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    ***UPDATE*** I was in my home country last week

    when I started feeling sharp pains in my abdomen. I was having huge stupid arguments with my MM and my stress level was through the roof. On Tuesday pf last week my cousin takes me to a Dr and she said, "hurry up and go home and see your OB", so I start panicking. I'm supposed...
    4bdnluv 4bdnluv 31-35, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    To all the trolls and the ones telling the ow

    to go kill yourselves....get out of your moms basement and get your own life...I'm sorry your parents didn't hug you before but is very coward to bully the ow users in an Internet forum... Let me tell you as an MM, I see how important the OW are for us and how they make the mm...
    floaty2001 floaty2001 36-40, M 15 Responses Apr 19, 2014

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    NO LONGER THE OTHER WOMAN!

    !! I am now the only woman :) it has been officially ended this morning, he was straight on the phone to me who was awesome at playing it cool despite up all night worrying! He was going to come over but we both decided against it as he needs time to recover maybe. He has gone...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 15 Responses Mar 21

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    I haven't posted here in a long,

    long time. Mostly it's because I had a hell of a D-day in early February. My H discovered the affair, confronted me & threatened to send his proof to MM's wife. I use the opportunity to end my marriage. And so did MM. But, we did not end it to be with each other. We took...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 24 Responses Apr 30

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    Sometimes I wish I could get In your head

    and know the truth. The truth about how much you love me, why do you want me, and why you need me. Sometimes I wish I didn't miss your scent when your gone too long or When I get a whiff of you on my bedsheets. Sometimes I wish you could just tell me that you don't love me so...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    MM asked to meet up today.

    . Obviously To fck. And I decided to divert the conversation and then I stopped replying to him.. And it feels sooooooo good to just say no. It's not about getting even with him. I miss him so much that it hurts. But I'm not his fck toy. I would never subject myself to that...
    Xf1234 Xf1234 26-30, F 18 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    Well... I may or may not be the OW.

    I ended things this morning with MM. He made the mistake of asking a question about why I was sad. And I gave him an honest answer that he didn't like. Said I was walking away as the pain was too much. I still love him loads. But he wants *everything* on his terms and with...
    daisyblue222 daisyblue222 41-45, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Read this story ladies.

    .. https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/an-open-letter-to-the-woman-who-married-my-sons-108193611552.html
    ordinarymomof2 ordinarymomof2 36-40, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    MM is sick at home...

    And no matter how much I care or worry, could not be there to take care of him... I know he's in good hand. It just another fact of being the other woman...
    TOWTD TOWTD 31-35, F 5 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Can The Other Woman Ever Really Become The Wife?

    I've read a lot of judgmental comments on different sites but we should never say what we would or would not do because we honestly never know until we find ourselves in a place called "here". I became the other woman (OW) a little over a year ago. We were both married at the...
    essenceoflaneen essenceoflaneen 31-35 93 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    Don't You Women Get It?

    Don't you women get it yet? Most married men are not going to leave their wife for the other woman. These men want the best of both and as long as you're giving it to them that's how things will be. These men are just missing that spark that passion that their marriage has lost...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 171 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    "The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

    " So 8 months of NC are over. The texting app that I used to text him when I was drunk thinking he wouldn't know it was me didn't fool him. He knew it was me. We spent 2 hours last night texting back and forth. I just don't know what to think...
    ArlingtonRose ArlingtonRose 36-40, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    There comes a time when you stop allowing

    negativity in your life & start doing this instead. Happy Monday :) http://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM
    subgirl26 subgirl26 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just got accused of enabling a woman here

    because I support her decision to stay with her married man. And I said it in that thread but I also want to say it here as well... Oh ffs.. I am not enabling her.. I am supporting her in her decision. If you look around, I also support other woman who choose to leave their...
    Kokopuffy Kokopuffy 51-55, F 15 Responses May 4, 2014

