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I Am the Third Wife

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    My husbands ex does things to get me pissed at

    him and I just wish he would stop doing the stuff. -She asked him to video an event, b/c she didn't know how to use her video on her phone. But their 5year old had just told me his mommy was coming and was going to video the whole thing. He video'd but fought with me then...
    jipsi jipsi 36-40, F Sep 2

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    Third Wife Probs

    Obviously, I am a Third Wife or I wouldn't have joined this group. LOL. I've been with my husband now for almost 10 years. Married 2 and a half. He married his first wife at the young age of 20 (she was 19) and conceived their son on their wedding night. This came as a big...
    thirdwifesince2011 thirdwifesince2011 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    At An Impasse

    My fiancé of 3 months, insists on purchasing birthday & holiday gifts for his four year old to give to his mother (the ex.) This hurts me deeply because I can not have children and there were no presents for my birthday from any of his three children (4, 16, 17, teens have a...
    jipsi jipsi 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    Wife #3

    Many of us are in marriage where they come with baggage.  Mine came with two X wives and two kids.  Both Xwives still control my husband and both kids ( one from each marraige age 25 and 13 ) control my husband.  The oldest who had a baby a year ago unmarried and...
    mydogchaos mydogchaos 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2008

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    Well, I am also wife number 3.

    My husband is 46, I am only 31. He has 2 kids with wife #1 (16&11) and 1 with wife #2 (5). Wife #1 is very sweet, ambitious, practical and grounded and their relationship ended due to them growing apart, etc. Wife #2 was a rebound and I think was a bit more interested in his...
    HappyThird HappyThird 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    Will I Or Won't I?

    I'm struggling with the idea of being the third wife. My significant other and I have been together for right at 2 1/2 years; I was married once for 17 years to a raging and verbally abusive alcoholic and he was married to wife number one for just shy of two years and with whom...
    drivingwithbooks drivingwithbooks 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    Am I The One

    I'm sure I will sound crazy on this one. I married a great man I am the 3rd wife..there was a long term gf in the mix too . He has children from both marriages. He hired his 1st and 2nd wife to work with him before I came into the pic. I started dating him knowing that wives...
    3rdor4th 3rdor4th 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    Almost A Third Wife..

    . okay so this will be one of those stories everyone comments on like oh this is wrong or you need to leave him, etc. but I am engaged and very soon with be the third wife of my almost husband. We have been together for over a year now and believe it or not it feels like we have...
    jennsilva84 jennsilva84 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    Emotionally Distressed

    So, distressed that I got this Shingles out of Emotional Distress. Being a Thrird wife is no joke..I felt like I am being punished for whatever mistakes my Husband has done in the past. Everything we have nowis still dragged down by the issues in the past..I want to move forward...
    SuperMomma7 SuperMomma7 31-35 Feb 22, 2011

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    Frustrated

    I am extrememly frustrated with being the 3rd wife right now.  I love my husband dearly but I also feel like I'm constantly having to deal with the baggage from his previous 2 marriages and it's really putting a strain on me physically and emotionally.  I'm...
    Reese3rdwife Reese3rdwife 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 30, 2010

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    To Be Or Not To Be . . . The Third Wife

    My partner is twice divorced, one kid with each ex. Each marriage lasted 4 years. The first marriage was out of pregnancy the second was rebound. He has looked at what has contributed to what he refers to as failures. He has also been engaged twice. He is 43. I have had two...
    orshouldIbe orshouldIbe 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I'm in a wonderful marriage and have been in love with her from the start. For 4 years, we have been blissfully in love, but we have yet to be blessed by a child. It has been a...
    scootter01 scootter01 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I have a big smile on my face right now, I don't know who you new people are yet but I have a feeling I'll get to know you all, Lance you made me smile, thank you, I hear my sons...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Aug 19

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    I have the most amazing wife in the world. I am so lucky to have a woman that loves me they way that she does and I couldn't ask for anyone better. She's the nearest thing to...
    mgh251 mgh251 22-25, M 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    my wife has some health issues with her shoulder/back and her knees due to arthritis, for the past few days we have been driving past an old fridge with a zimmer frame on top of it...
    shiatsujohn shiatsujohn 46-50, M 15 hrs ago

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    I'd love to fluff him before he enters her, to make sure she gets prime beef instead of something third rate. :D
    bamaswitch bamaswitch 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I learned so many things through my grief, things I never knew before, all the pain and sufferings and I learned a lot about my self, I learned the first year was just experiencing...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    My sons Anniversary is in 3 more months, the starting of my third year, has it been this long? but it seems like yesterday, still excepting my second year I'm finding it still hard...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F Aug 18

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    New to this so not sure if I've posted in right place I came on here because I wanted to talk to people about the third eye as i have no one to talk to about it when I try talk to...
    mrsmoo123 mrsmoo123 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    For me, I was doing fine and dandy in my classes up until third grade, in 2007 - that was the year I moved from my home country to America. The teacher probably felt like my...
    SociallyAnxiousUser SociallyAnxiousUser 13-15, M a week ago

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    My wife isn't really getting fat at the moment but rather has always been plump. She was only 5'0 tall and 190 pounds when graduating from highschool in 1993. By the time we met in...
    hsnpman hsnpman 46-50, M 5 Responses Aug 18

