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I Am Submissive

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    I don't want to sound mean

    so I apologise if this does........I honestly thought the title explained it but I guess I need to explain it myself, I am a " submissive" which means I do not dominate in any way, shape or form so please don't contact me to ask me if you can submit to me because the answer is...
    formieyesonly formieyesonly 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 1

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    His sub

    I sit naked on the floor at the foot of our bed. I wait... eyes down...hands on my thighs. I hear him enter the room...he moves about gathering what he needs. He steps in front of me, all I see are his bare feet. He says my name and extends his hand. I look up enough to see his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    A true submissive isn't created within the

    pages of fan fiction....she is born. A true Dominant isn't trained in chat rooms...He is born. A true submissive isn't 'subdued' or 'conquered'....she chooses.
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 6

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    My Favorite Way To Suck ****

    Don't get me wrong -- I like to suck ****, and I can't really think of a bad way, at least not for me. But I do have a favorite way, at least in a one-on-one situation. I like to be on my knees, wearing just a little sexy lingerie -- I find that sexier than being completely...
    DistractedG DistractedG 36-40, F 40 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    I can now recall always having a submissive

    quality about me, but it wasn't until 9th grade (age 14) that I became fully conscious of it. I had been dating a cute girl for roughly 6 months when one night--I remember it was Christmas break--we were exchanging gifts at her place. Her parents weren't home, so we were sort...
    severineleven severineleven 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I tend to like strong confident men.

    But when I play with women (usually with a guy) I tend to be dominant towards the other woman. Weird, huh?
    whathedoesntknowwonthurthim whathedoesntknowwonthurthim 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 25

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    I am a submissive. I am looking to meet

    and talk with people who live similar lifestyles and wouldn't mind sharing some experience and knowledge on the topic, as I am a beginner to this lifestyle.
    Iamthecutegirl Iamthecutegirl 18-21, F 13 Responses Jun 2

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    Submission Isn’t All About Control.

      I awaken with your arms protectively and lovingly around me; the scent of our love still lingering in the sheets. I inhale deeply remembering the passion from the night before. I turn my head to meet your lips as your tongue parts them, our tongues dancing rhythmically...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 61 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    to my husband and my female friend of ten years.

    Just became submissive to her this past Friday night. I love my husband deeply. I love my friend very much as well.
    amandahi amandahi 51-55, F 3 Responses Jun 8

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    The Most Beautiful Submission

    “The most beautiful submission, though unshackled physically, she wears His shackles every minute of her life in her mind.” ~Author Unknown
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 13 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    It Finally Happened...

    First a little back story...I've been with the same lover for about 4 years, and married for about 6 months now. I've always been interested and curious about the bdsm lifestyle, but have never been sure how to act on that curiosity or how to bring it up... For quite some time...
    shysweetncurious shysweetncurious 22-25, F 5 Responses May 2, 2012

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    When my wife and I were first going out (and

    she lived in a new subdivision), we would go out on regular nightly walks through the development watching to see what progress had been made on the new construction. The walk was always about an hour or so, meandering through the development. As we progressed through our walk...
    SearchingKS SearchingKS 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 9

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    Message me about your fantasies about being

    dominates by woman and we can compare
    las1234 las1234 22-25, M Apr 19

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    I am a submissive slave looking

    for a Strict Mistress please message me
    sissyslave18 sissyslave18 18-21, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I am so happy No details - I just want to share

    my happy feelings Loving a man who appreciates your desire to submit is such a happy place to be! Life is good
    Ang14 Ang14 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 10

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    The Heart of a Submissive So many people find

    it hard to understand the true heart of a submissive and for me it’s quite clear. I have searched myself and realise that there are 2 sides of being a submissive, one of which is the side that wants to serve her Master in any way she can, pleasuring him, which in turn gives...
    formieyesonly formieyesonly 41-45, F 9 Responses Apr 30

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    I recently realized that I am submissive.

    Ever since I was a child I would like to play doctor and be the treated person, stay still, or in all the other childish games I absolutely loved the idea o being bound and not being able to move,being caught at the mercy of someone else. Of course this was way before I had...
    Liz1795 Liz1795 18-21, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    Rules For A Proper SIut

    Sometimes I like to write fiction stories too, and I also like to make lists, or "rules" and imagine them being placed on me in real life, with someone here to enforce them. Here is a set now: Rules For a Proper SIut... aka Woman. 1.) Never assume you have permission to do...
    StupidSlut StupidSlut 26-30, F 21 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Couple's House Pet

    So how I got here is kind of a long story that I will I tell another time but the short version is that I needed a place to live and this worked out for everyone. I live with a married couple as their full time maid/pet/sexslave. The two of them live a 24/7 D/s lifestyle and...
    Hishousepet Hishousepet 26-30, F 9 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    Master

