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I Am Still Getting Over Someone

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    NEVER easy! But getting on.

    From days of feeling void, crying and then after feeling stupid; to days of overcoming a day without him crossing my mind, overcoming a day without me checking my message app if he texted. I am almost there! Nearly there! But today, he texted again, such a ****. I panicked...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 May 18

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    Still But Fading....

    I realized last night as I was laying in bed that someone who I deeply loved was slowly fading away.  This is not something that I had hoped would happen, but yet it makes things easier too.  I still see some very good qualities this person had to offer and it's hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 19, 2008

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    It's very hard to get over someone

    and I'm not sure if you ever really do! I think you are just able to cope better as time goes on! I'm still in love with my ex but I'm learning to cope without him! I know it's difficult but it's made me stronger and I realise I deserve better! He used me once we broke up...
    supersteph94 supersteph94 18-21, F May 18

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    How Do You Know When To Let Go?

    I have never cared about anyone as much as I still care for my ex. I am a senior in highschool now and we began dating since the begining of freshman year and broke up last year. We've been talking on and off since but he has a girlfriend now, shes younger and is crazy about...
    danix4 danix4 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    Can We Be Friends?

    I met a guy who was younger than me but we hit it off really well .we chatted everyday for a few hours and would text at lunch times. We told each other things we'd never shared with anyone else and acted as support for each other. It was wonderful! I had finally found a friend...
    OvaOl OvaOl 41-45 2 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    Moving On

    Getting over you will probably be the hardest thing ive ever done im trying to deal with this heart break without hurting myself i want to feel better about myself and be confident does anyone have any tips for getting over someone? message or comment advice below (:
    crazybladebabe crazybladebabe 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23, 2013

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    I know right! In time!

    Just in time :) So, i am over from feeling so hurt and missing someone. It was never easy. Once you fall, you fall.. Just have to get back up again and pull yourself together and life goes on (a bit of having someone for him to occupy you- i'd say not too bad and is very...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 Jun 2

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    Some One I Cant Forget .

    I talked to this guy for two hole 2 months on myspace  before going out with him and it just happend that months before i had started talking to him i hade finished a realtionship with a guy who hurt me but this guy who i started talking to after my exx made me feel...
    pixie23 pixie23 16-17 1 Response Feb 23, 2009

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    How Do I Get Past A Great Girl That I've Done Wrong??

    A few days ago I went to another city to meet a girl (let's call her Mia). I met her about a month ago and had been texting her. She's very good looking, intelligent, sweet and as kind as anyone I've ever met (She's a 9). She's different. We went to some clubs and bars with a...
    TheKnowing TheKnowing 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

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    We were girlfriend and boyfriend since Sophomore year of high school. I remember the day I saw her in my trig/pre-calc class, those green piercing eyes that stared back. When we...
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    So there's this boy. We've been best friends for 9 months. And last month he took my virginity. Now at the time we did it for fun and we knew where eachother stood, it was a...
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    We're good friends again and have been continuing to build up an even better friendship. But when I think about the time that he hurt me the most, I just can't help but ache...
    boomkimchaloy boomkimchaloy 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    September 6,2014 Saturday Please stop texting me, I'm not over you yet. :(
    justwannabeliked justwannabeliked 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    In a city of 2.5 million people, I am constantly surrounded by so many attractive men... Yet at the end of the day I'm still constantly haunted by thoughts of you and how you were...
    cleverusername9 cleverusername9 22-25, F Sep 6

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    Harsh reality. She doesn't feel the same way. And tells you, " I tried, but just don't like you". Um, thanks for trying I guess. Thanks for the effort? Coulda been a bit less blunt...
    topsearch92 topsearch92 22-25, M Aug 20

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    It might take me a while but eventually I do...so good riddance...
    easynuh easynuh 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Getting over someone is hard
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F Sep 4

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    They say that when you often talk about someone who breaks your heart, when you still cry over the break-up, when you wallow in self-pity, disgust & can't move on to another...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 26

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    I thought that I had gotten over him, but every so often I have dreams that remind me of how happy I was when I hung out with him and how I hoped that he loved me. The dreams...
    brokenhearted89 brokenhearted89 22-25, F Sep 4

