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I Am the Third Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 31 People

    Frustrated

    I am extrememly frustrated with being the 3rd wife right now.  I love my husband dearly but I also feel like I'm constantly having to deal with the baggage from his previous 2 marriages and it's really putting a strain on me physically and emotionally.  I'm...
    Reese3rdwife Reese3rdwife 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 30, 2010

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    At An Impasse

    My fiancé of 3 months, insists on purchasing birthday & holiday gifts for his four year old to give to his mother (the ex.) This hurts me deeply because I can not have children and there were no presents for my birthday from any of his three children (4, 16, 17, teens have a...
    jipsi jipsi 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    My husbands ex does things to get me pissed at

    him and I just wish he would stop doing the stuff. -She asked him to video an event, b/c she didn't know how to use her video on her phone. But their 5year old had just told me his mommy was coming and was going to video the whole thing. He video'd but fought with me then...
    jipsi jipsi 36-40, F Sep 2

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    Will I Or Won't I?

    I'm struggling with the idea of being the third wife. My significant other and I have been together for right at 2 1/2 years; I was married once for 17 years to a raging and verbally abusive alcoholic and he was married to wife number one for just shy of two years and with whom...
    drivingwithbooks drivingwithbooks 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    Wife #3

    Many of us are in marriage where they come with baggage.  Mine came with two X wives and two kids.  Both Xwives still control my husband and both kids ( one from each marraige age 25 and 13 ) control my husband.  The oldest who had a baby a year ago unmarried and...
    mydogchaos mydogchaos 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2008

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    Emotionally Distressed

    So, distressed that I got this Shingles out of Emotional Distress. Being a Thrird wife is no joke..I felt like I am being punished for whatever mistakes my Husband has done in the past. Everything we have nowis still dragged down by the issues in the past..I want to move forward...
    SuperMomma7 SuperMomma7 31-35 Feb 22, 2011

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    To Be Or Not To Be . . . The Third Wife

    My partner is twice divorced, one kid with each ex. Each marriage lasted 4 years. The first marriage was out of pregnancy the second was rebound. He has looked at what has contributed to what he refers to as failures. He has also been engaged twice. He is 43. I have had two...
    orshouldIbe orshouldIbe 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Almost A Third Wife..

    . okay so this will be one of those stories everyone comments on like oh this is wrong or you need to leave him, etc. but I am engaged and very soon with be the third wife of my almost husband. We have been together for over a year now and believe it or not it feels like we have...
    jennsilva84 jennsilva84 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    Am I The One

    I'm sure I will sound crazy on this one. I married a great man I am the 3rd wife..there was a long term gf in the mix too . He has children from both marriages. He hired his 1st and 2nd wife to work with him before I came into the pic. I started dating him knowing that wives...
    3rdor4th 3rdor4th 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    Well, I am also wife number 3.

    My husband is 46, I am only 31. He has 2 kids with wife #1 (16&11) and 1 with wife #2 (5). Wife #1 is very sweet, ambitious, practical and grounded and their relationship ended due to them growing apart, etc. Wife #2 was a rebound and I think was a bit more interested in his...
    HappyThird HappyThird 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    Third Wife Probs

    Obviously, I am a Third Wife or I wouldn't have joined this group. LOL. I've been with my husband now for almost 10 years. Married 2 and a half. He married his first wife at the young age of 20 (she was 19) and conceived their son on their wedding night. This came as a big...
    thirdwifesince2011 thirdwifesince2011 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    Being a second (or third) wife to a man that already has a family is like being a mistress. You never feel like a wife. He already has or had one. She's family. You are replaceable...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    i like saints row the third because they have shops with clothes shoes piercings rings.
    carlosgalindo1030 carlosgalindo1030 18-21, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Whilst I was busy working my *** off in the office starting a new business to come back from a financial catastrophe in 2005, I returned home unexpectedly one afternoon to catch my...
    TrentT TrentT 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    This is comepleting venting, but I can't get over the anger at my ex-wife. We were together for eleven years, until I caught in lesiban affair in our bedroom. After that, she...
    Robthedude Robthedude 31-35, M Oct 16

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    Hi guys new to this group. My partner is on suboxone maintainance (bupe& nalox. Films) I am concerned about his use however. I am a student in addiction and behavioral sciences...
    coffeedrop83 coffeedrop83 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    Got the third approval for my thesis...one step closer to see him!
    HoneybeeUSMgf HoneybeeUSMgf 31-35, F Oct 3

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    reading about the third eye and based on my dreams and experiences im wondering if mine is naturally open? when I was younger I dreamt of things that would happen in the near...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 16

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    I received a message from the universe about a week ago, I was asking why the Pleiadian people wouldn't come speak to me and during meditation I saw a white wall, and then as if it...
    meshbegin meshbegin 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    What is "opening your third eye" Or how can you tell you done it? Sorry I don't know :(
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I have been in a friendship with several friendship groups since I began secondary school. However, whenever I'm with any of these people, I always feel as if me being there or not...
    vanillachocolectra vanillachocolectra 13-15, F Oct 12

