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I Am So Lonely

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    The Continuos Pressure

    We see it on TV,on internet, on streets, commericals ... Everything and everybody says that it is bad to be single. The pressure is continuos. They say that we must find somebody. We must have someone by our side. I say, screw them! Sometimes it's better to be single and lonely...
    SaleSmrad SaleSmrad 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 11, 2012

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    I have been feeling very lonely

    for a while. My husband is my best friend, but seems we are more like brother and sister than husband and wife. The sex is very boring, doesn't happen very often anymore and we don't even kiss, hold hands or snuggle. I miss the passion, and the feeling of someone wanting me. All...
    LonelyShyGirl LonelyShyGirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    Growing up… which I am still doing is not

    easy as it seems. Although no one said it was going to be easy. It can be easy if you are born to rich parents or from a upper class family. For me it was a bumpy road with many potholes and it still is… there a lot of harsh turns that I am doing which is driving me...
    achorusgirl achorusgirl 18-21, F 7 Responses May 26, 2015

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    I am so lonely i feel like i am going crazy I

    am almost 24 years and I've never had a boyfriend. I've never been kissed before and i all I dream about at night is having someone there for me. I am not American and my parents won't let me be with somebody that's not from the same country as me and I have never met anybody...
    mandy923 mandy923 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 20, 2015

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    I don't know what's wrong with me

    but i'm lonely all the time. I've been feeling lonely couple years now and really have no close friends to talk to. It's not just that because I feel like no one loves me. I would do anything to have someone to cuddle up with and hold hands. Someone who would really love me. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2015

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    So I have just read someone else's post on here

    about how their life is going. It was strange to see so many of us feeling the same! I am 27, Currently living with parents, working in a boring job, all my friends have settled down and I don't really see them anymore. I stay at home a lot because I have no friends to hang out...
    dabestkat dabestkat 26-30 Sep 22, 2014

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    Hi I am incredibly lonely in London.

    All my friends are married and have children and I feel like I have been left on the shelf. I am on my own all the time and have no life. I don't know how this happened. I am fairly personable, not shy at all. I just find London very transient and cold. I literally feel like...
    Karlab Karlab 36-40, F May 12, 2015

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    I just noticed, I get a lot better

    when Im alone. But still kinda sad.
    CallMeBuddy CallMeBuddy 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 15, 2015

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    Alone, Surrounded By People.

    Being a deeply introspective person, I try to examine and find definitive conclusions to the reasons why I feel the way I do, or why people do the things they do. There must be an answer, even if I'm not able to obtain one. I believe with enough time and patience, one can move...
    TheDarkTower TheDarkTower 31-35, M 10 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    achorusgirl achorusgirl 18-21, F Nov 4, 2015

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    I'm feeling sort of lonely right now.

    Let's meet each other. 😉☺️
    Imaginatrix Imaginatrix 16-17, M Jun 13, 2014

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    Artist Trapt In His Room.

    I am a artist. I am trapt in my room. I go for walks. And i go to college. But i am trapt in my room the rest of the time. Doing my art. And my mum is my rock. But she is not a artist. So she can not help me with some things. I am blind but i can see a bit also. And i like to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 20, 2011

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    I had a crush and as always,

    they call it a crush for a reason. I feel so alone and I crave physical affection, I wish I could find someone like him but someone that wants to be with me too. I want someone who can be really smart with me, but also downright stupid with me. And it's so hard to find someone...
    barelyreal barelyreal 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I miss having someone,

    a couple of days ago I bought a brand new bed, its so big and comfortable but it makes me feel so lonely because I have this giant bed and no one to lay in it with me, I miss cuddling and staring into each others eyes, long warm kisses and the soft caressing : (
    cookieporn cookieporn 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 3, 2015

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    I'm picky, i dont like everyone.

    Even if you've given me reason to like you, sometimes i won't like you and it's just because got bored. As bad as that is, i get bored easily and i know people get bored of me easily too. And I've come to peace with this fact.
    barelyreal barelyreal 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    Abbie123345 Abbie123345 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My best friend, she moved away this summer,

    leaving me with all my high school bullies and my thoughts. It's not the bullies that get to me, though, I can tolerate them on a daily basis. It's just her being gone, she brightened up my world so much. We joke, laugh, cheer one another up, and we were just there for each...
    KawaiiPotato355 KawaiiPotato355 16-17, F Oct 10, 2015

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    princesscaro princesscaro 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    barelyreal barelyreal 13-15, F Jan 23

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    Soul Crushing Loneliness

    So lonely right now, I feel like nobody cares about me. What makes me lonelier is when people don't respond to my messages or anything on EP. I'm pathetic, I depend on the internet to take my loneliness away but I'm stupid for thinking. Maybe I should stop this fit of self...
    Desolatebones Desolatebones 18-21, M 6 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    I Am So Very Alone

    My husband died last year, he was only 51 and wasn't ill.  He had a heart attack. I have since sold my home and moved closer to my daughter and her family.  They thought it would be a good idea.  Well, it's not! My daughter has pretty much nothing to do with me...
    whocaresjustme whocaresjustme 46-50 15 Responses Jan 27, 2009

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    all i do is work before i had a girl

    that i hang out with that i loved and all she would do was use me and go do someone other than me even her little I love you is all she had to say to control me i am a extremely sensitive caring person i shower the ones i care about with all my heart and my money sacrificing...
    stonedphillips stonedphillips 46-50, M Aug 4, 2015

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    emswift emswift 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 5, 2015

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    I Am So Lonely Inside

    Doesn't anyone see how lonely I am? Why can't anyone see how sad I am? Can't anyone see how much I hurt? Can't anyone see me struggling to stay alive. I feel so empty. I am losing my wife, my everything and don't really care! I lost who I...
    Sorriso Sorriso 46-50, M 8 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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    Hollidays can be lonely.

