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I Am Surviving My Abusive Boyfriend

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    I Found A Reason To Hate Myself.. And The Reason Is You !

    Hi.. I'm Sandy ! I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend past 2 years. So yes it's hard to explain why I feel my boyfriend is abusive. But here's why I feel he is. He scares me. I'm so scared of him. I'm afraid to say something that might upset humans he himself...
    lonelysandygreen lonelysandygreen 22-25, F 3 Responses May 18, 2012

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    I'm sure this has been on here before but I'm new so…here I am asking for encouragement and stories of common experiences. I know he is abusive. Emotionally and occasionally...
    flugelbread flugelbread 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    My abusive boyfriend saved my live once, ironically. I overdosed, and the only thing that made me want to get up when I was too weak to move (too dehydrated/almost dead), was that...
    pikapower06 pikapower06 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    my mum and no one around me can see me surviving or positive or successful because it goes against their beliefs. how disgusting that your whole life is based off of someones pain...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F Jan 21

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    I really thought my boyfriend was different but i guess we all do at one point. He started pushing me when he was upset which after the first tike promised he would never do again...
    tengomiedo tengomiedo 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    I love the fact that after I liked this topic, my ex made a post about how he never abused me.. Sweetheart, this definitely wasn't about you, you weren't my first boyfriend. But...
    LanniLette LanniLette 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    omg i cant take any of this anymore I am at my wits end. I actually joined this experience bc I wanted to get out of the totally unhealthy codependent controlling manipulating...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    This relationship ended quite a few months back but am still suffering psychological issues even to this day. In 2011 I met a man online (I know, bad move) named daniel. He was...
    beeonka1 beeonka1 18-21, F Jan 17

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    I am so glad that my boyfriend and I have the great relationship that we have. I never have to worry about him straying to other girls especially sneaking around or lying. I never...
    yanene yanene 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    A few months ago, I completely cut off my ex. We had a long and complicated history that involved a lot of emotional and verbal abuse. On his part, a lot of it was underhanded and...
    MDubs MDubs 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    Things began normally. We were together a short while before his eating disorder became an issue. He would tell me in detail about his purges. I was so dependent on him I became a...
    gothstan gothstan 16-17, M 5 Responses Jan 2

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    I am not in an abusive relationship - I was in a verbal and emotionally abusive relationship but I chose to bring it to an end. Life moved on, I met someone else and Well here it...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M Jan 1

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    I'm currently dating a guy who seemed to be "perfect" when we first got together. We've literally only been together for only two and a half months but it seems like years. About...
    giants92 giants92 22-25, F Jan 2

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    And I feel absolutely amazing!! I was with him for a long time, 4 and a half years to be exact, but it was a very abusive relationship and I was afraid to leave him, I thought that...
    Majin1712 Majin1712 22-25, F 20 Responses Jan 4

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    I feel really bad and guilty right now because my ex-boyfriend is dating someone who's only 16, and from what I've seen of her posts online (I'm still friends with her but not him...
    luna1912 luna1912 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Everyone at works asking how come my eyes are so swollen.... I say it beacuse I slept wrong or I haven't slept enough but really what happen was I was up crying all night about a...
    Carlina1 Carlina1 18-21, F Jan 17

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    We've been dating going on 3 years and last year was a real emotional train wreck for me. My family at one point was physically abusive to me and it progressed into emotional abuse...
    sandragee333 sandragee333 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Leave!!! that's all I can say, no matter is it a friend, mother, father, boyfriend... anyone.. leave.. while you can!!!
    1993atnomkal 1993atnomkal 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My husband has been smoking pot all his life but now that he's retired and working from home, it's truly horrible for me. The apathy and indifference is way too hard to cope with...
    airybelle airybelle 46-50, F a week ago

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    I can't take it anymore my crazy abusive mother is calling me about every 30 mins to an hour all through the night on the phone trying to terrorize me. I eventually quit answering...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I recently got out of a relationship...reason because he left to Miami for a couple of days and when he came back he was starting to be abusive and he would get mad with every...
    soccerislife14 soccerislife14 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    It started three years ago. He was perfect, the sweetest. Then came our two year anniversary and downhill our relationship went. He hit me every chance he got, it got harder and...
    ImperialGoddess76 ImperialGoddess76 18-21, F 13 Responses Jan 1

