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I Am Still Getting Over Someone

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    NEVER easy! But getting on.

    From days of feeling void, crying and then after feeling stupid; to days of overcoming a day without him crossing my mind, overcoming a day without me checking my message app if he texted. I am almost there! Nearly there! But today, he texted again, such a ****. I panicked...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 May 18, 2014

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    How Do I Get Past A Great Girl That I've Done Wrong??

    A few days ago I went to another city to meet a girl (let's call her Mia). I met her about a month ago and had been texting her. She's very good looking, intelligent, sweet and as kind as anyone I've ever met (She's a 9). She's different. We went to some clubs and bars with a...
    TheKnowing TheKnowing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

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    Still But Fading....

    I realized last night as I was laying in bed that someone who I deeply loved was slowly fading away.  This is not something that I had hoped would happen, but yet it makes things easier too.  I still see some very good qualities this person had to offer and it's hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 19, 2008

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    Moving On

    Getting over you will probably be the hardest thing ive ever done im trying to deal with this heart break without hurting myself i want to feel better about myself and be confident does anyone have any tips for getting over someone? message or comment advice below (:
    crazybladebabe crazybladebabe 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2013

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    How Do You Know When To Let Go?

    I have never cared about anyone as much as I still care for my ex. I am a senior in highschool now and we began dating since the begining of freshman year and broke up last year. We've been talking on and off since but he has a girlfriend now, shes younger and is crazy about...
    danix4 danix4 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    Can We Be Friends?

    I met a guy who was younger than me but we hit it off really well .we chatted everyday for a few hours and would text at lunch times. We told each other things we'd never shared with anyone else and acted as support for each other. It was wonderful! I had finally found a friend...
    OvaOl OvaOl 41-45 2 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    Some One I Cant Forget .

    I talked to this guy for two hole 2 months on myspace  before going out with him and it just happend that months before i had started talking to him i hade finished a realtionship with a guy who hurt me but this guy who i started talking to after my exx made me feel...
    pixie23 pixie23 16-17 1 Response Feb 23, 2009

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    It's very hard to get over someone

    and I'm not sure if you ever really do! I think you are just able to cope better as time goes on! I'm still in love with my ex but I'm learning to cope without him! I know it's difficult but it's made me stronger and I realise I deserve better! He used me once we broke up...
    supersteph94 supersteph94 18-21, F May 18, 2014

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    It's been a year since we last talked.

    I've liked other girls after our falling out. But I still think about her, my first love. We never had any closure. I don't know exactly what happened. I expect to see her in her school's prom because I was invited by her batch mate. I don't think it's a good idea to talk to...
    BabolatGuy BabolatGuy 16-17, M Jan 12

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    I know right! In time!

    Just in time :) So, i am over from feeling so hurt and missing someone. It was never easy. Once you fall, you fall.. Just have to get back up again and pull yourself together and life goes on (a bit of having someone for him to occupy you- i'd say not too bad and is very...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 Jun 2, 2014

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    DF79 DF79 46-50 Apr 24

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    You are still in my heart MADS.
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