    It's that time of year again and the feeling of loneliness is creeping up on me again. I used to really enjoy Thanksgiving and Christmas with family and friends. Now it seems all has disapeared from me and I'm here left all alone again for the Hollidays :(
    UnclesGiraffe UnclesGiraffe 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 6, 2014

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    For a while, all I wanted was to have people

    who cared. But now, I don't think I need anyone. I have the tendency to talk about how I need a friend there for me, but when I actually do, I just push them away. Then I end up hurting them and its all my fault. I can't do this anymore. This is why I was better off alone in the...
    LonelyMystery LonelyMystery 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    People often left without any reason.

    ...when I started talking with someone I feel like we will surely become true friends but at some point they just left..
    RishabhRick RishabhRick 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 2, 2015

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    Trapped In My Head...

    I'm sure anyone who feels lonely, isolated, forgotten or/and completely alone knows what I mean by my title. Thats pretty much how I feel 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I suspect most people never expected to be in this situation but I also suspect that at some point many people...
    homealoneguy homealoneguy 46-50, M 21 Responses Aug 11, 2009

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    the moon glimmer in the sky passes away nd

    gives its way to a new day, but the scar in the heart keeps on getting bigger everyday, evrytime I sit alone I sit up to think u,that's when my heart says even THT u r gone BT I had really loved u, nd if u loose me the loss is actually for u, since u will loose the one shoulder...
    arjish arjish 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    Sometimes I feel like I have no one to talk to,

    it makes me feel so alone. I sometimes feel like most of my friends don't care and there ignoring me and avoiding me. Sometimes when I really need someone to talk to...no one is there. I just feel so alone.
    Louisaxxx Louisaxxx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29, 2014

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    ladycaroline ladycaroline 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2014

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    Several years ago, my gf at the time got

    pregnant. We were going to keep the baby but she freaked out at the last possible legal minute and decided she wanted to have it aborted, which we (I reluctantly) took care of. A couple weeks later, our mutual co-worker cracked and confessed to me that he had sex with her and...
    Grey83 Grey83 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 21, 2015

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    And I Have No One To Blame But Myself.

    I don't know what's wrong with me. I can't keep a friendship because I'm just a ****** friend. I will talk to them and be there for them, but randomly I will feel like I'm being annoying and they're just friends with me out of pity. So I shut down and stop answering their texts...
    SgtWalrus SgtWalrus 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    barelyreal barelyreal 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 11

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    Living Alone

    I'm really social so I'm at my happiest when I'm with other people but as soon as I'm all alone I just kind of shut down and feel less than worthless. It's really becoming a problem that I feel the need to have constant attention/companionship... and it's only getting worse. I...
    louisthepearl louisthepearl 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    This is so true. I cant deal with being lonely

    anymore. It hurts so bad. Not having anyone to care for you or love you. I would want a boyfriend but they are stupid too. I dont know what else to do. I dont even have friends. I need to feel human.
    ihatemyself22 ihatemyself22 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2015

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    I am not sure what to do?

    why is it so hard to meet people with similar interests. going through life with nobody to really share things with is painful. but doing that and being married is miserable
    roadrunnerokie roadrunnerokie 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 24, 2015

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    The Park

    The other day while walking in the park I noticed a couple seated at a picnic table. They were making out like crazy. They seemed so in love. It was sweet. It made me think of when I was a teenager. I used to sneak off to the park and have secret rendezvous with a boy my parents...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Mar 2, 2012

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    I hate feeling so utterly alone,

    like Im not good enough to ever find something worth while. Cant seem to find an honest lover anywhere...
    EclecticDay EclecticDay 22-25, F 1 Response May 14, 2015

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    I literally have no one

    and I just want a good friend
    dxssipate dxssipate 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2015

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    Charmeeee Charmeeee 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2015

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    So Alone

    I never thought I would feel so lonely. The longing has become so strong and  the feeling has become so overwhelming it's depressing. It creates a sense of weakness and for me that's the worst feeling of all. It leaves such a void of emptiness and despair. I mean I'm not a...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 6 Responses May 24, 2011

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    achorusgirl achorusgirl 18-21, F Nov 4, 2015

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    Feeling so lonely need of honest friends

    who can reply back for my text ....male r female don't care//
    Darby4U Darby4U 22-25, M 1 Response May 24, 2015

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    My Shadow And I

    I'm friends with my shadow, it's long tall and black, it mimics every move I make, but never answers me back. It's like another part of me, tied at the heel, trying desperately to escape, never knowing how I feel. I'm always by my shadow, it doesn't matter if there's no...
    alwaysfightingmyemotions alwaysfightingmyemotions 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2012

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