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I Am the Third Wife

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    Wife #3

    Many of us are in marriage where they come with baggage.  Mine came with two X wives and two kids.  Both Xwives still control my husband and both kids ( one from each marraige age 25 and 13 ) control my husband.  The oldest who had a baby a year ago unmarried and...
    mydogchaos mydogchaos 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2008

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    Will I Or Won't I?

    I'm struggling with the idea of being the third wife. My significant other and I have been together for right at 2 1/2 years; I was married once for 17 years to a raging and verbally abusive alcoholic and he was married to wife number one for just shy of two years and with whom...
    drivingwithbooks drivingwithbooks 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    To Be Or Not To Be . . . The Third Wife

    My partner is twice divorced, one kid with each ex. Each marriage lasted 4 years. The first marriage was out of pregnancy the second was rebound. He has looked at what has contributed to what he refers to as failures. He has also been engaged twice. He is 43. I have had two...
    orshouldIbe orshouldIbe 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    At An Impasse

    My fiancé of 3 months, insists on purchasing birthday & holiday gifts for his four year old to give to his mother (the ex.) This hurts me deeply because I can not have children and there were no presents for my birthday from any of his three children (4, 16, 17, teens have a...
    jipsi jipsi 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    Frustrated

    I am extrememly frustrated with being the 3rd wife right now.  I love my husband dearly but I also feel like I'm constantly having to deal with the baggage from his previous 2 marriages and it's really putting a strain on me physically and emotionally.  I'm...
    Reese3rdwife Reese3rdwife 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 30, 2010

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    My husbands ex does things to get me pissed at

    him and I just wish he would stop doing the stuff. -She asked him to video an event, b/c she didn't know how to use her video on her phone. But their 5year old had just told me his mommy was coming and was going to video the whole thing. He video'd but fought with me then...
    jipsi jipsi 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    Third Wife Probs

    Obviously, I am a Third Wife or I wouldn't have joined this group. LOL. I've been with my husband now for almost 10 years. Married 2 and a half. He married his first wife at the young age of 20 (she was 19) and conceived their son on their wedding night. This came as a big...
    thirdwifesince2011 thirdwifesince2011 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    Almost A Third Wife..

    . okay so this will be one of those stories everyone comments on like oh this is wrong or you need to leave him, etc. but I am engaged and very soon with be the third wife of my almost husband. We have been together for over a year now and believe it or not it feels like we have...
    meowmissy meowmissy 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2014

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    Am I The One

    I'm sure I will sound crazy on this one. I married a great man I am the 3rd wife..there was a long term gf in the mix too . He has children from both marriages. He hired his 1st and 2nd wife to work with him before I came into the pic. I started dating him knowing that wives...
    3rdor4th 3rdor4th 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    Well, I am also wife number 3.

    My husband is 46, I am only 31. He has 2 kids with wife #1 (16&11) and 1 with wife #2 (5). Wife #1 is very sweet, ambitious, practical and grounded and their relationship ended due to them growing apart, etc. Wife #2 was a rebound and I think was a bit more interested in his...
    HappyThird HappyThird 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 6, 2014

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    Emotionally Distressed

    So, distressed that I got this Shingles out of Emotional Distress. Being a Thrird wife is no joke..I felt like I am being punished for whatever mistakes my Husband has done in the past. Everything we have nowis still dragged down by the issues in the past..I want to move forward...
    SuperMomma7 SuperMomma7 31-35 Feb 22, 2011

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    I believe my wife always had a crush on her father. He treated her different than he did her siblings. He was not a demonstrative man, but would hug her randomly. Her brother and...
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    I have been married to my wife almost 20 years and can't stand being around her anymore. I met her in the mid 90's on a trip to my homeland. Although I was not looking for a wife...
    lordhelpme1000 lordhelpme1000 56-60, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    "More Than I Bargained For." Like many husbands, I love other men seeing my wife partially or fully nude. We have had any number of experiences where men have caught an...
    d5447 d5447 56-60 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate my wife. I am everything but good to her and she ***** on my life every day, Whether its just not doing the dishes (which i am the only one who works) or not doing the yard...
    imsorrytomywife imsorrytomywife 70+, M 4 days ago

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    I'm 33 years old. My wife is 34. We have two kids. My wife and I have been together for 16 years. I was a junior in high school. I thought I had it made. She was born in a smart...
    uswdyp47 uswdyp47 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    All the time I go back for thirds that's the nice part about not caring what you weigh so what skinny people think.
    chubbyhubby250 chubbyhubby250 36-40, M Aug 25

