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I Am Suspicious When People Are Nice to Me

for people who are bullied and ignored - and are suspicious when people start being nice to you 27 People

    Its To Weird

    I'm not use to people being nice to me. The only time they are is when they want something or they using me as there friend for alittle. So i cant help but be suspicious of people.
    eyeslikestars eyeslikestars 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    It's That Side Of Me That Is Used To Being Bullied

    I just assume right away that I should be expecting a punch line after a sweet word or compliment and become surprised when I don't get it. *Shrugs*
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F Jan 31, 2012

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