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I Am the Third Wife

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    Frustrated

    I am extrememly frustrated with being the 3rd wife right now.  I love my husband dearly but I also feel like I'm constantly having to deal with the baggage from his previous 2 marriages and it's really putting a strain on me physically and emotionally.  I'm...
    Reese3rdwife Reese3rdwife 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 30, 2010

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    Wife #3

    Many of us are in marriage where they come with baggage.  Mine came with two X wives and two kids.  Both Xwives still control my husband and both kids ( one from each marraige age 25 and 13 ) control my husband.  The oldest who had a baby a year ago unmarried and...
    mydogchaos mydogchaos 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2008

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    Third Wife Probs

    Obviously, I am a Third Wife or I wouldn't have joined this group. LOL. I've been with my husband now for almost 10 years. Married 2 and a half. He married his first wife at the young age of 20 (she was 19) and conceived their son on their wedding night. This came as a big...
    thirdwifesince2011 thirdwifesince2011 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    At An Impasse

    My fiancé of 3 months, insists on purchasing birthday & holiday gifts for his four year old to give to his mother (the ex.) This hurts me deeply because I can not have children and there were no presents for my birthday from any of his three children (4, 16, 17, teens have a...
    jipsi jipsi 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    Well, I am also wife number 3.

    My husband is 46, I am only 31. He has 2 kids with wife #1 (16&11) and 1 with wife #2 (5). Wife #1 is very sweet, ambitious, practical and grounded and their relationship ended due to them growing apart, etc. Wife #2 was a rebound and I think was a bit more interested in his...
    HappyThird HappyThird 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    Will I Or Won't I?

    I'm struggling with the idea of being the third wife. My significant other and I have been together for right at 2 1/2 years; I was married once for 17 years to a raging and verbally abusive alcoholic and he was married to wife number one for just shy of two years and with whom...
    drivingwithbooks drivingwithbooks 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    Emotionally Distressed

    So, distressed that I got this Shingles out of Emotional Distress. Being a Thrird wife is no joke..I felt like I am being punished for whatever mistakes my Husband has done in the past. Everything we have nowis still dragged down by the issues in the past..I want to move forward...
    SuperMomma7 SuperMomma7 31-35 Feb 22, 2011

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    Am I The One

    I'm sure I will sound crazy on this one. I married a great man I am the 3rd wife..there was a long term gf in the mix too . He has children from both marriages. He hired his 1st and 2nd wife to work with him before I came into the pic. I started dating him knowing that wives...
    3rdor4th 3rdor4th 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    Almost A Third Wife..

    . okay so this will be one of those stories everyone comments on like oh this is wrong or you need to leave him, etc. but I am engaged and very soon with be the third wife of my almost husband. We have been together for over a year now and believe it or not it feels like we have...
    jennsilva84 jennsilva84 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    To Be Or Not To Be . . . The Third Wife

    My partner is twice divorced, one kid with each ex. Each marriage lasted 4 years. The first marriage was out of pregnancy the second was rebound. He has looked at what has contributed to what he refers to as failures. He has also been engaged twice. He is 43. I have had two...
    orshouldIbe orshouldIbe 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    "If in the dark we loose sight of love hold my hand and have no fear I will be here...as sure as seasons are made for change our lifetimes are made for years...I will be true to...
    rockypoly rockypoly 31-35, M a week ago

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    I have a big smile on my face right now, I don't know who you new people are yet but I have a feeling I'll get to know you all, Lance you made me smile, thank you, I hear my sons...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F 14 hrs ago

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    I am a divorce attorney who has represented women and men in countless cases. based on my observations, there are certain truths about marriage and divorce. 1. Marriage is a...
    divorceatty divorceatty 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 1

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    So, I married one of my former teachers. He is twenty years older than I am. Of course this means he has had sex with more people than I have. I am his third former student, but...
    Hushgirl Hushgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Moving from California to Kentucky has not been easy whatsoever ! First the weather completely sucks , second the insects are horrible and all over the place and third there's no...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    This is my third marriage ... All three are Gemini women ...they all have evil twins ...
    cplseekingcpl cplseekingcpl 51-55, M 3 days ago

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    I'm going to keep this short and sweet. my best friend and i have been best friends ever since 2nd grade. I love her too death and nothing will ever change that but now we both...
    amarie99 amarie99 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    have you ever liked this one person that you just didnt know what or how to confront them, until one day they comeand talk to you and then -as if the world is finally acting ending...
    lemurianstar lemurianstar 16-17, M Jul 26

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    I always feel like a third wheel..
    kenner17 kenner17 18-21, F Aug 3

