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I Am The Other Woman

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    I just want to wish you all a really lovely holiday weekend (those of you that get one). I so wanted to tell you guys happy stuff but looking at the crap people are writing when...
    CuriousKat12 CuriousKat12 51-55, F 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Apology To My OW Who Stopped Waiting, Really Stopped Waiting - I am truly and unreservedly sorry for what I have put you through. Whatever the reasons, the result is that I took...
    Wilbury Wilbury 41-45, M 13 Responses May 4, 2013

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    Hey ladies! First off - I missed you all like crazy - I hope everyone is doing well! I'm home. I got home last night and spent most of the night just unwinding. Its weird not...
    notafanofcircumstance notafanofcircumstance 31-35, F 15 Responses 1 day ago

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    I never meant for it to be this way. Initially, he and I broke up, and in that time, his ex came back into the picture, and I supported him, especially since he shares two kids...
    NotAhomewrecker NotAhomewrecker 22-25, F 1 min ago

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    Let's play a game!! It's Throat Punch Thursday!! Name your victims!
    ginaree ginaree 36-40, F 7 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Can The Other Woman Ever Really Become The Wife? - I've read a lot of judgmental comments on different sites but we should never say what we would or would not do because we...
    essenceoflaneen essenceoflaneen 31-35 62 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    Sorry, Ladies... - I know I'll probably catch plenty of flak for this, but I'm gonna say it anyway. I have slept with married (or otherwise "spoken for") men before, and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 204 Responses Jul 28, 2008

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    Food for thought.... I know a lot of our criticism (if that word isn't too nice) comes from those that base everything on the vows taken by a husband and wife. I toy with this in...
    justanotherow justanotherow 41-45, F 1 Response 29 mins ago

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    I was trying to figure out if I should even put in my pathetic post today or not but so many of us seem to be feeling it today. It's weird but I have shared little of the downs...
    Onceinalifetime2 Onceinalifetime2 46-50, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Funny.....does everyone know what the "B**ch Button" is? Not sure how it works on all cell phones, but on mine, I can silence an incoming phone call which will send the caller to...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I WAS the other woman. Not anymore. It feels so good to ignore the texts that say I miss you or I love you because I don't feel the same anymore. They keep coming, and I keep...
    lilly1988 lilly1988 26-30 7 Responses Feb 13

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    Well, I was the other woman. :*( My heart hearts. Mostly I am furious because his fiancé was actually understanding and she is still choosing to stay with him. I told her...
    cowgurrl cowgurrl 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Both Sides of the Fence! I lived in a sexless marriage for many years. My spouse did not. He like dripping his wick elsewhere, through our entire marriage. I didn't want to catch...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 28 Responses Feb 15

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    Wow...I've been offline lately and saw the posts about increased troll activity since signing on again. You weren't kidding! How sad that some people have nothing better in...
    kalikakat kalikakat 36-40 2 hrs ago

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    a bit depressed, the next four days i dont get to c him and chances are we wont chat tooooo, and im feeling so miserable for not giving him an idea of how im feeling, its like i...
    ANGELKZ ANGELKZ 26-30, F 6 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    A Letter From The Other Woman - You are the one he’s lived with for a very long time. I have known him for three years. You are the one who wakes up to his familiar face each and...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 101 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    I Can't Believe It... I Actually Left - If you read my last story, you will know that I was the "other woman" in my last relationship. Yes, last. I finally got it all...
    fuego fuego 18-21 34 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    I felt pretty confident yesterday evening. MM said good morning and small talked for a bit, then asked what was on my mind. I told him it was just little things and that I missed...
    cowgurrl cowgurrl 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Poem by me called "All of me" Who gave this good for nothing man to have all of me My thighs, my legs, my soft smooth flesh Who gave him the right to trample on my feelings Like...
    Chocolategirl18 Chocolategirl18 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    It's official. I'm just a booty call. Now it's up to me to decide if I want to continue or end it. Have no idea what I'm going to do. All the words, all the loving and caring words...
    GenieH22 GenieH22 36-40, F 37 Responses 1 day ago

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    To The Married Men - *I hope this helps the other women who have felt this way* There are some things we, the other women, need you, the married men, to know and understand. Being...
    hischelsea hischelsea 46-50, F 61 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    I am so sad right now, reality slapped me in the face. As I have said before my mm used me he is a womanizer and took advantage of my vulnerability. I was the idiot that fell in...
    Gweneth Gweneth 31-35 13 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I met someone online when I was going through a hard time. He did not specifically admitted to being married at first, or I would have never agreed to meet or got close to him...
    NemiTuesday NemiTuesday 36-40, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I don't know about the rest of you, but I wish it was this easy to find people to be friends with who understand us and we can be blunt with IN PERSON I do not have any friends...
    Kadl Kadl 46-50, F 37 Responses Mar 26

