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    Anyone here when your with your lover do watch

    Adult Movies together? I do with my girlfriend.
    ForbiddenFruitLove95 ForbiddenFruitLove95 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear EP, I am "the other woman"

    and I have come to this site for wisdom and support from other women in my situation. While on this site I have run into people who have ridiculed and bashed me and other's who are here sharing their experiences. Definitely not offering authenticity, support and respect that...
    Kokopuffy Kokopuffy 51-55, F 51 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    Sometimes I make a dream of what'll be like

    when he tells me it's me & him... He will call or text me... "I want to take you out tonight." Sure it'll catch me off guard because it hasn't been like that since he was separated. But I'll be excited. Not thinking any thing of it. We will plan on a time and he will take me to...
    UnrequitedControl UnrequitedControl 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    To The Married Men

    *I hope this helps the other women who have felt this way* There are some things we, the other women, need you, the married men, to know and understand. Being the other woman is a difficult position. Given a choice, this is not a position we would choose. We are in the...
    hischelsea hischelsea 46-50, F 71 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    NO LONGER THE OTHER WOMAN!

    !! I am now the only woman :) it has been officially ended this morning, he was straight on the phone to me who was awesome at playing it cool despite up all night worrying! He was going to come over but we both decided against it as he needs time to recover maybe. He has gone...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 14 Responses Mar 21

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    A quick meet up with mm

    after work. We both depressed today, he just not had a good day and mine was coz of him. We just sat there and hug in silence for 20 mins. Just hug and felt the warmth from each other's skin. It's such a silence moment. I tried so hard to not cry. The only thoughts in my head...
    TOWTD TOWTD 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    For the past few weeks I neglected my tire

    light on my dashboard and ended up with a flat tire... Prior to that I mentioned it to my mm and all he did was tell me that I should know how to put air in a tire.... He actually got upset because another man I interact with during work offered to follow me to the gas station...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    10 Myths about being the other woman & FAQ.

    1."You must be doing things in bed his wife won’t." Not true. I have limitations and desires as well. I’m not a prude by any means but I’m not doing anything in bed that a typical couple doesn’t do. 2."He’s just using you for sex." I doubt it, he doesn’t need me for...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 18 Responses Jun 2, 2014

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    To All The Negative Wives

    **to all the wives who have messaged me** I have been messaged and ridiculed by many wives for being a "home wrecker". I for one never knew he was married and let me just say this. If you would provide the love and affection (including taking care of yourselves) your so "loved...
    Livedandloved Livedandloved 22-25, F 86 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    Time to celebrate! Its Memorial Day Weekend,

    3 day weekend, and....today is 30 days of NC!!!! I'm super celebrating today! I made it to 1 month, and its been amazing! Hope everyone has a great weekend! Enjoy yourselves!
    LightningXIII LightningXIII 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I used to come to this forum to read stories

    that made me feel less alone, and to give me some sanity and hope. In the midst of my affair, and the lengthy and painful ending of that journey I was here often.. Sharing my story, getting advice, and reading all of the other stories similar to mine. If gave me a sense of calm...
    lyrics101 lyrics101 41-45, F 14 Responses Feb 6

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    I am not the OW, but I'm

    so proud of you ladies. You go through hell and back for these men. You love, comfort, support, and love these men. I do not know how you do it. I read your stories and I'm in awe....sheer breathtaking, gutwrenching, heartbreaking, overwhelming, love-infused awe of you all...
    soldiergirl2 soldiergirl2 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 6

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    Never Thought I'D Be One Of 'Those Women'.

    Where to start.... I always thought I was an honest trustworthy wife/mother/daughter/sister/friend but now I have strayed into the territory of cheater. If you'd asked me what I thought about women who sleep with married men I'd have said 'home wreckers' and had a rant. But now I...
    AnotherBondiBlonde AnotherBondiBlonde 36-40, F 78 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    He really opened up yesterday.

    There were things I didn't know, feelings he had I wasn't aware of. He wants to see me. I'm still weary! He could be just blowing smoke. Telling me what he thinks I want to hear. They are all great at that aren't they!!! I don't know. I'm still on the fence. I have a couple of...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    To all the trolls and the ones telling the ow

    to go kill yourselves....get out of your moms basement and get your own life...I'm sorry your parents didn't hug you before but is very coward to bully the ow users in an Internet forum... Let me tell you as an MM, I see how important the OW are for us and how they make the mm...
    floaty2001 floaty2001 36-40, M 14 Responses Apr 19, 2014

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    What The Wife Doesn't Know..