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    Well unfortunately I love someone who does not care about my feelings at all. We were dating for two years and off and on he would ignore me. I admit I was not an angel, but it...
    vampiragirl vampiragirl 16-17, F Aug 20

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    Well actually it was pretty easy getting over him. His name is jack and he was my recent boyfriend until two months ago. He and his pals put a bet on who could get a snog(kiss...
    Smexyshannonxo Smexyshannonxo 13-15, F Aug 25

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    Just when i thought i was having a good day getting over my ex then bang all thoughts of her straight back in my mind when will this nightmare end
    philm79 philm79 31-35, M 5 Responses Aug 30

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    All these while I was trying to find the reasons why he can't be happy with me no matter how hard I tried and only after three years being with him and he somehow dropped the hints...
    whimsicalxx whimsicalxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    he hurt me and i still love him why?!? i cant stand this i cant stop crying everyday i try to use coping methods that work but im still sad over everything i dont kno how to make...
    kmg3 kmg3 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Still feel awful:( someone around my age please talk to me
    Allanah97 Allanah97 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    How to get over someone you love ? He doesn't care anymore he wasn't attached like I was and the pain is killing me !
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    My boyfriend & I been together for 7months. He's 21 turning 22 I'm 18. me and my boyfriend were attached to each other literally to the hips our world only revolved around each...
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    About a month ago a girl moved to town from Washington state. My first thought was that she was cute, but I didn't really think more than that. It wasn't until I started getting to...
    HopelessRomantic6 HopelessRomantic6 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Moving forward as friends state... So we moved forward as friends. It was good. It seemed that I really moved on and let go of my feelings for him. We continued talking but only...
    vdbree vdbree 18-21, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    And I keep blaming myself. Til now, I can't still move on/ get over on what happened . Cos the time he approach me. I was so paranoid, so I act differently & stupidly. Goooosh! Cos...
    hellsAngel025 hellsAngel025 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    I should be over you. But you keep running through my mind. I regret small little things when I lost you. But then again, not everyone you lost is a lose. I should keep in mind...
    hellsAngel025 hellsAngel025 16-17, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I didn't love getting muddy when this happened, but I've never stopped thinking about it over the years. So here goes.. I was teased a lot growing up, for being clumsy and kinda...
    Beccabux Beccabux 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    what to do to myself. I hate getting off alone. I like to do it with someone else and let them tell me what to do. or tell me what to watch exactly. msg me
    MaxSinner MaxSinner 31-35, M 11 hrs ago

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    My last was yesterday afternoon. Evie (my sis) and I were mucking around in the lounge room and being silly. Mum had told us to go outside if we were going to be noisy because dad...
    ally0014 ally0014 13-15, F 54 mins ago

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    I have known my boyfriend for years. We finally got together approximately two years ago. Before we realised how we felt about one another we spent loads of time together because...
    K504lois K504lois 31-35, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Yea, I missed you a lot, but I am too old for the games you're playing. I really love you a lot, but it is better this way. Your opinion of me is so low, and you think things that...
    CongratulationS CongratulationS 22-25, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I am a widow of three years. My husband was my best friend and soul mate. I thought things would get better as time went on, but it seems to only be getting worse. I feel like i'm...
    samey2179 samey2179 31-35, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Days like this I just want to pack up and go... Far away. Start over. And I want someone reliable to stand by me...
    Risktakingflirtation Risktakingflirtation 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    My mat leave ends in December. We can't afford for me to not go back to work. We also can't afford childcare for our two children, especially since our youngest will only be eight...
    jaisikae jaisikae 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Seriously thinking about ending it all. I'm in a really bad situation. Let me start off by saying that I have only two real friends, and have lost nearly my entire family in the...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I don't know what it is but I have this really odd feeling that I can't shake. I'm used to getting a feeling like when something is bad is gonna happen. But this time it's...
    PierceTheOvercastKid PierceTheOvercastKid 22-25, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Just for a moment, none of the people I met in ep are connected and when they are a feel like they're getting bored with me. I've always been bad at talking with people I think...
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    I wish someone would buy me some flowers I would love to get them.
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 32 mins ago

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    I know it's hard for many of you to even begin to believe some of the things I'm been tell you and I'm going to tell you more things that you'll find it hard to believe but I'm...
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