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I Am Suffering From Heartbreak

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    He Was My First...And It Was Supposed To Be Forever!

    Hello. I want to share a really sad story with someone out there. I am not a very social person and all my life I have been an outcast. I am a good person with a full heart but I have always been different and I guess that is why people don't like me. I come from a strict family...
    LonelyGirl1230 LonelyGirl1230 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    I feel like I'm runnin outta time,

    so lemme tell u how I feel like and what's sittin on my mind....I lose change, I lose dimes, I've gone insane, I lost my mind, I needa find my inner peace but that ***** is hard 2 find, I needa second, or uh minute a whole beat until it finish, wore my heart on my sleeve, just...
    souLcalibur souLcalibur 22-25, M Mar 9

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    I just broke up with my boyfriend less

    than an hour ago. I feel like relapsing, I want to die again. I just don't understand why everyone has to betray me? He refuses to excommunicate this girl that has been causing so much drama in our relationship. Then, I just found out he has a secret Instagram account with all...
    StrangeDisaster StrangeDisaster 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Loving someone who does not love you back is a

    constant, unbearable pain. It's so difficult, so tough to get by a day, sometimes an hour or a moment. It's so much difficult at times to let go of the past and move on. When you look back and realize what have you done, what a big mistake you have done, how coward you were that...
    nobodyn234 nobodyn234 26-30, M Feb 13

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    I had a thing with a guy

    who is my ex.. But this year we aren't dating I thought we were good Last week he told a girl he loved her and waited a year for her and I talked to him an didn't tell him directly but I told him I'm sick of being played and we should stay friends This ended in a bad note and...
    Tiifo Tiifo 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Heart Broken And Lonely

    So my girl dumped me 3 months ago and the 1st of september was meant to be the best day of my life. The holiday was booked to florida and now its over. Instead I spend this weekend lonely and depressed with no friends not knowing how to get my life back together. The pursuit of...
    jake3250 jake3250 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    It's hard living without the one person you

    lived for. It hurts to breathe knowing you're no longer in my life. I love you so hard and you push me away. I can tell you still love me. So why are you fighting?
    Kidlowe113 Kidlowe113 18-21, F May 22

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    My ex broke my heart,

    I can't seem to get over her. It's like I can't do anything any more I'm really really anxious it gets hard for me to breathe and my heart beats so fast. She told me that she wanted space to see if she actually wanted to be with me...then she went a slept with another guy and...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 26

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    So last year i got my first boyfriend

    and things were going amazing he always texted me and he would make me lots of food and sweets but then one day after this cotillion (eww ikr) he started acting all different we weren't paired together we were paired with different people and that didn't bother me... what...
    Iamdangerousok Iamdangerousok 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    Emotional Amnesia

    It’s been 4 days since I’ve slept proper.. 4 days since he broke my heart.. .. 2 days since I’ve cut off all contact. Pain.. it keeps hitting me in waves. Its like I’m suffering from (or forcing) emotional amnesia. I force myself to block things out, but the little...
    Jan 13, 2013

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    I loved a man for ten years gave him my all

    but yet it never seemed good enough. We have 3 wonderful blessings (our sons) that we will always share. Yet he won't be faithful or honest and I feel as if he had never loved me.
    Sweetheart24 Sweetheart24 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    I lost my V card to one of my guy friends

    and although at the time it was just for fun, he stopped talking to me and is just acting indifferent and rude. I fell in love and im just screwed and broken, I cant help but feel like i was used but somehow I just want to be next to him... How can I stop this pain?
    Dragonfly82 Dragonfly82 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 14

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    Cuz im happy on the outside Waiting

    for it to kick inside My facebook paints the prettiest picture I’m beautiful and sexy and smart and all together But inside my heart is breaking Yet again The guys I make love with Think Im just their temporary girlfriend Not worthy of the actual title And I took it for as...
    bphi138 bphi138 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    Always the Friend

    You know all those movies about teenagers who are best friends, and think of each other as brother and sister and the guy has a girl friend, or girl has a boyfriend. Then theres a huge dilemma with miscommunication and lies, and then they finally end up falling...
    justaprettyface justaprettyface 16-17 10 Responses Feb 8, 2009

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    I'm not suffering heartbreak from a boyfriend

    but from my dad. No one will understand. I haven't seen him in 7 years he didn't want anything to do with me. In fact he still doesn't. We were suppose to have family pictures but he came. But I didn't see him he only took a couple photos then he left and it hurts knowing he...
    Thatgirl8654 Thatgirl8654 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    The Loss Of Common Sense

    And again, the misery comes back because I lose hold of my sanity, lose hold of what my mind tells me to do. My heart is so fragile right now, but it pounds at the sight of his words. And then we talk, have a wonderful conversation, and I expect that it will last that way...
    heavenlymissy heavenlymissy 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2013

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    It's been two weeks since I've heard your voice.

