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I Am So Sad and Confused

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    I Just Want To Cry

    he says he loves me but he ignores me i try to spend time with him but he pushes me away im so confused i dont know wot to do i just want to break down and cry but wot will that solve apart from him telling me to stop being so stupid. i used to love my relationship with him but...
    LadyRouge LadyRouge 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    He Just Doesn't Love Me Enough.

    I simply do not understand how the person that claims to love me like he has never loved anyone in his life can be so mean and nasty but claim those things are just said in anger.  I also do not understand why he has not made the effort to see me in almost 9 months - I guess...
    jms1970 jms1970 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    So Sad And Confused

    So sad and confused,That's me,On my own again,Wondering why,Did nothing wrong,Why, oh why,Is life like this?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jul 1, 2012

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    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F Mar 26

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    Friends

    I don't know if this is true or it's just me It feels like my friends leave me. Okay I'll give you some examples; (1) My guy friend and I were together almost every day at school, now he has a girlfriend and have more friends than he used to, and I know it's weird of me that I...
    ThisIsNothing ThisIsNothing 13-15, F Oct 13, 2013

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    Falling in love is easy,

    staying in love is hard, letting go is harder and moving on is the hardest.
    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F Aug 16

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    What Next?

    seems like i have caused this all myself but i know i havnt. I am a 17 stone 6ft one guy but i have a year and a half of bullying from my boss to contend with. I have also lost my marriage (although she wants me back, probably for my large salary) and i am at my wits end now...
    simonplumb simonplumb 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    The Time Has Come To End The Marriage

     I have been all over the place emotionally for a long time.  Feels like I'm going crazy actually. The ups and downs cannot continue. I started writing about my marriage, hoping to capture something I guess. Writing it all would take a year. It's time to face facts...
    kitten3750 kitten3750 41-45, F Mar 23, 2010

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    My Friend?

    i feel sad and confused because someone who i thought was my good friend now avoids like someone avoids a leper. I mean she won't even look at me or tell me what it is that's bothering her since as far as i know i haven't done or said anything that may be hurtful because i haven...
    hollywoodlife hollywoodlife 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    I'm so sad and confused.

    So I'm in a lot of pain right now because of my tummy. It hurts like and I took a lotta meds already. I hate how my parents won't take me to a doctor and how they make me feel worse than I'm feeling right now. They care more about their friends and they always point out their...
    Dinden123 Dinden123 18-21, F Jan 10

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    Dont Know What To Do

    this is not really a story I really just need an advice I have two lil ones and I do live with my baby's daddy and he is just not the same he is always in a bad mood he doesn't help me with my girls he is not even nice well just at times but I feel like he doesn't love me anymore...
    lostandconfuse lostandconfuse 22-25 Apr 19, 2013

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    I Just Dont Get You Anymore...

    So I've been seeing this amazing guy since May 2010. I really care for him. In essence, you could say I'm in love with him. :) We get along fine....usually. But jus recently, he started ignoring me. Because of his stupid truck. It broke down, now he doesnt even want to talk to me...
    DeathBeforeDishonour DeathBeforeDishonour 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2010

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    Soo I recently moved in with my bf.

    it wasn't a "oh I love you so much let's love together" thing. More like I was being evicted from my apartment and no where else to go.. Now the relationship seems to be slowly going down hill. And it's only been a month. At this very moment I'm sitting in my car with 9 month...
    Royaltycream Royaltycream 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    My Life Seems Like A Disaster And I Feel So Confused And Despairing..

    I wanted to post something here because I am experiencing the sentiments of the group.. I feel so lost right now, my life isn't turning out like I hoped and I'm finding myself alone and unhappy and I don't know how to go about improving things.. if in fact they can be improved...
    blurble blurble 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Lost And Alone

    yeah, i'm fine"…words i wish i could say and mean. have you ever felt alone? like no one in the world can understand the way you feel, like your the only person in the world stuck in pause? while everyone else is on PLAY ? like you have absolutely no idea what your doing with...
    raginggirl raginggirl 16-17 9 Responses Aug 5, 2010

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    Oh God Just One Bus

    i have been with my wife for almost 2 years, i love her like i have loved no other. But i keep getting this feeling that she is stepping out on me. its not tangible signs, its her mood its her eyes it her hidden inner self that scares the hell out of me. I would have ran a long...
    springtight springtight 36-40 1 Response Dec 4, 2011

