I Am So Freaking Tired Of Being Hurt

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    Never Again

    I believe I will never be hurt again now I've found my girl I will be hers forever no matter who or what tries to drive us apart I will be faithful till the end I love you Olivia
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 19, 2013

    I. Need. Help.

    You. I find out that you do dip. You do it in front of me. this is a shock just in itself. you crashed you crashed to peer pressure. And i am hurt by it. And then i find out that you are drinking and stuff too? What the heck? You arn't the right guy that i knew before. i dont...
    lovahchic lovahchic
    13-15, F
    Jun 23, 2012

    Pain.

    Do you know what it feels like to have your trust broken again and again? Do you know what if feels like to take a leap of faith and then fall? Do you know what it feels like to know you cannot count on your family at all? Do you know what it feels like to hurt, I mean really...
    Dollbaby03 Dollbaby03
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

    You know I love to hang out with him

    but it hurts me to a lot he is always saying mean things and he's always joking in a curl or mean manner or I think he thinks he's joking but it hurts it upsets me.... Then I ask him something simple like what's for dinner and he snips at me and say I don't know! And I feel bad...
    Eloradanan98 Eloradanan98
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2015

    I am beyond sick of it.

    I literally have no one..My friends suck. They only talk to me when they are bored or need something. My dating life isn't any better. I seem to meet the worlds biggest jerks that cheat on me or play games with me. My ex knows I still care about him and he uses that for his gain...
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    Such An Idiot

    So tired of being hurt. All a guy has to say is "I love you I will never ever hurt you," and I fall for it every single time. I consider my self a very intelligent person but when it comes to men I'm so stupid. I'm such a romantic idiot. Emphasis on IDIOT. I guess I just want to...
    howsab howsab
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2011

    For 11 years I was beat.

    6 by my x's best friend and by my friend at the time. 5 now by the people who want to see me suffer. During 4 of those 5 years i was being hurt by my girl bestfriend and she still hurtds me till this day. 3 years of being used. 2 of those years was by someone I was verry close...
    100BlackRoses 100BlackRoses
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 1, 2015

    I Don't Want To Love Him Anymore

    I don't think you realize how much you've hurt me. How badly this has gone for me. I'm getting tired of holding in the hurt, but I don't want to appear as weak. You and her are great, but me, just an outsider. I mean your never going to love me, no matter what anyone says. I stay...
    lovahchic lovahchic
    13-15, F
    May 22, 2012

    I'm Tired Of The Insecurities. I'm Tired Of Having To Compare.

    I'm tired of the insecurities. I'm tired of having to compare. I'm sorry. I'm sorry for freaking being me. I'm sorry that I'm not perfect. I have to be so damn perfect. I hate having to pretend to be happy. I hate having to pretend the arguing doesn't p*ss me off just as much as...
    lovahchic lovahchic
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2012

    How Many Times Can I Put Myself Back Together?

    Anytime I think something is good it all turns to ****.  I give my heart away thinking they will protect it and then they just throw it down and step on it as they walk away.  I have had to put myself back together so many times.  Each time I do they still get to take a small...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 9, 2011

    The internet is basically how I met all of you,

    but you wouldn't know it's me... Sad isn't? Even though I'm alone I feel better then I do in most social situations. Maybe it's because you don't know what I look like, maybe it's because you don't know me? Or maybe it's because I know you never will know me... because if we did...
    DawnGray DawnGray
    16-17, F
    2 Responses May 22, 2014

    Yes I have a freaked accent,

    yes I have a big nose or ears, no hair, whatever it is. Why am I judged by he surface and don't even get a chance? Whatever happened to honesty, integrity, kindness, intelligence, etc being the measure!! Such a dysfunctional society we live in. If you're not "culinarily like...
    txdude txdude
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2014

    Not popular, not handsome,

    not rich, just an average hard working middle class person? Forget it, no attraction at all, regardless of your achievements or intellectual capabilities, you just don't fit the criteria. Such a sad reality I have to live with every single hour...
    txdude txdude
    36-40, M
    Mar 19, 2014

    I Feel Ashamed As I Keep Getting Hurt...

    And I feel it is my fault. Maybe I am too nice/too boring/too quiet/not assertive enough or simply not worthwhile enough. It happens a lot and I can't seem to make a decent friend because everyone seems to treat me badly or as though I don't matter. It used to upset me, now I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2011

    I Can't Take Anymore

    I'm so tired of people expecting me to do things they aren't willing to do and expect me to give more to the relationship than they are willing to give. I feel like i am always being taken for granted and taken advantage of. I'm tired of working so hard to make relationships work...
    kzoodiana kzoodiana
    36-40, F
    Feb 23, 2012

    Some Times

    Sometime people hold on to thing when they need to let it go im not perfect an it still feels like im holding on but i working on it an pretty soon i will let go of him i ced i let go to him when he texted but its not true i had to let the truth out but not to him
    darkangel18 darkangel18
    18-21, F
    Jan 19, 2013

    My marriage is like a bloody yo yo.

    One minute it is really good the next it feels as though it is just not worth trying any more - and we have been married only seven months. It is like living with a total nutcase! Yesterday I was the second best thing that had ever happened in her life (the most important being...
    tcennoC tcennoC
    51-55, M
    Mar 15, 2014

    My husband of 32 years is addicted to meth.

    I had been away helping my parents. My stepmother was ill. She passed away & I stayed to help my Dad. My husband quit talking to me & I had an affair for 3 weeks. My husband had been unfaithful long before this. Anyways, I went back home after 3 1/2 years & found that my husband...
    Alphie01 Alphie01
    46-50
    1 Response May 20, 2015

    I Cause To Much Disturbance On 'Earth' .

