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I Am So Sad and Confused

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 137 People

    Falling in love is easy,

    staying in love is hard, letting go is harder and moving on is the hardest.
    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    The Time Has Come To End The Marriage

     I have been all over the place emotionally for a long time.  Feels like I'm going crazy actually. The ups and downs cannot continue. I started writing about my marriage, hoping to capture something I guess. Writing it all would take a year. It's time to face facts...
    kitten3750 kitten3750 41-45, F Mar 23, 2010

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    So Sad And Confused

    So sad and confused,That's me,On my own again,Wondering why,Did nothing wrong,Why, oh why,Is life like this?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jul 1, 2012

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    He Just Doesn't Love Me Enough.

    I simply do not understand how the person that claims to love me like he has never loved anyone in his life can be so mean and nasty but claim those things are just said in anger.  I also do not understand why he has not made the effort to see me in almost 9 months - I guess...
    jms1970 jms1970 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Just don't understand,

    logic tells me it's not all my fault. I can replay the events in my head and know it wasn't my fault. But I still feel guilty, I still blame me. It's not my fault but if he doesn't see that, I won't either. I'll say sorry again and hope this one softens him. That he'll feel...
    AlaskanBeliever AlaskanBeliever 18-21, F Oct 13

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    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F Mar 26

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    Soo I recently moved in with my bf.

    it wasn't a "oh I love you so much let's love together" thing. More like I was being evicted from my apartment and no where else to go.. Now the relationship seems to be slowly going down hill. And it's only been a month. At this very moment I'm sitting in my car with 9 month...
    Royaltycream Royaltycream 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    What Next?

    seems like i have caused this all myself but i know i havnt. I am a 17 stone 6ft one guy but i have a year and a half of bullying from my boss to contend with. I have also lost my marriage (although she wants me back, probably for my large salary) and i am at my wits end now...
    simonplumb simonplumb 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    Oh God Just One Bus

    i have been with my wife for almost 2 years, i love her like i have loved no other. But i keep getting this feeling that she is stepping out on me. its not tangible signs, its her mood its her eyes it her hidden inner self that scares the hell out of me. I would have ran a long...
    springtight springtight 36-40 1 Response Dec 4, 2011

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    Dont Know What To Do

    this is not really a story I really just need an advice I have two lil ones and I do live with my baby's daddy and he is just not the same he is always in a bad mood he doesn't help me with my girls he is not even nice well just at times but I feel like he doesn't love me anymore...
    lostandconfuse lostandconfuse 22-25 Apr 19, 2013

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    My Life Seems Like A Disaster And I Feel So Confused And Despairing..

    I wanted to post something here because I am experiencing the sentiments of the group.. I feel so lost right now, my life isn't turning out like I hoped and I'm finding myself alone and unhappy and I don't know how to go about improving things.. if in fact they can be improved...
    blurble blurble 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    About 18 months ago I got engaged to my then

    boyfriend after dating for about a year. He moved in with me and my flat mate, and he was so clean and tidy. He was very conscious of his looks and always went to the gym. I was so attracted to him. He used to clean up after himself and buy groceries etc. We moved into our own...
    Tina411 Tina411 26-30 2 Responses Oct 13

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    Friends

    I don't know if this is true or it's just me It feels like my friends leave me. Okay I'll give you some examples; (1) My guy friend and I were together almost every day at school, now he has a girlfriend and have more friends than he used to, and I know it's weird of me that I...
    ThisIsNothing ThisIsNothing 13-15, F Oct 13, 2013

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    I Just Dont Get You Anymore...

    So I've been seeing this amazing guy since May 2010. I really care for him. In essence, you could say I'm in love with him. :) We get along fine....usually. But jus recently, he started ignoring me. Because of his stupid truck. It broke down, now he doesnt even want to talk to me...
    DeathBeforeDishonour DeathBeforeDishonour 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2010

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    I Just Want To Cry

    he says he loves me but he ignores me i try to spend time with him but he pushes me away im so confused i dont know wot to do i just want to break down and cry but wot will that solve apart from him telling me to stop being so stupid. i used to love my relationship with him but...
    LadyRouge LadyRouge 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    My Friend?

    i feel sad and confused because someone who i thought was my good friend now avoids like someone avoids a leper. I mean she won't even look at me or tell me what it is that's bothering her since as far as i know i haven't done or said anything that may be hurtful because i haven...
    hollywoodlife hollywoodlife 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    Lost And Alone

    yeah, i'm fine"…words i wish i could say and mean. have you ever felt alone? like no one in the world can understand the way you feel, like your the only person in the world stuck in pause? while everyone else is on PLAY ? like you have absolutely no idea what your doing with...
    raginggirl raginggirl 16-17 9 Responses Aug 5, 2010

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    I'm so sad and confused.

