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I Am Submissive Seeking Help And Tips

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 253 People

    Being Vulnerable Could Be Liberating

    There are some things that I have fantasize about for a while now. They are ways of leaving me vulnerable to someone. I want to be able to experience being strapped up into a straitjacket. It could be canvas or leather or something else, but I think I would feel good being in...
    sapphireguy sapphireguy 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    I Am His...

    I married unwisely at a young age. Twenty-two seemed so grownup once upon a time. Nearly sixteen years later, I wondered why I hadn't left sooner. All throughout that hellish time, I was told that I'm stupid, ugly, inconsequential, a miserable waste of oxygen and space. I...
    Shaysdream Shaysdream 36-40, F Oct 28, 2012

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    The Void

    i have a void inside me that i think could be filled thru submissivness .by serving a mistress and living to please her.Makeing Her happiness my own.Finding my pleasure in her pleasure.
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M Aug 8, 2012

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    For The Sake Of Pleasing

    I have had submissive fantasies for, well, as long as I've had fantasies. I have never really fulfilled any of them; I just don't know how to start (or finish) that conversation. My husband and I have a very good relationship in that we talk pretty openly about most everything...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    Splitting From Your Dom......

    Does it ever get less painful? I feel like it would be easier if there was hate or the feelings had gone.....there would be some closure.....but it's hard to not wonder "what if?" I guess i just need to forget the way he made me feel.....like I was the most precious thing in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 27, 2013

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    Read, Learn, Soul Search

    If you are new and looking for direction I would suggest reading everything you can get your hands on. Knowledge will help you decide, after some soul searching, what will make you happy. That being said please take everything you read with a grain of salt. Just because the...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F Oct 30, 2012

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    guyhere4u guyhere4u 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    Being His Pet

    I found my soul mate...after being in a very abusive and sexless marriage for 16 years, I met the man of my dreams. Also has become my Master. We dated for a while before he ever brought this up, the dom/sub subject, but i noticed when we would make love he loved to grab a hold...
    hispet2012 hispet2012 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    This Is All Newish To Me

    I have known for a while now that I am submissive. I've accepted that and love it. I was never able to find a master. None of them ever worked out. Now I am here I have a great master. He is the man I want to submit to. To obey, worship, and please everyday. I have realized with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 7, 2013

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    How Do I Ask Him If He Can Be Dominant?

      Just joined after reading lots of great and informative ideas and perspectives on D/s and TiH relationships, some combination of which would best describe me. Perhaps someone out there has on opinion on this: I have had one experience with a wonderful Master who taught...
    jewel67 jewel67 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    New To D/s

    I am in a long term committed relationship that is also long distance for over 11 years now. We have known each other almost our entire lives and came to the realization a few months ago that we have been moving to a D/s lifestyle for a while now both sexually and out of the...
    jnrds jnrds 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 2)

    I wrote before in Pt. 1 about how I first learned that surrendering to my SO was the beginning of a beautiful relationship, more fulfilling than I can possibly imagine. I soon wanted to please him so much. When I made him happy, I was happy. I started to feel a level of...
    star4425 star4425 46-50, F May 15, 2013

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    D/S Online Training

    Greetings, My name here is RuffRider but you'll be calling me Master Q. I have been a top in the life for over 12 years, but that does not mean I know everything there is. We as humans are always learning new thing and the same goes for me. I currently have 2 online training...
    RuffRider RuffRider 31-35, M Jun 29, 2013

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    My Journey To Submission (Pt. 1)

    By way of introduction, I am a strong independent professional. I was raised by my bitter divorced mother to believe that a woman never "needs" a man for anything, that I should be equal to any man and that I can do everything as well, if not better, than any man. Looking back...
    star4425 star4425 46-50, F May 9, 2013

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    We talked about rules today.

    We pulled out my book and I told him I think I need more. I need him to be more strict. He agreed. He said I should ask him before I want to anything. I said even if I have to use the bathroom? He said yes, the said no not when the kids are home. Trying to figure out how to some...
    silencedshy silencedshy 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    First Experience Tomorrow

    Tomorrow evening I will have my first D/S experience. Recently divorced, I always knew I was missing something. Like many women, after readying Fifty Shades of Grey, I knew exactly what I was missing and what I desired. I met a very handsome gentleman online and have dated once...
    drengle51 drengle51 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2012

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    Wow..

    First story I read, I go to see how things went with her, and she has not been on line since she published her first D/s meeting with a literal stranger... Excuse me.. but that is ******* scary.. Okay, I've always wanted the things I've read about in books, going back as far as...
    moonstormz moonstormz 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Dom Male

    I am a Dom male seeking a submissive female.
    Coldwarrior Coldwarrior 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    I desperately need advice about what to do in

    my D/s situation. Scroll to the bottom if you don't want to read the saga. Background: never dated many guys, they all felt wrong to me. I met "George" online, and we had an immediate connection. Our first date was fantastic and we hung out for hours. I knew he was the one I...
    belovedlover belovedlover 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    Better And Better

    It has been nearly a month since I 'confessed' to my husband that I want him to dominate me. My confidence is growing every day; my husband is showing so much interest in this for me. It is getting easier for (me) us to talk openly about all of this, and he is making (and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    It All Makes Sense To Me Now

    Now that i know i almost feel stupid that it wasnt more obvious to me before. I always wondered why I left every single solitary sexual experience I had feeling unfulfilled and unhappy. During them I would sometimes grow bored, thinking of what I could do to get them to "come...
    ilovebadboys ilovebadboys 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2012

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    My Wife

    My wife really wants me to dominate her in the bedroom, I've never really dominated anyone before so I don't know where to start, and my wife doesn't open up to me and tell me what she really wants. She is my world and means everything to me and I'll do anything to please her...
    ILoveSDC ILoveSDC 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    Hello Everybody!

    I have finally found out what has been missing from my life. I am a little sub girl through and through. I have been looking for my Daddy, but I haven't had the best of luck. I would love to talk to Doms and subs on here. I am new to the lifestyle and need lots of help learning...
    littleampgirl littleampgirl 22-25, F 11 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    I Need To Find A Dominant Man

    I really need to find a dom man. i also want to be able to please him when i do. if he wants me to dress a certain way i will. if he wants me to look him in the eye while i pleasure him i will do it. i just want to know how to please him.
    sweetsubgirl sweetsubgirl 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    So Lost...

    The truth is, I feel really alone and lost. I know tat im a sub in msot cases, and I want to please everyone because I don't have that one person to devote myself to. But unfortunately a lot of the relationships I get into or even just my friends need a dom. And to please them I...
    SocialyAkward SocialyAkward 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    New And Confused

    me and my boyfriend and trying the d/s relationship but we are uncertain how to proceed i wanted to be dominated and punished he is a bit shy we need help
    subsecret subsecret 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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