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I Am So Fed Up With My Marriage

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    Why Do I Bother? - I should be so lucky as to HAVE a gun... I don't and wouldn't know how to use it if I did.   What would be comforting is to win the lottery...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 13 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    Thinking About Leaving - I married a woman from another country. We dated for almost 2 years long distance. I would visit her 2 times a year and stay for extended periods of time...
    alwaysconfused77 alwaysconfused77 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2010

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    So Boring - i have been married 36 years i am 3 1/2 years older than my husband you would think he was ten years older than me . we live opposite a social club he goes over every...
    noriam193 noriam193 61-65, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    How Is Marriage Supposed to Be? - i met my husband in high school, and were high school sweet hearts.. he join the military for 4 yrs yet during the first year when i was 19 i went...
    steph7894 steph7894 22-25 9 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Going on 11 years and if it weren't for my kids, I would have left along time ago. For the most part we get along but that's only because I don't say anything about his drinking...
    ColoradoGirl4 ColoradoGirl4 36-40, F 12 Responses Jan 12

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    Why Do I Stay? - He never can have a conversation with me without turning into how he wouldn't be married, it doesn't hurt me to do it I don't do anything else, me screwing someone...
    lonelyrunawaytrain lonelyrunawaytrain 46-50, F 3 Responses May 1, 2013

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    Have Already Divorced You Emotionally - I love my husband. But it is clear that our marriage is just not going to work. My husband is 16 years older than me. I work full time and...
    SexyAlize SexyAlize 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    Searching For My Patricia - In summer/autumn of 2009 I had a profound experience which turned my world upside down.  I had recently given blood and learnt how the black and Asian...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M Feb 28, 2012

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    The Best Gift You Can Give Me Is To Let Me Go!! - I want so desperately for my husband to tell me he wants a divorce I honestly think I would do a happy dance. I want to be free...
    inthedark2012 inthedark2012 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    What Do I Do?? - hi me and my wife met in the college 11 years back......and one day out of the blue i proposed her through a common friend and to which she initially said no but...
    lovelost27 lovelost27 31-35 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    Tired, Fed Up, Confused, And Lonely - I met my husband in high school also, I felt like it was a dream come True because, we got married right after high school. He was my high...
    Datsrite2 Datsrite2 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Fed Up & Trapped....... - After 46 years and lots of ups and downs I've finally gotten smart enough to accept there was nothing, NOTHING I could have done to have made this...
    lexxicat lexxicat 66-70, F 6 Responses Mar 22, 2010

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    Dirty Movies And Lies - When I got married there was already troubles. I loved her. Still do. NOTHING has changed in those regards. I still think she is sexy, funny, and smart...
    UgOlLi UgOlLi 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    I finally lined up both a marriage counselor (to help us sort out whether or not our marriage is toast) and an individual therapist (to help me get my **** together) and now the...
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    I met him 36 years ago, he was 17, I was 15. We dated a couple of years and broke up, went our separate ways. I got married when I was 27, had 2 kids. After 22 years of marriage...
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    My time has come. Court is tomorrow. Hopefully it is the last court date and I get my divorce. It is bittersweet. I had such hopes. I took my vows seriously. For better or worse...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 36-40, F 19 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. During our first few months of marriage, i found out that he was being unfaithful to me with someone that he had been seeing...
    poppyjane poppyjane 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Anyone know of any sexless marriage conventions?
    SheldonJPlankton SheldonJPlankton 41-45, M 18 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I am in A DD marriage . But i am no longer aloud to write about it . My husband said i am to emotion of a person to be talking about such a private part of my life . and i get to...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F 52 mins ago

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    I'm here to find someone to share my life with. Looking forward to settle with a girl (lesbian or asexual) whom I can connect emotionally and intellectually with. I am attracted to...
    taxo taxo 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    ILIASM a year and some change later - chasing whys, and some navel-gazing When the man and I had our first reset after I joined ILIASM, I was all happy and optimistic, saying...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 17 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Sophisticated young woman with artistic sympathies seeks the cultured and the cosmopolitan. I am an optimistic, gregarious and chic individual in my twenties who appreciates the...
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    Sophisticated young woman with artistic sympathies seeks the cultured and the cosmopolitan. I am an optimistic, gregarious and chic individual in my twenties who appreciates the...
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    attorneycriminal attorneycriminal 41-45, M 1 day ago

