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I Am So Sad and Confused

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    I Just Want To Cry

    he says he loves me but he ignores me i try to spend time with him but he pushes me away im so confused i dont know wot to do i just want to break down and cry but wot will that solve apart from him telling me to stop being so stupid. i used to love my relationship with him but...
    LadyRouge LadyRouge 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    Friends

    I don't know if this is true or it's just me It feels like my friends leave me. Okay I'll give you some examples; (1) My guy friend and I were together almost every day at school, now he has a girlfriend and have more friends than he used to, and I know it's weird of me that I...
    ThisIsNothing ThisIsNothing 13-15, F Oct 13, 2013

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    So me and this guy have been together

    for 7 months, everything was going great. He brought me around his family and they loved me, and my family loved him. We both had had pasts with relationships. He was engaged and she broke it off with him, so I know that's left him with horrible trust issues. He's scared he'll...
    FeelingMiserable12 FeelingMiserable12 18-21, F Jun 21

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    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F Mar 26, 2014

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    Christmas is in a few days

    and I've been thinking lately about how my real dad and I have never met. I've never seen a picture of him and I've only been told about him a few times. I'd just like some straight forward answers.
    maddyb6761 maddyb6761 13-15, F Dec 22, 2014

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    Soo I recently moved in with my bf.

    it wasn't a "oh I love you so much let's love together" thing. More like I was being evicted from my apartment and no where else to go.. Now the relationship seems to be slowly going down hill. And it's only been a month. At this very moment I'm sitting in my car with 9 month...
    Royaltycream Royaltycream 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 5, 2014

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    My Life Seems Like A Disaster And I Feel So Confused And Despairing..

    I wanted to post something here because I am experiencing the sentiments of the group.. I feel so lost right now, my life isn't turning out like I hoped and I'm finding myself alone and unhappy and I don't know how to go about improving things.. if in fact they can be improved...
    blurble blurble 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    do you ever just try way too hard

    for someone you just keep doing it over and over and over and over and over again hoping that somehow it would just change, that someday it's going to wake up and be different then someday it just changes and you're like how did this happen when everyday was the same
    bonyknees bonyknees 18-21, F Mar 4

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    I was hoping this New Year would be special

    for both me and two of my dearest friends. Unfortunately after believing so many things were getting better, I find that is not the case. Only into the second day of this New Year, a large slice of my world has fallen apart. I am lucky I have beautiful memories to hold on to and...
    sweetlovefor2 sweetlovefor2 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    My Friend?

    i feel sad and confused because someone who i thought was my good friend now avoids like someone avoids a leper. I mean she won't even look at me or tell me what it is that's bothering her since as far as i know i haven't done or said anything that may be hurtful because i haven...
    hollywoodlife hollywoodlife 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    So Sad And Confused

    So sad and confused,That's me,On my own again,Wondering why,Did nothing wrong,Why, oh why,Is life like this?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jul 1, 2012

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    The Time Has Come To End The Marriage

     I have been all over the place emotionally for a long time.  Feels like I'm going crazy actually. The ups and downs cannot continue. I started writing about my marriage, hoping to capture something I guess. Writing it all would take a year. It's time to face facts...
    kitten3750 kitten3750 41-45, F Mar 23, 2010

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    Lost And Alone

    yeah, i'm fine"…words i wish i could say and mean. have you ever felt alone? like no one in the world can understand the way you feel, like your the only person in the world stuck in pause? while everyone else is on PLAY ? like you have absolutely no idea what your doing with...
    raginggirl raginggirl 16-17 9 Responses Aug 5, 2010

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    I Just Dont Get You Anymore...

    So I've been seeing this amazing guy since May 2010. I really care for him. In essence, you could say I'm in love with him. :) We get along fine....usually. But jus recently, he started ignoring me. Because of his stupid truck. It broke down, now he doesnt even want to talk to me...
    DeathBeforeDishonour DeathBeforeDishonour 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2010

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    Falling in love is easy,

    staying in love is hard, letting go is harder and moving on is the hardest.
    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2014

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    What Next?

    seems like i have caused this all myself but i know i havnt. I am a 17 stone 6ft one guy but i have a year and a half of bullying from my boss to contend with. I have also lost my marriage (although she wants me back, probably for my large salary) and i am at my wits end now...
    simonplumb simonplumb 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    About 18 months ago I got engaged to my then

    boyfriend after dating for about a year. He moved in with me and my flat mate, and he was so clean and tidy. He was very conscious of his looks and always went to the gym. I was so attracted to him. He used to clean up after himself and buy groceries etc. We moved into our own...
    Tina411 Tina411 31-35 2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    Just don't understand,

    logic tells me it's not all my fault. I can replay the events in my head and know it wasn't my fault. But I still feel guilty, I still blame me. It's not my fault but if he doesn't see that, I won't either. I'll say sorry again and hope this one softens him. That he'll feel...
    AlaskanBeliever AlaskanBeliever 18-21, F Oct 13, 2014

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    He Just Doesn't Love Me Enough.