    What you don't know is.. I never initiated this contact with your husband. I was never out to get him or you. Him being married is NOT a turn on for me. I have never thought ill of you. I wish I could, but never have been able to. I DO have morals; whether you wish to believe it...
    AyoMK AyoMK 22-25, F 28 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    its been a long day finally got to see mm

    after 6 long days it was great. but then later I feel like we had a disagreement and he said he was going to bed early. with that on my mind my husband felt the need to have the why are you so distant lately talk. I just want this night to be over already.
    13butterflyblue 13butterflyblue 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I wanted to write this story from the

    perspective of a Married person(MM or MW) having an affair. This was triggered by a question someone posted yesterday, asking Why MM needs the other woman and why the MM can't leave the Ws so easily. Talking from the perspective of a Married person, sometimes things are very...
    Jazz045 Jazz045 36-40, F 19 Responses Mar 25

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    I'm probably going to get trolled on

    for this but... I went for my annual Pap smear a month ago and was told I have HPV. Yes I should have used protection bla bla I'm stupid I know. It's freaking me out a little but I know it's common and usually goes away on its own. I guess I just feel tainted... Like soiled...
    AvaLennon AvaLennon 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I am posting this letter from a married man

    again because we do sometimes focus on.."what about me" as the other woman in these relationships. This is his side..written by a man I know who is very much in love with his OW. They are old loves reunited about 6 years ago (he can tell you how long its been..to the minute...
    Kokopuffy Kokopuffy 51-55, F 28 Responses May 6, 2014

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    He tried to call once yesterday.

    That was it. It was their 10 year anniversary. I didn't answer.
    lit4love lit4love 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I ended things for good yesterday.

    I think he was surprised, but it was a very emotional ending. He is a very strong person by nature, but I could tell he was hurting. He asked me if there was someone else. I told him no. I cannot even date with him in my life. I simply said I wanted more. He said I deserve more...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 23 Responses Mar 22

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    what's wrong with me?

    he is just busy, he doesn't forget me or stop loving me. I feel so depressed , he doesn't pay attention to me that much. I wanna cry, i wanna scream, how i feel this kind of pains inside my heart. I could not stop think about him, not even single minute. He doesn't care that i...
    angelamaxy angelamaxy 22-25 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Maybe this is what's going on.

    .. http://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/05/mercury-retrograde-its-time-to-make-things-right/
    UnrequitedControl UnrequitedControl 31-35, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Does everyone understand the meaning of

    Memorial Day? Tell me what you think it is and I'll tel you what I know it to be.
    Serendipitous1 Serendipitous1 36-40, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I Can't Believe It... I Actually Left

    If you read my last story, you will know that I was the "other woman" in my last relationship. Yes, last. I finally got it all together and I left him. When it came down to it, I finally just said, "Its me or her. I can't live like this anymore." And he begged...
    fuego fuego 18-21 41 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    Although we started off our morning great,

    and we are great, and he's talking about going somewhere with me later, I don't feel great. I don't feel great about it being a 3 day weekend. I don't feel great about missing him the way that I do on a deep intrinsic level. I don't feel great that I can't spend more time with...
    UnrequitedControl UnrequitedControl 31-35, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I Was The Other Woman; Read If You Want To Walk Away

    I'm 29 years old and I live and own a house with my boyfriend of 11 years. About 2 years about I became involved romantically with my co-worker, a married man with three young children. I still work with him very closely with this man...but about two months ago I completely...
    marygold1983 marygold1983 26-30, F 155 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    Man, my soon to be ex has really done a number

    on me mentally and because of it, it really may mess up things with MM to the point that after almost two years I may call it quits. I know I will regret this decision and I keep trying to talk myself off that ledge, but it's sooo hard to do. My H has let me believe for years...
    thelionsden13 thelionsden13 41-45, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    MM asked to meet up today.

    . Obviously To fck. And I decided to divert the conversation and then I stopped replying to him.. And it feels sooooooo good to just say no. It's not about getting even with him. I miss him so much that it hurts. But I'm not his fck toy. I would never subject myself to that...
    Xf1234 Xf1234 26-30, F 18 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    Wow! What a day!!! Where do I start?

