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I Am So Tired of Being Alone

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    What Should I Do?

    I am 23 and never een had a real girlfriend. Sure i've been on a few dates and even have som. But to be honest real good friends that r girls. But nothing more then that. To be honest its mostly my falt though. Up until now haven't cared enough to try. I always knew that i needed...
    archshadow archshadow 22-25, M May 1, 2012

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    I fooled myself into thinking this self

    absorbed, greedy girl was my best friend for 10 years... Only to realize more & more that she takes advantage of my kindness and doesn't really give a **** about me. I did everything for her and sacrificed many friends to realize she's a fake too.
    Lunalovexo Lunalovexo 22-25, F 1 Response May 5

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    How To Start Dating Again

    I married the first guy i ever kissed at the age of 19, six years later he cheated on me and had a baby with his co worker.  We were separated for 3 years and i am now divorced for almost a year. I don't have much experience with men, and its hard for me to trust any man. Now i...
    lovelonely lovelonely 26-30, F Nov 7, 2012

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    I wished sometimes that i get sick ,

    and be gone for a while just to see how many pple will realy care about me , and look after me ... well i got sick and was gone almost half a year , and instead of finding my friends there for me , i started loosing friends until i ended up all alone, guess i'm meant to spend...
    TheOtherFace TheOtherFace 22-25, F 1 Response May 5

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    I need a reliable, loyal,

    dependable, trustworthy friend. Every friend I had gossiped or took advantage of my kindness and I'm sick of it. Is there any good people in this world?
    Lunalovexo Lunalovexo 22-25, F 1 Response May 5

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    Idk Bro Guess U Just Ride Solo..............

    to start, since i was young ive been lonley watchin kid sister play and always have a companion, parents had each other even tho their relationship was crap to say the least. Ive just allways felt soo alone even in relationships, marriage, long term relationships i mean...
    ridingsolo88 ridingsolo88 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 30, 2013

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    Just Babble

    I miss my wife. we were together for 11 years. She always accused me of cheating on her, never did. She left me for the guy nextdoor. There was four of us that worked together. My wife and  i and jason and julie. jason and julie were a married couple that need help fixing...
    offroadbud offroadbud 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    I'm Just So Ready To Give Up!

    I'm 18 I've been single my whole life, I'm just so ready to give up on everything. Ive tried so many times, but have failed. I've never gotten a girl I wanted. I'm so tired of being alone. I want to know what it's like to love someone, or to be loved. Sure I have friends, nobody...
    Wtwrestling101 Wtwrestling101 18-21 5 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    Tired Of Being Alone

    I'm 61 and been alone for mostof my life. Never married. I'm tired of being alone but have gotten use to it.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 2 Responses Dec 5, 2011

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    Being A Single Mom

    i've been alone and divorced for over 3 years now, and have yet to be in a decent adult relationship...i'm incredibly tired of being alone.  i keep telling myself that being the best mom i can be for my two boys should be fullfilling enough, but it just doesn't seem to be...
    petalsopentothemoon petalsopentothemoon 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2010

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    Just Babble

    I miss my wife. we were together for 11 years. She always accused me of cheating on her, never did. She left me for the guy nextdoor. There was four of us that worked together. My wife and  i and jason and julie. jason and julie were a married couple that need help fixing...
    offroadbud offroadbud 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 18, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    My husband works out on the road for two weeks at a time and come homes for two days then leaves out again. We talk for a total of ten minutes a day about nothing so we don't...
    LilDrgnFly LilDrgnFly 18-21, F Aug 7

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    As an introvert, I enjoy being alone sometimes. Being around people for long periods of time can be quite exhausting. I like having time to myself to reflect on things and be alone...
    Sapphire14 Sapphire14 18-21, F Aug 13

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    I think its called monophobia. The fear of being alone. I've always just thought that it was normal, that feeling you get when you're alone. I found out recently it wasn't...
    NyBrid NyBrid 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Everytime I'm alone with my mind I start overthinking and once I start overthinking I think about self harming and suicide and just being alone I can't deal, whenever I'm left...
    imamascaradeball imamascaradeball 13-15, F Jul 24

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    I live with my boyfriend but still have my flat. I often wonder, do I stay with him because I'm scared of being alone? Why can't I just go back to my own flat? Do I need to? Should...
    Bluesrain Bluesrain 26-30, F Jul 27

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    It sux being here alone wit no one to tlk to...hate being alone...just lookn for sumone to make me feel good
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 days ago

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    I enjoy being alone sometimes. Like right now i'm alone and loving it. I need that time to unwind and just relax without noone else around.
    strawberry38 strawberry38 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    I have a group of friends and we are all different lets say take one person from every clique and put them in a group we have fun we love each other and I don't want to loose them...
    freespirtXoXo freespirtXoXo 18-21, F Aug 2

