I Am the Girlfriend of a Navy Sailor

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    He got his estimated orders.

    . I live on the West Coast in Arizona, and he told me he'll be stationed on the East Coast.... More likely Virginia.... Ummmm... Im DESTROYED. Do you know HOW FAR AWAY that is???? I feel like ever since he told me this, I've just been losing hope. I love him, I do. But all of...
    Navysweetheartxo Navysweetheartxo
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Oct 8, 2014

    I miss him so much. Everything that's happening

    right now is killing me that he's not here to help my through. First my store is closing, were down a manager, I'm transferring to a new store, on top of moving and my gallbladder failing. I can't handle it without him. :(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 22, 2015

    Is it just me or do other navy gfs just not

    really care about looking good all the time now that your sailor is away. I personally don't wear make up anymore unless I'm going to an event with family, I dress more relaxed, and my hair spends more time in a bun then anything. I just feel like the person I got dressed up for...
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

    So in February, my boyfriend will be moving

    into the ship and I wanted to get him a Nike sweater for Christmas. I forgot that on the ship, he will only have a little bit of storage space and maybe a sweater wont be such a good idea. He said it wouldn't be a problem but i was wondering if any you you guys have given your...
    kayskisses kayskisses
    18-21, F
    Oct 18, 2015

    I am thinking about surprising my boyfriend

    and flying out to see him before he leaves and is stationed on the ship. I'm currently in Phoenix, Arizona and he is Stationed at Newport News, Virginia. I have been looking at flights and i cant seem to find a good place to buy my tickets. Anyone recommend a site that i can get...
    kayskisses kayskisses
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 1, 2015
    nurseryfox nurseryfox
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 3, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

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    chavacc11 chavacc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 28, 2015

    My boyfriend was supposed to come home on leave

    this week and now he has to go to his next duty station. Then request leave but of course they can deny it....
    Irishwolfpack Irishwolfpack
    18-21, F
    Jan 4

    Hey ladies,I was wondering how a military ball

    works out. Do you have to be in for a certain amount of time for them to attend one? Hes only been in the navy for like 3-4 months.I was at a dress store and it popped into my mind.
    kayskisses kayskisses
    18-21, F
    Sep 19, 2015

    My Sailor Stole My Heart

    Hello ladies!! Check out the page that I created on Facebook, please check it out and become a part of the page! I would love to have you! It is a place to get to know other girls going through the same thing you might be going through, share stories, vent, brag, whatever you...
    headcheerleader570 headcheerleader570
    18-21, F
    Jun 26, 2012

    As much as I love my boyfriend,

    it's so hard for me to not be mad at him when he doesn't talk to me about his feelings or thoughts. We knew that a long distance relationship will be hard but we always made it a pact to speak about our feelings and make sure we always communicated. So there is times where I'm...
    kayskisses kayskisses
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 9, 2015

    Me: Thinking about you all day.

    You are my man and I am your woman and anything beyond that is a mystery. I miss you beyond any words. And I am proud of you in every way your woman should be. Bf: I love you everyday. It pains me to be without you. I miss you so much it makes me mad. But there is a light...
    ForloveofCurtis ForloveofCurtis
    46-50, F
    Jan 29, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carlyccaa carlyccaa
    26-30, F
    Oct 19, 2015

    First Full Day

    Today I woke up and there was no messages on my phone, or calls. Today is the first day I am unable to talk to my boyfriend until I hear from him. He left Tuesday morning for bootcamp I took him to the recruiting station and we said our goodbyes. I prefer to call them "see ya...
    KristinVe KristinVe
    31-35, F
    Jun 6, 2013

    Well.. I won't be apart of this app

    nor any of these groups .. Because as of a couple days ago my navy boyfriend decided to break my heart .. It's extremely heart breaking .. But I know I'll be okay 😔
    Jordanmerck Jordanmerck
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 16, 2015
    Palomaa Palomaa
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 14, 2015

    And today he went away

    for another month.. I can't get used to it.. I am starting my new job on the 8th of April, I will be a flight attendant so when he gets back from deployment, I am on a 5 day flight from Amsterdam to Orlando, so we can not see each other a lot. Yesterday we went to the cinema and...
    Babbie01 Babbie01
    22-25, F
    Mar 24, 2014

    Long distance has its downs sometimes.

