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I Am Surviving My Abusive Boyfriend

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    my boyfriend will call me names scream at me

    and threatened me that he will hit me. but sometimes he's so sweet to where it makes me feel like I deserve it and I can't get any better than him. I'm not sure what to do anymore if this is what I really deserve it if I can get out.
    LotusFlower994 LotusFlower994 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2015

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    I am Afraid of him now I don't feel like me

    or my family is safe around him . He threatened to beat me and my family up if I laid hands on him again .. It was my birthday all I wanted was to have dinner with my family spend some time with him until the concert at 7 but he flipped out he accused me of trying to exclude him...
    ForYouIWillWait ForYouIWillWait 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I Found A Reason To Hate Myself.. And The Reason Is You !

    Hi.. I'm Sandy ! I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend past 2 years. So yes it's hard to explain why I feel my boyfriend is abusive. But here's why I feel he is. He scares me. I'm so scared of him. I'm afraid to say something that might upset humans he himself...
    lonelysandygreen lonelysandygreen 22-25, F 3 Responses May 18, 2012

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