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I Am the Father of the Most Incredible Child

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    My Childhood

     Just a  bit about my childhood which was difficult but then not the worst. There was  constant physical punishment for things I  or my sister never did, brutal negative put downs, mostly from a tyranical father who was very religious. That was shoved...
    montarlot montarlot 61-65, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Thank You My Little Man

    My own childhood was rotten. I had two parents who had neither the patience nor the inclination to do right by myself, my brothers or my sister. I had 18 years of being belted, yelled at and belittled until I got the hell out of the family. The abuse continued for another few...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 19 Responses May 27, 2009

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    I'm not sure where else to turn... When little one was born her father decided he didn't want to be bothered. So I petitioned to take him to court to submit his DNA for a test...
    conflicted2012 conflicted2012 22-25 5 days ago

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    February 17 2000- Early on this morning,two police officers showed up at the club I was dancing at(don't judge me!) and ask "Are you the mother of J------ Martin-Zecharias?". That...
    CocoaBelle CocoaBelle 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Why are there so many fathers who just don't want to be fathers? There are way to many boys nowadays with no father figure and way too many single mothers that struggle because the...
    mum2only1 mum2only1 41-45 15 Responses May 13

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    Father keeps an important place in our life. Our father teaches us how we should survive in this world. Father makes us educated and tells us the reality of life. Father always...
    muslimboy123 muslimboy123 22-25, M 11 hrs ago

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    Are the anti-spankers right ? When we look at statistics and general debate in society, it seems clear that more and more people turn against spankings as a tool for parents to...
    LauChar LauChar 46-50, M 6 hrs ago

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    Mothers are the soul of our homes………whereas fathers are their very existence. But have we given much thought to the nature of this existence? Little is written or said about...
    valha11a valha11a 46-50, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Since I was 17 after finding out my father cheated on my mother I have yet to forgive my father for what he did to our family. This is not the only issue that has led me to resent...
    claribel8318 claribel8318 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Probably a slightly different story from the usual. I come from a family obsessed with image and showing that they are better than others pretty much. It is something that has...
    Jothic Jothic 22-25, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I'm torn, as I think sometimes fathers are important. I dream of the day I can cut my abusive SOB father out of my life for good. That would mean letting go of my mom and brother...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    What is the measure of a good father? Is it the toys he can buy? The rubber shoes from a thrift store? Tell lies about their mother? The few minutes he jokes with them, then leaves...
    Leeza1964 Leeza1964 46-50, M 1 Response May 17

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    I was an abused child growing up, all done by step-fathers. I don't hold anything against my mother, since she was mistreated along with me. My first step-father abused me and my...
    Sonicblu Sonicblu 41-45, M 2 Responses May 17

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    My daughter is the most important thing in my life.
    rekinky rekinky 41-45, M 2 hrs ago

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    I was just about to enter my building when I heard a child crying loudly and painfully. There was no turning away. I put down what I was carrying and walked in the direction of...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    What a terrible thing! Spanking children! Don´t you think? Children who are spanked grow up to become violent as adults, right? That is the politically correct view these days...
    Helle31 Helle31 31-35, F 6 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I am a victim- In 09 or 10 1996, my father left a certain German speaking country and travelled on Russian Passport to Moscow accompanied by his two toddlers. My older brother and...
    SteppeChild SteppeChild 18-21, F 3 Responses May 6

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    "Booksmart" "You don't use your brain" "Do not make decisions on your own anymore, ask me before you do anything" "F*** U" "Stupid" "Lazy" And that's not even half of it. I can...
    DearYou DearYou 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    It's funny just because I don't spank my girls most people don't seem to think I discipline them.
    cheekyhannah36 cheekyhannah36 36-40, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Starting child years instruction and mulling over is a particular self-control that is concerned with caring for and showing young people, considering their own needs and likings...
    proeducation02 proeducation02 22-25, F May 11

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    What I have to say is not ideal and likely stuns but it is truth. I am a father as all in this group. My sole child is a soon 21 year old daughter. She is a multilingual dual...
    BulgarMacedon72 BulgarMacedon72 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 25

