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I Am The Other Woman

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    Are there any other success stories that have come out of affairs? Did anyone else end up with their MM or MW?
    sunflowah sunflowah 36-40, F 8 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I hope I've blocked enough trolls so I can repost this from a story I wrote for "I am Married and having an affair" without getting run over the coals. But then I can always delete...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 10 Responses Mar 16

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    To All The Negative Wives - **to all the wives who have messaged me** I have been messaged and ridiculed by many wives for being a "home wrecker". I for one never knew he was...
    Livedandloved Livedandloved 22-25, F 75 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    Girlies.. My mans team is playing tonight. They're playing a good team so chances are they will loose. As most of you know, whenever he's team looses I send him a pic to cheer him...
    hayleysusannah hayleysusannah 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Funny.....does everyone know what the "B**ch Button" is? Not sure how it works on all cell phones, but on mine, I can silence an incoming phone call which will send the caller to...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 1 Response 30 mins ago

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    Ladies:( my MM got mad at for the first time in months. He gets upset with me, but he usually puts up with it cause he knows I'm emotionally insecure being the other woman. He was...
    Xf1234 Xf1234 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    A Letter To The Other Woman - His wife, his mistress...a role we both seem to share. If I am happy and in his arms, there are tears in your eyes. If you are happy and in his arms...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 149 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Hello everyone! I am new and I am so glad I found this site/thread. I have no one that can relate to whats going on in my life and the craziness Ive recently entered in involving...
    musicandnotes musicandnotes 22-25, F 7 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I Was The Other Woman; Read If You Want To Walk Away - I'm 29 years old and I live and own a house with my boyfriend of 11 years. About 2 years about I became involved romantically...
    marygold1983 marygold1983 26-30, F 124 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    I got there early and sat with my back to the door. The bartender greeted me and asked if he was coming to. I said yes, trying to be positive. A few mins later I felt his hand on...
    stellar31 stellar31 31-35, F 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Never Thought I'D Be One Of 'Those Women'. - Where to start.... I always thought I was an honest trustworthy wife/mother/daughter/sister/friend but now I have strayed into the...
    AnotherBondiBlonde AnotherBondiBlonde 36-40, F 82 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    On a complete different subject...well, kind of. You ladies give great advice so I thought maybe you might have some more. When my partner of 14 years passed, I began seeing my...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Yesterday was an interesting day, I had some family issues going on and was quite stressed out. Sometimes all I want to do is call him and talk because he always puts me back in a...
    sleeplesssecretary sleeplesssecretary 22-25, F 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    What It's Like Being The Other Woman - So many of you have no idea how many of your stories I’ve read and wanted so desperately to reply. Ultimately, I wouldn’t be able to keep...
    Micalle Micalle 36-40, F 44 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    I had forgotten about this song until a post reminded me this morning... missed Music Monday.... but here it is :-) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_1NSj0GCDI
    MlovesM MlovesM 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    A Letter From The Other Woman - You are the one he’s lived with for a very long time. I have known him for three years. You are the one who wakes up to his familiar face each and...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 101 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    Who knew you could go from miserable to amazing... my Husband has told me that now after 2.5 years coming up with all these different ways to make US work, and coming up with new...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 20 Responses Mar 15

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    I hate the way that sounds. Because in many ways I was THE woman...we connected, we fit, we found something rare and whole and fulfilling and wonderful. It started as a genuine...
    Kadl Kadl 46-50, F 13 Responses Feb 18

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    What I learned recently - 1) Strong marriages can not be broken. If someone has an "other" someone, things were already broken on some level. 2) I have kids. I run a household. I...
    notafanofcircumstance notafanofcircumstance 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 25

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    So I feel a little more validated in my relationship with my guy.... I am out of town for a couple days and I thought my guy was going to take advantage of the fact and spend a...
    Jlynn1424 Jlynn1424 22-25, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm meeting him at our "cheers". Everyone knows us by name there. It's nice, makes it feel real. We had an argument this afternoon bc I got my feelings hurt about him canceling...
    stellar31 stellar31 31-35, F 10 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Dear EP, I am "the other woman" and I have come to this site for wisdom and support from other women in my situation. While on this site I have run into people who have ridiculed...
    Kokopuffy Kokopuffy 51-55, F 46 Responses Feb 16

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    its like when ever we hang out and talk, he always drops hints and mentions of how hes not a gud person to fall in love with, that hes a bad person but i cant see that cos hes mean...
    ANGELKZ ANGELKZ 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I cried myself to sleep last night, missing him. I woke up this morning, looked in the mirror and promised myself I would be stronger. I would do anything for this man however I...
    stellar31 stellar31 31-35, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    When I wake up, I reach for someone who likely isn't there. I don't get a morning kiss, I don't get to make his lunch. I don't have the right to call him at work, or to ask him to...
    notafanofcircumstance notafanofcircumstance 31-35, F 22 Responses Mar 17

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    Hey ladies! First off - I missed you all like crazy - I hope everyone is doing well! I'm home. I got home last night and spent most of the night just unwinding. Its weird not...
    notafanofcircumstance notafanofcircumstance 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I WAS the other woman. Not anymore. It feels so good to ignore the texts that say I miss you or I love you because I don't feel the same anymore. They keep coming, and I keep...
    lilly1988 lilly1988 26-30 7 Responses Feb 13

