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I Am The Victom Of Abuse

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    Most people have this idea that boys can't be sexually abused. Well that is totally wrong. In fact, i was sexually and physically abused by my parents, their friends and my friends.
    andy6336 andy6336 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    I was sexually abused ever since I could remember. Later on I figured out I was molested from before I was 2 until I was 12. I was molested by my older male cousin and my older...
    MgkLez96 MgkLez96 16-17, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    My dad is in the US navy and he comes home every 6 months and is generally bitter towards me. He said I was a mistake and that he left my mom cause of me. He abuse me emotionally...
    temptedtotouch temptedtotouch 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Once u was abused, i tell u honestly- u will never get over it. Never. You can do a therapy , it will help you to bring all the repressed hurt out but it wouldnt make the abuse...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F Jul 22

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    I was emotionally abused by my mother all of my life. The abuse started as i was 9 and continued till last year. As i lived with my parents in my mother country i was hurt every...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    So here is my story all my life I seeked attention I wanted to be the cemter of attention : talking loud .acting dramaticly .fighting with teacher to make them noticing me born in...
    aryela aryela 18-21, F Jul 10

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    Finding out that someone else within the family was abused by the same person as I was as a child breaks my ******* heart. I would never wish abuse of any sort on my worst enemy...
    herebutinvisible herebutinvisible 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Boy everyone here is really taking a stand. Ooooh you are against child abuse! So edgy! How can you stand to be so daring?? Does this even need to be said? Does anyone like child...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Im now 9 years using the internet. I was trying to put my feelings on EP, other forums online, but i met rarelly any victims of abuse.Either they have shame to come out and talk...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    My body has become a symbol for who I am. I'm so small showing my deepest desire to slip away into nothingness. I have cut my arms to mar the skin as if to be a constant reminder...
    PoetGirl97 PoetGirl97 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I wish she instead asked, " Are a Child Abuse Survivor". It is a Statement. How she made it a choice for all. I was never ABUSED as a Child. My Abuse began when I was 35.
    paradisequeen paradisequeen 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Why do people abuse animals? They didn't do anything to you! Imagine you being that animal who got abused! I bet you wouldn't like it! So why do you do it!
    GoodGirl205 GoodGirl205 13-15, F Jul 1

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    I was about 6 when my older step brother who is about 7 years older than me, sexually abused me. I've tried so hard to block it out, thankfully I only have a short memory of it. It...
    nzm87 nzm87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I was a victim of domestic abuse I was abused by my boyfriend would love to talk to some of you guys to ease the pain
    Prettybirds Prettybirds 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 11

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    My ex wife would lose it if I used the wrong words to answer her.... Everytime I was late even 5 or 10 minutes she accused me of cheating. She'd threaten to leave if she didn't get...
    Z00Z00Z Z00Z00Z 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    Even when I was 3 years old. It was only my dad who did it. My mom sat by and watched because she couldn't do anything about it but come help me afterwards. My dad always thought I...
    Zalbaar Zalbaar 13-15, M Jul 11

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    Everyone is free here to block whoever they want. The abuse takes place whenever someone decides to evade important questions or simply a painful truth. To call adultery by its...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M Jul 14

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    Everyone is free here to block whoever they want. The abuse takes place whenever someone decides to evade important questions or simply a painful truth. To call adultery by its...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M Jul 14

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    It should be a crime....physical abuse is a crime, why not this ? the scars and damage it leaves and not for a while, but for a life time. It changes lives forever, and some...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I don't know if this counts as emotional abuse, I'm a 21 year old male. So if that matters in whether I am or I'm not I guess I have gender issues too. The Mother who raised me has...
    Nataliewoofwoof Nataliewoofwoof 18-21 1 Response Jul 18

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    This kind of allegation once made is hard to beet and so it wold seem even harder to recant for the alleged victim. But for the supposed offender there is only that you are in...
    memyselfamdi memyselfamdi 46-50, M Jul 19

