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I Am The Other Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 14,733 People

    Why do you have no self -worth?

    When you do have self-worth your actions will stand you tall in life. You wont see love in a man that can never be your true man in the true sense. Why settle for so little. You deserve better than to be hidden. You deserve the best, why do you give yourself this bad draw in...
    Diamond2020 Diamond2020
    61-65
    1 Response Apr 21, 2016

    Is it really done? I thought EP was paused

    yet I still get messages.
    Serendipitous1 Serendipitous1
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 21, 2016

    Warning Against Adultery 1My son,

    pay attention to my wisdom, turn your ear to my words of insight, 2that you may maintain discretion and your lips may preserve knowledge. 3For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; 4but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a...
    NOWRaptured NOWRaptured
    61-65, F
    3 Responses Apr 21, 2016

    This goes out to Koko puffy,

    Lil lotus and the rest of you sorry pathetic hopeless hapless romantics . Stop fooling yourself into thinking that you and your MM will be together one day. People like you need a reality check, like someone needs to come along and burst your fantasy bubble! You are in denial...
    hotbuttersoul hotbuttersoul
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Apr 21, 2016

    Take care of yourselves.

    Remember there will always be trolls. See you on the flip side.
    independentandstubborn independentandstubborn
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Apr 21, 2016

    RIP, Prince. Dig if you will the picture Of you

    and I engaged in a kiss The sweat of your body covers me Can you my darling Can you picture this? Dream if you can a courtyard An ocean of violets in bloom Animals strike curious poses They feel the heat The heat between me and you How can you just leave me standing? Alone in...
    BoudoirWhispers BoudoirWhispers
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2016

    My last post here: Be happy.

    Don't listen to the trolls. Do what you can to better yourself. You are not alone. Follow your heart....
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 21, 2016

    Knowing EP was closing soon,

    I decided to log in one last time today. I am not going to save any of my posts (or any posts from my previous user name), because this is such an emotional journey we are all on. I have enough "dialog" saved, between MM and I, to remind me of the constant ups and downs. My mood...
    tidbits32 tidbits32
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2016

    It's like a funeral here .

    .. I been to too many of them in the past couple of years... This was a great site to come and vent ,happy times ,sad times ,confused times ,over the top and down to the bottom.... We live our lives every day to the fullest .. I have made many ,many ,many friends on here and...
    peachy115 peachy115
    51-55, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2016

    Every day and night my mind is filled with

    thoughts of you As long as the sun continues to shine you can be sure that my heart will remain yours
    Hunniebae Hunniebae
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2016

    http://www.experienceproject.

    com/stories/Am-The-Other-Woman/5357914 One of my favorites... Written 14 months ago and I still feel the same
    elizabethmariejazz elizabethmariejazz
    41-45, F
    Apr 20, 2016

    Road trip.. MPP needs to pick up some parts

    out of town tomorrow evening. I'm going with him. :) I love driving with him, especially on the highway. What a great way to end EP. Smiling, happy, and so in love.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2016

    Be happy, and follow your heart.

    Don't ever let anyone tell you how you should feel, think or be. Be authentic and true to yourself. You only get one life.. Make it a good one.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 20, 2016

    I believe that when people wish harm

    and bad things on you ,it comes true ..When the harp on something so strong ,it becomes that bad thing .. When you push ,and push the negativity away ,it helps.Sometimes you get to tired to push back and just let things happen ...
    peachy115 peachy115
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2016

    I can't get my posts to download

    and this bites because I have used this as my diary for this past year. I ended up featuring another post. If I can't get things fixed with my laptop I guess I will just screen shot as many as I can. Things aren't good right now with us and my gut tells me that I probably can't...
    independentandstubborn independentandstubborn
    51-55, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2016

    Good bye to all, it's the last day to post I

    think. I will be moving to exp2 I hope. I will miss being able to come here to post and read. It's a sad day. Maybe EP will be back one day. So sad to see it go :( Best of luck to everyone!
    freedomnow001 freedomnow001
    36-40, F
    Apr 20, 2016

    Following Peachy, Koko,

    and PressPToPlay, I went back and dug up my first post about being the other woman on EP. Different screen name maybe, but the story is still mine.. "I never thought it would happen. I didn't go looking for anything from anyone, although I was starting to pull away from my...
    ElsieJay ElsieJay
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2016

    I figured I'd hop on

    for one last post today... A couple of weeks ago, the long lost love of my life contacted me out of the blue. He was my college sweetheart, and while I haven't really been believing in the idea of a 'soul mate' lately, I think he was about as close as it gets. He just 'got me...
    ashadams244 ashadams244
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2016

    So, this is it. The dusk of EP.

