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I Am Submissive

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    His sub

    I sit naked on the floor at the foot of our bed. I wait... eyes down...hands on my thighs. I hear him enter the room...he moves about gathering what he needs. He steps in front of me, all I see are his bare feet. He says my name and extends his hand. I look up enough to see his...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Feb 3, 2013

    Happily Submissive...

    I recently saw a post about how a member of EP wasn't a submissive and never would be. She thinks that because we're submissive, we give up our power. This is so NOT true. It is the sub who has the power when in this relationship. It is she who gives this power to her Dom...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 4, 2014

    This was a little over a year ago,

    I was chatting a lot with guys on-line.. and meeting a number of them as well, mostly for sex... I was looking for rough, aggressive.. dominant men.. those were the ones I would meet.. the ones that i felt vulnerable with.. and I kept pushing this.. looking to go further with...
    hayliepartychick hayliepartychick
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Jan 9, 2014

    Hi guys and girls i am 23 year old guy

    and experienced bisexual guy . i have had few relationship with guy and of course with girls too .i would to share ti with all of your people that i love being in controlled of my partner .It gives me the sense of security , No matter where they dominates me weather it is in the...
    yourknight yourknight
    22-25, M
    Sep 11, 2015

    A few years ago I got curious about bdsm

    and temporarily joined a bdsm house. I quickly found out I love bdsm but I'm submissive and enjoy it best when it is a sex thing and not a lifestyle.
    TrinityTears TrinityTears
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    Anais Nin....

      My thoughts never more well stated than by Anais Nin "I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues
    31-35, F
    4 Responses May 20, 2008

    Master

    I'm his bad girl, his naughty girl. I'm his for the taking. When i ride him, he slaps my *** and yells in my face that i'm nothing but his bad girl. I ride him harder pushing myself down as far as i can go. And to this he responds with anger because he knows i want him deeper...
    HerAlterEgo HerAlterEgo
    18-21, F
    51 Responses Apr 24, 2008

    I'm an experienced Dom/Master back on here

    after taking rather a long break.. I'm beginning the search for my new submissive.. Those wishing to explore their submission may approach me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 19, 2015

    WoW! I'd be honored to bow down

    and do anything and everything for a woman who honestly likes me and is going to love and appreciate me doing all for her Pleasing Enjoyment! :)
    Iserve2 Iserve2
    26-30, M
    Nov 13, 2015

    Naughty Dad is looking

    for a strict uncle to show him, who is his place. I'm often out of control and really need to change it.
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    Mar 20

    I am a new sub. my husband

    and I recently made the change to our marriage. I desperately need advise on our everyday lives and how exactly I am to act.
    ashdaddysgirl ashdaddysgirl
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 27

    From Me To You

    Hanging from the basement ceiling..upside down...legs spread..ankles encircled in soft cuffs..arms behind my back..roped with care from wrists to elbows...wearing your favorite choke collar connected to a chain and hooked to a bolt in the floor.. Every flaw exposed...no shadows...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    15 Responses Jan 14, 2013

    Lol just cut my balls

    for someone
    Longdongsilver2 Longdongsilver2
    18-21, M
    Jan 11

    I am sitting next to a condom

    that won't fit, two pairs of women's panties and lotion and I want someone to tell me what to do
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2015

    A true submissive isn't created within the

    pages of fan fiction....she is born. A true Dominant isn't trained in chat rooms...He is born. A true submissive isn't 'subdued' or 'conquered'....she chooses.
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman
    41-45, F
    11 Responses Feb 6, 2014

    Happily Submissive

    I recently saw a post about how a member of EP wasn't a submissive and never would be. She thinks that because we're submissive, we give up our power. This is so NOT true. It is the sub who has the power when in this relationship. It is she who gives this power to her Dom. She...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    18 Responses Aug 28, 2013

    It Finally Happened...

    First a little back story...I've been with the same lover for about 4 years, and married for about 6 months now. I've always been interested and curious about the bdsm lifestyle, but have never been sure how to act on that curiosity or how to bring it up... For quite some time...
    shysweetncurious shysweetncurious
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 2, 2012

    I'm a male looking for a dominatrix pm me

    if your interested in a loyal sub
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 19

    Actress/ athlete Gabrielle Reese on Submisison:

    I saw this article awhile back in the Daily Mail, and I am re-posting this for a buddy of mine on EP. This is about Gabrielle Reese (American professional volleyball player, sports announcer, fashion model and actress) who spoke up about being a submissive wife (pretty brave...
    RedRubies RedRubies
    36-40, F
    15 Responses May 11, 2013

    I love being led around on my knees

    and told what to do. Your little F doll all day long.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Apr 22, 2015

    would love somebody to control me

    and punish me wen im naughty,
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Jan 19
    sweetangel20 sweetangel20
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    I'm looking for a sub ,

    preferably long term, who is willing to be obedient. In return you will be taken care of and kept safe. I understand submission comes after respect and that Dosent happen in a day , but I'm patient. If you are interested, pm me or ki-k me at 1785702
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 2, 2015

    Present Yourself...the First Time.