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    Physical aggression by a man toward his partner is abuse, even if it happens only once. If he raises a fist; punches a hole in the wall; throws things at you; blocks your way...
    Lostnalone22 Lostnalone22 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Well today after getting out of the ward I was on for a day, I am still extremely confused about what is classed as abuse and if it happened to me, didn't help that yesterday the...
    Ameliaaaa Ameliaaaa 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    ask me questions. i'm trying to recover as we speak, I've been working on it for about 4 months now. I am not afraid of people's judgement because I'm not going to defend my past...
    DrkHrse DrkHrse 22-25 1 Response Jul 1

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    I'm trying to get a conviction against a man who sexually abused me.
    claireoblast claireoblast 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I was sexually abused at around the age of 9 by my brother it was repeated till the age of 12. At the age of 14 i found this was wrong and told my pastoral manager at school who...
    RandomSomeone RandomSomeone 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Everybody should hate child abuse of any kind and it should not even exist.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Every kid should be happy with their lives and no one should abuse a child in anyway. If it's verbal or physical, I don't want kids to suffer what people like me did.
    Alyzza123 Alyzza123 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I have a lot of respect for people who look past calling abusers "demons and evil" and try to figure out WHY they did it. This way we can over time prevent this from ever...
    Glass64bit Glass64bit 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Verbal abuse is the cruelest form. Today the man that I have loved for as long as i can remember battered me. He told me that he thinks that he got another woman pregnant . I asked...
    sandmoon sandmoon 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I hate the vourble abuse of people who disrespect our military, calling us murders,baby killer,etc. It's not like you can beat their ***
    fire1019 fire1019 26-30, M Jul 7

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    I was abused by my mother... For so long while growing up while I was younger hit me for what seem for no reason! If I didn't do as she asked quickly as she wanted she'd hit or...
    shexlove shexlove 22-25, F Jul 7

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    This will be my most personal story. It's not just about me, but I figured I should put everything in one place. This will be long, so anyone who actually wants to take the time to...
    lonachan lonachan 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Neglecting children or insulting them is child abuse.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I have been at both extreme and still am near an extreme I have cut but now I abuse my body with the amount of work and training I but it through If anyone has any ideas how I can...
    ryanmona ryanmona 18-21, M Jul 8

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    well...I wasn't an abused child...lol but my mom kicked my *** throughout child hood because i deserved it being a little punk in my day hahah just saying
    jonnygoode74 jonnygoode74 36-40, M Jul 10

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    i binge eat. i starve. i slide razors on my skin. i go hungry for days. i cry till my face tingles so vigorously it goes numb. i stick with people who can break my heart. i go...
    meowshelbs meowshelbs 16-17, F Jul 11

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    Yeah... You heard it right! For about 4 years, I was forced to kiss/sleep in bed/pleasure a 52 year old disabled man which was my mom's ex boyfriend/friend. My mom didn't know...
    Bigone14 Bigone14 13-15 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm not sure if I was sexually abused. When I was 14, a much older man in his late 40's took an interest in me and my being naive and fatherless decided I liked the attention. He...
    danielle1423 danielle1423 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 11

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    As a child my father was on drugs, amd my mother 'took care' of my brother and I. Its a complicated situation as I was the only one physically abused. I was picked up by the hair...
    tangibleorca tangibleorca 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    For a very long time, I've been searching for a place to tell my story. This seems like my best bet so far, so here goes. When I was 14, I was in my first real relationship. It...
    junelily junelily 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I'm pretty sure all my emotional problems stem from the fact that I was sexually abused
    Es777 Es777 26-30, M Jul 13

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    When I was about three or four, my parents would babysit my neighbor's daughter, also the same age. When she came over she would make me take off my clothes and she would take off...
    Xander8905 Xander8905 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I am now 48 years old but 40 years ago I was abuse at 8 years old by a gang of older lads they were in their teens the same year I went back to wearing baby pants there was 9 older...
    midlothian midlothian 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 14