    It's been longer since I've seen you. You would think I would be used to it but the truth is it gets harder everyday. Who tells someone they love them in the same sentence as breaking up with them? I keep expecting you to tell me it was a mistake and come back.. But this is real...
    RBH101 RBH101 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    athleticnerd athleticnerd 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I did the worse possible thing I can do

    and now I'm living with the consequences. I left the love of my life for what seem to be a good time with another girl. While messing around with this other girl my ex now was constantly trying to make me open my eyes and willing to take me back Now that I finally opened my...
    stayingstrong12 stayingstrong12 22-25, F May 14

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    We've been dating for almost a year,

    he was my Dominant (Partner in control), my boyfriend and I hoped for so much more. But I have been hurt so many times, I was feeling alone. I said, "I feel like I am losing you.." He said, "Maybe we should forget this, stop while we are ahead and save our hearts. Just know you...
    xNeverForgetx xNeverForgetx 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    Trying To Move On....afraid Of Getting Too Close Too Fast

    So...it's been a month since the breakup. I'm moving on and trying to heal....I think I'm about 80%. The bad thing for me is that even though I know that he was not the right person for me...I still want to hope he would change and we could make it work. It's very irrational...
    ziva1006 ziva1006 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I have had the same boyfriend

    for five years I left him for three months because I needed a break to focus on school. He would hit me up everyday begging for me to take him back and he was sorry for treating me badly. After three months I gave in and took him back. Everything was going well until I found out...
    nessa213191 nessa213191 22-25, F May 30

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    My Husband Has Left Me For His Ex Wife.

    I feel as if I am in a bad episode of Jerry Springer. The man I loved and adored, who wrote the most beautiful wedding vows when we married, the man who didn't get along and believed he had been wounded and cheated by his second ex wife, left me for her. He remet her at her niece...
    elizablue elizablue 46-50, F 10 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    Heartless And Alone

    I am a 35 year old female and I have only been in one relationship my entire life. I ended that relationship in 2001-2002 due to verbal and mental abuse. Since then, I have always been single. Throughtout the time I've been single, I have met three guys but it never turned into a...
    anewme35 anewme35 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    God I get so emotional about you.

    This never happened before. I shouldnt like you ..but I ******* do You are the boy that makes me confused with my emotions You make my chest ache, fill my stomach with butterflies and body yearn for you YOU ARE THAT ******* BOY The boy with blue eyes and the user name that has...
    fire100lilly fire100lilly 18-21, F Jan 3

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    How can i even move on.

    .. I don't know what to do and i feel lost.
    SKI9 SKI9 18-21, F 1 Response May 31

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    He Finally Emailed Me

    So here I am confuse and mostly heartbroken. Yesterday my former fiancé emailed me saying how he remembered yesterday because a year ago I went through something that marked our relationship...he just wanted to let me know how strong and resilience I was that day. He hasn't...
    carla788 carla788 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    I Have Broken My Own Heart

    At first, I used to think that I wasn't worthy of being loved, let alone liked by men. You know, the whole notion that men are out to get me, or that all men are the same. I was insecure; I felt worthless and far from confident. In retrospect, I've done things that might have...
    TrulyMadlyDeeplyDo TrulyMadlyDeeplyDo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2013

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    So this boy. We dated

    for quite awhile. On and off. We had so many great memories. Good times and bad. I'm very young, I know. But I'm positive I really loved him. There was always one of my friends who would try to split us up. And sometimes we did. But we'd get back together and be even stronger. I...
    glowiththeflow glowiththeflow 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    It hurts ..I try to dim the pain.

    .but every though of her ..every kiss ..every embrace haunts me ..regret engulfs my thoughts while despair does the same to my days ..What's the point of having a heart if it causes you such pain ? I live like prometheus but instead of my liver my heart takes the constant savage...
    Baidz Baidz 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    I Am Suffering!

    i'm starting to believe that i'm really a very unfortunate girl in love. i've been having bad experiences in a row. well, i dated a guy, the break up was nasty, cause he caused it that way...i lose weight, got under a big depression but i recovered. although of course i feel more...
    Maharaz Maharaz 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    I am looking at your picture with a heart ache.

    I can't believe I lost you. I can't believe how stupid and coward I am. Its been 6 months now since I last saw you. Meeting you was the only thing kept me breathing, waiting to see you even for few hours even in few months were the only thing that kept me going.... I wonder how...
    nobodyn234 nobodyn234 26-30, M 1 Response May 20

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    Wrong Choice

    I usually walk my dog at the same park everyday and I used to see this muslim guy that I found quiet attractive. We started talking and we kind of got into a relationship. We really never talk about it being serious and we certainly had fun together. He is a nice person and I...
    Lancsgirl Lancsgirl 26-30, F Jun 18, 2012

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    The Healing Continues

    It's been seven weeks since she changed her mind and I drove down that highway leading me home and away from her. Three weeks since I made the decision to find a way to just get over or past it. Although I'm doing good there are times a thought will pass through my mind or...
    oldfarmguy oldfarmguy 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    I will try to give the Sparknotes version,

    but this is my story. I met my ex in November of 2013, right before Thanksgiving. It was one of those cliche "love at first sight" moments. A week later we were dating. He was older and had experienced a lot of terrible things as a sniper in the Army when the war was really...
    mbk13 mbk13 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    When You Love Someone....

