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I Am So Fed Up With My Marriage

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    Thinking About Leaving

    I married a woman from another country. We dated for almost 2 years long distance. I would visit her 2 times a year and stay for extended periods of time. About one to three months each time. She came to the states and we married. I had reservations because, but I never listened...
    alwaysconfused77 alwaysconfused77 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2010

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    So Boring

    i have been married 36 years i am 3 1/2 years older than my husband you would think he was ten years older than me . we live opposite a social club he goes over every night we havent been out socially other than there for about 3 months we went out tonight with his brother and...
    noriam193 noriam193 61-65, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    Dirty Movies And Lies

    When I got married there was already troubles. I loved her. Still do. NOTHING has changed in those regards. I still think she is sexy, funny, and smart. But I watched porn0graphy, she caught me and swore I'd never look at it again. I did. I got caught and swore, got caught...
    UgOlLi UgOlLi 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    Fed Up & Trapped.......

    After 46 years and lots of ups and downs I've finally gotten smart enough to accept there was nothing, NOTHING I could have done to have made this marriage any better or worse. I finally accept that my husband is a total narcissist and the only one who can change him is him. He...
    lexxicat lexxicat 66-70, F 6 Responses Mar 22, 2010

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    What Do I Do??

    hi me and my wife met in the college 11 years back......and one day out of the blue i proposed her through a common friend and to which she initially said no but finally accepted. we started going around and then had a breakup(actually she dumped me). i was heart broken as i was...
    lovelost27 lovelost27 31-35 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    Have Already Divorced You Emotionally

    I love my husband. But it is clear that our marriage is just not going to work. My husband is 16 years older than me. I work full time and he stays home. We have 3 kids together. He is a great man, father. But some where down the line we just lost it. We always fight over the...
    SexyAlize SexyAlize 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    Why Do I Bother?

    I should be so lucky as to HAVE a gun... I don't and wouldn't know how to use it if I did.   What would be comforting is to win the lottery and really get out of this marriage.  Fact is, I think I'll be ok financially on my own with the girls, but...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 13 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    Tired, Fed Up, Confused, And Lonely

    I met my husband in high school also, I felt like it was a dream come True because, we got married right after high school. He was my high school sweetheart also. But as soon as I ended up living ith him he changed. He got on myspace, tagged, facebook, zoosk, and any other social...
    Datsrite2 Datsrite2 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Today I cried because finally I realized the I

    no longer care! I have all that I could and I was holding somehow hoping that maybe my husband would realize what he has. I no longer need that validation! I know I'm a good person and have done all I could! I felt guilty for leaving and wanting to be happy. Not anymore! He can...
    Thundakatt Thundakatt 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    How Is Marriage Supposed to Be?

    i met my husband in high school, and were high school sweet hearts.. he join the military for 4 yrs yet during the first year when i was 19 i went to my first party and got messed up where i was taking advantage and since that time i confessed to my husband.. lost respect, trust...
    steph7894 steph7894 22-25 9 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Searching For My Patricia

    In summer/autumn of 2009 I had a profound experience which turned my world upside down.  I had recently given blood and learnt how the black and Asian communities were three times more likely to need a kidney transplant than Caucasians.  I took upon myself to tell as many of...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M Feb 28, 2012

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    Going on 11 years and

    if it weren't for my kids, I would have left along time ago. For the most part we get along but that's only because I don't say anything about his drinking until 2am, sleeping all day, doesn't lift a finger around the house, sits in another room with his dogs and watches tv. I...
    ColoradoGirl4 ColoradoGirl4 36-40, F 11 Responses Jan 12

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    Why Do I Stay?

    He never can have a conversation with me without turning into how he wouldn't be married, it doesn't hurt me to do it I don't do anything else, me screwing someone else, my vacation I took, not doing enough for our boys or losing the house. I didn't ask him to marry me, he asked...
    lonelyrunawaytrain lonelyrunawaytrain 46-50, F 3 Responses May 1, 2013

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    Keniaga838 Keniaga838 31-35, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    There are truths behind these funny quotes....To the singles, would you still wanna take the plunge on marriage? ***I never married because there was no need. I have three pets at...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    The road that has led each of us to the SM we find ourselves in is unique to each of us and in reading stories I can imagine that many people would wonder which came first, the...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 16 Responses 3 days ago

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    This article may be of interest to those considering divorce, but wondering about its affect on their kids. "The new research, which came out of Georgetown University and the...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Today's disappointment is going to be the last time I have one of the kind... Someone who wrote to me in such a sweet, loving, caring way...even asked for my address to send me a...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I have faced infidelity in my marriage.My husband had an affair and the one he had it with made life real difficult for me.So when women have affairs with married men they should...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Former member checking in. I wrote in I am Dating After a Sexless Marriage but it seems pretty quiet over there... so I am checking in here, too. It has been an amazing journey...
    awakeforthedancechecksin awakeforthedancechecksin 36-40, F 11 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    OMG guys!! I have some news !!I have just got home from school but i couldnt wait to tell you everything! ! So, today on his class , i had already finished my lessons so I went to...
    Ollyecleo Ollyecleo 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    Jeffrybup Jeffrybup 31-35, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Me, myself and my parents marriage... I asked my wife to go to a shrink with me about 3 years ago. she did not refuse the idea, but she ways always too busy, or tired or had a...
    frozenhere frozenhere 31-35, M 7 Responses a week ago

