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This Experience at a Glance

Story highlights
These snippets show some of the most common themes mentioned in this experience's stories:

" Thank goodness I have a pay as you go phone so it is not traceable She has called off and on several times since she found it..."
"Around Christmas we started talking more, he was looking to move lie , we started searching for apartments for him and spending loads of time together..."
"So I never ever in a million years thought that I would become the other woman..."

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And the Story Awards Go to...

Top Rated: A Letter To The Other Woman

Most Recent: The Game Of Chess

Most Commented: Sorry, Ladies...

Most Entertaining: Sorry, Ladies...

Saddest: Sorry, Ladies...

Happiest: Sorry, Ladies...

Statistics:

75% of people in this group think this is a scary experience. 87% think this experience is hard. 86% think that, if they had the choice, they would not do it again. 90% think this is better experienced alone than with others. 90% think they find this experience unattractive in others. 29% of people who have this experience are in their twenties, 26% are in their thirties, and 18% are in their forties. 86% of people who have this experience are women.

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Guides

Find tips and hints on How To Know If You Are The Other Woman from people who share this experience.

Here are a few tips...

You think you can cope with being the other woman and suddenly you can't and you want to be the ONLY woman
Be prepared to be at the losing end and chin up when the day comes.
He is into you one moment then the next he has changed. You are being squeezed into his schedule and he is hiding you!

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Absolutely! He's Working On It As We Speak.
He Says He's Going To, But I'm Not So Sure.
It's A Possibility, I Suppose.
Not Very Likely, But I Guess Anything Is Possible.
Absolutely Not. He Still Wants To Be With Her, And Told Me As Much.
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Yes, VERY Much So.
Yes, To Some Degree.
Maybe
No, But May In The Future.
No Way Ain't Gonna Happen.
Other
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Never
Maybe Once
Only If They Were In The Middle Of A Divorce
Whenever Possible
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Yes, Without A Doubt
Never
Depending On The Circumstances (heat Of The Moment)
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1-3 Months
3-6 Months
6-9 Months
9-12 Months
1 - 2 Years
2-4 Years
4-6 Years
6-8 Years
8-10 Years
10 Or More
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It Won't
He Will Leave His Wife And Be With Me.
I Will Leave Him When I Meet A Single Man
He Will End It Nicely
You Will End It Nicely
It Will Be A Mutual Decision Without Any Drama
I Don't Know
It Will Be A Horrible Mess With Everyone Finding Out
He Will End It With Lots Of Heartache
You Will End It Spitefully With A Whole Lot Of Drama
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He Says He's Working On It (tired Sigh!)
"A Divorce Attorney Is Too Expensive Right Now"
My Kids Need Me!"
"It's Not The Right Time Yet"
"I Need You To Be More Patient", He Says This W/no Further Excuse Offered ( Another Tired Sigh!)
"My Wife Will Take Everything If I Leave!" (sigh, ...yawn!)
He Says He's Leaving But He Hasn't Yet
He Says His In-laws Will Have Him For Supper!
He Claims His Wife/or Kids Is Sick And He Doesn't Want To Leave Her/him Right Now
He Offers No Reason And Shows No Actions Taken Toward Leaving The Wife
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Max 6 Months
Max 1 Year
Max 1 1/2 Years
Max 2 Years
Max 3 Years
As Long As It Takes
I Dont Know
There Is No Decision To Make
I Am Not Waiting For A Decision
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