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I Am Still In the Process of Moving On

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 481 People

    I'm 23 years old and I've just come out a

    relationship with what I thought was the love of my entire life. It's been weeks since the split and she's moved on already, however, I'm more of a suicidal depressed emotional wreck. I felt betrayed, wondering how someone that told me that she loved me could move on so quickly...
    bedroomthief bedroomthief 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 14

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    I found this saying which really helped me,

    I hope it helps you too, my fellow broken hearted ones We fight for the people Who treat us like **** We love the ones Who don't deserve it We cry for people Who don't think twice about us We try so hard for ones Who always let us down There's only so much You can do For...
    Psyche777 Psyche777 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    How Do You Move On?

    I've dealt with a lot recently. I really want to move on, but I don't know how. I want to be able to put all of this behind me, but for some reason I can't. I know its going to take more than a few months to get over the assault and the abuse, but I want to be able to put it...
    Goldenpoet820 Goldenpoet820 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 3, 2010

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    My bf just recently broke up with me (sunday

    night) to be specific, and i posted here bfre that i was having a hard time moving on. But now day by day i manage to wake up with less crying and less depressed, i started eating as well:) coz of the people that has been supporting me. I would like to thank my friends from here...
    nickisteph nickisteph 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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    And it is hard as hell.

    Some days I feel like I am completely over it, that I have been released from the manipulative webbing of control that has been my reality for way too long. Then other days, I feel myself yearning for a morsel of kindness from this same narcissistic, abusive man who destroyed my...
    lostit77 lostit77 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 19

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    I know I should move on,

    he already has but I can't it is so hard and I keep pushing people away I'm scared to get close to anyone again because I don't want my heart shattered into a million pieces again.
    taid2000 taid2000 13-15, F Nov 24

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    My boyfriend recently got killed in a drive by

    shooting and I just shattered like glass, I thought about suicide but I feel that there's another way to deal with this problem. I'm trying to move on please give me advices.
    Erasmurf90 Erasmurf90 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Its like I think about it every day

    and how sweet you were and those times we spent sitting in the streets late at night smoking and laughing and snuggled up under blankets, but then I think about the flip side - how much drugs you were on, how you were an ******* and started ignoring me though I did nothing wrong...
    obliviousatbest obliviousatbest 18-21, F Dec 14

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    I hate that you still control the last thoughts

    I have before I sleep.. I hate that you took a piece of me in your bags when you left I hate that I can't hate you
    Livcoxox Livcoxox 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 14

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