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I Am So Tired of Men Who Are Obsessed With Blonde Women

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    I am naturally dark ash blond.  It looks terrible with my skin.  I have a severe red tint to my skin.  My hair looks super good in red.  It hides my red skin tones.  Most guys say, "I love your hair blonde."  Its like, duh, what...
    MISTRESSROXY MISTRESSROXY 36-40, F 9 Responses May 28, 2009

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    I Know That Ideally, I Shouldn't Care What Other People Think, But Coming Across This Issue Really Irks Me In a Very Personal Way.

    When I was a kid, one of my earliest body-image issues resulted from the fact that I did not and never could fit the blond, blue-eyed, light skinned, thin cookie-cutter mold.  Blond was what I saw beauty defined as in the media.  Blond was something I wasn't, and...
    solarxmoon solarxmoon 26-30, F 10 Responses May 29, 2009

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    Brunettes Ftw!

    Seriously! The bias is annoying!
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    What the Hell?

    What the hell is the big deal with blondes. I really don't understand I mean, brunteets are just as good as blondes if not better, but hell that is just my own opinion. BroknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 28, 2009

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    Preferences

    Who knows where the preference for blonde women comes from. I don't really care what guys think of me, the only men who would hurt my feelings if they didn't like my hair colour are my father, and fiance. If every other man in the world prefers blondes, that's fine-just narrow...
    MrsKateBrown MrsKateBrown 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Makes Me Feel Left Out

    God damn burnett hair. :( It's true, blond girls DO have the most fun.
    HaleyBloodRedRose1995 HaleyBloodRedRose1995 18-21, F 5 Responses May 20, 2011

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    Its becouse light blonde hair is rare to have

    naturally and Hard to maintain if it's bleached, and therefore it is more wanted. Like everything else thats is an effort to achieve. Like being skinny, muscular or beautiful. Harsh truth; Guys don't prefer blonde women. Guys prefer beautiful women. It doesn't matter how light...
    Bootsycurie Bootsycurie 22-25 Jan 3, 2014

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    Lies My Brother Told Me

    My older brother convinced me when I was little that no man would ever want to marry me because I have brown hair. The funny part is now that he is grown up all the girls he's dated were brunettes.
    zlanki28 zlanki28 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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