I Am the Mother of a Molested Child

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    Broken Arrows

    I am the mother of 6 children all were molested by my last husband except for the oldest and youngest. Though one of my daughters disclosed to me over 10 years ago. I relive it most days. The disclosure of the full extent of abuse toward the rest of my children came 3 years after...
    Jaynezzz Jaynezzz
    1 Response Oct 19, 2013

    2 Years And The Battle Rages On August 21, 2012

    Well as soon as you think you got things figured out. I learned last night that my ex's wife in trying to keep my daughter out of any program that a man-dated reporter might be involved in. She claimed that my daughter attempted to go to boys and girls club and began screaming...
    kalamatai kalamatai
    31-35, F
    Aug 21, 2012

    Good evening. On this Christmas evening not

    with my 16 year old daughter for the first Christmas ever is strange and hurts but it gives me time to reflect, no matter how much this reflecting hurts. As far as I am concerned, I am the divorced mother of a girl who was inappropriately treated by her father when she was...
    Nikita353 Nikita353
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 25, 2013

    "There Is No Condemnation For Those Who Are In Christ Jesus."

    16 years ago i meet a man who would change my belief in trusting another male with my granddaughters.I believed God had brought us together as we both believed in Jesus.(So i thought)After having 4 children from 4 different men,who all left me when i was pregnant,my last daughter...
    amykerewera amykerewera
    56-60, F
    Mar 17, 2013

    My daughter who is 5 years old was molested by

    a 5th grader on the school bus. I'm so proud of her for telling me right away. I was able to file a police report and they were able to file this young man with child molestation, and sexual battery. She seems to be fine and has moved on. However I'm having a hard time dealing...
    sheherme83 sheherme83
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 14, 2014

    Time For Justice!

    I am not sure what I am looking for by sharing here... but I need to get this out.Background:In January 2011 my husband of 15 years and I decided to divorce. I had come to realize that I was a lesbian and that continuing our physical relationship would not work. He understood...
    meloalaska meloalaska
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2012

    A Victim Of Molestation

    Im a victim of that bad situation i have been suffering from depression from it for along time and and still is. It happened to me when i was about 7 years old,it was my sister now husband. I always used to stay the night at their house. One night he thought i was sleep and he...
    hoskins89 hoskins89
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 2, 2013


     My husband molested my two eldest daughters. A near -perfect life destroyed for reasons i still cannot believe. The betrayals are countless now and I still am trying to heal. Praise God my daughters appear to have healed and moved forward into sucessful lives. My wounds are...
    paoq paoq
    51-55, F
    4 Responses May 19, 2009

    So Confused, What To Do? Was She Molested?? Help!!

    My husband and I have a healthy sex life. He is a very deep sleeper. My 8 year old has terrible nightmares and runs into our room crying and very upset at least once a week. Often we will talk about it and send her back to bed, if she is so upset she wont stop crying we will tell...
    cnfsdmom cnfsdmom
    7 Responses Feb 23, 2012

    Family Cant Be Trusted

    My son is 8 nw he was 7 at the time he was forced to give oral and receive oral by his cousin on his father side at his father house at the time March 2012 this happened 5 times that I know of accord to the written confession and found out because my sister caught my son trying...
    lovingmom23 lovingmom23
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2012

    Feels Like Yesterday!

    I found out about the molestation of my 2 daughters by their own father 30 years ago and was shocked and TOTALLY DEVASTATED AND SO BETRAYED AND SO GUILTY I did not know!! I took my youngest daughter to therapy but she is still affected. My oldest daughter was already out of...
    sherry19 sherry19
    61-65, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2012

    I Cant Even Breath

    I cant breath, I cant sleep, I cant eat, I cant even live. I am so ******* broken how did this happen. At the end of everyday I am shocked am still standing. My mind wont stop racing and my body wont move I am stuck. I am the mother of a molested child working up the courage to...
    Kerrilynn98 Kerrilynn98
    4 Responses Aug 2, 2013

    My, recently turned, 13 yr old daughter just

    told me she remembers being molested by her bio father. She remembered through a dream and told her school counselor and then me. To be clear: CPS and the state police are involved. My heart is breaking for her. Up until she remembered she had never once spoken a negative word...
    deleted deleted
    May 4, 2015

    My daughter was molested by her stepfather.