    So I'm in a lot of pain right now because of my tummy. It hurts like and I took a lotta meds already. I hate how my parents won't take me to a doctor and how they make me feel worse than I'm feeling right now. They care more about their friends and they always point out their...
    Dinden123 Dinden123 18-21, F Jan 10

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    well I'm back , and this time everything is not rainbows and flowers with my relationship . to make this short , my boyfriend thinks that I complain way too much now and that...
    bananasxoxo bananasxoxo 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I am very confused about my relationship with my dad. Over the past 19 years my dad has never really been there for me emotionally. Even though he has always made sure I have had a...
    LonelyGirl547 LonelyGirl547 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    went to court today....i was there and my ex was there....something happened today that was totally unexpected, the judge let him go home which is means to be happy right? it is...
    turnpike1971 turnpike1971 41-45, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I'm too much confused about my life about my feelings I don't know what to do next. I feel sad sometimes & feel did I took wrong steps in my life even tho everything other side is...
    Lostmyselfinpain Lostmyselfinpain 26-30, M Nov 28

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    I hate when I do... because idk, it changes everything and next thing I know I'm all sad and having freaky thoughts. Just letting thoughts out I suppose, letting my mind have a...
    debonaireash debonaireash 16-17, M Dec 3

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    I hate being heartbroken that im listening to sad songs right now. And I wish I had a bf to hold me close
    KatieBug16 KatieBug16 16-17, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I'm sad because it's my last home game for school but happy I get to be on the soccer team again
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    I am so happy yet so sad at the same time. It's even confusing me. It's weird how some people can make such a huge difference in your life. Some in a good way, some in a bad way...
    DreamingSouls DreamingSouls 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    So this all started in March 2014 I met a beautiful woman, she had a boyfriend at the time but what she never mentioned (witch is understandable as to why) is that she was being...
    Gingeee Gingeee 22-25, M Dec 1

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    I dont know if Im really sad or if sadness just became my habit.
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    A sad story... One day a guy and a girl decided to break up, many were shocked because their relationship was so ideal no one knows the reason why they separated. Years later the...
    Moonembracingthesun Moonembracingthesun 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Today is a bad day. Today is a sad day. Today is just not good... I stay in bed looking through the window the snow falling. I feel my soul slowly dying... I should feel excited...
    JessyMercy JessyMercy 26-30, F Nov 18

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    November 19. Accepting Our Feelings. Why do we struggle so with our feelings? Why do we work so hard to deny our emotions, especially concerning other people? They are only...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Nov 19

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    Why am I able to say the meanest and the saddest thing with no remorse but It's so hard to say stuff like " I love you" and "you're beautiful" and anything nice / passionate?
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 5 Responses Nov 19

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    First of all, I’m a closeted lesbian with Christian values who happens to be utterly confused concerning the reconciliation of both my sexuality and religion. I’m from...
    laumx14 laumx14 18-21, F Nov 22

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    2 years before i sent a frnd req on fb to a girl. She accepted it and we stared chating on fb and later on phone also. We became good friends abd slowly slowly i was going to like...
    manish4love manish4love 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    As you walk my way Do you see my face? Sad behind a smile Fake it for a while Tell me what should I do? Can I get closer to you? Tell me the truth Can I get an answer from you...
    MeowOnMe MeowOnMe 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    December 15. Feelings. It's okay to have and feel our feelings - all of them. Years into recovery, we may still be battling with ourselves about this issue. Of all the...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    i have a friend tim and since meeting him i have had an array of changing feelings. it started off with me not caring about him either way and having no opinons about him, really...
    iridescenteyes iridescenteyes 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    Have you ever tried getting hurt,left,just played around,then you cried,then you already did everything just to have them back,then they still dumped you,then comes the suicidal...
    Achelle07 Achelle07 18-21, F Nov 27

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    I'm 20 years old now, and couldn't feel more lost and confused about the direction my life has taken over the past 2 1/2 years. Ever since I graduated in 2012, I've been all about...
    jetlife631 jetlife631 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 2

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    Hello everyone. This is my first post ever. I am so very confused about my relationship. I am 30 and I have been with this guy who is just 2 years older to me. We have been...
    hema51 hema51 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 10

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    I am in college, and recently had my first sexual encounter with another girl, and it has left me feeling very confused. I can remember being curious about my sexuality since...
    TashaIIL TashaIIL 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I just don't get it... Why do parents reward their children for misbehaving? My 21-yr-old step-daughter has been on drugs and booze (in excess) for years now. Her parents live in...
    fishsweeper fishsweeper 51-55, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I don’t remember the last time I was genuinely happy. I don't think I'm sad but I know I'm not happy. I don’t have a reason not to be happy. I have my health, my family, a roof...
    forlornm forlornm 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    THE RAMBLINGS OF MY MIND What did I do? I don't know how I got here. I make sure my boundaries are clear... I don't want to lead anyone on. Always. I am polite too. I...
    unluckE unluckE 31-35, M Nov 19

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    I'm a male, 24 years old. I've gone back and forth on my sexuality. Sometimes I feel I'm gay, sometimes I feel I'm bi, other times I feel I'm straight. I feel like deep down I'm...
    hunterrrama hunterrrama 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 19

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    Here's an update on my tragic love story. I can't focus too heavily on writing like I used to because of how much work I have. So, I'll do my best. I am so confused...I hardly...
    Drag0nMaster Drag0nMaster 18-21, F Nov 19

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    Not certain if being in a relationship has a particular mode for that. But I'm positive that every couples surely have their own mode of relationship. Not that we ve to tell each...
    JonDanny JonDanny 18-21, F Nov 19

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