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I Am The Significant Other Of A Deployed Usa Soldier

It doesn't matter what branch your soldier is in, deployments are hard.Let's all agree on that. 109 People

    He Leaves In A Week...

    I'm trying to prepare myself.  When we first started dating a little over 2 years ago, he warned me about this.  He warned me about how hard this would be and I thought I would be okay.  I mean, I had 2 years to prepare myself for this.  I knew it was coming...
    lidolinda lidolinda 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Deployment Not On base Yet But He Over There Issue Before He Got Deployed

    I cant tell you how hard this is for me .I have not seen my bf in almost a year .At one point we broke up but we are together now .When we got back together he was training for deployment and everything was fine until a month before deployment or something .I cant say I know what...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F Jan 31, 2012

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    I Made A New Experience

    http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Need-Support-While-My-Soldier-Is-Deployed/376886 its called i need support whille my soldier is deployed i made it for people who need someone to talk to or feel alone anyone who has anything they wanna say or they are thinking but nobody...
    princesskassie92 princesskassie92 18-21, F Sep 22, 2010

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    New To The Military Relationship Lifestyle

    Hi! My name is Melissa, and im 20 years old. My boyfriend recently went into the army, and left for basic in the first part of october. It was deff a hard adjustment. Not the distance, because we were in a long distance relationship anyways, but because we werent able to talk. We...
    Melbaby10 Melbaby10 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2010

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    My Husband Is In The British Forces and I Am American

    My husband is deployed to the sandbox right now and will be home shortly. This year he was gone for 8months and the year b4 he was gone 10months. This was our 3rd Holiday season alone. It can be tough at times. We have three children that don't always understand why...
    AmericanAngel04 AmericanAngel04 26-30 1 Response Jan 1, 2010

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    Acu Purses-custom!!!

    Well girls...I have surrvived my move across the country and have been busy planning not one but two weddings!!! So now that things have calmed down I have started my purses again. Right now I am doing just the ACU fabric but will need to order some more soon...And when I do...
    emo5679 emo5679 31-35, F Oct 14, 2010

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    Well he's been gone for 6 months now.

    But less than a 100 days until he comes home! Can't wait to see him! I guess I'm lucky in that I get to talk to him almost daily. He said he got me something while he was over there. I came home the other day and there was flowers from him and a package at my doorstep. So ready...
    Cbryant25100 Cbryant25100 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Almost Over!!

    I'm so excited he'll be home in a few weeks. I'm happy he's going to be here for the holidays. So I'll be leaving to go greet him when he arrives home. So excited and happy right now can't contain it. I love my solider.
    Tiffany83 Tiffany83 26-30, F Oct 21, 2011

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    I Met A Man.

    It was only a few months ago, through a chatbase online. I really liked him, and I'm willing to go far enough to say I was crushing on him pretty hard.He was on leave... And it ended. We lost contact, weeks went by, and I thought I would never hear from him again. Then, there was...
    Hamasockyou Hamasockyou 18-21, F Sep 1, 2012

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    Why Bf Looking At Wedding Rings

    My bf just come home from the deployment and being station over sea for 2 years .He has 20 days left.It been going alright just having a hard time that he be leaving again to go back for 7 months .All he been talking about since he been gone is how he cant wait to get married to...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F Sep 10, 2012

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    Confusion And Fights =/

    So my boyfriend has been back in iraq for 6 weeks now. At first things were going well we told eachother we love eachother we webcamed and talked everyday but now all we've done lately is argue and fight. it's like all the time and i hate it. he tells me he's stressed out and its...
    Babiface91 Babiface91 18-21, F 17 Responses Jan 6, 2010

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    A Letter To My Husband After R&r

    Hey handsome! you're more than likely sleeping. well, maybe... it's like 06:30 there right now. i miss you so much... i don't know if should tell you this but i've been having a hard time dealing with the last week. it's not your fault so please don't feel bad... and i will be...
    snavemanirhc snavemanirhc 22-25, F Aug 6, 2010

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    Stress Overload=grumpy Girl

    I am extremely grumpy today. I start school in two weeks and checked my school email and already have a reading assignment that is due before the first day of class. I have school 3 days a week. Two night classes and online class also. I always stress out before school starts...
    SPCgirl SPCgirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    On Break Or No When He Say He Need Time

    my boyfriend in the military .I have not seen him for a year and couple months .He deployed and he comes home in 6 months .He broke up with me before but one min he say I want to be with you the next tell me he dont .I know he stressed really easy .We did get back togeather we...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F Mar 17, 2012