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    That's right you read correct, my wife shaved her head. Conversations have been happening for months with my wife who has been spending her free time studying the bible and has...
    HoMaj HoMaj 31-35, M Sep 2

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    My wife Do you know my wife? Of course not I keep her in secret because she is special All men who lay eyes on her Will try to steal her but they will failed My wife is not like...
    broskidude broskidude 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    My wife wants a urgent divorce I can't cope? I was caught in a spa with her very good friend and I did not say I was going there with her ( don't look good at all ) When my wife...
    uncleginge uncleginge 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I AM 45 YEARS OLD. I MY DAUGHTER AND WIFE USED TO LIVE IN BALLYGUNGE. WIFE WAS VERY NAGGING. I LOVE MY DAUGHTER AND SHE ALSO. I HIRED A MAID OF 15 YEARS OLD . SHE IS VERY SEXY AND...
    pm6789 pm6789 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't really hate my wife. It's just that I don't love her like a wife any longer. She's just a roommate and we have a great division of labor. In our relationship, there's me...
    RoniHo RoniHo 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 27

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    Not a actual wife........im just saying if i was a wife i think i'd be a good one. i learned how to cook this summer. i love cleaning (sometimes). im a very chill person i dont get...
    ihaveaname99 ihaveaname99 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I have a boyfriend we have been together now for three years. We have a baby together a year and a half. I have a son with my previous, and he has two sons with his ex wife... Four...
    lovinglife222 lovinglife222 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Being under the influence of love is not unlike being drunk or high -- that's why we fall in love. We don't join in, or sign up or practice being in love. We simply fall. So I...
    cindycap cindycap 41-45 Sep 4

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    Not just a wife but I want to be the perfect wife to my future husband(whoever he is) I want to love him with all my heart and be loved in return. I want to cook for him,Make...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's been a while since I was last here. A lot of things happened. I'm not sure if any of you guys will read this, or care. But I'll share a bit of me with you. Please, excuse my...
    marie027 marie027 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Not long ago in during a Vegas trip my wife and I met a gentlemen at the bar that my wife found very attractive. After hours of drinks he joined us in our room. Check out the pics...
    wowme123 wowme123 46-50, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate the fact that I'm a second wife, seems like my husband has done everything that I want to do when he was married to his first wife. He reaction to most things are, " Been...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    This Friday I am planning on telling my wife that I want to file for divorce. Saturday is my birthday. I do not care that it is my birthday. I never enjoy anything anymore. I feel...
    Fluxification Fluxification 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I want to move on from my wife of 15 years, GF of 2 years and other GF of 6 months. I just need the time to pursue my passion, sex, So I find nothing in common anymore except...
    liveitover liveitover 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    Looking for someone to print out my wife's pictures and put them in places like truck stops, adult peep show booths, college campuses, bars, etc with my email address on them...
    wifeshowheroff wifeshowheroff 41-45, M 6 Responses Aug 19

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    This is crazy, but a couple girlfriends and I pretty much started this group like 6 years ago!!! It's crazy to see how far the group has come. Too bad it wasn't a stock, because...
    NatATTACK NatATTACK 22-25 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I really wish my wife would take charge in the bedroom and bring and introduce think I'm over always being the one to iniate it and try new things etc how can I get my wife to take...
    toadau toadau 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 26

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    So me and my wife went to really cool bar with good music and nice priced drinks..we stayed there and drank until we were completely waisted..knowing we couldn't drive anytime soon...
    MoeLong7 MoeLong7 22-25, M Aug 26

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    I have countless pics of my 29 year old wife taken over the 13 years we've been together. Started taking sexy pics when she was 18 and still take them regularly. She's enjoyed...
    Brewitup7 Brewitup7 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 27

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    What a Weekend! Some of you have been following my thread under this experience, and know that my wife was finally seduced by a friend of mine. Actually, the wife of my male lover...
    charleybi2 charleybi2 61-65, M 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I am a 2nd wife and believe there must be someone who can relate to the problems I've encountered on this 20 yr journey. Let me start by saying we were both married 16 yrs to...
    dymnd2 dymnd2 56-60, F Sep 8

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    And this is why, when I first met her, she was working over 40 hours a week, raising two children, and going to college full time, on top of taking a chance on deciding to juggle a...
    Sheismybestfriend Sheismybestfriend 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ever since I was a little girl I have wanted to be a wife and mother more than anything. I value my purity and I am waiting till I find the one that God intended for me to get...
    baileyelizabeth baileyelizabeth 13-15, F Aug 18

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    My wife wants me to slowly take her cloths off and expose in front of a strange man. She says maybe some touching this is all a first for us what a turn on!!!!
    Ralphie62 Ralphie62 51-55, M 24 Responses Aug 18

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    I heard them talking outside on the patio...but walked out with my towel as if I was going to the hottub....she was facing the door and my wife had her back to me...she totally...
    XmedicNow XmedicNow 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    “My Ride to the Mountain”The Journey & The AnxietyBy: Saar-rah Robinson"Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its...
    SisterPrisonWivesBFF SisterPrisonWivesBFF 61-65 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I luv my wife- Lynasha. I never thought I would ever find a girl like you. U make me feel special and luved and u always make me happy. We've had our ups and a downs but we always...
    Gian1865 Gian1865 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 20

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