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    NO LONGER THE OTHER WOMAN!

    !! I am now the only woman :) it has been officially ended this morning, he was straight on the phone to me who was awesome at playing it cool despite up all night worrying! He was going to come over but we both decided against it as he needs time to recover maybe. He has gone...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 15 Responses Mar 21

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    Hi- I am not sure what I am doing.

    I guess I am just lonely and sad and looking for someone to give me some perspective. My husband died a few years ago after a long illness, leaving me alone to raise my 3 kids. I have great kids, and we have actually done OK. The house is usually a mess, and I am often late for...
    katotw katotw 41-45, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I do believe he has just agreed to have a

    naughty weekend away! Not a big thing to some, but for my commitment phobe of a guy who doesn't plan anything in advance (because of the aforementioned phobia), this is huge!! No mention of, 'lets see how it goes' or 'it's early days' like I had before. This time it was 'yeh...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    So he only texted me three times today in very

    short responses. I didn't blow up his phone and I'm thinking about waiting a bit to reply when he does. I can't remember the last time we spoke on the phone. I'm trying to convince myself he values me as something more than just a sexual object. He just seems to not want me a...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    10 Myths about being the other woman & FAQ.

    1."You must be doing things in bed his wife won’t." Not true. I have limitations and desires as well. I’m not a prude by any means but I’m not doing anything in bed that a typical couple doesn’t do. 2."He’s just using you for sex." I doubt it, he doesn’t need me for...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 18 Responses Jun 2, 2014

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    ***UPDATE*** I was in my home country last week

    when I started feeling sharp pains in my abdomen. I was having huge stupid arguments with my MM and my stress level was through the roof. On Tuesday pf last week my cousin takes me to a Dr and she said, "hurry up and go home and see your OB", so I start panicking. I'm supposed...
    4bdnluv 4bdnluv 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I can't let go even though I want to

    and I don't know why.... My feelings for him have been decreasing, but yet I still can't let go. He really doesn't do much for me so I'm in a toxic relationship for nothing. At some point I felt like I loved him, but I never knew why as he doesn't do anything to deserve my love...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ex mm texted me last night.

    "You message me and I always answer. I message you and nothing." I deleted the app we used to talk through so I obviously didn't get his messages. I told him that and he went nuts saying I was deliberately ignoring him. He wanted me to come over. I told him we were done over a...
    moepeep moepeep 22-25, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    What The Wife Doesn't Know..

    What you don't know is.. I never initiated this contact with your husband. I was never out to get him or you. Him being married is NOT a turn on for me. I have never thought ill of you. I wish I could, but never have been able to. I DO have morals; whether you wish to believe it...
    AyoMK AyoMK 22-25, F 29 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    Here on EP I met another 'other woman'

    and we clicked. Almost a year ago now and we talk every single day. Well yesterday we travelled the country and met half way for the first time an had an amazing weekend away together! Lots of good food, drinks, dancing and laughs! Best friend for life!! Just thought I would...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 13 Responses Apr 19

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    So the H was supposed to roll into town today-

    today is/would have been my 17th anniversary. I'm glad he's got "too much to do" though because giving me a piece of paper for our divorce on this day seemed obnoxious and manipulative. Daily I'm reminded why we never should have gotten married and I'm reminded why I left. MM...
    UnrequitedControl UnrequitedControl 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't want to block him.

    I feel like I have to at this point but I just can't. I can't let go of this thread that leads me to him. I guess it's not over? When is everything going to sort itself out...I'm so tired of this. It's so hard ignoring his calls and messages. It makes me feel so bad when he...
    FrancesFoster FrancesFoster 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ooooookay....I pick up my phone this am

    while having my coffee, to catch up on what's been going on with you ladies. What do I find? Haters, trolls and generally just nonsense going on. Who are all these people and why, suddenly, are you here telling us what's best for us, when you know not a thing? Get out, shoo...
    CherokeeEyes CherokeeEyes 41-45, F 17 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    What It's Like Being The Other Woman

    So many of you have no idea how many of your stories I’ve read and wanted so desperately to reply. Ultimately, I wouldn’t be able to keep up. There is not ONE story I’ve yet to read which is not already written about in my book. I’ve started replying and then I stop...
    Micalle Micalle 36-40, F 48 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    Don't You Women Get It?

