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I Am Submissive Seeking Help And Tips

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 248 People

    Better And Better

    It has been nearly a month since I 'confessed' to my husband that I want him to dominate me. My confidence is growing every day; my husband is showing so much interest in this for me. It is getting easier for (me) us to talk openly about all of this, and he is making (and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    New And Confused

    me and my boyfriend and trying the d/s relationship but we are uncertain how to proceed i wanted to be dominated and punished he is a bit shy we need help
    subsecret subsecret 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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    The Void

    i have a void inside me that i think could be filled thru submissivness .by serving a mistress and living to please her.Makeing Her happiness my own.Finding my pleasure in her pleasure.
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Aug 8, 2012

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    Read, Learn, Soul Search

    If you are new and looking for direction I would suggest reading everything you can get your hands on. Knowledge will help you decide, after some soul searching, what will make you happy. That being said please take everything you read with a grain of salt. Just because the...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F Oct 30, 2012

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    It All Makes Sense To Me Now

    Now that i know i almost feel stupid that it wasnt more obvious to me before. I always wondered why I left every single solitary sexual experience I had feeling unfulfilled and unhappy. During them I would sometimes grow bored, thinking of what I could do to get them to "come...
    ilovebadboys ilovebadboys 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2012

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    Being His Pet

    I found my soul mate...after being in a very abusive and sexless marriage for 16 years, I met the man of my dreams. Also has become my Master. We dated for a while before he ever brought this up, the dom/sub subject, but i noticed when we would make love he loved to grab a hold...
    hispet2012 hispet2012 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 1)

    By way of introduction, I am a strong independent professional. I was raised by my bitter divorced mother to believe that a woman never "needs" a man for anything, that I should be equal to any man and that I can do everything as well, if not better, than any man. Looking back...
    star4425 star4425 46-50, F May 9, 2013

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    Wow..

    First story I read, I go to see how things went with her, and she has not been on line since she published her first D/s meeting with a literal stranger... Excuse me.. but that is ******* scary.. Okay, I've always wanted the things I've read about in books, going back as far as...
    moonstormz moonstormz 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    New To D/s

    I am in a long term committed relationship that is also long distance for over 11 years now. We have known each other almost our entire lives and came to the realization a few months ago that we have been moving to a D/s lifestyle for a while now both sexually and out of the...
    jnrds jnrds 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    For The Sake Of Pleasing

    I have had submissive fantasies for, well, as long as I've had fantasies. I have never really fulfilled any of them; I just don't know how to start (or finish) that conversation. My husband and I have a very good relationship in that we talk pretty openly about most everything...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    Splitting From Your Dom......

    Does it ever get less painful? I feel like it would be easier if there was hate or the feelings had gone.....there would be some closure.....but it's hard to not wonder "what if?" I guess i just need to forget the way he made me feel.....like I was the most precious thing in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 27, 2013

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    Being Vulnerable Could Be Liberating

    There are some things that I have fantasize about for a while now. They are ways of leaving me vulnerable to someone. I want to be able to experience being strapped up into a straitjacket. It could be canvas or leather or something else, but I think I would feel good being in...
    sapphireguy sapphireguy 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    So Lost...

    The truth is, I feel really alone and lost. I know tat im a sub in msot cases, and I want to please everyone because I don't have that one person to devote myself to. But unfortunately a lot of the relationships I get into or even just my friends need a dom. And to please them I...
    SocialyAkward SocialyAkward 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Hello Everybody!

    I have finally found out what has been missing from my life. I am a little sub girl through and through. I have been looking for my Daddy, but I haven't had the best of luck. I would love to talk to Doms and subs on here. I am new to the lifestyle and need lots of help learning...
    littleampgirl littleampgirl 22-25, F 11 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    My Wife

    My wife really wants me to dominate her in the bedroom, I've never really dominated anyone before so I don't know where to start, and my wife doesn't open up to me and tell me what she really wants. She is my world and means everything to me and I'll do anything to please her...
    ILoveSDC ILoveSDC 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    D/S Online Training

    Greetings, My name here is RuffRider but you'll be calling me Master Q. I have been a top in the life for over 12 years, but that does not mean I know everything there is. We as humans are always learning new thing and the same goes for me. I currently have 2 online training...
    RuffRider RuffRider 31-35, M Jun 29, 2013

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    This Is All Newish To Me

    I have known for a while now that I am submissive. I've accepted that and love it. I was never able to find a master. None of them ever worked out. Now I am here I have a great master. He is the man I want to submit to. To obey, worship, and please everyday. I have realized with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 7, 2013

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    I Need To Find A Dominant Man

    I really need to find a dom man. i also want to be able to please him when i do. if he wants me to dress a certain way i will. if he wants me to look him in the eye while i pleasure him i will do it. i just want to know how to please him.
    sweetsubgirl sweetsubgirl 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    How Do I Ask Him If He Can Be Dominant?

