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I Am the Wrong Person

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    Accept Hello And Move On To The "right Person". - Hello he said with a smile, I smile back and go on trying to remember the list of "needs" I shall pick up in this...
    housemouse housemouse 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2010

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    It's Hard To Explain.... - It's not that I don't like who I am. It's not like I am a bad person or anything. It's just - sometimes I get the feeling that I am not who I am...
    wardy131 wardy131 18-21, M Feb 13, 2010

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    I Was Supposed to Have Been a Beach-dwelling Loner. - I love my life, but I was supposed to have been born into a scarcely populated tropical climate, enjoying the ocean every day...
    fascad3 fascad3 36-40, M 10 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    My Other Self - I have an idealized image about myself. In my mind I'm a man who plays in a rock band, rides a motorcycle, has a few but true friends, is bisexual or gay and has a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 21, 2009

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    I Am The Only Right Person - between almost 100% NON-RIGHT totally brainwashed living in the Medieval Ages.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 1 Response Oct 13, 2009

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    I would rather be alone than with the wrong person. That's the same as wasting energy on something that's never going to work out. However, people in this society choose being with...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    Yeah... talk about a waste of time or low self esteem after the break up with the wrong person... for me being single has taught me more about who I am and what I want in life...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Being With The Wrong Person... Most people can relate to over-staying in a relationship with a partner who was not right for them, who displayed major red flags, or treated them...
    sciguy18 sciguy18 51-55, M 4 Responses Apr 7

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    If you could love the wrong person that much, imagine how much you would love the right person.
    QueenAwesomePants QueenAwesomePants 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    Sometimes loving the wrong person can teach you how to appreciate the right person when they come along.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    If I am alone, I don't have to worry about others, if I am with a person that isn't for me, I have to worry about when I won't have to worry about that person again
    ash5698 ash5698 13-15, M Mar 21

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    Whenever someone has a negative influence me I tend to slowly drift away. I don't like being around mean people that hurt me. I'm planning on moving out of my parents house when I...
    RainbowDalia RainbowDalia 18-21, F Mar 18

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    Everyone of us suffer sometimes. We can feel lost, we can feel alone. Life has to be lived in couple, but sometimes it is worst then being alone. Since I know I cannot discern...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M Mar 24

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    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F Mar 21

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    I don't get it why some people try to hide their real selves just to fit in, yeah fitting in because of that feels good but it won't last for a long time. But it will feel great...
    sleepingbloop sleepingbloop 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    Easier said than done, for me (i'm also a member of the group I Want To Follow My Own Advice). Yes, I can laugh about it.
    justbeit justbeit 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 24

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    The best way to be happy with someone is to learn to be happy alone. That way the company will be a matter of choice.. Not necessity.
    bluemoon2121 bluemoon2121 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 27

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    For THREE months now... I've been dealing with this dude. You got a old *** 38 year old that you claim you are using only for her money, car and you claim she take care of you. I'm...
    NeneTaurean NeneTaurean 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I am at such a loss..confused. I'm writing this in the early hours of the morning because I can't get to sleep. I met someone who I thought was very handsome and charming and...
    Passionateintrovert Passionateintrovert 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I don't feel like I can wait any longer. It's not like relationships are hard for me to find, but I don't want to waste my time with someone I'm not meant to be with. Being a...
    ashalew ashalew 22-25, F Apr 8

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    Is there anything wrong with having a perverted side? I don't think so. What's wrong with talking about sex or experiences? What's wrong with sharing some pics and turning...
    dcisme dcisme 41-45, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I feel like I owe my old friends an apology. I feel like I’m the reason a lot of my past relationships haven’t worked out. I feel like I’m always wasting time...
    moorelove3168 moorelove3168 18-21 1 hr ago

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    I have ADHD and RADS. So I find it difficult to know what I'm doing is right or wrong. My ADHD makes me loose focus and my RADS makes me fix problems my way.
    602rea 602rea 13-15, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I know some gays want me to be this or that, but I'm happy being just the way I am. There isn't a damn thing wrong with being gay and me being me. Same goes for everyone else gay...
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    today the most worst day through out my entire life , i never had a friend , recently i met a wonderful person EP , her name is Hana , she was wonderful friend , she assured me she...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    So today's fun filled event with the wife was a 7 hour complaint fest with 2 hours of arguing in there. Just wouldn't end. I had to walk out of the room after 3 hours which...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M Apr 5

