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I Am So Fed Up With My Marriage

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    Going on 11 years and

    if it weren't for my kids, I would have left along time ago. For the most part we get along but that's only because I don't say anything about his drinking until 2am, sleeping all day, doesn't lift a finger around the house, sits in another room with his dogs and watches tv. I...
    ColoradoGirl4 ColoradoGirl4 36-40, F 10 Responses Jan 12, 2014

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    Ever since my wife's father committed suicide

    some 12 years ago our marriage has gone from bad to worse. After getting a nice place to live with a stunning garden, nothing I do is good enough! The wife suffered depression after her fathers death and was in a clinic for six months, Now after putting the damage to our flat...
    Kyberpass Kyberpass 51-55, M Nov 12, 2014

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    Thinking About Leaving

    I married a woman from another country. We dated for almost 2 years long distance. I would visit her 2 times a year and stay for extended periods of time. About one to three months each time. She came to the states and we married. I had reservations because, but I never listened...
    alwaysconfused77 alwaysconfused77 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2010

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    So Boring

    i have been married 36 years i am 3 1/2 years older than my husband you would think he was ten years older than me . we live opposite a social club he goes over every night we havent been out socially other than there for about 3 months we went out tonight with his brother and...
    noriam193 noriam193 61-65, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    Searching For My Patricia

    In summer/autumn of 2009 I had a profound experience which turned my world upside down.  I had recently given blood and learnt how the black and Asian communities were three times more likely to need a kidney transplant than Caucasians.  I took upon myself to tell as many of...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M Feb 28, 2012

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    How Is Marriage Supposed to Be?

    i met my husband in high school, and were high school sweet hearts.. he join the military for 4 yrs yet during the first year when i was 19 i went to my first party and got messed up where i was taking advantage and since that time i confessed to my husband.. lost respect, trust...
    steph7894 steph7894 22-25 8 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Why Do I Bother?

    I should be so lucky as to HAVE a gun... I don't and wouldn't know how to use it if I did.   What would be comforting is to win the lottery and really get out of this marriage.  Fact is, I think I'll be ok financially on my own with the girls, but...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 12 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    Have Already Divorced You Emotionally

    I love my husband. But it is clear that our marriage is just not going to work. My husband is 16 years older than me. I work full time and he stays home. We have 3 kids together. He is a great man, father. But some where down the line we just lost it. We always fight over the...
    SexyAlize SexyAlize 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    Fed Up & Trapped.......

    After 46 years and lots of ups and downs I've finally gotten smart enough to accept there was nothing, NOTHING I could have done to have made this marriage any better or worse. I finally accept that my husband is a total narcissist and the only one who can change him is him. He...
    lexxicat lexxicat 66-70, F 6 Responses Mar 22, 2010

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    Tired, Fed Up, Confused, And Lonely

    I met my husband in high school also, I felt like it was a dream come True because, we got married right after high school. He was my high school sweetheart also. But as soon as I ended up living ith him he changed. He got on myspace, tagged, facebook, zoosk, and any other social...
    Datsrite2 Datsrite2 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Today I cried because finally I realized the I

    no longer care! I have all that I could and I was holding somehow hoping that maybe my husband would realize what he has. I no longer need that validation! I know I'm a good person and have done all I could! I felt guilty for leaving and wanting to be happy. Not anymore! He can...
    Thundakatt Thundakatt 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 12, 2014

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    Why Do I Stay?

    He never can have a conversation with me without turning into how he wouldn't be married, it doesn't hurt me to do it I don't do anything else, me screwing someone else, my vacation I took, not doing enough for our boys or losing the house. I didn't ask him to marry me, he asked...
    lonelyrunawaytrain lonelyrunawaytrain 46-50, F 3 Responses May 1, 2013

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    What Do I Do??

    hi me and my wife met in the college 11 years back......and one day out of the blue i proposed her through a common friend and to which she initially said no but finally accepted. we started going around and then had a breakup(actually she dumped me). i was heart broken as i was...
    lovelost27 lovelost27 31-35 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    I feel..that if you really love someone? you don't need to get married to prove that. I find that kinda stupid? lol I will never get married. marriage doesint last? nor does...
    Muffin19 Muffin19 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    . A bad Workman Blames His Tools . Deeds not words . Do as you would be done by . Do not cross the bridge before you get to it
    be2u be2u 36-40, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I love my wife, and I know she loves me. However, I wish our marriage could be how it used to be. I don't know how we got to this point. It's painful. I don't want to give up on my...
    ProfessorPhoton ProfessorPhoton 26-30, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    So damn fed up. Taking way too long to move out.
    LeMage LeMage 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Hi, I am new to this. Here's my story. I have been married for 3 years, together 7 and have two small children. Ever since my first was born (for the last 5 years) my marriage has...
    mirandan2027 mirandan2027 22-25 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm so depressed right now I can't even function. Truthfully, my husband hasn't had sex with me in 3 years. I've fallen in love with a man who is married, and we are amazing...
    escapingcaptivityofspirit escapingcaptivityofspirit 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    No contact with other guy in a week and I'm truly ok with it. I've taken a long hard look at the situation and can no longer deny that for him I was just filling in the gaps in his...
    Queenbee1960 Queenbee1960 51-55, F 4 days ago

