I Am Socially Awkward

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    The awkward thing of being socially awkward is

    when realise that there is no cure or a pill to help you with your awkwardness ...so you're probably always going to be an awkward person for the rest of your life. Well you can try to not be awkward but trying to not be awkward is really awkward... Oh I hate my awkward life...
    missnicething missnicething
    18-21, F
    Mar 30, 2015

    Truth is my social skills depends on

    who I'm with, I can talk to a girl who is just a friend and has similar interest but I can barely maintain a conversation with a girl that I think is cute. I can talk to people I've been around long enough but can barely talk to new people.
    BurningFist BurningFist
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 19, 2015

    I am a very private person.

    . I don't know if that's a good thing or not. Like I can't help it. I don't like telling people, even friends, my business plus I don't really like bringing attention to myself. I don't know..
    NogoodElizabeth NogoodElizabeth
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2016

    When a person talks to me face-to-face (which is

    so rare for me), half the time I am thinking whether I am looking good or not, should I look into his/her eyes or not, should I keep saying hmmm or okay after every 5-10 seconds or not? I hope I don't look like an idiot just staying quiet while he/she is the who keeps on talking...
    Maaren Maaren
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2016

    I try to be social but I'm

    such an awkward Bunnie! 😱
    OddBunnie OddBunnie
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2015

    i tried being nice to a woman by holding the

    door open for her.. but for some reason she didn't seem to like it.. she kept screaming "i'm peeing in here" :'D
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 5, 2014
    Jiyou Jiyou
    1 Response Mar 10, 2016

    I'm sure it is painfully obvious to most people.

    I struggle to maintain eye contact and make conversation. I may come across as a stumbling fool, so I need to work on that.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    I Am Painfully Awkward.

    And I don't mean that to be "quirky". A lot of people, I've noticed tend to lovingly describe themselves or their friends as awkward for having out-of-the-box thinking. For example, I remember going to the movies and seeing some people I knew from college sitting a few rows ahead...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 1, 2013

    Sometimes I make myself try to talk to

    people(irl and online). but omg it's so exhausting! idk how people can do it all the time! and I barely say anything. but I still get so tired from it >.<
    FaerieGrrl98 FaerieGrrl98
    18-21, F
    Nov 11, 2015

    I managed to deliver a presentation today

    that was actually fun! I was shaking and went a bit red when reading, but people still enjoyed it and applauded me :') I was really happy! Even my stone cold teacher laughed a little:)
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Dec 15, 2015
    mikaellann mikaellann
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Aug 4, 2015

    I mumble, I stumble over words,

    I avoid eye contact, I blush, I stammer, I am shy. I am terrified of speaking in front of crowds. I have a hard time meeting new people. These are all things I can work on, and hopefully I can become a more confident person.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2015

    Recently, there was a lot to read in the media

    about a social phenomenon called "ghosting", meaning one side ceasing all communication with an acquaintance silently. Much has been reported about victims of ghosting. But I have not seen a lot being reported about the offenders. I am one of these, I have broken off numerous...
    quirkyowl quirkyowl
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Jan 8, 2016

    I was in the queue to get on the bus

    and a lady was in front of me, and the doors opened so everyone got on but this lady, except I didn't want to be rude and skip past her, so I waited for her to get on, but she didn't get on the bus, and turns out she was waiting for a different bus and mine had by then driven...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Dec 3, 2015

    6 signs that you're socially awkward

    and how to fix this: Do you want to overcome shyness or anxiety and be confident and charismatic? Do you want to make effortless conversation with anyone, make friends and get dates easily? If social interactions don't go for you as well as you would like and you sometimes...
    Girlwithavoice15 Girlwithavoice15
    16-17, F
    Oct 7, 2015

    Ooh, look, an amazing person

    who is a great role model and whom I look up to and admire! *hides*
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    I'm getting better though.

