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I Am the Third Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 32 People

    Emotionally Distressed

    So, distressed that I got this Shingles out of Emotional Distress. Being a Thrird wife is no joke..I felt like I am being punished for whatever mistakes my Husband has done in the past. Everything we have nowis still dragged down by the issues in the past..I want to move forward...
    SuperMomma7 SuperMomma7 31-35 Feb 22, 2011

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    Almost A Third Wife..

    . okay so this will be one of those stories everyone comments on like oh this is wrong or you need to leave him, etc. but I am engaged and very soon with be the third wife of my almost husband. We have been together for over a year now and believe it or not it feels like we have...
    meowmissy meowmissy 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2014

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    Well, I am also wife number 3.

    My husband is 46, I am only 31. He has 2 kids with wife #1 (16&11) and 1 with wife #2 (5). Wife #1 is very sweet, ambitious, practical and grounded and their relationship ended due to them growing apart, etc. Wife #2 was a rebound and I think was a bit more interested in his...
    HappyThird HappyThird 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 6, 2014

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    My husbands ex does things to get me pissed at

    him and I just wish he would stop doing the stuff. -She asked him to video an event, b/c she didn't know how to use her video on her phone. But their 5year old had just told me his mommy was coming and was going to video the whole thing. He video'd but fought with me then...
    jipsi jipsi 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    At An Impasse

    My fiancé of 3 months, insists on purchasing birthday & holiday gifts for his four year old to give to his mother (the ex.) This hurts me deeply because I can not have children and there were no presents for my birthday from any of his three children (4, 16, 17, teens have a...
    jipsi jipsi 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    To Be Or Not To Be . . . The Third Wife

    My partner is twice divorced, one kid with each ex. Each marriage lasted 4 years. The first marriage was out of pregnancy the second was rebound. He has looked at what has contributed to what he refers to as failures. He has also been engaged twice. He is 43. I have had two...
    orshouldIbe orshouldIbe 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Wife #3

    Many of us are in marriage where they come with baggage.  Mine came with two X wives and two kids.  Both Xwives still control my husband and both kids ( one from each marraige age 25 and 13 ) control my husband.  The oldest who had a baby a year ago unmarried and...
    mydogchaos mydogchaos 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2008

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    Will I Or Won't I?

    I'm struggling with the idea of being the third wife. My significant other and I have been together for right at 2 1/2 years; I was married once for 17 years to a raging and verbally abusive alcoholic and he was married to wife number one for just shy of two years and with whom...
    drivingwithbooks drivingwithbooks 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    Frustrated

    I am extrememly frustrated with being the 3rd wife right now.  I love my husband dearly but I also feel like I'm constantly having to deal with the baggage from his previous 2 marriages and it's really putting a strain on me physically and emotionally.  I'm...
    Reese3rdwife Reese3rdwife 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 30, 2010

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    Am I The One

    I'm sure I will sound crazy on this one. I married a great man I am the 3rd wife..there was a long term gf in the mix too . He has children from both marriages. He hired his 1st and 2nd wife to work with him before I came into the pic. I started dating him knowing that wives...
    3rdor4th 3rdor4th 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    Third Wife Probs

    Obviously, I am a Third Wife or I wouldn't have joined this group. LOL. I've been with my husband now for almost 10 years. Married 2 and a half. He married his first wife at the young age of 20 (she was 19) and conceived their son on their wedding night. This came as a big...
    thirdwifesince2011 thirdwifesince2011 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    i thought i could overcome being the second but no. i feel pain when he is talking to the first wife and his kids. maybe one day i will live with them but when i thought of it, i...
    noxicillin noxicillin 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    I try to keep up with meditating every day on the regular and commit to doing so until i have opened my third eye, one day while i was meditating, i focused really hard and tryed...
    cameronight cameronight 26-30, M May 6

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    Had a dream my love got deployed ?? woke up in tears. This is the third time in 4 days
    Cant223 Cant223 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm pretty much always the third wheel but for the past few months I have became the forth wheel and I must admit this kind of sucks...maybe I'll get promoted back to third wheel...
    ZnikiZ ZnikiZ 16-17, F May 14

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    I have 2 best friends & supposedly were one whole maaaiins group but there always only talking to each other they never include me in anything how can I tell them I'm a third wheel...
    alee20 alee20 18-21, F Apr 25

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    I "am" best friends with a girl named Danielle I have been ever since I can remember last year we met this girl named Courtney, and me and Danielle were still best friends but...
    Lainey1213 Lainey1213 13-15, F 1 Response May 2

