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I Am Sometimes Antisocial

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    sunnysideupp sunnysideupp 16-17, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    It's not about YOU...

    .That feeling I cannot explain.
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F 6 days ago

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    I'm not the best at having many friends I like

    my space I'm selfish with my time. I like to rush allot when I should take my time and learn something slowly! I'm not the best of being on time I'm not the best at maintaining contact. I have irregular moods I make many mistakes. Sometimes I don't see the point of continuing...
    Incubusbunny Incubusbunny 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My family always bug me

    that I'm on my phone too much. I always think how funny they never ask I am on my phone all the time. I don't like people and what they say & I don't like attention. I'm on my phone because I just want to block the world because I get so mad. Trust me I think they rather have...
    34JustV 34JustV 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I can't stand parents

    who expect adults to refrain from legal activities to protect their child. They should remove their child.
    Pussinska Pussinska 51-55, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have not really been known to be Antisocial

    at school because everyone knows me. But they don't know about me and i feel so alone in a world were everyone knows my name
    Codyweb Codyweb 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I make plans to go out

    but halfway through the night I make an excuse so I can go home and lay in bed.
    josiemills43 josiemills43 16-17, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    "I'm a loner, and a loner's gotta be alone.

    " ~ some commercial quote I love
    MsSteph MsSteph 56-60, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I do enjoy going out

    for the odd drink ofc but most of the time I'd rather sit in a watch a film or play a game. I'm just that awsum!
    staticdreams staticdreams 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I sometimes wonder what the heck I'm doing here.

    .. I don't have enough trust for friends, why am I writing personal stuff for total strangers? Am I really getting enough out of these limited interactions? Are we?
    Sinjintiger Sinjintiger 41-45, M 8 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    We are what is termed "social animals",

    and if we look at the comparison of us to natures wild, we will all find there are animals we can relate to in a way. For me, it is the black panther. They are a solitary creature for the most part. I can be around people, but only in small doses. After an hour or two I start to...
    Panth69 Panth69 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    Call it being antisocial,

    call it social anxiety. Either way being alone is best <3
    Gallobaby Gallobaby 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I like to lay in my bed listening to "Two steps

    from hell" and "John Dreamer" I recommend everyone listen to them, they are amazing
    suicideDepression suicideDepression 22-25, M 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I get scared being around people.

    If I am in a crowded place I will most likely take out my phone and listen to music and what not. Not because I'm snotty or that I hate everyone, it's just I panic around people. Feeling like I need to be perfect before speaking to someone. It gets to the point where I don't...
    ConfusedAndScared1234 ConfusedAndScared1234 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've got 99 problems

    and 86 of them are completely made up scenarios in my head that I'm stressing about for absolutely no logical reason. The root why I am sometimes antisocial.
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I will go to great lengths to avoid bumping

    into to people I know from work or school in public. As in I will take the long way and walk an extra 45 minutes.
    tendersoul22 tendersoul22 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 7

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    Hello I'm a very anti social person

    so cut me some slack I was wondering if u wanted to be friend
    Thomas34567 Thomas34567 13-15, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I like my own space and to be left alone

    sometimes. I don't see it as a bad or negative thing
    Kierstyne Kierstyne 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's getting so difficult to been with other

    people. I feel so weird and dislocated. And I'm trying so hard...
    IsabelMath IsabelMath 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I had company over just now,

    and I kind of kicked them out. Their company was starting to drain me, and I needed to be alone, recharge, and gather my thoughts.
    rumblingheart rumblingheart 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Like 5 days a week I feel better alone,

    away from the world... Everyone just seems soo focus on themselves it's like you try to talk to anyone surrounding you & it's all about them & when they ask you a question about you they don't fully listen to what you have to say & I notice detail so all this just makes me...
    presseve presseve 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    Cell phone rings. I look down.

    Why do I just stare at your good efforts trying to contact me? Knock on the door, I lean against the wall, cat bugler like, and slide to the next room. Why do I not open the door to greet you? Social media is bleeding out "Hi" and "where are you?" then a message on my messenger...
    wastedglory wastedglory 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have made an effort to get out there

    and meet people this year. I've achieved things I never thought possible; I'm starting college this September and I'm really excited. There are times though, when happiness for me is just being by myself listening to music and cooking something tasty, or drawing, or watching a...
    Chaosforthefly Chaosforthefly 26-30, F 13 Responses Aug 12

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    Just because someone is quiet doesn't mean they

    don't want to talk to you. Sometimes we just don't know how. Sometimes were the most loving people so don't judge a book by its cover! :)
    zelda593 zelda593 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I get this experience every time I leave the

    house...strange people from different places...Miami, fl ain't the same anymore
    claraBow claraBow 61-65, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Sometimes I just love being alone.

