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I Am the Third Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 32 People

    Wife #3

    Many of us are in marriage where they come with baggage.  Mine came with two X wives and two kids.  Both Xwives still control my husband and both kids ( one from each marraige age 25 and 13 ) control my husband.  The oldest who had a baby a year ago unmarried and...
    mydogchaos mydogchaos 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2008

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    At An Impasse

    My fiancé of 3 months, insists on purchasing birthday & holiday gifts for his four year old to give to his mother (the ex.) This hurts me deeply because I can not have children and there were no presents for my birthday from any of his three children (4, 16, 17, teens have a...
    jipsi jipsi 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    Third Wife Probs

    Obviously, I am a Third Wife or I wouldn't have joined this group. LOL. I've been with my husband now for almost 10 years. Married 2 and a half. He married his first wife at the young age of 20 (she was 19) and conceived their son on their wedding night. This came as a big...
    thirdwifesince2011 thirdwifesince2011 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    Frustrated

    I am extrememly frustrated with being the 3rd wife right now.  I love my husband dearly but I also feel like I'm constantly having to deal with the baggage from his previous 2 marriages and it's really putting a strain on me physically and emotionally.  I'm...
    Reese3rdwife Reese3rdwife 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 30, 2010

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    Emotionally Distressed

    So, distressed that I got this Shingles out of Emotional Distress. Being a Thrird wife is no joke..I felt like I am being punished for whatever mistakes my Husband has done in the past. Everything we have nowis still dragged down by the issues in the past..I want to move forward...
    SuperMomma7 SuperMomma7 31-35 Feb 22, 2011

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    My husbands ex does things to get me pissed at

    him and I just wish he would stop doing the stuff. -She asked him to video an event, b/c she didn't know how to use her video on her phone. But their 5year old had just told me his mommy was coming and was going to video the whole thing. He video'd but fought with me then...
    jipsi jipsi 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    Well, I am also wife number 3.

    My husband is 46, I am only 31. He has 2 kids with wife #1 (16&11) and 1 with wife #2 (5). Wife #1 is very sweet, ambitious, practical and grounded and their relationship ended due to them growing apart, etc. Wife #2 was a rebound and I think was a bit more interested in his...
    HappyThird HappyThird 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 6, 2014

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    Almost A Third Wife..

    . okay so this will be one of those stories everyone comments on like oh this is wrong or you need to leave him, etc. but I am engaged and very soon with be the third wife of my almost husband. We have been together for over a year now and believe it or not it feels like we have...
    meowmissy meowmissy 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2014

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    To Be Or Not To Be . . . The Third Wife

    My partner is twice divorced, one kid with each ex. Each marriage lasted 4 years. The first marriage was out of pregnancy the second was rebound. He has looked at what has contributed to what he refers to as failures. He has also been engaged twice. He is 43. I have had two...
    orshouldIbe orshouldIbe 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Am I The One

    I'm sure I will sound crazy on this one. I married a great man I am the 3rd wife..there was a long term gf in the mix too . He has children from both marriages. He hired his 1st and 2nd wife to work with him before I came into the pic. I started dating him knowing that wives...
    3rdor4th 3rdor4th 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    Will I Or Won't I?

    I'm struggling with the idea of being the third wife. My significant other and I have been together for right at 2 1/2 years; I was married once for 17 years to a raging and verbally abusive alcoholic and he was married to wife number one for just shy of two years and with whom...
    drivingwithbooks drivingwithbooks 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Have you every been set up on a date with a man by your wife ? Or have you ever double-dated men with your wife ?
    Hot4Tgurlz Hot4Tgurlz 31-35, M 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I love and adore my wife, she can dominate me in many different ways...not in the stereo typical whip wielding kind of way. She does ridicule me on occasion in front of our...
    JoSometimes JoSometimes 61-65, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My wife found out I cheated on her when she was out of town for work a few weeks ago. I had gone on Craigslist and found another couple to act out some bisexual tendencies. She...
    Krayzee47 Krayzee47 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Helo.......I lost my beautiful wife ( 34 yrs.) last year....she was diagnosed very rare and aggressive gal bladder cancer ....we could fight for only 5 months.....it has now become...
    ashishmini ashishmini 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    When I was sing and lonely I always disliked hearing "happy wife, happy life." It's not the concept I disagreed with. Your wife is your wife because she's the most special to you...
    madEvilNight7 madEvilNight7 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Looking through ones third eye is like experiencing a hidden sense
    marsbars010 marsbars010 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Wife gave our 1yr old rice for tea and left for work. Around 7pm , baby became violently ill and started choking on the rice. I had to put my fingers in her mouth to clear out...
    T8443613 T8443613 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I never thought i would. I am not proud of it. I love my wife. But we grew apart. I became less and less important( as i saw it) with kids jobs etc. i met a girl 15 years younger...
    Stacieandpaul69 Stacieandpaul69 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    II. Julia, my wife, had a good talk and cry with her mom, Constance, that night. They drank vodka, and my mother-in-law read the riot act to her daughter. "You wan't children...
    Ravor Ravor 41-45 Jun 28

