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I Am Still a Virgin

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 106 People

    Blocked By A Second Personality

    I had a chance with a girl in my high school. She was very pretty and known for being fairly easy and promiscous. We went to a movie and afterwards we started to make out in my car. She was doing everything I hoped she would do, but suddenly, out of nowhere, I heard myself saying...
    tormunkov tormunkov
    18-21, M
    Feb 29, 2012

    I had about 3 seconds of sex five years ago; I

    don't believe it counts towards anything (at least on my end). I've been able to not care for a long time though. I didn't have a reason to think about my virginity or lament on it. Then I began to take classes at university (I was about four years late for this). And sexuality...
    artrosis artrosis
    26-30, M
    Oct 29, 2014

    Confused, But Virginal

    I'm still a virgin--sex has just never happened. However, after that fact, it gets sort of weird. I'm an introvert, a loner-type, but I love parties. I have had a few too many drinks at parties and kissed guys, and once was close to sex (I wasn't drunk enough for that...
    MechanicalBunny MechanicalBunny
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 11, 2009

    I Still Am

    i been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now and i still have not lost it. He is a great guy and don't pressure me into you know, i still have not even seen it yet and i know he really wants to do it, since all his friends have all ready and he has not, so i guess i am scare of...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 1, 2011

    I am 22 years old and still a virgin.

    I am not still a virgin for religious reasons or anything in fact im not religious at all. Ive just always felt that sex is a very personal thing and that i only want to share it with someone who im going to be with a long time, someone i trust completely. The thing that bugs is...
    Cici22 Cici22
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2014

    Well Yes, And No

    I am still a virgin. but technically there are three types of sex, oral, digital (*******), and real (intercourse...) I've dont 1/3 so technically I'm still a virgin for the most important one. Kinda depends on your definition I guess.
    adhd101 adhd101
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 30, 2011

    21 Year Old Virgin

    I am 21 and still a virgin. I've had little luck with either gender, aside from fooling around once with a guy I didn't even really like, I have zero sexual experience. Being in university, I am surrounded by sex on a daily basis. Sexology classes, sexy advertising, skanky...
    veronicas1977 veronicas1977
    3 Responses Jun 6, 2009

    Why I Am

    I'm still a virgin because I want my first time to be with someone I love. I have seen too many people get into a relationship, have sex, and then the couple go to war with each other. In my view sex is suposed to bring people together not tear them apart.
    artemis08 artemis08
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 26, 2008

    Want to Have Her ...discreetly

    Older woman much preferred... I am very masculine but yet....sweet and well... let's get to know each other...  I have fooled around a a bit but have not penetrated a woman's beautiful body... for sexual intercourse. Is being a male virgin bad? I do have woman...
    mancaringlove mancaringlove
    26-30, M
    4 Responses May 23, 2007


    Ok, so yeah I'm still technically a virgin. It's not that I'm proud of it, and VERY few people know it because I think it mainly says something about the guys I've dated. Mostly I think they were guys who really didn't want a girlfriend but were interested in "V-on-a-stick" I...
    badgretchen badgretchen
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 2, 2011

    I'm going off to college soon,

    and that has had me wondering, "Is it surprising that I'm still a virgin?" It's not uncommon, though there has been a significant rise in sex among teenagers. I've been exposed to several opportunities that could have led to my first "sexual encounter," but for whatever reason...
    penumbraprime penumbraprime
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 8, 2014

    I am 22 years old and never had sex

    or any sexual experience. However im a freak im just waiting for the right guy. Im really attractive but dont want to settle. I was going to wait for marriage but im slowing changing my mind. What should I do?
    sandy1992 sandy1992
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2014
    g0lddigg3r g0lddigg3r
    18-21, F
    Sep 12, 2014

    I'm So Glad I Waited...

    ...i joined this group a few months ago. i'm 22 (23 yrs nxt week!) n up until march this year was still a virgin. I had a bad experience when i was 14 where i was attacked and from then i promisd myself id wait. so many times there was peer pressure, times i felt...
    mexeb mexeb
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 14, 2010

    Still a Virgin

    Why is this eating a hole in me? I have no friends now because of this since they have found out 3yrs now.  I know 35 is very late especially being a good looking guy but I was just waiting for someone that would get to know me first not a one night stand.  I was hoping...
    deepowder deepowder
    31-35, M
    1 Response May 4, 2009

    I'm Glad I Still Have My V Card

    I'm 22 and glad i didnt give it up even when i wanted to, because looking back i still havent met anyone who was worth it. It may be old fashioned, but i actually want my first time to be with someone who really loves me and who i can trust. Because I was molested as a teenager...
    caleymars caleymars
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 17, 2009

    Religion The Evil Snake And Society, It's Brain Less *****! 3 More Hidden, Fear No More!

