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I Am Stricter Than My Parents Were

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    christlerscott christlerscott 56-60, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    So, I'm not a parent yet,

    but I am a lot more disciplining with children than my parents were with me. I know what I did to exploit my parents so I can see it coming from younger kids. I just wish my parents had been stricter with me sometimes. Taught me some discipline, etc. Would have been nice.
    JohnVBlackburn JohnVBlackburn 18-21, M Oct 15, 2014

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    I Am A Strict Older Brother

    I just feel have to protect my little sis considered now there a lot of things danger her? She is 15 and I am afraid something bad happened to her, so I didn't allowed her to wear provocative outfit, no short if she want to go by public transport , and I do selective in her boy...
    Rhyinlander Rhyinlander 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 13, 2013

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    As a stepmother who married into a stricter

    family, I've tried very hard to provide consistency for my stepdaughter. She's 11 now. Other strict parents have suggested ways that I could tighten certain rules and behaviors, but I wonder if she might be too old to make things stricter than she's been used to. Does anyone...
    Annie1899 Annie1899 26-30, F 14 Responses Feb 1

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    I wish my own parents had been stricter in

    teaching me Christian morals and behaviour and I hope to give my own children much more positive and clear guidance. I believe it a parents duty to explain morality to children and to encourage them to behave properly, to be polite and from a Christian perspective to reject...
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I am a parent. I'm shocked at how most parents

    I know have no rules at the house or anyplace else. Their kids runaround and played 24/7 At my house playtime is earned, it's not just given to my daughter. She has homework, her chores, Reading time, etc. If she is good and she's earned it she gets to play. Rule are important...
    DoMyBest DoMyBest 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 3

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    Strict parents raise sneaky children!

    !!! My mum was a teacher and was quite strict and negative thinking My dad on the other hand was extremely cool and would talk my mum around to anything even lie for me I'm a lot closer to my dad and I don't get on with my mum and she regrets this now But it's true what they...
    Turtleisland97 Turtleisland97 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 15, 2014

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    Yumi679 Yumi679 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I'm Absolutely fed up with my parents. ever since i started living with my parents at the age of 6 i noticed they dint care for me,but what was a 6 year old can to do besides try...
    LilApple456 LilApple456 18-21, F Mar 9

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    I don't know how unique my case is, but I lost both of my parents very early in life. My mom died when I was 18, my grandma died the next year and my dad died when I was 22. My...
    xtrishax xtrishax 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am widowed and raising 3 kids by myself. i have to work shifts to make enough money to allow us a good life. to make this work everyone has to pull their weight and help in the...
    MotherofDevils MotherofDevils 36-40, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    Last year I was 18 and I kinda broke every piece of fine china that we own. I was running from one of my friends who I woke up by slapping him with whip cream and I smashed the...
    1Thatonedudeyouknow 1Thatonedudeyouknow 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    God gives us things that He knows we can get though! Me and my Marine have been together for 3 years. A lot has happened in that time but each time we get over it and become...
    MarineGirlfriendMary MarineGirlfriendMary 18-21, F Mar 6

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    Note: If you are asian then you will most likely be able to relate to this. I lobe my parents, but at the same time I hate them. My parents are very mentally abusive. For as...
    saeteurn saeteurn 22-25, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Yes, I am quite young... I am like 15.But I feel like I am quite mature for my age. But my parents think otherwise. I donĀ“t know what to say to that. Maybe they are right, but...
    LivingDeadGirl2000 LivingDeadGirl2000 13-15, F 1 Response 46 mins ago

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    My parents used corporal punishment often while raising me all the way up until I was 18 and joined the military. I am 24 now and I realize that the way I was raised is detrimental...
    lc225 lc225 22-25, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I'm a mum of two children, both are spanked when they misbehave. They hate it, but as I tell them on more occasions than I care to remember if they behaved I wouldn't have to...
    Sandramumx2 Sandramumx2 36-40, F 6 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    My mother divorced my father when I was about 4. I am 22 now. I kept asking her when I was little, why she split with Dad, and she kept saying because she hated him. I love him...
    Profweird Profweird 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    Is My Mother A Dog - Probably yes, because loud music as well as loud sounds in general freak her out and she doesn't like. I personally am beginning to suspect she's actually a...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M 16 hrs ago

