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I Am So Sad and Confused

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    do you ever just try way too hard

    for someone you just keep doing it over and over and over and over and over again hoping that somehow it would just change, that someday it's going to wake up and be different then someday it just changes and you're like how did this happen when everyday was the same
    bonyknees bonyknees 18-21, F Mar 4

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    Oh God Just One Bus

    i have been with my wife for almost 2 years, i love her like i have loved no other. But i keep getting this feeling that she is stepping out on me. its not tangible signs, its her mood its her eyes it her hidden inner self that scares the hell out of me. I would have ran a long...
    springtight springtight 36-40 1 Response Dec 4, 2011

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    Christmas is in a few days

    and I've been thinking lately about how my real dad and I have never met. I've never seen a picture of him and I've only been told about him a few times. I'd just like some straight forward answers.
    maddyb6761 maddyb6761 13-15, F Dec 22, 2014

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    Soo I recently moved in with my bf.

    it wasn't a "oh I love you so much let's love together" thing. More like I was being evicted from my apartment and no where else to go.. Now the relationship seems to be slowly going down hill. And it's only been a month. At this very moment I'm sitting in my car with 9 month...
    Royaltycream Royaltycream 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 5, 2014

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    About 18 months ago I got engaged to my then

    boyfriend after dating for about a year. He moved in with me and my flat mate, and he was so clean and tidy. He was very conscious of his looks and always went to the gym. I was so attracted to him. He used to clean up after himself and buy groceries etc. We moved into our own...
    Tina411 Tina411 31-35 2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    Dont Know What To Do

    this is not really a story I really just need an advice I have two lil ones and I do live with my baby's daddy and he is just not the same he is always in a bad mood he doesn't help me with my girls he is not even nice well just at times but I feel like he doesn't love me anymore...
    lostandconfuse lostandconfuse 22-25 Apr 19, 2013

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    I was hoping this New Year would be special

    for both me and two of my dearest friends. Unfortunately after believing so many things were getting better, I find that is not the case. Only into the second day of this New Year, a large slice of my world has fallen apart. I am lucky I have beautiful memories to hold on to and...
    sweetlovefor2 sweetlovefor2 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    He Just Doesn't Love Me Enough.

    I simply do not understand how the person that claims to love me like he has never loved anyone in his life can be so mean and nasty but claim those things are just said in anger.  I also do not understand why he has not made the effort to see me in almost 9 months - I guess...
    jms1970 jms1970 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    The Time Has Come To End The Marriage

     I have been all over the place emotionally for a long time.  Feels like I'm going crazy actually. The ups and downs cannot continue. I started writing about my marriage, hoping to capture something I guess. Writing it all would take a year. It's time to face facts...
    kitten3750 kitten3750 41-45, F Mar 23, 2010

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    I Just Want To Cry

    he says he loves me but he ignores me i try to spend time with him but he pushes me away im so confused i dont know wot to do i just want to break down and cry but wot will that solve apart from him telling me to stop being so stupid. i used to love my relationship with him but...
    LadyRouge LadyRouge 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    My Friend?

    i feel sad and confused because someone who i thought was my good friend now avoids like someone avoids a leper. I mean she won't even look at me or tell me what it is that's bothering her since as far as i know i haven't done or said anything that may be hurtful because i haven...
    hollywoodlife hollywoodlife 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    Just don't understand,

    logic tells me it's not all my fault. I can replay the events in my head and know it wasn't my fault. But I still feel guilty, I still blame me. It's not my fault but if he doesn't see that, I won't either. I'll say sorry again and hope this one softens him. That he'll feel...
    AlaskanBeliever AlaskanBeliever 18-21, F Oct 13, 2014

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    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F Mar 26, 2014

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    I Just Dont Get You Anymore...

    So I've been seeing this amazing guy since May 2010. I really care for him. In essence, you could say I'm in love with him. :) We get along fine....usually. But jus recently, he started ignoring me. Because of his stupid truck. It broke down, now he doesnt even want to talk to me...
    DeathBeforeDishonour DeathBeforeDishonour 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2010

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    What Next?

    seems like i have caused this all myself but i know i havnt. I am a 17 stone 6ft one guy but i have a year and a half of bullying from my boss to contend with. I have also lost my marriage (although she wants me back, probably for my large salary) and i am at my wits end now...
    simonplumb simonplumb 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    My Life Seems Like A Disaster And I Feel So Confused And Despairing..

    I wanted to post something here because I am experiencing the sentiments of the group.. I feel so lost right now, my life isn't turning out like I hoped and I'm finding myself alone and unhappy and I don't know how to go about improving things.. if in fact they can be improved...
    blurble blurble 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Falling in love is easy,

    staying in love is hard, letting go is harder and moving on is the hardest.
    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2014

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    Friends

    I don't know if this is true or it's just me It feels like my friends leave me. Okay I'll give you some examples; (1) My guy friend and I were together almost every day at school, now he has a girlfriend and have more friends than he used to, and I know it's weird of me that I...
    ThisIsNothing ThisIsNothing 13-15, F Oct 13, 2013

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    So Sad And Confused

    So sad and confused,That's me,On my own again,Wondering why,Did nothing wrong,Why, oh why,Is life like this?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jul 1, 2012

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    I'm so sad and confused.

