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I Am So Fed Up With My Marriage

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    Tired, Fed Up, Confused, And Lonely

    I met my husband in high school also, I felt like it was a dream come True because, we got married right after high school. He was my high school sweetheart also. But as soon as I ended up living ith him he changed. He got on myspace, tagged, facebook, zoosk, and any other social...
    Datsrite2 Datsrite2 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Dirty Movies And Lies

    When I got married there was already troubles. I loved her. Still do. NOTHING has changed in those regards. I still think she is sexy, funny, and smart. But I watched porn0graphy, she caught me and swore I'd never look at it again. I did. I got caught and swore, got caught...
    UgOlLi UgOlLi 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    What Do I Do??

    hi me and my wife met in the college 11 years back......and one day out of the blue i proposed her through a common friend and to which she initially said no but finally accepted. we started going around and then had a breakup(actually she dumped me). i was heart broken as i was...
    lovelost27 lovelost27 31-35 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    Why Do I Bother?

    I should be so lucky as to HAVE a gun... I don't and wouldn't know how to use it if I did.   What would be comforting is to win the lottery and really get out of this marriage.  Fact is, I think I'll be ok financially on my own with the girls, but...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 13 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    How Is Marriage Supposed to Be?

    i met my husband in high school, and were high school sweet hearts.. he join the military for 4 yrs yet during the first year when i was 19 i went to my first party and got messed up where i was taking advantage and since that time i confessed to my husband.. lost respect, trust...
    steph7894 steph7894 22-25 9 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Why Do I Stay?

    He never can have a conversation with me without turning into how he wouldn't be married, it doesn't hurt me to do it I don't do anything else, me screwing someone else, my vacation I took, not doing enough for our boys or losing the house. I didn't ask him to marry me, he asked...
    lonelyrunawaytrain lonelyrunawaytrain 46-50, F 3 Responses May 1, 2013

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    Ever since my wife's father committed suicide

    some 12 years ago our marriage has gone from bad to worse. After getting a nice place to live with a stunning garden, nothing I do is good enough! The wife suffered depression after her fathers death and was in a clinic for six months, Now after putting the damage to our flat...
    Kyberpass Kyberpass 51-55, M Nov 12

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    So Boring

    i have been married 36 years i am 3 1/2 years older than my husband you would think he was ten years older than me . we live opposite a social club he goes over every night we havent been out socially other than there for about 3 months we went out tonight with his brother and...
    noriam193 noriam193 61-65, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    Searching For My Patricia

    In summer/autumn of 2009 I had a profound experience which turned my world upside down.  I had recently given blood and learnt how the black and Asian communities were three times more likely to need a kidney transplant than Caucasians.  I took upon myself to tell as many of...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M Feb 28, 2012

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    Today I cried because finally I realized the I

    no longer care! I have all that I could and I was holding somehow hoping that maybe my husband would realize what he has. I no longer need that validation! I know I'm a good person and have done all I could! I felt guilty for leaving and wanting to be happy. Not anymore! He can...
    Thundakatt Thundakatt 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    Going on 11 years and

    if it weren't for my kids, I would have left along time ago. For the most part we get along but that's only because I don't say anything about his drinking until 2am, sleeping all day, doesn't lift a finger around the house, sits in another room with his dogs and watches tv. I...
    ColoradoGirl4 ColoradoGirl4 36-40, F 10 Responses Jan 12

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    Fed Up & Trapped.......

    After 46 years and lots of ups and downs I've finally gotten smart enough to accept there was nothing, NOTHING I could have done to have made this marriage any better or worse. I finally accept that my husband is a total narcissist and the only one who can change him is him. He...
    lexxicat lexxicat 66-70, F 6 Responses Mar 22, 2010

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    Thinking About Leaving

    I married a woman from another country. We dated for almost 2 years long distance. I would visit her 2 times a year and stay for extended periods of time. About one to three months each time. She came to the states and we married. I had reservations because, but I never listened...
    alwaysconfused77 alwaysconfused77 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2010

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    Have Already Divorced You Emotionally

