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I Am Still In Love With My Ex-husband

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    I Still Hurt Everyday.

    I guess I'm writing this because I cannot tell anyone how I really feel. I was married to my highschool sweetheart for almost 8 years we have 2 beautiful children together. We were always together never apart. I thought we would have this picture perfect life. Be together until...
    buster143 buster143 36-40 1 Response Apr 21, 2012

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    My ex husband cheated on me

    and we divorced almost 5 years ago. He married her and I was crushed. I tried to have relationships and nothing felt right. I have had almost no contact with him ,we have no children, out of respect for them and, honestly, I didn't like feeling the way I did when I saw or...
    phoenix924 phoenix924 36-40 Apr 16

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    Help Me I Miss My Ex

    i married my ex husband when I was 19 he was 23... we were married for almost 7 yrs.. He wanted to be with his ex wife I still wanted to be with him... He has 2 kids with her and 1 miscarriage with me... We divored 3 yrs ago and I remarried and he is dating his ex wife.. I love...
    babygirlbb babygirlbb 26-30 3 Responses Dec 27, 2010

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    Still In Love, and Very Mad About It

    My husband left me on new years day.  It's now nearly 8 months later and I'm still in love with him.  He left out of nowhere after several suicide attempts and forced hospitalizations I thought I was getting over him.  I hardly cry about it at all any more...
    imemfdye imemfdye 18-21 2 Responses Jul 26, 2009

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    Love Is A Temple

    I met my husband in College.  After dating a few months, he went back to my country met my family and married me.  We were married in the chapel of the Catholic school I attended when I was growing up.  He was my first love, man, boy-friend. Returning to the...
    MissedPoint MissedPoint 46-50, F Oct 17, 2009

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    After 6 Yrs I Still Love My Ex

    When I was 20yrs old I had 2 children with my 1st partner, and he died in a car accident leaving me with a 1 and 2 yr old sons.When I was 34, I finally married a man I was so in love with. I wasn't looking for love, I just met him through a friend. He was going through his...
    wendieann wendieann 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Sad

    I cannot get over my exhusband.  We have been divorced for a year.  We were together for 12.   I didn't divorce him because I hated him or that I stopped loving him.  I divorced him because I couldn't stop the monster inside of him from taking...
    cillalynn cillalynn 31-35 Nov 26, 2008

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    Currently My Best Friend And I Wish He Were My Lover, My Everything.

    I still remember the very first time I saw him and we were teens 17/18 working at Wal-Mart. I told my friends and family that he was the one for me. It took 6 months to even get his attention but it was worth it. We had fun, we had pain, we had each other. He decided to join the...
    ChickenLatte9 ChickenLatte9 26-30 1 Response Jun 11, 2012

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    Finally Admitting That I'm An Enabler.

    Hello. I'm So and So. And Yes I've just realized that I'm an enabler. It all started a year ago when I met my former boyfriend in a town I recently relocated for Graduate School. I'm a young, ambitious, studious, and disciplined young woman with a promising future. Had many...
    GradStudentEnabler GradStudentEnabler 26-30, F Nov 30, 2013

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    I Would Like To Be Back With My Ex Husband

    My ex husband and I separated 8 months ago. The divorce was final April 18th.. Previous to the divorce we did not communicate at all.. Since the divorce is final we have been talking all day everyday for 7 days now. He was never nice to me and we were always arguing. Now we laugh...
    gladyluck gladyluck 26-30 1 Response Apr 26, 2011

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    High School Sweethearts

    We were married in 1968,  had 2 wonderful boys...Together since we were 15!!  My first Love....We grew apart in 1979 and he left me.  I had a wonderful 20 years of being single,  but always in contact with him.  Like the great  friends that we...
    Blueness047 Blueness047 61-65, F Jun 15, 2009

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    I Still Love Him After Everything

    I don't think there is enough time or words to say everything I need to say. I had been with my ex husband since I was 14 years old. We married when we were 20, had two children within the next four years. I thought we had the most amazing life. The only think I was not happy...
    nessa4522 nessa4522 31-35 Jun 12, 2009

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    I Still Love Him After Everything

    I don't think there is enough time or words to say everything I need to say. I had been with my ex husband since I was 14 years old. We married when we were 20, had two children within the next four years. I thought we had the most amazing life. The only think I was not happy...
    nessa4522 nessa4522 31-35 Jun 12, 2009

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    It Doesnt Make Sense

    I love my ex husband with all my heart, I still catch myself bursting into tears at anything that brings memories to mind. We met when I was 16 and had this weird connection early on. I always knew I would marry him. I did at 19. We were only together for three years before he...
    medusa2006 medusa2006 26-30, F Apr 21, 2013

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    Still In Love With My Ex-husband

    I divorced my husband about 3 weeks ago.  I did it out of anger more so then it was over.  I still love my now ex very much but dont know what to do about it??????   He act as if he hates me and has not really tried to contact me at all however I am dating someone else because...
    tammyrenaewitt tammyrenaewitt 41-45 1 Response Aug 16, 2011

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    I Never Stopped Loving Him.

