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I Am the Wrong Person

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    I Was Supposed to Have Been a Beach-dwelling Loner.

    I love my life, but I was supposed to have been born into a scarcely populated tropical climate, enjoying the ocean every day of my life with no real worry of money.
    fascad3 fascad3 36-40, M 9 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    It's Hard To Explain....

    It's not that I don't like who I am. It's not like I am a bad person or anything. It's just - sometimes I get the feeling that I am not who I am supposed to be. I'll try to explain.    A few years ago I was an a**hole. I was a selfish little child, ignorant and...
    wardy131 wardy131 18-21, M Feb 13, 2010

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    My Other Self

    I have an idealized image about myself. In my mind I'm a man who plays in a rock band, rides a motorcycle, has a few but true friends, is bisexual or gay and has a male lover whom he's faithful to. My other self is always strong and just. He always does the right thing and never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 21, 2009

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    I Am The Only Right Person

    between almost 100% NON-RIGHT totally brainwashed living in the Medieval Ages.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 1 Response Oct 13, 2009

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    Accept Hello And Move On To The "right Person".

    Hello he said with a smile, I smile back and go on trying to remember the list of "needs" I shall pick up in this store and leave quickly. This is not the first time I have run into this man since moving into this town almost 2 years ago. He usually goes back to what he is...
    housemouse housemouse 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2010

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    LipstickShield LipstickShield 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    yes alone.. if someone cant stand and fight for your love.. why do they have to stay in a relationship.. ? Love is an experience but not a rehearsal of feelings and emotions. Love...
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    Sia88 Sia88 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    "Let no man pull you low enough to hate him"- Martin Luther King
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    I have finally made the decision after 12 years of marriage, to continue my life without him. I feel strong and courageous. I feel like nothing could hold me back or move me from...
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    I've never been in love... I often wonder if I am incapable of feeling love :(
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    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm feeling very confused because Ill be 18 in a few days and I feel like I'm at wrong because I'm a virgin. I am one by choice, of course. Not really religious reasons but, I...
    Ascbl Ascbl 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I'm sure there are others out there who can relate to me in some way. Has anyone ever accused you of being a know-it-all, and felt misinterpreted or dismissed because of it? That...
    PunkinH2O PunkinH2O 31-35, F 19 Responses Jul 11

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    For our loved ones here and who have passed on, because they truly walk in beauty, because they opened to me I opened to them.. they accept and love my shortcomings and find...
    sister11 sister11 36-40, F 41 mins ago

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     Acknowledging the Strength through Relationships - As a male growing up around two other male "role-models", one thing was for certain in relationships: how much sex I...
    LysanderFremont LysanderFremont 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    What a difference a day makes. Today I got my diagnosis This morning my knowledge about borderline was somewhat limited. I have had friends who had borderline and those were very...
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    LuLuG94 LuLuG94 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I just can't do it, and I don't wanna be that kind of person. I hate the thought of hurting someone, it breaks my heart. Being nice just feels good, and I hope I don't change. They...
    TeethTheSizeOfPianoKeys TeethTheSizeOfPianoKeys 18-21, M 5 hrs ago

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    I'm the type of person to get jealous when I see someone I like hang out with someone I hate.
    jacedrew jacedrew 16-17, M 2 hrs ago

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    After the last 8 months I don't think I'll ever recover my life back to how it was or be the person I was. I'm just a shell of my former self. The future is bleak and the darkness...
    Reinvented23 Reinvented23 31-35, M 49 mins ago

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    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I would really like to get a better understanding on this. I can only read so much before I want to talk to those that have experience on the subject. I've been in a relationship...
    matt0030 matt0030 22-25, M a week ago

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    Wow what do you know I am the most rare personality type. Figures as such. The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they...
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    genuinelywise genuinelywise 18-21, F Jul 22

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    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M Jul 12

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    TrueLoverN TrueLoverN 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I was wrong and should have taken the persons feelings into consideration .
    christiaan0012000 christiaan0012000 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 22

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