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I Am So Fed Up With My Marriage

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    Searching For My Patricia

    In summer/autumn of 2009 I had a profound experience which turned my world upside down.  I had recently given blood and learnt how the black and Asian communities were three times more likely to need a kidney transplant than Caucasians.  I took upon myself to tell as many of...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M Feb 28, 2012

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    Thinking About Leaving

    I married a woman from another country. We dated for almost 2 years long distance. I would visit her 2 times a year and stay for extended periods of time. About one to three months each time. She came to the states and we married. I had reservations because, but I never listened...
    alwaysconfused77 alwaysconfused77 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2010

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    Why Do I Stay?

    He never can have a conversation with me without turning into how he wouldn't be married, it doesn't hurt me to do it I don't do anything else, me screwing someone else, my vacation I took, not doing enough for our boys or losing the house. I didn't ask him to marry me, he asked...
    lonelyrunawaytrain lonelyrunawaytrain 46-50, F 3 Responses May 1, 2013

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    Tired, Fed Up, Confused, And Lonely

    I met my husband in high school also, I felt like it was a dream come True because, we got married right after high school. He was my high school sweetheart also. But as soon as I ended up living ith him he changed. He got on myspace, tagged, facebook, zoosk, and any other social...
    Datsrite2 Datsrite2 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Fed Up & Trapped.......

    After 46 years and lots of ups and downs I've finally gotten smart enough to accept there was nothing, NOTHING I could have done to have made this marriage any better or worse. I finally accept that my husband is a total narcissist and the only one who can change him is him. He...
    lexxicat lexxicat 66-70, F 6 Responses Mar 22, 2010

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    Have Already Divorced You Emotionally

    I love my husband. But it is clear that our marriage is just not going to work. My husband is 16 years older than me. I work full time and he stays home. We have 3 kids together. He is a great man, father. But some where down the line we just lost it. We always fight over the...
    SexyAlize SexyAlize 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    Going on 11 years and

    if it weren't for my kids, I would have left along time ago. For the most part we get along but that's only because I don't say anything about his drinking until 2am, sleeping all day, doesn't lift a finger around the house, sits in another room with his dogs and watches tv. I...
    ColoradoGirl4 ColoradoGirl4 36-40, F 11 Responses Jan 12

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    What Do I Do??

    hi me and my wife met in the college 11 years back......and one day out of the blue i proposed her through a common friend and to which she initially said no but finally accepted. we started going around and then had a breakup(actually she dumped me). i was heart broken as i was...
    lovelost27 lovelost27 31-35 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    Today I cried because finally I realized the I

    no longer care! I have all that I could and I was holding somehow hoping that maybe my husband would realize what he has. I no longer need that validation! I know I'm a good person and have done all I could! I felt guilty for leaving and wanting to be happy. Not anymore! He can...
    Thundakatt Thundakatt 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    How Is Marriage Supposed to Be?

    i met my husband in high school, and were high school sweet hearts.. he join the military for 4 yrs yet during the first year when i was 19 i went to my first party and got messed up where i was taking advantage and since that time i confessed to my husband.. lost respect, trust...
    steph7894 steph7894 22-25 9 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Why Do I Bother?

    I should be so lucky as to HAVE a gun... I don't and wouldn't know how to use it if I did.   What would be comforting is to win the lottery and really get out of this marriage.  Fact is, I think I'll be ok financially on my own with the girls, but...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 13 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    Dirty Movies And Lies

    When I got married there was already troubles. I loved her. Still do. NOTHING has changed in those regards. I still think she is sexy, funny, and smart. But I watched porn0graphy, she caught me and swore I'd never look at it again. I did. I got caught and swore, got caught...
    UgOlLi UgOlLi 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    So Boring

    i have been married 36 years i am 3 1/2 years older than my husband you would think he was ten years older than me . we live opposite a social club he goes over every night we havent been out socially other than there for about 3 months we went out tonight with his brother and...
    noriam193 noriam193 61-65, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    There are truths behind these funny quotes....To the singles, would you still wanna take the plunge on marriage? ***I never married because there was no need. I have three pets at...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    I've been married for nearly 7 years now and have enjoyed many intimate moments with my wife. A lot of that has changed in the last two years. Sex isn't something that happens...
    absalom123 absalom123 26-30 12 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    No one really wanna talk to me in real life altho I think they have a point because I get nervous and I don't talk properly but I wanna talk with someone.
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    So we had it out again the other day. I told him that I felt like more of a roommate than a wife and I feel like he doesn't love me anymore. It has always been difficult for me to...
    lonelyinlove04 lonelyinlove04 26-30 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I posted a story with the heading l live in a,sexless marriage....it changed to l am dating. I can categorically state that l am definitely NOT dating. I will repost my story and...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 14 mins ago

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    Me, myself and my parents marriage... I asked my wife to go to a shrink with me about 3 years ago. she did not refuse the idea, but she ways always too busy, or tired or had a...
    frozenhere frozenhere 31-35, M 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    My GF and I didn't wait till marriage either we were 16 at the time and i remember just thinking god I hope she's enjoying this I was so nervous.... The good news we are now...
    ctywrkr ctywrkr 31-35, M 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Bear with me because this may seem off topic, but it isn't. I've been recently thinking about death. Yesterday, my post sexless marriage lover had to put his beloved dog of 14...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 13 Responses Aug 21

