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I Am Still Figuring Out Who I Am

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    This is such a struggle. I'm rebuilding my life into the ideal dream for me. I got myself back to the area I love far from home, got into a MS program, found a way to pay for that without collecting debt, found a fantastic place with people who challenge me in a good way, and I'm...
    Tiredofmasks Tiredofmasks 26-30, F Nov 5, 2013

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    And I dont think I'll ever figure out who I really am. I'm always evolving. 
    reset reset 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2011

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