    Sorry About That Guys ... Maybe I Should Of Just Left Four Years Ago When I Was So Near It...
    KaliKween KaliKween
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014

    You Don't Notice It

    But you are breaking me down into pieces, its not your fault though.
    iminpain iminpain
    18-21, M
    Feb 21, 2010

    well, not yet. or maybe i have been hurt over

    and over that i have gotten numb and can't even feel the weariness because of it. the last quarter of this year hadn't been exactly great. just when i thought i am already through a painful experience, another thing comes up to prove me wrong. what's more, it involves people who...
    elysium9527 elysium9527
    22-25, F
    Dec 9, 2015

    Always The Same

    I get treated so poorly because all I want to do is help.  I listen, am there no matter what (or try to be) and I am thoughtful.  Think anyone is like to me?  HELL NO.  I'm so tired of being treated like something someone stepped in during a walk in the park...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 5, 2010

    When?

    My entire life I always seem to be the one hurting my earliest memories are not happy ones, but I've always told myself one day things will change and the hurting will stop......well now at the age of 30 I finally just give up and I might as well just face the facts that really...
    drkiris drkiris
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

    Very

    So why do I stay here and tolerate the pain? What holds me to you, to this place and time? I search and search for the answers, but they are always elusive. The truth is, I do not know why I allow you to hurt me over and over again. I can't see the invisible chain that you...
    LG76 LG76
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 19, 2012

    My Tenderheart

    I'm 17, but a few days ago I was only 16. My birthday wasn't celebrated. I am a girl walking in her own tormented shadow. I believe my destiny is somewhere out there waiting for my arrival. I have almost no friends. I have a toy who I consider my best friend. Even though he's a...
    Cianna300 Cianna300
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 20, 2013

    My ex was upset and was thinking about killing

    him self yesterday and he calls me and I talked him outta of all that and then we talked all night and he thanked me before we got off the phone and said it was nice to talk to me again.. I was happy bc the whole 2 months we were broken up I thought about him 24/7 and I missed...
    xxjuiletxx xxjuiletxx
    13-15, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014

    Why Don't I Move On?

    His words to me are poison. They leave me helpless. I don't know how to fight it. It seems to me that the only thing I can do is fall into his traps. I am so tired of the mind games. I don't want to be a crutch for someone, I want to love them with all of me, and want them to...
    BrokenInAMillionPieces BrokenInAMillionPieces
    18-21, F
    Aug 15, 2013

    I Am....

    and by one certian person too. Im so sick of her games. She really has no idea the harm, and the hurt that she is causing. She is really sick. She needs some help. I want to block her, but I haven't, because if she hurts someone I know, i want to be able to see it. I am just...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2010

    Starting Today...

    I don't chase after anyone anymore...if you want to walk out of my life, I'll hold the ******* door open for you. I'm so sick and tired of people leaving or just having a half *** participation in my life. You don't want to be there for me? Then you turn around and expect me to...
    Heartonmysleeve22 Heartonmysleeve22
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 27, 2012

    I know not all men are horrible just most of

    them so if you have a good one never let them go
    Kimberlee123 Kimberlee123
    41-45, F
    Jan 7, 2015

    Im Tired Of Being Hurt

    I try not to get attached to people i know who are going to leave me in the end and i always do.When they do leave i try to block it out. sometimes it works like when my father passed i just smiled and said it was fine and went on with my life but know i noticed that it didnt...
    betweenloveandhate betweenloveandhate
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 13, 2012

    When Do I Get Used To It?

    It's true, ya know? I have been hurt so many times and so often throughout the years that I sort of expected to grow accustomed to the pain of a broken heart. I guess it's something one can never fully get used to.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 21, 2011

    Shattered

    It never takes long, sometimes a couple weeks, sometimes a month. It always happens though, they tell me they love me. It's bad enough I get attached to people easy, but when they say I love you, then it just becomes more intense. After that, about a month later, they leave me...
    AlwynMordoux AlwynMordoux
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

    pain leads to growth

    and i can almost blame myself for my own pain. would lov ed to meet someone that's real and open to the things we have been kept from about ourselves and who the human race really is:-) love you all be sure to spread the love it's all thst matters........:-);-)
    luke5573 luke5573
    41-45
    Jan 7, 2015

    I've tried, I think I've always tried.

    Yes, I wasn't always the nicest person but why wouldn't a relationship that's went on for so long not have bad days? I always give it my best effort, to show that I'm there for her, but she just keeps pushing away and ends up hurting me so much. I cry for days, and then she goes...
    Broomvroom Broomvroom
    18-21, F
    Feb 18, 2014

    Conundrum

    I am awfully tired of being hurt, and yet, I fear my old answers aren't working anymore.  It's just not as easy as it once was to grow a callus.  I can't wall off every situation, aggressor, emotion...  I need to feel.  And that means that I need to get comfortable with...
    RascallyRabbit RascallyRabbit
    31-35, F
    14 Responses May 24, 2011

    I'm So Tired Of Trusting And Getting Hurt

    All I want is for one person to tell me the truth.i want them to be completely honest...but do I get that?NO!i get lies,hurt,pain,numbness,broken promises,and meaningless truths.i wish I could find just one person that doesn't want to completely shatter me...is this to much to be...
    LilBroGotHisWings LilBroGotHisWings
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Sep 16, 2012

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