    I found out recently that it went on throughout our marriage. And he told her it was my fault. What a monster. I come from a family that blames the victim, and they all think he is the nicest guy in the world and they make sure to tell me this as often as they can. He wasn't...
    Poppycake Poppycake
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 5, 2015

    Crushed Against The Stones (Poem)

    Your children are a precious gift so innocent and pure. At their birth you have the hope of love, lasting evermore. You spend your waking days attending to their needs, Waiting for the next smile and sound of utter glee, And when you sleep you dream of them and wait until the...
    Jaynezzz Jaynezzz
    5 Responses Dec 8, 2010


     My husband molested my two eldest daughters. A near -perfect life destroyed for reasons i still cannot believe. The betrayals are countless now and I still am trying to heal. Praise God my daughters appear to have healed and moved forward into sucessful lives. My wounds are...
    paoq paoq
    51-55, F
    10 Responses May 19, 2009

    My Sons Pain!

    A year ago in May my son came home from my brothers house after a sleep over and from that day on he tried killimg him self several times he was 9 years old!!I When my son finally told me the truth I went straight to the police.I feel I did the best thing for my son I  know...
    jaemq jaemq
    7 Responses Jun 29, 2011

    Losing Patience

    I was with a man for 13 yrs and he molested my daughter, his step-daughter, for 8 of those yrs. It's been a year and a half since she spoke up. No trial yet. He is out on bond , free to roam around from 6 am to 9pm. We have to watch everything and everyone around us. Always...
    ccangel ccangel
    4 Responses Jun 12, 2011

    What The Heck Is Wrong With People?

    Yes I am glad I found this beause like you I am wondering what is wrong with society? Children do not lie about sexual abuse and do not lie in general when they are so young and innocent. My children have had every right violated and so called people who help let this sicko get...
    catseye2012 catseye2012
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2012

    My Daughter Was Molested By Her Brother!

    My daughter who is now 7 was 3 years old at the time and her half brother her father's son was 8 years old he locked her and my 6 year old daughter in a room gagged their mouths he penetrated my youngest daughter vaginally and in her rectum when he was finished he untagged her...
    LuvlyLadyLynn LuvlyLadyLynn
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jul 20, 2012

    Molested Child Who Now Hates Men

    Hi, my name is Kathleen. I did not read the article because I began to cry straight away due to my own experiences. I was malestered by my father as well as our house keeper from the age of 5 to 8. I hate everything to do with men……in today’s society the world is full of...
    Kahshare Kahshare
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 16, 2012

    2yrs And The Battle Rages On

    I left my ex after three years of abuse and returned home. I have three boys and a girl. I was able to keep my daughter safe for a year before the "father's rights' kicked in. It all began on Dec 22, 2009. I was required to give my daughter to her father until Dec 24, 2009. When...
    kalamatai kalamatai
    31-35, F
    Jan 1, 2012

    On June 14, 2013, I found out my daughter

    who was 10 at the time had been molested for about 3 or 4 years by a very close family friend who was like an uncle to her. I immediately took the first step and called the police. They came out took my report had my daughter go and do a "safe talk" and the detective then told...
    mwilder1982 mwilder1982
    31-35, F
    Apr 25, 2015

    Justice For K

    I am a single mother of 3 girls. I have been in 2 abusive relationships back to back lasting a total of 11 years. I finally got myself help from the mental hospital. When I left my husband who I had my first 2 children with this guy I knew from school since 2nd grade wanted to be...
    Tan44 Tan44
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2012

    My Daughter Was Molested By Her Stepfather

    I feel so broken right now. I have been married for 8yrs, I have a daughter from a previous relationship. She was 8 when I met him. I swore when I had my daughter that if anyone ever hurt her I would kill them. I was sexually abused by my father, I remember being in diapers when...
    msolis2422 msolis2422
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 7, 2012

    My Daughter Was Molested By Her Father

      I am the mother of a molested child.  My daughter has come a long way and so have I.  It has been quite an eventful journey with many bumps and twists in the road.  We've lost so much, but gained so many wonderful things during the process...
    peacepaige peacepaige
    36-40, F
    144 Responses Sep 15, 2009

    Mother Of Molested Children By My Ex Husband

    After divorcing my ex husband who is a narcissistic control freak, I find out he has molested 2 of my girls. It makes me sick to my stomach. I have reported him to the sheriffs department, but it seems like a slow process. I hound out that he also has been accused of molseting...
    Sueabell Sueabell
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2012

    Help Me....help My Daughter

    I am the mother of 4, three daughters and 1 son. My son is the youngest. I have been married for 24 yrs. My 3rd daughter was 6 yrs. old when it began and 11 yrs. old when she told me.  She is now 16 yrs. old and I don't understand her. I have already raised 2 other...
    ladreamwlk ladreamwlk
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2010
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