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I Am Socially Awkward

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    I wish guys would talk to me cx I guess I'm too

    ugly for guys to talk to me or something πŸ˜‚
    Punkrockmusiclover423 Punkrockmusiclover423 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I always say stupid things

    when i'm nervous and struggle to build up the sentence because my mind gets blank and im thinking too slow. I have SA and memories of stupid and awkward conversations are always attacking my mind and i dont know how to get rid of them. So annoying. How to forget it? I need to...
    nothingless94 nothingless94 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 21

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    I thought it was only me.

    But I see lots of other with similar mindset. Do you like attending parties, social gathering or something? I do like but the problem is I couldn't enjoy there. I become one silent lonely in that crowd who try to hide between crowds of other. I don't talk much, i don't know why...
    nreal nreal 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 17

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    Well, this isn't my best asset.

    I'm pretty timid, and shy around people I don't really know. It's happen to me for the longest time. It can be kind of frustrating sometimes having to deal with it, but I'll live...
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 16-17, M Jul 8

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    I am socially awkward.

    I own it and don't feel bad about it. It's just how I am. My close friends love to get a good laugh out of it! I do too.
    oceanicdreamer oceanicdreamer 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    So I got asked out on a date this Friday.

    A younger dude. And I think I offended him. Cause he was all "you like me so far right?" And I was all "yeah. You're alright". Honestly idgaf either way. Go/don't go it's whatevs. Lol. He hasn't texted me back since "just alright? I'll have to try harder" I told him crap like...
    ZombieBaitMaiden ZombieBaitMaiden 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 23

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    I really hate being in situations

    where you are in a huge group of people where you don't know anyone except for the one friend and you just stand there looking around and smiling because you don't know what the hell to do.
    tediousjpg tediousjpg 16-17 5 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm torn between why can't I be normal

    and **** it I only like socially awkward people anyway
    thatoneguy755 thatoneguy755 18-21, M 3 Responses May 28

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    I can be socially awkward.

    ..but then again I consider myself to be awkwardly social 😌
    SandySassyPants SandySassyPants 13-15, F May 25

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    Not in the 'oh heehee look at me im

    so awkward aren't i adorable' way. It's more like a "oh god what do i do what do i say people are looking at me and they think im weird dont **** up wait i ****** up im so stupid im going to go cry now' kind of thing.
    TheQueenOfPunkRock TheQueenOfPunkRock 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 15

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    Mercury90 Mercury90 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    I always manage to do and/or say the wrong

    things. I always try to anticipate the other persons' reaction, and it's usually the exact opposite!
    ImaWeirdie ImaWeirdie 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 11

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    I act really weird when in company of people I

    don't know. And although I enjoy the company of my friends, I never actually feel like quite myself either. Pfft.
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I can be friendly and charismatic,

    sure. But when it comes to a normal conversation, I'm often at a loss as to what I should say. It's rather frustrating, and I wish I could just be outgoing and extroverted sometimes.
    LostEmeraldEyes LostEmeraldEyes 18-21, F Jul 8

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    Here In the Ep Too...

    I feel like I don't know what I'm doing. With some people I just click, and it is easier to be myself, but on the whole, I struggle a little bit. I don't know how to interact like everyone else and feel like an outcast. I suppose some of this is by design, cuz I hate to be a...
    Cinderelly Cinderelly 36-40, F 13 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    I Am So Clueless

    I never know what is really going on. Sometimes when someone likes me, I think they are just being friendly. And when I think someone actually likes me, it turns out they are just being friendly. It's really awkward, embarrassing but never boring. I am also uncoordinated and...
    lightswillguideyouhome lightswillguideyouhome 46-50, M 6 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    I really hate people,

    mostly girls who are like "omg hehe hi I'm awkward πŸ™ˆπŸ™ŠπŸ˜˜" and it's like no you're not awkward you just think it's cute to act like you have no brain or social skills.
    alexxaaa alexxaaa 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    One of my biggest struggles is wanting to talk

    to someone, but not knowing what to talk about.
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm also socially awkward

    as we'll with only one friend
    linkgames linkgames 13-15, M Jun 25

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    Does anyone else feel like you can't talk to

    other people as easily as others do? Every time I am in/around a big group I am always the quiet one or one who can't really hold a conversation. I just feel super awkward.
    sweetx3 sweetx3 22-25, F 18 Responses Jan 24

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    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I am so socially awkward

    that I am nervous to see my family in california and now that im here im nervous to leave my room and socialize. I hate confrontation and i dont like going to church because im always do shy and awkward and my hands are so sweaty all the time so i dont want to shake peoples...
    oneepicboss oneepicboss 13-15, M Jun 25

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    Of Course You Are Too.,

    I don't think that some one would spend time on this site at all if they weren't socially awkward.  So, if you are reading this, then I think it is only fair that you too join this group.  Thank you.
    thisisnolongerfun thisisnolongerfun 26-30, M 12 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    I Never Have Much to Say...

    ...but I have so much on my mind! As the username implies, I'm one of those spacey, nature-loving hippy types. I like to think deeply about EVERYTHING and that gets me into trouble socially most of the time. I tend to zone out when I don't feel included in the conversation - and...
    NewAgeHippy NewAgeHippy 18-21 30 Responses Sep 13, 2008

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    I am so socially awkward!

    I'm horrible around people because all i can think about is what they are thinking about me BECAUSE IM SOCIALLY AWKWARD. i want to get over it SO bad.
    bowsandarrows bowsandarrows 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    My Quirks.

    I hate answering the door at home. If I don't know the person, I usually wont. Even if I do know them, I wont unless they were invited. I don't even like answering the door for delivery people, but I will out of necessity. I don't like talking on the phone. There are only 2...
    dejaentendu90 dejaentendu90 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    Person: "So, what are you wearing?

