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I Am the Black Sheep of the Family

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    This is something I feel is eating me alive,

    it is something that most people would think I'm crazy or something. And I might be, but this is has put me in a state of mind, that has me questioning myself. My Mama passed away and about a month before , we had a misunderstanding , it wasn't the first time. Any way, one of my...
    Hellogran Hellogran 61-65, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    Very Different Beliefs

    My beliefs are very different from the rest of my family. They are all still very much asleep to what is going on around them.  They still very much have trust in our American government and believe in the war on terror.  More that once it has caused considerable friction when...
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    Holmesdown Holmesdown 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    Light Bright

    I've always felt like the black sheep of my family.. everyone treated me differently from my sister.. i only have one sister and no brothers.. my sister n i have different dads and she's dark skin like my mom and i'm really light. everyone in my family is dark skin.. all but my...
    Channelle1985 Channelle1985 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    The Wild Side

    Aunt Bea was a black sheep.  When anyone refers to Aunt Bea, it's always with the suffix "she was wild, you know."  Aunt Bea died tragically when she was quite young, only 32.  She was trying to maneuver her big old "new" car (1950 something) back onto the highway when it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    I'm Actually The Black Sheep

    I'm mixed my dad's side of the family is white (Spanish and Italian) and I'm the darkest out of them. I see right through the BS of their lies to try to keep the family together but they always exclude me in everything. They want peace but that will never happen because they...
    hmorel67 hmorel67 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 1, 2012

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    For the most part they tolerate me.

    Don't call on me unless they need something. I have the least amount of money in the bank (so they think) my niece rents from me and is now 4 months behind.I am retired military and own 5 houses 3 of those out right. not married and work a few part time jobs
    mrmarine mrmarine 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Baa Baa

    Okay.  Black sheep because I dated a guy when I was in high school my folks didn't like.  Black sheep because I quit college to get a job and (gasp) an apartment.  Black sheep disguised for 25 years when I became a good girl and born again Christian.  Then got wet somehow and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 22, 2010

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    Not Wanted

    As a child I always wanted the love of my parents, but could never understand what was wrong.  By age 7 after a sever beating, and thrown outside, I remember that I prayed to to God and asked him to take me away from this horrible life.  When I was...
    cme4297 cme4297 41-45 18 Responses Jun 28, 2010

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    my family is stuck in it's old ways.

    I can say I only really like to talk to one person in my family cause ever one else is such a hypocrite. everyone in my family was brought up as a Christian, I rejected that **** at 13. they weren't about to pull me into that. I love to draw and I'm fascinated by Japanese...
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Im An Outcast

    Yes, I am a black sheep. I more of an outcast. At home, its just me, my mom, and my kitty. But I have an annoying family; cousins, uncles, aunts. Im one of the youngest. Acutally to be exact the 2nd youngest. But my little cousin fits in more with my older cousins then I do! ...
    theworldislove theworldislove 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    So after a two month visit with the family,

    I've come to realize that I was better off without them. I don't mean it in a way that I don't need them in my life. I love my family. They are always there for me. I'm just glad to be back in Texas. I'm in my comfort zone. Though it sucks to be a thousand miles away from them...
    vanessamoomoo vanessamoomoo 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    I have no real career,

    I'm miles below the poverty line, I am outspoken about what I believe or don't believe in, and live a completely different life than the rest of the family. It used to cause me personal pain and stress, but now I don't give a damn because despite the hardships, I'm doing okay...
    CinimonGypsy CinimonGypsy 41-45 1 Response Nov 9

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    I am the black sheep of my family I hate it

    so much I feel like my family hates me
    nadirah96 nadirah96 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    Well I look the most different.

    Most my family are blonde and have light eyes. I'm the only dark haired and slightly tanned. Perks of being mixed race I guess. I think I'm the most patient and considerate. My brothers and mum are straight forward and frankly don't give a **** what others think of them. I do...
    leaaaaaa leaaaaaa 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I'm not the black sheep,

    I'm the tye-dyed one.
    throughthedoorway throughthedoorway 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    this may sound kinda weird

    if any of u can understand where I'm coming from or trying to say. before I was convinced into my mother I already new who was going to be my mother and father. I asked and begged Jesus to not let me be convicted through her. he told me it was my destiny to be the child he...
    jojom543 jojom543 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 14

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    And the rest of those ******* sheep arent

    as snowy white as they think they are more of a dingy grey.
    jennaveivea jennaveivea 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    But I Am Starting to Fit In a Little Better.

