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I Am So Sad and Confused

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    My Life Seems Like A Disaster And I Feel So Confused And Despairing..

    I wanted to post something here because I am experiencing the sentiments of the group.. I feel so lost right now, my life isn't turning out like I hoped and I'm finding myself alone and unhappy and I don't know how to go about improving things.. if in fact they can be improved...
    blurble blurble 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    I Just Dont Get You Anymore...

    So I've been seeing this amazing guy since May 2010. I really care for him. In essence, you could say I'm in love with him. :) We get along fine....usually. But jus recently, he started ignoring me. Because of his stupid truck. It broke down, now he doesnt even want to talk to me...
    DeathBeforeDishonour DeathBeforeDishonour 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2010

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    Falling in love is easy,

    staying in love is hard, letting go is harder and moving on is the hardest.
    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2014

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    Soo I recently moved in with my bf.

    it wasn't a "oh I love you so much let's love together" thing. More like I was being evicted from my apartment and no where else to go.. Now the relationship seems to be slowly going down hill. And it's only been a month. At this very moment I'm sitting in my car with 9 month...
    Royaltycream Royaltycream 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 5, 2014

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    He Just Doesn't Love Me Enough.

    I simply do not understand how the person that claims to love me like he has never loved anyone in his life can be so mean and nasty but claim those things are just said in anger.  I also do not understand why he has not made the effort to see me in almost 9 months - I guess...
    jms1970 jms1970 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Just don't understand,

    logic tells me it's not all my fault. I can replay the events in my head and know it wasn't my fault. But I still feel guilty, I still blame me. It's not my fault but if he doesn't see that, I won't either. I'll say sorry again and hope this one softens him. That he'll feel...
    AlaskanBeliever AlaskanBeliever 18-21, F Oct 13, 2014

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    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F Mar 26, 2014

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    About 18 months ago I got engaged to my then

    boyfriend after dating for about a year. He moved in with me and my flat mate, and he was so clean and tidy. He was very conscious of his looks and always went to the gym. I was so attracted to him. He used to clean up after himself and buy groceries etc. We moved into our own...
    Tina411 Tina411 31-35 2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I was hoping this New Year would be special

    for both me and two of my dearest friends. Unfortunately after believing so many things were getting better, I find that is not the case. Only into the second day of this New Year, a large slice of my world has fallen apart. I am lucky I have beautiful memories to hold on to and...
    sweetlovefor2 sweetlovefor2 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    The Time Has Come To End The Marriage

     I have been all over the place emotionally for a long time.  Feels like I'm going crazy actually. The ups and downs cannot continue. I started writing about my marriage, hoping to capture something I guess. Writing it all would take a year. It's time to face facts...
    kitten3750 kitten3750 41-45, F Mar 23, 2010

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    What Next?

    seems like i have caused this all myself but i know i havnt. I am a 17 stone 6ft one guy but i have a year and a half of bullying from my boss to contend with. I have also lost my marriage (although she wants me back, probably for my large salary) and i am at my wits end now...
    simonplumb simonplumb 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    Oh God Just One Bus

    i have been with my wife for almost 2 years, i love her like i have loved no other. But i keep getting this feeling that she is stepping out on me. its not tangible signs, its her mood its her eyes it her hidden inner self that scares the hell out of me. I would have ran a long...
    springtight springtight 36-40 1 Response Dec 4, 2011

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    I Just Want To Cry

    he says he loves me but he ignores me i try to spend time with him but he pushes me away im so confused i dont know wot to do i just want to break down and cry but wot will that solve apart from him telling me to stop being so stupid. i used to love my relationship with him but...
    LadyRouge LadyRouge 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    So Sad And Confused

    So sad and confused,That's me,On my own again,Wondering why,Did nothing wrong,Why, oh why,Is life like this?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jul 1, 2012

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    do you ever just try way too hard

    for someone you just keep doing it over and over and over and over and over again hoping that somehow it would just change, that someday it's going to wake up and be different then someday it just changes and you're like how did this happen when everyday was the same
    bonyknees bonyknees 18-21, F Mar 4

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    Lost And Alone

    yeah, i'm fine"…words i wish i could say and mean. have you ever felt alone? like no one in the world can understand the way you feel, like your the only person in the world stuck in pause? while everyone else is on PLAY ? like you have absolutely no idea what your doing with...
    raginggirl raginggirl 16-17 9 Responses Aug 5, 2010

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    Christmas is in a few days

    and I've been thinking lately about how my real dad and I have never met. I've never seen a picture of him and I've only been told about him a few times. I'd just like some straight forward answers.
    maddyb6761 maddyb6761 13-15, F Dec 22, 2014