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    I've never felt this way in past relationships as I feel now. I think bout him constantly. I want to tell him how I feel but I can't it's only a month. I tend to over think things...
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    I made a mistake and read a past conversation I had with someone. Now I feel sad, confused and unsure of why I feel sad and confused. Reading it now with a new mind frame opened...
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      So recently I started a college course, In doing so I was ready for to change and be productive. I remember being excited for the work to come and make something of myself...
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    Usually when I watch it by myself I let it all out lol but when I watch a movie and a sad part comes on I try so hard to keep it in haha
    xxMelisssa xxMelisssa 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    My coworker Tim and I became very close in the past month. When he first started working at my store, the security guard and I had a lot of fun at his expense because we thought he...
    iridescenteyes iridescenteyes 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am a 17 year old sadist with a submissive girlfriend. Unfortunately my girlfriend lives far away and I only get to see her once a fortnight, sometimes even longer. Ive really...
    jackh219 jackh219 16-17, M Aug 17

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    I am a 17 year old sadist with a submissive girlfriend. Unfortunately my girlfriend lives far away and I only get to see her once a fortnight, sometimes even longer. Ive really...
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    I am a 17 year old sadist with a submissive girlfriend. Unfortunately my girlfriend lives far away and I only get to see her once a fortnight, sometimes even longer. Ive really...
    jackh219 jackh219 16-17, M Aug 17

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    I'll be the first to admit that I mocked long distance relationships, I genuinely believed that they couldn't possibly exist and be real. Now I feel more confused than ever before...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Hello, About 2 weeks ago I was diagnosed with depression, though I would say I have been depressed for a few months it has really got me to a point where I need to write this...
    guethary guethary 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    sadness is all I feel. I am so confused to what I'm supposed to do.
    jessicawalsh jessicawalsh 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Sep 8

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    August 25th was a rainy day. I remember because I was running into the house from the car when I got a phone call. It was a phone call from one of my bestfriends, Molly. she is...
    madisonwebster31 madisonwebster31 13-15, F 10 hrs ago

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    First the anger, then the sadness, then the blankness. What a fun roller coaster ride of emotions ....
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I want attention. I break up with him. 2weeks later I miss him like crazy. I text him, and he told me yea u were right we not meant to be. Is all my bad, I use this all the time...
    VolatileMe VolatileMe 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I can't describe how I feel anymore. I feel sad while I can easily say I feel happy. I can laugh and smile but just as easily cry and break. I don't know how to feel anymore...
    makedamnnsure makedamnnsure 13-15, F Aug 18

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    I don't know what to do anymore. I'm so confused and lost. Sometimes I just want to kill myself. When I tell my parents how I feel my dad tells me to man up. And my mom says I'm...
    blakechapman21 blakechapman21 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    But i need to share my life experience . My parents got divorced when i had 14 , i moved with my mom and sister out of our house . i had few relationships when i had 17 till 18...
    agirlouthere agirlouthere 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    Hello, I am a girl and I am a dreamer i have always believed firmly on every dream I had and am ready to give everything for them. I have seen my dreams die last year when my 4...
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u 22-25, F Aug 27

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    I get overwhelmed by strong feelings of a responsibility for my community, and saddened by my inability to do anything. I recently lost a friend to gang violence, and it makes me...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30 1 Response Aug 27

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    All this time I thought he was my boyfriend hmmm guess I was wrong just wish I would have known that before I said I loved him, guess we will always be **** Friends its just sad...
    myn1 myn1 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    This exact title. I don't quite know what to do or how to cope anymore. All my bf cares about is going out with the lads, god knows what they get up to-I just have to wait up for...
    bubbles123xxx bubbles123xxx 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    SavannahCole SavannahCole 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My bf talks about our future kids, business, and life. Monday through Friday he is so relaxed and lazy which I know that's one of men's many favorite things to do :) I'm fine with...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    My boyfriend of a year and a half has put me second to girls he claims he USED to like. I hate feeling second to someone i put first, always. I never knew how jealous of a person...
    micheller1995 micheller1995 18-21, F Aug 17

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    i am confused whether to go back to my home town or not... am a single mom, and the father of my daughter left us and lived with a married woman. his support is so insufficient...
    ahho ahho 31-35, F Aug 19

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    Im a girl who has feelings towards my bestfriend who is a girl too. Im inlove with her for a long time yet still not have gotten over it. We went different ways after I graduated...
    iFuckenLoveYou iFuckenLoveYou 18-21, F Aug 22

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    Ok, so, if you've seen one of my last posts, you'll know that theres this guy I like. Its really hard to tell if he likes me though, you'll see why I'm confused. So, we were...
    VolcanoTheDragon VolcanoTheDragon 13-15, F Sep 1

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