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I Am Sorry For Having An Affair

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    Ashamed And Confused, Please Help

    I have been dating this girl for 3 years now. When we first met she was my world, she actually was the first girl I have ever dated. I have always been interested in guys, and I still am. Our relationship got bad and I decided that i wanted to see other people. One of those...
    abrownxo abrownxo 18-21, F Jul 26, 2013

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    It Was'nt Worth It

    I had an affair with a coworker at the chicken plant that I was employed at, in Arkansas. My husband and I moved to Arkansas around the Grannis area to be close to his family, mainly his elderly parents. I had a job in Texas, when he moved up there, and I joined him a month...
    bitchkitty bitchkitty 46-50, F Aug 9, 2012

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    Him And Me

    When everything is wrong but right... This is my story, my story which I am not sure of how to talk about. why does it always have to be the wrong time? the wrong place? the wrong place? why can it not be right for me? I question, everyday I question myself and my life. It was...
    dreamland25 dreamland25 22-25, F Mar 15, 2013

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    Married Couples Thinking Of Dating Other People!!

    * Have you Grown Apart from your Spouse, but still Live Together? * Have you hit a rough patch in your marriage, and trying to decide whether to work things out, or move on? * If you are an outgoing and opinionated married couple that have a long-standing argument or issue that...
    CastingMarriedCouples CastingMarriedCouples 26-30, F Oct 22, 2013

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    I Cheated

    I cheated,Sorry,Won't do it again,Please,Oh please,Give me,Another chance.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2011

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    I feel sorry for myself more. lol
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    I don't care if u don't like what u see.I will be who I want to be and I won't be sorry about it.
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    Teddybearfluff Teddybearfluff 13-15 1 Response a week ago

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    I love my home. I picked out everything in it and each thing I touch has some type of memory . I am planning a move and just hope I can make my new home as comfy as this one
    Dancemomisme Dancemomisme 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I AM Sorry, For not able to completely forget you, It's not something that is easy to do for me, Maybe it will be, One day in the future, When i'm done picking up the missing...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F Mar 28

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    So after some thought and review of my own experience and others I have discovered the following. If you are involved in an affair there is something major missing from your...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 19 Responses Mar 27

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    My parents are going through a divorce and my dad and I found out that my mom has been talking to a guy for 2 months and are more than friends. My dad told me that she had an...
    xXlonebrushpupXx xXlonebrushpupXx 13-15, F Mar 27

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    Poorspouses1 Poorspouses1 70+, M 7 Responses Apr 10

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    Cheeks2014 Cheeks2014 36-40, F 12 Responses Mar 25

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    symyqy symyqy 36-40 4 Responses Mar 26

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    myheart99 myheart99 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    It all came out. I think part of me wanted to be "caught." All I ever wanted was my husband's love and attention. I saw the heartbreak on his face and I owned my deception and lies...
    MissViolet711 MissViolet711 46-50, F 11 Responses Mar 24

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    addictionbarbie addictionbarbie 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    If you do not like what you read- please keep to yourself. A Dire Warning to Christians and People Everywhere. Hello, everyone here. What will be discussed here is very very...
    EvangelistTeen EvangelistTeen 13-15, F Apr 6

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    seasalticecream seasalticecream 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    I am sorry that I'm fat and ugly so no one wants me. I'm sorry that I cut and I am scarred so no one wants me. I'm sorry that I'm not good enough. I'm sorry that no one wants me. I...
    HopelesslyInLoveWithHer HopelesslyInLoveWithHer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Do you ever wonder if the amount of energy you exert for your affair partner is worth it? I love him. I'm afraid I'll always love him, but I'm feeling drained. I need to find...
    sallyanne44 sallyanne44 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 8

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    I'm sorry, all of you guys who helped me, who showed me you cared, who made me stop cutting. I'm sorry. i cut myself a few minutes ago. i was really overwhelmed, with anger...
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    I'm sorry that I exist, I'm sorry for the space I take up. I'm just sorry.
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    Hey guys !!! Sorry for falling into a black hole. Hope you all are well. Latest-I really like him. He's really bringing my soft side out which apparently is a turn off. Funny...
    krispykreme30 krispykreme30 31-35, F Mar 30

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    RedHotCrazyPerson RedHotCrazyPerson 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I want to show how much i am so deeply sorry for questioning that my love no longer want to be with me, as she messaged me and told me it was a net issue and that she can't afford...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    tooloaded tooloaded 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    Haha I like this one. Where to start?? Hmm. I'm not sorry for being loud. Who cares if I still like Pokemon? So what if I dye my hair? It's my hair and I'll do what I want with it...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I came on EP for fun and I don't need anyone to tell me that they're offensed by my trolling. If u are then I'm sorry for u, I am not a bad person but I love to do sarcastic jokes...
    ILoveBearGryllz55 ILoveBearGryllz55 16-17, F Apr 7

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    I believe everything happens for a reason and that you meet everyone that you meet for a reason. Most of my friends have been girls, but I've had one really good guy friend and...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    madworld1994 madworld1994 18-21, F Apr 1

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    whitterz whitterz 22-25, F Apr 1

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    xxersabooxx xxersabooxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    leaklog leaklog 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I got spanked today for getting bad grades at school. I got out my report card last week and as soon as I saw it i knew i will be spanked hard, so i decided to hide it from my mom...
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    Girls are never interested for some reason. They always have someone else. And even when they say they do have feelings for me, they really dont. Ive always wanted a genuine...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    140408-0002 Gah, if there is indeed something that hacks me off more than deleted experiences and stories I can't for the life of me identify what it would it be. Every time...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I keep coming back here to write. I'm trying to move on with my life. I have continuously pulled away from my MM almost each time I saw/talked to him for the past few months, maybe...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 7 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Here's an article that really helped me stray from my AP emotionally and I hope it helps someone else too. What you will get if you marry your AP; "You will get to be...
    cakesx3 cakesx3 22-25, F 7 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Well, after growing closer, and closer, with more feelings getting involved, came more complications. The ups and downs, the emotional roller coaster, the one day hot, the next day...
    Ditto85 Ditto85 26-30 13 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    8 years ago I had an affair with my then boyfriend's best friend. I fell so deep in love with him, he was my obsession. I just could not get away, i saw him everyday, we took trips...
    S3xym4m4 S3xym4m4 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Posting this again... 17 Reasons Why People Cheat Break out into selfhood For a long time there are forces...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 10 Responses Apr 12

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    I wanted to share a couple of excerpts from the book "Getting Past the Affair- A Program To Help You Cope, Heal and Move On---Together or Apart" by Douglas K. Snyder, PhD, Donald H...
    Selfhelpme Selfhelpme 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I found this TREMENDOUSLY eye opening. I read this last night on a message board about affairs and had to share ----- "Love", within infidelity, isn’t. Love in this context is...
    Wikedangel Wikedangel 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 27

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