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    He's married and far away from me. How I got in this situation ? I have no idea, all I know is it has to end somehow, both for me and for him. He's the most wonderful person I have...
    Yukino10 Yukino10 31-35, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    How would u know if ur husband is cheating on u. It is the thing that I scare all the time to be cheated without being aware of that :(
    desertflower1 desertflower1 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    My husband and I decided to have a break for a month he now tells me he needs more time as a part of him wants me to move on yet the other doesn't want me to. He says he cares very...
    sfjf sfjf 36-40, F 34 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I live in MA and want the passion and sex missing from my marriage. I've had 2 affairs before and would like another. I'd be interested in hearing from any married MA women...
    zooquarium zooquarium 46-50, M 30 mins ago

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    When I was little I imagined myself as the best mom, fun creative, spending every moment with my children and, in addition, being the best wife with a marriage that was bullet...
    faith1807 faith1807 41-45, F Mar 23

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    Don't know what to think... Yesterday my hubby came home from work early saying he was fed up. He was acting all weird. He knows we are living paycheck to paycheck so why he...
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 28

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    So, I'm not fed up with my roommates per se, rather I'm fed up with having to live with roommates. Ever since splitting up with my boyfriend, I had to find a new place to live so...
    massagechick85 massagechick85 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I am in love with my best friend, let's call him Adam, but I think I am falling for my friend, who we'll call Wes. I've been in love with Adam for two years and then Wes came along...
    highfidelity970 highfidelity970 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    (Another old story of mine from my previous profile. I feel it's an important topic and it's something that's close to my heart) Gay Marriage I am fully in support of gay...
    PoeticTorture PoeticTorture 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    I would love to be force fed and watch as my belly bulges to new levels of fatness, and grow until all I can do is eat more and more and weigh 2000 pounds
    superfat400j superfat400j 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have written on here once before, about a comment my husband had made awhile ago about our marriage. Now, within a short week, everything has completely crumbled. First let me...
    mbackman678 mbackman678 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    The rubble of our marriage I try not to look I try to change my focus to what else gives me happiness my children my friends my home my community I cannot help...
    Bobbie71 Bobbie71 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 24

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    Make that, that I used to live in a marriage that was becoming a sexless marriage. Today would have been our second anniversary. The story is complicated, but to make it short, she...
    soundtrackforantarctica soundtrackforantarctica 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 25

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    I don't believe in gay marriage. I believe in marriage. And I think that's between any two people that love each other. Man and man. Woman and man. Woman and woman. Or whatever you...
    emilyv97 emilyv97 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    the reasons why i dont want to do anything sexual before marriage : reason number 1 : what if i had sex with my girl friend before marriage , and after few days i met with...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Normal.... There are many stories on here about after leaving marriages and having normal relationships. Well I haven't left my marriage yet. I have talked to a lawyer and...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 12 Responses 6 days ago

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    Rules of Engagement - A few new members have posted in this forum recently, and while I've only been a member for few weeks, I thought I'd share my opinion on the purpose of this...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 15 Responses Mar 20

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    Two weeks ago, I shared what I thought would be my current status for awhile. Life being what it is - it has thrown me into a crazy roller coaster loop once again. The good news...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 21 Responses Mar 28

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    Before and After … Nearing 8 months after my separation, I reflect on the emotional desert I have called my marriage. During those years, I was starved for a smile or a hug. A...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 6

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    Thought this was worth a read. Not applicable to all but still interesting. A lack of sexual interest in women is a big topic Fotolia_49866286_XS Peter and Andrea are teachers...
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    ilhasol ilhasol 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I had an incredible night. I have to share my experience. I was raised by my Grandmother, who lived in a sexless marriage. My Grandfather was a mean, cold, loveless husband. He...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 41-45, F 11 Responses Mar 25

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    So yesterday we saw a marriage councillor. We haddn't been for a few years since before the kids came along. I was really hoping that she was going to be able to help my husband...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 3