I Am the Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Wife of a Police Officer

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    Just recently became the proud wife of a police

    officer. :) I'm so proud of him. I know the job is dangerous, I can only pray that he is safe and returns home to us.
    blankcanvas03 blankcanvas03
    22-25, F
    Mar 12, 2015

    Scared. Hopeful. Proud. Lost.

    My boyfriend just recently told me of his dream to be in law enforcement. I'm so proud of him and will do anything to support him, but I feel alone and scared. What will this path lead to? What kind of a person do I have to be in order to support him the best I can?
    sunshinengabriel sunshinengabriel
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2012

    I am the proud girlfriend of a wonderful

    Philadelphia police officer whom I have met online. We have been dating for 5 months now and he's been a police officer for almost 2 years now. We are long distance though which makes things quite difficult. I am in my last year of college and we made plans to move in...
    TheSteelAngel TheSteelAngel
    22-25, F
    Apr 8, 2015

    I recently made the decision to start dating my

    ex who is a Sheriff Investigator. Needless to say, I am proud, in love, lonely and scared all at the same time. We struggle with time, as we did before and there are other health related factors involved this time that weren't before (or weren't so prominent ). I love him dearly...
    MsDarling624 MsDarling624
    36-40, F
    Jan 15, 2015

    My boyfriend of 3 years has been a cop

    for Almost 5 months now and it is extremely difficult for me to adjust. We live together but I barely get to see him, and on his days off he usually gets called in for mandatory overtime. I love him to death and want to work things out but I am afraid that I will never be...
    harley1030 harley1030
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2015

    I am a girlfriend to a brand new,

    young police officer. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years and have plans to get engaged and married as soon as I finish school. He recently joined on as a police officer for a department and is only 21 and is the youngest on his force. He has only been...
    mdlc45 mdlc45
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 29, 2014

    Never Imagine It Would Be This Tough!!!

    I recently met my Boyfriend about 2 months ago (we both got out of long and serious relationships), he is now entering his 2nd year as a state police officer in a very rural area where I'm originally from, he on the other hand is not. He does however have fellow troopers who he...
    llawson33 llawson33
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2012

    Just some advice needed.

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months (not long I know). He's always lived about an hour away so I'm used to semi-long distance but we saw each other most weekends. He has recently started his police training (in the UK) and is exceptionally busy. We still speak...
    Hbarking87 Hbarking87
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 19, 2014

    I am a proud police wife.

    I love my husband insanely :) It isn't an easy lifestyle but I wouldn't change him for anything.
    ashleecakes ashleecakes
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2014

    My boyfriend has two months left in the police

    academy, and we have been dating for about a year. I know we are meant to be together. Everyone said he would change in the academy but i didn't believe it...until now. He used to be so happy, free spirited, funny, etc. Now he's just miserable all the time. I try my best to...
    kshor070 kshor070
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2014

    Me and my boyfriend have been together

    for a year and a half. He moved an hour away to begin the police academy 3 months into our relationship. We had our rough moments with the relationship due to the distance and stress but we made it through, despite my thoughts on it not working. He has been a CSO for 7 months...
    Levi8a Levi8a
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2015

    I recently met A federal Police officer online.

    I find his ambition attractive especially when he is pursuing a degree. I am also a full-time student and an employee, these duties are time consuming individually. It's been about two months and I have seen him 3 times due to his schedule. I don't have a strong connection with...
    cocoacoils cocoacoils
    22-25, F
    Dec 14, 2014

    New To Me

    Dating a police officer. Not sure if I can handle it. Feeling insecure. Please help
    tawnyglo33 tawnyglo33
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 7, 2013

    I Am A Girlfriend Of A Police Officer

    I am 19 years old and also a college student, and I have been with my boyfriend for two years, he recently joined the force and its really been tough adjusting to it, but I love him so much and miss him sometimes but we really value our time together.
    jbkbrown jbkbrown
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 10, 2009

    Losing Him...

    I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I met him just after he graduated the academy and we spent too many months searching for a job. I had been with a cop in the past and although I appreciate and respect them for what they give, I didn't want to go through it again. I met...
    MyTMouse MyTMouse
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2012

    today really opened my eyes .

    .. my bf and i have not been able to spend much time together lately. . yall know how it is ... well finally we have time ... guess what picked up another job .. its ok i understand. . ill be there later .. then finally at around 11 i think he finally gets to sit down and...
    GypsyRayne120 GypsyRayne120
    31-35, F
    Sep 4, 2015

    Girlfriend Of A "future" Police Officer.

    my bf is about to finish the police academy and i am proud of him but scared at the same time ... I am used to always having him around,going everywhere with him,sleepin next to him and everything! and the fact that in a couple of months he will be workin crazy hours scares me...
    jewels008 jewels008
    3 Responses Sep 24, 2010

    I met my boyfriend almost two years ago

    when he was working as a security supervisor. About a month after we started dating he began the Reserve Police Academy. Then, two months later, he was hired as a Special with a department. I was there while he worked both security and as a special while attending the academy...
    xoxmikayla11 xoxmikayla11
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 27, 2013

    i am new too this life of wonderful chaos.

    .. its truly difficult and very different than any other relationship i have been in .. this makes it very unique. we have known eachother for about 6 yrs .. seriously i remember when he was just starting out on this path. .. we only recently started dating about 4 months...
    GypsyRayne120 GypsyRayne120
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2015
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