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I Am The Victom Of Abuse

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    Most people have this idea that boys can't be sexually abused. Well that is totally wrong. In fact, i was sexually and physically abused by my parents, their friends and my friends.
    andy6336 andy6336 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    I have been abused before I know how it feels inside and out if you wanna talk I am here for you😊😊😊
    sillyrose1994 sillyrose1994 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I haven't really figured out how this works but i guess i just have to write about it. Well. I remember being abused by my mother. I haven't really talked about it with anyone...
    leaskyy leaskyy 18-21, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Education is the best way to end abuse.http://www.theduluthmodel.org/pdf/PowerandControl.pdf
    sandmoon sandmoon 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    My best friend was abused as a child and from the stories he told me, I am still really distraught over what his Dad did to him. It was physical and emotional abuse. People always...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    where do you start... at the beginning I guess. It all started when I was 4, I can remember trying to tell my mother about it,, She either didn't want to except it or didn't...
    wnme wnme 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Anyone knowing my own personal experiences won't be supprised that I'm against it, but what is "it" exactly? Child abuse. It's not always sexual, not even physical... it's taking...
    ValR ValR 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    When I was 4 years old my parents were divorced. I remember 2 police cars driving up the road while my mother and dad were yelling at each other. My mother got custody of me and my...
    mymindhurts mymindhurts 18-21, F Sep 4

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    Survivor means I lived to tell the story. I will tell the story even though the ones who hurt me made me sure that no-one would ever believe me. I will tell the story even though...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 Aug 21

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Never talked about it more then two or three times in my life and yesterday I just said it to my best friend and I saw his reaction then I knew I never told him that I was abused...
    Dengel85 Dengel85 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I have never been bullied in school before due to my size. However, I am no stranger to abuse. I used to be abused my dad and even today. My dad has a drinking problem and used...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Where do I go from here, everytime I try to begin I start to cry. I`ve been told to let it all out, why is it so easy to say something like that when you aren`t the one who lived...
    0utlander 0utlander 56-60, M Aug 19

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    I'm 100% to support animal. Animal can't speak for them self and I'm sure they do not do any harm to anyone. I'm sick how people in this world treating the animal. God created...
    colonaileen colonaileen 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    So, how to start? I got married 2 years ago last weekend to a nice boy, a good Christian boy, or so I thought, so he led me to believe. Turns out he was lying. About all of it...
    geolbt geolbt 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I feel like I have more problems now that I've admitted to myself I've been abused, than when I was actually being abused. I'm in therapy but it's been a year already. I've made...
    wanderinggrl wanderinggrl 26-30, T 3 Responses Aug 26

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    There's protests going off in my area of the UK where they are demanding social workers and police to get sacked because of the 1,400 sexual abuse cases and which they failed to...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    Where do I start? My dads an alcoholic My older brother hates me My mum doesn't even talk to me I was sexually abused by my grandad from the age of 6 to 12/13. I may write more...
    tltlc tltlc 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    my new baby girl was the result of long term sexual abuse... im scared she will look like my abuser or be violent or something... she's also had cystic fibrosis and there is so...
    ana097 ana097 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I wonder, how it would have been if I was raised in a normal family. My mother is a narcissistic person (NPD) and my dad was and is her enabler. I was raised with the burden of...
    pistacchia pistacchia 46-50, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I know how it feels I been through that kind of stuff even still and I'm 17 years old. I started getting abused when I was about 2/3 years old I think. It's sad to watch and like...
    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been abused basically my whole life. Physically abused, mentally, and emotionally. I hate it and I still do. I don't want anyone to go through what I had to go through.
    Katiepoohmm Katiepoohmm 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My mother for years have blamed me for my father and her divorce. She took out her physical and emotion abuse on me I don't know what to do I'm feeling very helpless with trying to...
    sarah0426 sarah0426 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Is someone please available to talk? I really could use someone to talk to. I had a recent breakup with an abuser. I feel shattered. I feel weak. I feel so alone. He beat me...
    amtired amtired 22-25 8 Responses Aug 18

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    My ex abused me physically, mentally, and sexually. He would grab my arms so hard he left bruises, and there was one day I remember he tried to crush my head into the seat of his...
    kaikins kaikins 18-21 1 Response Aug 19

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    If you are going to have a child just to abuse him or her, then you should not be having children. Children are human beings. So treat them like human beings. Having a child is...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    Yes I have been beaten, abused, and punched.......but you know what? I'm not going to let that affect my way of life......in fact in the end I will hug and thank them because I...
    XannaleiseX XannaleiseX 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 23

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    I posted my experiences about my sexual abuse so people knew they weren't alone and that I'm truly willing to help. I hate that people attack me and say I need help. I'm the way I...
    xaliroox xaliroox 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    You always Hear about a guy rapeing a girl or a guy hiting a girl, but people think that is fine when it's vice versa, I hate it abuse is bad no matter what gender.
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M Aug 25

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    The second you abuse the child, is the second I hate you for life.
    Although Although 13-15 Aug 26

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    Basically, recently, there has been a lot of interest in child abuse victims in my area. Outside my family, no-one knows about what my step-father did to me. I mean, the whole...
    gigglesounds gigglesounds 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I need to get away from the abuse I wish some one would help me I need someone to love me and give me a place to call home
    Mallexx Mallexx 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    My foster mom had me sexually abused in the hospital. By a "doctor". I was seven. I had many many hospital stays growing up, treating my chronic lung condition. I'm a victim of...
    iMinnow iMinnow 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    Is it wrong to only want to speak to women about my abuse? It was a man who did it, I just feel more comfortable this way. :(
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    Right now I'm like sobbing my eyes out as I write this. My dad and I don't get along too well. All he does is complain, yell at me, threaten to hit/abuse me ALL THE TIME. (Even In...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I am physically and mentally abused by my younger brother. He punches me and says really hurtful things to me everyday. He may be younger than me but he is so much more stronger...
    Robin1226 Robin1226 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I was sexually abused and I feel like no one else knows how I feel x x x
    elizabethjay elizabethjay 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    Ok i need advice on what do to here. My best friend parents physically and verbally abuse her she is anorexic, bulimic, has severe depression is sucidal and alot of other stuff her...
    gramafey gramafey 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    I have been physically abused by my alcoholic dad ever since I was in 3rd grade. He went to jail for a couple years but is now back. It has gotten better now that I am bigger and...
    ihill032299 ihill032299 16-17, M Sep 2

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    I was sexually abused by my older brother and I told my mom but she didn't really seem to take much concern and it honestly kills me inside to ever be around him
    hellandtoast666 hellandtoast666 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    This is a sensitive subj to talk about, when I was 5-6 I was sexually abused by my uncle, I still remember everything although in 16 now. I never did something about it, I still...
    myownmind2 myownmind2 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    I find myself, once again, stuck in a difficult position. I take complete 100% responsibility for putting myself in this situation. I have no problem accepting responsibility for...
    LadyHawke68 LadyHawke68 41-45, F Sep 5

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    When I was around 4 years old, my biological parents began to abuse me for no reason. They called me a devil's child and use to torture and starve me. I remembered they use to tie...
    Lucas14 Lucas14 18-21, M Sep 6

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    My boyfriend is bipolar,he has a bad temper,and he has multiple personalities that change very quickly out of nowhere. Now he use to be really bad at just emotionally abusing me by...
    Kaymgraves1994 Kaymgraves1994 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    How can a person say that she loves you and yet emotionally abuses you? Threaten to sue me for god knows what. Threaten to reveal to my family and friends about the secrets I...
    HeyHiHelloOla HeyHiHelloOla 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 6

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