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I Am The Other Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 14,731 People

    I just want to tell everyone thank you

    for the advice, support, and at times laughs that I have found here in the past year since I found this place. I will be leaving my account up until tomorrow night after I get home from work.
    independentandstubborn independentandstubborn
    51-55, F
    Apr 19, 2016

    Can someone please let me know what the other

    site is again? Have a feeling that I'm going to need it.
    independentandstubborn independentandstubborn
    51-55, F
    Apr 19, 2016

    I got a text from MPP,

    he needed a ride home after bringing a car in for a safety check. He'd tried to arrange one, but nothing seemed to work out. He even got his bike down but one of the tires wasn't holding air. So, of course I offered, because it meant being able to see him. Picked him up...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 18, 2016

    I have come in contact with

    so many different people in my life .My MM Is the best thing that ever happened to me . He kept me grounded ,at the time i needed to be grounded the most . the trolls on here have brought out a side of me I thought I would never ever see again .They are heartless ,cruel and...
    peachy115 peachy115
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Apr 18, 2016

    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 18, 2016

    "Don't judge my book,

    by the chapter you walked in on."
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 18, 2016

    Just want to wish all you ladies good luck.

    I have enjoyed reading about your journeys and it has been so nice to find people who can relate to this. I ???
    joyfulcloudofsorrow joyfulcloudofsorrow
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2016

    Well its time that I step back

    and give you all a bit of time to digest all my information. I offer laxatives to those who are still constipated and for those who have diarrhea drink plenty of water, I do not wish dehydration to set it. I am a woman who emphasizes a life of passion, expressed through personal...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 17, 2016

    I've loved coming here

    and it's helped me tons. At the same time it's also been a bad thing. With that being said, I'm not joining any groups. I'd rather continue on without outside influence and just let things take a more natural course. I wish all the decent folks here the best. You've given...
    Serendipitous1 Serendipitous1
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 17, 2016

    MPP has a difficult, one anniversary coming up.

    I am sure it will send him into a bit of a tailspin, and he will need me. I will absolutely be there for him, just like he has always been there for me. I do know it will not change things for us in a drastic way. It didn't a year ago, and it will not affect us adversely...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    Come on euphoricbeauty !

    !!!!!!! Let's go ,you got a big mouth to go along with that big ugly ,fat azz ,that no man will ever want ... YOU GOT THINGS TO SAY ????? SAY FAT SLOB !!!
    peachy115 peachy115
    51-55, F
    Apr 17, 2016

    A mistress will destroy a man's life

    if he loves her and leaves his family but that love starts with a fracture and not a victory. Of course if he doesn't leave, that mistress will be condemned to a life that is only a half-life. How To Be The Other Woman: First of all, look yoursekf in the mirror and say this as...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 17, 2016

    “True love is usually the most inconvenient

    kind.” ― Kiera Cass, The Selection Word..
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    “I could not tell you

    if I loved you the first moment I saw you, or if it was the second or third or fourth. But I remember the first moment I looked at you walking toward me and realized that somehow the rest of the world seemed to vanish when I was with you.” ― Cassandra Clare, Clockwork...
    deleted deleted
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    Apr 17, 2016
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    Apr 17, 2016
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    Apr 17, 2016
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    Apr 17, 2016

    "Do what is right for you.

    No one else is walking in your shoes."
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    Peace An Inner Choice by Madisyn Taylor Peace

    starts within us- we cannot bring to the world what we do not have to offer. Often we look at the outside world and find it in a state of seeming chaos or disorder. We feel compelled to transform the situation from one of turmoil into one of peace, yet we are often disappointed...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    http://elitedaily.com/dating/marry-complicated-girl/858579/ sent this to my lover. it floored him. all he keeps saying is...that's you baby. god that's 1000% you. I just said...your in the risk zone. thank you E xoxo xoxo this really opened his eyes.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    We were chatting last night

    when he called it a day from replacing the brake lines on my Corsica. He cleaned up the brakes too and did some patchwork He called it a day because its been raining hard for 2 days and he had water trickling through the shop..he quit when the wet clothes he was working in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    "There is a reason for each person

    who comes into your life. Either you need their love or they need yours. Either you will change their life or they will change yours... Or maybe both."
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 17, 2016

    https://youtu.be/Omlzz_k9vSU Garth Brooks

    and Trish Yearwood Can't tell me they didn't have something going on...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 16, 2016

    So is this not closing?