    I met him in a Dollar General when I was 19. He was 18 years old, holding a mop. We were introduced by a mutual friend, and got to know one another later that evening during a small get together at her house. He was tall, quiet, somewhat shy.. He had the most striking eyes, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    Still In Love With My Ex

    He was 24 and i was 19 when we meet. We had a rocky marriage due to him going in and out of prison. I am so in love with him still. We were married for 10 years together for 11. We have 2 boys and i got so lonely and meet someone after waiting for him to come home. So i told...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 30, 2012

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    I Have Realized I Still Love My Ex-Husband

    I married my 1st husband in 1989, divorced him in 1992. Remarried in 1998 after many (3-5 guys asked me to marry them). I wasn't ready to remarry. I have tried to contact my ex-husband over the years, but was unable to locate him. He is an alcoholic. I thought it was best...
    Smokin14 Smokin14 41-45 May 2, 2013

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    Living a Lie

    He was my knight in shining armor. He came along when my life was a confusing mess. I had already been married twice before, and had walked away from both due to infidelity and drug addiction (theirs , not mine).  I was a single mother but he didnt care. He loved me, he...
    broken7 broken7 41-45 2 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    Ex Husband

    I don't know why I am sitting here writing my story....but I guess I just need to share and maybe need advice...here goes... I am 29, turing 30 in 2 months. I married my ex husband when I was 19. I loved him so much, he really was everything I ever wanted in a man. I have 2...
    xcharmonx xcharmonx 26-30 4 Responses Sep 29, 2011

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    Can'T Get Over Him

    So when I was 18 years old I did a spur of the moment "thing" and ran off to a chapel to get married to the man I thought I would spend the rest of my life with! Well this man had a record and he was about to do time for two and a half years. (I knew this before I married him...
    Jjsan89 Jjsan89 22-25, F Apr 26, 2013

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    Love Is Stronger Than Pride

    Well, we were together for 7 years and at the end I just wanted to leave and that's what I did.  I took my stuff and moved out of the house.  Now after a really bad rebound relationship I found myself almost 2 years later....falling in love again with my ex. We did not...
    laurajustin laurajustin 36-40 2 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    Even After 12 Years!

    My ex-husband recently separated from his wife and it brought back all these old feelings, even though I am also remarried. We have been talking on IM, but he already has a new girlfriend. I am so jealous I can't stand it. I feel guilty and I have been starting fights with my...
    princess2myboys princess2myboys 36-40 Jul 15, 2008

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    Yes, I'm still in love with my ex- husband.

    Let me clarify... My 1st ex- husband. He's with someone else but not married. I keep believing that he will come back to me but I guess I've got to get it thru my thick skull that that isn't gonna happen. We have the best sex ever, we both tell each other " I love u". When were...
    Stillunwritten71 Stillunwritten71 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    Reunited?

    25 years ago I married my husband. We were young and passionate but sadly he did not cope well with married life (long story) and left me within 2 years of us marrying. I was devastated and it took me a long time to get over it. I eventually met a man with whom I have been in a...
    mytruelove mytruelove 46-50 6 Responses Feb 20, 2009

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    Why Is This Happening?

    I will always love my ex. I chose to divorce...he drank a lot, so much is interferred in our marriage. He also would be emotionally abusive. He would never spend time with me, his boys, beer, and football always came before me. Why do I still love him? I think about him everyday...
    Linszw5v Linszw5v 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2009

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    Long Story Short

    I have a child with someone I could never love and my ex is re-married! My heart is broken if it was not for my son I would have ended it all!!!!!!!!
    Beenthere07 Beenthere07 36-40, F Jul 9, 2011

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    Never Stopped Loving Him

    We were high school sweethearts, together 16 years...two kids and we let the anger get the best of us. It turned into a who can hurt who more game. Now after being apart 3 years and divorce is finalized, we have formed a friendship that I enjoy aside from still feeling so...
    shell0718 shell0718 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    Not Over My Ex

    I got married when I was 20 to a guy i had been with for about 2 1/2 years, I joined the military and then we moved to another country. Everything was fine for a while then we started having really bad problems, which we are both to blame for. I filed for divorce and we've been...
    cuddlykillers cuddlykillers 22-25, F Jan 7, 2012

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    I Miss Him

    I hate going to bed alone. It's starting to get chilly at night here. I remember I could cuddle up to him at night, and his warm arms would find their way around me. I used to feel so warm and loved and safe. He did a ****** thing, he had an affair and divorced me out of the blue...
    Ericanicole3 Ericanicole3 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    The End?