    I'm his bad girl, his naughty girl. I'm his for the taking. When i ride him, he slaps my *** and yells in my face that i'm nothing but his bad girl. I ride him harder pushing myself down as far as i can go. And to this he responds with anger because he knows i want him deeper...
    HerAlterEgo HerAlterEgo 18-21, F 50 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    I have been in a relationship with my

    girlfriend Stacey for nearly a year now and she has been my mistress nearly the entire time. I love her ordering me to get naked for her and her friends. When at her flat I am not allowed to wear clothes. Just today I was made to tug myself off infront of her and her friends...
    NoclothesNoproblems NoclothesNoproblems 18-21, M 6 Responses Jun 13

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    I recently found an amazing Dom,

    I live to please him. I love you Dom.
    Domsgirl Domsgirl 18-21, F May 9

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    I am a submissive looking

    for advice if anyone has a moment that would be great :)
    belledawn1 belledawn1 22-25, F 9 Responses Jun 15

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    I all ways had a fantasy

    where I could have a girl as my friend that I can talk to and every thin but when am horn if could be her dom and tell here what I want her to do for me sexualy if there any girl want to make this come true let me know
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M 1 Response May 21

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    This was a little over a year ago,

    I was chatting a lot with guys on-line.. and meeting a number of them as well, mostly for sex... I was looking for rough, aggressive.. dominant men.. those were the ones I would meet.. the ones that i felt vulnerable with.. and I kept pushing this.. looking to go further with...
    hayliepartychick hayliepartychick 18-21, F 17 Responses Jan 9

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    Anti-feminism Vent From A Submissive

    This write up is highly likely to offend, so please cease reading now should you not value diverse opinions in general. So…. I’ve held off writing this but lately I’ve come across a plethora of cringe worthy stories bashing feminism. In the interest of disclosure, let me...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 46 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    I am a new submissive

    and am struggling to find my way. Can anyone help?
    Butterflyone29 Butterflyone29 46-50, F 11 Responses May 9

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    Seriously, I have a few friends

    who are living the way I want to outside of Experience Project. I watched my friend Melissa get spanked outside of a supermarket yesterday for mouthing back to her Dom. I was turned on so much, by wanting to be spanked too, and when she turned and begged his forgiveness I was...
    raylynn24 raylynn24 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    I become such a mess without direction.

    I've known this about myself, but I hate admitting it to myself. The past few weeks have been such a shock to the senses, since I broke up with Archie. I haven't been single in so long. Now I'm trying to focus on myself again and it is weird. I don't know where to go to release...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 21

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    Actress/ athlete Gabrielle Reese on Submisison:

    I saw this article awhile back in the Daily Mail, and I am re-posting this for a buddy of mine on EP. This is about Gabrielle Reese (American professional volleyball player, sports announcer, fashion model and actress) who spoke up about being a submissive wife (pretty brave...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 17 Responses May 11, 2013

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    I have to perform daily tasks

    for my master. Its part of what we do on a daily basis, and he switches it up from time to time. I asked him last night what he would like me to wear and he instructed me to wear this new thinner bra I just bought. Its black, lace, and my breasts spill out over the top of it...
    Sweetie79 Sweetie79 31-35, F 17 Responses Jan 6

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    I have always enjoyed working from home.

    It allows me the freedom to wear whatever I want and I’ve always felt way more productive when the "girls" aren’t confined to a bra :) Today, my Sir took my productivity to a whole new level – not so much professionally, but personally, when he instructed me to remove my...
    ASubsNeed ASubsNeed 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 2

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    I am fully submissive to my Queen

    and wife and it makes me so happy. I cook, clean, shop and wait on my Queen all day long. Its really makes content . I want to be more and more submissive cause its makes her happy . She's the boss of me.
    gailwisher gailwisher 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    But only to one person.

    Otherwise.... I come across as the boss. I don't know why he makes me want to be this way. I can't explain it, so I've just accepted it. And he does treat me well.
    charlottesbed charlottesbed 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    I am looking for advice on how to keep my mouth

    shut. I'm so full of pride that it is hard for me to not talk back. Yesterday he said something to which I replied "Obviously." He was not impressed and I dug my self in a deeper hole before the conversation was over. I had to wait 15 hours for punishment. Only 1 hour and 15...
    BrittBee22 BrittBee22 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 19

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    Being Submissive

    So when we first met, I didnt think I was insecure, but as he asked for more I realized how inexperienced and insecure I really was. Every request made me nervous, made me feel I wouldn't be good enough and he would leave. But I have such a good master. He's opened my eyes to so...
    Sweetie79 Sweetie79 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    I am a 22 yr old sub,

    searching for her Dom/Master. I'm searching for someone that is older, patient, caring, and understanding, but also authoritative, strict, and comanding. I am searching for someone who will keep me in my place and punish me when I forget it. Someone who will have set rules for...
    ScorpioGirl41 ScorpioGirl41 22-25, F 18 Responses Apr 29

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    Pleasure And Pain!!

