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I Am The Victom Of Abuse

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    Most people have this idea that boys can't be sexually abused. Well that is totally wrong. In fact, i was sexually and physically abused by my parents, their friends and my friends.
    andy6336 andy6336 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    Lunnaku Lunnaku 26-30 2 Responses Aug 3

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    temptedtotouch temptedtotouch 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 1

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    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 1

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