    We will have been divorced a year this November. We were in a bad marriage for 5 years. I am so torn because we have a son together and his family loves me like their own. Recently he had gotten dumped by a girl he was dating and confided in me. I was weirded out he had never...
    starslinedinlace starslinedinlace 22-25, F Oct 6, 2012

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    Want My Soul Mate Back

    i was married for 27 years   after 15 years my husband got multiple sclerosis. we had two young sons and he totally shut us out of his life.  he went to work and provided for us was involved with the boys sports etc.  he was so very jealous and i wasn't doing...
    cannoli cannoli 46-50 3 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    Me And My Ex

    I know that my ex isn't good for me...he was abusive. But not always, and more often then not we had a great time together, I miss him. Is that bad?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 30, 2013

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    Not Really My Ex......

    You ever loved someone so much it hurts? When I was 21 I met my husband he was 28. It was so very passionate we worked together we loved every minute with each other and it was young and exciting.. Then one day his mother was shot and killed in front of us, I grabbed the gun and...
    enchanted2 enchanted2 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    I feel your pain ,I've loved my ex 4.

    5 years since my ex left..i can' t move on.i won't let anyone get close.even though my ex has moved on .in tired of crying
    nay2000 nay2000 46-50, F Feb 1

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    No Fairy Tale Ending

    Uh what relief to write this to tell somebody what's going on I'm in love with my ex husband I meet him when I was 17 he was 21 we married he went to jail to 3 yrs later I waited faithfully till the last year when I left him for another man not because I didn't love him but...
    poetry1981 poetry1981 26-30 Apr 11, 2012

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    So In Love

    My ex-husband and I met our senior year of high school and married soon after, when I was four months pregnant with our oldest daughter. We now have two daughters, but have not been together since I was a month pregnant with our youngest (that was 6.5 years ago). At that time I...
    albinotigerlover albinotigerlover 26-30 2 Responses Apr 15, 2008

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    Is It To Late ?

    I have been divorced for a year and a 1/2 and am still on love with my ex husband ... We have been together on and off since I was 12 !! We were married for 23 years and have two beautiful sons :) I went through a medical nightmare and had a hysterectomy when I was 31 , I never...
    Davmarks4 Davmarks4 41-45, F Sep 26, 2013

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    Still In Love With My Ex

    I fell in love with my ex the first time I saw him.  When we married I was the happiest person alive.  We were married for 10 years after dating 4 years.  He left me 24 years ago. Out of nowhere he told me he didn't love me anymore and it was over.  Nothing...
    m0000880 m0000880 46-50 1 Response Jan 1, 2010

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    I'm Still In Love With My Ex Husband..

    Me and my ex has been seaperated since march of this year we have two kids together was together for 8 years and a lot happend in those 8 years but idk what to do we both have a bf and gf we still agrue when we see each other and I think I'm still in love with him..idk if its...
    autlacmommy22 autlacmommy22 22-25, F Sep 11, 2013

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    I Can't Let Go

    I was 18, he was 19 and we were married 24 years. He was my best friend, my lover, and the father of my children. It's been almost 2 years since our divorce and I still love him. The divorce was his choice not mine. Shortly after our divorce he remarried. Yeah that tells me he...
    texgal13 texgal13 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 5, 2012

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    After 15 Years Together

       It can be a tough thing when you are with someone for so long, you grow together, nurture each other and go through all the ups and downs life brings your way. Sometimes it does become tiring when you feel the relationship is one sided and it seems that you are the...
    lostlove80 lostlove80 26-30 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    Deepy In Love With My Ex Husband...still

    I do not believe in divorce. I left my husband 18 months ago to move into an apartment just 10 mins away so that we could work on our marriage. I was a stay at home mom and he was controlling and I was scared to talk to him. Our marriage councelor also thought it was best to work...
    JK305 JK305 26-30, F Jan 22, 2013

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    Sad But True

    Im still in love with him even after our we got divorced. I see him everyday and get jealous when I see him with an other women. LOL. I don't know what to do and want him back but will he have me.
    puresweetness puresweetness 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2007

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    Happiest Days of My Life

    My ex and I met when I was 14 and he 17.  We married when I was 20 and he 23, and had a son that same year.  My husband went back to pursue his college degree and we worked hard towards our dreams.  Eleven years later, a second son was born, my ex graduated school...
    dloes dloes 46-50 1 Response Jul 14, 2009

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