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    I just want to use this platform to vent out my inner thoughts.  I lived an excellent life with my wife and kids.  I was the only person in my family who was well settled...
    smarty75 smarty75 31-35, M Oct 7

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    The Dog The other day my wife was off work for a change and later that day my 20 year old step son (her natural son) was coming back from China where he spent his summer vacation...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 4 Responses Sep 26

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    My wife knows that I love for her to wear revealing clothes in public, and although she's not thrilled with the idea, she will accommodate my desires, provided that it is a safe...
    celtics11 celtics11 41-45 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Me and my wife have considered another man for some time now last week she met some one at her school She seams to get a long with him vary well so one nite she tolled me he...
    Ny147 Ny147 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    As I sit here right now while my wife has gone grocery shopping for the family I think about how blessed I am to have the best wife in the world. We met under somewhat strange...
    handytim59 handytim59 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 11

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    Since I was about 12, I have dreamed about being a wife, things I would do for my husband, and things he would do for me, wearing sexy lingerie for him, and doing other things...
    ashliemarie01 ashliemarie01 31-35, T Oct 5

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    my wife is also know about my hobby of wearing female dresses i like to wear saree blouse much. i have few collection of saree blouse bra paticoats wig ,jweleries etc One day we...
    priyankapatel131089 priyankapatel131089 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Once your wife decides to have you become her personal sissy maid, being a sissy becomes second nature to you after awhile. Like yesterday. My wife had to leave early for a...
    deeken deeken 36-40 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Letter To My Wife Nazim Hikmat.. 11-11-1933 Bursa Prison My one and only! Your last letter says: "My head is throbbing, my heart is stunned!" You say: "If they hang you, if I...
    Pheroswife Pheroswife 41-45, F Sep 25

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    I'm 24, and yes I wanted to be a wife. Not only a wife but the best and the most understanding wife for him. I have so much love, passion, care and kindness to offer for my future...
    IAMPINAY IAMPINAY 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I have been in a domestic partnership with my love for years. We have two children together. Just for clarification we are a straight couple and unmarried. His brother's wife is...
    alora236 alora236 22-25, F Sep 28

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    I like to watch my wife spread her legs. Sometimes she does it at home while it is just the two of us and at other times while we are in public. She likes to do it in front of our...
    drlesmoore drlesmoore 56-60, M 3 Responses Oct 2

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    Just some advice, there are guys out there who might try and steal your wife from you. Sometime in early July we were walking through the hospital, we are there a lot for...
    Garraway Garraway 46-50, M 5 Responses Oct 4

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    Today is one of those days where I'm reminded of the type of sissy I am. My wife has to go to work later. But for now, she's relaxing in the living room, wearing a pair of pajamas...
    deeken deeken 36-40 2 days ago

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    Me, my wife, her best friend and her boyfriend went on a weekend trip together to a secluded house with a pond. We all went swimming and before you know it all...
    tbobo1 tbobo1 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 29

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    I have over 100 internet friends (usually husbands) and we like share wifes pics - could resend Your wife to my over 100's friends :)
    annjashusband annjashusband 36-40, M 6 Responses Sep 30

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    Well....I am a soon to be truckers wife, my husband of 8 years woke up and decided that he no longer wanted to be an electrician, but wanted to become a truck driver. He talked...
    sadrich1 sadrich1 26-30, F Sep 30

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    They had only dated for a few months before getting married. They were married for a year and a half before she left him for a woman. She moved her new girlfriend into their house...
    SoapBoxKid SoapBoxKid 26-30 1 Response Oct 8

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    My wife and I have a great sex life but recently invited another male into are bed it's very exciting but scary am I wrong to let another man enjoy my wife
    raiderfan51 raiderfan51 46-50, M 12 Responses Oct 9

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    Ive never met anyone i could tell EVERYTHING, and i mean ANYTHING, ive never met anyone who told me EVERYTHING, ive never met anyone whos idea of a good time, was making sure "I...
    AntonioV AntonioV 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 11

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    I do have a girlfriend but not a wife. Even tho we are not married I still call her my wife. If anyone wants any pictures of her then please feel free to message me as I'm more...
    10KalHill 10KalHill 22-25, M 9 Responses Oct 11

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    I love my wife 2 much... No one can imagine it.. Though v fight some time but most of the the time v hv fun even in fighting... I think your wife should be your best friend..
    dukedom4ever dukedom4ever 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 11

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    We were in a shoestore and I lifted her socked foot to my lap and began tickling. She was cracking up as a lady walked around the corner and commented how cute it was. I held my...
    Miked43 Miked43 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    I spend most of my days dressed as a maid now. My day usually consists of taking care of the house and seeing to my wife's needs. She is a career woman and the breadwinner in our...
    deeken deeken 36-40 3 Responses Oct 16

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    As above my wife has Multiple Sclerosis that is in a progressive stage, she is totally disabled now, requires feeding etc, we no longer have a sexual relationship due to her...
    JMC663 JMC663 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    I want to find a wife to please like her husband can't anymore
    sammy4487 sammy4487 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 25

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    I love swapping wife pics.
    bigzman bigzman 41-45, M 8 Responses Sep 25

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