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    Now that Singapore is Fatherless, I wish to appoint myself as the new father of Singapore from this day, to guide the future. In fact, no father of any nation was self-appointed...
    NewFatherofSG NewFatherofSG 46-50, M 1 Response May 16

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    I Admire both a man and a woman who are good mother and father. But unfortunately if the statistics that 90% of parents in this day and age continue to spank their kids. The good...
    Noelthemadhouse Noelthemadhouse 26-30, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    You know those moments when you just want to be rescued, to be taken out of the situation you've been put in? Everytime I feel I am getting somewhere in life, I come tumbling back...
    AmnesiaPlease AmnesiaPlease 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    The universe is like the ultimate father of all and God is the mother. We are the children in baby dens, the planets. We are already touched by the spirits of our parents from the...
    SpiritualStoner SpiritualStoner 16-17, M Apr 27

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    I will sum it up mostly since it's very long, but here it is: I was introduced to her when I visited my dad's family, she was the girl that lived up the road. I can't remember...
    Saravegan2 Saravegan2 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    Being a parent is challenging and difficult at times. Especially to 3.5 year old boisterous twins. I was having such a difficult afternoon with them yesterday. After trying so...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F May 14

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    I don't know if there is any Irish people here on experience project. I am hoping there is at least one or two that may know what to do after I explain what is going on in my life...
    naainaii naainaii 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Maybe you guys can help me sort out what's happening with my family. I'm not really sure if my father is narcissistic, or if he has some other problem, but I know that he...
    Cocoona Cocoona 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    Is this child abuse? Yesterday evening when my newly separated husband had come home, I had retreated to my room for a little while, just to try and de-stress and pick myself back...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 5 Responses May 14

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    While I would never dismiss the endless work of a single parent raising children, I truly admire the family that has a good father as its leader. The children and wife seem to be...
    bunnigirl bunnigirl 46-50, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It sucks because in my family there is the youngest and oldest, no middle because my mum only has two children. my sister is 10 years older than me, has two children, in other...
    taytay1401 taytay1401 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    Warning : A bit of a soft side coming out. I'm not gonna rush having a kid but one day, eventually, I want a child. I've never had a father figure but I know what NOT to do...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 6 Responses Apr 26

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    I am 17, and I am a victim of adult-child abuse. My parents dislike me, My father is violent, and a victim of emotional abuse himself. I am terrified of him, and can't talk to him...
    Aydelide Aydelide 26-30, M Apr 28

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    Over the last 10 months the children have blossomed after a bitter senseless custody battle was resolved. They are so much happier having their father in their lives, My step...
    stormmistress stormmistress 31-35, F May 3

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    I hate my father. He was a drug addict, and an abuser. He terrorized me, dragged me through poverty and hell, he ruined my credit (he stole my identity and put two evictions, a...
    rkmarco rkmarco 36-40, F 3 Responses May 8

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    I was molested for 10 years and raped for 13 now I'm 17 and I can't tell my counselor or the police or any friend about it because my mother threatened me for 16 years to not tell...
    JuanR JuanR 22-25, M 3 Responses May 8

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    I am a father myself. I grew up with a father who was present but wasn't there. As a result, i had trouble with my identity as a man. Got into the wrong crowd. Got into trouble. A...
    a1v1n25 a1v1n25 31-35, M 3 Responses May 14

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    When I was younger, my father would drink a lot. and normally with any person that drinks a lot have a certain characteristic about them... For him it was anger, out of control...
    zgirl694 zgirl694 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    My true story is a mix of choice and not by choice. From a young age everyone expected me to have a baby on my hip every chance I could . I was a late bloomer and held onto my...
    lovewillkeepus2gether lovewillkeepus2gether 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    I have never liked children, I find them to be loud and tedious. I have several opinions about various topics that people may not necessarily agree with but I've always been able...
    Popitart7 Popitart7 22-25, F 3 Responses May 6

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