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I Am So Tired of Men Who Are Obsessed With Blonde Women

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    I Know That Ideally, I Shouldn't Care What Other People Think, But Coming Across This Issue Really Irks Me In a Very Personal Way.

    When I was a kid, one of my earliest body-image issues resulted from the fact that I did not and never could fit the blond, blue-eyed, light skinned, thin cookie-cutter mold.  Blond was what I saw beauty defined as in the media.  Blond was something I wasn't, and...
    solarxmoon solarxmoon 26-30, F 10 Responses May 29, 2009

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    Preferences

    Who knows where the preference for blonde women comes from. I don't really care what guys think of me, the only men who would hurt my feelings if they didn't like my hair colour are my father, and fiance. If every other man in the world prefers blondes, that's fine-just narrow...
    MrsKateBrown MrsKateBrown 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Brunettes Ftw!

    Seriously! The bias is annoying!
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Lies My Brother Told Me

    My older brother convinced me when I was little that no man would ever want to marry me because I have brown hair. The funny part is now that he is grown up all the girls he's dated were brunettes.
    zlanki28 zlanki28 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    WTF

    I am naturally dark ash blond.  It looks terrible with my skin.  I have a severe red tint to my skin.  My hair looks super good in red.  It hides my red skin tones.  Most guys say, "I love your hair blonde."  Its like, duh, what...
    MISTRESSROXY MISTRESSROXY 36-40, F 9 Responses May 28, 2009

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    Makes Me Feel Left Out

    God damn burnett hair. :( It's true, blond girls DO have the most fun.
    HaleyBloodRedRose1995 HaleyBloodRedRose1995 18-21, F 5 Responses May 20, 2011

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    What the Hell?

    What the hell is the big deal with blondes. I really don't understand I mean, brunteets are just as good as blondes if not better, but hell that is just my own opinion. BroknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 28, 2009

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    Its becouse light blonde hair is rare to have

    naturally and Hard to maintain if it's bleached, and therefore it is more wanted. Like everything else thats is an effort to achieve. Like being skinny, muscular or beautiful. Harsh truth; Guys don't prefer blonde women. Guys prefer beautiful women. It doesn't matter how light...
    Bootsycurie Bootsycurie 22-25 1 Response Jan 3

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    Related Experiences

    My father was a very good cook. My father was also the person who taught me how to cook and was the one who made me the cook I am today! I know a lot of men who are cooks as well...
    Wattouat Wattouat 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    My job is: to look pretty and cute, smell nice, wear something nice so you will be proud to be seen in public with me, have soft skin and soft hair, smile and blush when I giggle...
    theyrereal theyrereal 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 5

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    I have been fortunate enough to have a long line of men in my family that I have admired and learned cooking from. There's something amazing about how they create a dish. It's...
    holgado holgado 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I always dreamed of a guy who cooks well. My father was really a good cook, he would spend a whole day in the grocery and preparing food in the kitchen. I was a daddy's girl. He...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I can't cook, so a man who can would be amazing :)
    mcc7 mcc7 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    My ex boyfriend was an excellent cook, just like a chef. He would plate my food for me, so artistic. It was very special to ,me, one of my favorite times of day. I doubt I will...
    pieceofmind127 pieceofmind127 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 17

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    screw flowers and a movie, and all that classic romantic stuff. If a guy makes you dinner, that is chivalry right there. I am being swept off my feet.
    mairesequin mairesequin 16-17, F Jul 17

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    If you're a guy and can cook just about anything, that's a plus in my book. A lot of guys don't know how to cook. And no, microwaving noodles, or cooking frozen premade store...
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Having a man cook for you is quite sexy. The two of you can cook together, which spices up a romance too.
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Men who think women are inferior are usually insecure themselves. I thank God for a husband who treats me as an equal. Of course, we know one is better at certain things than the...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Well, when I was in 5th grade I really didn't give a **** about my weight or how I looked. I was a 280 pound blonde haired blue eyed happy girly girl, then I got my first period...
    xXBroodDemureXx xXBroodDemureXx 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Women abandoned by their fathers and/or a used/neglected by their mothers.... The real tragedy is that in many of these instances, when a good, nice man does come along, the woman...
    Ajushi Ajushi 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I have become obsessed with some video games. And no not the usual kinds like World of War Craft, shooting type games or candy crush saga, or other games like Minecraft. Not those...
    KatIsAMermaid KatIsAMermaid 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I cannot stand it. I mean-- not all men are like this. But I hate those ******* pigs who make inapproiate comments about women or just disrespect us in general. It's awful.
    findasilverlining33 findasilverlining33 16-17, F Jul 3

