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I Am So Sad and Confused

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    The Time Has Come To End The Marriage

     I have been all over the place emotionally for a long time.  Feels like I'm going crazy actually. The ups and downs cannot continue. I started writing about my marriage, hoping to capture something I guess. Writing it all would take a year. It's time to face facts...
    kitten3750 kitten3750 41-45, F Mar 23, 2010

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    About 18 months ago I got engaged to my then

    boyfriend after dating for about a year. He moved in with me and my flat mate, and he was so clean and tidy. He was very conscious of his looks and always went to the gym. I was so attracted to him. He used to clean up after himself and buy groceries etc. We moved into our own...
    Tina411 Tina411 31-35 2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    Christmas is in a few days

    and I've been thinking lately about how my real dad and I have never met. I've never seen a picture of him and I've only been told about him a few times. I'd just like some straight forward answers.
    maddyb6761 maddyb6761 13-15, F Dec 22, 2014

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    Just don't understand,

    logic tells me it's not all my fault. I can replay the events in my head and know it wasn't my fault. But I still feel guilty, I still blame me. It's not my fault but if he doesn't see that, I won't either. I'll say sorry again and hope this one softens him. That he'll feel...
    AlaskanBeliever AlaskanBeliever 18-21, F Oct 13, 2014

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    Oh God Just One Bus

    i have been with my wife for almost 2 years, i love her like i have loved no other. But i keep getting this feeling that she is stepping out on me. its not tangible signs, its her mood its her eyes it her hidden inner self that scares the hell out of me. I would have ran a long...
    springtight springtight 36-40 1 Response Dec 4, 2011

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    Lost And Alone

    yeah, i'm fine"…words i wish i could say and mean. have you ever felt alone? like no one in the world can understand the way you feel, like your the only person in the world stuck in pause? while everyone else is on PLAY ? like you have absolutely no idea what your doing with...
    raginggirl raginggirl 16-17 9 Responses Aug 5, 2010

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    Soo I recently moved in with my bf.

    it wasn't a "oh I love you so much let's love together" thing. More like I was being evicted from my apartment and no where else to go.. Now the relationship seems to be slowly going down hill. And it's only been a month. At this very moment I'm sitting in my car with 9 month...
    Royaltycream Royaltycream 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 5, 2014

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    I Just Want To Cry

    he says he loves me but he ignores me i try to spend time with him but he pushes me away im so confused i dont know wot to do i just want to break down and cry but wot will that solve apart from him telling me to stop being so stupid. i used to love my relationship with him but...
    LadyRouge LadyRouge 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    My Friend?

    i feel sad and confused because someone who i thought was my good friend now avoids like someone avoids a leper. I mean she won't even look at me or tell me what it is that's bothering her since as far as i know i haven't done or said anything that may be hurtful because i haven...
    hollywoodlife hollywoodlife 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    So Sad And Confused

    So sad and confused,That's me,On my own again,Wondering why,Did nothing wrong,Why, oh why,Is life like this?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jul 1, 2012

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    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F Mar 26, 2014

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    I Just Dont Get You Anymore...

    So I've been seeing this amazing guy since May 2010. I really care for him. In essence, you could say I'm in love with him. :) We get along fine....usually. But jus recently, he started ignoring me. Because of his stupid truck. It broke down, now he doesnt even want to talk to me...
    DeathBeforeDishonour DeathBeforeDishonour 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2010

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    What Next?

    seems like i have caused this all myself but i know i havnt. I am a 17 stone 6ft one guy but i have a year and a half of bullying from my boss to contend with. I have also lost my marriage (although she wants me back, probably for my large salary) and i am at my wits end now...
    simonplumb simonplumb 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    I'm so sad and confused.

    So I'm in a lot of pain right now because of my tummy. It hurts like and I took a lotta meds already. I hate how my parents won't take me to a doctor and how they make me feel worse than I'm feeling right now. They care more about their friends and they always point out their...
    Dinden123 Dinden123 18-21, F Jan 10, 2014

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    Friends

    I don't know if this is true or it's just me It feels like my friends leave me. Okay I'll give you some examples; (1) My guy friend and I were together almost every day at school, now he has a girlfriend and have more friends than he used to, and I know it's weird of me that I...
    ThisIsNothing ThisIsNothing 13-15, F Oct 13, 2013

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    I was hoping this New Year would be special

    for both me and two of my dearest friends. Unfortunately after believing so many things were getting better, I find that is not the case. Only into the second day of this New Year, a large slice of my world has fallen apart. I am lucky I have beautiful memories to hold on to and...
    sweetlovefor2 sweetlovefor2 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    He Just Doesn't Love Me Enough.

    I simply do not understand how the person that claims to love me like he has never loved anyone in his life can be so mean and nasty but claim those things are just said in anger.  I also do not understand why he has not made the effort to see me in almost 9 months - I guess...
    jms1970 jms1970 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    My Life Seems Like A Disaster And I Feel So Confused And Despairing..