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    My parents don't allow anything. Especially being myself. They think metal is bad for you and my music is too 'loud'. I asked if one day I can get a nose piercing( a tiny dot one...
    txmakii txmakii 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    I know there'll come a time again When everything will fit right in And I won't have to see your face In strangers on the street. But I would rather feel the sting Than never to...
    mindstruggle mindstruggle 22-25, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Don't you hate it when some stranger puts their two cents worth in when they see u spank a kid? My boyfriend's mom likes for me to go with her to run errands to help with the...
    sassygirl15 sassygirl15 13-15, F 10 Responses Mar 13

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    I am 22 and I was brainwashed into going to the local university which is okay ranked after being accepted into a much better school. My parents have brainwashed and controlled me...
    wfurlow2 wfurlow2 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    Growing up I had (and to some extinct still do) protective helicopter parents. I feel the only reason that justifies that behavior from them is that I was born a preemie. But I...
    beccaishere89 beccaishere89 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    weakened in the freezing mountains. what better to do than freeze my *** off while smiling because it is so pretty. then Mexican food for lunch. Ahhh my she wolf life.
    AliSandraONeill AliSandraONeill 16-17, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I love my parents very much, but their are aspects of them I just don't wanna become. My father was a drug addict, an alcoholic, cheater, and just very unstable in general. He...
    DevinaLockwood DevinaLockwood 16-17, F 8 hrs ago

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    Damn straight. That's why vibrators were invented. Men seem to think that they are soooo good in bed. That all they gotta do is thrust. No, no, no! Foreplay is the answer to the...
    MidnightMasquerade MidnightMasquerade 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    My parents are very unaware and dismissive,I will never be like that towards my children, when I have children that is.
    virahnapirahna virahnapirahna 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I grew up in a very strict household. Not allowed to go to a friend's house, the park or the mall. Was dropped off and picked up by my dad in high school AND college. Was not...
    CGA1982 CGA1982 31-35, F Mar 3

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    My name is Sam and i have 2 brothers and a little sister. one of my brothers is younger than me. He is very good at sports and school. He skateboards and has lots of other talents...
    spinnow spinnow 16-17, M Mar 18

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    Hey everyone. It's been a while. I was hoping I wouldn't need to be on here again, but here I am. Well, as you can see from the title, I told my parents today that I found out I...
    drumbumak drumbumak 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    I feel that deep down my parents don't care about me as much as they do my brother. All they care about is me getting straight A's in everything, which isn't easy for me, they...
    Red2266 Red2266 18-21, M Mar 19

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    I look younger than I am and I absolutely love it. For me, it's like an endless line of compliments. I love getting free stuffs because people thought I was a kid and usually...
    FluffyDramaLlama FluffyDramaLlama 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    A large majority of my friends only live with one of their parents now as their parents got divorced. Its so common nowadays know body is even shocked when someone says that their...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I'm going to be 15 next week. It was my best friends birthday and they were going to eat out at an fast food place literally two roads away. I said I wasn't coming because my...
    lifeismeh lifeismeh 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I want to be a werewolf so bad cus I think it would be cool and I could curse people
    WolfGirl1616 WolfGirl1616 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    This is only for real parents and perhaps some school teachers. In my opinion a spanking should be immediate and should create a sting on the bottom that makes the person spanked...
    opaquelady opaquelady 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    I hate my parents so much. My dad mentally and physically abused my sister and I growing up. He would yell and scream at me if I didn't do something fast enough. Sometimes he would...
    EvilAngels EvilAngels 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 12

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    You know, I used to believe in my parents, to be able to rely on them like they were some deities. But not anymore. I get that this family has money problems and it's stressful...
    birdGutsy birdGutsy 16-17 Mar 14

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    So, I met a guy who is nine years older than me and over the last month we've seen each other, I have realized that I absolutely love him. He's funny and sweet and makes me feel so...
    starsapollo starsapollo 16-17, F Mar 16

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    I am the result of my dad getting fired from his job nearly 22 years ago... Thank you, mom and dad, for keeping me and providing me with an environment that was stable. Thank you...
    darnaby darnaby 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I'm new to the site but I like many was given spankings growing up. I also am sure we all thought they were so terrible back then and would never spank our children. I am saying...
    jake5643 jake5643 56-60, M 2 Responses a week ago

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