    Looking across i try and explain that I want you i need you and all i ever wanted was to please you, Wishing you would just Pull me in and hold me tight and reassure me it’s going to be alright Have you tell me you’re here for me and i won’t ever have another lonely...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 10, 2013

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    I love being his good girl.

    I love being obedient. I love the names he gives me, the dirty things he says to me. I crave his instruction. I kinda want to be punished right now, but I've been so good, he wouldn't have a reason to punish me unless he just felt like it, in which case I would of course do...
    Sweetie79 Sweetie79 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Pleasing Master

    Today was such a good day. I woke up early to chat with Master. I love seeing him, but mornings are extra special. I'm still a little sleepy, wearing just a tee and panties. He asks me to show him his property, so I pull my breasts out the top of my shirt. He asks me to milk...
    Sweetie79 Sweetie79 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    My Master said the most amazing thing to me

    last night, he said "You are a consummate subby" wow....what more can I say!
    formieyesonly formieyesonly 41-45, F 2 Responses May 4

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    *** Rag

    On Sunday my Master felt I needed a lesson on my place in the house so he tied me up with my wrists behind my back and tied to my ankles so I was forced to just sit and kneel like that. Then he strapped a ballgag in my mouth and left me like that all day in the living room. It...
    Hishousepet Hishousepet 26-30, F 10 Responses Mar 12, 2013

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    Looking for a submissive girl my age

    or close she can be a little older. message me if questions ill answer anything or interested
    MarcusCross20 MarcusCross20 18-21, M Jul 12

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    I'm looking for submissive white women married

    or single, that want to be USED...
    stone1113 stone1113 36-40, M 7 Responses Feb 24

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    My master is amazing.

    I know I say it all the time. Sometimes I think if I tell enough people, another sub will try and take him from me. I don't know how I even ended up here. I joined Ep looking for a master having never had one. But I ended up having one of the best experiences of my life. I crave...
    Sweetie79 Sweetie79 31-35, F 12 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Yes, I’m Submissive

    Yes, I’m submissive, I want you to handcuff me, tie me up, and do anything to restrain me. Handcuff my hands above my head, and tie my legs to the bedposts, so that I can’t effectively move any part of my body. Start by just looking at my naked body, let your eyes linger...
    hottchick810 hottchick810 18-21, F 25 Responses Jul 21, 2011

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    Ladies, if you have questions feel free to msg

    me.. I love helping new subs figure out what they want/need
    guyhere4u guyhere4u 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 4

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    Happily Submissive

    I recently saw a post about how a member of EP wasn't a submissive and never would be. She thinks that because we're submissive, we give up our power. This is so NOT true. It is the sub who has the power when in this relationship. It is she who gives this power to her Dom. She...
    deleted deleted 26-30 25 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Story Of My Life (chapter 6). Disciplined - Cumslut

    Aye! I'm here again with another chapter of my life story. If you haven't seen the previous parts , please do before reading this if you don't want to spoil yourselves. You can add me for more updates if you want :) A lot of people had been asking me whether my stepfather was...
    Trishiiex Trishiiex 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 2, 2012

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    I Know Who I Am

    Yes, I am a submissive female. Submissive by nature. Do not get me wrong, I am in control of all aspects of my life. Except for one. I enjoy being dominating when it comes to sex. I enjoy and crave the release of control. To be controlled. To follow all commands to best of my...
    blue12345a blue12345a 41-45, F 12 Responses May 29, 2013

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    I Left My Dom Yesterday.

    i am submissive. i have been this way for as long as i can remember. I will not tolerate abuse and that is what i was experiencing. he didn't hurt me physically but he was doing me harm emotionally and that was taking a toll. during our 3 years togther he wanted me to quit my...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz 22-25, F 33 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    Make Me Yours

    Tell me what to do.. make me lick you and suck you, tell me how you want to ****. tease me and deny, drive me crazy, deny my ******. **** my ***** and my ***. Eat me out, rub my ****. Make me walk around nude for you. slap my *****. tie me up, blindfold me. make me lick your...
    justagirl4u justagirl4u 26-30, F 20 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    It Just Made Sense For Us. But, Being A Sub Doesn't Diminish My Equality

    I've been having the absolute BEST conversation about this with one of my buddies and decided it would make a pretty cool story.I love to read stories that really give "indepth" and close range  pictures and  perspectives of people.  I learn from how others live and love...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 51 Responses May 28, 2011

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