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    (Bring on the massive amounts of trolls that have been running around) I have absolutely no reason to feel down today, but I am. I had a good day yesterday...he texted me off and...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 7 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I've seen or talked to my MM everyday, I have not been with him in almost two weeks. For me ladies that's a long time. We haven't gone this long in over a year that I can...
    shouldntbethishard shouldntbethishard 36-40, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I Applaud "The Other Woman" - I've looked through this "experience" and have read comments made by both sides. One against "the other woman"...and one supporting. I'm...
    seeinglife2x2 seeinglife2x2 46-50, M 27 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    Dear EP, I am "the other woman" and I have come to this site for wisdom and support from other women in my situation. While on this site I have run into people who have ridiculed...
    Kokopuffy Kokopuffy 51-55, F 47 Responses Feb 16

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    Oh no! This may be a little TMI, but here goes ladies.... So, MM and I are supposed to spend the end of the week together... We're both so, so excited and dying to see each other...
    weirdlyfe2014 weirdlyfe2014 26-30, F 18 Responses 1 day ago

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    What The Wife Doesn't Know.. - What you don't know is.. I never initiated this contact with your husband. I was never out to get him or you. Him being married is NOT a turn on for...
    AyoMK AyoMK 22-25, F 25 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    Who knew you could go from miserable to amazing... my Husband has told me that now after 2.5 years coming up with all these different ways to make US work, and coming up with new...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 20 Responses Mar 15

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    It's now been 1 week since hearing from my MM. He took his daughter to visit colleges out of state for a few days so I knew there would be a break. I just thought I would have...
    kalikakat kalikakat 36-40 6 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    To All The Negative Wives - **to all the wives who have messaged me** I have been messaged and ridiculed by many wives for being a "home wrecker". I for one never knew he was...
    Livedandloved Livedandloved 22-25, F 74 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    Just now you texted me you are in KTV with your guy friends, keep explaining the reasons why you are there and promising you are there for drinks only...... Hey, I am just your OW...
    Lookandsee Lookandsee 31-35, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Ever feel like you’re setting yourself up for failure? Truth is deep down I feel if I meet my MM and discover our feelings for each other are 100% valid, the chance of us...
    Lauryn0114 Lauryn0114 31-35, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    My Secret Gold Coin - You don’t know it, but I think of you as a beautiful, precious, shiny gold coin that I keep secretly hidden in my pocket. I feel happy knowing that you...
    jenn80 jenn80 51-55 18 Responses May 23, 2013

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    I Was The Other Woman; Read If You Want To Walk Away - I'm 29 years old and I live and own a house with my boyfriend of 11 years. About 2 years about I became involved romantically...
    marygold1983 marygold1983 26-30, F 124 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    Are any of you guys actually friends or "acquaintances" with the wife of your MM? I actually have her on my Facebook! We (him and I) are very careful on commenting or liking or...
    musicandnotes musicandnotes 22-25, F 7 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I hope I've blocked enough trolls so I can repost this from a story I wrote for "I am Married and having an affair" without getting run over the coals. But then I can always delete...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 10 Responses Mar 16

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    Don't You Women Get It? - Don't you women get it yet? Most married men are not going to leave their wife for the other woman. These men want the best of both and as long as you're...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 159 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    What It's Like Being The Other Woman - So many of you have no idea how many of your stories I’ve read and wanted so desperately to reply. Ultimately, I wouldn’t be able to keep...
    Micalle Micalle 36-40, F 44 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    I have been following this experience for a long time now, and finally, I feel the need to write. I write this only for those of you that are hoping your mm will leave his wife...
    Uht2014 Uht2014 46-50, F 6 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I like coming on here and reading stories and reading the comments left by others. Sometimes though I feel like it's not beneficial to myself. For example, I haven't tried to make...
    nothingbetterthanlaughing nothingbetterthanlaughing 31-35, F 19 Responses Jan 2

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    My mm officially ended it today. Says he loves his wife too much to keep going. I deleted our messenger we used and told him I don't want to stay in touch. My heart is completely...
    megw16 megw16 31-35, F 42 Responses Feb 24

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    When I wake up, I reach for someone who likely isn't there. I don't get a morning kiss, I don't get to make his lunch. I don't have the right to call him at work, or to ask him to...
    notafanofcircumstance notafanofcircumstance 31-35, F 22 Responses Mar 17

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    I hate the way that sounds. Because in many ways I was THE woman...we connected, we fit, we found something rare and whole and fulfilling and wonderful. It started as a genuine...
    Kadl Kadl 46-50, F 13 Responses Feb 18

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    It's been going so well lately. We've been talking every day. We both take photos of our lives through out the day and share them. Which is nice. It's like I'm with him. I feel...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear Jason, I hate it when you send me dirty texts. That's not true, I like it. It's fun. It's flirty. But you make me feel slutty. And I feel like I have to play along. I feel...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I'm sure most of you ladies know this by now but browserbowser is another pathetic troll!!! We all need to block him. 👹
    Cheeks2014 Cheeks2014 36-40, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    How badly I want to express the way I feel to him. How badly I don't want to be the only one of us that feels this way. It kills me to not know what he's thinking or what he's...
    kc5316 kc5316 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    A Letter To The Other Woman - His wife, his mistress...a role we both seem to share. If I am happy and in his arms, there are tears in your eyes. If you are happy and in his arms...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 149 Responses Oct 26, 2012