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I Am Submissive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 7,298 People

    I'm a submissive male looking

    for a dominant female, who is strict and will keep me in line but at the same time can be kind and loving as well. Is it possible to find that ?
    Detroit84 Detroit84 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    Happily Submissive...

    I recently saw a post about how a member of EP wasn't a submissive and never would be. She thinks that because we're submissive, we give up our power. This is so NOT true. It is the sub who has the power when in this relationship. It is she who gives this power to her Dom...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 4, 2014

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    No touching! Before making the decision to be

    more submissive, I *********** 3-4 times a week. I loved to self pleasure by touching myself or by using a vibrator. I loved reading erotica and then fantasizing about the stories while making myself ******. I loved rubbing that vibrator on myself-it is one of the best feelings...
    SarahLynn1976 SarahLynn1976 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 21

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    The loneliness sometimes makes me question

    whether this is all worth it.
    Hissweetgirl Hissweetgirl 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 10

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    I'm a cruel master and looking

    for a female slave on webcam.
    PAULBERLIN PAULBERLIN 26-30, M Mar 6

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    My new experience in a Dom/sub relationship has

    caused me to seek help and advice from an experienced Dom or sub. I believe in a committed, monogamous relationship and wondered if true Doms are in fact monogamous. I also wondered if it is the job of a Dom to teach a new sub certain lessons. I just need helpful insight. I'm...
    Godmusicanimals Godmusicanimals 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 8

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    Tears in my eyes, my heart is beating fast.

    I know I did wrong, I knew when I did it that it was wrong. But now I have to tell Sir what I’d done. My mind raced through a file of excuses and names of people I could blame, but the sickening feeling hits when I knew I couldn’t pass on the responsibility for my actions...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 15

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    I am submissive to spanking

    and enjoy speaking to any adult with the interest in giving spankings to adults
    ineedaspankingoo ineedaspankingoo 51-55, M 3 Responses Apr 12

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    Actress/ athlete Gabrielle Reese on Submisison:

    I saw this article awhile back in the Daily Mail, and I am re-posting this for a buddy of mine on EP. This is about Gabrielle Reese (American professional volleyball player, sports announcer, fashion model and actress) who spoke up about being a submissive wife (pretty brave...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 15 Responses May 11, 2013

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    Anti-feminism Vent From A Submissive

    This write up is highly likely to offend, so please cease reading now should you not value diverse opinions in general. So…. I’ve held off writing this but lately I’ve come across a plethora of cringe worthy stories bashing feminism. In the interest of disclosure, let me...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 45 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    My Favorite Way To Suck ****

    Don't get me wrong -- I like to suck ****, and I can't really think of a bad way, at least not for me. But I do have a favorite way, at least in a one-on-one situation. I like to be on my knees, wearing just a little sexy lingerie -- I find that sexier than being completely...
    DistractedG DistractedG 36-40, F 38 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    Haven't posted a story about him in a

    while - Ep deleted so many of my really good dirty and naughty stories. So maybe some people might not know that I am owned. I met him over two years ago, and have been owned over two years now. We have had ups and downs like any relationship, but I am glad to say we are still...
    Sweetie79 Sweetie79 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 19

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    23 yr wanna-be sissy slave is looking

    for guidance. can anyone help?
    gertiss gertiss 22-25, T Apr 23

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    roy32 roy32 70+, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    i am a women in guy body

    and i am a lesbian .i am looking for mistress to love me rule me
    sherlockv sherlockv 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I am beginning a 30 day challenge.