    I knelt before you, naked, nervous, vunerable. Anticipating your reaction. Silence... No words spoken. I lift my head to see. Your eyes full of desire, wonder, amazement. You know the gift I have within me. The smouldering fire becomes an inferno. Engulfing me in a new...
    HisHope HisHope
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Nov 2, 2012

    Read below about a last minute visitor

    who was going to take what he wanted.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 10, 2015

    I have always had a submissive nature.

    It has always been fulfilling for me to obey authority, female authority in particular. I have had submissive fantasies from the youngest age. In 1st grade I saw a teacher yelling at a boy in the hall. She was cusping his face with her hand and yelling and humiliating him hard...
    Cleancut Cleancut
    41-45
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015
    locked125 locked125
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 7

    I'm a 30 yr old Sub searching

    for her Dom/Master. In search for someone caring, patient, and understanding, but also strick and commanding.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses May 23, 2015

    I am a 22 yr old sub,

    searching for her Dom/Master. I'm searching for someone that is older, patient, caring, and understanding, but also authoritative, strict, and comanding. I am searching for someone who will keep me in my place and punish me when I forget it. Someone who will have set rules for...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Apr 29, 2014

    Tears in my eyes, my heart is beating fast.

    I know I did wrong, I knew when I did it that it was wrong. But now I have to tell Sir what I’d done. My mind raced through a file of excuses and names of people I could blame, but the sickening feeling hits when I knew I couldn’t pass on the responsibility for my actions...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    Message me with your biggest fantasy.

    Maybe we can turn it into a roleplay 😉
    juils675 juils675
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 28, 2015

    Couple's House Pet

    So how I got here is kind of a long story that I will I tell another time but the short version is that I needed a place to live and this worked out for everyone. I live with a married couple as their full time maid/pet/sexslave. The two of them live a 24/7 D/s lifestyle and...
    Hishousepet Hishousepet
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Dec 28, 2012

    My Favorite Way To Suck ****

    Don't get me wrong -- I like to suck ****, and I can't really think of a bad way, at least not for me. But I do have a favorite way, at least in a one-on-one situation. I like to be on my knees, wearing just a little sexy lingerie -- I find that sexier than being completely...
    DistractedG DistractedG
    36-40, F
    35 Responses Aug 9, 2012

    Story Of My Life (chapter 6). Disciplined - Cumslut

    Aye! I'm here again with another chapter of my life story. If you haven't seen the previous parts , please do before reading this if you don't want to spoil yourselves. You can add me for more updates if you want :) A lot of people had been asking me whether my stepfather was...
    Trishiiex Trishiiex
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2012

    Sir and His slave were at her other lovers'

    house for New Year's. I can't help but wonder if they all talked about me negatively. I also noticed yesterday that she blocked me on Facebook. That's mature... I'm a masochist, at heart. Is that why I keep holding on? Do I enjoy the emotional pain? Or am I just hoping beyond...
    sugarbabysub sugarbabysub
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 1

    But not to anyone but him.

    I am his lady, his possession, his slave, his little girl, his love, his submissive. Submitting to him is as natural as breathing. And that breath belongs to him as well as every other thing that I used to believe as mine. Body, heart, mind and soul. His. All his.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 1

    Anti-feminism Vent From A Submissive

    This write up is highly likely to offend, so please cease reading now should you not value diverse opinions in general. So…. I’ve held off writing this but lately I’ve come across a plethora of cringe worthy stories bashing feminism. In the interest of disclosure, let me...
    RedRubies RedRubies
    36-40, F
    40 Responses Jul 6, 2012

    I am beginning a 30 day challenge.

    ...As a submissive wife part of my submission comes in the form of submitting to him physically. We have a "no right of refusal" rule within our marriage. This has been difficult some nights when I'm tired or just not in the mood and I've thrown a fit about it, whined, complained...
    QuietTranquility QuietTranquility
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Jun 30, 2015

    It Just Made Sense For Us. But, Being A Sub Doesn't Diminish My Equality

    I've been having the absolute BEST conversation about this with one of my buddies and decided it would make a pretty cool story.I love to read stories that really give "indepth" and close range  pictures and  perspectives of people.  I learn from how others live and love...
    sierra33 sierra33
    31-35, F
    45 Responses May 28, 2011

    Anyone tried one submissive act

    https://onesubmissiveact.com/subs/509015ae9cfeee9570e4
    RT19 RT19
    26-30, M
    Mar 17

    I have always known I'm submissive

    but it has developed into a need that I have to express. I have no experience as a sub yet and I would love to chat with Doms and other subs for friendship and guidance :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 8, 2015

    I've known for a long time

    now that I am sexually submissive. If someone comes on strong to me it's like I just go lax and my body is theirs to do with whatever they please. In that moment, I'm theirs. I'm 19 and have never had a master but I'm dying to explore and find one in the near future!
    AlliRose95 AlliRose95
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jul 7, 2014

    Knowing Your Thoughts

    Dominance is guiding another to feel emotions unimagined, joys never before thought possible and affection without measure. Submission is a gift that must be earned through passion and compassion, it can be given but never taken. Helping the submissive to let go completely...
    ToBeYours ToBeYours
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Apr 9, 2013

    I fell into a new relationship a few months ago.

