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I Am Still Getting Over Someone

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    Still But Fading....

    I realized last night as I was laying in bed that someone who I deeply loved was slowly fading away.  This is not something that I had hoped would happen, but yet it makes things easier too.  I still see some very good qualities this person had to offer and it's hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 19, 2008

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    How Do I Get Past A Great Girl That I've Done Wrong??

    A few days ago I went to another city to meet a girl (let's call her Mia). I met her about a month ago and had been texting her. She's very good looking, intelligent, sweet and as kind as anyone I've ever met (She's a 9). She's different. We went to some clubs and bars with a...
    TheKnowing TheKnowing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

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    It's very hard to get over someone

    and I'm not sure if you ever really do! I think you are just able to cope better as time goes on! I'm still in love with my ex but I'm learning to cope without him! I know it's difficult but it's made me stronger and I realise I deserve better! He used me once we broke up...
    supersteph94 supersteph94 18-21, F May 18

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    NEVER easy! But getting on.

    From days of feeling void, crying and then after feeling stupid; to days of overcoming a day without him crossing my mind, overcoming a day without me checking my message app if he texted. I am almost there! Nearly there! But today, he texted again, such a ****. I panicked...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 May 18

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    I know right! In time!

    Just in time :) So, i am over from feeling so hurt and missing someone. It was never easy. Once you fall, you fall.. Just have to get back up again and pull yourself together and life goes on (a bit of having someone for him to occupy you- i'd say not too bad and is very...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 Jun 2

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    Can We Be Friends?

    I met a guy who was younger than me but we hit it off really well .we chatted everyday for a few hours and would text at lunch times. We told each other things we'd never shared with anyone else and acted as support for each other. It was wonderful! I had finally found a friend...
    OvaOl OvaOl 41-45 2 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    Moving On

    Getting over you will probably be the hardest thing ive ever done im trying to deal with this heart break without hurting myself i want to feel better about myself and be confident does anyone have any tips for getting over someone? message or comment advice below (:
    crazybladebabe crazybladebabe 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2013

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    Some One I Cant Forget .

    I talked to this guy for two hole 2 months on myspace  before going out with him and it just happend that months before i had started talking to him i hade finished a realtionship with a guy who hurt me but this guy who i started talking to after my exx made me feel...
    pixie23 pixie23 16-17 1 Response Feb 23, 2009

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    How Do You Know When To Let Go?

    I have never cared about anyone as much as I still care for my ex. I am a senior in highschool now and we began dating since the begining of freshman year and broke up last year. We've been talking on and off since but he has a girlfriend now, shes younger and is crazy about...
    danix4 danix4 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Its been a year since a two month long relationship that was on and off over the course of months (very complicated) and I cannot get over him. every day and every thought and all...
    neverlandscars neverlandscars 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 7

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    Long story, somewhat short. I am a married man, who was involved in a very long term affair. 2 years ago, the affair ended after she became smitten with someone else. I let it...
    Justcuzitis Justcuzitis 46-50, M 4 Responses Nov 3

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    I am 2 days from being 23 years old and am married to a childhood best friend. We married one year ago, almost to the day. He has always been incredibly close to my family and...
    laurnes1 laurnes1 22-25, F Nov 19

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    November 16. It's your birthday today. I remember it every year. Wish I could tell it to you today. Wish I could've told you this the last 3 years also. But you abandoned me & I...
    DaddysGirl24 DaddysGirl24 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 15

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    I don't like him as much as I used to, for many reasons... recently I wrote like 4 huge paragraphs telling him my dream with him and he just replied with a "lol". It ****** me off...
    victoriaalvarez victoriaalvarez 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    I was doing ok. tried reading, time with friends, new hobbies, writing in a journal, dating, online dating, amongst every other thing you're supposed to do to get over it, take...
    Chiqarra Chiqarra 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    First night without a call or text from him:( getting used to this is going to be ****. i miss him but **** happens, cry over it with a beer this weekend and then put my big girl...
    GeeGeesWorld GeeGeesWorld 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I've told my best friend I'm in love with her and we have managed to get through it but she doesn't feel the same :( The problem I have now is that I have always spent so much time...
    steph96 steph96 18-21, F Nov 11

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    Well I'm right back to square one AGAIN!! I was in a position very much the same as I am now before and I seem to b on a merry-go-round of the same relationships that last years...
    Squeekarose Squeekarose 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I just can't get over my Ex. It's like, I know I can and I want to move on but then I don't want to move on. He says he can't move on but how do know if he's not lying to me and...
    LakiraC LakiraC 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    I thought I would be over him by now. We broke up in April 2013. Well that's when I moved. I have had many bf n It was better when I lived in another city then him but since I...
    cecegee1990 cecegee1990 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    Its been 9 months since my breakup. May sound short or may sound long to some of you. but to me, 9 months of no absolute communication is quite long. we dated for 1 and a half...
    ccdawgg ccdawgg 18-21, M a week ago

