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I Am The Other Woman

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    Poem by me called "All of me" Wh... - ave this good for nothing man to have all of me My thighs, my legs, my soft smooth flesh Who gave him the right to trample on my feelings...
    Chocolategirl18 Chocolategirl18 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Never Thought I'D Be One Of 'Those Women'. - Where to start.... I always thought I was an honest trustworthy wife/mother/daughter/sister/friend but now I have strayed into the...
    AnotherBondiBlonde AnotherBondiBlonde 36-40, F 82 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    Can The Other Woman Ever Really Become The Wife? - I've read a lot of judgmental comments on different sites but we should never say what we would or would not do because we...
    essenceoflaneen essenceoflaneen 31-35 62 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    Dear EP, I am "the other woman" - and I have come to this site for wisdom and support from other women in my situation. While on this site I have run into people who have...
    Kokopuffy Kokopuffy 51-55, F 48 Responses Feb 16

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    Well, I was also mad - . :*( My heart hearts. Mostly I am furious because his fiancé was actually understanding and she is still choosing to stay with him. I told her everything...
    cowgurrl cowgurrl 22-25, F 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I Can't Believe It... I Actually Left - If you read my last story, you will know that I was the "other woman" in my last relationship. Yes, last. I finally got it all...
    fuego fuego 18-21 34 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    Both Sides of the Fence! I lived... - a sexless marriage for many years. My spouse did not. He like dripping his wick elsewhere, through our entire marriage. I didn't want to...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 28 Responses Feb 15

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    I came home from work with these messages awa... - ng me; Does it ever make you wonder... That you feel down today not because of "trolls", but because somewhere inside you...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I just want to say thank you to all you lovel... - adies, who I think of as my friends now. I was feeling low this evening, because it being the weekend I know I won't be in much...
    kellysperfectlove kellysperfectlove 46-50, F 13 Responses Mar 8

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    Are any of you guys actually friends - or "acquaintances" with the wife of your MM? I actually have her on my Facebook! We (him and I) are very careful on commenting or liking...
    musicandnotes musicandnotes 22-25, F 8 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Wow...I've been offline lately - and saw the posts about increased troll activity since signing on again. You weren't kidding! How sad that some people have nothing better in...
    kalikakat kalikakat 36-40 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    * was the other woman. I am numb... - . Confused, angry. My ex MM told his 2 ******* he was ******* (they r besties and didnt know about it he said exactly same things to them...
    conflicted2014 conflicted2014 22-25, F 7 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I never meant for it to be this way. We ... - he and I broke up, and in that time, his ex came back into the picture, and I supported him, especially since he shares two kids...
    HDMama HDMama 22-25, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I hope I've blocked enough trolls - so I can repost this from a story I wrote for "I am Married and having an affair" without getting run over the coals. But then I can always...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 10 Responses Mar 16

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    When I wake up, But what I don't under... - sn't there. I don't get a morning kiss, I don't get to make his lunch. I don't have the right to call him at work, or to ask him to...
    notafanofcircumstance notafanofcircumstance 31-35, F 22 Responses Mar 17

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    Ever feel like you’re setting yourself up - for failure? Truth is deep down I feel if I meet my MM and discover our feelings for each other are 100% valid, the chance of us...
    Lauryn0114 Lauryn0114 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I got home from work signed on - , wanting to read and catch up on what I missed, supporting other women who are in the same yet different, situations as me. I can't. I have no...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 12 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Just now you texted me you are in KTV with yo... - guy friends, keep explaining the reasons why you are there and promising you are there for drinks only...... Hey, I am just your...
    Lookandsee Lookandsee 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate the way that sounds. It started - ays I was THE woman...we connected, we fit, we found something rare and whole and fulfilling and wonderful. It started as a genuine...
    Kadl Kadl 46-50, F 13 Responses Feb 18

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    I WAS the other woman - . Not anymore. It feels so good to ignore the texts that say I miss you or I love you because I don't feel the same anymore. They keep coming, and I keep...
    lilly1988 lilly1988 26-30 7 Responses Feb 13

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    OMG! Okay ladies, Last night, The big q... - oday. Last night, for the first time since MM and I have been together I slept with someone else. MM and I are not a couple. We have no...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 8 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I was trying to figure out - if I should even put in my pathetic post today or not but so many of us seem to be feeling it today. It's weird but I have shared little of the downs...
    Onceinalifetime2 Onceinalifetime2 46-50, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I don't know about the rest of you, I do not ... - t was this easy to find people to be friends with who understand us and we can be blunt with IN PERSON I do not have any friends...
    Kadl Kadl 46-50, F 37 Responses Mar 26

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    To All The Negative Wives - **to all the wives who have messaged me** I have been messaged and ridiculed by many wives for being a "home wrecker". I for one never knew he was...
    Livedandloved Livedandloved 22-25, F 74 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    How badly I want to express the way I feel to... - m. How badly I don't want to be the only one of us that feels this way. It kills me to not know what he's thinking or what he's...
    kc5316 kc5316 22-25, F 4 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Haven't been on today - so I haven't seen all the troll post but wanted to give a big hug to the OW's out there that are having problems. Remember if the MM was happy at home he...
    shouldntbethishard shouldntbethishard 36-40, F 9 Responses Feb 11