    You want to do everything for them. You want them to be happy no matter what. I think about him constantly. I haven't seen him in 8 days. I crave him, I want to touch him, I want to smell him. The last time I saw him I studied his face, I tried to memorize every line, every...
    blondiej blondiej 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    After a break up, when a girl deletes you off

    of every single social networking site and disappears what does that mean?
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Something In The Way

    I'm brought back to a time where I felt as if nobody in the world cared, where I felt like I was just a shadow and nobody could really see me. Constantly rejected, ignored, tossed aside, and forgotten about. I am a shadow. A nobody. A nothing. I loved her. I still do. She has...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 2, 2011

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    My ex girlfriend said she wanted me back

    and missed me. I thought she was telling the truth and we decided to try again. We were good for a few days but then she decides to get back with her ex who is my cousin. She said we had to be put on hold because she still loves him. Idk if this is my fault for doing this to...
    zairethedon zairethedon 13-15, M Feb 17

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    I Am Suffering From Heartbreak

    I'm so sad, i'm feeling like i don't value .. like i can't find my happiness in this world, anyway, my story is a beautiful one and i wanna share with you because i need to hear opinions from people with experience.. i need help, but first i want to apologize for my bad english...
    ANDARYELLUPO ANDARYELLUPO 18-21, F Dec 5, 2013

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    He may still love you.

    He probably does. He probably doesn't know what he wants. He probably still thinks about you all the time. But that isn't what matters. What matters is what he's doing about it, and what he's doing is nothing. And if he's doing nothing, you most certainly shouldn't do anything...
    yvetteee yvetteee 13-15, F May 3

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    I Miss You...

    Tonight was one of those nights...that i thought about you. Thought about the wonderful times we had together and not the bad ones...the ones that ended this relationship. I miss you so much. I wish every day for your return to me. But i know it will never happen. How can i wrap...
    carla788 carla788 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    Many Heartbreaks

    Doubt there is a person alive that hasn't suffered from heartbreak. Some more, some less. Heartbreaks over the years caused me to build walls of defense. I hid myself behind those walls. Allowed no one for many years to even peek inside my walls. I found what I enjoyed doing...
    oldfarmguy oldfarmguy 56-60, M 5 Responses May 30, 2012

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    I dont know what to do anymore.

    I feel so helpless. The one person i go to for everything has just ruined my world...
    ashashleigh ashashleigh 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 14

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    I Lost The Love Of My Life

    Jamie and I dated many years ago when we were in High School and for a few months after, when we broke up Jamie decided to move to CA(were both from PA). I thought about him often over the years and wondered how he was doing.We finally hooked up on another site in 2009 and it was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 15, 2011

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    I wished he missed me.

    I can't change that I guess. I'm nothing.
    AmericanPie91 AmericanPie91 22-25, F Mar 31

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    Was Loving Me So Hard?

    It wasn't about who's right or who's wrong ,who's weaker or who's strong, who's innocent or who's at fault It's really not about that kinda thing at all It's not about who does it or done it or did it to who Don't matter if the both of us lose It really wasn't about anything...
    ncebie ncebie 18-21 Oct 5, 2013

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    I Really Need To Be Able To Talk About This Situation With My Ex, But I Can'T Tell Anyone In My Life.

    The last story I posted explaining whats going on with my ex boyfriend and I is tearing me apart. I don't sleep anymore and I hardly eat. I know it not be this difficult forever, but right now my world is turned upside down. I am in desperate need of ways to help me cope and move...
    stolenlove stolenlove 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    I'm Tired Of Being Heartbroken All The Time.

    Story of my life. Meet a girl, she likes you more than you do at first, you start to like her more and more and then BAM something happens and you end up heartbroken. I could probably write a book with all the heartbreak I've been through. One, two, three, four, five, six girls...
    avrimari avrimari 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2012

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    I believe that i met my soulmate

    when i was 25 years old. We fell in love,had a passionate, intense relationship for 16 years.He treated me like his queen,and fulfilled every little desire of mine. But just as we had our ups, we had our downs as well. Our relationship was abusive, painful and torturous at times...
    bkapur bkapur 41-45, F May 13

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    I have never hated someone

    as much as my ex, although i loved him so much. All i think of is taking revenge. Its like all the love just turned to hate. I wna hurt him just as much as he hurt me. I want him to feel pain. This feeling gets so intense that i just end up crying. I need to move on and i cant...
    Cindirilli Cindirilli 22-25, F Apr 22

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    I loved a woman. Her name was Gina.

    ..a gorgeous, Italian from NY! And she has the most sensual accent ever! Ah! :( We were the perfect soul mates! She was everything I wanted in a woman...smart, quirky, funny, silly, a mess like me, femme, mature, and with chemistry like magic! We were practically twins! Only...
    closetcasecat closetcasecat 18-21, F Apr 10

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    Upon realizing my feelings,

    the more I can feel my heart aches. I just want to run away and then hopefully someone new come along the way and stop the aching. I didn't want to realize my feelings, but the realization hit me. My chest tightens the moment I think about her. I need to stop this feelings of...
    estles estles 18-21, F Mar 18

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