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    I was down yesterday knowing MM was not going to be able to see me for two weeks until I got the surprise text yesterday asking to see me before he left. We had an amazing time...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    My Secret Gold Coin - You don’t know it, but I think of you as a beautiful, precious, shiny gold coin that I keep secretly hidden in my pocket. I feel happy knowing that you...
    jenn80 jenn80 51-55 18 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Yesterday I met up with my mm. I don't know if it ever happened to you guys but I feel like I make a list of all the things I want to say to him when he makes me angry. But when I...
    musicandnotes musicandnotes 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Haven't been on today so I haven't seen all the troll post but wanted to give a big hug to the OW's out there that are having problems. Remember if the MM was happy at home he...
    shouldntbethishard shouldntbethishard 36-40, F 9 Responses Feb 11

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    Don't You Women Get It? - Don't you women get it yet? Most married men are not going to leave their wife for the other woman. These men want the best of both and as long as you're...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 160 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    A How To List - Hello to everyone especially those drawn here by the Facebook postings. For the record, I am not "Keeping it real in Kendall". Since most of you are brand new to EP...
    hischelsea hischelsea 46-50, F 105 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    Both Sides of the Fence! I lived in a sexless marriage for many years. My spouse did not. He like dripping his wick elsewhere, through our entire marriage. I didn't want to catch...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 28 Responses Feb 15

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    I like coming on here and reading stories and reading the comments left by others. Sometimes though I feel like it's not beneficial to myself. For example, I haven't tried to make...
    nothingbetterthanlaughing nothingbetterthanlaughing 31-35, F 19 Responses Jan 2

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    Can The Other Woman Ever Really Become The Wife? - I've read a lot of judgmental comments on different sites but we should never say what we would or would not do because we...
    essenceoflaneen essenceoflaneen 31-35 61 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    Apology To My OW Who Stopped Waiting, Really Stopped Waiting - I am truly and unreservedly sorry for what I have put you through. Whatever the reasons, the result is that I took...
    Wilbury Wilbury 41-45, M 13 Responses May 4, 2013

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    ok i couldnt wait to post this morning i had been such a mess and needed some support from you guys, it may be im being a drama queen here, but anyway yday we spoke and it was fine...
    ANGELKZ ANGELKZ 26-30, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I Can't Believe It... I Actually Left - If you read my last story, you will know that I was the "other woman" in my last relationship. Yes, last. I finally got it all...
    fuego fuego 18-21 34 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    Hey ladies....did you know we are to blame for all things evil in this world? We're to blame for wars, world hunger, abortion....and for loving married men. We are the scum of the...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 8 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Just feeling annoyed! It's always so hard when you're on that high and things come down. I got to see MM everyday for 2 weeks straight. We may not have been able to steal a kiss...
    ginaree ginaree 36-40, F 7 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Sorry, Ladies... - I know I'll probably catch plenty of flak for this, but I'm gonna say it anyway. I have slept with married (or otherwise "spoken for") men before, and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 204 Responses Jul 28, 2008

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    I don't know about the rest of you, but I wish it was this easy to find people to be friends with who understand us and we can be blunt with IN PERSON I do not have any friends...
    Kadl Kadl 46-50, F 37 Responses Mar 26

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    Think it's time for a feel good thread. Tell us all anything wonderful about your MM. Something that makes you laugh, something he does that makes you feel good....anything at all...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 14 Responses 1 day ago

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    My mm officially ended it today. Says he loves his wife too much to keep going. I deleted our messenger we used and told him I don't want to stay in touch. My heart is completely...
    megw16 megw16 31-35, F 42 Responses Feb 24

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    What The Wife Doesn't Know.. - What you don't know is.. I never initiated this contact with your husband. I was never out to get him or you. Him being married is NOT a turn on for...
    AyoMK AyoMK 22-25, F 25 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    Nights are usually quiet. So are weekends. Not because they need to be, but he does it out of respect. I understand. Tonight though, he sent a text. Made me smile as soon as I...
    OneSweetThing OneSweetThing 31-35, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I just want to say thank you to all you lovely ladies, who I think of as my friends now. I was feeling low this evening, because it being the weekend I know I won't be in much...
    kellysperfectlove kellysperfectlove 46-50, F 13 Responses Mar 8

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    ...ok its Wednesday...T -minus 4 days and counting. And I'm sooooooo nervous. I don't know what to do. My dilemma: To welcome him (my MM) back into his SPOT, or to stay MIA? ok...
    chie5189 chie5189 36-40 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I'm getting so worried he should be home now, he should have been here about an hour ago. I'm waiting up for him and his phone battery died, I don't know what to do :-( what if...
    Myturtle409 Myturtle409 31-35 6 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Feeling a bit confused about this relationship. It was to the point that I was seriously considering ending it because it seemed as though he was losing interest, when we were...
    blue963 blue963 46-50, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    To The Married Men - *I hope this helps the other women who have felt this way* There are some things we, the other women, need you, the married men, to know and understand. Being...
    hischelsea hischelsea 46-50, F 61 Responses Jun 2, 2013