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I Am Stricter Than My Parents Were

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    Strict parents raise sneaky children!

    !!! My mum was a teacher and was quite strict and negative thinking My dad on the other hand was extremely cool and would talk my mum around to anything even lie for me I'm a lot closer to my dad and I don't get on with my mum and she regrets this now But it's true what they...
    Turtleisland97 Turtleisland97 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 15, 2014

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    I wish my own parents had been stricter in

    teaching me Christian morals and behaviour and I hope to give my own children much more positive and clear guidance.
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    So, I'm not a parent yet,

    but I am a lot more disciplining with children than my parents were with me. I know what I did to exploit my parents so I can see it coming from younger kids. I just wish my parents had been stricter with me sometimes. Taught me some discipline, etc. Would have been nice.
    JacobStark JacobStark 18-21, M Oct 15, 2014

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    I Am A Strict Older Brother

    I just feel have to protect my little sis considered now there a lot of things danger her? She is 15 and I am afraid something bad happened to her, so I didn't allowed her to wear provocative outfit, no short if she want to go by public transport , and I do selective in her boy...
    Rhyinlander Rhyinlander 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 13, 2013

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    I started as a spanker at age 14 looking

    for new friends in michigan
    christlerscott christlerscott 56-60, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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