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I Am Still Getting Over Someone

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    Still But Fading....

    I realized last night as I was laying in bed that someone who I deeply loved was slowly fading away.  This is not something that I had hoped would happen, but yet it makes things easier too.  I still see some very good qualities this person had to offer and it's hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 19, 2008

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    I know right! In time!

    Just in time :) So, i am over from feeling so hurt and missing someone. It was never easy. Once you fall, you fall.. Just have to get back up again and pull yourself together and life goes on (a bit of having someone for him to occupy you- i'd say not too bad and is very...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 Jun 2

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    It's very hard to get over someone

    and I'm not sure if you ever really do! I think you are just able to cope better as time goes on! I'm still in love with my ex but I'm learning to cope without him! I know it's difficult but it's made me stronger and I realise I deserve better! He used me once we broke up...
    supersteph94 supersteph94 18-21, F May 18

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    Some One I Cant Forget .

    I talked to this guy for two hole 2 months on myspace  before going out with him and it just happend that months before i had started talking to him i hade finished a realtionship with a guy who hurt me but this guy who i started talking to after my exx made me feel...
    pixie23 pixie23 16-17 1 Response Feb 23, 2009

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    Moving On

    Getting over you will probably be the hardest thing ive ever done im trying to deal with this heart break without hurting myself i want to feel better about myself and be confident does anyone have any tips for getting over someone? message or comment advice below (:
    crazybladebabe crazybladebabe 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2013

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    Can We Be Friends?

    I met a guy who was younger than me but we hit it off really well .we chatted everyday for a few hours and would text at lunch times. We told each other things we'd never shared with anyone else and acted as support for each other. It was wonderful! I had finally found a friend...
    OvaOl OvaOl 41-45 2 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    How Do I Get Past A Great Girl That I've Done Wrong??

    A few days ago I went to another city to meet a girl (let's call her Mia). I met her about a month ago and had been texting her. She's very good looking, intelligent, sweet and as kind as anyone I've ever met (She's a 9). She's different. We went to some clubs and bars with a...
    TheKnowing TheKnowing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

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    NEVER easy! But getting on.

    From days of feeling void, crying and then after feeling stupid; to days of overcoming a day without him crossing my mind, overcoming a day without me checking my message app if he texted. I am almost there! Nearly there! But today, he texted again, such a ****. I panicked...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 May 18

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    How Do You Know When To Let Go?

    I have never cared about anyone as much as I still care for my ex. I am a senior in highschool now and we began dating since the begining of freshman year and broke up last year. We've been talking on and off since but he has a girlfriend now, shes younger and is crazy about...
    danix4 danix4 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    I found out my husband had been having an affair and I left him. I had no desire to pursue anything with anyone else, because I knew I was vulnerable, & that I was still...
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    Was it wrong to have an affair, to most people yes! I knew what I was doing from get go it didn't just happen. I made a profile on Ashley Madison, met a few people nothing...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    My ex wasn't interested in my body during my pregnancy or after. I've been somewhat embarrassed by it but today I'll show it off stretch marks and all. I still have 10 more pounds...
    lovelylady20 lovelylady20 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    You would think that 8 years would be enough time; time heals everything right? Wrong. I have been running from the feeling of not being over my ex for going on 8 years and I...
    APSD0229 APSD0229 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    We all have good days and bad days. Unfortunately this is a bad day... I lost my best friend a year and a bit ago and it's been REALLY HARD. But you just got to push through it...
    TheMusician4231 TheMusician4231 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    Last May I got on Omegle at around 1 am to pass the time so I didn't fall asleep because I had to get up really early and I didn't think I would wake up in the morning if I went to...
    evaxxx evaxxx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    This is what I would like to ask God: Why can't I, just ONE damn time in my life, have the man I want? Not the nice guy that I date for awhile because he's the best of a bad lot...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    This is what I would like to ask God: Why can't I, just ONE damn time in my life, have the man I want? Not the nice guy that I date for awhile because he's the best of a bad lot...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Hi, I am new to this MPD so, I may not know much about it. I am currently dating a woman who has it and it has been a little rocky ever since we dated 4 months ago. Our love for...
    Junchew Junchew 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 30

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    I am having a really hard time getting over my boyfriend cheating on me. I moved to Seattle and fell in love with my only friend there. He separated from his wife because she...
    marieash marieash 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    I still can't let go or cope with the fact I lost someone who I pictured my life with. People can say it takes time but there's not one second I don't think about her. When I'm...
    CJR51 CJR51 18-21, M Jul 1