    I feel relax and peace. :)
    gg25mxcL gg25mxcL 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    Since my close to death experience two years

    ago I've been afraid to really talk and communicate. Sometimes it goes so far that when my parents accidentally interrupt me I'll be quiet for the rest of the week. I'm not sure if it's bad or not but yesterday at a party I didn't talk the entire time and I felt so bad for it...
    catsecrets catsecrets 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's hard to find people

    who are on the same wavelength as me. I like meaningful conversations. I'm a deep person
    venusarcadia venusarcadia 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 30

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    There are times I can be very Garboesque,

    and desire most to be alone. The ghosts of the past. And, there are times I want to challenge what people think, how they see me, and for that I can be VERY surprising!
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I admit it. Sometimes I ditch people.

    I disappear. Or if I see someone at a store or some place, I'll ditch them.
    inadither inadither 61-65, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    yakizama yakizama 18-21, M 7 Responses Jul 31

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    I feel bipolar when it comes to being

    antisocial. I never want to hang out with people, but once I am alone for quite some time I feel lonely and unwanted. I just need one best friend and I think I will be okay.
    josay23 josay23 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    I just want to apologize to all of my friends

    on here. Sometimes I can be antisocial and I'm a bit complicated. Thank you for your patience and understanding.
    asiancdcrystal asiancdcrystal 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have a hard time relating to others.

    I feel like I don't have anything to relay to them. I don't want them knowing anything about me. I find a lot of people fake and boring, and as such, I tend to closet self off from new experiences and new people. My attitude is if they can't be real around me, then I can't be...
    lifebeginsat lifebeginsat 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I walk past people without making the effort of

    conversation very frequently. I know I look like A **** but I'm just not interested in many other peoples lives. Only A selected few.
    Thisgeezer Thisgeezer 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 11

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    whitenova whitenova 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    Ambion Ambion 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    It's a form of protection.

    You can't hurt me, if I don't let you in.
    DarkSoulInsaneHeart DarkSoulInsaneHeart 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    i feel horrible because my cousins are here

    but i just dont really feel like i have anything in common with them anymore because im in college and the oldest cousin is going into ninth grade...
    notgonnabeok notgonnabeok 18-21, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I like listening to people talk,

    because I find it easier to just listen/watch how a person acts before I finally decide to say something to them.
    Elijahx Elijahx 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I am antisocial, sometimes,

    most of the time.
    brokenfixed brokenfixed 18-21, M 6 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I sometimes just want to hide away from people,

    I need a safety net in case things get to much. I either want to sit alone in nature or curl up in my bed and sleep my worries away.
    oneflewover oneflewover 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    There are some days when I just want to sit

    and eat my lunch by myself. It's not that I couldn't meet up with a friend or sit with some co-workers or classmates. It's just that some days I don't want to make small talk. I don't want to hear about your day. I just want to sit by myself in quiet, enjoy my meal and reflect...
    tendersoul22 tendersoul22 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Netflix in pajamas all day > actively

    participating in life. Why couldn't I have been blessed to be a natural social butterfly??? >:/
    mgriffen3 mgriffen3 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    I am usually happy and laughing

    and talking but sometimes I wi just sit on my iPad and yeah antisocial me !
    LondonLover111 LondonLover111 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I work all day, speaking politely to customer,

    and fixing their issues. When I get home most days I turn my phone on vibrate, screen my calls, put my games on, and zone out.
    WigginsEP WigginsEP 26-30, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    One time I ate an onion

    and thought, what if this onion had dreams. Then I cried for 3 hours straight
    sammrangel sammrangel 16-17, M 8 Responses Aug 6

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    I Am Always Antisocial Its not

    because i am socially awkward or anything, in fact if I didn't think so low of myself, I'm sure Id pick back up my knack for making friends. I always used to make friends very easily when I was a child, I was much more outgoing and confidant back then. My personality can thrive...
    solomon3020 solomon3020 18-21, M 11 Responses Jun 5

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    Sometimes I have to push myself to answer the

    phone or accept an invitation to hang/go out with friends. Once I'm out I end up having a great time but it's the initial contact that makes me want to hide in my shell. Ugh I hate it. I wish I was naturally extroverted.
    suggestedusername suggestedusername 31-35, F 9 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Trust Issues

    I've had a few bad experiences with so called friends. Now I have trust issues and find that I don't want to make friends anymore. (Not meaning on line but out there in the real world face to face). Most of the time I find that people use me. If they need me I'm there but it's...
    Darkslayer Darkslayer 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2007

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    Sometimes I just don't feel like talking to

    anyone. There's been a time where I've just been locked in my room for a straight 2 weeks. I feel like sometimes nobody wants me around so I stay away..
    disneylover3 disneylover3 16-17, F 7 Responses Jun 14

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    I can easily stay in my bed all day

    and sleep. no talking to anyone, not even getting up. 🙈
    briannarenee briannarenee 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 6

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    I've always been fascinated with lots of things.

    Even of the simplest of things I find it really interesting but when I try to talk to someone about it they are quick to dismiss as nonsense that's why now I don't talk to people that often.I just keep my thoughts inside me and frankly I'm surrounded with shallow people who only...
    yakizama yakizama 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 30

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    I am more of a selective antisocial,

    I can be really fun, talkative and funny with people I really enjoyed with, but for the others I feel so exhausted and fake when I try to talk and be nice.
    agnest agnest 18-21, F</