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I Am So Fed Up With My Marriage

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    So Boring

    i have been married 36 years i am 3 1/2 years older than my husband you would think he was ten years older than me . we live opposite a social club he goes over every night we havent been out socially other than there for about 3 months we went out tonight with his brother and...
    noriam193 noriam193 61-65, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    Searching For My Patricia

    In summer/autumn of 2009 I had a profound experience which turned my world upside down.  I had recently given blood and learnt how the black and Asian communities were three times more likely to need a kidney transplant than Caucasians.  I took upon myself to tell as many of...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M Feb 28, 2012

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    Why Do I Stay?

    He never can have a conversation with me without turning into how he wouldn't be married, it doesn't hurt me to do it I don't do anything else, me screwing someone else, my vacation I took, not doing enough for our boys or losing the house. I didn't ask him to marry me, he asked...
    lonelyrunawaytrain lonelyrunawaytrain 46-50, F 3 Responses May 1, 2013

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    What Do I Do??

    hi me and my wife met in the college 11 years back......and one day out of the blue i proposed her through a common friend and to which she initially said no but finally accepted. we started going around and then had a breakup(actually she dumped me). i was heart broken as i was...
    lovelost27 lovelost27 31-35 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    Thinking About Leaving

    I married a woman from another country. We dated for almost 2 years long distance. I would visit her 2 times a year and stay for extended periods of time. About one to three months each time. She came to the states and we married. I had reservations because, but I never listened...
    alwaysconfused77 alwaysconfused77 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2010

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    Ever since my wife's father committed suicide

    some 12 years ago our marriage has gone from bad to worse. After getting a nice place to live with a stunning garden, nothing I do is good enough! The wife suffered depression after her fathers death and was in a clinic for six months, Now after putting the damage to our flat...
    Kyberpass Kyberpass 51-55, M Nov 12, 2014

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    Today I cried because finally I realized the I

    no longer care! I have all that I could and I was holding somehow hoping that maybe my husband would realize what he has. I no longer need that validation! I know I'm a good person and have done all I could! I felt guilty for leaving and wanting to be happy. Not anymore! He can...
    Thundakatt Thundakatt 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 12, 2014

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    Fed Up & Trapped.......

    After 46 years and lots of ups and downs I've finally gotten smart enough to accept there was nothing, NOTHING I could have done to have made this marriage any better or worse. I finally accept that my husband is a total narcissist and the only one who can change him is him. He...
    lexxicat lexxicat 66-70, F 6 Responses Mar 22, 2010

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    Why Do I Bother?

    I should be so lucky as to HAVE a gun... I don't and wouldn't know how to use it if I did.   What would be comforting is to win the lottery and really get out of this marriage.  Fact is, I think I'll be ok financially on my own with the girls, but...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 12 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    Tired, Fed Up, Confused, And Lonely

    I met my husband in high school also, I felt like it was a dream come True because, we got married right after high school. He was my high school sweetheart also. But as soon as I ended up living ith him he changed. He got on myspace, tagged, facebook, zoosk, and any other social...
    Datsrite2 Datsrite2 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    How Is Marriage Supposed to Be?

    i met my husband in high school, and were high school sweet hearts.. he join the military for 4 yrs yet during the first year when i was 19 i went to my first party and got messed up where i was taking advantage and since that time i confessed to my husband.. lost respect, trust...
    steph7894 steph7894 22-25 8 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Have Already Divorced You Emotionally

    I love my husband. But it is clear that our marriage is just not going to work. My husband is 16 years older than me. I work full time and he stays home. We have 3 kids together. He is a great man, father. But some where down the line we just lost it. We always fight over the...
    SexyAlize SexyAlize 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    Going on 11 years and

    if it weren't for my kids, I would have left along time ago. For the most part we get along but that's only because I don't say anything about his drinking until 2am, sleeping all day, doesn't lift a finger around the house, sits in another room with his dogs and watches tv. I...
    ColoradoGirl4 ColoradoGirl4 36-40, F 10 Responses Jan 12, 2014

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    Me and my boyfriend have been togethor for 2 years now. We have a blended famity, me with my 4 kids to a previous marriage and him to a previous relationship. The mother to his...
    Bevynn11 Bevynn11 31-35, F 25 mins ago

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    24yrs of marriage , 2 great kids. Great lifestyle. Both in decent jobs. Wife and I are best buddies. A man couldn't ask for anything more! Yet in our room we haven't had sex for...
    Jdub49 Jdub49 46-50, M 2 hrs ago

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    So ecstatic to announce to all my friends on here Lue and I are ENGAGED!! So yesterday after going to the movies with my best friend I arrive home to find Lue home she tells me she...
    KylieeBear KylieeBear 22-25, F 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I believe in forever, but I don't believe marriage should be a necessity for it.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 7 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    So, how do people actually know when their marriage is failing or about to crumble apart? I've asked a few close friends and this is what I came up with and I added a few of my...
    L7guy L7guy 36-40, M 17 hrs ago