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    Now don't get me wrong, I love/NEED my me time, or I go a little crazy, and I don't mind being alone. I can do all kinds of stuff by myself and have more than enough fun, but...
    beautyfromthis beautyfromthis 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    There is some time I don't mine be alone. But there is time I wanted to go out with some one and have fun. That is what I miss. That is what I am looking for some one to go out and...
    Ladypanda Ladypanda 51-55, F 3 hrs ago

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    Lonliness is the worst feeling I hate that even tho I have friends that I feel no one really knows me and just feeling so alone like no one is there for me or cares I'm tired of...
    Daletheloner Daletheloner 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    There's nothing like being home and watching your fave TV shows on netflix lol! Dr. Who is soo awesome!! It put me in a much better mood, I'm not crying about losing my job anymore...
    bettygingham bettygingham 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Don't mean in the relationship way...I'm a military brat moving has always been my way of life from one place to another go go go only problem I'm Having with it is I'm always...
    teardrop12 teardrop12 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Fuckit all I'm done. Just let me die. When you're all alone what's the point?
    Nightshade777 Nightshade777 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I don't know how many of you can relate to this, but it's like I could be in a room full of people and still be alone... I feel like I can no longer integrate after all I've been...
    AylaOatmeal AylaOatmeal 22-25, F 11 Responses Aug 13

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    Since I was very young, I always find myself not fitting into a group. I don't like the awkward moment that I can feel the others not interested to talk to me and I may need to...
    Zbabe Zbabe 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have to admit, I am alone almost all the time. Besides my family, I rarely talk to people. Since I started college, I haven't made any friends. It could be that I am a bit...
    EyeOfLight EyeOfLight 18-21, F Jul 26

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    I want to experience relationships. I have crushes and everything but I'm afraid I won't ever get to date someone in my high school life because of my race. My school is pretty...
    SincerelyMYlife SincerelyMYlife 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Probably has to be one of the worst feelings in the world....feeling alone when it's actually ppl that says their there for u but actually not or don't always wanna here your drama...
    VivirLaVida VivirLaVida 16-17, F Aug 6

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    I like my alone time now and then, but seeing a group of my (once) I think?, friends is really upsetting. And seeing the one person there who I was basically my friend and I was...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I hate being close to someone. When i get close to someone i get this feeling that i don't want to lose them, but the truth is in the end, everyone leaves. Whether its because of...
    EthanNail EthanNail 16-17, M a week ago

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    Every time im left alone with my thoughts, im eaten alive. I hate myself too much too handle
    kaseys14 kaseys14 13-15, F Jul 24

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    Well...I'm all alone now :/
    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M Jul 28

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    Sure, I would like to find someone to share my life with, but I don't want to compromise who I am or what I enjoy in order to not be alone.
    Roland73 Roland73 41-45, M Aug 1

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    I like to keep to myself and I rather just chill in my room alone than in the living room with my roommates. People just assume that I'm rude or mean but really I just like keeping...
    LacedYoung LacedYoung 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Just left an abusive relationship for the second time . I lived with him for a year . 80% of the time he is my best friend and 20% my nightmare. I've gotten spit on, thrown against...
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F Aug 14

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    I'm a bit of a loner. Grew up as an only child for eleven years so I figured out how to entertain myself. Sure I like people, but I'm not afraid to do things alone as well.
    nocturnalhound nocturnalhound 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    I have the day off today, something I look forward to but also dread. My friends are all too busy recently to do anything. I am frantically thinking of something to do as I really...
    Crystalcastle Crystalcastle 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate this horrible down lonely feeling that overcomes my every being once in awhile :(
    Bnb30 Bnb30 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    “I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing...
    nealbrute nealbrute 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I don't have a lots of friends, I don't have a therapist, I don't like to bottle up my feeling cause I get an anxiety attack.
    EnigmaticCasper EnigmaticCasper 18-21, M Aug 1

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    I just want a friend. Someone who I have things in common with. My best friend from high school and I have nothing in common any more. She's a lawyer and just looks down on me for...
    jaisikae jaisikae 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    At high school, I may have a lot of people around, but at the end of the day, I have no friends, family I love but, I want to connect with a person outside of my group. I'm sad and...
    GravelTack19 GravelTack19 13-15, M Aug 6

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    ever feel like you're pouring your heart out to people who don't really care? all the time.
    shuthafukup shuthafukup 26-30 Aug 10

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    It gets old , fast .. Can't do it anymore .
    snowmoon123 snowmoon123 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I want people who can make me feel special
    katelve katelve 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I guess it was too much to ask for anyone, even my family, to spend my birthday with me. All I really wanted was for someone to be here.
    yepitsjustme yepitsjustme 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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