    Turns out all you need to do is just stop caring
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 1, 2015

    I am depressed and find it challenging to beat

    my depression when I have to be social. Having to be social with people I don't know makes me self conscious and I act robotic and totally freeze up. I'm trying to "put myself out there" to become well again, but when I do so, I lose footing because I feel inadequate and...
    agirl987 agirl987
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 11, 2016

    Though I try my best,

    I cannot hide the fact I am not from this world. Clumsy to the point that people wonder if I do it on purpose. Laughing when I shouldn't, and not laughing when it's expected. Misunderstandings... everywhere. "What is WRONG with you?!" - everyone ever I swear, I come in peace...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Dec 20, 2014

    I hate when people say

    that being socially awkward is 'cute.' It's not ******* cute, it's a pain in the *** and causes more problems then I know how to deal with. Don't say you're socially awkward if you're just trying to get attention. Sorry, just had to get that off my chest. Hope I didn't offend...
    WordsAreBeautiful WordsAreBeautiful
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

    I am an awkward pickle.

    I dont know how to talk with my relatives and old friends. I am so awkward in gathering. In fact right now I am at my aunty house and it so awkwarddd!!!!! I don't know what to talk about because I rarely meet them. Uggggghhhh I feel like I wish I was mute but that a terrible...
    Taemi Taemi
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 31, 2015

    One of my roommates was whispering to me about

    what he got for another roommate for Christmas, and I shouted back all excited "you got him a tablet???" And the other one heard me.
    BlueEyedGeekery BlueEyedGeekery
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    I'm a high school student

    and I'm really awkward when it comes to face to face talking and I stutter sometimes when I talk. I don't make friends easy and I'm super shy. Does anyone know how to break this? Little story: This year is extra tough because I moved to a different country last summer. The...
    xrraem xrraem
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 2, 2016

    I Never Have Much to Say...

    ...but I have so much on my mind! As the username implies, I'm one of those spacey, nature-loving hippy types. I like to think deeply about EVERYTHING and that gets me into trouble socially most of the time. I tend to zone out when I don't feel included in the conversation - and...
    NewAgeHippy NewAgeHippy
    29 Responses Sep 13, 2008

    Specially around groups!

    I'm always the one who stays there quiet and listening to my other friends conversation, smiling or laughing when it's funny. But I barely say a word when it's more than 2 persons around lol I think I may have to open up more, but I'm just like this! I just hate being the center...
    blackberries blackberries
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2015

    well i am more the loner type & its hard

    for me to interact with ppl. alot of ppl take it personally but they just don't understand what its like. i feel so awkward around other ppl. its nothing against ppl. its just i don't know what to say. i have bad experiences with the public in the past. i just try not to repeat...
    Benae Benae
    26-30, F
    10 Responses May 31, 2014
    sarahbear420 sarahbear420
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 1, 2016
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2015
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Jun 20, 2015

    Yeah..couldn't even talk to my own family

    without feeling weird and awkward
    weirdnerdgirl weirdnerdgirl
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 11, 2015

    This is to try to get my head clear.

    I'm standing in the middle of the shop on the computer writing this because my head, my mind is racing. I can't seem to get thoughts clearly and I don't quite know what I'm trying to think about. I don't want to date, I don't need to date. But I feel socially awkward because I...
    Devilscar Devilscar
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 16, 2016

    Sometimes I just don't know how to respond to

    people and then things go downhill from there with an awkward laugh and my attempts to avoid prolonging the conversation ;-;
    rylhce rylhce
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 14, 2015

    When you're singing a song

    and you didn't realize there were people around you 😳😁😁😁😁😁
    TimbitsandCoffee TimbitsandCoffee
    18-21, M
    Dec 2, 2015

    It literally seems like I can't talk to a

    person of the opposite sex for more than two minutes without looking away or awkwardly fidgeting. I give up. I'm forever a rock. If you need me, I'll be laying on the floor with my hands over my face.
    ImagineA ImagineA
    1 Response Aug 18, 2014

    I'm usually really awkward,

    like I get scared talking to people a lot. It just makes me nervous. Ever since I joined EP for the most part I feel welcomed. So I'd like to thank everyone that's been so nice and nonjudgmental
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2015

