I Am The Other Woman Forum & Chat Board | It's over, but....

I just ended it my MM.  It, unfortunately, went down in flames.  Got a bit ugly.  He is a wealthy, older man who built a business from scratch.  Here's the kicker.  He's been married to his second wife 27 years.  Says he loves her and they have a great marriage.  Honestly, I was never bothered by this.  I am a single mom and wouldn't want to marry him for lots of reasons.  

When we met he had another "girlfriend" that he was breaking up with.  He has painted the woman as a mental case and someone he helps out.  She I was bothered by....a lot.  

A significant birthday came and all he did was provide some frequent flier miles (no cost to him) so a my friends could visit.  No present.  No card.  THe man just made a $100K donation to a charity.  Though he kept saying "we'd go shopping."  Never happened.

Meanwhile, I know that he's taking the other girlfriend to Canyon Ranch during Easter break.  

Crazy.  But I just kept obsessing over this and lost it.  And ended it.  As I said, it went down in flames.

 

Not only not crazy if he is taking her away but I'm sure he has a standard in the community to keep and represent. She must do that pretty well to have hung in there so long. Good luck honey..

 

His wife is the classic blond trophy wife who gets a lot of work done to keep herself in shape and looking girl.  That I understand.

The other girl friend is a former housewife in Jersey.  Not refined or hot at all.  He paints her as clinically depressed and with low self esteem, but someone who needs his help.  That the one he's taking away and that's what I don't understand.