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    What kind of things have you seen with your third eye? Any stories?
    MissingPlugins MissingPlugins 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    Okay so I know this is like themed "third wheel" but I am a fourth wheel and I just really need to put this somewhere. So like I have these three friends in my friend group let's...
    candacefernandez candacefernandez 13-15, F 1 Response May 14

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    This week we had a guest, my wife "little cousin". He's 22 right now, but my wife was her babysitter many times in her teens, so for her, he's still a baby. She told me she took...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 19 Responses Apr 24

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    Five years ago I married the love of my life. I can still recall the exact moment I first saw her as if it were yesterday. As I entered the doors of our on campus coffee shop my...
    WorkingOnIt WorkingOnIt 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    As you know, my wife's cousin has been home several days. Initially it was going the weekend, but then he told us if he could stay more days as he felt very comfortable with us and...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 20 Responses Apr 26

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    Spent 2 straight days painting the rooms of the house with the wife. No fights, just painting, music and food with my best friend....my wife.
    ncfootguy ncfootguy 36-40, M 2 Responses May 4

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    I'm a pastor's wife. Just recently a woman came to our church, who just recently received her ministers lic. She is very sweet, loves the Lord, and has a burning passion to help...
    DAJ1 DAJ1 56-60, F 1 Response May 5

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    The first thing I did when I joined experienceproject was look at the stories of people leaving their wives and kids, because that's what I did. Most of the stories were about some...
    anoniMitty anoniMitty 22-25, M 2 Responses May 7

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    my wife just love's sissifing me I am normally forced to wear a pink training bra pink Barbie doll dress a pink size 4 little girls panties pink ballerina shoes and made to hold my...
    subsissy1989 subsissy1989 26-30, M 2 Responses May 8

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    This morning I woke up to my step son yelling at my wife. When I told him to stop the attitude and be more respectful to his mother, he runs to her and says I'm mean to him. Then...
    bipolarPeter bipolarPeter 31-35, M May 9

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    I actually have both a wife and a husband my wife is actually my adoptive black sister my husband is also black and they are going to help me become a black woman because I begged...
    sexkittenmax sexkittenmax 18-21, T 2 Responses May 11

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    On Monday I've booked an appointment where that nice young lady who flirted with me works. I've told my wife she is coming with me and must dress up. I can't wait for my wife to...
    Katakuna Katakuna 46-50, M 1 Response May 16

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    Fellas! The wife tells me theres a book on amazon called Vanessa's Confessions. It's about husband who likes to hear about his wife's sexual past during sex. She recently...
    hardbernard hardbernard 46-50, M a week ago

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    I lost my wife to cancer, today making it 2years, i just can't wait to be with her again, my whole world crushed with her, now I'm let with pieces. My whole life became a shadow...
    Kisonas Kisonas 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm planning another trip to Cancun with my wife in July. I'm buying my wife a couple of sheer bikinis. Like I said in my other post, she only does things like that when she is...
    Guyvaca Guyvaca 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    And I should be ashamed of myself. I shouldn't be leading other women on know full well that I am taken. I shouldn't be treating my wife with such disrespect and I can't believe...
    rjk115 rjk115 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 24

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    I have to say I was first shocked to fine out my wife was cheating. I think I was also lucky. Soon after marrying, she confided that her previous bfs had accused her of cheating...
    det21865 det21865 46-50 1 Response Apr 25

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    I heard that when he goes to mos schooling he won't be able to leave base unless it's with family or a wife .. Is that true?
    JusstJusstinee JusstJusstinee 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    I am a public speaker. I have done presentations on the following The Kennedy Assassination Watergate The Lindbergh Kidnapping The Super Bowl etc. I came up with an idea. I...
    frankred frankred 46-50 Apr 25

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    I love being a trucker wife
    gboyce gboyce 22-25, F Apr 25

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    ............Story of my life........... Make that the last 10 years of it at least. My beautiful wife and I will have been married for 18 yrs in July. I TRY - I TRY - I TRY...
    PassionSeeker38 PassionSeeker38 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 25

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    Look. If you're HAPPY with your marriage and you are NOT cheating on your husband then you are not considered a grumpy military wife. I NEVER SAID ALL MILITARY WIVES. NEVER ONCE...
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    Something happened to me that made me wonder about the nature of abuse in the world. My wife was on one of her tirades so I did as I usually do, I shut up and walked away. As I...
    wcsteel wcsteel 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 25

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    I currently have a wife who I control but is my femdom when we switch for special occasions. in the future she will be my dom when she can support us financially. she is also a...
    Shadowmushie Shadowmushie 22-25, M Apr 26

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    When I went to bed last night. My wife turns to me and says - baby can you do me a favor? I said - what? She says- I have something in my ***, can you take it out. Got caught...
    MarriedMann MarriedMann 31-35, M 15 Responses Apr 28

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