    ...As a submissive wife part of my submission comes in the form of submitting to him physically. We have a "no right of refusal" rule within our marriage. This has been difficult some nights when I'm tired or just not in the mood and I've thrown a fit about it, whined, complained...
    QuietTranquility QuietTranquility 36-40, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm a very inexperienced submissive,

    I have a reasonable idea of what I like and what my limits are but I've never had a relationship with an experienced dom to learn properly. I've only ever dabbled a bit with boyfriends who didn't know what they were doing. I'm currently single and looking to meet someone who...
    tigerlilly10575 tigerlilly10575 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 24

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    I'm looking for a sub ,

    preferably long term, who is willing to be obedient. In return you will be taken care of and kept safe. I understand submission comes after respect and that Dosent happen in a day , but I'm patient. If you are interested, pm me or ki-k me at 1785702
    piyush93 piyush93 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 2

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    Pleasure And Pain!!

    Looking across i try and explain that I want you i need you and all i ever wanted was to please you, Wishing you would just Pull me in and hold me tight and reassure me it’s going to be alright Have you tell me you’re here for me and i won’t ever have another lonely...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 10, 2013

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    Seriously, I have a few friends

    who are living the way I want to outside of Experience Project. I watched my friend Melissa get spanked outside of a supermarket yesterday for mouthing back to her Dom. I was turned on so much, by wanting to be spanked too, and when she turned and begged his forgiveness I was...
    raylynn24 raylynn24 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 6, 2014

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    This is not about the Dom submissive thing

    but the submissive part of my personality. What I mean when I say I'm submissive is I always give in to people because I want to make people happy with me...I seek peoples approval. I always give in and go along with what others want of me... I'm a follower never a leader...I...
    ADF55 ADF55 56-60 1 Response Feb 10

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    It Just Made Sense For Us. But, Being A Sub Doesn't Diminish My Equality

    I've been having the absolute BEST conversation about this with one of my buddies and decided it would make a pretty cool story.I love to read stories that really give "indepth" and close range  pictures and  perspectives of people.  I learn from how others live and love...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 49 Responses May 28, 2011

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    I am a 22 yr old sub,

    searching for her Dom/Master. I'm searching for someone that is older, patient, caring, and understanding, but also authoritative, strict, and comanding. I am searching for someone who will keep me in my place and punish me when I forget it. Someone who will have set rules for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    i must thank her lovers

    for ******* my wife for me and invite them to come back and to bring a friend if they want
    roy32 roy32 70+, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I love being led around on my knees

    and told what to do. Your little F doll all day long.
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Apr 22

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    *New to this* I am a submissive,

    it's a bit of working progress but I was bad yesterday and disobeyed my master so was made to wear anal beads in bed last night :(
    EllieBlueEyes EllieBlueEyes 22-25, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I Left My Dom Yesterday.

    i am submissive. i have been this way for as long as i can remember. I will not tolerate abuse and that is what i was experiencing. he didn't hurt me physically but he was doing me harm emotionally and that was taking a toll. during our 3 years togther he wanted me to quit my...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz 22-25, F 32 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    His sub

    I sit naked on the floor at the foot of our bed. I wait... eyes down...hands on my thighs. I hear him enter the room...he moves about gathering what he needs. He steps in front of me, all I see are his bare feet. He says my name and extends his hand. I look up enough to see his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    Yes, I’m Submissive

    Yes, I’m submissive, I want you to handcuff me, tie me up, and do anything to restrain me. Handcuff my hands above my head, and tie my legs to the bedposts, so that I can’t effectively move any part of my body. Start by just looking at my naked body, let your eyes linger...
    hottchick810 hottchick810 18-21, F 22 Responses Jul 21, 2011

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    I have always enjoyed working from home.

    It allows me the freedom to wear whatever I want and I’ve always felt way more productive when the "girls" aren’t confined to a bra :) Today, my Sir took my productivity to a whole new level – not so much professionally, but personally, when he instructed me to remove my...
    justsmile14 justsmile14 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    I just want to be hogtied

    and be forced to wear a gag! It's my biggest fantasy along with being useless and made to do sexual things
    Cristyy274 Cristyy274 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    It Takes A Very Strong Woman To Submit To A Man

    I read this in a book  and i wanted to share it... To some, obedience and submission are probably the same thing. Obedience suggests blind loyalty. No free will. Submission suggests a choice. A choice to place oneself in the care of another. But with conditions. Trust. Always...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses May 9, 2013

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    Submission Isn’t All About Control.