    I'm always afraid if I'll say something weird

    or hurtful, so most of the time I won't say anything at all.
    riruxchan riruxchan
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jul 1, 2014

    I hate when people at restaurants say "enjoy

    your food" like... Don't tell me what to do..
    deleted deleted
    Dec 14, 2014

    It's not that I can't carry a conversation,

    I'm just too scared to. I'm afraid of saying what's on my mind because of being judged or having someone take something I said the wrong way. Sometimes I go through an entire conversation in my head, almost planning it out before I talk to the person and then when I finally do...
    Cortezz Cortezz
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Dec 30, 2014

    I got a phone call from Greenpeace telling me

    about a petition I signed and they spent around 10 minutes talking to me on deforestation which was cool but then started asking me for donations. I said I don't really have an income so the guy gave another 3 minute lecture and proposed a smaller monthly donation and that's...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Dec 2, 2015
    cakenibal cakenibal
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    I was making pleasant smalltalk with another

    mom... Then she said "I have twins at home :)" and I said "Omg I would kill myself" and she walked away... I don't know what made me say something so inappropriate. -_- ******' loser.
    InsideTheSadCafe InsideTheSadCafe
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Mar 22, 2015

    Yup ,_, That's why I'm alone most of the time.

    .-. Which is fine, I suppose. ,_,
    Waffl3s Waffl3s
    5 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    One of my biggest struggles is wanting to talk

    to someone, but not knowing what to talk about.
    almaera almaera
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 15, 2014

    I was walking through the mall one,

    and there were those little shops in the middle all over. One guy reached out and gave me a free hair gel packet. I froze, looked at him and the packet before giving the packet back. He kept trying to give it to me as I walked away slowly, saying "no thank you" repeatedly.
    LolitaAngie LolitaAngie
    16-17, F
    Jan 11, 2016

    I'm Very Socially Awkward

    Okay, So I suppose I am : shy, weird, socially inept, awkward, etc. I have social anxiety and always blank out when people talk to me. And, I always think of the worst situation that could happen at any given moment anywhere in public where there's people around. I hate being...
    lostgirl88 lostgirl88
    18-21, F
    178 Responses Jun 2, 2010

    I don't understand why I have a hard time

    talking to people. It's very hard at times, but other times it's not. I wasn't always like this but I am now. it makes me feel stupid. I'm very educated but in social situations I feel awkward. I feel comfortable writing more than talking. I have a lot to say but I just don't...
    claytonspain claytonspain
    31-35, M
    5 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    Person: "So, what are you wearing?

    " Me: "Oh, mostly skin today. And some clothes."
    LullabyForAnInsomniac LullabyForAnInsomniac
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 30, 2014

    What I say: "Hello, nice to meet you.

    " What I think: "Hello, I'm socially awkward. Please don't hate me."
    ImaginaryAlchemist ImaginaryAlchemist
    22-25, F
    15 Responses Feb 1, 2015

    Do you ever do or say something to someone

    and even YEARS later kick yourself like, whyyyy in the hell did I say that?! Why?
    ACWK226 ACWK226
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 25, 2015

    I am really socially awkward I see other teens

    and than I look at my self and I realize I'm different and I don't know really how to work other electronics than an iPad because I just freeze them and I'm wondering if I'm the only one of my kind
    deleted deleted
    Mar 29, 2016
    LucyKxo LucyKxo
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 5, 2016

    holy cow, I just realized yesterday how awkward

    I am when it comes to being around a group of people. I was at a Halloween party last night, and there were about 10 other people there conversing and having a great time while I was sitting on a chair drinking my apple cider and staring straight at the fire pit because I was...
    purplehorizons665 purplehorizons665
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 1, 2015

    I have never been popular.

    I had a very small group of friends in high school and a small group of friends in college. Could it be because I am somewhat of an introvert and socially awkward? Duh duh duuuuh!!!!! I don't know. But the way I see it is, fewer friends equals less drama. And if everybody likes...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 17, 2015
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