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    I get a lot of messages asking if I'd share my wife. So there you have it: NO, never. Every one does with it as he pleases, but to me sharing my wife would be disrespecting myself...
    Luckyguy1970 Luckyguy1970 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    My wife commenced with epilepsy in 2012, after her organs failed for the first time. It turns out she has suffered a significant atrophy of her brain cells over the years, now with...
    NottsProfGent NottsProfGent 46-50, M Aug 24

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    When ever wife is shopping in Malls, I try to find out if some older man are starring at my wife's rounded ***, and often find some older guy starring at her *** with a smile on...
    oldmushroom oldmushroom 61-65, M 5 Responses Aug 24

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    It took too long, in more ways than one, but I met her, I really met her. The amazing woman that I've been speaking to the last little bit on the phone, the one I met ironically...
    anon8369 anon8369 31-35, M Aug 21

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    my wife asked me what i'd do If I came home and found her ib bed with another man. I said i'd pull him out of bed and throw him out but I really wanted to say i'd peek through the...
    Jimmyjump1983 Jimmyjump1983 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    love my wifes butts.. thats the firdt thing i fell into love with her. love every inches of her after 8 yrs and two kids. i extract evry drop of fun out of her. i share her. she...
    jetrider555 jetrider555 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 17

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    (Pics included) love to have tributes to my wife
    Sobek6357 Sobek6357 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I'm thinking about killing myself. My wife is leaving me for another man and tells me ever day how much she loves him.
    XXXFT XXXFT 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I used binaural beats on youtube to help open my third eye. the first time I felt like I was looking through my third eye I was meditating and it felt like my eyes were slowly...
    mattzoidhead mattzoidhead 26-30, M Aug 16

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    I have the hottest wifey ever!!!!!
    crookedspinster crookedspinster 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    In my life I have seen many women gain weight after childbirth and never to loose that weight again. I can imagine that can be a turn off for their hubbies who loved their body...
    Luckyguy1970 Luckyguy1970 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    I have a few pictures of my wife on my profile and would love to show her the comments!
    blownrngr blownrngr 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I have found my love for my wife again. But I wonder if she feels the same way about me. I have shown plenty of enthusiasm. I just don't see it coming back my way!
    henkam henkam 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    I do think that the wife should be on a dress code. She should only put on floor long dresses or skirts. Her dresses or blouses should show some of her femininity but not be giving...
    LordAshcroft LordAshcroft 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    My wife is getting bigger, today I noticed that she had a bit of a double belly going on. Before she just had a big belly but now it is starting to form a roll at her belly button...
    night33 night33 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    This isn't about my current relationship with my new fiancee, whom I love dearly and who is NOTHING like my ex. This is about a miserable experience I had with my former wife. We...
    yanholing yanholing 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    As I roll over every morning the other side of the bed that used to be filled with warmth and love is now cold and lonely. Do you know what it feels like to wake up every morning...
    LadyRuger LadyRuger 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Most definitely! My wife is still shy and probably has better sense than me so she won't do it around town. On vacation or a day trip a couple hours away she has no problem going...
    suggestivehubby suggestivehubby 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 14

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    My wife did some escort work Before we met I love hearing about it
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 13

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    When my beautiful wife and I got married, she weighed about 140, but she is a tall woman (5 foot 10 inches) and as far as I was concerned, she was far too thin. So I decided to...
    Shnytop Shnytop 70+, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I've always been attracted to smart women. I'm not attracted to weak willed women. When I met my wife I found someone who was both smart and strong willed. I'm a strong willed man...
    G0dzilla G0dzilla 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    my wife always wears an anklet and has over 30 of them when she goes out with the girls she wears one that says milf or h-w or swinger what a turn on to see her dress up and go out...
    karpaul karpaul 51-55, M 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I've had my share of live comments such as: "How old is she ? OMG, she so beautiful and looks 10 years younger" Or: "Can I have your wife's bikinipic as my screensaver ?" Or...
    Luckyguy1970 Luckyguy1970 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 11

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    I steal my wifes panties and she steals mine, kinda to the point that we no longer know whos panties are whos.
    Thongme Thongme 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 11

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    Had loads of fun during recent visit to Spain - Barcelona n Ibiza...apart from wife being in bikinis and sheer wraps all the time did some hot frolicking on the room balcony where...
    ollyrod69 ollyrod69 36-40 3 Responses Aug 11