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I Am So Tired of Men Who Are Obsessed With Blonde Women

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    I am naturally dark ash blond.  It looks terrible with my skin.  I have a severe red tint to my skin.  My hair looks super good in red.  It hides my red skin tones.  Most guys say, "I love your hair blonde."  Its like, duh, what...
    MISTRESSROXY MISTRESSROXY 36-40, F 9 Responses May 28, 2009

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    I Know That Ideally, I Shouldn't Care What Other People Think, But Coming Across This Issue Really Irks Me In a Very Personal Way.

    When I was a kid, one of my earliest body-image issues resulted from the fact that I did not and never could fit the blond, blue-eyed, light skinned, thin cookie-cutter mold.  Blond was what I saw beauty defined as in the media.  Blond was something I wasn't, and...
    solarxmoon solarxmoon 26-30, F 10 Responses May 29, 2009

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    What the Hell?

    What the hell is the big deal with blondes. I really don't understand I mean, brunteets are just as good as blondes if not better, but hell that is just my own opinion. BroknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 28, 2009

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    Preferences

    Who knows where the preference for blonde women comes from. I don't really care what guys think of me, the only men who would hurt my feelings if they didn't like my hair colour are my father, and fiance. If every other man in the world prefers blondes, that's fine-just narrow...
    MrsKateBrown MrsKateBrown 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Lies My Brother Told Me

    My older brother convinced me when I was little that no man would ever want to marry me because I have brown hair. The funny part is now that he is grown up all the girls he's dated were brunettes.
    zlanki28 zlanki28 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    Makes Me Feel Left Out

    God damn burnett hair. :( It's true, blond girls DO have the most fun.
    HaleyBloodRedRose1995 HaleyBloodRedRose1995 18-21, F 5 Responses May 20, 2011

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    Its becouse light blonde hair is rare to have

    naturally and Hard to maintain if it's bleached, and therefore it is more wanted. Like everything else thats is an effort to achieve. Like being skinny, muscular or beautiful. Harsh truth; Guys don't prefer blonde women. Guys prefer beautiful women. It doesn't matter how light...
    Bootsycurie Bootsycurie 22-25 1 Response Jan 3

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    Brunettes Ftw!

    Seriously! The bias is annoying!
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    OK so I never saw this coming but I am somewhat obsessed with a person I met a few weeks (or months ago). He fits every single thing I want in a person, he's tall, charming and...
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    I love people who are able to express their opinion and who have their own thoughts on varying topics. I think being true to yourself and living authentically is one of the...
    Dutchess68 Dutchess68 41-45 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I really admire people that have found themselves ... That have found their uniqueness and are so happy in their own skin, they don't care what others think about them... I admire...
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    Real talk! Hate people who are fraud, i cut them off easy.
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    I love to be with people who are nice enough. :)
    ElleFrancene ElleFrancene 18-21, F Aug 13

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    I'm starting to think I'm obsessed but I can't help it. I want the perfect white man for me. I would be honored to be his wife and have his children. I pray that love is still in...
    Prettygirl8726 Prettygirl8726 26-30, F 9 Responses Jul 30

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    Those who abuse women are not men. They're scum. Amongst the lowest forms of filth.
    IncompletelyBroken IncompletelyBroken 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    I am finding that white men are not much different from black men. Actually, they tend to be a bit heartless. I am trying to keep the faith that there are some nice, single white...
    Sunshine2929 Sunshine2929 36-40 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    So I wanna know what are others thoughts on young women dating older guys. Well a young women 18 to 26 say with a guy who's in his late 30s to 40. I've read that all young partners...
    brinaadams brinaadams 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm a 25 year old succesful, athletic man looking for a ANR in Belgium or The Netherlands. Any girls/women from Belgium or the Netherlands here? Best regards
    tnm777 tnm777 22-25, M Aug 10

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    Seriously, WTF?? I don't even know what to say. I know more than enough women who can knock out the average jock.
    FallenPride FallenPride 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Beware of marrying NRI/ABCD grooms! Indian girls, please research and know whom you are marrying or you may end up getting beaten and abused. Sadly, there are many cases that has...
    Sreeme Sreeme 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Hi everybody! All are welcome to message me! I love me some older men and dirty talk (;
    xoemmaxo xoemmaxo 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 8

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    sure thing its such a stupid thing to say when women have proven their mettle in all fields ///
    romell romell 36-40, M a week ago

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    ColourmeAmb ColourmeAmb 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Lol, latley ive noticed how some guys have been labelling girls as "vvhores" or "*******" to the point its rather absurd. Just because a girl shares something thats related to a...
    WhereWeBegin WhereWeBegin 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I like white men. Its a very sennsitive thing. Not to me but everyone else.
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