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I Am So Fed Up With My Marriage

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    What Do I Do??

    hi me and my wife met in the college 11 years back......and one day out of the blue i proposed her through a common friend and to which she initially said no but finally accepted. we started going around and then had a breakup(actually she dumped me). i was heart broken as i was...
    lovelost27 lovelost27 31-35 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    Going on 11 years and

    if it weren't for my kids, I would have left along time ago. For the most part we get along but that's only because I don't say anything about his drinking until 2am, sleeping all day, doesn't lift a finger around the house, sits in another room with his dogs and watches tv. I...
    ColoradoGirl4 ColoradoGirl4 36-40, F 11 Responses Jan 12

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    Searching For My Patricia

    In summer/autumn of 2009 I had a profound experience which turned my world upside down.  I had recently given blood and learnt how the black and Asian communities were three times more likely to need a kidney transplant than Caucasians.  I took upon myself to tell as many of...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M Feb 28, 2012

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    Why Do I Bother?

    I should be so lucky as to HAVE a gun... I don't and wouldn't know how to use it if I did.   What would be comforting is to win the lottery and really get out of this marriage.  Fact is, I think I'll be ok financially on my own with the girls, but...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 13 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    Thinking About Leaving

    I married a woman from another country. We dated for almost 2 years long distance. I would visit her 2 times a year and stay for extended periods of time. About one to three months each time. She came to the states and we married. I had reservations because, but I never listened...
    alwaysconfused77 alwaysconfused77 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2010

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    Have Already Divorced You Emotionally

    I love my husband. But it is clear that our marriage is just not going to work. My husband is 16 years older than me. I work full time and he stays home. We have 3 kids together. He is a great man, father. But some where down the line we just lost it. We always fight over the...
    SexyAlize SexyAlize 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    Why Do I Stay?

    He never can have a conversation with me without turning into how he wouldn't be married, it doesn't hurt me to do it I don't do anything else, me screwing someone else, my vacation I took, not doing enough for our boys or losing the house. I didn't ask him to marry me, he asked...
    lonelyrunawaytrain lonelyrunawaytrain 46-50, F 3 Responses May 1, 2013

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    Fed Up & Trapped.......

    After 46 years and lots of ups and downs I've finally gotten smart enough to accept there was nothing, NOTHING I could have done to have made this marriage any better or worse. I finally accept that my husband is a total narcissist and the only one who can change him is him. He...
    lexxicat lexxicat 66-70, F 6 Responses Mar 22, 2010

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    How Is Marriage Supposed to Be?

    i met my husband in high school, and were high school sweet hearts.. he join the military for 4 yrs yet during the first year when i was 19 i went to my first party and got messed up where i was taking advantage and since that time i confessed to my husband.. lost respect, trust...
    steph7894 steph7894 22-25 9 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Dirty Movies And Lies

    When I got married there was already troubles. I loved her. Still do. NOTHING has changed in those regards. I still think she is sexy, funny, and smart. But I watched porn0graphy, she caught me and swore I'd never look at it again. I did. I got caught and swore, got caught...
    UgOlLi UgOlLi 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    Tired, Fed Up, Confused, And Lonely

    I met my husband in high school also, I felt like it was a dream come True because, we got married right after high school. He was my high school sweetheart also. But as soon as I ended up living ith him he changed. He got on myspace, tagged, facebook, zoosk, and any other social...
    Datsrite2 Datsrite2 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    So Boring

    i have been married 36 years i am 3 1/2 years older than my husband you would think he was ten years older than me . we live opposite a social club he goes over every night we havent been out socially other than there for about 3 months we went out tonight with his brother and...
    noriam193 noriam193 61-65, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    Today I cried because finally I realized the I

    no longer care! I have all that I could and I was holding somehow hoping that maybe my husband would realize what he has. I no longer need that validation! I know I'm a good person and have done all I could! I felt guilty for leaving and wanting to be happy. Not anymore! He can...
    Thundakatt Thundakatt 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    Related Experiences

    There are truths behind these funny quotes....To the singles, would you still wanna take the plunge on marriage? ***I never married because there was no need. I have three pets at...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    Hi, I'm new here and thought I would reach out and share my story. I found EP from an article on the website when I was looking up sexless marriage. I signed up to read the...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 15 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I have been married for 8 years now and my wife and I have a beautiful 4 year old daughter who we both cherish. My wife is a kind, loving woman who loves me and our daughter and...
    Jeremy0121 Jeremy0121 31-35, M 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Well the day finally came….and went. I did the deed and asked for a divorce. As expected she was upset. I couldn’t blame her. Her whole world was going to change. She...
    beachlivin04 beachlivin04 41-45, M 38 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    My birthday is next week. 31. I'm a bit sad. I feel like I'm aging too quickly. I'm a mess- i'm getting divorced, I'm broke (though now I do have a job), I don't know if stbx or my...
    braverthanithink braverthanithink 26-30, F 16 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Me, myself and my parents marriage... I asked my wife to go to a shrink with me about 3 years ago. she did not refuse the idea, but she ways always too busy, or tired or had a...
    frozenhere frozenhere 31-35, M 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Reading this may help those in sexless marriages figure out what they want to do. If you learned now that you were dying, what would you regret? "A Nurse Asked Dying Patients What...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 8 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Is there anyone here that accepts their sexless marriage? I've been sexless for almost 10 years now! It's been a excrutiating battle up until a few years ago when I just gave up...
    jenniferdarling jenniferdarling 46-50, F 13 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Bear with me because this may seem off topic, but it isn't. I've been recently thinking about death. Yesterday, my post sexless marriage lover had to put his beloved dog of 14...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 13 Responses Aug 21

