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I Am Still Getting Over Someone

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 81 People

    NEVER easy! But getting on.

    From days of feeling void, crying and then after feeling stupid; to days of overcoming a day without him crossing my mind, overcoming a day without me checking my message app if he texted. I am almost there! Nearly there! But today, he texted again, such a ****. I panicked...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 May 18, 2014

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    How Do You Know When To Let Go?

    I have never cared about anyone as much as I still care for my ex. I am a senior in highschool now and we began dating since the begining of freshman year and broke up last year. We've been talking on and off since but he has a girlfriend now, shes younger and is crazy about...
    danix4 danix4 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    Moving On

    Getting over you will probably be the hardest thing ive ever done im trying to deal with this heart break without hurting myself i want to feel better about myself and be confident does anyone have any tips for getting over someone? message or comment advice below (:
    crazybladebabe crazybladebabe 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2013

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    Still But Fading....

    I realized last night as I was laying in bed that someone who I deeply loved was slowly fading away.  This is not something that I had hoped would happen, but yet it makes things easier too.  I still see some very good qualities this person had to offer and it's hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 19, 2008

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    Can We Be Friends?

    I met a guy who was younger than me but we hit it off really well .we chatted everyday for a few hours and would text at lunch times. We told each other things we'd never shared with anyone else and acted as support for each other. It was wonderful! I had finally found a friend...
    OvaOl OvaOl 41-45 1 Response Aug 22, 2009

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    Some One I Cant Forget .

    I talked to this guy for two hole 2 months on myspace  before going out with him and it just happend that months before i had started talking to him i hade finished a realtionship with a guy who hurt me but this guy who i started talking to after my exx made me feel...
    pixie23 pixie23 16-17 1 Response Feb 23, 2009

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    It's very hard to get over someone

    and I'm not sure if you ever really do! I think you are just able to cope better as time goes on! I'm still in love with my ex but I'm learning to cope without him! I know it's difficult but it's made me stronger and I realise I deserve better! He used me once we broke up...
    supersteph94 supersteph94 18-21, F May 18, 2014

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    How Do I Get Past A Great Girl That I've Done Wrong??

    A few days ago I went to another city to meet a girl (let's call her Mia). I met her about a month ago and had been texting her. She's very good looking, intelligent, sweet and as kind as anyone I've ever met (She's a 9). She's different. We went to some clubs and bars with a...
    TheKnowing TheKnowing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

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    I know right! In time!

    Just in time :) So, i am over from feeling so hurt and missing someone. It was never easy. Once you fall, you fall.. Just have to get back up again and pull yourself together and life goes on (a bit of having someone for him to occupy you- i'd say not too bad and is very...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 Jun 2, 2014

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    It's been a year since we last talked.

    I've liked other girls after our falling out. But I still think about her, my first love. We never had any closure. I don't know exactly what happened. I expect to see her in her school's prom because I was invited by her batch mate. I don't think it's a good idea to talk to...
    BabolatGuy BabolatGuy 16-17, M Jan 12

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    Holy validation. I've basically spent the last 4 years thinking I have a psychotic obsession. But other people feel this too so I'm not alone! Just know that I spent a few hours...
    lrh26540 lrh26540 18-21, F May 11

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    Well here's a wee update, soo my h and I got talking Lastnight and he was saying he wants to try and work at our marriage, his stumbling block is every time he looks at me or...
    lostcase75 lostcase75 36-40, F 5 Responses May 12

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    Well my husband & I are trying to work at our marriage, he has now came back to our bed although he sleeps with his back to me but let's me cuddle into him. I feel how ever that...
    lostcase75 lostcase75 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    so we have been done for 6 weeks. have talked to him everyday. things are more comfortable between us. still tell each other I love u. held my hand today have me a kiss good bye...
    libby59 libby59 46-50 3 Responses May 3

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    Just sitting down after a busy day, just thinking about how much work around the house ect I have done since the affair ended, I never noticed really just how much I let slip by...
    lostcase75 lostcase75 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    he broke up with almost 2 months ago. I needed it to be over a well. the bad thing is we've talked everyday. I see him at work. he calls or texts everyday. I know that not really...
    libby59 libby59 46-50 2 Responses May 2

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    Sadly I still care for my ex boyfriend. It upsets me whenever I hear things about him. I wish he could just go away
    uhtobehonest uhtobehonest 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I seem to have outgrown my workout clothes, guess I will continue to get chubbier. No exercise for me
    missimo missimo 26-30, F 1 Response May 11

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    I am picking myself back up after heartache. Nothing like accepting and reinvention.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 24