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    I need some advice. Many of you know about my

    sagas... My two MMs and one my ex MM. The ex MM who turned into a psychopath along with his wife. Craziest and most stressful couple days of my life.... He is bipolar and unmedicated and flipped one day. I deleted and blocked him and he me. We even deleted our email...
    AvaLennon AvaLennon 31-35, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Ooooookay....I pick up my phone this am

    while having my coffee, to catch up on what's been going on with you ladies. What do I find? Haters, trolls and generally just nonsense going on. Who are all these people and why, suddenly, are you here telling us what's best for us, when you know not a thing? Get out, shoo...
    CherokeeEyes CherokeeEyes 41-45, F 17 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    What It's Like Being The Other Woman

    So many of you have no idea how many of your stories I’ve read and wanted so desperately to reply. Ultimately, I wouldn’t be able to keep up. There is not ONE story I’ve yet to read which is not already written about in my book. I’ve started replying and then I stop...
    Micalle Micalle 36-40, F 48 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    elincc11 elincc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I Was The Other Woman; Read If You Want To Walk Away

    I'm 29 years old and I live and own a house with my boyfriend of 11 years. About 2 years about I became involved romantically with my co-worker, a married man with three young children. I still work with him very closely with this man...but about two months ago I completely...
    marygold1983 marygold1983 26-30, F 156 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    So he only texted me three times today in very

    short responses. I didn't blow up his phone and I'm thinking about waiting a bit to reply when he does. I can't remember the last time we spoke on the phone. I'm trying to convince myself he values me as something more than just a sexual object. He just seems to not want me a...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Never Thought I'D Be One Of 'Those Women'.

    Where to start.... I always thought I was an honest trustworthy wife/mother/daughter/sister/friend but now I have strayed into the territory of cheater. If you'd asked me what I thought about women who sleep with married men I'd have said 'home wreckers' and had a rant. But now I...
    AnotherBondiBlonde AnotherBondiBlonde 36-40, F 78 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    I used to come to this forum to read stories

    that made me feel less alone, and to give me some sanity and hope. In the midst of my affair, and the lengthy and painful ending of that journey I was here often.. Sharing my story, getting advice, and reading all of the other stories similar to mine. If gave me a sense of calm...
    lyrics101 lyrics101 41-45, F 14 Responses Feb 6

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    A Letter From The Other Woman

    You are the one he’s lived with for a very long time. I have known him for three years. You are the one who wakes up to his familiar face each and every day and you give him a peck on the cheek. I gaze into his deep brown eyes and run my hands through his slightly graying dark...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 102 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    Today was disappointing

    but kinda funny. I was out for the day and knew MM was at work. So when I was like 15 minutes away I text him to sneak out. Here's our convo: Me: hey sneak out MM: Where are you? Me: a few mins away MM: what are you wearing? Me: leggings and tank top MM: take your pants off...
    Lust2much Lust2much 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Applaud "The Other Woman"

    I've looked through this "experience" and have read comments made by both sides. One against "the other woman"...and one supporting. I'm not out to hurt anyone, just merely wishing to provide my experience. Sometimes, speaking from experience, the "other woman" is actually "the...
    seeinglife2x2 seeinglife2x2 46-50, M 55 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    So this post is for all you dam haters of us

    "OW" or "OM" you continue to bash us for straying...not being faithful...try to communicate more with spouse...there is no reason to cheat....blah blah blah...you tell me this.... I have been a dam good wife to my H for 21 years...put my dreams on hold so I can make his come...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 41-45, F 51 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    independentandstubborn independentandstubborn 51-55, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ex mm texted me last night.

    "You message me and I always answer. I message you and nothing." I deleted the app we used to talk through so I obviously didn't get his messages. I told him that and he went nuts saying I was deliberately ignoring him. He wanted me to come over. I told him we were done over a...
    moepeep moepeep 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    A Letter To The Other Woman

    His wife, his mistress...a role we both seem to share. If I am happy and in his arms, there are tears in your eyes. If you are happy and in his arms, then there are tears in my eyes. Both caught in a web, both being toyed with. You being told that he is going to leave me, Me...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 154 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    I'm not sure if I should post here

    since I'm not currently an OW but there's an old friend of mine and he has stirred up some feelings in me. (There's more detail in my other posts). So my crush/wannabe mm and his wife are throwing a huge shindig for their kids. They're having a carnival party to celebrate their...
    zandra95 zandra95 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Vegas the end of June.

