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I Am Still In the Process of Moving On

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    It's been a month now

    and he's moved on. He has a gf now and as much as i thought it should bother me it really didn't. He wasn't for me and I accept it :)
    Anon2721 Anon2721 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    I've had a crush on a guy from work

    for awhile. We went on breaks together, but we weren't super close. Anyway, I suggested that we should chill outside of work. That night before we left work, he invited me to hang out with him. He drove to my house, I dropped my car off and we headed off. He had a girlfriend but...
    maemae928 maemae928 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    It's been a month tomorrow

    that my ex boyfriend and I broke up. We broke up due to distance and I really wasn't expecting it. It sucked and it definitely hurt a lot, but I've been able to pick up the pieces and try to move on. On Saturday a guy friend and I are going bowling, actually really excited for...
    TheSongPlaysWithin TheSongPlaysWithin 18-21, F Jan 8

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    My bf just recently broke up with me (sunday

    night) to be specific, and i posted here bfre that i was having a hard time moving on. But now day by day i manage to wake up with less crying and less depressed, i started eating as well:) coz of the people that has been supporting me. I would like to thank my friends from here...
    nickisteph nickisteph 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    We were so happy back then

    that I keep playing those memories in my mind but I know we're over so what should I do to forget how happy I was since the happiness it brought has turned to sadness and pain.
    gabrielle03 gabrielle03 22-25, F Jun 29

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    My boyfriend recently got killed in a drive by

    shooting and I just shattered like glass, I thought about suicide but I feel that there's another way to deal with this problem. I'm trying to move on please give me advices.
    Erasmurf90 Erasmurf90 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2014

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    I believe in Liz Kubler Ross's theory of 5

    stages of grief. I recently came out of a bad relationship and experienced all 5 stages... Mainly anger and frustration with myself. I'm a lot better and optimistic than I ever was I've learnt to accept the good,bad and ugly whatever may be. However i cannot stand people who...
    calamitykate calamitykate 26-30, F 1 Response May 10

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    I recently broke up with my boyfriend over a

    year because we both dragged the relationship on longer than it needed to go. Losing him was hard at first but now I believe I have found someone who actually cares about me.
    kristanicolexx kristanicolexx 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    how do you get over someone?

    how do you just stop talking to them and forget all about them? I wish i could stop thinking about him nut he's my first and last thought every day. he strings me along and keeps me close enough so I'm always begging for more. how did you move on? is there some secret I'm...
    ayeallycat ayeallycat 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    i can't let go of him

    because he is on my mind all the time. this new boy I'm talking to doesn't seem to add up to what i want and i just keep getting sad because i wish he was like the other guy that i can't move on from
    blksoulbeauty blksoulbeauty 16-17, F 1 Response May 3

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    Been in this process

    for awhile now.. I CAN'T move on. I can't get over the harsh reality of me no longer being able to do sports because of a random injury.. I miss sports so ******* much
    akaShaun akaShaun 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I see the people I used to

    once laugh with have and have fun with. Now they can't even bother to take the time to type "hello". Seeing them happy makes me jealous because I'm trying to keep the friendship and they don't even bother...
    ACompletelyMisunderstoodTeen ACompletelyMisunderstoodTeen 16-17, F May 10

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    How Do You Move On?

    I've dealt with a lot recently. I really want to move on, but I don't know how. I want to be able to put all of this behind me, but for some reason I can't. I know its going to take more than a few months to get over the assault and the abuse, but I want to be able to put it...
    Goldenpoet820 Goldenpoet820 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 3, 2010

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    I'd really appreciate it

    if someone could help me with this. As I mentioned in one of my previous stories, I like(d?) a girl. A lot. However, she (whom I will refer to as Nidalee) liked this other guy (Wallace from now on). Long story short, he made his move on Valentine's Day (same day I tried to make...
    Squirtles Squirtles 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I'm 23 years old and I've just come out a

    relationship with what I thought was the love of my entire life. It's been weeks since the split and she's moved on already, however, I'm more of a suicidal depressed emotional wreck. I felt betrayed, wondering how someone that told me that she loved me could move on so quickly...
    baizdaza baizdaza 22-25, M 5 Responses Nov 14, 2014