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    I GET TO SEE HIM!!!!!!!! - ! Finally, schedules meshed and the planets aligned and the ocean tides are all in harmony, the Gods are smiling and all the ducks got in a row...
    MlovesM MlovesM 41-45, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I like coming on here - and reading stories and reading the comments left by others. Sometimes though I feel like it's not beneficial to myself. For example, I haven't tried to...
    nothingbetterthanlaughing nothingbetterthanlaughing 31-35, F 19 Responses Jan 2

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    My Secret Gold Coin - You don’t know it, but I think of you as a beautiful, precious, shiny gold coin that I keep secretly hidden in my pocket. I feel happy knowing that you...
    jenn80 jenn80 51-55 18 Responses May 23, 2013

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    A Letter To The Other Woman - His wife, his mistress...a role we both seem to share. If I am happy and in his arms, there are tears in your eyes. If you are happy and in his arms...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 149 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Don't You Women Get It? - Don't you women get it yet? Most married men are not going to leave their wife for the other woman. These men want the best of both and as long as you're...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 159 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    I Was The Other Woman; Read If You Want To Walk Away - I'm 29 years old and I live and own a house with my boyfriend of 11 years. About 2 years about I became involved romantically...
    marygold1983 marygold1983 26-30, F 124 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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    A Letter From The Other Woman - You are the one he’s lived with for a very long time. I have known him for three years. You are the one who wakes up to his familiar face each and...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 101 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    I call for a happy fun post. Whether i... - l use it with the typical weekend coming up and the fact that it's a holiday as well. Not to mention all the trolls creeping around...
    sweetmae79 sweetmae79 31-35, F 4 Responses 57 mins ago

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    Let's play a game!! It's Throat Punch Thursda... - rsday!! Name your victims!
    ginaree ginaree 36-40, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear Jason, I hate it - when you send me dirty texts. That's not true, I like it. It's fun. It's flirty. But you make me feel slutty. And I feel like I have to play along. I feel...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 4 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Food for thought... - . I know a lot of our criticism (if that word isn't too nice) comes from those that base everything on the vows taken by a husband and wife. I toy with this...
    justanotherow justanotherow 41-45, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Apology To My OW Who Stopped Waiting, Really Stopped Waiting - I am truly and unreservedly sorry for what I have put you through. Whatever the reasons, the result is that I took...
    Wilbury Wilbury 41-45, M 13 Responses May 4, 2013

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    It's now been 1 week - since hearing from my MM. He took his daughter to visit colleges out of state for a few days so I knew there would be a break. I just thought I would have...
    kalikakat kalikakat 36-40 6 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    The last couple of days I really wanted to share - but got so brassed off with the trolls etc I just couldn't be bothered. I got to see the OM on Wednesday. He had to cancel on...
    CuriousKat12 CuriousKat12 51-55, F 11 hrs ago

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    To The Married Men - *I hope this helps the other women who have felt this way* There are some things we, the other women, need you, the married men, to know and understand. Being...
    hischelsea hischelsea 46-50, F 61 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    What I learned recently - 1) Str... - marriages can not be broken. If someone has an "other" someone, things were already broken on some level. 2) I have kids. I run a household...
    notafanofcircumstance notafanofcircumstance 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 25

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    I Applaud "The Other Woman" - I've looked through this "experience" and have read comments made by both sides. One against "the other woman"...and one supporting. I'm...
    seeinglife2x2 seeinglife2x2 46-50, M 27 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    Who knew you could go from miserable to amazi... - .. my Husband has told me that now after 2.5 years coming up with all these different ways to make US work, and coming up with...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 20 Responses Mar 15

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    What It's Like Being The Other Woman - So many of you have no idea how many of your stories I’ve read and wanted so desperately to reply. Ultimately, I wouldn’t be able to keep...
    Micalle Micalle 36-40, F 44 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    I met someone online - when I was going through a hard time. He did not specifically admitted to being married at first, or I would have never agreed to meet or got close to him...
    NemiTuesday NemiTuesday 36-40, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Moving On.....I Didn'T Think I Would Ever Be Able To Say That - I must admit that I have been pretty much obsessed over the man I cheated with. I haven't talked to him in over a...
    SS81 SS81 31-35, F 67 Responses May 8, 2013

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    I've seen or talked to my MM everyday, I guess - not been with him in almost two weeks. For me ladies that's a long time. We haven't gone this long in over a year that I can...
    shouldntbethishard shouldntbethishard 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    What The Wife Doesn't Know.. - What you don't know is.. I never initiated this contact with your husband. I was never out to get him or you. Him being married is NOT a turn on for...
    AyoMK AyoMK 22-25, F 25 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    I am so sad right now, I am devastated - me in the face. As I have said before my mm used me he is a womanizer and took advantage of my vulnerability. I was the idiot that fell in...
    Gweneth Gweneth 31-35 14 Responses 1 day ago

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