    Or is it still okay
    Ap05 Ap05
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2016
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 16, 2016

    Happy Birthday to you.

    ....Happy Birthday to you. ...Happy Birthday Dear (?) Happy Birthday to you. ... When you blow out the candles make this one wish.................................................... THIS TIME NEXT YEAR YOU WILL NO LONGER BE THE OTHER WOMAN AND HIS FAMILY AND YOURS WILL NO LONGER...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2016

    Ah, love! It is such a beautiful feeling.

    I hope at some point everyone can feel the true healing nature of love. A real love will make you forgive and forget. A real love will let you accept differences in all those around you. Real love opens your mind as well as your heart!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 16, 2016

    I'm going to miss ep,

    I keep reading posts and see users responses. I think...ugh I love hearing their input. it's like my secret little club. all with different minds....coming together to help me navigate my thoughts. I loved reading different perspectives...it never got old. I'm not excited.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 15, 2016

    14 Ways the Girl with a Big Heart

    but Complicated Mind Loves Differently Being with the girl with a big heart but complicated mind may sometimes feel like you’re dating the most complex and satisfying of all puzzles. Just when you start to feel like you’re figuring her out – you find another piece to the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 15, 2016

    Cant wait to set up our facebook page .

    .its going to look so nice and we have the ability to keep it closed to only the people we want by invitation only ! WhooooHooooo!!!!! The friends I made on here are the most caring,loving and non-judgmental people i have ever met before . I am glad we are all meeting up soon...
    peachy115 peachy115
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2016

    Also...where is everyone going?

    I NEED this group. You're the only ones that can tell me what I need to hear, or just offer kind words, and most of all let me know I'm not alone.
    underpressure85 underpressure85
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 14, 2016
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 14, 2016

    EP is going away just

    when I feel like I need it the most. I feel a need to pour my heart out to my MM. I need to let him see the future, our future the way I see it [no it's not all positive]. But we are 14 hours away from each other, and I can only do it over video. I'm afraid that telling him...
    whynot13 whynot13
    51-55, F
    1 Response Apr 14, 2016

    The Other Woman Is the scum of life.

    Scum stick's to dirt and takes away the shine of life, empty and devoid.
    beopendoor beopendoor
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2016

    MPP has been checking on me a lot.

    He's the only one so, I appreciate that he's doing it. He said he'll be here in the morning. But I already knew he would be. I told him my knots have knots..so he said he'll help me untie them. Then I just want to curl up in his arms and be held. Morning can't come soon...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2016

    What's the deal here?

    I got this message from EP.
    Serendipitous1 Serendipitous1
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Apr 13, 2016

    By the way, why is this site closing

    when others within this site are creating new ones?
    Serendipitous1 Serendipitous1
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2016

    So much to say before this group goes away.

    Everything in this transition has been so good, at least on his part. Any negativity is in my part and due to a few factors. One is all I've had going on with a death in my family and a huge assumption of responsibility. The other is a slight lack of trust in goodness. I don't...
    Serendipitous1 Serendipitous1
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2016

    OMG me earring fell off in his truck .

    .. i told him to look for it he said he cant find it..I bet you she will find it and not say anything ..
    peachy115 peachy115
    51-55, F
    Apr 13, 2016

    When I was still married to my ex,

    and he would see one tear.. he would run, fast and far in the opposite direction.. MPP, when my rottie passed yesterday, he was not only there with me (We were both in the room with her). He held me as I cried both there and back home. He had to go because someone was...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2016

    I may not post a lot

    but I'll miss this. I love reading the stories because I identify with some.
    Serendipitous1 Serendipitous1
    41-45, F
    Apr 12, 2016
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2016

    It'e incredible how many nasty,

    judgmental people are coming out of the woodwork during these last few days of EP. I think they are worried they need to get their bitchiness out now because soon no one else will allow them to spew venom. I just grin and sharpen my snarky responses. They make it so easy with...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2016

    This weekend I finally get to se MM!