    He was waiting at hotel for me. Got the biggest hug. We talked a bit but my urges could not contain themselves long. I dove right into him on the bed. I missed him so much. Our love making is beyond describable. My favourite part is lying in his arms afterwards. It seems that...
    Lust2much Lust2much 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    A Letter From The Other Woman

    You are the one he’s lived with for a very long time. I have known him for three years. You are the one who wakes up to his familiar face each and every day and you give him a peck on the cheek. I gaze into his deep brown eyes and run my hands through his slightly graying dark...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 102 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    3.5 hours!!! The countdown is on

    until I'm in his arms:) We got our room for the day and I'm oh so excited. So much sexual tension needs to be released. It's been a long two weeks since we last saw each other so I can only imagine what today will consist of;) One very happy lady right here!!!!!!!!
    Lust2much Lust2much 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I think this was done

    once before. But it's a slow day at work and I'm trying to will the clock to move faster towards 5pm. So let's play a little game of sorts. 1. Name a song that best represents you and how you feel about your relationship with your MM. 2. Name a movie that reminds you of...
    thathurtgrl thathurtgrl 36-40, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    can today get any worse?

    !?!! two days NC and I think I'm going crazy!! not to mention mm's w will be back tomorrow :( ugh.... I need something to distract myself :'( can't believe I am balling my eyes out like a baby
    emeraldprincess1003 emeraldprincess1003 22-25, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I am having an amazing day with my mm.

    we have laughed and played and ahoped. great sex and gawd. I just love holding his hand. this is so crazy. make the feelings slow down
    spoiledlittle spoiledlittle 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    So this post is for all you dam haters of us

    "OW" or "OM" you continue to bash us for straying...not being faithful...try to communicate more with spouse...there is no reason to cheat....blah blah blah...you tell me this.... I have been a dam good wife to my H for 21 years...put my dreams on hold so I can make his come...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 41-45, F 51 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    I haven't posted here in a long,

    long time. Mostly it's because I had a hell of a D-day in early February. My H discovered the affair, confronted me & threatened to send his proof to MM's wife. I use the opportunity to end my marriage. And so did MM. But, we did not end it to be with each other. We took...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 23 Responses Apr 30

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    Ooooookay....I pick up my phone this am

    while having my coffee, to catch up on what's been going on with you ladies. What do I find? Haters, trolls and generally just nonsense going on. Who are all these people and why, suddenly, are you here telling us what's best for us, when you know not a thing? Get out, shoo...
    CherokeeEyes CherokeeEyes 41-45, F 17 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    What It's Like Being The Other Woman

    So many of you have no idea how many of your stories I’ve read and wanted so desperately to reply. Ultimately, I wouldn’t be able to keep up. There is not ONE story I’ve yet to read which is not already written about in my book. I’ve started replying and then I stop...
    Micalle Micalle 36-40, F 48 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    Can The Other Woman Ever Really Become The Wife?

    I've read a lot of judgmental comments on different sites but we should never say what we would or would not do because we honestly never know until we find ourselves in a place called "here". I became the other woman (OW) a little over a year ago. We were both married at the...
    essenceoflaneen essenceoflaneen 31-35 92 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    MM is now 3 weeks into his new job

    and I'm still struggling with things. I know he is working hard and I know he misses me. But he is never free to chat anymore, some days I'm lucky if I get 5 mins of his time. Although I do always get a good morning and maybe 1-2 lines during the day. We used to chat online...
    daisyblue222 daisyblue222 41-45, F 9 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I hate my MM. I hate him

    because I very stupidly love him, and lately, it's gotten very stupid. I've barely spoken to him, because he hung up in my face when I asked if he still loves me. He said in that moment he couldn't handle fighting or handle anything else. He just complete shut down with a...
    lit4love lit4love 26-30, F 4 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Society calls us cheaters

    and home wreckers and a few other not so nice names, but we are mothers, daughters, sisters and grandmothers like everyone else. The only difference is that we have a relationship outside of our marriage that helps us feel whole. I don't see myself as being any different from...
    KathyJ304 KathyJ304 26-30, F 45 Responses Jan 10

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    Actually I am not the other woman ,

    don't know where this story fits . Well the story is about my father . He is not a bad man or a bad father . My mother is also not bad one . All my childhood I witnessed how much they love each other and appreciate each other . In my teenage more like when I was in 16...
    ordinarymomof2 ordinarymomof2 36-40, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    I AM NOT THE OTHER WOMAN.

    There are many labels I could have. But "the other woman" is not one I use. That is NOT how I define myself or this relationship! It annoys me that we seem to be identified solely in that context here. No doubt that's who I would be from where she stands ... I'm sure that's...
    SafetyNotGuaranteed SafetyNotGuaranteed 46-50, F 19 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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