    I'm trying really hard to go see him in Newport News, VA and he's really making it difficult for me to buy a ticket. I'm in college and I'm looking for a job again and I only have so much saved to afford a round trip and be able to pay some bills. SO everyday a ticket gets a...
    kayskisses kayskisses
    18-21, F
    Oct 4, 2015

    I just found out that

    after being on hold for a month for his A school, my sailor will be coming home 10 weeks from Monday. I can't wait!!! We have been fighting like crazy this past week because we never seem to have our free times line up so we can FaceTime/skype. I'm a little worried about how it...
    ariberrywelch ariberrywelch
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 30, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    annacc11 annacc11
    26-30, F
    Sep 18, 2015

    and the countdown begins my sailor comes home

    in 9 days...he left last month and im just glad this underway is almost finished...
    laureNicole28 laureNicole28
    22-25, F
    Feb 17

    he just found out today

    that he will be sailing for an extra week. unfortionately I leave in just over a week for 4 months apart from him :( thought I would be able to spend my last week before summer with him. sigh .
    thebigtimedreamer thebigtimedreamer
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2015

    I can take the distance from him bc he asks it

    of me, I can take the long lonely nights without him being at home, I can even accept the way the navy can reach into our lives and change his leave dates etc..., But I can't take hearing him sad and home sick. It tears me apart and I don't know how to help him other than...
    ForloveofCurtis ForloveofCurtis
    46-50, F
    Apr 25, 2014

    I love him. I really do,

    the hardest thing to do is goodbyes. He's leaving for Virginia, that's not far at all. I'm an emotional wreck, but I know it'll make us stronger. He's taking it harder then I am. I'm sick, really sick and he's more upset he won't be able to be with me through it all. I told him...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 2, 2015

    Anyone have a boyfriend stationed in Norfolk?

    I would love to be able to talk to other girls that are going through my similar experience
    tcart042 tcart042
    18-21, F
    Aug 10, 2015

    My boyfriend and I have been dating on

    and off for the past two years. He is currently stationed in Norfolk and I live in Texas, but I'm moving to Georgia so I'll only be 8 hours away instead of 23 (Yay!) The problem is, he just joined a year ago, and I'm about to start college, and up until now we've had set days...
    gagagail gagagail
    18-21, F
    Jul 27, 2014

    My fiancé has been gone

    for ten days, in Great Lakes, Illinois, Navy Boot Camp. It's weird not being able to text him or call him. Being lonely is new to me and I really just want to hear from him. Any body have any suggestions of things to do or any hobbies to start to get into to feel better? I enjoy...
    missinxmyxsailor missinxmyxsailor
    18-21, F
    Oct 12, 2015

    Hello ladies and gentlemen,

    My name is Joey and I am the girlfriend of a soon to be Navy Sailor. My boyfriend leaves for boot camp on April 1st I am freaking out. I am trying to be positive and support him in his decision. I am truly proud of him, but I can't help this dark feeling coming over me. We...
    joeymc67 joeymc67
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 1, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 13, 2015

    Long distance has its downs sometimes.

    I'm trying really hard to go see him in Newport News, VA and he's really making it difficult for me to buy a ticket. I'm in college and I'm looking for a job again and I only have so much saved to afford a round trip and be able to pay some bills. SO everyday a ticket gets a...
    kayskisses kayskisses
    18-21, F
    Oct 4, 2015

    My parents think my ldr with him is affecting

    my college grades. I think they're right. I love him but education is also a must, should be prioritized. So confused :(
    PopeyesOlive PopeyesOlive
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 11, 2014

    yesterday was our one year.

    i'm kind of sad that he wasn't home to celebrate, but I made him a silly, cute card to hopefully bring some smiles and giggles on his face. he also graduates in 28 days. i'm so excited. I just wish that I could go. i'm so proud of him <3
    katielynn195 katielynn195
    16-17, F
    Aug 13, 2015

    It's For The Bold Not The Fearful

    Distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough.
    Deanna903 Deanna903
    18-21, F
    Aug 1, 2013

    I'm finding it really hard to trust my partner

    in the navy, I think it's the distance , it's just so hard , I don't no what to do!! It will be a year before I move to be with him
    emmashepherd85 emmashepherd85
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alliecc11 alliecc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 4, 2015

    My boyfriend works in the navy

    and he's currently in Hawaii now. His ship is going underway pretty soon and I'm missing him so much. I have close friends around but none of them is dating OR married to military men, that's why I'm here....hoping I could have a chat with someone...
    bluemoon92 bluemoon92
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2015

    Encouragement!!