    It's developed slowly. It started with me developing a friendship with a woman I was very attracted to. Then, her husband started asking me on dates. Soon, he asked me to enter into a D/s relationship with him. This ended his wife's romantic interest in me. Well, in the last...
    sugarbabysub sugarbabysub
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 21, 2015

    I was at a workshop today

    and took a personality test. I had no idea that dominance was one of the factors they were measuring. I wasn't even thinking about my submissive nature, I just answered the questions as honestly as I could. It turns out this was called the DISC test and the D stands for...
    Cleancut Cleancut
    41-45
    2 Responses Jan 26

    I am a submissive to a dom,

    and I realised I dont know the difference between being scared or turned on. My dom isn't big on rules as such and he is very unpredictable. (imagine the joker) I know there are certain things he likes me to do. Most recent being odd things he makes me say that make no sense...
    hollymayt hollymayt
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    I Left My Dom Yesterday.

    i am submissive. i have been this way for as long as i can remember. I will not tolerate abuse and that is what i was experiencing. he didn't hurt me physically but he was doing me harm emotionally and that was taking a toll. during our 3 years togther he wanted me to quit my...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz
    22-25, F
    28 Responses Nov 29, 2012

    I think I am submissive in the sense

    that I like being used as a little F toy for men. I get most turned on doing whatever I am told, especially by older men. My BF brings over his friends a lot so I know I am always on call. I love it when they are just watching TV and I go around servicing each one like a merry...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Feb 11, 2015

    How many times can a submissive handle

    disappointment and heartache before they break? Honestly I'm at the point that I don't know if I'm angry, hurt, disappointed or just beginning to accept that I am not nor ever will be enough.... Time to go kick the sh*t outta the body bag....
    playfullyyours80 playfullyyours80
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Apr 7

    The Most Beautiful Submission

    “The most beautiful submission, though unshackled physically, she wears His shackles every minute of her life in her mind.” ~Author Unknown
    RedRubies RedRubies
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Nov 22, 2012

    It Takes A Very Strong Woman To Submit To A Man

    I read this in a book  and i wanted to share it... To some, obedience and submission are probably the same thing. Obedience suggests blind loyalty. No free will. Submission suggests a choice. A choice to place oneself in the care of another. But with conditions. Trust. Always...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses May 9, 2013

    *** Rag

    On Sunday my Master felt I needed a lesson on my place in the house so he tied me up with my wrists behind my back and tied to my ankles so I was forced to just sit and kneel like that. Then he strapped a ballgag in my mouth and left me like that all day in the living room. It...
    Hishousepet Hishousepet
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Mar 12, 2013

    Yes, I’m Submissive

    Yes, I’m submissive, I want you to handcuff me, tie me up, and do anything to restrain me. Handcuff my hands above my head, and tie my legs to the bedposts, so that I can’t effectively move any part of my body. Start by just looking at my naked body, let your eyes linger...
    hottchick810 hottchick810
    18-21, F
    21 Responses Jul 21, 2011

    Advise please? I'm living my with x

    (non dominant) and I'm dating my Dom (Sir). Sir as any good dominant is firm, fair and makes me a better person. But I question is it possible to have a life relationship with Sir? One day a family? Or do I just go back to my x for the easy but boring life feeling reassured I'd...
    Eidassadie Eidassadie
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 11, 2015

    I'm a 25 year old dom in nyc

    if you are really submissive and live in the area message me.
    zackthebull zackthebull
    26-30, M
    Aug 3, 2015

    Seriously, I have a few friends

    who are living the way I want to outside of Experience Project. I watched my friend Melissa get spanked outside of a supermarket yesterday for mouthing back to her Dom. I was turned on so much, by wanting to be spanked too, and when she turned and begged his forgiveness I was...
    raylynn24 raylynn24
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 6, 2014

    Submission Isn’t All About Control.

      I awaken with your arms protectively and lovingly around me; the scent of our love still lingering in the sheets. I inhale deeply remembering the passion from the night before. I turn my head to meet your lips as your tongue parts them, our tongues dancing rhythmically...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    58 Responses Nov 11, 2009

    Lol just cut my balls

    for someone
    Longdongsilver2 Longdongsilver2
    18-21, M
    Jan 11
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