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    Dad. And lovers. And pals who left earth.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 15

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    To feel better more often. And not picked apart for my past.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 15

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    It's hard, I can't move on no matter how hard i try the feelings just won't go away.
    Diamondgirly Diamondgirly 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 15

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    I really do I've finally come to the conclusion that it's become unhealthy. Time to enjoy life again. There are some people who we meet but for some reason we aren't meant to...
    hazeleyedangel68 hazeleyedangel68 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    And here he starts talking to me again...... Or at least today...... With a huge smile and he tried to grab my arm I think when we were close..... The universe has been pulling us...
    DaddysGirl24 DaddysGirl24 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been hopelessly in love with a guy i know for 3 years now and just found out the other day he likes one of my good friends. I know I need to get over him but I just don't...
    tennisgirl369 tennisgirl369 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 29

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    I am still getting over my past, flash backs come back to me randomly.
    Brookedrumm Brookedrumm 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    So.. I'm having the hardest time getting over this and I need help.. advice.. anything. my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. we met online while I was away at...
    mparks7 mparks7 18-21, F Nov 17

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    me and my ex broke up 4 years ago, ive never once stopped thinking about her.... i thought i was getting over her but she came to see my sister recently because she finished with...
    brokenheartedplum brokenheartedplum 41-45, F Nov 18

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    I love someone that doesn't love me. It hurts so bad. I'm still not over him. I don't think I ever will be.
    Pereiranatalie Pereiranatalie 18-21, F Nov 17

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    I have a lot of problems in my life . I used to be bullied a lot in school , not just the students . By the teachers as well. I was very depressed and on top of that I don't have...
    longandstrong0420 longandstrong0420 18-21, M Oct 30

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    I miss her so much her smile the simple things life isn't the same I wish I would've spent more time with her I find myself still crying over the loss I remember holding her frail...
    neonpinkcupcakelover neonpinkcupcakelover 16-17, F Nov 20

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    We discover by far the most lucrative keywords and phrases for your company thinking of your finances and how fast you want to get the outcome. After a while We'll work for getting...
    Shelton22lv Shelton22lv 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I just hate myself. I really do. I did work really hard to improve myself. What I hate about myself lately is that I seemed to have lost my motivation for life. I just don't care...
    ChrisBoshi ChrisBoshi 22-25 Nov 12

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    What the hell is wrong with me? Why am I still crying for someone who obviously didn't want me? I have a hard time moving on and never deal well with these things. At the same...
    moonstruckdelight moonstruckdelight 41-45, F Nov 4

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    One whole year and a half today.. and I'm still not over you. </3
    phillipsalexa phillipsalexa 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 5

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    I know you said goodbye, but please read this. I am sorry I failed you. I would move mountains to take away the pain you feel. My heart broke when I hurt you; who I was died that...
    AladdinsCave AladdinsCave 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I am really hurting and crying a lot and I need someone to talk to, preferably female because I feel better crying to females. I hope your name is Samantha but if it isn't I'd...
    Cetacean Cetacean 36-40, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    this year has been full of hardship for me,yet its been life changing..I get lonely a lot but I try to think good positive thoughts. I work come home and hang with my dog who is an...
    Duke87 Duke87 26-30, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    There is a saying "A lesson learned, is a lesson earned ", but how many lessons must you go through to finally get the message? How many times can you be hurt before you realize...
    GrumpyNumnums GrumpyNumnums 18-21, F Nov 2

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    I need someone to talk to who is in a similar boat as myself. I'm 25, female, and still in college. I'm struggling to make any progress in my life and I've seemed to isolate...
    katastic katastic 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 7

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    It wasn't *that* bad really...nothing I haven't heard before and nothing that I don't acknowledge myself already. But...still kinda sucks. Tonight at work I was sitting at a desk...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets 22-25, F Oct 29

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    When I met my wife 35 years ago we were both heavy drinkers. I knew her ex-husband and used to drink with him sometimes but didn't like him because of the way he treated his (later...
    arthur1446 arthur1446 61-65, M Oct 30

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    When I met my wife 35 years ago we were both heavy drinkers. I knew her ex-husband and used to drink with him sometimes but didn't like him because of the way he treated his (later...
    arthur1446 arthur1446 61-65, M 3 Responses Oct 30

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    I really miss someone...it hurts so much when he didnt reply my message and I cant live a day without him texting me..Am I overeacted? Everyday I will light up cigar and waiting a...
    TheLonelyDude TheLonelyDude 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 6

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