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I Am Submissive Seeking Help And Tips

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    Wow..

    First story I read, I go to see how things went with her, and she has not been on line since she published her first D/s meeting with a literal stranger... Excuse me.. but that is ******* scary.. Okay, I've always wanted the things I've read about in books, going back as far as...
    moonstormz moonstormz 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Being Vulnerable Could Be Liberating

    There are some things that I have fantasize about for a while now. They are ways of leaving me vulnerable to someone. I want to be able to experience being strapped up into a straitjacket. It could be canvas or leather or something else, but I think I would feel good being in...
    sapphireguy sapphireguy 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Splitting From Your Dom......

    Does it ever get less painful? I feel like it would be easier if there was hate or the feelings had gone.....there would be some closure.....but it's hard to not wonder "what if?" I guess i just need to forget the way he made me feel.....like I was the most precious thing in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 27, 2013

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    First Experience Tomorrow

    Tomorrow evening I will have my first D/S experience. Recently divorced, I always knew I was missing something. Like many women, after readying Fifty Shades of Grey, I knew exactly what I was missing and what I desired. I met a very handsome gentleman online and have dated once...
    drengle51 drengle51 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2012

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    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 2)

    I wrote before in Pt. 1 about how I first learned that surrendering to my SO was the beginning of a beautiful relationship, more fulfilling than I can possibly imagine. I soon wanted to please him so much. When I made him happy, I was happy. I started to feel a level of...
    star4425 star4425 46-50, F May 15, 2013

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    My Wife

    My wife really wants me to dominate her in the bedroom, I've never really dominated anyone before so I don't know where to start, and my wife doesn't open up to me and tell me what she really wants. She is my world and means everything to me and I'll do anything to please her...
    ILoveSDC ILoveSDC 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    I Need To Find A Dominant Man

    I really need to find a dom man. i also want to be able to please him when i do. if he wants me to dress a certain way i will. if he wants me to look him in the eye while i pleasure him i will do it. i just want to know how to please him.
    sweetsubgirl sweetsubgirl 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 1)

    By way of introduction, I am a strong independent professional. I was raised by my bitter divorced mother to believe that a woman never "needs" a man for anything, that I should be equal to any man and that I can do everything as well, if not better, than any man. Looking back...
    star4425 star4425 46-50, F May 9, 2013

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    Hello Everybody!

    I have finally found out what has been missing from my life. I am a little sub girl through and through. I have been looking for my Daddy, but I haven't had the best of luck. I would love to talk to Doms and subs on here. I am new to the lifestyle and need lots of help learning...
    littleampgirl littleampgirl 22-25, F 12 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    So Lost...

    The truth is, I feel really alone and lost. I know tat im a sub in msot cases, and I want to please everyone because I don't have that one person to devote myself to. But unfortunately a lot of the relationships I get into or even just my friends need a dom. And to please them I...
    SocialyAkward SocialyAkward 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    New To D/s

    I am in a long term committed relationship that is also long distance for over 11 years now. We have known each other almost our entire lives and came to the realization a few months ago that we have been moving to a D/s lifestyle for a while now both sexually and out of the...
    jnrds jnrds 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    Being His Pet

    I found my soul mate...after being in a very abusive and sexless marriage for 16 years, I met the man of my dreams. Also has become my Master. We dated for a while before he ever brought this up, the dom/sub subject, but i noticed when we would make love he loved to grab a hold...
    hispet2012 hispet2012 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    The Void

    i have a void inside me that i think could be filled thru submissivness .by serving a mistress and living to please her.Makeing Her happiness my own.Finding my pleasure in her pleasure.
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Aug 8, 2012

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    Better And Better

    It has been nearly a month since I 'confessed' to my husband that I want him to dominate me. My confidence is growing every day; my husband is showing so much interest in this for me. It is getting easier for (me) us to talk openly about all of this, and he is making (and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    Dom Male

    I am a Dom male seeking a submissive female.
    Coldwarrior Coldwarrior 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    This Is All Newish To Me

    I have known for a while now that I am submissive. I've accepted that and love it. I was never able to find a master. None of them ever worked out. Now I am here I have a great master. He is the man I want to submit to. To obey, worship, and please everyday. I have realized with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 7, 2013

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    It All Makes Sense To Me Now

    Now that i know i almost feel stupid that it wasnt more obvious to me before. I always wondered why I left every single solitary sexual experience I had feeling unfulfilled and unhappy. During them I would sometimes grow bored, thinking of what I could do to get them to "come...
    ilovebadboys ilovebadboys 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2012

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    How Do I Ask Him If He Can Be Dominant?

      Just joined after reading lots of great and informative ideas and perspectives on D/s and TiH relationships, some combination of which would best describe me. Perhaps someone out there has on opinion on this: I have had one experience with a wonderful Master who taught...
    jewel67 jewel67 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    For The Sake Of Pleasing

    I have had submissive fantasies for, well, as long as I've had fantasies. I have never really fulfilled any of them; I just don't know how to start (or finish) that conversation. My husband and I have a very good relationship in that we talk pretty openly about most everything...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    D/S Online Training

    Greetings, My name here is RuffRider but you'll be calling me Master Q. I have been a top in the life for over 12 years, but that does not mean I know everything there is. We as humans are always learning new thing and the same goes for me. I currently have 2 online training...
    RuffRider RuffRider 31-35, M Jun 29, 2013

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    Read, Learn, Soul Search

    If you are new and looking for direction I would suggest reading everything you can get your hands on. Knowledge will help you decide, after some soul searching, what will make you happy. That being said please take everything you read with a grain of salt. Just because the...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F Oct 30, 2012

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    I Am His...