    Mostly because I was really the only child to dare to be me. I did what I wanted, when I wanted and didn't care about my families approval. I still am very true to myself but having grown up a lot my behavior isn't as offensive.
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 2 Responses May 30, 2007

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    I am definitely the black sheep of my family.

    I am the youngest of 3 children, I am 23 but most of the time I feel like I'm still 13 again and still invisible. I've battled with depression and anxiety for a long time, something that my family don't understand or even try to. I have tried to talk about it in the past, but...
    rebecca991 rebecca991 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    I'm starting to hate everyone

    that I'm around and I know it's not healthy
    pyr0maniac23 pyr0maniac23 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 30

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    Outcast

    I have a big family, but speak to no one in it. I have four parents, in two different cities and am close with no one. There have been many life-changing events in my years, and I have had to cut off my relations with them to save myself so much grief, guilt, shame and pain. I...
    Cinderelly Cinderelly 36-40, F 11 Responses Oct 1, 2007

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    I wore a short dress

    and high heels once, because it was my b-day. I hugged my guests, i danced, just danced. I had fun. My dad had to talk about the party, and he said to me, i've proved to him that he failed as a parent. that i was acting like a ho, that i'm a failure, and i'll be one in life. I...
    isabel6 isabel6 18-21, F 84 Responses Apr 16

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    I wish life was different.

    I'm having huge fights right now with my family, because they just don't understand me at all. My parents are disappointed because I don't earn more money. The silliest thing is, that I have before, and I easily can again. It isn't really difficult. It just takes a little...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Kate Sparrow

    Of bohemian quality, Kate is master of her own fate.  She is willing to shoot to kill ("otherwise there is no point in showing your pistol," says she.  She has yet the need to shoot anyone, btw, but recommend you don't test it).   She chooses her men carefully, they must...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    Every Family Has One

    Tattoos, piercings and aspirations of a hippie like future. Not something my family encourages or understands. My mom is a catholic woman, very traditional in her ways. Dad is a business man. Sister is in school for commerce. The whole family is pretty stepfordy. Anything bad...
    Kippy214 Kippy214 16-17, F Jul 23, 2012

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    I really am. I'm so different compared to the

    rest of my family. For instance, I enjoy golf and tennis, but my family would rather do neither. I love art and galleries; my family could do without these. I adore old, clean, kind music (like Doris Day, or Percy Faith), but they don't care for that at all. I like being formal...
    7Questions 7Questions 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 29

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    My family has disowned me.

    After doing everything I can to be the best, it was never enough. I have a 3.18 GPA, 21 ACT score, Captain of the Marching Band, President of Guitar club, social outcast among my peers and worst of all I am never good enough for my parents. I am tired of trying to love them...
    jaycampos5423 jaycampos5423 16-17, M Aug 17

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    I am the middle child

    and only girl in the family. No matter what i do or didn't do, i'm always blamed for. I always feel that i'm not fit in the family and i'm always in the wrong. Sometimes i feel like i'm adopted.
    mxnzyy mxnzyy 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    I Am The Black Sheep In My Family

    I lived with my mom till I turned 18. I dont understand why she treated (I havent spoke to her in 2 yrs) me like I was a failure. I never got in trouble with the law, I can hold a job, I went 7yrs at same job. I know Im not perfect but there was no reason for her to treat me that...
    BrokenWithin BrokenWithin 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    The Accidental Pregnancy..

    Yup, I was a huge accident and my parents made sure that I knew. When I was 12 my mother actually told me the truth about everything, I was way too young to have to hear what she said i wish that she would have protected me from that instead of telling me it. When my father found...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    No one here in this family gets me,

    I'm tired of being the black sheep of my family. I'm so tired of being picked on, or the reason why all the bad things happen and most of all they turned me into physic man right after they found out it's so easy to make me feel bad by letting me to be the black sheep. People do...
    imanonwriter imanonwriter 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Unlike my loud, rambunctious family,

    I'm very reserved. Rarely am I ever loud or rambunctious like them. However, while my family is open, I'm more open minded than them. So really, we're almost like opposites.
    SimplyZero SimplyZero 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    My family hates who I am.