    " Me: "Oh, mostly skin today. And some clothes."
    LullabyForAnInsomniac LullabyForAnInsomniac 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    The Wedding Experience

    I attended the wedding of a friend this weekend. I knew a handful of people there, but not too many.Some of the people, I hadn't seen in years. I was okay with the standards - "What have you been up to?", "Where do you live?", "How many kids do you have?", etc. After that...
    sciguy18 sciguy18 51-55, M 3 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    I describe myself as a diesel car.

    It's hard for me to warm up to people because of my awkwardness
    annpharos21 annpharos21 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I Am Painfully Awkward.

    And I don't mean that to be "quirky". A lot of people, I've noticed tend to lovingly describe themselves or their friends as awkward for having out-of-the-box thinking. For example, I remember going to the movies and seeing some people I knew from college sitting a few rows ahead...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Sitting with 6 people.

    ..jesus, i fuking boored to death
    Mercury90 Mercury90 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I'm always afraid if I'll say something weird

    or hurtful, so most of the time I won't say anything at all.
    riruxchan riruxchan 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Literally can't even talk to new people without

    stuttering. I can never make conversation with people when I feel like everyone is judging me
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 8

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    I moved schools and I didn't talk to anyone

    for the first three weeks except for teachers because I was afraid of messing up or being awkward...
    whitmorepiper whitmorepiper 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I don't even like people honestly.

    I don't think I'm superior or anything I just genuinely don't find conversation with others stimulating. It's always just bullshit about other people.
    penilane penilane 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    lexa2041 lexa2041 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I hate when I'm trying to be funny

    or sarcastic, but then I end up saying something lame/dark/offensive
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Hello, I'm Awkward.

    I am the most awkward person I know. I look around me and see all of these 'normal' people, going about their lives, able to go out into the world. And then I look in the mirror and see this awkward mess staring back at me. I try so hard to fit in while at the same time being...
    Faulting Faulting 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    I took a cab to ballet class today

    and as I climb out the cab driver yells out to me 'enjoy ballet' and I reply 'thanks, you to.' - sigh I shouldn't be allowed to speak :
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jun 8

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    I Can't Start Up A Good Converstation

    In public, here, on other websites. When ever I try to make friends. It becomes awkward. I'll say something like this: "Er hello...so you like waffles?" Or something that is in there username.. "Hello! you like cats right? I see from your username you must be a cat person...
    RiuChan RiuChan 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2012

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    BEING AWKWARD IS NOT CUTE.

    HAVING SOCIAL ANXIETY IS NOT CUTE. IT IS EMBARRASSING AND I HATE IT! Stop romanticizing things that hurt!
    haleyybearr haleyybearr 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 4

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    I try to be funny or nice

    but it comes off being mean or sarcastic. Ugh I hate it! Why is this so hard for me? 10 years ago I stopped trying to meet new people now I have no friends. I think being a hermit crab for so long has made it worst. Now i'm getting older and completely friendless.
    30yroldmom 30yroldmom 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    sarahbear420 sarahbear420 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 14

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    well i am more the loner type & its hard

    for me to interact with ppl. alot of ppl take it personally but they just don't understand what its like. i feel so awkward around other ppl. its nothing against ppl. its just i don't know what to say. i have bad experiences with the public in the past. i just try not to repeat...
    Benae Benae 22-25, F 11 Responses May 31

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    The truth is I am sometimes a bit socially

    awkward; I don’t get sarcasm, I talk like an β€œgeek,” and sometimes I have to consult Urban Dictionary to understand people my age. people who will not understand why I am not much of a party girl. I leave my comfort zone, and enter a world of chaos and beauty.” If you...
    SummerLove16 SummerLove16 16-17, F 7 Responses May 12

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    I don't know how to talk to certain people

    and hold a conversation in person. I get really nervous and choke on my words. I need to get some confidence so I can make some friends because being alone sucks.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    I remember in grade 8,

    we had an assignment to facilitate a class discussion. I had no idea how to have a normal discussion, let alone facilitate one for the entire class. (It didn't help that I was the first one up.)
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I'm socially awkward

    when I am messaging people.. I usually put "..." when I'm blushing or just don't know what else to say... Or I do that if I feel like what I said was stupid... I just wanted you guys to know that I don't do that because I don't want to talk to you... I do it because I feel...
    SammieSweetheart687 SammieSweetheart687 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I really am. I'm shy

    and tend to freeze up around strangers. I have to be completely comfortable around someone to show them my true self. I have a hard time trusting others and all my friendships in the past were horrible. When I was younger we moved around a lot. I've been to three different...
    handwrittenlovenotes handwrittenlovenotes 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    I'm Very Socially Awkward

    Okay, So I suppose I am : shy, weird, socially inept, awkward, etc. I have social anxiety and always blank out when people talk to me. And, I always think of the worst situation that could happen at any given moment anywhere in public where there's people around. I hate being...
    lostgirl88 lostgirl88 18-21, F 177 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    I'm with my sister, her boyfriend,

    my sister old friend, her husband, my nephew, and my mother. I'm just staring at my phone because I don't really want to talk..... -_-
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F Jun 28

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    I rarely can make friends online

    because here's what will happen if someone message me. People: Hi! Me: hey People: What's up? Me: nothing. People: Oh:) And done. That's basically my life when trying to make friends online.
    ayamaxx ayamaxx 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    That statement now defines me.

    I used to try harder to trust and open up to others but always being the second choice or the person who struggles to think of something to say, has overwhelmed me. I hate that I can't just be normal. I haven't found anyone else like me. I feel so alone and I don't have any...
    Sociallyawkwardrose Sociallyawkwardrose 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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