    I married unwisely at a young age. Twenty-two seemed so grownup once upon a time. Nearly sixteen years later, I wondered why I hadn't left sooner. All throughout that hellish time, I was told that I'm stupid, ugly, inconsequential, a miserable waste of oxygen and space. I...
    Shaysdream Shaysdream 36-40, F Oct 28, 2012

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    New And Confused

    me and my boyfriend and trying the d/s relationship but we are uncertain how to proceed i wanted to be dominated and punished he is a bit shy we need help
    subsecret subsecret 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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    We talked about rules today.

    We pulled out my book and I told him I think I need more. I need him to be more strict. He agreed. He said I should ask him before I want to anything. I said even if I have to use the bathroom? He said yes, the said no not when the kids are home. Trying to figure out how to some...
    silencedshy silencedshy 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    Please, Is there a Mistress I can serve who will feminize me into a women physically, Mentally, and Hormonally? I am looking for training and forced feminization through either...
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    I am home for a week of spring break so I really need to step up my submissive Suzy homemaker ways.... This morning I woke up to Him using my mouth, I helped him finish and then...
    247slave4u 247slave4u 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    I am a young first time submissive and daddy says I may inquire about getting a mentor... Is there anyone who would simply be willing to just talk to me to help me be better for...
    Mastersprincess Mastersprincess 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 9

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    My husband and I have been together for a year and a half now... We have thrown around the idea of discipline for a whole now but only recently have we really been trying to get...
    SpankedGrace SpankedGrace 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I met my boyfriend less than a year ago and my love for him is submissive. This is such an exciting thing because he never had a submissive girlfriend and I have never wanted to...
    MrsBibeault MrsBibeault 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I am very submissive to my boyfriend. He is 25 years older than me, (me being 19 and him 44). I love the feeling of him biting my neck, taking me when he wants. He likes when I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I am not here to lure submissive or Skype or anything like that. I have, over a number of years, being interested in and enjoyed Dominant /submissive experiences and relationships...
    MasterEnglish MasterEnglish 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    My dom and I are fairly new to this. I as the submissive am struggling greatly with relinquishing control over to him. It's not that I don't want to but it's just something that is...
    SpankedGrace SpankedGrace 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most...
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    1, Locate your Fifa14 Archive directory , buttonDataSetup.ini file, open 2, Make sure you handle in the computer 's name, for example, I called BETOP C033, and then place the...
    wowgoldmart wowgoldmart 22-25, M Mar 26

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    So im dating this vanilla guy and im a sub and i keep feeling like im taking control in this relationship and it kills me inside because I just. I cant do it. But he has so much...
    Sillylilwolf Sillylilwolf 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 28

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    Is your adult child in a relationship with an romantic abusive partner? You can help! Take a 20-minute survey at http://www.TakeSurveyNow.2Truth.com
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    Gay Christian based in Europe seeking a Lesbian for a MOC. PM me if you are serious and want to know more!
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    I want to a good submissive to any master I have and do anything they ask of me to serve them does anyone have any good advice to making masters happy?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 3

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    I know there is great beauty in taking commands. Yielding to a touch and being taken on a journey. To submit for hours and being taken to a high and then taken down gently. To give...
    MasterEnglish MasterEnglish 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I have a master that wants to add another submissive. How does this work?
    RoseHelen2014 RoseHelen2014 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Who am I? 1 Who am I You are not the body, you are not the senses, you are not the thoughts, you are not the unconscious state in which objects do not appear. 2 If I am none of...
    Camouflage Camouflage 18-21, M Apr 10

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    Forgiveness I have done many things in the dark, things I'm not proud of, things that I need to ask forgiveness. But I haven't. I have not looked for forgiveness for my sins, and...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    My husband is a Christian man and I am a very submissive Christian wife and mom to him. I love following him as he leads me spiritually. We seldom disagree on anything but it...
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I didn't just discover this, but there wasn't a group that just said "I am submissive," so here I am.
    Littleorphanorange Littleorphanorange 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Found the group now, thanks c: This is more accurate than the other group im in that's about submissiveness
    Littleorphanorange Littleorphanorange 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    When a real-life captive falls in love with her captor it is called Stockholm Syndrome. I wrote a song some time ago about this - a veiled excuse to write about submissive...
    sinkingwater sinkingwater 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I know that helping is supposed to be an unquestionable good. But not all help is well recieved, necessary, or even well meant. Asking for help is so hard when you dont know if...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    ive been on here for over 2 years & i dont come on here be nasty but to offer a helping hand & a shoulder cry on & a caring ear to anyone who needs it, tonight i offered sound...
    fronkensteen fronkensteen 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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