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I Am So Fed Up With My Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 93 People

    What Do I Do??

    hi me and my wife met in the college 11 years back......and one day out of the blue i proposed her through a common friend and to which she initially said no but finally accepted. we started going around and then had a breakup(actually she dumped me). i was heart broken as i was...
    lovelost27 lovelost27 31-35 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    Thinking About Leaving

    I married a woman from another country. We dated for almost 2 years long distance. I would visit her 2 times a year and stay for extended periods of time. About one to three months each time. She came to the states and we married. I had reservations because, but I never listened...
    alwaysconfused77 alwaysconfused77 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2010

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    Today I cried because finally I realized the I

    no longer care! I have all that I could and I was holding somehow hoping that maybe my husband would realize what he has. I no longer need that validation! I know I'm a good person and have done all I could! I felt guilty for leaving and wanting to be happy. Not anymore! He can...
    Thundakatt Thundakatt 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    Dirty Movies And Lies

    When I got married there was already troubles. I loved her. Still do. NOTHING has changed in those regards. I still think she is sexy, funny, and smart. But I watched porn0graphy, she caught me and swore I'd never look at it again. I did. I got caught and swore, got caught...
    UgOlLi UgOlLi 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    Why Do I Bother?

    I should be so lucky as to HAVE a gun... I don't and wouldn't know how to use it if I did.   What would be comforting is to win the lottery and really get out of this marriage.  Fact is, I think I'll be ok financially on my own with the girls, but...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 13 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    Going on 11 years and

    if it weren't for my kids, I would have left along time ago. For the most part we get along but that's only because I don't say anything about his drinking until 2am, sleeping all day, doesn't lift a finger around the house, sits in another room with his dogs and watches tv. I...
    ColoradoGirl4 ColoradoGirl4 36-40, F 11 Responses Jan 12

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    So Boring

    i have been married 36 years i am 3 1/2 years older than my husband you would think he was ten years older than me . we live opposite a social club he goes over every night we havent been out socially other than there for about 3 months we went out tonight with his brother and...
    noriam193 noriam193 61-65, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    Tired, Fed Up, Confused, And Lonely

    I met my husband in high school also, I felt like it was a dream come True because, we got married right after high school. He was my high school sweetheart also. But as soon as I ended up living ith him he changed. He got on myspace, tagged, facebook, zoosk, and any other social...
    Datsrite2 Datsrite2 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Have Already Divorced You Emotionally

    I love my husband. But it is clear that our marriage is just not going to work. My husband is 16 years older than me. I work full time and he stays home. We have 3 kids together. He is a great man, father. But some where down the line we just lost it. We always fight over the...
    SexyAlize SexyAlize 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    Searching For My Patricia

    In summer/autumn of 2009 I had a profound experience which turned my world upside down.  I had recently given blood and learnt how the black and Asian communities were three times more likely to need a kidney transplant than Caucasians.  I took upon myself to tell as many of...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M Feb 28, 2012

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    How Is Marriage Supposed to Be?

    i met my husband in high school, and were high school sweet hearts.. he join the military for 4 yrs yet during the first year when i was 19 i went to my first party and got messed up where i was taking advantage and since that time i confessed to my husband.. lost respect, trust...
    steph7894 steph7894 22-25 9 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Fed Up & Trapped.......

    After 46 years and lots of ups and downs I've finally gotten smart enough to accept there was nothing, NOTHING I could have done to have made this marriage any better or worse. I finally accept that my husband is a total narcissist and the only one who can change him is him. He...
    lexxicat lexxicat 66-70, F 6 Responses Mar 22, 2010

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    Why Do I Stay?

    He never can have a conversation with me without turning into how he wouldn't be married, it doesn't hurt me to do it I don't do anything else, me screwing someone else, my vacation I took, not doing enough for our boys or losing the house. I didn't ask him to marry me, he asked...
    lonelyrunawaytrain lonelyrunawaytrain 46-50, F 3 Responses May 1, 2013

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    klt2000 klt2000 66-70, M Oct 7

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    When I get married I definitely want to be the wife who keeps herself looking good for her husband. My biggest fear is letting myself go... I only want one child after a few years...
    denisestephanie denisestephanie 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi good morning. I can sympathize with your feelings. In my own marriage after 25 years. There was no more sex. For two years. It began to build the wall in between us. My wife at...
    sunney55 sunney55 46-50, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I am trying to come to terms with everything. My husband wants a sexless marriage. Why? Because he feels sex interferes with his spiritual progress. I have tried talking to him...
    mairia mairia 26-30, F 14 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Mom and Dad are what my marriage would simply be like (I wish). Marriage is harder than I thought, there were ups and downs during my parents' marriage. But what I saw at them, how...
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    Our belated 20th Anniversary trip to New England was exactly what we needed to help us reconnect. Despite having a Nor'easter begin hitting the area on second full day, we had a...
    lonelyguy375 lonelyguy375 46-50, M 7 hrs ago

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    politics of Sri Lanka is democratic in nature, exactly where the President of Sri Lanka is the two The pinnacle of condition and The pinnacle of the government. The...
    Jewelgzr Jewelgzr 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    I think that the US Supreme Court's refusal yesterday to grant certiorari in any of the cases in which the Federal Courts of Appeals have concluded that there is a constitutional...
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 7