    .. But this coming weekend you're going out of town for 3 days with her and another set of friends. I do not understand. You're still not wearing your wedding ring. But you have no idea how much all this hurts me...
    UnrequitedControl UnrequitedControl 31-35, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    What The Wife Doesn't Know..

    What you don't know is.. I never initiated this contact with your husband. I was never out to get him or you. Him being married is NOT a turn on for me. I have never thought ill of you. I wish I could, but never have been able to. I DO have morals; whether you wish to believe it...
    AyoMK AyoMK 22-25, F 29 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    elincc11 elincc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Called you on your way to work

    so we could chat but you answered and hung up immediately.. Called you again thinking you accidentally hung up because you're driving to work.. Hours later you call me back to see why I was calling and when I said I just wanted to chat you just said "Ok. Is everything okay...
    hiddennlove hiddennlove 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I AM NOT THE OTHER WOMAN.

    There are many labels I could have. But "the other woman" is not one I use. That is NOT how I define myself or this relationship! It annoys me that we seem to be identified solely in that context here. No doubt that's who I would be from where she stands ... I'm sure that's...
    SafetyNotGuaranteed SafetyNotGuaranteed 46-50, F 19 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    I ended things for good yesterday.

    I think he was surprised, but it was a very emotional ending. He is a very strong person by nature, but I could tell he was hurting. He asked me if there was someone else. I told him no. I cannot even date with him in my life. I simply said I wanted more. He said I deserve more...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 22 Responses Mar 22

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    elincc11 elincc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I am posting this letter from a married man

    again because we do sometimes focus on.."what about me" as the other woman in these relationships. This is his side..written by a man I know who is very much in love with his OW. They are old loves reunited about 6 years ago (he can tell you how long its been..to the minute...
    Kokopuffy Kokopuffy 51-55, F 28 Responses May 6, 2014

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    I am not the OW, but I'm

    so proud of you ladies. You go through hell and back for these men. You love, comfort, support, and love these men. I do not know how you do it. I read your stories and I'm in awe....sheer breathtaking, gutwrenching, heartbreaking, overwhelming, love-infused awe of you all...
    soldiergirl2 soldiergirl2 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 6

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    Day 1- Feel like this is it!

    ! of course my heart still stings ...mind over matter right? I have had the following quote on my mirror, so I could see it every day, it helps as a daily reminder. "I've suffered long enough. it's my fault for letting you get comfortable with disrespecting me. I've sacrificed my...
    isolatednlonely isolatednlonely 36-40 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Society calls us cheaters

    and home wreckers and a few other not so nice names, but we are mothers, daughters, sisters and grandmothers like everyone else. The only difference is that we have a relationship outside of our marriage that helps us feel whole. I don't see myself as being any different from...
    KathyJ304 KathyJ304 26-30, F 45 Responses Jan 10

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    "Hopelessly In Love With A Married Man" - I

    swear I didn't mean for this to happen. Loving you was an accident. It just, well, happened :) Love, Misty Starr
    MistyStarr1969 MistyStarr1969 46-50, F 11 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    Qu for those who finally 'got' their mm.

    ..once the dynamics changed and the lies/stress/drama diminished, did you feel different? Was the situation less exciting? Was there a transition period where you were unsure as it felt like starting again or was it amazing? Just wondering!
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Here i sit again, wondering the possibilities.

    .. I cannot bear the burden of deception for both of us any longer... I love my MM, as selfish as he is and hate him for the way he loves me...can anyone relate?
    isolatednlonely isolatednlonely 36-40 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I have to say that I am in a very good place

    right now. How this ever happened, I'm not certain. Where this will go, I'm not sure. But I don't need the answers to feel the emotions. I'm happy in my moments- today my very skin is humming with how content I am! To have this one person, whoever they may be, that makes you...
    ElsieJay ElsieJay 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I wanted to write this story from the

    perspective of a Married person(MM or MW) having an affair. This was triggered by a question someone posted yesterday, asking Why MM needs the other woman and why the MM can't leave the Ws so easily. Talking from the perspective of a Married person, sometimes things are very...
    Jazz045 Jazz045 36-40, F 19 Responses Mar 25

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