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I Am Still In Love With My Ex Girlfriend

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    How Do I Be Her 'friend' When I Still Love Her?!

    I keep having ups and downs with losing her.  It just kills me that she has a new gf.  I want to be happy for her and be there for her as a friend but how do I do that when every time she mentions her new gf it feels like a knife through the heart.  I love her so...
    chicardie chicardie 22-25, F 1 Response May 31, 2010

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    Is it wrong if i miss her

    so damn much ?? And i love her and think about her sometimes daily?? We broke up like 2 years ago! And i still love her so much , is there something wrong with me?
    xrex22 xrex22 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2013

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    My Ex, Should I Contact Her

    me and my ex iurl have been broken up, for a little over an year now. we have spoken on and off. I cant be her friend. Im here if she needs or wants me. I really want to be w/her, she left me. she told me I contacted her then she would make it legal, so that I couldnt contact her...
    blackpinket blackpinket 18-21 2 Responses Mar 16, 2012

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    Biggest Mistake Of My Life

    Almost a year back, about six months before we had broken up, my then girlfriend at the time confronted me about having feelings for someone else.  At the time, I didn't think this girl Emily was anything special.  We hung out a lot, we had fun, and we got a long great.  I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    I Still Love My Ex Girlfriend After A Year

    I went out with this girl for four years...We had are up and downs but we loved each other company and we were best of friends...We broke up over a year and half ago and we have always been in close contact..We still go for walks on the beach and go for...
    mantra1 mantra1 31-35 4 Responses May 14, 2010

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    After 59 days of officially being broken up,

    I stayed over at her place and held her for 10 minutes while she was asleep. I felt the closeness creep in, i know she still loves me too deep down inside
    DrkHrse DrkHrse 22-25 Apr 18

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    Almost two months passes

    and I can't get over her. When you lose the only person who makes you complete, you lose a part of yourself in the process. The irony is I would always dare my heart to take her back even if she caused me much pain.. If I could make her love me the way she do her, I would do...
    Becs22092013 Becs22092013 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    Gone

     I was having my first real relationship, and I fell in love.We were both in love actually, until we moved away together for school.Then it fell apart on her end, and she's gone.I've tried my hardest to move on, but it's still a struggle.
    burnthewitch burnthewitch 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 24, 2010

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    I'm Still Not Over Her

    Although I know I should had gotten over my ex a while ago, a part of me prevents me from moving on: my heart. Simply put, I still love her because she was my first love.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2011

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    Saying Goodbye

    I've been trying to get over or past my ex-girlfriend.  It has been most difficult.  We have tried to be friends, but I don't think that is gonna work.  I always feel like crying when it is time for her to go.  I hate that.  I don't...
    starprincess starprincess 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23, 2009

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    Sleepness Nights

    i can't sleep at night... i just cry. don't you remember: our promises? my touch? my kiss upon ur lips? was it real? was it a dream? thoughts swirl around my head. why him?! why him and not me?!! ಥ_ಥ i can't sleep at night... i just cry.
    Ta3Ta3 Ta3Ta3 18-21, F Sep 24, 2012

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    I'll always love her

    but I think I'm actually finally getting over her! Time heals all it--surely does.
    KristianNathan KristianNathan 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Broke Up. Gave Up Hope. Still In Love.

    I have been with her for 3 years. Right now, we are moving on to different phases of our lives. She is going to university to meet new people and study while I stay in National Service (conscription) for 2 years. Till now, I do not know why it ended. She refuse to be with me. I...
    rayz140 rayz140 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    In-bound

    I had a break-up few months back with my girlfriend. She was not happy with we, is what she said. I am on a cross-road where one part of my heart tells me to change yourself the way she wants you. While the other part says make a new girlfriend, and be happy. But at times it...
    vishrutranjan vishrutranjan 22-25, M Jan 7, 2012

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    I Will Always Love Her And Care About Her

    I am still in love with my ex-girlfriend......I believe that when you fall in love with someone, that its for ever! Cathleen and i were together only 5 1/2 months but we both fell in love then it turned out that she used me for money and broke the relationship off for no real...
    Smother69 Smother69 51-55, M Jan 22, 2012

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    Yup, Still Dealing With Her

    So I am still friends with my ex.  We started having benefits again.  But now I realize I am not in love with her.  I don't cry anymore when it's time to go.  I love her, but am not in love with her.  I now believe that I don't know...
    starprincess starprincess 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Can I Still Get Her Back?

    Hello everybody. So my question is in the title, but I'll give some backstory. I'm 22, she's 19. When I first met her she had been dating another guy for a couple months, and after a month or so of getting to know her she left him for me. I was ecstatic and we were great for each...
    NeedAdvic NeedAdvic 22-25, M 1 Response May 30, 2013

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    Only My Ex For One Reason

    She gave herlife for god and country in 1967............................................................................................
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Sep 22, 2011

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    Well Look Who Came Crawling Back...

    My ex broke up with me around 6 months ago. Well, I missed her like crazy, but in the last 2 months I really started to get over her. I can now say that I dont like her anymore. But... just recently she told me that she still has feelings for me, how she made a really big...
    xinthescene xinthescene 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2009

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    Horrible Situation

    In high school, I met the most beautiful woman in the world. She had blonde hair n hazel green eyes. Not to mention, she was a dancer n did incredible things in bed. She had the most contagious laugh n a beautiful smile. She was amazing. I asked her to both junior n senior prom...
    hacks4w hacks4w 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2013

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    My 3 Ex-girlfriends

    Growing up i had a few exes that i have been in love with and i still have some feelings to this very day. I had 3 exes that i had loved made love to or felt a special way about them. Their names in order Danielle (who i call Dani alot but she sorta love-hates it), Ayisa (who i...
    Latinokid95 Latinokid95 18-21, M Mar 28, 2012

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    The worst is when they are engaged.

