Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Am So Tired of Men Who Are Obsessed With Blonde Women

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 67 People

    I Know That Ideally, I Shouldn't Care What Other People Think, But Coming Across This Issue Really Irks Me In a Very Personal Way.

    When I was a kid, one of my earliest body-image issues resulted from the fact that I did not and never could fit the blond, blue-eyed, light skinned, thin cookie-cutter mold.  Blond was what I saw beauty defined as in the media.  Blond was something I wasn't, and...
    solarxmoon solarxmoon 26-30, F 10 Responses May 29, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Its becouse light blonde hair is rare to have

    naturally and Hard to maintain if it's bleached, and therefore it is more wanted. Like everything else thats is an effort to achieve. Like being skinny, muscular or beautiful. Harsh truth; Guys don't prefer blonde women. Guys prefer beautiful women. It doesn't matter how light...
    Bootsycurie Bootsycurie 22-25 Jan 3, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    WTF

    I am naturally dark ash blond.  It looks terrible with my skin.  I have a severe red tint to my skin.  My hair looks super good in red.  It hides my red skin tones.  Most guys say, "I love your hair blonde."  Its like, duh, what...
    MISTRESSROXY MISTRESSROXY 36-40, F 9 Responses May 28, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Lies My Brother Told Me

    My older brother convinced me when I was little that no man would ever want to marry me because I have brown hair. The funny part is now that he is grown up all the girls he's dated were brunettes.
    zlanki28 zlanki28 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Brunettes Ftw!

    Seriously! The bias is annoying!
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Preferences

    Who knows where the preference for blonde women comes from. I don't really care what guys think of me, the only men who would hurt my feelings if they didn't like my hair colour are my father, and fiance. If every other man in the world prefers blondes, that's fine-just narrow...
    MrsKateBrown MrsKateBrown 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 2, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Makes Me Feel Left Out

    God damn burnett hair. :( It's true, blond girls DO have the most fun.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 20, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What the Hell?

    What the hell is the big deal with blondes. I really don't understand I mean, brunteets are just as good as blondes if not better, but hell that is just my own opinion. BroknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 28, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I work in a shop and I have a customer who has an obsessive fixation on me. The customer comes to my workplace both weekend days and appears in my work areas and looks at me. There...
    crashwreck crashwreck 31-35, M 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Most men are out there to play games with your heart. In rare cases, I get to meet some who are both intelligent and emotionally engaging to talk to. They are the ones who gives a...
    Alyyeska Alyyeska 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Happy. Thats what she was, finally the cuts where disappearing, the visits to the doctor where getting shorter and the times she spent crying where becoming none exsistant. She...
    jordan199728 jordan199728 18-21, M Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    A self confident man, is a sexy man...
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I like how my husband says that he'll " make dinner tonight" ... which usually means delivery
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I absolutely have damn no use for men who feel and think that women are inferior to a man. I am a very capable woman who is performing my job in a traditional man's profession. I...
    maryannelamb maryannelamb 46-50, F 4 Responses Apr 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    onlu the silly silly people are obsessed with him
    koki1997 koki1997 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am obsessed. I'm a straight girl (well, mostly) and I am completely obsessed with big breasts. I love the big, round, hanging, lovely breasts, and I love large areolas and n...
    BlazerFan BlazerFan 41-45, F 25 Responses Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    For all the twisted rapists out there. I am so angry right now here I am a 15 year old girl who studies psychology at school and there on the news 20 minutes ago there was a...
    rougewolf55555 rougewolf55555 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Word For Today:Speak the truth Proverbs 19:9 “A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who pours out lies will perish.” Speak the truth A pastor finished his service...
    poisedjaber poisedjaber 26-30, F Apr 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I dated a younger guy once, and regretted it. it was a terrible experience. he was childish and petty and i called it off quickly. I also prefer younger women. like, girls who are...
    KaliG15 KaliG15 16-17, T Mar 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I LOOOVVVEEE Andrew Lloyd Webber's Phantom of the opera, I've been obsessed with the music
    Ellie1027 Ellie1027 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I really,really,really love the female chest. Okay I'm obsessed with them.Could be worse things to obsess over.Listen all I need is to meet my busty dream girl.Hopefully I will...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am more obsessed with the idea of being skinny. I've never been that. I've always been fat.
    ProAnaMiaTeen ProAnaMiaTeen 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know this is a dangerous thing to say on the web, but hear me out. I like men that are AT MOST, 8 years older than me. No old grandpas for me. At the moment I have a crush on a...
    XraZorBladezX XraZorBladezX 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hats off to any guys who are not afraid to let their feminine side show, and wear their skimpy short shorts in public!
    wgsc wgsc 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I want to say this: I Like People Who Can Handle Different Opinions What Being Open Minded Is Really About I want to post my thoughts in this group here hoping that there is...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel more comfortable with people who are honest about how they feel. It allows me to open up more as well. If you hide your feelings then I will hide mine as well.
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    People who are genuine not imitation 😃
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    For a super shy guy like me i really respect people who aren't afraid to share their feeling with the world
    Cubeball Cubeball 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I like people who are open minded open to new ideas and have the ability to see things from different perspectives
    philabe90 philabe90 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm bi curious. I think I have to call myself that until I've had enough experience to call myself bisexual, right? I had some heavy petting and make out sessions with other girls...
    danteflorz danteflorz 31-35, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I had a problem with four cruel women from three different congregations. I was learning how to manage my emotion to these women because they were strong emotion to me. I know the...
    JXoxo2013 JXoxo2013 26-30, F Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I like the female chest. It's not like I'm going to run up to a woman and stare at her.Or go up to a girl and say I like your big bouncy rack under your tank top.I like the...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M Apr 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    ...write me a message saying " watch out lady, they call me the milf hunter"...that they are pathetic. First of all if you want to impress me, stating that I'm old isn't the way to...
    cheekyhannah36 cheekyhannah36 36-40, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think Asian women are totally gorgeous. I met and fell in love with a Taiwanese women last year. Asian women treat their men so incredibly well. They generally do a lot if yoga...
    Julesyro Julesyro 61-65, M 2 Responses Apr 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Since becoming an E P friend with a very special, very beautiful African American woman . I have a growing desire to know what it be like to be intimate with such an exotic beauty...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    if both are equal then fights happen because both sides want to be right. I believe women are superior and should have the final say. you can take the mans advise if you choose but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    if both are equal then fights happen because both sides want to be right. I believe women are superior and should have the final say. you can take the mans advise if you choose but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've always loved men. I could not imagine being involved romantically with anyone other than my boyfriend. I've always been "that girl" at the bar who gets too drunk and starts...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate when guys can't treat a lady with respect. Like I'm a girl but can treat a girl way better than the average guy. I used to wonder how certain girls liked me. Is it so much...
    KayKay90210 KayKay90210 16-17, F 16 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    And I can't ******* stand women who act Inferior to men . I think it's a excuse to be. Lazy house wife . I mean I am a woman and I ******* hate work . But I'll work any day if it...
    alejandragucci alejandragucci 18-21, F Apr 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate when men disrespect women and call them out of their names..
    Alisha39 Alisha39 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Women owe you nothing, not a smile, not a glance, not a nod, not attention, not conversation, not even the time of day
    trashspice trashspice 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 26