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    United:

     I'm young and restless, yet painfully old and wise. Sometimes I feel I've forgotten which way is left or right. I'm confused, but I've got it all together. I'm lost but I'm found, I'm wrong but I'm right. I'm a walking and talking contradiction.  My name is Bray, and...
    BrayLyn BrayLyn 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 27, 2009

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    My Man Just Left For 7 Months

    i am 20 years old and never done this before i am crazy about him and i am praying i have the strength to get threw this.. he is the man i wanna marry and  i hope he comes home to me and is still the same man i fell in love with. if anyone has any advice for me please comment...
    usmcmissy usmcmissy 18-21, F May 30, 2011

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    When R & R Ends

              Today I took my soldier to the airport. He's been home from Iraq for nearly 2 weeks for his R&R. He's only 6 months into his tour, 8 months more till this one ends. While he was home he told me that his unit has agreed to...
    BrayLyn BrayLyn 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2010

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    Got A Call

    I've had a pretty good weekend even though my bf is deployed, becauseeeee i got to talk to him over fb and that was great, just hearing from him makes me so happy. I got a calllll from him the next day which made me soo happy i got to hear his voice and i couldn't stop smiling...
    reginalayton reginalayton 16-17 Oct 3, 2010

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    Rocky Rollercoaster Ride

    Things have been everywhere since April. I've had many ups and many downs. Broke up with my boyfriend, got back together, and broke up again. Now we are in limbo. Not officially together, but not single really either. He's coming home for his 2 week leave next week. I'm very...
    SPCgirl SPCgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2011

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    About 33 Days *ish

    We have about 33*ish days left! AHHHHIt is getting so close! And I cannot wait to see him again! He has been deployed about 5 months!Can't wait for him to get home! I better start getting everything for him to be back! Gotta go get his apt ready and I need to get myself ready!It...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    This Is Me

    I've been dumped for being to nice, i have been used, beaten and broken. And yet im still an overoptimist. Still belive that theres stilll some good left in this crazy world. I like taking care of people.. my one goal in life is to be a influential in one persons life.. Through...
    sam1024 sam1024 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2009

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    It's 0500...

     It's 0500, going on day three without any contact. I literally haven't slept a wink tonight. I thought for sure he would call and I didn't want to miss it! I guess I'll be waiting another day.   I know that I'll drive myself mad if I'm always waiting by the phone. I...
    BrayLyn BrayLyn 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    Eventually We Will Actually Be Together On Our Anniversary Right??

    I'm new to this site so still figuring out how this works lol... um well i have been dating my soldier ( now my fiance :):) )  for two years.. well in a few days it will be two years.  On the day of our one year anniversary he flew out for basic training. He came back in the...
    marcoa31 marcoa31 18-21 2 Responses Aug 1, 2011

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    Depressed

    I dont know what happed but my ex bf broke up with me about a month ago .He told me he really depressed and stressed .I understand why and know its the deployment .Since I got in this reationship I deal with his mood going back in forth .One min he tell me he hope this work the...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2012

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    Standing By My Soldier

    I have the amazing honor to be the girlfriend of a deployed soldier. This is my first experience with him being deployed and I'm not sure how I am going to handle it but so far i have been lucky enough to speak with him everyday. Before he left he told me not to worry that he...
    SpcGoneysBaby SpcGoneysBaby 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2010

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    Jane Bags!!!! Army Purses....

      After many requests to make these bags for everyone...I made a fan page on facebook so it's easier for you who are interested in ordering one. All the info on pricing is listed under the info tab....Feel free to message me at osburnerin@att.net with any questions...
    emo5679 emo5679 31-35, F Apr 24, 2010

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    The End Is Near!

    My man is finishing up his deployment very soon now and the last 8 months has been very hard. I have had little support and thought I had to go it alone. Silly me, didn't think to use the internet for support even though I'm on it all day long lol. I don't have many friends due...
    kitty41492 kitty41492 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 12, 2012

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    I've Never Been One For Sugar Coating..