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    I support gay marriage because I think everyone should get married. Love is universal, there is no difference. I am Italian. Three days ago I read on an article that Italy is the...
    disappeared88 disappeared88 26-30, F 5 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Marriage can be wonderful, exciting, and a lot of work. When one party refuses to participate in the maintenance of the union, it becomes just a piece of paper.
    Olivia1962 Olivia1962 51-55, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Dianecc11 Dianecc11 26-30, F 20 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Dianecc11 Dianecc11 26-30, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    We entered into Marriage believing it was for ever and intend to keep it that way!
    littlescamp littlescamp 41-45, F 20 hrs ago

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    And now it is in the United States. Marriage is a lay institution. The primary interest is that of society, not individuals, and even less that of the salvation of Christian...
    tyrihans45 tyrihans45 66-70, M 1 day ago

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    I Reunited With My First Love I fell in love with my neighbour when I was 15 and he was 19. We had grown up together in the same neighborhood all our lives but never thought we...
    yellowbuttercup yellowbuttercup 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    What Is Up With Sexless Marriages? One of the largest groups on EP is "I live in a sexless marriage" I do not understand how people can be "married" and one of them is not meeting...
    janessa1 janessa1 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    JUDGE TO BOBBY JINDAL: "DON'T YOU GET THAT THIS MARRIAGE DEBATE IS OVER?" The Rude Pundit July 2, 2015 Perhaps, at the end of a farcical situation, it's appropriate that a judge...
    goodogstay goodogstay 46-50, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Maulana Tariq Jameel is the great scholar of Islam . His bayan are filled with Islamic and Quranic teachings and his voice left an everlasting impact on the hearts of people. In...
    ShadowofLove ShadowofLove 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    You know what I love about liberals? They're so damn predictable. How many of you suspected that gay "marriage" was only the first strain of the marriage redefinition orchestra...
    Isayoldchap Isayoldchap 16-17, M 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    ANTI-GAY MARRIAGE TEXAS ATTORNEY GENERAL COULD BE FACING LIFE IN PRISON ON FIRST-DEGREE FELONY CHARGES Forward Progressive July 1, 2015 Texas Attorney General Ken Paxton told...
    goodogstay goodogstay 46-50, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    i dont understand women now days ,why WOULDENT you want to make sure the stew is spread ,pillows are fluffed and the iron is HOT to the touch? i know my place AND I LOVE IT...
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I posted something up before saying I was against gay marriage, maybe I was a bit unclear. Someone started praising me all "Hurrah and gung ho, let's revel in our homophobia...
    CaptainHoof CaptainHoof 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    If being against gay marriage is homophobic, then that means a substantial number of gays themselves are homophobes. Here, Jonathan Soroff explains why some gays, including him...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/opposing-gay-marriage-may-demand-civil-disobedience-louisiana-bishop?utm_source=LifeSiteNews.com+Daily+Newsletter&utm_campaign=650b6abe03...
    jopava jopava 56-60, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Being fed is the best, it's just like eating but it takes even less effort!
    kernkraft7 kernkraft7 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I find it extremely ironic that some Republicans are using their freedom of religion to oppress a group of American citizens. Wasn't part of founding America (239 almost 240 years...
    SapphicMinion SapphicMinion 26-30, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    A message for Soniador1963 and people like him. You can misrepresent all I say, you can lie about me insulting one of your friends and you can block me for pointing out your...
    desopaws desopaws 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    It is time for another American Revolution to overthrow oppressors Today’s US Supreme Court ruling against the understanding for millennia that marriage can naturally only be...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/gay-marriage-decision-opens-the-door-to-polygamy-and-religious-persecution?utm_source=LifeSiteNews.com+Daily+Newsletter&utm_campaign=11d076770f...
    jopava jopava 56-60, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    congratulations though the bad thing is i think the fight has just begun. I'm afraid its going to be like intergration when it comes to the states allowing it cause marriage laws...
    sassygirl15 sassygirl15 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Supreme Court rules in favor of same-sex marriagePosted: Jun 26, 2015 7:05 AM PDTBy Magdalena KrajewskiCONNECTWASHINGTON (AP) — The Supreme Court declared Friday that same...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 51-55, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    No I'm Not, I have a question. Can one of you anti gay Christians who claims that the Bible states gay marriage is wrong (even though it doesn't) explain to me what is so natural...
    desopaws desopaws 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24

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    Here are some songs I listen to when I'm feeling down about my sexless marriage: No Sugar Tonight by the Guess Who One Step Up And Two Steps Back by Bruce Springsteen I Want You...