    So I'm in a lot of pain right now because of my tummy. It hurts like and I took a lotta meds already. I hate how my parents won't take me to a doctor and how they make me feel worse than I'm feeling right now. They care more about their friends and they always point out their...
    Dinden123 Dinden123 18-21, F Jan 10, 2014

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    Lost And Alone

    yeah, i'm fine"…words i wish i could say and mean. have you ever felt alone? like no one in the world can understand the way you feel, like your the only person in the world stuck in pause? while everyone else is on PLAY ? like you have absolutely no idea what your doing with...
    raginggirl raginggirl 16-17 9 Responses Aug 5, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    This isn't really a story, but I just noticed that this person I've been "arguing" with misgendered the author of the comment we were discussing.. I didn't look at the author's...
    AaronH96 AaronH96 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I am sad. I dont think my relationship will last. We're engaged now but i dont think we'll get married cuz we're fighting so much. Plus i have trust issues with him. He had lied a...
    anxieshame anxieshame 26-30, F Mar 6

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    Well I haven't posted in a while but here goes you may seem my previous post about how my husband beats me while no surprises I caught him cheating. We are a young couple and he's...
    alone121906 alone121906 18-21 Mar 19

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    So all of my life, I have liked guys. Not girls. Not in that way. but recently I have been having... in the words of Jack Sparrow, stirrings for my best friend. Now I have known...
    futurefish futurefish 16-17, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    RE: Divorce‏ There is one more thing how dare you ask me to be amiable you messed everything up you have no rights any more you gave all those up when you committed adultery...
    reddwarf1910 reddwarf1910 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I need opinions. positive and negative. it doesn't matter to me, I'm sure all will be helpful. it will give me views from all different sides. well here it goes, I've been with my...
    seximexi92 seximexi92 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I get confused and lost often lately. I am in a state I've never seen before, visited, and know nobody. Except for my boyfriend and roommates. Often ask myself, "where am I...
    PartyGuy21 PartyGuy21 18-21, M Mar 4

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    Confused. Oh so very confused. Mixed feelings.. so overwhelming. The good things and the bad things constantly clutter my mind. Which outweighs the other? Are they equal? Not...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ill admit I use my phone when I should be spending time with my boyfriend n he brought that issue up today but that brought up a whole bunch of issues and now he wants me to 'leave...
    TallyO TallyO 16-17, F Mar 1

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    I'm really confused right now because basically I like this guy but everytime he try's to talk or ask for my number I just panic and say no😐😐 wtf is wrong with me?!?
    ThePinkPowerRangerBitch ThePinkPowerRangerBitch 16-17, F Mar 2

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    I am confused because I have many things to do it but i have not enough time to do it
    Albert352014 Albert352014 26-30, M Mar 2

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    I am confused because I have many things to do it but i have not enough time to do it
    Albert352014 Albert352014 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 2

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    I really really REALLY like someone on ep, but Im not sure she feels the same. I am willing to wait for her if there is a possibility it will work out (or at least try). We have...
    ZakaryJosephJones ZakaryJosephJones 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 3

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    I been very confused about my so called relationship. i am not happy because i feel like i am unloved and unappreciated. what makes matters worse is that i am afraid to open up my...
    db174 db174 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I am so confused about how i feel right now... i thought i liked this guy and he told me he liked me, but then he just started ignoring me and now My best friend was told by my...
    kjerstieb kjerstieb 16-17, F Mar 3

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    I'm confused about my sexuality I know I am in love with girls but I don't know if I like guys I don't know if I'm gay or bi :-/ I wish I knew
    WeridGirlRawr WeridGirlRawr 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    A short while ago my boyfriend was sending dirty messages to one of his female 'friends'. It turns out it was him sending those messages and she was just brushing it off, not...
    RedPizza RedPizza 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    I went to a concert last night and this guy grabbed me and grinded on me so hard and I was really confused and after when I turned around there was no there
    tiki18 tiki18 13-15, F Mar 7

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    Sometimes more confused about them than other times.
    StellatedOdin StellatedOdin 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 8

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    😔 Maybe it's because I'm ill but that has me confused and idk 😔
    normalguy18 normalguy18 18-21, M Mar 10

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    Ok so this guy I like all of a sudden stop txting me. Like we used to talk all the time. And now it's like we hardly even talk. Maybe he doesn't like talking to me. Maybe his bored...
    x3myonewish x3myonewish 18-21, F Mar 10

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    When I was a Junior in high school I dated this boy and we were madly in love. We dated until after graduation, we went to Junior and Senior prom together and lost our virginity to...
    Rah04 Rah04 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 10

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