      Just joined after reading lots of great and informative ideas and perspectives on D/s and TiH relationships, some combination of which would best describe me. Perhaps someone out there has on opinion on this: I have had one experience with a wonderful Master who taught...
    jewel67 jewel67 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    Dom Male

    I am a Dom male seeking a submissive female.
    Coldwarrior Coldwarrior 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 2)

    I wrote before in Pt. 1 about how I first learned that surrendering to my SO was the beginning of a beautiful relationship, more fulfilling than I can possibly imagine. I soon wanted to please him so much. When I made him happy, I was happy. I started to feel a level of...
    star4425 star4425 46-50, F May 15, 2013

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    I Am His...

    I married unwisely at a young age. Twenty-two seemed so grownup once upon a time. Nearly sixteen years later, I wondered why I hadn't left sooner. All throughout that hellish time, I was told that I'm stupid, ugly, inconsequential, a miserable waste of oxygen and space. I...
    Shaysdream Shaysdream 36-40, F Oct 28, 2012

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    First Experience Tomorrow

    Tomorrow evening I will have my first D/S experience. Recently divorced, I always knew I was missing something. Like many women, after readying Fifty Shades of Grey, I knew exactly what I was missing and what I desired. I met a very handsome gentleman online and have dated once...
    drengle51 drengle51 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2012

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    We talked about rules today.

    We pulled out my book and I told him I think I need more. I need him to be more strict. He agreed. He said I should ask him before I want to anything. I said even if I have to use the bathroom? He said yes, the said no not when the kids are home. Trying to figure out how to some...
    silencedshy silencedshy 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    Lately, I've been craving being a submissive. I miss having that connection. I miss being able to trust someone completely. I thought it was just a phase, but the more I think...
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    I recently wrote to My angel, because she has a bad habit of making her friends her priority when she has spare time, and I told her to answer the following question with a true or...
    Masterseeksgirl Masterseeksgirl 51-55, M 8 hrs ago

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    I am looking for a submissive woman who would like an online dom....
    Chevy3505 Chevy3505 22-25, M 7 hrs ago

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    If you want to start juicing on a regular basis, it can help to have some basic tips to work with. Following these juicing techniques will get you off to the right start. Apply...
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    The only experience I'd ever had in the D/s lifestyle was with my most recent ex boyfriend, just before we broke up. I saw his computer filled with videos and bdsm stories and the...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets 18-21, F 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Bradley Witham was born in White Plains, New York. His mother and father were artists, who have inspired Witham a lot. Since, childhood, he had a very curious nature. He always...
    moore284 moore284 26-30, M Jun 26

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    Help me please! I'm a very shy girl who would like tips for flirting.
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Hello Readers, I have been on a Journey, one that requires me to walk with someone for a little while for some guidance. I am non- religious and believe in the Universe, its...
    Indigolady Indigolady 26-30 Jul 14

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    I think alot. Some say too much, and they tell me to be careful not to read too much. I tell them, dont worry, i know, I will stay critical. I dont know if they are scared of...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    We do not know how long we are going to live, life is fragile and special - but so many people live without any idea of what life is about, or whether or not there is any real...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 6 days ago

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    Hi all, I hate to feed everyone a sob story, and I really hate to beg, but I am currently experiencing financial crisis. I'm a student, who made some stupid mistakes, beyond...
    james17e james17e 18-21, M Jun 26

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    I am new to a submissive/dominate dynamic looking to talk with other subs about their experiences. Are there any submissive women (preferably) willing to talk?
    Messica83 Messica83 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    Just a quick question but how many male submissives are on here? U don't have to comment, please heart my response if poss please. I won't judge as I'm a female submissive and NO I...
    butterflywings00001 butterflywings00001 31-35, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Immediately after earning a dental assistant diploma and coming into the Doing the job world, it’s important to constantly be trying to find means to boost individual treatment...
    Mica4014qgx7 Mica4014qgx7 31-35, M 13 hrs ago

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    Adopt at least three of these behaviors — they're simple to integrate into your day-to-day routine, and all are enthusiastically backed by nutritionists — and you'll be thinner...
    yourtutorialgoddess yourtutorialgoddess 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Hi! I'm karly and I'm 17 I made this ep account to help other girls battling things. Rather it's periods,puberty,boys,boobs,prom or makeup problems, I have tons of advice tips and...
    allthingsgirlz allthingsgirlz 16-17, F Jul 15

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    I need help. Things are so hectic now and I need to make a big decision in my life...here is the story: I was suppose to go out of town a couple of dad for my work and needless to...
    daisykhorv daisykhorv 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I need help, I was asked by my Daddy what the purpose of D/s was. I tried to answer him but my brain completely shut down on me and google is no help? Can I please get a couple Dom...
    Daddysdirtyslave Daddysdirtyslave 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    A message to other submissives only please! When your denied pleasure in a long distance relationship, how do you deal with the feeling? (I'm only in training) never been denied...
    butterflywings00001 butterflywings00001 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Seeking homeworkers for solid healthcare company. No cold calling/telemarketing involved. Must be a team player, self-motivated and able to work at least 10-20 hours a week...
    Jmcelhaney Jmcelhaney 26-30, M Jun 28

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    I'm not a submissive or a dom. But I think the D/s lifestyle is interesting. I like how both the dom and sub can have such a trusting relationship.
    chrissyboo123 chrissyboo123 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I am NOT a mistress! I am submissive. So please, no one ask me again if they can "be my slave" or if I want to control them. It is not me, I'm sorry. Just don't ask. Heh
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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