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    Most every week state bans on same sex marriage are rejected by the federal courts. Eventually the US Supreme Court will accept a case and allow marriage for all. However, we...
    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M Oct 14

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    37 female in a sexless marriage. I feel too young to be going through this
    sexyingrey sexyingrey 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    What would be your 2nd complaint in your marriage after the the lack of sex/intimacy? As some are abusive marriages, some lonely, some seem decent except for no sex, some fed up...
    celtusa celtusa 46-50, M 28 Responses Sep 26

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    I find I can't share with many people and I just want to shout here. I just got married in 1 month. I been with my hubby for 7 years, before we got married. I hope to get married...
    depressrach depressrach 31-35, F 5 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Hubby and I off to a halloween party then a hotel. I'm taking my toys and expecting to play, but since he's become interested and I've become the refuser I'm just not into it. I...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I can't say it's love. But I have such deep feelings for another man. I've been married for about 2 years to someone I dated in high school. I would say we have a decent marriage...
    huckingfot huckingfot 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Tried christiancafe. Got rejections for being too young. Or just got ignored. Guys that seemed ok ignored me as well or haven't been online in a long time. Then my trial expired...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45, T 1 Response Oct 1

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    It's getting worse. Now during the stupid arguing, I just look at him and say that it's pointless for me to talk to him. I'm just fed up with all of it. We are supposed to be...
    Sweetie64 Sweetie64 46-50, F 16 Responses Oct 6

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    Day 2 I went to work, she had the day off. Tried to open communications through kind texts, usually she's texting me so it seemed like an avenue while I was at work to keep lines...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 5 Responses Oct 15

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    Still nothing. Quite a lot of views. Think my profile is ok. No one is interested though. This is on Christian and non Christian sites. I recently started back up again. I had been...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45, T 1 Response Oct 7

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    Rediscovering Sex in a Sexless Marriage: Rediscovering sex - This is where things are at now. For those who are reading my story for the first time let me point out my marriage...
    Fireflyz26 Fireflyz26 31-35, F 13 Responses Oct 2

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    THE TRUTH BEHIND THESE KINDS OF MARRIAGES.Last week, I wrote an article for my blog titled: Six Reasons That Your Marriage Will Fail. One of the areas that I highlighted was...
    MarredMind MarredMind 36-40, F 14 Responses Oct 15

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    Because we need help. We have coexisted so poorly with our planet, fellow species, and even our own. Our priories and way of life is so backwards. And yes we are the only species...
    Lovenlight111 Lovenlight111 22-25, F Oct 2

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    Today I decided to wear a cute skirt with my new sandals, and just happened that the FEDEX guy came to deliver a package that required a signature.Since I had to receive that...
    joselitos joselitos 41-45, M 11 Responses Oct 2

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    Am so frustrated and fed up. I want to write Desktop GUI Application in Java but I don't know how to implement my knowledge in it. I am 43, in business and can't go to training...
    Raajan71 Raajan71 41-45, M Oct 7

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    I am not pleasing anyone and don't care about a lot of things anymore. I am fed up with my family, with my future. I want to live my life the way I want but I am sure there will be...
    YongTauFoo YongTauFoo 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want to be fed and fattened up against my will, then teased about how fat I've gotten. Do anything you need to make sure I understand how much of a disgusting pig I've been.
    Poolasiray Poolasiray 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Update. Last time I posted I was overwhelmed at how many responses I had. Some understood my struggle and some completely didn't get it. Reading it now I was pretty upset writing...
    2Blossom 2Blossom 46-50, F 15 Responses Sep 27

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    My dad sent me this months ago when I told him I want to marry my boyfriend. I think this is fabulous advice and something refusing spouses have either forgotten or never learned...
    papaya6 papaya6 22-25, F 15 Responses Oct 3

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    There’s a number of reasons why people live in sexless marriages, every married couple’s situation is different; you could talk to fifteen different couples and hear fifteen...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 7 Responses Oct 17

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    My wife's best friend is divorcing her husband, who is one of my good friends. She said things were bad for a while, and somehow it escalated past the point of therapy. They never...
    7Sparrows 7Sparrows 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 27

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    Well I did it. I took everyones advice in ILIASM, and I consulted an attorney in the event that I may need to pull the parachute on my marriage. Thank you Bazaar for hammering this...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 8

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    So, I've posted previously, but its a been a long time. I've been married over 11 years, the vast majority of which which have been sexless. I've spoken to my wife countless times...
    Xaeth Xaeth 36-40, M 22 Responses Oct 8

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    I am a doctor and went through some of the experiences on this site.... Felt like i should also share some of my experiences which i faced in my life.... Yes Doctors are not immune...
    saiprasadbhavsar saiprasadbhavsar 26-30, M Oct 9

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    I feel very sad each time I read people talking bad abour marriage...comparing it to a prison...love cemetery...not knowing why they should marry...wanting to be eternal lovers...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 10 Responses Oct 10

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    Slaying Dragons: A Sleepless Journey Into Oppositeland… Having spent over a year wandering in Oppositeland, the refuge for escapees from a sexless marriage, I am experiencing...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 15 Responses Oct 11

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    To my fellow suffers I have a question. Let me first say that I know I'm an idiot. I married my first wife when I was 26 y.o.a. and I had some red flags but I thought I could fix...
    Nick5211 Nick5211 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 11