193 61-65, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    What Do I Do??

    hi me and my wife met in the college 11 years back......and one day out of the blue i proposed her through a common friend and to which she initially said no but finally accepted. we started going around and then had a breakup(actually she dumped me). i was heart broken as i was...
    lovelost27 lovelost27 31-35 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    Going on 11 years and

    if it weren't for my kids, I would have left along time ago. For the most part we get along but that's only because I don't say anything about his drinking until 2am, sleeping all day, doesn't lift a finger around the house, sits in another room with his dogs and watches tv. I...
    ColoradoGirl4 ColoradoGirl4 36-40, F 11 Responses Jan 12

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    Related Experiences

    Not saying I don't want to get married. I really want. Who doesn't? Especially if it is with your beloved one. But some reasons haunt me. Some members of my family were divorced...
    HikoukiGumo HikoukiGumo 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    From what I'm reading here... The consensus is that quitting smoking sucks! There is nothing even mildly amusing right now and more poor kids are lucky the they are getting dressed...
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    Oh well my secret is out and as much as I hate to say it I live in a sexless marriage. My story does not quite start like a fairytale as when we met we were both recovering from...
    mysteryjourney mysteryjourney 36-40, M 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    Used to think i was going to meet a perfect girl, someone i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Used to think i'd get married and everything will be just fine, but that...
    jafetgx jafetgx 22-25, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Sexually frustrated husband uses spreadsheet to show wife what's wrong with their sexlife. I have empathy for the husband. Obviously, however, his spreadsheet didn't inspire his...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 15 Responses Jul 21

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    I dated this guy who came from a very traditional family in which interracial marriage was just not something that was done. I accepted that but there were times when I felt like...
    tendersoul22 tendersoul22 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I'm a mom of one amazing little girl and a wife as well. I'm also 24 just turned. I didn't wait for marriage as you can tell and I'm now seriously regretting that. I feel like I'm...
    stayathomemom10 stayathomemom10 22-25, F 12 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Had an interesting experience today with the wife...wanted some opinions on it. As some background, it's quite clear that we have issues with our relationship - we've had a...
    MelancholyDude MelancholyDude 36-40, M 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I fully support any type of marriage that doesn't involve me.
    PinkP0werRanger PinkP0werRanger 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Here in Ireland we are due to have a referendum about "gay marriage. This video explains some of our concerns.
    runtom runtom 56-60, M 1 hr ago

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    Making laws that say marriage should be between "one man and one woman" is unconstitutional. The first amendment protects the people from and prohibits the government making laws...
    sunflowerpet sunflowerpet 18-21, F 9 mins ago

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    For the first time in my life I finally accepted I'm going bald and confronted my fear by shaving my head this weekend. Oddly enough, yesterday, two beautiful women started...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 15 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I am sadly coming to the realization that my spouse and I never really had a marriage. We weren't even good at dating. The first Valentine's day we had an argument...I don't even...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 14 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I believe some people marry to stop from being alone not caring if the make another person lonely. I have been married going on 12 years and my wife slowly started losing all...
    distant7322 distant7322 46-50, M 12 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    With my crazy alcoholic stepdaughter who blames me for everything bad in her life and acts like a 13 yr old when she's almost 40. I am fed up with her sleeping around on her...
    miggym miggym 61-65, F Jul 28

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    Wife & I were good. Our relationship was incredible, we fed off of one another without crowding each other out. Then somewhere along the way she got comfortable enough with me to...
    BlandSpaghetti BlandSpaghetti 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    Im so fed up with my job. So frustrated that for now i Cant do anything about it. Ive been stuck in a place that i hate for so long that im so close to losing it.. Inconsiderate...
    eyeris2195 eyeris2195 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    (This is a post of mine from a previous profile. I decided I'd post it on my new profile) Gay Marriage I am fully in support of gay, lesbian and transgender couples' right to get...
    ForeverInDarkness22 ForeverInDarkness22 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    I don't feel like posting stuff here. I don't get much comments or words of encouragement every time I post stuff. So yeah I am fed up. I don't need someone to talk to cause...
    minyue minyue 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    “Why should I, as a gay man, be denied the same right to file a joint tax return with my potential husband that a straight couple has?” Very helpful answer by Ryan T. Anderson...
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    I saw the mona lisa hanging on the wall I dont think she liked me she didnt smile at all so i stuck my tongue out and pulled a funny face that it didnt work of a smile there was no...
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    WHATTTT???!! SOMEONE FED A KITTEN TO A PYTHON????!!!! Wtrfh.
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