    As many others, I have scrolled through my stories and marveled at the comments left by those who have shared my journey for a brief time span. How quickly time has passed... Not much has changed since I joined EP almost exactly two years ago: My MM and I continue to work...
    BoudoirWhispers BoudoirWhispers
    51-55, F
    Apr 20, 2016

    Resentment Demolishing Anger's Walls by Madisyn

    Taylor When anger has no outlet it can morph into resentment and carries the potential to cause great turmoil. Anger, when channeled into the pursuit of change, can be a useful tool in our emotional palette. Anger is experienced by most people, some more than others. It is...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 20, 2016

    "One of the biggest mistakes we make is assuming

    that other people think the way we think"
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 19, 2016

    Until we meet again, ladies!

    . For a variety of reasons, I have not been online much (mostly due to a almost dead laptop, a desktop that had problems connecting to the internet, and life in general). . I went through all of my stories to see when I joined here. I joined the "I Live in a Sexless Marriage...
    TrulyMadlyDeeply38 TrulyMadlyDeeply38
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Apr 19, 2016

    Reposting this... I am posting this letter

    from a married man again because we do sometimes focus on.."what about me" as the other woman in these relationships. This is his side..written by a man I know who is very much in love with his OW. They are old loves reunited about 6 years ago (he can tell you how long its been...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 19, 2016

    My man bought me a flashlight,

    because he found out on Sunday that I didn't have one.. And he also got a laser pointer for Tiger. Didn't take long for that to be extremely entertaining. I love laughing with him. Sometimes, it's the little things.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 19, 2016

    Energy Vampire. You enter this family with no

    permission but your own. You boost your ratings to make the wife appear uncaring/unloving. You never show him that you are allot like the wife. You are the carefree girl that will revamp his lost life. You give him passion and meaning, he feels single again. You cause him to...
    beopendoor beopendoor
    56-60, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2016

    My man is here.. working under my sink.

    .literally. and I just heard.. Oh geez, how'd they get this in here. :( And out he goes for another tool..sigh. Old houses, always a challenge. So glad he's always up to it. Hope it doesn't take long so I can thank him properly :D
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 19, 2016

    Following Peachy and Koko - my first post here

    - not that long ago -- Have you ever met someone that you instantly connected with? That, as time passed, you just settled in so deep with and the connection just grew? Have you ever felt that glow and knew that not to be with this man would be the stupidest thing ever? I found...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 19, 2016

    Taking peachy's lead.

    . this is my very first post here.. And still in our 8th year, I wouldn't change a thing about how our relationship has evolved, or the love he brings to it, every single day... The Most Amazing Experience Of My Life..... I am just starting my 6th year as the other woman.. to a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 19, 2016

    I was looking threw all my post ,

    looking back at all that has happened to me in my life .....I decided to re post the very first post I cant believe how many people on the internet viewed it .... I Am Having An Emotional Affair This started last year at first it almost was physical but it turned into an...
    peachy115 peachy115
    51-55, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2016

    I just want to tell everyone thank you

    for the advice, support, and at times laughs that I have found here in the past year since I found this place. I will be leaving my account up until tomorrow night after I get home from work.
    independentandstubborn independentandstubborn
    51-55, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2016

    I just want to tell everyone thank you

    for the advice, support, and at times laughs that I have found here in the past year since I found this place. I will be leaving my account up until tomorrow night after I get home from work.
    independentandstubborn independentandstubborn
    51-55, F
    Apr 19, 2016

    Can someone please let me know what the other

    site is again? Have a feeling that I'm going to need it.
    independentandstubborn independentandstubborn
    51-55, F
    Apr 19, 2016

    I got a text from MPP,

    he needed a ride home after bringing a car in for a safety check. He'd tried to arrange one, but nothing seemed to work out. He even got his bike down but one of the tires wasn't holding air. So, of course I offered, because it meant being able to see him. Picked him up...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 18, 2016

    I have come in contact with

    so many different people in my life .My MM Is the best thing that ever happened to me . He kept me grounded ,at the time i needed to be grounded the most . the trolls on here have brought out a side of me I thought I would never ever see again .They are heartless ,cruel and...
    peachy115 peachy115
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Apr 18, 2016

    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 18, 2016

    "Don't judge my book,

    by the chapter you walked in on."
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 18, 2016

    Just want to wish all you ladies good luck.