    . ... And you're still in love with them years later.. It hurts and there's nothing you can do.. Not even prayer to ask ease the pain. Not even a wish.. It's the ultimate nightmare that is worse than any other your have experienced, because THIS one is real.. No getting out...
    musicvideographer musicvideographer 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    My Ex? I'm Not Ever Sure of That....

    I am in love with my ex, if thats what i am to call her... I'm not even sure if that sh is my ex, we never broke up.. 2 years and a baby, and not a single word was spoken to me... But do I love her?? I love her unconditional, without hesitation nor reservation! I wish there...
    unbalanced23 unbalanced23 36-40, M 12 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    I Want Her Back...

    Well, where do I begin?  I met this girl earlier this year in the month of February during a class in college, we spoke for a short moment after class and we seemed to have hit it off well...during the rest of the month we began talking more and by mid march we were dating...
    GmSlikk GmSlikk 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    I've only dated 4 girls in my life: 3 are exes

    and 1 I am currently dating. My high school sweetheart was also my first girlfriend. We broke up 4 years ago after dating for 3-4 years. You know the typical song and dance: She cheated then accused me of emotionally cheating and then cheated on me some more. I've been...
    snowywater snowywater 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2013

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    My Ex-Girlfriend and my First Love - I know it

    mind sound crazy but a year on and I'm still crazy in love with her. Part of me always knew that things would turn out the way they did but not as soon. with no prior experience I don't know if the way I feel is normal but I've never really spoke to anyone or told anyone until...
    aZuraaa aZuraaa 16-17, M Feb 8

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    AnnaKhit AnnaKhit 26-30, F Jul 1

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    A Month Ago We Broke Up.

    I love her still have feelings for her yet she wont even talk to me. I never lied to her and pissed her off by **** talking her when she dumped me. She wanted me back and I showed her the forum where I talked about it. Sure we were only together for two months but she is my first...
    johnnyjoe87 johnnyjoe87 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 30, 2009

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    sheonlysighs sheonlysighs 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    im Chris 22 years old my beloved girlfriend is Jen she is 23 years old. my girlfriend for 2 years asked me 1 month ago to cooldown our relationship just because she said she just...
    chrisheartjhen chrisheartjhen 22-25, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Okay first of all I don't consider cheating on her I'm not that type of person. If I was ever going to cheat I would break up first. This was just the closest category I could find...
    npodsiadlo npodsiadlo 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I still in love with my ex whom i broke up with because of distance 4 years ago we would never meet ... and she is now with a guy soon for 2 years but we still talk and saying...
    Dasha93 Dasha93 18-21 Jul 13

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    When I first met him I thought that he was really cute but I never thought I had a chance with him. Slowly he started talking to me because he was trying to set me up with his best...
    Roseloring Roseloring 22-25, F Jul 15

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    I am a social anxious, extremely shy guy... I met a girl on a mental illness forum (First girl I ever talked to)... She is 5 years older than me... we talked (through private...
    awkwardguy23 awkwardguy23 18-21, M Jul 12

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    hey guys I am going to send him this letter when he gets back in 28th of july …. Thanks for sparkydream <3 for helping me writing this letter .. love you gurll <333...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    It all started when i was 11 i went to Guatemala to visit my family, when i met this cute kid one year older then me, we hung out a lot since he lived next door to my grandmas...
    Siomara Siomara 18-21 Jul 7

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    I literally can never have her. She is a character in the novel I'm working on. Its safe to say that I'm still sane, because I created her character based on my dream girl, so its...
    BillyEmad BillyEmad 16-17, M Jul 9

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    It was an accident, really. Nobody plans to fall in love with their physics teacher. I met my second year physics teacher (we'll call him Mr. K) last year, before he taught me...
    MaiChan MaiChan 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Im still inlove with my ex girlfriend its been one year now since we broke up.. She have new lesbian lover...
    zeyek zeyek 36-40, F Jul 22

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    I love my girlfriend She is the most important person in my life,i can't live without her She always make me happy when i be sad,i like this Hope god make u my wife later:*
    salehaslih salehaslih 18-21, M Jul 5

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    I love my girlfriend , she's truly amazing 💕💕💕
    lmyrical lmyrical 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I love my girlfriend . ☺️🌸👭
    lmyrical lmyrical 18-21, F Jul 16

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    I am 24. I've been married to my husband for just over 2 years. We have no children. We met in college, dated for only 6 months before getting engaged, and were married almost 2...
    swimcoachpro swimcoachpro 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    Only 5 months into our relationship, I can honestly say that I have fallen in Love with my Soldier. I know that 3 months into the relationship I had already fallen for him, he knew...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I'm madly in love with my girlfriend/fiancé of 2 years!
    lesbianjen lesbianjen 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    So I met this girl a few weeks ago and everything I do I want to be with her. I've known about her for a while, but we didn't actually meet till a few weeks ago. She is bisexual...
    BallerNgo13 BallerNgo13 13-15, F Jul 2

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    That may be that. My wife discovered that I have stayed in touch with my girlfriend. She packed a bag and left. My children are both out of town. I dread Sunday, when I have...
    PC09 PC09 51-55 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I met this girl when I was 12..I was too young to understand what is love.she was 17..I remember clearly how beautiful her back was and the way she walks. I never seen anthing...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M 7 Responses Jul 4

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    I have fallen in love with my girlfriend/high school sweet heart I know with all my heart that I love her and that she is the one there is no doubt in my mind on this, and I am...
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M Jul 8

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    My Dearest Virginia, I realize that as I write this that the possibility of your ever reading it is virtually non-existent. Though I only knew you for a few short years when we...
    memdump memdump 70+, M Jul 11

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