    Hates my personality. It is so hard having your own personality rejected. Especially by my own family. I just want someone to hug me and say I Love You
    jigglykangeroo jigglykangeroo 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    To start off, I am the most physically

    different from my family, which already separates me. Naturally blonde and tan, the rest of them are brunette and white. I am judged everyday by them. The music I like, what I wear, what I want in life, they all despise it. They are cold weather and sweaters kind of people. I am...
    MerleMyLove97 MerleMyLove97 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    Basically my whole immediate family is one big

    fat black sheep, but I'm probably the worst because I'm anti social and gay. No one knows about that last one but I'm sure it's not hard to see. I HATE family gatherings. I don't know the best way to get through them.
    Atadbitfabulous Atadbitfabulous 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    From a family of studs

    that are good at everything they do, NOT FAIR!!! Seriously I need some of that good DNA
    joelle10 joelle10 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 4

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    I am number 6 of 8 kids,

    I'm 27 years old and my 2 younger brothers are engaged. There are many times that I feel that they all judge me because I haven't married or had kids or lived their way of life. My older siblings are all married with kids. I've been next in line to get married for 8 years, and...
    pancake87 pancake87 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 20

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    I really don't know how to say this.

    Except I think some thing is wrong with my head. It has been a couple of weeks since I wrote anything on here. It has been horrible, I feel like jumping off a cliff. I can not shake this feeling or feelings I'm having. I feel like I'm all alone with no one to talk to about my...
    Hellogran Hellogran 61-65, F Jun 30

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    My entire family has always been extremely

    academically successful. I consider myself an intelligent person, but I just had no interest in academics. I was always much more of a practitioner and free spirit. While they attended ivy league schools I simply went to a cheaper school got a degree and went off into the...
    DrunkGiraffe DrunkGiraffe 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6

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    Mother In Law

    She loved me and hated me for the same reason--I married her son.  Oh, the abuse I put up with!  Very subtle.  A mutual acquaintance in college told me, "He's not normal, they share a checking account!"  When he dashed off to medical school graduation weekend, I had a party...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    I am definitely the black sheep of my family,

    I stick out like a sore thumb. I don't know why or how I got to be so different from my family, but it has become rather strenuous on my relationship with them. We disagree on almost everything, we're almost polar opposites. My entire family is Mormon, I am an Atheist. My whole...
    DrKittyNinjaBunny DrKittyNinjaBunny 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    Yup, I'm The Odd One.

    Family of rednecks, almost all of them live within 100 miles of where they grew up. Not much of a care for education or intellect or respect for the law. Not bad people, mind you but I don't fit it, not anymore. I like microbrews and wine, fine coffee and intellectual...
    lmtnmn lmtnmn 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    Not Just Family

    I'm more than the black sheep in my family! I'm the black sheep of society. The reason why you ask? Because I'm not a sheep at all. It's all of you that are the sheep! I am a wolf, and the world is a buffet for people like me. And guess what? The wolf is hungry.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    Im the black sheep of the family cause i took a

    whole different path. Most of my younger family members have colleague degrees wich i dont want. Most of my family has happy lives wich i cant have. I just want to live my life my way and i might be a little hard headed about many things and i may have gotten into all kinds of...
    ManFromEarth ManFromEarth 18-21, M Nov 14

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    Me: -finished highschool (Abitur)

    and now studying Literature at an University in Germany. - learned how to play the violin, viola and piano - went to many camps in the US or other language to improve my (bad) language skills - working at a well known lawyers office Family: -nobody finished School - low paid...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I am an introvert in a family of extraverts.

    I need my quiet alone time and being in a crowd drains me, whereas they all get their energy from being around other people. They don't understand why I don't always want to go out and meet people, and consider me "anti-social" because most nights I prefer to stay home with just...
    crochetedgirl crochetedgirl 22-25, F Sep 23

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    Lost Child

    I have come to the sad conclusion that being alone in this world is truly what I feel. After the Christmas I had, I have also realized that I have had enough. Trying to break through the family roles that have been in place, when it's not allowed, well it's downright lonely. I...
    Ndslc35 Ndslc35 41-45 14 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    In a family of strongly religious,

    closed minded, uneducated people, I am a lesbian attending college. I have two older brothers and three younger sisters. When I cam out of the closet I thought I would be disowned. Lucky for me, I am the favorite of my two older brothers. They fought for me and finally told my...
    CelestialFire CelestialFire 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 15

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    When I was a real girl my mother wove the words

    of college, knowledge, and skinny into my hair as she braided it. When I was a real girl I didn't care about how many calories were in my body, or binge. When I was a real girl I sang and dance like I was alone even when I wasn't. When I was a real girl, I knew what...
    BlondeGirlBunny BlondeGirlBunny 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    Yep, That's Me!

    As far as I've been able to determine there are no records in my family history of there being a hell raising, drug taking, alcoholic, rebellious, rabble rousing, wild adventurer such as myself in my lineage. I never saw my dad drink until I was 17 and...
    zillaron zillaron 51-55, M 5 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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