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I Am the Wrong Person

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    It's Hard To Explain....

    It's not that I don't like who I am. It's not like I am a bad person or anything. It's just - sometimes I get the feeling that I am not who I am supposed to be. I'll try to explain.    A few years ago I was an a**hole. I was a selfish little child, ignorant and...
    wardy131 wardy131 18-21, M Feb 13, 2010

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    I Am The Only Right Person

    between almost 100% NON-RIGHT totally brainwashed living in the Medieval Ages.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 1 Response Oct 13, 2009

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    Accept Hello And Move On To The "right Person".

    Hello he said with a smile, I smile back and go on trying to remember the list of "needs" I shall pick up in this store and leave quickly. This is not the first time I have run into this man since moving into this town almost 2 years ago. He usually goes back to what he is...
    housemouse housemouse 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2010

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    My Other Self

    I have an idealized image about myself. In my mind I'm a man who plays in a rock band, rides a motorcycle, has a few but true friends, is bisexual or gay and has a male lover whom he's faithful to. My other self is always strong and just. He always does the right thing and never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 21, 2009

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    I Was Supposed to Have Been a Beach-dwelling Loner.

    I love my life, but I was supposed to have been born into a scarcely populated tropical climate, enjoying the ocean every day of my life with no real worry of money.
    fascad3 fascad3 36-40, M 9 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I get asked a lot: when are you planning to get married or are you engaged yet? Or why are you still single until now? I am not that old, well I am 30 yrs old and I can see why...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 11

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    What is wrong with guys these days? Aren't you suppose to dress to impress when you go on a date??? Is that too much to ask or something irrelevant these days??? I went on a date...
    melissav369 melissav369 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 26

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    For me, it's truly easy for me to be alone rather than struggle, hope and try to have someone like me for me. I say that not without fault as there are times when I'm truly that...
    Happinessisthinking Happinessisthinking 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I always fall in love with people who are taken.
    Fourtris143 Fourtris143 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I know I am worthy of love so why am I alone? I like to tell myself I am ok alone but I would love something more
    isfj isfj 36-40, F Mar 25

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    When I see my friends getting into relationships and all. It makes me think about how I can't see myself in a relationship. It's kind of sad thinking about it. Still in all honest...
    nuwandaisaphony nuwandaisaphony 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I guess I learned some things that probably scared and scarred me for life. My mom always tells me "You're gonna be living alone in a forest in a cabin filled with cats" and my...
    Chibiiiii Chibiiiii 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    And that's why I'm creating an exit plan for real.
    Warmways Warmways 46-50, F 10 Responses Apr 4

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    Exactly how I'm feeling right now. I just started work in a bank. There's at least 20 people there but I rather be alone then be with anyone on of them. I feel so out of place...
    strawberrycreamcake strawberrycreamcake 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Finding myself and growing is far more important, and I am myself. When things fail I have get up and dust off and rebuild and grow. I am and I will always be who I am, as much as...
    Orchidspetals Orchidspetals 36-40, F 5 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I don't get why people cheat on someone whilst in a relationship with their boyfriend/girlfriend. I think cheating is 100% wrong and some people think it's ok to cheat on someone...
    agdnn agdnn 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    It's not always necessary to change someone's mind: Sometimes it's just plain not worth it to try and change someone's mind, best to just agree to disagree and move on. For the...
    CrystalRainsPearls CrystalRainsPearls 41-45, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Top ten questions about relationships with psychopaths/narcissists. I took this from the site psychopathfree.com. I found it to be very helpful. 1. Is he / she really a psychopath...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    "Just Yet" I wanted to say "I am not the person I want to be." EP offered me up this group instead. And after the typical feelings of "Why doesn't EP ever have what I'm looking...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It's funny how many many years ago, adultery used to be illegal, and sometimes ended in death of either the cheater or the person who they were cheating with, or both. Not that I...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    The good looks not everything actually sometimes we find the good looks but the personality is really bad or it's just not there. I've met that pretty girl before she was really...
    Beyondtheseaa Beyondtheseaa 26-30, F Mar 26

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    I think it’s time to be very honest with myself because I think I haven’t been lately. I’ve been involved in a ton of drama lately and I’m not entirely guilt-free. I...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Ever since I could remember year after year things just keep going WRONG! Like at one point everything was going fine until people started losing jobs or selling homes from...
    GeekyGangstaGirl GeekyGangstaGirl 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I used to be happy.. but it was for all of the wrong reasons. I was mean, I did mean things that I knew were bad but for whatever reason I couldn't stop myself. I fell into bad...
    oddvow oddvow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    The Worst Regret We Can Have In Life Is Not For The Wrong Things We Did....BUT...For The Thousands Of The Right Things we Did For The Wrong People.....
    L0ve4every1 L0ve4every1 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I struggle with knowing what is right and what is wrong. The other day I was speaking with someone and they said that the law is what we should follow. I'm not so sure I can agree...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    It's just the thing of guys who are wrong usually have that type of game to draw a person in while a nice guy can be boring or annoying in certain ways
    caiseyi caiseyi 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    You know what the most hurtful thing is? Is that I really wanted him to love me. Love me deeply and mean it. I wanted him to tell me that I meant something to him. But I suppose I...
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    You know what the most hurtful thing is? Is that I really wanted him to love me. Love me deeply and mean it. I wanted him to tell me that I meant something to him. But I suppose I...
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    actually i am a sensitive person. yeah i dont show it to everyone, i just keep it myself. i can stand it, i can be patient to it. but sometimes, i get very very tired of this. i...
    captaincandice captaincandice 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I came out to my step dad this morning. While he admits being out of his element, he told me how touched he is I trust him enough to tell him. How proud he is of me for figuring...
    giggponagoshi giggponagoshi 22-25, T 3 Responses Mar 29

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    My sister is 16 and her bf is 30 right at this moment they are in my living room making out in our couch. Iam a very open minded person but this creeps me out. Especially as...
    bieverything bieverything 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I get a kick out of people putting there personal business on Facebook. Some people ask them "what's wrong are you alright?" Then the original poster either responds with a rude...
    Ice26 Ice26 31-35, F Apr 7

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    I am a good person. sure I've made mistakes but haven't wrong all.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I had an 8-year-relationship that was very manipulative somehow. He knows that I love it if I could help people, and he used pity to control me. I gave him most of my money, from...
    microsleeping microsleeping 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    Being straightforward is a characteristic I really appreciate in person. I don't like games and I don't like drama. I shy away from people who I think have cruel intentions. I am...
    qtrican80 qtrican80 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    would you think it's normal for a female human being (me) to think there's nothing wrong with pregnancy on other women, 'cause you know there's a baby growing inside and new life...
    modd096 modd096 18-21, F Mar 20

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    In some what I really wish I could go back in time and change everything I did that people thought I did wrong.. I wish I could tell everyone that I in some way hurt, I wish I...
    Sarah0218 Sarah0218 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 20

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    i don't know what's wrong with me. i use to be fit and healthy and a social butterfly, now i am just fat, lazy, always locked in my apt and failing school. i use to love school, i...
    justmeN22 justmeN22 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    And even if the other person doesn't apologise for their part, mine still stands. My apologies are not conditional on reciprocation. I'm just bloody perfect like that! :-)
    Tinboxdoll Tinboxdoll 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    It can be so unbelievably frustrating lying in bed with my brain racing and wanting to sleep so badly, but sweet, deep slumber is just a wishful thought. I think back to the days...
    kwazzee kwazzee 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I can easily see how that can be understood as fetishizing or objectifying or just a childish fancy (then again practically i am still a child), but i really can't help it either...