    Don't you women get it yet? Most married men are not going to leave their wife for the other woman. These men want the best of both and as long as you're giving it to them that's how things will be. These men are just missing that spark that passion that their marriage has lost...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 171 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    To All The Negative Wives

    **to all the wives who have messaged me** I have been messaged and ridiculed by many wives for being a "home wrecker". I for one never knew he was married and let me just say this. If you would provide the love and affection (including taking care of yourselves) your so "loved...
    Livedandloved Livedandloved 22-25, F 86 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    Vegas the end of June.

    .. But this coming weekend you're going out of town for 3 days with her and another set of friends. I do not understand. You're still not wearing your wedding ring. But you have no idea how much all this hurts me...
    UnrequitedControl UnrequitedControl 31-35, F 8 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I am not the OW, but I'm

    so proud of you ladies. You go through hell and back for these men. You love, comfort, support, and love these men. I do not know how you do it. I read your stories and I'm in awe....sheer breathtaking, gutwrenching, heartbreaking, overwhelming, love-infused awe of you all...
    soldiergirl2 soldiergirl2 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 6

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    "Hopelessly In Love With A Married Man" - I

    swear I didn't mean for this to happen. Loving you was an accident. It just, well, happened :) Love, Misty Starr
    MistyStarr1969 MistyStarr1969 46-50, F 11 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    I AM NOT THE OTHER WOMAN.

    There are many labels I could have. But "the other woman" is not one I use. That is NOT how I define myself or this relationship! It annoys me that we seem to be identified solely in that context here. No doubt that's who I would be from where she stands ... I'm sure that's...
    SafetyNotGuaranteed SafetyNotGuaranteed 46-50, F 19 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    Dear EP, I am "the other woman"

    and I have come to this site for wisdom and support from other women in my situation. While on this site I have run into people who have ridiculed and bashed me and other's who are here sharing their experiences. Definitely not offering authenticity, support and respect that...
    Kokopuffy Kokopuffy 51-55, F 52 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    I Can't Believe It... I Actually Left

    If you read my last story, you will know that I was the "other woman" in my last relationship. Yes, last. I finally got it all together and I left him. When it came down to it, I finally just said, "Its me or her. I can't live like this anymore." And he begged...
    fuego fuego 18-21 41 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    Well... I may or may not be the OW.

    I ended things this morning with MM. He made the mistake of asking a question about why I was sad. And I gave him an honest answer that he didn't like. Said I was walking away as the pain was too much. I still love him loads. But he wants *everything* on his terms and with...
    daisyblue222 daisyblue222 41-45, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Good Afternoon My Beautiful People,

    I haven't posted in awhile I been so busy, but I have to update you on my madness. Let me start by saying I got fired from work, I've been at this firm for over 6 years and all of my time vested went down the drain when the W. called 101 times trying to get me fired. This...
    4everhislady 4everhislady 36-40, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Society calls us cheaters

    and home wreckers and a few other not so nice names, but we are mothers, daughters, sisters and grandmothers like everyone else. The only difference is that we have a relationship outside of our marriage that helps us feel whole. I don't see myself as being any different from...
    KathyJ304 KathyJ304 26-30, F 45 Responses Jan 10

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    I am still married but have be separated

    for sometime. My husband moved out to be with the OW, I consider us divorced even though it's not final but now it seems like I'm becoming the other woman in their relationship... It makes me giggle
    Guavajelly Guavajelly 36-40, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Can The Other Woman Ever Really Become The Wife?

    I've read a lot of judgmental comments on different sites but we should never say what we would or would not do because we honestly never know until we find ourselves in a place called "here". I became the other woman (OW) a little over a year ago. We were both married at the...
    essenceoflaneen essenceoflaneen 31-35 93 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    MM asked to meet up today.