      I awaken with your arms protectively and lovingly around me; the scent of our love still lingering in the sheets. I inhale deeply remembering the passion from the night before. I turn my head to meet your lips as your tongue parts them, our tongues dancing rhythmically...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 61 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    A true submissive isn't created within the

    pages of fan fiction....she is born. A true Dominant isn't trained in chat rooms...He is born. A true submissive isn't 'subdued' or 'conquered'....she chooses.
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 12 Responses Feb 6, 2014

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    I've known for a long time

    now that I am sexually submissive. If someone comes on strong to me it's like I just go lax and my body is theirs to do with whatever they please. In that moment, I'm theirs. I'm 19 and have never had a master but I'm dying to explore and find one in the near future!
    AlliRose95 AlliRose95 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 7, 2014

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    My Submission S is for the person I am,

    a submissive who gives all I can U is for the unending love One can give, without it how am I to live B is for the beauty in me, deep inside, longing to be free M is for the Master she needs, without Him, her heart will surely bleed I is for the intimacy they share, a bond that...
    Masterskitten68 Masterskitten68 46-50, F 6 Responses May 8

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    Anais Nin....

      My thoughts never more well stated than by Anais Nin "I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 4 Responses May 20, 2008

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    Happily Submissive

    I recently saw a post about how a member of EP wasn't a submissive and never would be. She thinks that because we're submissive, we give up our power. This is so NOT true. It is the sub who has the power when in this relationship. It is she who gives this power to her Dom. She...
    deleted deleted 26-30 22 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Couple's House Pet

    So how I got here is kind of a long story that I will I tell another time but the short version is that I needed a place to live and this worked out for everyone. I live with a married couple as their full time maid/pet/sexslave. The two of them live a 24/7 D/s lifestyle and...
    Hishousepet Hishousepet 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    This was a little over a year ago,

    I was chatting a lot with guys on-line.. and meeting a number of them as well, mostly for sex... I was looking for rough, aggressive.. dominant men.. those were the ones I would meet.. the ones that i felt vulnerable with.. and I kept pushing this.. looking to go further with...
    hayliepartychick hayliepartychick 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 9, 2014

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    Knowing Your Thoughts

    Dominance is guiding another to feel emotions unimagined, joys never before thought possible and affection without measure. Submission is a gift that must be earned through passion and compassion, it can be given but never taken. Helping the submissive to let go completely...
    ToBeYours ToBeYours 26-30, F 12 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    Read below about a last minute visitor

    who was going to take what he wanted.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 10

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    From Me To You

    Hanging from the basement ceiling..upside down...legs spread..ankles encircled in soft cuffs..arms behind my back..roped with care from wrists to elbows...wearing your favorite choke collar connected to a chain and hooked to a bolt in the floor.. Every flaw exposed...no shadows...
    sweetpetite68 sweetpetite68 46-50, F 17 Responses Jan 14, 2013

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    I'm having trouble being submissive in every

    day life outside the bedroom. Anyone have any training tips or tricks that might help?
    Kitten2005 Kitten2005 26-30, F 10 Responses Feb 17

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    Master

    I'm his bad girl, his naughty girl. I'm his for the taking. When i ride him, he slaps my *** and yells in my face that i'm nothing but his bad girl. I ride him harder pushing myself down as far as i can go. And to this he responds with anger because he knows i want him deeper...
    HerAlterEgo HerAlterEgo 18-21, F 52 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    Story Of My Life (chapter 6). Disciplined - Cumslut

    Aye! I'm here again with another chapter of my life story. If you haven't seen the previous parts , please do before reading this if you don't want to spoil yourselves. You can add me for more updates if you want :) A lot of people had been asking me whether my stepfather was...
    Trishiiex Trishiiex 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 2, 2012

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