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    I have been in an abusive situation for the last thirty years. Mental torture and psychological abuse are heaped on me relentlessly by someone who is famous, rich, addicted and...
    GettingOutOfThere GettingOutOfThere 61-65, F Jan 2

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    My husband was always abusive, always self centered, always loved. It wasn't until he decided to get his attention elsewhere that I decided to look at him for who he is. Now I'm...
    leigh8133 leigh8133 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    About 5-6 years ago I was in a very abusive relationship with a man. He and I met on a dating website and met the same day. He lived in my city. When we met, he was told I was...
    Happywife2015 Happywife2015 36-40, F Jan 11

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    Reading everyone's experiences on here is truily heartbreaking ... I've never been in an abusive relationship, but my mom is married to a man who treats her horribly he also treats...
    ggujmbgukm ggujmbgukm 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I have been married to my husband for ten years, he was diagnosed about five years ago as bipolar but refuses to get help. He is very verbally abusive and I cannot take it any...
    greengeenie greengeenie 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 11

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    I can't WAIT until I can say 'I have left my abusive family' and done it on my own. I cannot WAIT. I CAN'T WAIT. That makes me so happy that I even have SOMETHING to look forward...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    I'm warning you now that my experience is a book... I'm sharing because I want those who may be going through this right now to know that only one thing will make the relationship...
    DaylightDancer DaylightDancer 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    An open letter to my abusive husband: To a man I know no longer: It's been three weeks since I walked out the door. Three years. and then...nothing. I still remember so vividly...
    emorgan11891 emorgan11891 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    I have a LOT to reveal about my relationship with my long distance boyfriend. I need ADVICE!!! So if you can, please read this. Thank you for your time. My boyfriend gave me the...
    kamilleredd kamilleredd 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    Hey everyone, i want to share my experience and need some advice, but i cant tell it to my friends or family since i promised to my boyfriend, so I found this site and decide to...
    DanielleMiranda DanielleMiranda 22-25, F Jan 22

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    My boyfriend is so important to me. I just love him so much. I wanna share a short story; in May 2014 I went to Sydney to try and work in the film industry, when I left I caught...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I have been feeling like I don't get enough attention from my boyfriend. We have been through a lot. Long story short, he cheated on me, I found out from the other girl who was...
    Kristaaaaaaaaaaaa Kristaaaaaaaaaaaa 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years got 3 girls together, we used to have so much fun together but as life when on we was always rowing over anything and everything, I was...
    Willow0909 Willow0909 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    I just was told my boyfriend isn't my boyfriend by the boyfriend!!! I apparently have been in a cyber chamber asleep for a thousand years. Duh. Clarity demands a rewrite of my...
    askmeplease askmeplease 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I hate - hate hate hate - I can't stress to you enough about how much I just hate his father. I have pure hatred for that person. I don't even say "man" - because he is not a man...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    I think some girls just don't know their limits and have the lines drawn clearly. In psychology, you are deemed with the insecure trait, not the girlfriends who do get jealous...
    oneplusonetwo oneplusonetwo 22-25, F Jan 14

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    okay where do I start. well my now boyfriend and best friend of thirteen years is in jail. we started while he was in jail. he's been in there for 3 years already and he has two...
    britbell00 britbell00 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I don't know. I've just reached this time in life when I really need boyfriend. im lonely and bored to death all the time and crave affection. I just really want a boyfriend
    EnjoyTheSilenceX EnjoyTheSilenceX 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    Me and my boyfriend face time everyday. Every time I mention having my own time for myself, he gets mad at me. I am a blunt girl and I don't sugar coat anything so he finds what I...
    Dearbriannah Dearbriannah 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    My story is same as most. But I wouldn't say I'm jealous of my boyfriend's daughter, it's the 'firsts' and mother of his daughter I'm pissed off about. They were never really...
    kxxym kxxym 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I am 20 and I have never had a boyfriend. I just had my first kiss a few months ago and it did not last very long. We were both drunk and have not talked about it since. I feel so...
    orangemc orangemc 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    We met in our sophomore year of high school. He would always try to talk to me but I was so shy that he would usually end up having a conversation with himself. I knew he liked me...
    belacleo belacleo 18-21, F Jan 9

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    i need a boyfriend that cares about me i had a few in my time (not a lot) but practically all but one didnt care so all i want is a boyfriend that loves me
    thurzdae thurzdae 13-15 2 Responses Jan 11

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