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    A revelation? My husband and I started marriage counseling this past Monday. It was hard. Having to sit there and explain to a stranger why you are there...with your husband...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband text me that he would rather be a monk than to have sex with me, and that if that is my need, I should go elsewhere to satisfy it. My heart sank. Finally....I have more...
    GreyStreet98 GreyStreet98 46-50, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    you know i really do not know how to look at this Gay Marriage and Transgender stuff, I was talking to my room mate about this myself & my room mate are not gay but i told him my...
    Jerseygal72 Jerseygal72 41-45, F a week ago

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    I'm married and I've only been married for almost a year. But way before our relationship prior to marriage (5 years ago) I met this guy and there was no doubt in my mind that I...
    slofox slofox 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    Well I'm still with my boyfriend although he has had an arranged marriage last March. It kills me. He just went out there for Ramadan to finally pick her up and take her in the US...
    4evergrey 4evergrey 31-35, F Jul 17

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    Procrastination is my middle name. That's why I'm here after 20 years. But this year, my goal is to leave this group and join the one (does it exist?) that says "I left my sexless...
    silverdarling silverdarling 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 17

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    This is so exciting that gay marriage is now legal. I think it's great couples are given the right to marry whoever they wish. And not a damn thing anybody can do about it. Yes I...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I met him in 2011. He was 23 and fresh out of graduate school. I was 27, divorced with two young kids and a social worker. I should have known he would never, ever marry me. Not...
    LilyQuinn LilyQuinn 31-35, F Jul 15

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    Ok so i run to town and come home and Fed ex has a box at my door that i have been looking for i set it on the table and get me some tea then open the box with out looking at the...
    CLPLIKESFUN CLPLIKESFUN 46-50 2 Responses Jul 15

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    When I met my husband, I was 28, and had reached a point in my life when I was sure I wasn't going to meet the right guy. I'd been in an out of relationships with total jerks or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 15

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    I am new and want to identify why I'm here... I am on my 2nd marriage, going on 13 years now, have issues and I need help. I thought to myself "find a support group" and thought...
    Cwllm Cwllm 46-50, M Jul 15

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    I read "The Corrections" by Jonathan Franzen about 10 or so years ago. It's about a sexless marriage and the damage it did to their children's sexuality. That's not what the...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 7 Responses Jul 13

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    It will be 14 years of marriage in August and 3 sons together ages 11 & 10 yo twins. Problems started roughly 3 years ago. We've been together 5 times within the 3 year period and...
    Missy227 Missy227 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Black judge under fire for refusing to perform a gay ‘marriage’ on religious grounds TOLEDO, OH, July 10, 2015 (LifeSiteNews) -- A judge in the Toledo area is under fire from...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M Jul 13

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    I am extremely unhappy in my marriage :-( Got married in 2012 been 4years and I hate every minute of it ! My husband and his family are deceiving people.My relation was online...
    Mask12 Mask12 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    How HIV Children Are Injured And Kill By The Actions Of The City Of Salinas, Ca. The Salinas Valley is one of the largest agricultural centers in the USA and the city of...
    marcthegiantkiller marcthegiantkiller 56-60, M Jul 11

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    so my dad is going on his 5th marriage, my mom is on her unhappy number 3 marriage. in my 26 years of life I have experienced divorce between my parents and their significant...
    bretneyc bretneyc 26-30, F Jul 11

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    We have been in an open marriage for just over a year now. We are more of a polyamorous couple, meaning it is more than just sex, but actually taking on a real boyfriend or...
    lackwittyname lackwittyname 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Folks, there are quite number of people who have been suffering through this. I too feel like sharing what I have been going through .. We have been married for more than 7 years...
    blueocean3 blueocean3 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Everytime I hear the word, marriage, I think of Shirley Long from Money Pit "Why do we need a piece of paper from the state of New York.' but marriage can make or break a...
    LonerGirl24 LonerGirl24 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    ‘I feel distant from my spouse. I feel like we’re a million miles apart.’ ‘I try to get my husband to open up, but instead he just shuts down.’ ‘I don’t know if I...
    Mashara Mashara 22-25, F Jul 8

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    People are unhappy in marriage because they get marriage for the wrong reasons. If you choose to be married, you have to maintain your own identity and be willing to communicate...