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I Am So Sad and Confused

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    Dont Know What To Do

    this is not really a story I really just need an advice I have two lil ones and I do live with my baby's daddy and he is just not the same he is always in a bad mood he doesn't help me with my girls he is not even nice well just at times but I feel like he doesn't love me anymore...
    lostandconfuse lostandconfuse 22-25 Apr 19, 2013

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    He Just Doesn't Love Me Enough.

    I simply do not understand how the person that claims to love me like he has never loved anyone in his life can be so mean and nasty but claim those things are just said in anger.  I also do not understand why he has not made the effort to see me in almost 9 months - I guess...
    jms1970 jms1970 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Soo I recently moved in with my bf.

    it wasn't a "oh I love you so much let's love together" thing. More like I was being evicted from my apartment and no where else to go.. Now the relationship seems to be slowly going down hill. And it's only been a month. At this very moment I'm sitting in my car with 9 month...
    Royaltycream Royaltycream 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    Lost And Alone

    yeah, i'm fine"…words i wish i could say and mean. have you ever felt alone? like no one in the world can understand the way you feel, like your the only person in the world stuck in pause? while everyone else is on PLAY ? like you have absolutely no idea what your doing with...
    raginggirl raginggirl 16-17 9 Responses Aug 5, 2010

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    Just don't understand,

    logic tells me it's not all my fault. I can replay the events in my head and know it wasn't my fault. But I still feel guilty, I still blame me. It's not my fault but if he doesn't see that, I won't either. I'll say sorry again and hope this one softens him. That he'll feel...
    AlaskanBeliever AlaskanBeliever 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    What Next?

    seems like i have caused this all myself but i know i havnt. I am a 17 stone 6ft one guy but i have a year and a half of bullying from my boss to contend with. I have also lost my marriage (although she wants me back, probably for my large salary) and i am at my wits end now...
    simonplumb simonplumb 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    Falling in love is easy,

    staying in love is hard, letting go is harder and moving on is the hardest.
    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Friends

    I don't know if this is true or it's just me It feels like my friends leave me. Okay I'll give you some examples; (1) My guy friend and I were together almost every day at school, now he has a girlfriend and have more friends than he used to, and I know it's weird of me that I...
    ThisIsNothing ThisIsNothing 13-15, F Oct 13, 2013

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    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F Mar 26

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    My Life Seems Like A Disaster And I Feel So Confused And Despairing..

    I wanted to post something here because I am experiencing the sentiments of the group.. I feel so lost right now, my life isn't turning out like I hoped and I'm finding myself alone and unhappy and I don't know how to go about improving things.. if in fact they can be improved...
    blurble blurble 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    I Just Dont Get You Anymore...

    So I've been seeing this amazing guy since May 2010. I really care for him. In essence, you could say I'm in love with him. :) We get along fine....usually. But jus recently, he started ignoring me. Because of his stupid truck. It broke down, now he doesnt even want to talk to me...
    DeathBeforeDishonour DeathBeforeDishonour 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2010

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    About 18 months ago I got engaged to my then

    boyfriend after dating for about a year. He moved in with me and my flat mate, and he was so clean and tidy. He was very conscious of his looks and always went to the gym. I was so attracted to him. He used to clean up after himself and buy groceries etc. We moved into our own...
    Tina411 Tina411 26-30 2 Responses Oct 13

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    So Sad And Confused

    So sad and confused,That's me,On my own again,Wondering why,Did nothing wrong,Why, oh why,Is life like this?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jul 1, 2012

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    Oh God Just One Bus

    i have been with my wife for almost 2 years, i love her like i have loved no other. But i keep getting this feeling that she is stepping out on me. its not tangible signs, its her mood its her eyes it her hidden inner self that scares the hell out of me. I would have ran a long...
    springtight springtight 36-40 1 Response Dec 4, 2011

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    My Friend?

    i feel sad and confused because someone who i thought was my good friend now avoids like someone avoids a leper. I mean she won't even look at me or tell me what it is that's bothering her since as far as i know i haven't done or said anything that may be hurtful because i haven...
    hollywoodlife hollywoodlife 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    The Time Has Come To End The Marriage

     I have been all over the place emotionally for a long time.  Feels like I'm going crazy actually. The ups and downs cannot continue. I started writing about my marriage, hoping to capture something I guess. Writing it all would take a year. It's time to face facts...
    kitten3750 kitten3750 41-45, F Mar 23, 2010

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    I Just Want To Cry

    he says he loves me but he ignores me i try to spend time with him but he pushes me away im so confused i dont know wot to do i just want to break down and cry but wot will that solve apart from him telling me to stop being so stupid. i used to love my relationship with him but...
    LadyRouge LadyRouge 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    I'm so sad and confused.