    I have enjoyed reading about your journeys and it has been so nice to find people who can relate to this. I ???
    joyfulcloudofsorrow joyfulcloudofsorrow
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2016

    Well its time that I step back

    and give you all a bit of time to digest all my information. I offer laxatives to those who are still constipated and for those who have diarrhea drink plenty of water, I do not wish dehydration to set it. I am a woman who emphasizes a life of passion, expressed through personal...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 17, 2016

    I've loved coming here

    and it's helped me tons. At the same time it's also been a bad thing. With that being said, I'm not joining any groups. I'd rather continue on without outside influence and just let things take a more natural course. I wish all the decent folks here the best. You've given...
    Serendipitous1 Serendipitous1
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 17, 2016

    MPP has a difficult, one anniversary coming up.

    I am sure it will send him into a bit of a tailspin, and he will need me. I will absolutely be there for him, just like he has always been there for me. I do know it will not change things for us in a drastic way. It didn't a year ago, and it will not affect us adversely...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    Come on euphoricbeauty !

    !!!!!!! Let's go ,you got a big mouth to go along with that big ugly ,fat azz ,that no man will ever want ... YOU GOT THINGS TO SAY ????? SAY FAT SLOB !!!
    peachy115 peachy115
    51-55, F
    Apr 17, 2016

    A mistress will destroy a man's life

    if he loves her and leaves his family but that love starts with a fracture and not a victory. Of course if he doesn't leave, that mistress will be condemned to a life that is only a half-life. How To Be The Other Woman: First of all, look yoursekf in the mirror and say this as...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 17, 2016

    “True love is usually the most inconvenient

    kind.” ― Kiera Cass, The Selection Word..
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    “I could not tell you

    if I loved you the first moment I saw you, or if it was the second or third or fourth. But I remember the first moment I looked at you walking toward me and realized that somehow the rest of the world seemed to vanish when I was with you.” ― Cassandra Clare, Clockwork...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016
    deleted deleted
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    Apr 17, 2016
    deleted deleted
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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    "Do what is right for you.

    No one else is walking in your shoes."
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    Peace An Inner Choice by Madisyn Taylor Peace

    starts within us- we cannot bring to the world what we do not have to offer. Often we look at the outside world and find it in a state of seeming chaos or disorder. We feel compelled to transform the situation from one of turmoil into one of peace, yet we are often disappointed...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    http://elitedaily.com/dating/marry-complicated-girl/858579/ sent this to my lover. it floored him. all he keeps saying is...that's you baby. god that's 1000% you. I just said...your in the risk zone. thank you E xoxo xoxo this really opened his eyes.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    We were chatting last night

    when he called it a day from replacing the brake lines on my Corsica. He cleaned up the brakes too and did some patchwork He called it a day because its been raining hard for 2 days and he had water trickling through the shop..he quit when the wet clothes he was working in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2016

    "There is a reason for each person

    who comes into your life. Either you need their love or they need yours. Either you will change their life or they will change yours... Or maybe both."
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 17, 2016

    https://youtu.be/Omlzz_k9vSU Garth Brooks

    and Trish Yearwood Can't tell me they didn't have something going on...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 16, 2016

    So is this not closing?

    Or is it still okay
    Ap05 Ap05
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2016
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 16, 2016

    Happy Birthday to you.

    ....Happy Birthday to you. ...Happy Birthday Dear (?) Happy Birthday to you. ... When you blow out the candles make this one wish.................................................... THIS TIME NEXT YEAR YOU WILL NO LONGER BE THE OTHER WOMAN AND HIS FAMILY AND YOURS WILL NO LONGER...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2016

    Ah, love! It is such a beautiful feeling.

    I hope at some point everyone can feel the true healing nature of love. A real love will make you forgive and forget. A real love will let you accept differences in all those around you. Real love opens your mind as well as your heart!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 16, 2016

    I'm going to miss ep,

    I keep reading posts and see users responses. I think...ugh I love hearing their input. it's like my secret little club. all with different minds....coming together to help me navigate my thoughts. I loved reading different perspectives...it never got old. I'm not excited.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 15, 2016

    14 Ways the Girl with a Big Heart

    but Complicated Mind Loves Differently Being with the girl with a big heart but complicated mind may sometimes feel like you’re dating the most complex and satisfying of all puzzles. Just when you start to feel like you’re figuring her out – you find another piece to the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 15, 2016
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