    I simply do not understand how the person that claims to love me like he has never loved anyone in his life can be so mean and nasty but claim those things are just said in anger.  I also do not understand why he has not made the effort to see me in almost 9 months - I guess...
    jms1970 jms1970 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Oh God Just One Bus

    i have been with my wife for almost 2 years, i love her like i have loved no other. But i keep getting this feeling that she is stepping out on me. its not tangible signs, its her mood its her eyes it her hidden inner self that scares the hell out of me. I would have ran a long...
    springtight springtight 36-40 1 Response Dec 4, 2011

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    Dont Know What To Do

    this is not really a story I really just need an advice I have two lil ones and I do live with my baby's daddy and he is just not the same he is always in a bad mood he doesn't help me with my girls he is not even nice well just at times but I feel like he doesn't love me anymore...
    lostandconfuse lostandconfuse 22-25 Apr 19, 2013

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    I'm so sad and confused.

    So I'm in a lot of pain right now because of my tummy. It hurts like and I took a lotta meds already. I hate how my parents won't take me to a doctor and how they make me feel worse than I'm feeling right now. They care more about their friends and they always point out their...
    Dinden123 Dinden123 18-21, F Jan 10, 2014

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    I'm in this weird kind of place where I feel alone and so lonely, all my friends are getting into relationships! I feel like I want to because I feel lonely (not that I even meet...
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    I am confused about my daily life, my job, what I want to do and where I want to live? Pretty much everything
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    i have been confused about my gender for awhile now, i have never actually felt like a guy I always feel very feminine I dont know what to think
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    I've always told people to not care about what people think, and now I;m worrying even more then anyone I know. I always tell myself not to worry about them and what they think...
    FloppyFish FloppyFish 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    When i am sad .... I hear sad music to make me double sad
    Justimagine1 Justimagine1 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    At times .. I just can have this other side of me that doesn't sound me. It is just frustrated and fed up and angry a bit. I think I do it to myself actually because I allow my...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    If you were me... what would you do? I met my boyfriend when I wasn't really looking.. tired of all the game playing and looking to settle down. He came along with baggage a...
    willowAnn2434 willowAnn2434 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am so sad. I'm not sad every second of everyday. Honestly I'm not sad everyday. But I feel the feeling creeping back. I can't enjoy anything because I'm think about it. I can...
    EleanorSmithson EleanorSmithson 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    It is like I have been feeling sad and gloomy for so long now. I am not sure what is exactly causing this feeling, I look at my life and I don't see a certain critical problem that...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am dating a guy who lives 2 hours away, and I was happy until this guy who lives only about 15-20 mins away said he liked me and he could see me everyday and all that. I'm so...
    goawayyouregross goawayyouregross 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hello. I get confused with my feelings sometimes. For example, when I'm joyful and having fun I love everything and go against everything bad like cruelty. But when I'm anger or...
    ImConfusedSo ImConfusedSo 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Ok so I'm a newly Wed, and I have a terrible feeling that my Husband might be gay. Our sex life is terrible with half sex every 3months or so . And almost feels as he's obligated...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I recently got back with my ex boyfriend and I made a mistake and snooped through his messages. There was a message to his ex wife about how much he still loves her and how sad he...
    mwest1112 mwest1112 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't know what I feel. I'm just here. I almost feel high because I feel nothing. But it's not like I'm deeply depressed anymore. I just feel nothing. I'm also just confused with...
    EleanorSmithson EleanorSmithson 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I dont know what i m doing ,will it help me in the future, i m totally confused what i will do,will i be single forever, there are so many questions which answers are not so...
    Dreck007 Dreck007 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I learned in life that you need to be sad, you have to understand the fundamental reasons why you get sad. Has anyone seen inside out? Without sadness, you wouldn't appreciate...
    creativePerspective creativePerspective 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am writing this here because I have no one to talk to about it. I have always known I've been interested in girls since a young age. At the age of 21 now I have been in 2...
    epsarah94 epsarah94 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    There are times where you get so emotional And nothing anyone says can make you change Anything anyone does is a distraction From an unknown more important thing We all need to...
    KilljoyKitty KilljoyKitty 18-21, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I act happy even when I'm sad because I always get in trouble for being sad. Everyone I live with thinks it's annoying, also my guardians think I'll rub my sad negativity on the...
    TheWordsOfDeadGirl TheWordsOfDeadGirl 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I have a really close guy friend that I think I have feelings for. However, I'm not sure if I want anything to happen between us. I'm also confused if he likes me or not. Maybe the...
    fadedenim fadedenim 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I feel kinda confused about things like long distance. I do well talking to females but most are in a differnt state all together. I feel like I won't fins someone near me but I...
    ElSabre101 ElSabre101 26-30, M Jul 25

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    Sadness is necessary I order to feel true happiness and appreciation. There have been several points in my life when I was depressed for months at a time. There's always this...
    Jthecat Jthecat 16-17, F Jul 25