    I love my husband. But it is clear that our marriage is just not going to work. My husband is 16 years older than me. I work full time and he stays home. We have 3 kids together. He is a great man, father. But some where down the line we just lost it. We always fight over the...
    SexyAlize SexyAlize 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    These are personal views of mine but I believe that men and women have specific roles in marriage. I believe that when you get married it becomes your responsibility to work for...
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 9

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    I Reject The Stereotype That American Women&More Specifically Black Women Act Like Boorish Men- I have been married to one for nearly 25 years and have never experienced...
    DoonJi DoonJi 41-45, M Nov 14

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    I won't have to be here to listen to her whine, nag, complain etc !! I do nothing right in her eyes. She is NEVER happy unless she's nags We never have sex, and when we DID have...
    World4me World4me 26-30, M 5 mins ago

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    Call me stuck up or a diva, don't care. I just fed up of tolerating ppl's crap. It's time to make sure I'm comfortable for once. I realize I don't put much emphasis on the kinds...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    I am fed up... infact, I shall just give up.... I give up trying to enjoy a conversation on here, with out that person, telling me... you must be tired...or if you need to go...
    moonlisrose moonlisrose 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    Isn't it weird that a lot of people will invade a thread that has a topic they feel opposed to and then proceed to desecrate and violate the people on the thread and their beliefs...
    Missreedy Missreedy 31-35 2 Responses Nov 4

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    Some people think they are "above it all" . They get it all, they can judge you, point fingers and act all superior! Funny thing is they do that accusing you of being that when you...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 6

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    It hard to realize that I have that fear. I am the one that loves to live a home life. I'm the one that loves to share. I'm the one with that fanatic spirit that yells out: marry...
    WarmGoldenHeart WarmGoldenHeart 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    im fed up with my life i get in from school knowing my parents are gunna moan at me i just want to run away from it all i hate them there always blaming me for stuff and i respect...
    smithyboy16 smithyboy16 16-17, M Nov 13

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    I fed a homeless person when I was in London for the week! I gave a homeless guy a sausage roll, he started crying but appreciated the gesture! I said no problem, gave him it and...
    Fennerbache Fennerbache 16-17, M Nov 13

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    I just got hit by the EP police. Not sure when they started as I just got notified that one of my stories being deleted for non compliance however they are all gone. It make you...
    FC6000 FC6000 56-60 5 Responses Nov 18

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    Was out of meat. Pals sent help. Now me is full. With food left over. My tummy must have shrank. But now me is fed up to full.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    Where to begin ... My wife and I experienced a set back in our attempts to improve our marriage. I found some evidence last week of an on-going emotional relationship she got...
    lonelyguy375 lonelyguy375 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 10

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    14years of marriage, 18 years together and sex has never been a priority for my husband. He was sexually abused by a camp counselor as a child and that abuse has affected our...
    Notlovingit Notlovingit 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    Two unhappy people in a marriage equals an unhappy marriage. One unhappy person in a marriage is soon joined by the other. True happiness can only come from within.
    Loverofpeace Loverofpeace 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Marriage is more than just paper... Marriage is a promise; a series of promises that sometimes may be hard to keep but will be worth it. Marriage is the forever bond between man...
    Zoopetiz Zoopetiz 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    Marriage means a team. U feel safe, loved and secured but nowadays people take marriage as a licence and if things don't go well they either bonk someone else outside the marriage...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    I've been married for 25 years and even thought my marriage is not meeting many of my needs, I am petrified to leave it! For many years, my husband would not touch me sexually. I...
    Needhopeandsupport Needhopeandsupport 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    It's been a year since I last posted. I had an online affair with a woman I met on EP. I fell in love with her. My wife found out and I broke it off. I haven't spoken to her in a...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I dont know what's wrong with me but Its like I can't talk to my dad... I love my dad, he's a great guy. He does the best he can to make me and my family happy and doesn't ask for...
    raynbow32 raynbow32 18-21, F 1 Response 47 mins ago

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    Trouble with guys my age is they can't grow a beard!!!! I love beards! They're great and amazing and so masculine. Maybe I have no business saying anything about masculinity...
    penceoliaH penceoliaH 13-15, F 37 mins ago

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    I'm 25 and I joined this group 3 years ago. I made a post about being unhappy in my marriage over 2 years ago and guess what? I'm STILL miserable! I hate the thought of having to...
    Lovely0521 Lovely0521 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 30