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I Am Still Getting Over Someone

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    How Do You Know When To Let Go?

    I have never cared about anyone as much as I still care for my ex. I am a senior in highschool now and we began dating since the begining of freshman year and broke up last year. We've been talking on and off since but he has a girlfriend now, shes younger and is crazy about...
    danix4 danix4 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    Some One I Cant Forget .

    I talked to this guy for two hole 2 months on myspace  before going out with him and it just happend that months before i had started talking to him i hade finished a realtionship with a guy who hurt me but this guy who i started talking to after my exx made me feel...
    pixie23 pixie23 16-17 1 Response Feb 23, 2009

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    It's been a year since we last talked.

    I've liked other girls after our falling out. But I still think about her, my first love. We never had any closure. I don't know exactly what happened. I expect to see her in her school's prom because I was invited by her batch mate. I don't think it's a good idea to talk to...
    BabolatGuy BabolatGuy 16-17, M Jan 12

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    I know right! In time!

    Just in time :) So, i am over from feeling so hurt and missing someone. It was never easy. Once you fall, you fall.. Just have to get back up again and pull yourself together and life goes on (a bit of having someone for him to occupy you- i'd say not too bad and is very...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 Jun 2, 2014

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    It's very hard to get over someone

    and I'm not sure if you ever really do! I think you are just able to cope better as time goes on! I'm still in love with my ex but I'm learning to cope without him! I know it's difficult but it's made me stronger and I realise I deserve better! He used me once we broke up...
    supersteph94 supersteph94 18-21, F May 18, 2014

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    Still But Fading....

    I realized last night as I was laying in bed that someone who I deeply loved was slowly fading away.  This is not something that I had hoped would happen, but yet it makes things easier too.  I still see some very good qualities this person had to offer and it's hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    NEVER easy! But getting on.

    From days of feeling void, crying and then after feeling stupid; to days of overcoming a day without him crossing my mind, overcoming a day without me checking my message app if he texted. I am almost there! Nearly there! But today, he texted again, such a ****. I panicked...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 May 18, 2014

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    Moving On

    Getting over you will probably be the hardest thing ive ever done im trying to deal with this heart break without hurting myself i want to feel better about myself and be confident does anyone have any tips for getting over someone? message or comment advice below (:
    crazybladebabe crazybladebabe 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2013

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    Can We Be Friends?

    I met a guy who was younger than me but we hit it off really well .we chatted everyday for a few hours and would text at lunch times. We told each other things we'd never shared with anyone else and acted as support for each other. It was wonderful! I had finally found a friend...
    OvaOl OvaOl 41-45 2 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    How Do I Get Past A Great Girl That I've Done Wrong??

    A few days ago I went to another city to meet a girl (let's call her Mia). I met her about a month ago and had been texting her. She's very good looking, intelligent, sweet and as kind as anyone I've ever met (She's a 9). She's different. We went to some clubs and bars with a...
    TheKnowing TheKnowing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Those of us getting over someone need to remember
    Shineonblueyes Shineonblueyes 46-50, F Feb 15

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    It just occurred to me that for the past week he hasn't been the first thing on my mind when I awake.... Him and I have been over for more than a month... Today I told someone...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I’m a college freshman, and I can easily say that these first few months of my new life have been unbearable. My boyfriend and I dated for a year, and he was my best friend...
    lalarose lalarose 18-21, F Feb 1

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    Copying a letter here that I wrote to my former AP...haven't sent it and may not, but there is healing in writing it out. I thought it might help others: Dear MM, I want you to...
    Kadl6671 Kadl6671 46-50, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    As I continue to heal. Memories of her pop up at random times. I haven't spoken to her in ten months. The pain has deceased drastically. I still have moments of vulnerability, but...
    elington elington 31-35, M 5 Responses Feb 11

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    I just can't get her out my head I don't want to love her anymore I haven't seen or spoken to her in nearly a year bur still she haunts me in my dreams and in my mind it only calms...
    loyalman1983 loyalman1983 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 7

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    I'm finding so hard to move on from my heartbreak it's been a year and I still feel so much for him I just dunno how to feel me again. I feel so broken and empty. I dunno will it...
    brooky123 brooky123 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I am still angry at him. I want an sincere apology. What he has done, will always affect me. Yet, he acts as if he doesn't give two *****. I want to **** him up, but I'm trying to...
    lovethybey lovethybey 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    The guy I've been seeing for a while now has been "busy" lately. Just the other day he said that he couldn't hang out bc he was with one of his friends. He's always with this guy...
    marieflorence109 marieflorence109 22-25, F a week ago

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    I met this guy, he was wonderful at first, kind, sweet and different. He used to give me this sweetest smile whenever we walked by or saw each other. He told me that I was...
    Kiwijee Kiwijee 18-21, F Jan 31