    The Reason I Am Still Untouched Is Because Of Fear! No I Do Not Have A Problem Being With Women Or Talking With Them, It's Society's View On Love! I Grew Up My Whole Life Watching How Monogamy Works And Let Me Tell You, What Starts Out As Puppy Love Will Soon Turn Into A Dog...
    Cy83rDra90n Cy83rDra90n
    26-30, M
    Sep 26, 2011

    Not Because I Can't Get Any

    There have been offers, plenty of them and some that are less flattering. But I'm a virgin because I choose to be... for the moment
    Xininah Xininah
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2008

    Still An Innocent Virgin

    Maybe because i'm way too different than a normal girl. I only had one boyfriend and i may seem mean or unkind, we only went out together because it was expected of me. my friends forced it since they say his nice enough.may family okayed it since his nice enough. but i guess...
    ayomay ayomay
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 14, 2012

    Is This Weird

    I'm about to turn 21 and I'm still a virgin, but its not by choose it just kind of turned out that way. I have never really been attached to men my own age so I don't try to hard to get there attention, I'm more attached to men that are much older then me, 30-45 age group is this...
    Asmit12356 Asmit12356
    18-21, F
    Jun 30, 2012

    I am a 20 year old girl

    and I am still a virgin. I am not ashamed, but I get a little embarrassed when people ask me because they always act so surprised. I do want to have sex, but only with someone I am in love with and that I can trust. I am starting to feel like I will never find the right person...
    anonymoussssss321 anonymoussssss321
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 23, 2015

    I'm India-born, Live in NA

    and I dont have an accent, I'm probably the most white-washed Indian I know. I'm in my mid 20s already. I neglected(is my excuse) my friends and now I have none. I still live at home with my folks. I had a girl-that-is-a-friend way back in elementary that I definitely would call...
    ZubinTheWannabeHero ZubinTheWannabeHero
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2014

    Want to Have Her ...discreetly

    Romantic submissive woman ....preferred... I am very masculine but yet....sweet and then...  well you could find out. I do have woman friends. I was raised with strong family values so I want to do this discreetly. Well, there is this one woman but she is married, Damn she...
    mancaringlove mancaringlove
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 23, 2007

    Hi my names Courtnee,

    I'm 21 & I'm still a Virgin lol. I wouldn't say that I'm saving myself for marriage but saving myself for the right guy. I don't want it to be something that I don't want to remember, with a guy who doesn't care about me & only wants to brag to boys about de-flowering me lol...
    courtneerose courtneerose
    22-25, F
    May 7, 2014

    I Am Still A Virgin...

    I turned 25 in june and I am still a virgin. Only one guy has ever wanted to have sex with me. He also wanted to be with my younger sister. I must be pretty revolting for no other guys to want me.
    Shychicky53 Shychicky53
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 25, 2011
    Doomguy20 Doomguy20
    22-25, M
    Apr 23, 2014

    Found Out Sex Wasn't The Answer At All...

     I'm 19 and still a virgin. When I was in school all of the other girls minus a few were at it like rabbits. Aside from anything, I didn't want to do it with just anybody... I didn't feel physically comfortable with my own body and I never had a serious boyfriend to even...
    Growth2Freedom Growth2Freedom
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2009

    I know that it sounds like I'm just saying this

    out of pride, but I am a virgin by choice. I had a chance to, but I decided not to. I am proud of myself for that. But at the same time, I do want to find that someone. I'm almost 23 and I feel like I'm not where I'm supposed to be. Sometimes I wonder if I should just do it and...
    blackrockwolf blackrockwolf
    22-25, M
    Jan 24, 2016


    I am 22 years old and still a virgin. I am not ashamed of this fact, and it is not because i am waiting for marriage. I was attacked when i was 14, beaten up and raped and since then i have not had sex for a number of reasons. 1. I admit there is still a part of me that is...
    mexeb mexeb
    22-25, F
    Sep 22, 2009

    I'm not really comfortable talking about this,

    but here it goes..... Sex. I'm a 15 year old girl and still a virgin. My friends talking about having sex with their boyfriends or whoever they are sexually active with while I just sit there awkwardly. Some of my friends are still virgins, but it's just bothering me. My cousin...
    Ifellinahole Ifellinahole
    Aug 15, 2014
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