    I wanted to post something here because I am experiencing the sentiments of the group.. I feel so lost right now, my life isn't turning out like I hoped and I'm finding myself alone and unhappy and I don't know how to go about improving things.. if in fact they can be improved...
    blurble blurble 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Falling in love is easy,

    staying in love is hard, letting go is harder and moving on is the hardest.
    enelrahc13 enelrahc13 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2014

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    Dont Know What To Do

    this is not really a story I really just need an advice I have two lil ones and I do live with my baby's daddy and he is just not the same he is always in a bad mood he doesn't help me with my girls he is not even nice well just at times but I feel like he doesn't love me anymore...
    lostandconfuse lostandconfuse 22-25 Apr 19, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I am currently in that stage where I have literally no idea what the hell is going on in my mind and heart. I'll try and make this pretty short. Just to say this is going to be...
    themuffintitan themuffintitan 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I'm just all of the above and then it's heightened by my overactive mind. My main crush doesn't like me back and I know cuz I told him. He's not into guys, but he has an over...
    NobodyLove NobodyLove 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    My husband and I have been trying for a baby for a few years. He is a cancer survivor and our difficulties in conceiving are related to his previous treatments. We had gotten...
    perfectlyimperfect2 perfectlyimperfect2 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I was angry and said some things I shouldn't have. You know I love you, very much. You're very important to me. I've never been in this situation before, so I'm learning too. I'm...
    christinazulon christinazulon 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    iam still in high school but everyone always ask me what major would i take that i still don't have any idea about it...iam just confused...i think i don't have any skillful in one...
    alfhyraawal alfhyraawal 16-17, F Feb 4

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    Could it be that I am just a difficult person to love? I was in a relationship at the beginning of this year, for those of you who read and advised me in my previous post, I want y...
    Love2Express Love2Express 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    It's weird how I never include you in my plans that I make up in my head. Maybe I don't love you anymore, but honestly who knows, there might still be some spark somewhere. Sad...
    BrokenCats BrokenCats 26-30, F Feb 11

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    I really liked a guy from the UK. I can't forget when he sent me pictures of himself and they ended up in my spam mail. I retrieved them and he asked "Am I still spam?" He was an...
    DG2008 DG2008 31-35 1 Response Feb 5

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    I'm living in a situation where I'm not loved, appreciated or even treated with decency. What's even sadder is that it's in a house with my bf and my mom. My mom is the most...
    therapeuticalsentences05 therapeuticalsentences05 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    I have no idea what i feel right now. Not sure if i am numb, pissed, relieved or what. I have had suspicions and questions about how mom died since the day it happened ten years...
    cme4u cme4u 22-25, F Feb 10

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    I thought that I had it all figured out. In the past, I've been with someone who loved me, & I didn't love them back, & vice versa. I been with men who've had money, and with some...
    TheRightFitforLife TheRightFitforLife 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    {(Comments?)} I need HELP!!!!? I feel so awful. I always saying to myself that I'm not like these other guys, but then again, I feel like I am. my girlfriend, I truly love her...
    LonelyOB LonelyOB 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm always just a little bit confused. No special background story, no special reason. I'm just always a little bit confused.
    sile3 sile3 16-17, F Feb 3

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    I'm confused about guy who I ever wrote here, who I loved with someone online from Canada. called he with 'J'. about 3weeks ago his gf msg me in fb. she said I'm so freaking...
    callixtine callixtine 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    We have been best friends and dated before. We've spent a lot of time together and feelings have started to come up again. I want to date him again and his friend says he wants to...
    Headlights Headlights 18-21, F Feb 4

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    I am really confused about my feelings, things have changed alot recently. Would like another female to talk to
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 4

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    Just warning, this might get slightly long. So, I am a 13 year old girl. (Please don't judge me by my age). I have always been kind of "boyish" or however you want to call it. I...
    Wildheart919 Wildheart919 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    There is no easy way to explain the confusion I have right now. I've been very lucky to be able to "escape" to Hawaii for the week and get away from all the stress and things...
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    I wouldn't go as to call it a relationship. I don't know what I should call it. But I need urgent help. There is this girl that I love. We'll call her Cheese. I met her in my gym...
    shecancareless shecancareless 22-25, F Feb 8

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    I am so confused about what's going on with my best friend and I. I am depressed and want to figure things out. Is anyone able to talk to me and give me some advice, maybe tell me...
    jamiewright26 jamiewright26 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    I have liked guys all my life and been in long-term relationships with them but I've been intrigued with girls as long as I can remember. I started kissing with girls in elementary...
    raspberry23 raspberry23 18-21, F Feb 10

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    There's this boy I'm actually friends with. I think. And he's weird like reeeally but i still accept him the way he is. We have a lot of similarities specially about video games...
    jesssaying1997 jesssaying1997 16-17, F Feb 12

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    My crush and I were such good friends and we always talked to each other, I dont know what happened but he ignores me now. He always talks to my other friends and smiles at them...
    nisadallas nisadallas 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    He still hasn't called.. It's been about 4 days since we have last talked. I remember he hang up on me, I don't know what annoyed him.. I didn't even say anything stupid or...
    endlesslyyyforever endlesslyyyforever 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    Does anyone else have a person where you have lots in common, and you get along fantastically, and you can talk and talk and agree on most everything, but as soon as you two are...
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F Feb 13

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    Sexy time letdown! I would love to have a bit of perspective on something. I’m in a great, long term relationship with a good guy, and try hard to keep things fun. I trust him...
    Clumsycanadiangirl Clumsycanadiangirl 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    Sooo... I'm in a relationship right now and I guess I am very happy. He makes me smile, he cares about me, always protects me... However I don't know why, but I feel confused. It...
    maybereallyconfused maybereallyconfused 18-21, F Feb 15

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    It doesn't matter what I'm doing, sitting in class, zoning out, or playing the piano. I sometimes just get confused as to why I am there in that moment and frankly what the point...
    Kgurl1177 Kgurl1177 16-17, F Feb 16