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    Now I've started dressing as a woman about 90% of the time at home and my wife just looks at me as her wife. She told me she's equally attracted to her wife and her husband! She...
    tgheather tgheather 26-30, T Jun 28

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    My wife wants to try one. We are still hesitating to share the wife, even though it hot
    couple1114 couple1114 22-25 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Hi, I'm 36, married and bored. I've been married 12yrs (together for 16 in total). My wife and I are a perfect match and are great partners in life. We are virtually the same...
    BoredHubby1 BoredHubby1 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    Local expert - a man. I'm going to be there to watch and join in so my wife will have a four hand massage. I haven't told her yet so I think I'll keep it that way! She'll think its...
    Larryloud Larryloud 41-45, M 15 Responses Jun 21

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    It is legal in my country to get two wives. But I have to give each wife in an independent house. There are many women who accept to be a second wife. My first wife won't mind . I...
    BandarAlsh BandarAlsh 31-35, M Jun 21

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    My first wife was a very big fan of this. She was all natural and quite large and full-chested. She too was interested in dating other men, just as my current wife is. We had...
    Bravenewwife Bravenewwife 41-45 4 Responses Jun 20

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    Looking for a guy to seduce my wife while I'm working out of town. Wife is in Abbeville LA, 37, 5'5 chubby but looks good, brunette, brown eyes, loves to **** and is good at it but...
    Brian944 Brian944 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 20

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    I fantasize about my wife falling in love with another man and letting him take my role as the husband. It gives me a euphoric feeling thinking about the other man laying on my...
    Brian944 Brian944 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 20

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    My first time cross dressing was with my wife, we always like to mix up our sexual experiences. She knows I have a shirt & tie thing already and sometimes will dress me up before...
    Sprallie Sprallie 46-50 1 Response Jun 19

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    I don't but wish she was. Is there anyone whose wife was not and then become so? I would love my wife to embrace that I want her to dominate me. Any suggestions or advise would be...
    rfhh1959 rfhh1959 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 18

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    When I sit down with a few of my “non-playing” friends we inevitably get into discussions about my world because my world is the one that movies and TV shows get made about...
    HaroldJenson HaroldJenson 31-35, M Jun 18

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    Spent 17 years as a 3rd wife...from wedding day with his parents "embarrassed" to invite friends...to finding out I got the third smallest and cheapest engagement ring..to not...
    lorenarich lorenarich 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    I grown to hate my wife. Before meeting my wife, I was in a four year relationship with a great woman. The only thing was she had issues from time to time and we would take...
    ujj9810 ujj9810 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 16

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    Now don't get me wrong here, the title of my post is a bit overdramatic. I do love my wife very much. But having said that, the title does state the facts. I am a chef at an...
    BDos BDos 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 16

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    i do. she is perfect for me plus i am myself when i am around her. plus my wife lets me be with other men on occassion. she knows i like to be bi sometimes and she likes it.
    stlguy45 stlguy45 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 15

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    I was pleased and proud at the amount of guys who praised the pics of my wife I posted and how many want sex with her
    limlom limlom 66-70 15 Responses Jun 15

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    As long as nobody can identify her I see no harm, I have done it for years. My wife is pretty open about sex but her first husband made a sex video with him and her and his best...
    scott794 scott794 36-40, M 5 Responses Jun 14

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    I have had a few of my fiends tell me that they enjoy looking at my wife and think she has a great body and tell me how lucky I am. A few of them had said they wish they had met...
    krc523 krc523 41-45 6 Responses Jun 14

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    I love watching my dance with others as I sit back from a distance, but what I really love is to here her stories during the times I'm not around. A few weeks ago my wife had to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 14

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    It is one of my biggest dreams. I'm going to give my future husband all the love, sex, respect, food, and cuddling, and fun he could ever want. I'm going to enjoy being a...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 14

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    My wife recently started wearing thongs in her fortys nice to. She wears to work the thought gets me hot.her skirts are getting shorter she used to be conservative. I encourage her...
    Ronnielove Ronnielove 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 14

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    I'm not technically the second wife. We aren't married yet. But I think I can still relate. Not because he has another life and a kid. I love his daughter to death. What bother me...
    melon93 melon93 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 14

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