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    I couldn't sleep last night and I started thinking about a nasty break up with my high school sweet had. Problem, it was 40 years ago and every now and then it gets to me. Since I...
    cdLisas cdLisas 56-60, T Apr 28

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    I will say my ex must think I am desperate. I am anything but that. he thought telling me he never took our relationship seriously and the whole time had a POF account and...
    cuteteddy2000 cuteteddy2000 41-45, F 1 Response May 13

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    Gosh it's one of those days and it's only 10am! I'm trying hard to move on and work on my marriage, but today I'm lost in thoughts, im thinking about ex ap and how it feels so...
    lostcase75 lostcase75 36-40, F 3 Responses May 15

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    Sitting here listening to the radio when a song came on which made me think, why do ap have to say things like this is our song or send you cute little links to music? My ex mm...
    lostcase75 lostcase75 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have loved the same person for I don't even know how long. To be fair, she doesn't actually know, so I guess there will always be that big "what if" that is killing me. The issue...
    BowtiesRcool BowtiesRcool 22-25, M 2 Responses May 2

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    A while back I posted a story about the difficulty I was experiencing in getting over a ex boyfriend, who at the time I was very in love with. A few years later, it feels great to...
    roseofthedevilsgarden roseofthedevilsgarden 22-25, F Apr 29

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    what do you do with somebody you still like but doesn't realize that you've moved on and have feelings for other people like crazy and just want your friendship with them back even...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 3 Responses May 13

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    Off and on for 7 years with my "soul mate" and ended it over two years ago because he wouldn't grow up, but still not over it?? I find myself continuing to beat myself up over it...
    GayManInTexas GayManInTexas 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 28

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    I'm still not over it yet sadly, it's like what he'd said is stuck inside my mind. It's like all I hear is excuses and it's true you know when people don't want to be with you it's...
    Nual Nual 22-25, F 3 Responses May 14

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    I am NOT who i wanna BE . I wish I never exist. I don't want to be who I am. I just nee to forget life . I want to run away and be with my friends . I just want something good to...
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 1 Response May 5

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    I heard about his passing later on. I was listening to the radio---in 2010! I was starting to listen to music again, after recovering from a breakdown. Well, Leader of the Band...
    DF79 DF79 46-50 Apr 24

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    I remember when I gotten spanked with my cousin. I was 14 and staying over with my aunts and uncles house but my uncle was at work. We were told to get out of bed and get dress to...
    spankedteenager spankedteenager 18-21, M 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I am still alive and breathing and a great person. I am a survivor of many things, but today I accept i am powerless over my mental illness and only a power greater than myself can...
    LITVET LITVET 41-45, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I lost my dad in june of 2014... i came home from work and found him on the floor.. He had been sick for awhile and i was taking care of him. I still tend to reflect on the regret...
    thecprl726 thecprl726 22-25, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    It sucks having to move on from someone you opened up to so much and then having to start over like no.. It isn't that easy why can't you understand
    nicegirl2272 nicegirl2272 13-15, F 20 hrs ago

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    My name Douglas dashy from England, Oxford,UK ...HIV has been ongoing in my family for long..I lost both parents to HIV and it is so much pain have not been able to get over.As we...
    Kenned Kenned 18-21, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    You changed my whole mindset. You made me happy. You made me realize what it's like for someone to hold you back from other guys not bc you know you should but bc you made me not...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    http://pre11.deviantart.net/2e38/th/pre/i/2015/141/8/d/hilda_special_3_by_yer_keij_fer_cash-d8u9uu1.jpg but I would like it to be more up front like this, just being filled to the...
    GG1man GG1man 18-21, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Have you ever gone out clubbing, went into a bar or pub, been to a concert or just an outdoor park where a local band is playing and just listened, felt the music enter your soul...
    sensualbeauty1 sensualbeauty1 46-50, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    this guy that i have known for 7 years but havent been really talking to until the past two years said he loved me but has some issues of his own to sort out as do i. the thing is...
    BubzCutie BubzCutie 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    well on January 14 2015 I decided to take my lil brother (who I was very close to at this time) to eat with me at a local restaurant and the plan was to have a couple margaritas...
    hurtingandbetrayed hurtingandbetrayed 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I've loved this lady for years, but she simply doesn't feel the same. last summer we got drunk and knocked boots, but then we didn't talk for a year. now we're friends again...
    Zachary29 Zachary29 26-30, M 11 hrs ago

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    my dad had a car accident the day of my birthday, I miss him more as time passes by.. it's been 4 years and I still haven't learned how to live without him
    lucyael lucyael 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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