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    My partner of 4 years broke up with me a week ago. We were planning to be married next year. We are originally from India but currently live in the US. When I first met him, I was...
    mkist mkist 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    I stated having sex as a young teenager. I experimented with having sex with both white and black guys. I am very addicted to the BBC. My husband shares me with his black male...
    nudistwifeandmother nudistwifeandmother 41-45, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Okay, I think at this point I have 7 fedoras for different occasions, but all my friends think that it's strange. Fedoras, to me, look amazing on men AND women alike, and I wish...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    So it's been a long time since I have had any talk about sex with my wife. So I want the perspective of a female refuser. How would u feel if u r husband brought up wanting to have...
    lauraCD805 lauraCD805 36-40, T 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    From what I'm reading here... The consensus is that quitting smoking sucks! There is nothing even mildly amusing right now and more poor kids are lucky the they are getting dressed...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 8 Responses Aug 20

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    An additional study released from the Journal on the American Medical Affiliation (JAMA) experienced equivalent outcomes, finding that more mature Gentlemen had a 29% boost in...
    Andrew558n8la3 Andrew558n8la3 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    Almost two months ago, I had THE moment when life hit me in the head with a brick. A rude inconsiderate comment the STBX made to something I said when he and I were having a...
    TheDreamyWoman TheDreamyWoman 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 29

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    I have a beautiful dog. He's a Gollie - half Golden, half Collie. He's my sidekick. He follows me everywhere. He loves me best. Should I walk him more? Yes. I am often...
    jmx46578 jmx46578 36-40, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    Im so fed up with my job. So frustrated that for now i Cant do anything about it. Ive been stuck in a place that i hate for so long that im so close to losing it.. Inconsiderate...
    eyeris2195 eyeris2195 18-21, F Aug 19

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    Ive been laying in bed for days just gorging and consuming food, feeling myself get fatter and fatter. My stomach expanding as I eat delicious food. I want to get bigger, I want to...
    chubbycutie330 chubbycutie330 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    i wish i had a fedora so i can be euphoric
    CURRYXBLAZE CURRYXBLAZE 18-21, M Aug 28

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    I'm so ******* fed up with people using me for stupid things and lying to my face. And the people who say, "I love you" are full of ****. I'm sorry but I'm just done with everyone...
    bruisexviolet bruisexviolet 16-17, F Sep 2

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    Love doing this stuff too myself, but having someone else do it for me? sounds like the ultimate in laziness x) aha so its just perfect. i just want too sit back on my bed one day...
    lozielaury lozielaury 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 3

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    I'm seriously fed up with my oldest older brother who I swear is trying to sabotage my good gig of feeding the dog and getting paid for it by my younger older brother. Its like he...
    JimmyKPage JimmyKPage 16-17, F Sep 4

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    Undecided whether to post this under this group or under the other one "I'm having random thoughts", I believe posted here the discussion shall be more thoughtful and sensitive...
    TheDreamyWoman TheDreamyWoman 36-40, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    You can cry all day long and pray, but that's not going to move God to work on your situation. He does hear your cry and undertand your needs, but that's not faith and faith is...
    Brandnue Brandnue 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    Hmm this week I've been adding stories to the experiences I've chosen since being a member on here. I've been adding each story one at a time.And so far it's been pretty straight...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Ever had someone whom you were so close with and suddenly seem to hate you overnight, and you here, have no idea what you've done? (Extremely long text ahead) Well, I've had it...
    yuuism yuuism 22-25, F Aug 22

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    Joshua603a4yn8 Joshua603a4yn8 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    The Maldives has twenty-six purely natural atolls and handful of island groups on isolated reefs, all of which have been divided into 20-a person administrative divisions (twenty...
    Rileyrr1962 Rileyrr1962 31-35, M Aug 24

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    Beacon Orthopaedics & Athletics Drugs was Started in 1996 as a multi-medical professional practice offering orthopaedic treatment for the Cincinnati Local community. The apply has...
    Andrew558n8la3 Andrew558n8la3 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I got married at 16 and my husband was 26, and there were a lot of people that said it would never last. Although most of my family were supportive I know behind my back there...
    Redneckmom1992 Redneckmom1992 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    At risk of being hated, I admit I know the refuser's side. I was a virgin when I married the first time, ignorant of what the marriage bed entailed. I was young and scared and dumb...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 6 Responses Aug 21

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    So I guess the question for me is, "How long does it take to turn an SM into a "normal" marriage?," or "How long does it take to recover from an SM, and make it better?" Of course...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 23 Responses Aug 27

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    "For Better or For Worse" I have been thinking about this particular vow. As someone who was brought up from birth in the church, I was always taught that divorce is not optional...
    EmbraceMe68 EmbraceMe68 41-45, F 9 Responses Sep 2

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    When I originally posted in April of 2011, I was living in a sexless marriage. I was confused, heartbroken and angry... What happened in the 3 years following has nearly destroyed...
    malms malms 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I've been putting off this update for a while. I cannot do so any longer. It's long and winding, so if you choose to dive in, prepare yourself. Curious things are happening in...
    Catonapillow Catonapillow 31-35, F 20 Responses 2 days ago

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