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    So I lived 5min away from this guy, we spoke everyday for a year.. Crazily enough we never met up, because I was too scared and have massive anxiety etc.. So we never met but I'm...
    dontkillmyvibe17 dontkillmyvibe17 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I have been friends with this girl for over 4 years now, and I've always had like a weird relationship with her. I have always had some sort of feelings for her and I could never...
    underquarantine underquarantine 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Dream 1 :6/28/14 Last night I dreamt I was in a strange time period itself.. It was ruled by a shark and illegal to plug in devices and write. This dream started off in a mall I...
    Mya6be6Strange Mya6be6Strange 13-15, F Jun 28

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    It has been a long, long time. Since the incident. You would know what I am talking about if you go back to my first post ever. I am finally able to not think about it every day...
    TAMBlitz TAMBlitz 13-15, M Jul 2

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    I keep having flashbacks of when I found my best friend unconscious with a ribbon tied around her neck. She was purple and not responding and I thought she was dead. I had to cut...
    icyelsa icyelsa 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    How do I get over someone I still love that I'll never be with again? Why can't I stop thinking about him and why has he stopped thinking about me?
    GabbyCot GabbyCot 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 10

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    Before telling you my story, I wanna ask you something... Is there someone who you just can't get over? Someone who's broken your heart and you just can't mend it? 3 years ago I...
    vinylvanilla vinylvanilla 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I've gained about 20 pounds or so and my belly is getting softer and rounder. I don't mind it though, and I don't really want to lose weight. I like my curves. It's just a little...
    Env06 Env06 22-25, F 9 Responses Jun 26

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    I'll always love her but I think I'm actually finally getting over her! Time heals all it--surely does.
    KristianNathan KristianNathan 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I always feel like no one gets me really until I joined EP, but I'm still looking for someone else to connect with on a close friend level or intimate level if it ever gets that...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F Jul 1

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    Talking to an ex boyfriend. He was my first lover, but he's not good for me at all. I know I shouldn't be talking to him, but I just can't see myself ever getting over him.
    Maq98 Maq98 16-17, F a week ago

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    He's moving and I just regret that he'll never get the chance to see the real me. If it was meant to be it would have happened but I hate that I'm pining over someone that 1...
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F Jul 7

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    It's been 5 years and I'm still not over him I'm still in love with him
    theflightlessbird theflightlessbird 26-30, F Jul 16

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    It's been a long time but I reckon because I never got any closure I am still not over him. We dated for 7 months but lived together too, he was my first love and although to some...
    TashaBbb TashaBbb 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I wanna walk to the edge of the earth, and scream, your name... I can still feel your breath all over me, feelin' me, I could f#ck with you for eternity, infinity. ;** I could be...
    LaPrincesaCx LaPrincesaCx 16-17, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    My MM has disrespected me one too many times. I have tried to be everything that he wanted but have lost myself. I've lost my spark, my enthusiasm for life and even sometimes my...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    even though he abused me , cheated on me and treated me poorly , I would still give him everything I had just to put a smile on his face . because I believe that when you truly...
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I love how I think when I'm high. It's like my subconscious mind takes over, and I'm thinking beyond normal thinking thoughts. It's a beautiful feeling. I see things more...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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    I could please use someone to talk to please. Difficult time over here
    amtired amtired 22-25 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Hello, I don't know why I'm addressing this as if I'm talking to someone but I think it's nice to think I'm talking to someone else. These posts are mostly for me to see my growth...
    MorbidRainbow MorbidRainbow 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Why. That's all I could say was why I ever got so close to a friend. Not that long ago, her and I got into a fight and now we're "acquaintances" like she said it. I was stupid and...
    annakaz annakaz 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I believe one person can definitely change your whole life. I wish I could go back and unmeet him. It all started at college, that's when I met him, we were put next to each other...
    PrincessMegz17 PrincessMegz17 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I know its a real taboo of online dating, what makes it worse is that it is long distant as we are both from different countries, I from the UK him from Romania (tom-not his real...
    kitakata1 kitakata1 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 17

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    Me and my boyfriend have known eachother for years. We have been dating for 2. A few months ago we signed a lease and moved to a new town. A week after moving in together we get...
    angrynhyrt angrynhyrt 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Suppose everyone has heard this typical topic and blah, blah, blah. That day she told me is so clear and I can still hear it and remember where I was. Long story short, I have had...
    jcomnimax jcomnimax 36-40 4 Responses Jun 29

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