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    We where like great friends but when he found out I liked him then it all changed He doesn't even talk to me anymore We don't laugh as much as we used to Instead I just cry all...
    iammee13 iammee13 13-15, F Feb 6

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    And what better way than to sleep with someone else....I do like him, but I feel almost like I slept with him just to get over you...I think it's not necessarily a bad way to put...
    Smile123q Smile123q 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    In the mind of a typical corn flakes fed American male the best way to get over a woman who'se dumped him appears to be another woman. Some would call that rebound and some would...
    tastyfrzz tastyfrzz 46-50 Feb 17

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    I woke up today feeling strong. Going about my daily routine and then in a blink of an eye a memory, feeling and thoughts take over me. A memory of us, feelings for us and...
    Melnmoose Melnmoose 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I spent the past couple of days away on a trip. I needed to get away from everything that reminded me of us and go somewhere that there was no memory of us. I had a great time...
    Melnmoose Melnmoose 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    This morning hurts. I woke up missing him and started wondering about everything again which makes every minute more difficult. I would have days where I felt out of sorts and I...
    Melnmoose Melnmoose 36-40, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    its called wine, at lease six glasses, chocolate, whipped cream, and rough sex with strangers, what? Oo
    sevenforasecret sevenforasecret 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    I texted my AP today out of weakness and asked if he preferred no contact between us. He broke it off without any clarity, so I didn't know and wanted to be respectful so I asked...
    Melnmoose Melnmoose 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There's this girl. We dated a couple years back, twice actually, but it ended because I didn't know how to keep myself from flirting. I kept thinking to keep my options open or...
    Solidus99 Solidus99 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    It sucks when you want to move on, but if you do, you're pretty much moving on away from your happiness.
    justinbartolome justinbartolome 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    Reading some good moving on quotes on Pintrest I wanted to share and hope it helps you too. Feeling hopeful😊
    Shineonblueyes Shineonblueyes 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    More motivation for those of us trying to move on
    Shineonblueyes Shineonblueyes 46-50, F Feb 15

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    Every time when I pick up the phone and want to text/email you, I stop myself. I write here instead. I thought about you today during one of my meetings and the memory just made me...
    JandL2013 JandL2013 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Yesterday i spoke to my ex. Talking about our boys. She mentioned that the boys were eager to give Valentines day cards. Then she said we had some really great ones, didn't we...
    jaml jaml 41-45, M 4 Responses Feb 13

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    i was able to talk to my ex seminarian bf last Saturday for 5mins, 10 years after we broke up. he is a priest now, i wanted us to be friends but i didnt receive a reply from him...
    yoby225 yoby225 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    It was 15 months ago that we met on here and started talking. It was 14 months ago that I realized I was getting attached. It was 13 months ago in which I knew I was falling in...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F Feb 7

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    I recently shared an experience where I had become infatuated with one of my good friends. Long story short, we reconnected after several years and after discovering that we now...
    brendacouttes brendacouttes 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    24th December 2003, I was 5 years old at the time. I normally have a terrible memory but this I remember so well that it scares me. It was around 7pm and I was waiting for my...
    emmajane0912 emmajane0912 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    24th December 2003, I was 5 years old at the time. I normally have a terrible memory but this I remember so well that it scares me. It was around 7pm and I was waiting for my...
    emmajane0912 emmajane0912 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    So I was on Facebook and I have new friend suggestions pop up. One is evil friend A from my past. I've mentioned her in several stories. Why these are all popping up is beyond me...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Jan 29

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    I realized that I don't care anymore about falling in love. I don't care if he hurts me. I don't even care if he loves me. Do you know how much stress it is caring about things...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    So I hadn't slept in 2 nights. I had napped for a couple hours a day to make up for it. Yesterday I hadn't had a nap, at least not on purpose. I kept randomly falling asleep like I...
    shimmeringrose shimmeringrose 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    I have a very long list, but let's talk about my latest mistake. I was in a relationship with this guy for seven months. We texted daily and I would see him two to three times a...
    ShyGirlie78 ShyGirlie78 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 31

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    A lot of my posts that didn't break any rules are still getting deleted for no reason. There is a mole between my circle. I will now start clearing the primary possible ones. Also...
    iTetra iTetra 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    Seriously though, what's the point of love? Everyone suffer and die because of it. Lovers are quick to give up and lose hope. We get jealous, sick and tired of everything. Why can...
    Macyyyy Macyyyy 18-21, F Feb 11

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    Within a year I lost both my mother and grandmother. My mom died in June, my grandmother passed three days before my mother's death day had even hit a year. The pain is there but I...
    Airleasd Airleasd 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 17

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