    We had to cancel February due to both of us being extremely ill, so it has been since October since I've seen him! We will be together several days, and also plan to meet again in two weeks before he moves on to another city.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Apr 12, 2016

    So I just had to share this

    as it really shows how much MM has been making amazing efforts. As many know, one of our 'things' is that when he goes away on business, he always sends me a pic of his hotel view. Sometimes is nothing more than a parking lot on a rainy night but it's his way of letting me know...
    thelionsden13 thelionsden13
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Apr 11, 2016

    "The best kind of people are the ones

    that come into your life, and make you see the sun where you once saw clouds. The people that believe in you so much, you start to believe in you too. The people that love you, simply for being you. The once in a lifetime kind of people."
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 11, 2016

    No matter what you think,

    the universe will never send you someone else's husband or wife ever. Statistics show that the chances of them leaving their spouse are very slim. If someone is taken, leave them alone and forget about it. There are tons of very eligible men and women out there, don't...
    itsmebabeeeee itsmebabeeeee
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Apr 10, 2016

    Yep I love him . Yep he loves me .

    Yep I am on a roll tonight ,let's go bring it on !!!!
    peachy115 peachy115
    51-55, F
    Apr 10, 2016

    MPP and I have both had dreams

    where we are totally aware of each other's presence, (laying in each others arms), at the same time as being in our dreams. It's like we can switch between being with each other, and the dream we are having. It's the strangest feeling, and we have embraced it as an amazing...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 9, 2016

    Today is hard! Today I miss him.

    I lost our baby 10 days ago. I was 7 weeks pregnant. We stopped seeing each other mainly bcs we got caught. He still hasn't told her the whole truth. We are done, but we have been emailing each other. He said he wants to and he promises he will be here for me during this time...
    Laura123321 Laura123321
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Apr 9, 2016

    I am new to this and not really sure

    where to start. I am so sorry its long, but please help me in any way you can. I am a 29 year old female surrounded by amazing family and friends. Educated, pretty, genuine and I know I have so much to look forward to in my life. I recently found myself in a relationship that...
    Laura123321 Laura123321
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Apr 7, 2016

    We were doing so well.

    Three weeks I hadn't seen him and we were getting along brilliantly! I hadn't felt that close to him in along time. But for some reason sex seems to always screw that up for us, I was reserved about seeing him last night because I knew this would happen. He always pulls away...
    Prettybutterfly88 Prettybutterfly88
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2016

    My dryer thermostat quit.

    . MPP to the rescue, cause that's what they do. :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 6, 2016

    MM came over today. He's the best to cuddle

    with. He never fights with me about what to watch. He just lays with me. No sex, just tv. It's amazing that the trolls always assume that they just keep us for sex. Sounds good. It's always disappointing to find out that it's more than that. That it's a friendship. A...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Apr 4, 2016
    lostintransaction lostintransaction
    31-35, F
    Apr 4, 2016

    The man has impeccable timing.

    I just got to a store in his area to pick up some puppy pads.. No I don't have a puppy, I have senior arthritic dog, and I hope she will start using these instead of my carpet.. I figure the pads are worth a shot. Because like my bff said, there will come a day you wish you...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 4, 2016

    Will someone plz add me to the yahoo group

    everyone is joining? I've been here for awhile and I love to read everyone stories. I am the other woman too I just don't post because I don't want any trolls to bother me and I'm not one either. I'll miss EP when it shuts down and very disappointed that I won't be able to be...
    1111volcano 1111volcano
    36-40, F
    Apr 4, 2016

    I'm not sure how many people are

    even still reading here, but I figured I'd sort some thoughts out in writing anyway... Today has been a weird day. My ex-boyfriend (not ex-mm), who I've written about here many times, contacted me today. We dated for around 8 years, and were best friends for even longer, but...
    ashadams244 ashadams244
    31-35, F
    Apr 4, 2016

    Day 5 of our temporary NC

    while his family is visiting. Again. Really its more than that because we haven't had a really good conversation in about 12 days. I got to talk to him about 10 minutes last week total. (Sigh) At least I am not really overthinking - if anything it feels like my brain has shut...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 4, 2016
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