    So I'm in a lot of pain right now because of my tummy. It hurts like and I took a lotta meds already. I hate how my parents won't take me to a doctor and how they make me feel worse than I'm feeling right now. They care more about their friends and they always point out their...
    Dinden123 Dinden123 18-21, F Jan 10

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    Related Experiences

    Okay so it happened the other day I was laying with my boyfriend and all of a sudden all of my feelings for him just went away and I got this weird pain in my heart.. Like you know...
    cmorris2013 cmorris2013 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    The saddest kind of sad is when your tears can't even drop and u feel nothing. It's like the world has just ended. You don't cry. You don't hear. You don't see. You just stay there...
    Tenebrificxheart Tenebrificxheart 13-15, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I'm not that old, but I always seem to be battling with...something. It's not quite depression, but just a feeling of constant sadness. I think I'm boring my friends, as they've...
    asplashofcolour asplashofcolour 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'll try to make this simple, uncomplicated and as short as possible :) But I know it won't be, but it's interesting I think :p Annnd I would love ya if you respond and help me out...
    Maihowl Maihowl 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    I'd like to start off by saying I met my boyfriend 6 years ago before he had any kids, him and I were just friends at the time. In that time he was seeing someone although he...
    SeniaV SeniaV 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    I have known him for about 4 months, but I had just recently gotten out of a 3-year relationship when we met. My ex was a great guy, but we both had some issues that we really...
    BeautifulinElevation BeautifulinElevation 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    So just recently I've been really confused about certain things. I have a good friend who's a virgin and I can just see a sadness to him. I want to help him :( doubt anything I do...
    drinksandflowers drinksandflowers 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    October 15. Letting Go of Chaos. No good work comes from unrest. Unrest, fear, anger, or sadness may motivate us. These feelings are sometimes intended to compel action. But our...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    October 17. Feelings and Surrender. Surrendering is a highly personal and spiritual experience. Surrender is not something we can do in our heads. It is not something we can...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    Confused- unable to think clearly; bewildered. Confused because I'm treading in the unknown. Confused because I don't know what the future holds. Confused because the one place I...
    lavioletta lavioletta 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 27

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    I feel so strange this morning I am not happy, but I am not sad... I am not excited, but not bored... I can't put my finger on what it is that's wrong but there is something...
    charlieedwards charlieedwards 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 22

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    I'm not sure if I'm depressed. I mean, I'm not sad, but I'm not exactly happy either. I can laugh, joke and smile during the day, but sometimes when I'm alone at night, I forget...
    MarissaSimmonds MarissaSimmonds 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    Sometimes I don't know if I should like a sad experiance.....should I or should I not
    jamorah jamorah 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    my ex bullied me, so his friends tagged along, of course. i was told to go kill myself, that i gave my ex Herpes. rumours went around saying i slept with a twelfth grader and o...
    SuicideIsParadise SuicideIsParadise 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    I dont know if my marriage will last. My husband unknowly made me pick between him & my parents. I feel like my father who I was really close with has pretty much disowned me. My...
    TriniLove TriniLove 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 29

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    Its so confusing! It makes me sad and angry that I cant figure it out! WHY!?!?! WHY?!? WHY?!? Does the fridge have to be so damn far from my room :'( arggg its nit fair!!! I...
    LLAMAAAA LLAMAAAA 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    I hate that my brain always finds an excuse for her bad attitudes, so it's impossible for me to really get mad just sad and feeling like a fool for even trying to understand her...
    theonesbeforeme theonesbeforeme 26-30 Oct 9

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    In a sexless marriage and hating it. Married to a wonderful woman for 38 years. Have three beautiful children. We find ourselves self-employed. She works 70-80 hours a week in...
    picaquill picaquill 61-65, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    I have to break it off with this guy because I have this feeling in the pit of my stomach that he just isn't that into me. Like we don't really have conversations that are all that...
    Sumtimey Sumtimey 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    This seems like a weird group to me... Being afraid to be confused for an atheist? Who's going around looking at people and thinking, "Gee, I bet that guy's an atheist!". How would...
    TubbyPlumpton TubbyPlumpton 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 26

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    This is the story of my life, from my earliest childhood memories to the age of majority (18). Today is October 2. 2014. I am a Norwegian male, so my English is not perfect. I'm...
    Dakris Dakris 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 1

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    So a few days ago my adopted father was snooping on my facebook, because he found out I was in a "relationship" with a 22 year old. So he was snooping on my Facebook cuz apparently...
    KATarinatillinghast KATarinatillinghast 16-17, F Oct 2

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    Ok so this is going to be very long but if you are willing to help then that would mean the world to me:) I have told this to some people but I want others opinions on this as well...
    Candice321 Candice321 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    Here it all goes... About 9 months ago, I causally started talking to this amazing woman. We agreed, that neither of us were looking for a relationship at the moment, but just...
    asunriseandme asunriseandme 22-25, F Sep 24

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    I'm confused with my ex boyfriend.. Like idk 😅
    rubyy25 rubyy25 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    i am super confused about who i am and what im doing with my life
    wubles wubles 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    So recently my best friend who is a lesbian kissed me. It was completely unexpected and I stopped it immediately when I figured out what was happening (I was super drunk at the...
    Beccalei12 Beccalei12 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 26

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    I've been feeling confused lately. I've been single for 3 years now, before that I was dating my best friend of the last 11 years. I had moved back to his home town back in 2011...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F Sep 26

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    I allow my bf to go out with his friends but he didnt told me that he is together with all girls.. i only see their picture on fb and when i askhim thats the only time he told me...
    mspokwang mspokwang 36-40, F Sep 28

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    my lady pushes me away every time i try to show her affection, no sex for a hear, said she loves me every day, been together 3 yrs, i'm lonely and confused, love her so much, lost...
    gilacountysafetyservice gilacountysafetyservice 41-45, M Sep 29

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    Wow..a few people have me confused bout my situation. I'm seeing too many red flags. I better fix it before i get too hurt
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F Sep 30

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