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    I know I should move on,

    he already has but I can't it is so hard and I keep pushing people away I'm scared to get close to anyone again because I don't want my heart shattered into a million pieces again.
    taid2000 taid2000 13-15, F Nov 24, 2014

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    Asereht Asereht 31-35, F Jul 8

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    Okay, so yesterday was the second day,

    && i say that it was quite lonely, but hey, i didn't bother to respond to his calls or messages even though i felt a li'l but sad. I can somehow say that it really helps bring on this site. Thanks guys for comforting me. I hope that you'll stay the same.
    theenjunior theenjunior 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    I found this saying which really helped me,

    I hope it helps you too, my fellow broken hearted ones We fight for the people Who treat us like **** We love the ones Who don't deserve it We cry for people Who don't think twice about us We try so hard for ones Who always let us down There's only so much You can do For...
    Psyche777 Psyche777 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    we were together for about a year

    when suddenly everything went to ****. Anyways, this is not what I want to talk about. The thing is, I have missed him terribly even if we ruined each other. I barely saw him the past years but then on Thursday night I had a really vivid dream of a shooting star and the only...
    Velvets Velvets 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I'm gonna really treat myself.

    I'm taking myself on a road trip, just me and me. I need to get some perspective in some things, start something new. It'll be good for me. I'll be driving 1400 miles to Portland, Oregon. Get some fresh air, time away from people, and maybe will I know what I wanna do.
    idontknow2658 idontknow2658 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 12

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    Its hard to let go of things that

    once meant so much to you but life goes on and you have to find the courage to move forward because you deserve better and you may be missing out on wonderful opportunities.
    foreveralone22 foreveralone22 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Its like I think about it every day

    and how sweet you were and those times we spent sitting in the streets late at night smoking and laughing and snuggled up under blankets, but then I think about the flip side - how much drugs you were on, how you were an ******* and started ignoring me though I did nothing wrong...
    obliviousatbest obliviousatbest 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2014

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    And it is hard as hell.

    Some days I feel like I am completely over it, that I have been released from the manipulative webbing of control that has been my reality for way too long. Then other days, I feel myself yearning for a morsel of kindness from this same narcissistic, abusive man who destroyed my...
    lostit77 lostit77 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    Cant seem to get out of this dump want to move

    on with my life but its hard when im doing the same thing everyday seeing the same people day and day doing the same thing its hard to change this where i live. ( very small island) Makes matters worse i used to be a nyc boy so this place is killing me argh not enough money to...
    justDlight justDlight 18-21, M Jul 8

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    I was in a relationship

    for 4 years. And then his mom ended up finally breaking us up like she had said she would. I told my self I didn't want to be bitter towards him, but I honestly can't help it. How do you love someone for so long and eventually break it off like it's nothing? Out of all the...
    Kkhudg Kkhudg 18-21 3 Responses May 18

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    We were together for two years.

    ..i loved him so much i gave him everything..i forgave everything he did but he never saw the good in us...like he was blind...we were having so much fun together and yesterday he told me he doesnt feel right anymore and thats it...that he loves me and blah blah but he cant..my...
    Christine92 Christine92 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    all those people who cant move on keep yourself

    so much busy in any sort of work so much so that u dont have time to thiink about that person and are to tired at night to wonder
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6

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    I saw him today, him

    and his friends look at me alot, I'm not sure that's a good thing. I miss him so much
    savannaholivia1 savannaholivia1 16-17, F 1 Response May 6

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    still. still crying over him. even after everything he did to me... maybe that's why it's so hard to move on. i was so wrong about him. he was my first love and he just broke my...
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