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I Am Surviving My Abusive Boyfriend

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    my boyfriend will call me names scream at me

    and threatened me that he will hit me. but sometimes he's so sweet to where it makes me feel like I deserve it and I can't get any better than him. I'm not sure what to do anymore if this is what I really deserve it if I can get out.
    LotusFlower994 LotusFlower994 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    I Found A Reason To Hate Myself.. And The Reason Is You !

    Hi.. I'm Sandy ! I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend past 2 years. So yes it's hard to explain why I feel my boyfriend is abusive. But here's why I feel he is. He scares me. I'm so scared of him. I'm afraid to say something that might upset humans he himself...
    lonelysandygreen lonelysandygreen 22-25, F 3 Responses May 18, 2012

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    Everything is your fault, mother. Don't you think that giving birth to a child at age of 44 is too old? Especially when you're applying these bronchioles ear machine because you're...
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    I just really need to vent. My boyfriend and I have only been dating 6 months but have known each other about a year. I knew he was on probation for some non violent drug and...
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    I am 22 and I was brainwashed into going to the local university which is okay ranked after being accepted into a much better school. My parents have brainwashed and controlled me...
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    I admit I am. I've been abusing my boyfriend for months now. I cant help it. I get a kick out of it and he actually takes it. The other day I slapped him across the face because he...
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    I had a monster for a boyfriend . Four long years that what i wasted on him. He used to beat me up, insult me. though these physical incidents were rare the mental abuse happened...
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    My boyfriend moved out yesterday. We have been together off and on for 8 years. The abuse was subtle at first, a shove, twisting my arm, but over time it got bad. He hurt a member...
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    I was in a abusive relationship for a year,Its crazy how much I've been through and its sad to say I've never hate someone so much on my life,he humiliated me in from if his family...
    lovesocrazy lovesocrazy 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Before Christmas I started seeing someone. My abusive ex found out and begged me to take him back. I did. Nothing changed other that the physical abuse stopped and he turned up the...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    giggles1469 giggles1469 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I still have flashbacks every once in awhile, and have nightmares. I'm just so sick of people treating me like I'm fragile, because I'm not. I got out of the abusive relationship...
    untamedx3heart untamedx3heart 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I dont know but I miss one of my abusive ex's hes been there for me when no one has been and he makes me happy. But i'm afraid he'll abuse me again like he did in the past? help? i...
    Unknowngirl2015 Unknowngirl2015 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Welp i've been in a abusive relationship for about a year now, but the hitting started about 7 months ago, it wasn't as bad at first- but now its gotten to the point where every...
    itsjustlifex itsjustlifex 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 31

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    I simply had a very busy week and therefore could not come online very often. As a result I was sent a string of abusive messages from someone that I met just a few weeks ago! No...
    tash73 tash73 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 9

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    Now days we can't share something without because attacked by Abusive people. I thought E.P. site was a support group. Now I found E.P. is like hell because they have a lot of...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I've been in both physically and emotionally abusive types of relationships. It's been a crazy road but I think I've finally found a place where I know my worth and that I can do...
    thepooloftears thepooloftears 26-30 5 Responses Apr 10

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    I grew up with an acholoic/abusive father never felt like I got the childhood I deserved.
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    Poor pup fighting for the return of her bed from her abusive insensitive master https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B6LQ70Lbxgo
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    I tried to add experience about my abusive relationship to share because I wanted to share. It got rejected because it violated the rules. :( Now I'm sad and I emailed them. Idk...
    InsertHopeHere InsertHopeHere 18-21, F Apr 13

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    My BF can be very abusive, emototinal and other ways. Love to meet others like me, that some reason stay, or maybe talk to a guy like him to get his point of view. thanks
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    NotPerfectMom NotPerfectMom 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    FAITH. Love. Hope. Peace. The only way that I survive the last several years. It's difficult for me to admit that I am emotionally abused. I often wonder if it is all in my head...
    Seasongal Seasongal 13-15 1 day ago

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    Chuggington Chuggington 31-35 Apr 6

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