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I Am Still Getting Over Someone

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 63 People

    It's very hard to get over someone

    and I'm not sure if you ever really do! I think you are just able to cope better as time goes on! I'm still in love with my ex but I'm learning to cope without him! I know it's difficult but it's made me stronger and I realise I deserve better! He used me once we broke up...
    supersteph94 supersteph94 18-21, F May 18

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    Still But Fading....

    I realized last night as I was laying in bed that someone who I deeply loved was slowly fading away.  This is not something that I had hoped would happen, but yet it makes things easier too.  I still see some very good qualities this person had to offer and it's hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 19, 2008

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    Some One I Cant Forget .

    I talked to this guy for two hole 2 months on myspace  before going out with him and it just happend that months before i had started talking to him i hade finished a realtionship with a guy who hurt me but this guy who i started talking to after my exx made me feel...
    pixie23 pixie23 16-17 1 Response Feb 23, 2009

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    NEVER easy! But getting on.

    From days of feeling void, crying and then after feeling stupid; to days of overcoming a day without him crossing my mind, overcoming a day without me checking my message app if he texted. I am almost there! Nearly there! But today, he texted again, such a ****. I panicked...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 May 18

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    I know right! In time!

    Just in time :) So, i am over from feeling so hurt and missing someone. It was never easy. Once you fall, you fall.. Just have to get back up again and pull yourself together and life goes on (a bit of having someone for him to occupy you- i'd say not too bad and is very...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 Jun 2

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    Can We Be Friends?

    I met a guy who was younger than me but we hit it off really well .we chatted everyday for a few hours and would text at lunch times. We told each other things we'd never shared with anyone else and acted as support for each other. It was wonderful! I had finally found a friend...
    OvaOl OvaOl 41-45 2 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    How Do You Know When To Let Go?

    I have never cared about anyone as much as I still care for my ex. I am a senior in highschool now and we began dating since the begining of freshman year and broke up last year. We've been talking on and off since but he has a girlfriend now, shes younger and is crazy about...
    danix4 danix4 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    Moving On

    Getting over you will probably be the hardest thing ive ever done im trying to deal with this heart break without hurting myself i want to feel better about myself and be confident does anyone have any tips for getting over someone? message or comment advice below (:
    crazybladebabe crazybladebabe 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2013

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    How Do I Get Past A Great Girl That I've Done Wrong??

    A few days ago I went to another city to meet a girl (let's call her Mia). I met her about a month ago and had been texting her. She's very good looking, intelligent, sweet and as kind as anyone I've ever met (She's a 9). She's different. We went to some clubs and bars with a...
    TheKnowing TheKnowing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

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    Sometimes I'm doing good, I'm feeling as though I'm getting over the pain of knowing it's over and finally moving on. Last night however, I had a dream that one of my friends asked...
    Lonely40s Lonely40s 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    Is it even possible to fully get over someone? Or will you always find yourself thinking back to the relationship, even if you don't mean to?
    modernmuse modernmuse 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    We went out a little over a year and broke up Friday, so you could say the cut is still fresh. He was my longest relationship and I honestly thought he was going to be the one...
    anitamigna anitamigna 18-21, F Sep 23

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    We're good friends again and have been continuing to build up an even better friendship. But when I think about the time that he hurt me the most, I just can't help but ache...
    boomkimchaloy boomkimchaloy 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    He came back to my life and we went to a double date, because his friends are also mine and fortunately hes back in town. Shortly, it needs almost apporximately 2 years to get over...
    iambacknow iambacknow 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I do but I feel like it will take time for me to actually get over him. Hopefully soon.
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    He was the love of my life but I guess I need to get over him I don't like sadness
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    September 6,2014 Saturday Please stop texting me, I'm not over you yet. :(
    justwannabeliked justwannabeliked 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    In a city of 2.5 million people, I am constantly surrounded by so many attractive men... Yet at the end of the day I'm still constantly haunted by thoughts of you and how you were...
    cleverusername9 cleverusername9 22-25, F Sep 6

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    I shouldn't be hurting, but it's creeping up on me. I need to beat the pain, ignore it, defeat it. It's hurting like a *****. I'm not trying to get into another depth like this...
    Latiaaaa Latiaaaa 16-17, F Sep 16

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    Getting over someone is hard
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F Sep 4

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    My ex gf... I really try not to let her get on my mind because I have a boyfriend now. I wouldn't want to make him feel jealous. He's already seen my past posts about her and i...
    cutiepieeeee cutiepieeeee 13-15, F Sep 17

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    Still In LOVE With Your EX ? Stop drowning your heart in more pain. Your heartless Ex is obviously happier without you now. You don’t need to try over calling and texting him...
    CuteButterflyGirl CuteButterflyGirl 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    I thought that I had gotten over him, but every so often I have dreams that remind me of how happy I was when I hung out with him and how I hoped that he loved me. The dreams...
    brokenhearted89 brokenhearted89 22-25, F Sep 4

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    I am really stunned that I can still care about someone so much, even after everything... I don't even know why. I doubt that you even spend a second even thinking about my...
    EchoesInTwistedMeadows EchoesInTwistedMeadows 22-25 Sep 16

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    If someone who you loved told you that they were going to something and you desperately told them over and over how much it would hurt you if they did it , and there choice was to...
    Hng1 Hng1 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    You know when people stop taking an interest in themselves -is this called giving in to the passing of time or simply getting over aesthetic obsession& relaxing into yourself? I...
    Blondie1978 Blondie1978 36-40, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was in love with someone who's living in CA. but im in china. long distance relationship is so fvcking hard to work out..sigh. we are intersecting lines so i finally let him go...
    Serema0728 Serema0728 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    He loves me; he has for years. I've rejected this love and yet he has remained by my side – my friend, my support. He’s seen my heart break with other guys; he’s held me...
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    I'm really ticked off. Okay so an adult I trusted I wrote about it in another experience (long story short I don't trust her anymore. She would literally ignore me and like cringed...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 10

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