    . Obviously To fck. And I decided to divert the conversation and then I stopped replying to him.. And it feels sooooooo good to just say no. It's not about getting even with him. I miss him so much that it hurts. But I'm not his fck toy. I would never subject myself to that...
    Xf1234 Xf1234 26-30, F 18 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    I haven't posted here in a long,

    long time. Mostly it's because I had a hell of a D-day in early February. My H discovered the affair, confronted me & threatened to send his proof to MM's wife. I use the opportunity to end my marriage. And so did MM. But, we did not end it to be with each other. We took...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 24 Responses Apr 30

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    I wanted to write this story from the

    perspective of a Married person(MM or MW) having an affair. This was triggered by a question someone posted yesterday, asking Why MM needs the other woman and why the MM can't leave the Ws so easily. Talking from the perspective of a Married person, sometimes things are very...
    Jazz045 Jazz045 36-40, F 19 Responses Mar 25

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    Here's my story. I go to the gym every night.

    It helps me physically and mentally. This started back in March when I was newly single. This guy at the gym, Don, would always say hello to me and have a huge smile whenever he saw me. So, I said hello back. One day he got on the treadmill next to me and we started talking...
    Mustalina Mustalina 36-40, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    "The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

    " So 8 months of NC are over. The texting app that I used to text him when I was drunk thinking he wouldn't know it was me didn't fool him. He knew it was me. We spent 2 hours last night texting back and forth. I just don't know what to think...
    ArlingtonRose ArlingtonRose 36-40, F 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    There comes a time when you stop allowing

    negativity in your life & start doing this instead. Happy Monday :) http://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM
    subgirl26 subgirl26 22-25, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    elincc11 elincc11 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    I ended things for good yesterday.

    I think he was surprised, but it was a very emotional ending. He is a very strong person by nature, but I could tell he was hurting. He asked me if there was someone else. I told him no. I cannot even date with him in my life. I simply said I wanted more. He said I deserve more...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 22 Responses Mar 22

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    To The Married Men

    *I hope this helps the other women who have felt this way* There are some things we, the other women, need you, the married men, to know and understand. Being the other woman is a difficult position. Given a choice, this is not a position we would choose. We are in the...
    hischelsea hischelsea 46-50, F 76 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    I'm not sure if I should post here

    since I'm not currently an OW but there's an old friend of mine and he has stirred up some feelings in me. (There's more detail in my other posts). So my crush/wannabe mm and his wife are throwing a huge shindig for their kids. They're having a carnival party to celebrate their...
    zandra95 zandra95 36-40, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I'm trying to talk to other guys,

    knowing that things with mm and I will never go anywhere else than they are right now, I figure it's best to not allow myself to center my life around him. Yet, I'm fairly uninterested in most of the one I've come across online, and for the first time in a long time I don't...
    lexabear15 lexabear15 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    So this post is for all you dam haters of us

    "OW" or "OM" you continue to bash us for straying...not being faithful...try to communicate more with spouse...there is no reason to cheat....blah blah blah...you tell me this.... I have been a dam good wife to my H for 21 years...put my dreams on hold so I can make his come...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 41-45, F 51 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    independentandstubborn independentandstubborn 51-55, F 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    elincc11 elincc11 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    I find myself needing to vent a lot lately.

    Things with H are not good. I wish that he would just leave already. If I had money or a place to go I would pack my bags right now. I try so hard to keep peace in the house. He is so miserable and always ruins a good day. Why won't he just leave if he is so unhappy? I guess...
    Lust2much Lust2much 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have to say that I am in a very good place

    right now. How this ever happened, I'm not certain. Where this will go, I'm not sure. But I don't need the answers to feel the emotions. I'm happy in my moments- today my very skin is humming with how content I am! To have this one person, whoever they may be, that makes you...
    ElsieJay ElsieJay 41-45, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Spent every minute together

    since Friday evening til just now! You know, I wonder if I will ever be content and happy...my username says it all. So I now have my guy...100% single, spending a whole weekend together...yet I feel uneasy. He just txt to tell me he felt strange too. We talked a little and...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    You've only yelled at me

    once before... Today is the 2nd time. Maybe it's because I couldn't drop the weekend coming up deal... Maybe it's really because you have no idea how much being me in this position sucks... Doesn't matter we have time away. Doesn't matter that you aren't trying to fix things...
    UnrequitedControl UnrequitedControl 31-35, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    elincc11 elincc11 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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