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    I've been married for nearly 7 years now and have enjoyed many intimate moments with my wife. A lot of that has changed in the last two years. Sex isn't something that happens...
    absalom123 absalom123 26-30 19 Responses 1 day ago

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    A few of my white girlfriends are involved in an interracial marriage. They all have kids by a black man as I do. Other white girlfriends are dating black men and two of them are...
    nudistwifeandmother nudistwifeandmother 41-45, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Okay, I think at this point I have 7 fedoras for different occasions, but all my friends think that it's strange. Fedoras, to me, look amazing on men AND women alike, and I wish...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    Let me begin with introducing myself as a decent Gujarati Jain good looking guy from mumbai whoz looking for a life partner. I am choosing this platform to do so, as the...
    rshah1987 rshah1987 22-25 8 hrs ago

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    Let me begin with introducing myself as a decent Gujarati Jain good looking guy from mumbai whoz looking for a life partner. I am choosing this platform to do so, as the...
    rshah1987 rshah1987 22-25 8 hrs ago

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    Alright. So I posted my first "experience" on the Christian Domestic Discipline group so I would guess that most of the people who see this dont know that my husband and I are just...
    HisBabyGirl64 HisBabyGirl64 18-21, F 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Last night my husband asked me if we could try again. He wants to start over and get to know each other again, romantically and physically. He reminisced the first time he saw...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I have been with my husband for 14 years married for 9. Things have never been smooth but for the past couple of years they have got really bad. We have 6 kids but he thinks the...
    sarahjayne1980 sarahjayne1980 31-35, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    there i said it... this marriage feels more like a burden with every passing day. the urge to get out keeps getting stronger. i don't want this anymore ! he's far too nice and i...
    Mysticme Mysticme 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    From what I'm reading here... The consensus is that quitting smoking sucks! There is nothing even mildly amusing right now and more poor kids are lucky the they are getting dressed...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 8 Responses Aug 20

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    An additional study released from the Journal on the American Medical Affiliation (JAMA) experienced equivalent outcomes, finding that more mature Gentlemen had a 29% boost in...
    Andrew558n8la3 Andrew558n8la3 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    Almost two months ago, I had THE moment when life hit me in the head with a brick. A rude inconsiderate comment the STBX made to something I said when he and I were having a...
    TheDreamyWoman TheDreamyWoman 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 29

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    I have a beautiful dog. He's a Gollie - half Golden, half Collie. He's my sidekick. He follows me everywhere. He loves me best. Should I walk him more? Yes. I am often...
    jmx46578 jmx46578 36-40, F 11 Responses Sep 10

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    Think irrespective of gender bias, and more in proximity to your most trusted faiths! That relished from the bestest (exceptions apply) if not acknowledged makes one orphaned of...
    Elitevenkat8kashyap Elitevenkat8kashyap 36-40, M 20 hrs ago

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    my birthday. Got an awkward half hug...oh and right before going to sleep a pat on my shoulder with a "happy birthday" and "gnite"... what the hell
    nahright09 nahright09 31-35, M 11 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Last week, we discussed the fact that he hadn't "found the time" to go to the doctor to get answers for his lack of libido. He made me a promise 4 years ago that he would take care...
    beentoolongLily beentoolongLily 46-50, F 9 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Do these character disturbed people really think we are stupid? Three and a half years after my daughter was born, I found 30 pics of me giving birth to our daughter, posted...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 5 Responses 46 mins ago

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    Im so fed up with my job. So frustrated that for now i Cant do anything about it. Ive been stuck in a place that i hate for so long that im so close to losing it.. Inconsiderate...
    eyeris2195 eyeris2195 18-21, F Aug 19

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    Ive been laying in bed for days just gorging and consuming food, feeling myself get fatter and fatter. My stomach expanding as I eat delicious food. I want to get bigger, I want to...
    chubbycutie330 chubbycutie330 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    i wish i had a fedora so i can be euphoric
    CURRYXBLAZE CURRYXBLAZE 18-21, M Aug 28

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    I'm so ******* fed up with people using me for stupid things and lying to my face. And the people who say, "I love you" are full of ****. I'm sorry but I'm just done with everyone...
    bruisexviolet bruisexviolet 16-17, F Sep 2

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    Love doing this stuff too myself, but having someone else do it for me? sounds like the ultimate in laziness x) aha so its just perfect. i just want too sit back on my bed one day...
    lozielaury lozielaury 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 3

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    I'm seriously fed up with my oldest older brother who I swear is trying to sabotage my good gig of feeding the dog and getting paid for it by my younger older brother. Its like he...
    JimmyKPage JimmyKPage 16-17, F Sep 4

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    Undecided whether to post this under this group or under the other one "I'm having random thoughts", I believe posted here the discussion shall be more thoughtful and sensitive...
    TheDreamyWoman TheDreamyWoman 36-40, F 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    Why can't he understand that I am fed up and don't want to be with him. Break up is break up so leave me alone dude.
    feelmywriting feelmywriting 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm fed up with finding someone All the short guys keep coming to me. I don't like short guys I'm about to be 5'10 I wear heels 5inches I don't feel like bending down to kiss my...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 day ago

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