    For all of you commited Navy girlfriends out there, I just want to let yall know to never give up! My boyfriend has officially been in the Navy for 7 months! He finished Basic and Aschool, and for the past about 3 months has been stationed 7 hours away from me on a ship that's...
    annacolleen66 annacolleen66
    16-17, F
    5 Responses May 26, 2012

    I went and saw the American sniper tonight,

    and it just made me miss my man more and more. I wish he was home ??
    vbrennan0416 vbrennan0416
    18-21, F
    Jan 24, 2015

    my sailor has been gone

    for almost a month at boot camp. I can't to go to his graduation because they're only allowing three attendants, which will be good mother, his father and his special needs sister. I was going to go anyways, but my parents told me no because they don't want me alone in a hotel...
    katielynn195 katielynn195
    16-17, F
    Aug 9, 2015
    Hunterzero Hunterzero
    18-21, F
    Oct 5, 2014

    My boyfriend is about to phase up to phase III

    at A School in Pensacola. Does anyone know if I'm able to check him off of base and he stay with me over night at a hotel or not?
    zinntaylor35 zinntaylor35
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    My sailor flew out to Newport news,

    VA and this time it wont be just a few months. I'm not mentally prepared for this.
    kayskisses kayskisses
    18-21, F
    Sep 2, 2015

    Tonight was a really hard night.

    Even when I hang out with my friends I can't help but feel alone without my sailor. I'm to the point where I'd rather lay in bed crying into my pillow than hang out with my friends and risk thing their night. I just need to know that I'm not alone. I never thought missing him...
    ShiRe94 ShiRe94
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 14, 2014
    ILoveANuke ILoveANuke
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 16, 2015

    Long distance has its downs sometimes.

    I'm trying really hard to go see him in Newport News, VA and he's really making it difficult for me to buy a ticket. I'm in college and I'm looking for a job again and I only have so much saved to afford a round trip and be able to pay some bills. SO everyday a ticket gets a...
    kayskisses kayskisses
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 4, 2015

    My boyfriend is graduating bootcamp September

    25th. I won't be able to make it because of school. His parents will be flying out for it though. What kind of graduation gift should I get him that I can send with his parents?
    zinntaylor35 zinntaylor35
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2015

    So my boyfriend and I have been dating

    for three years. He has been in the Navy since last year and is graduating from power school next week. We've really been talking about getting married after prototype and starting our life together. Im 19 and am in college, have a job, and am paying for a car, and I know that I...
    kenzie2 kenzie2
    18-21, F
    Nov 11, 2014

    I'm so lost about what to do.

    I'm in my senior year of highschool and my boyfriend of 2 years in currently in bootcamp. I wanna find a way to be with him after highschool but I'm not sure how. I could easily play college volleyball on a scholarship or go to a community college or something. All I know is I...
    zinntaylor35 zinntaylor35
    18-21, F
    Sep 8, 2015

    Hey, Everybody my name is Azareel

    and I have been a Sailor's girlfriend for a year very weird, but fun journey. A friend and I made a Facebook group called "Navy Sweethearts" feel free to join it. We want to help you through this journey.
    Azareel9 Azareel9
    18-21, F
    Aug 4, 2015

    I have a boyfriend that is in the Navy

    and I'm still trying to figure out things. I've been with him through boot camp, A School and now he is at Newport News where he will be on the ship sometime soon. I really don't know what that is called. I don't want to ask because he makes it seem like I should but I don't...
    kayskisses kayskisses
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 17, 2015

    I am beyond stressed

    and cried out. My mother and her rude comments are going to soon drive me to my grave. After a year apart, my boyfriend is finally visiting for 10 days and wants me to spend them with him. I brought up to my mom that we are planning on getting engaged in those 10 days and she...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 29, 2015

    I feel like it's Christmas already!

    !!! My man called tonight and right away said "Did I ever tell you that you are beautiful?" OMG. My heart melted!! :) He loves me with no doubt but he isn't the kind to say "I love you" every time we talk so this was really sweet to hear :) Even though he is in the navy, he is...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314
    18-21, F
    Dec 18, 2014
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14
    18-21, F
    Aug 12, 2014

    Long Distances

    my sailor and i were close friends all throughout high school and both had crushes on each other the summer after senior year. he left for boot camp and then went to A school in texas (with a short visit back home in between) then he graduated A school and came home two weeks ago...
    Guitardani Guitardani
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2012

    My boyfriend just left

    for basic training and its hitting me really hard. not to mention I am carrying our child; I am due in 2 months and I am missing him like crazy
    dln797 dln797
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 17
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