     It's been over two weeks since I have heard from my soldier. He is currently serving his second 15 month tour of the sandbox and we have at least 5 months till his R&R. Over two weeks ago he was sent out on a classified mission. Before he left he made it a point to...
    BrayLyn BrayLyn 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    It's All Getting Better With Time

    I'm slowly learning not to expect constant communication from my boyfriend. I didn't hear from him for a couple days and luckily, it was just because their internet connection was messed up. I was very happy to hear from him finally on Sunday morning. It was a great sigh of...
    SPCgirl SPCgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 9, 2011

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    Really Missing My Soldier

    I am really really really missing my soldier right now...... I  met Patrick when I was 18 or had just turned 19, he became my best friend, & I silently was falling in love with him, life took us in different directions for almost 5 years and then through a strange course of...
    gonnabemrsG gonnabemrsG 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 12, 2010

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    How Do I Make Him Feel Reassured While He's Deployed?

    My boyfriend and I have been doing great during his deployment. We've continued to support and love each other, even from far away. We've even started planing our wedding. I take care of all his bills and and stay in touch with his daughter while he's gone. However, this past...
    mhannahjones mhannahjones 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Rnr Is Finally Here!!!!

    So excited RnR is finally from airport  phone call to tell me to pick him up Just waiting for that phone call.
    Tiffany83 Tiffany83 26-30, F Sep 12, 2011

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    I Hate Missing Him.... </3

    I am 16 and my boyfriend 19, was deployed to Iraq. I get to see him in october for a month, For christmas and for my birthday.. It's hard watching him leave and exspecially hard to hear his voice and not be able to see him. We haven't been together long, but long enough to know...
    NicholeAndBobby NicholeAndBobby 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2010

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    Good Mood Today... & It Feels Great!

    I got a good amount of sleep last night, finally. I was talking to a mutual friend of mine and Cory's who is a personal trainer and I told him Cory comes home on leave in November so I had a few months to "get my *** in shape." So today I started a new diet. Not so much dieting...
    SPCgirl SPCgirl 18-21, F Aug 11, 2011

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    My Prays Go Out To You

    that the one you love so mauch makes it home untouched..................................................................................
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Sep 27, 2011

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    Is It Crazy?

    to marry when your 20 or 21 or to marry after less than a year of dating your marine? sometimes i feel i am the only one on the planet wanting to get married so young to my marine. or everyone around me tells me horrible things about being a military wife. theres so much...
    usmcmissy usmcmissy 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 25, 2011

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    Why do people on here feel the need to tell the OW or OM to just move on and find a single person. Yeah because it's just that easy to drop feelings or love and act liked it never...
    tc57 tc57 31-35, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    How do you handle your guy sleeping with their wife/significant other?? I mean they live together so I know they are...
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    My name is Jami I've been with my Bf for 8 months now and we've been apart for 7 of them. From what i hear that's not uncommon with military relationships. I joined EP because not...
    WhisperEden WhisperEden 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    My relationship with my soldier isn't 100% legal. I'm in a relationship with a 19 year old and I'm 14. He is getting deployed soon and my family is worried that I won't stay loyal...
    elischaise elischaise 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Hello! This is my first post and I've decided to talk about my boyfriend. We are both from Georgia. I'm in New Jersey for college and because of my dad's job has transferred us...
    MilsoChristine MilsoChristine 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I thought him being deployed and away would bring us closer and in the beginning it was but now it seems like he's starting to pull away again and I'm not liking it :(
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    We are simply not interested in researching and becoming knowledgeable of anything. We expect it all to be done for us,I'm talking about everything from our own personal health...
    tom67890 tom67890 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    It's great that soldiers cared enough to fight for our country. But a hero is definitely NOT someone who goes to other countries and kills other people. It's stupid to kill people...
    alysssaa alysssaa 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    It has only been two days and I have to wait till late November before I can see him again. He left the day before my 18th birthday and that hurt a lot. I don't know when his exact...
    allyson17 allyson17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    once a soldier always a soldier. quit a 5 years ago after 3 years of service. serving changed my life and made it who i am today. wish more women would serve and learn that...
    Maddevall Maddevall 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    So my bf was deployed on Thursday, I had spent a rediculous amount of time making him "open when" letters since he had told me we wouldn't be able to talk while he was away. I went...
    callijojohnson callijojohnson 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    It's crazy knowing people that are going into the army or marines or navy, you tend to understand and appreciate all other soldiers more, because you know what they and their...
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend left for basic training yesterday and I miss him like crazy already, I pray time will go by fast and I get to see him! Being a military girlfriend takes a strong...
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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