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    Dont Know What To Do

    this is not really a story I really just need an advice I have two lil ones and I do live with my baby's daddy and he is just not the same he is always in a bad mood he doesn't help me with my girls he is not even nice well just at times but I feel like he doesn't love me anymore...
    lostandconfuse lostandconfuse 22-25 Apr 19, 2013

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    My Friend?

    i feel sad and confused because someone who i thought was my good friend now avoids like someone avoids a leper. I mean she won't even look at me or tell me what it is that's bothering her since as far as i know i haven't done or said anything that may be hurtful because i haven...
    hollywoodlife hollywoodlife 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    Friends

    I don't know if this is true or it's just me It feels like my friends leave me. Okay I'll give you some examples; (1) My guy friend and I were together almost every day at school, now he has a girlfriend and have more friends than he used to, and I know it's weird of me that I...
    ThisIsNothing ThisIsNothing 13-15, F Oct 13, 2013

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    I'm so sad and confused.

    So I'm in a lot of pain right now because of my tummy. It hurts like and I took a lotta meds already. I hate how my parents won't take me to a doctor and how they make me feel worse than I'm feeling right now. They care more about their friends and they always point out their...
    Dinden123 Dinden123 18-21, F Jan 10, 2014

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    Almost a year ago,my crush rejected me. I accepted it and we continued being friends,now we progressed from friends to very good friends. I accepted the rejection,of course I was...
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    I always fall for the wrong guy. My ex was the absolute worst. The fighting was damn near unbearable. The breakup drained me. It made me hard and jagged. I wasn't open to meeting...
    magz66 magz66 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    So all of my life, I have liked guys. Not girls. Not in that way. but recently I have been having... in the words of Jack Sparrow, stirrings for my best friend. Now I have known...
    futurefish futurefish 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    RE: Divorce‏ There is one more thing how dare you ask me to be amiable you messed everything up you have no rights any more you gave all those up when you committed adultery...
    reddwarf1910 reddwarf1910 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    I need opinions. positive and negative. it doesn't matter to me, I'm sure all will be helpful. it will give me views from all different sides. well here it goes, I've been with my...
    seximexi92 seximexi92 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    I have always been a good student but I have major confidence issues and trust issues. Thats because i was bullied , and molested as a kid . I am too scared to raise my voice...
    hustlerespectloyal121 hustlerespectloyal121 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    It really pains me to see my mum so sad. My grandma's really ill in hospital I don't know how to react I feel sick and stressed at the same time I need to make a plan I'm meant...
    so24601 so24601 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I don't know why do I feel pain in my heart. I'm thinking of Ahmad;my love and that he is engaged now. I was so happy when he talked to me , as always his love makes me blind and I...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    First, I'm all like, I want to be with him forever. Then suddenly, I'm all like, I don't want to see him ever again. Like, what the heck is wrong with me? He makes me so happy, but...
    AverageGirl1k AverageGirl1k 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I have a "friend" who only ever asks favours of me. Small things, usually just tips, pointers and general knowledge. But he will never talk with me. Ever. He thanked me for...
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    That sad moment when you are talking to an amazing nice guy online for months, he seem to like you and you like him back. He texts you all the time and stays up late for you...
    Jjta Jjta 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I wish there was something I could do.. i just feel confused and hopeless.. :'(
    turtlebrainx27 turtlebrainx27 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Everyone says I'm smart, poised, well-spoken and all that good stuff, but inside I'm just constantly disappointed with myself and I don't see what they see. I'm lazy, nervous...
    warro97 warro97 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm confused about my sexuality when it comes to love because I think I'm bi, I know for sure I like woman. It's the guys I'm not sure I'm attracted to. I have a bf of 6 years and...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Apr 8

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    Confused. Oh so very confused. Mixed feelings.. so overwhelming. The good things and the bad things constantly clutter my mind. Which outweighs the other? Are they equal? Not...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    recently my bf broke up with me. His reasons were that it seems that I love my friends more than him. That is so wrong and I keep trying to show him that I still want him. He says...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I am confused about my *sexual identity* actually but couldn't find that group..... Sometimes I find myself attracted to men - atleast, people over the Internet who claim to be men...
    EarthboundMisfiti EarthboundMisfiti 22-25, F Apr 4

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    I am confused about my *sexual identity* actually but couldn't find that group..... Sometimes I find myself attracted to men - atleast, people over the Internet who claim to be men...
    EarthboundMisfiti EarthboundMisfiti 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I'm so confused. I just had the strangest conversation with one of my friends.He talked about this girl and I must've said something because he thinks I'm talking to her.I don't...
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I think I may be bi. I find tons of girls super cute, and the thought of being in a relationship with a girl isn't weird. It's the same with guys. I've been around the lgbtq...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    As a little kid, I hated dresses and I always played with those Tonka trucks instead of barbie dolls. I would always play as a boy in games with friends, and when we played "Family...
    SamanthaJC SamanthaJC 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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