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    So I have two best friends (let's call them Katie and Jessica) I have been friends with both of them for about 9 years and we are all really close to each other , last year we...
    clifforwin clifforwin 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I hate being a third wheel
    yhitoshi9 yhitoshi9 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    I've been in a relationship. So I know what it's like to be coupled. When you're back to being single it's hard not to hope for company all the time. My friends are all taken and...
    dustyoldclock dustyoldclock 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I've been in a relationship. So I know what it's like to be coupled. When you're back to being single it's hard not to hope for company all the time. My friends are all taken and...
    dustyoldclock dustyoldclock 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I learned so many things through my grief, things I never knew before, all the pain and sufferings and I learned a lot about my self, I learned the first year was just experiencing...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My sons Anniversary is in 3 more months, the starting of my third year, has it been this long? but it seems like yesterday, still excepting my second year I'm finding it still hard...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F 1 day ago

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    The necklace My wife my 6 yr. old son and I went on vacation to Miami as we are leaving the beach one day we see a street vendor selling necklaces of sharks tooth. My six year old...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I have fond memories of previous years with my wife, but in the last few months she doesn't want to help me with the simplest thing and we don't go have fun together either. We...
    wakeupdead wakeupdead 26-30, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My wife isn't really getting fat at the moment but rather has always been plump. She was only 5'0 tall and 190 pounds when graduating from highschool in 1993. By the time we met in...
    hsnpman hsnpman 36-40 1 Response 1 day ago

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    This happened a while ago... I have been having this fantasy of seeing her with another man.. could never get it done... Have always used those visualizations during our love...
    stimulatingcouple stimulatingcouple 46-50, M 5 Responses Jul 27

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    Come on ladies, you are no bundle of fun either. We men like to explore, have fun, travel, and be with our buddies much more than being with you. Why is that? Most every man I...
    mbb50 mbb50 61-65, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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    Internet is full of stories of people falling in love with someone else while married to their husband or wife's. Most of the stories proclaim that their husbands or wives were...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Yes it all started five years ago when doing some shopings, i entered into a shoe shop and i saw a pair of red ballet flats in number 12! Of course i looked for an empty people...
    Bisbix Bisbix 41-45, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have suspected my wife of having an emotional affair around 5 months. In that time she reassured me countless times that he is not her type, he is not as sexy as me and there...
    tuxiflet tuxiflet 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 28

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    I lost my wife to breast cancer Mothers Day weekend 2013. She had been battling for 5 years ..she was 43 when she passed away leaving me with a 7 year old daughter who only knows...
    bigbryman bigbryman 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    At the pool I asked my wife to pull her straps down so she wouldn't get strap marks. She did and the rest fell into place nicely. After a while she forgot all about her straps not...
    pxl1050 pxl1050 56-60 5 Responses Jul 28

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    it was about 3 years ago.i was away on different country and we were communicating via messenger,skype pretty often.she knew my fantasies and i literally was begging her to find...
    becks1981 becks1981 31-35, M Jul 29

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    A friend of mine just got off on my wife's pic, what an awesome felling it was when he told me that he was getting off on her **** . And to top it up he sent me the pic of his...
    flex0712 flex0712 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 31

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    My wife has been on Prozac for (8) years. It is really bad when she decides not to take them anymore. The early years of marriage were good and we raised (3) great children whom...
    RIDJEMAN RIDJEMAN 56-60, M Aug 6

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    I've been married 13 years. Both my wife and I work. I work long hours 12 -16 a day and am gone a lot. Oil fields. My wife has started with the I'm tired excuse and lately it's...
    goodguy4455 goodguy4455 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 6

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    Not True. I am ex- wife of a Navy man. Now, I am no one WIFE.
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I recently bought my wife a QOS necklace. She has temp. tats and anklet but wanted something more visible when she needed it. We went to a local department store one evening to...
    dshby dshby 51-55, M 6 days ago

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    It took a while for my conservative wife, but i finally got her to be naughty, she is doing nice things......check her out in sexy wife!!!!!!
    ray2000 ray2000 41-45, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've been married for 15 years now. My wife has endometriosis and I can't penetrate her because it hurts like hell. I make her ****** several times by rubbing my tool against her...
    Captain06 Captain06 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    I hate the fact that I'm a second wife, seems like my husband has done everything that I want to do when he was married to his first wife. He reaction to most things are, " Been...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    This Friday I am planning on telling my wife that I want to file for divorce. Saturday is my birthday. I do not care that it is my birthday. I never enjoy anything anymore. I feel...
    Fluxification Fluxification 36-40, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I want to move on from my wife of 15 years, GF of 2 years and other GF of 6 months. I just need the time to pursue my passion, sex, So I find nothing in common anymore except...
    liveitover liveitover 41-45, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Looking for someone to print out my wife's pictures and put them in places like truck stops, adult peep show booths, college campuses, bars, etc with my email address on them...
    wifeshowheroff wifeshowheroff 41-45, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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