I Am Struggling To Make A Decision To Divorce

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    my husband is on the computer from the time hr

    comes home until 3-4am and on weekends from the time he gets up.he won't discuss finances with me won't make decisions to talk to him he gives u attitude. I just don't NP what to do anymore
    tinytinytoes53 tinytinytoes53
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jun 7, 2015
    cashetty69 cashetty69
    51-55, M
    1 Response Aug 30, 2015

    As a parent, I can empathize with how difficult

    raising children can be. There are challenges, especially within the framework of divorce, when parental guilt can sometimes blur what should be the best decision. LZ Granderson
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 6, 2015

    Promises mean everything,

    but after there're broken, sorry means nothing.
    gregloa gregloa
    51-55, M
    Apr 20

    I know marriage is difficult,

    has its ups and downs and isn’t always rainbows and butterflies. But when the person you married on multiple occasions hides things from you and is sneaky, isn't this a good enough reason not to feel the need to work on the marriage anymore? Why would I want to live with...
    happiness18 happiness18
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jan 22, 2014

    I'm 38, disabled wife is 48,

    I'm emotionally divorced, lonely, poor, but have 3 kids so it's my duty to stay, but unhappily? IDK what to do!
    jgoffe10 jgoffe10
    36-40, M
    Jan 8, 2015

    I'm am so unhappy in my relationship,

    8 years now.I dream about a back door.. We had a son 1 year old and makes it difficult. I don't have much cash cause he controls it all .. What I do have he just uses me to get ahead . He has a high paying job . I have to seriously save up and make a break for my sanity . I can...
    Appleluva Appleluva
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Feb 19, 2014

    he is looking for an apartment.

    i want to help him find one. the idea of living without him makes me feel so relaxed, like I've just had a nice bath or a lovely cup of tea. the thought of having to rehash his cyclical moods, his explosive anger, his justifications for his erratic behavior makes me tense...
    tryingtobeamazing tryingtobeamazing
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jun 17, 2015

    Struggling To Divorce!

    Is there a person outta there with a story like mine? Got married at 22 for wrong reasons, am in a loveless marriage especially the fact that we are too different people with different tastes and likes.  He loves me but in a controlling way, tells me what time to be at home...
    lindiweb lindiweb
    36-40
    5 Responses Sep 27, 2010
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 25, 2015

    I am from India. India

    as you all might know is a country rich in culture and tradition. Arranged marriages happens to be a very integral part of this culture. I am 27 years old and got married in January this year. Like many other marriages mine is also an arranged one. I was working in Mumbai until...
    femaleskeleton femaleskeleton
    26-30
    4 Responses Feb 4, 2015
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