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    Come hell or high water I'm done. I'm tired of the excuses, the lies, being blamed, and the gaslighting . I am ready to face I am in an abusive withholding relationship and have...
    selfcompassion selfcompassion 51-55, F 21 hrs ago

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    Hiltonhn53 Hiltonhn53 31-35, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    My wife had kids already when we got married. She doesn't like for me to discipline them and I try and respect that. The problem is they run over her daily. She'll tell them to...
    music4thesoul music4thesoul 46-50, M 3 hrs ago

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    I've been married for nearly 7 years now and have enjoyed many intimate moments with my wife. A lot of that has changed in the last two years. Sex isn't something that happens...
    absalom123 absalom123 26-30 19 Responses 4 days ago

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    I finally got to talk to my husband. It's been days cause he's out for deployment. He really made me happy. He was very concerned for me and my mental health. He asked me so many...
    vanessamoomoo vanessamoomoo 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I have been married for almost three years now. My husband and I have not had sex in months. I believe he enjoys his video game and social media instead. I've talked to him...
    MrsEG MrsEG 41-45, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I'm in a sexless marriage, but it's me who doesn't want it. I love my husband. We have three beautiful sons together. I am being affected by a case of childhood sibling sexual...
    coffeeIover coffeeIover 26-30, F 12 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I believe this statement wholeheartedly however in a marriage there needs to balance of love and intimacy and so many other things. We can't always be what our spouse hopes for or...
    honeyangel7 honeyangel7 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Young decent male handsome professional here. Just moved from Middle East to US. Low profile gay guy looking for good-looking discreet interesting lesbian girl who's basically...
    LeGentle LeGentle 22-25 33 mins ago

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    Okay, I think at this point I have 7 fedoras for different occasions, but all my friends think that it's strange. Fedoras, to me, look amazing on men AND women alike, and I wish...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    And now I am living with someone. ;) Life does get better. And, it's not just all about the sex - that is true. Sex, or lack of it, was just a symptom of dysfunctions across...
    awakeforthedancechecksin awakeforthedancechecksin 36-40, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    ... and sometimes I just have to vent. Hubs hurt himself very badly and now he's on the mend. We have been walking with the dog twice a day for an hour each so that he can regain...
    SBH1 SBH1 46-50, F 10 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Well here it goes, I need some advice on this. 2 years ago I was introduced to a man who I met through my job. I took a liking to him (even though I was in a relationship at the...
    sarahdragonfly sarahdragonfly 26-30, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    And I was planning to but now I'm in my 30s so I gave it up to a man that loves me or I think he does...he is now different with me and that's the only thing that makes me feel...
    tata5432 tata5432 36-40, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Almost two months ago, I had THE moment when life hit me in the head with a brick. A rude inconsiderate comment the STBX made to something I said when he and I were having a...
    TheMaverickWoman TheMaverickWoman 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 29

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    I have a beautiful dog. He's a Gollie - half Golden, half Collie. He's my sidekick. He follows me everywhere. He loves me best. Should I walk him more? Yes. I am often...
    jmx46578 jmx46578 36-40, F 11 Responses Sep 10

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    At ten till five this morning H asked me if I was ready to go! I told him (again!) my son was picking us up & taking us for my surgical procedure. The carpal tunnel surgery went...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    refusing the refuser will often permeate beyond sex we saw some stories about forgotten birthdays and anniversaries recently, sad to see that the conversation with wife just a...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 9 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    It is difficult to stay committed unless the other person is too.On the top of that ,you have your in-laws to deal with.That is why things have been difficult for me They did not...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 hr ago

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    I just read something that makes too much sense, good people make you feel good, bad people make you feel bad. That is the exact reason I had to have my husband find some place...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    i wish i had a fedora so i can be euphoric
    CURRYXBLAZE CURRYXBLAZE 18-21, M Aug 28

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    I'm so ******* fed up with people using me for stupid things and lying to my face. And the people who say, "I love you" are full of ****. I'm sorry but I'm just done with everyone...
    bruisexviolet bruisexviolet 16-17, F Sep 2

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    Love doing this stuff too myself, but having someone else do it for me? sounds like the ultimate in laziness x) aha so its just perfect. i just want too sit back on my bed one day...
    lozielaury lozielaury 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 3

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    I'm seriously fed up with my oldest older brother who I swear is trying to sabotage my good gig of feeding the dog and getting paid for it by my younger older brother. Its like he...
    JimmyKPage JimmyKPage 16-17, F Sep 4

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    Undecided whether to post this under this group or under the other one "I'm having random thoughts", I believe posted here the discussion shall be more thoughtful and sensitive...
    TheMaverickWoman TheMaverickWoman 36-40, F 11 Responses a week ago

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