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    Oh my my! I'm obsessed with adorableness and cuteness! If it fluffily, soft, bright colors or pink I must buy it!! I'm a pink addict and stuffed animals addict! Lol I just can't...
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F Jul 12

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    I am completely obsessed with batman and the joker. Pretty much everything I own is something to do with batman. Even down to my underwear and socks!!!
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I disagree with this subject. Reason? Just because you have a degree or a certificate of an MA, does not prove anything. Why? It does not symbolise your intelligence, it just says...
    EstuaryRivers EstuaryRivers 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I Like People Who Can Handle Different Opinions What Being Open Minded Is Really About I want to post my thoughts in this group here hoping that there is not yet such a group...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I like hanging around people who are just as weird and crazy as me and that normally means that they are being themselves:) Everyones weird on the inside I just also happen to be...
    trombonegurl trombonegurl 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    There's a lot to be said for the people who are true to themselves and stand by their beliefs and opinions. I love honest and kind people. They make the most interesting of...
    nainaii nainaii 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    In this day and age, it is quite rare to find people who are just themselves, instead of trying to copy things their idols do, or what they see on tv. I cannot be anybody but me...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    Idk why but I love guys that can be tough but can also show their emotional and sensitive side. Even thought that's rare and most are scared about being judge by their friends. I...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Like People Who Are Nice...............
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M a week ago

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    Hate Peope Who Are Cyberbullies
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M a week ago

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    Yup i hear this one n Shout It out LOUD. Now i dont believe in people who are mean, rude, bullies etc in the name of Being Themselves. Ive met far toooooo many people like this. BE...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Like People Who Are Open Minded
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's just so much nicer that way :) However, I don't not like people who are closed minded!
    lindsaymaegan lindsaymaegan 22-25, F 14 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't know why am I keep meeting girls who are shallow and superficial! I just realized how difficult it is to hang out with them from the dinner the other day. Gosh...the moment...
    Naturalsimple Naturalsimple 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Want a woman who is infatuated with giving bjs and who loves to swallow my ***!
    wantayounglady wantayounglady 46-50, M 23 hrs ago

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    I'm starting to think I'm obsessed but I can't help it. I want the perfect white man for me. I would be honored to be his wife and have his children. I pray that love is still in...
    Prettygirl8726 Prettygirl8726 26-30, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    You want to know what's wrong? I'll tell you.... The guys here want to know what's wrong with us, Ladies. They want to know why we won't do what they say or why we won't worship...
    EmotionalPrincess EmotionalPrincess 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Get angry when they see white women with black men. I have heard countless times that white women are stealing their men. I wasn't aware that they belonged to just one race. Last I...
    babycakes814 babycakes814 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I honestly loathe any man when they cannot respect a woman. Its perfectly understandable that majority of men are on the internet for a sexual fix and many turn to women who they...
    CaraLina CaraLina 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Many men do act and say they are superior than women but I go right against it because after all we are all equal and without women or men would we be alive, no, so no one is...
    sayhellofriend sayhellofriend 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm tired of being hit on by creepy guys. . I'm married. . Have a son. . I don't want what they are offering... I just want some women who will understand my problems and I can...
    AmaiXAshuri AmaiXAshuri 26-30, F Jul 14

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    Its the women who brought us to this world . Well everyone respects their mother's and so should be the attitude to other women . Women should have equal rights and they should be...
    Sandy84b Sandy84b 26-30, M a week ago

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    I had to grow up with it. My father is worthless and I hate him. Ever since he did what he did to my mother I told my self I will never ever hit a girl or yell at her or even raise...
    hellhound44 hellhound44 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    If your man doesn't respect you, I've got your back girl! Women are what help humanity survive, don't disrespect women just because you can't get laid!
    SoulWriter17 SoulWriter17 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    RP Only No Ki*k/Pics I want to be a dominate mans sl*ut . I love worshiping men. I think all women should worship men. I love sucking/licking/playing with c*ock. I even got my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10

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    There are only 3 things a guy should want to change about a girl her last name, her addresses,and view point on men.