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    When I have done something wrong, I can't live with the guilt, I have to tell the person who I have wronged that I am sorry. The last time I apologized to someone, they forgave me...
    londonqueen londonqueen 22-25, F Mar 17

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    Nothing's wrong with you. You are an individual. A beautiful person. A piece of life. You are unique and you are your own person. Just because you are different from other people...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I mean, I may shower the person spit (on the account that I stutter when I have to apologize, in which case, I'll have to apologize for that as well O_O), but when I'm wrong, I'm...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    I really cannot comprehend how about half of my age group are in long term relationships and then there's me,who by the way I am a lesbian,and most of my friends (gay and straight...
    RidiculouslyJasmine RidiculouslyJasmine 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    This is the only place I can be truly anonymous. And sooooo, I can answer personal questions about ANYTHING *____*
    Aly1607 Aly1607 16-17, M 3 hrs ago

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    Not me!!!!! But it is odd that i have a weird follower who just simply inbox-ed me and in a diplomatic way, cursed me!!! I have no clue to this person, he is all alone and without...
    Pretywoman Pretywoman 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    :( ;( friday 21st march........sun shone brightly and day started,had a list of chores to do......my lazziness and ignorance to work proved a real blame n taunt fr me.... why s it...
    Mughee Mughee 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    Starting at a young age I felt alone, empty, and misunderstood. It was such a normal feeling I almost didn't realize it wasn't "normal". What was wrong with me? ADD? Depression...
    certzjbd23 certzjbd23 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I know they say to forgive and forget, but, I find it really hard to forgive people who knowingly do things that are wrong, meanwhile, playing the innocent role. These people will...
    NeedMoreSunnyDays NeedMoreSunnyDays 41-45 Mar 31

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    and I read a post from someone today, where they stated that "we are not ill," and I told her that I do identify with it as an illness that I want to recover from. I said that the...
    serendipitysparkle serendipitysparkle 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 16

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    It seems the harder i try with my husband the worse i get hurt. I don't have a clue what to do anymore. This is my second marriage and i have tried like hell to correct my obvious...
    xxImBrokenxx xxImBrokenxx 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    ok so if your not a church goer you might now want to read this but you can I know how I could be a better person and that's by me going to confession and I know some of you might...
    rynamight rynamight 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I'm feeling very guilty and have even shameful lately. When I was 13 years old, in 8th grade, I lost my virginity. Ever since then I never forgave myself for doing that and I never...
    softballgirl99 softballgirl99 13-15, F Mar 25

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    Is it me? Everything is crumbling. Nothing makes sense. Relationships are broken. Bonds that should be permanent are severed, leaving behind ragged edges of frayed cord. I know I...
    Missjayne1 Missjayne1 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    I honestly feel as if I'm Holden Caulfield (from the Catcher in the Rye) but the girl version. I'm the biggest phony anybody'll ever meet. I mean, I'm nice and honest, don't get me...
    jonquil42 jonquil42 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I started posting massive data dumps of myself online because I did not think I was going to make it. I wanted the people I loved to know something truthful about me. I came...
    ObiOneyouremyonlyhope ObiOneyouremyonlyhope 41-45, F Mar 24

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    I have BPD and I'm totally my own worst enemy, I've learned over the years that when things are calm and peaceful I sabotage my own life because I'm more comfortable in chaotic...
    BeautifulBorderlineJunkie BeautifulBorderlineJunkie 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    But would I change this about myself if I could? SHOULD I change this if I could? I don't know. Being this sensitive can be great at times. I can find joy in tiny, insignificant...
    BigNShy BigNShy 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 17

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    Everyday I feel alone, empty.. Hollow Inside, no emotions what so ever, but when I see her I get this smile on my face and I'm just happy to see her. Because she made me feel like...
    CannibalizeTheMerciful CannibalizeTheMerciful 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    There are many people that think about cutting themselves and hurting themselves and even suicide.... Listen to me when I say it's not worth it. If you don't think your loved your...
    Cuteiful08 Cuteiful08 13-15, F Mar 22

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    I was diagnosed with BPD about a year and a half ago. I was in denial and didn't get the help that I needed. It was my husband who figured out that their was something wrong and...
    mamakate09 mamakate09 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    It's weird. I come from a family who can dish it as well as they can take it, but me? One wrong word or action is sometimes all it takes to make me crumble. I hate that. Why am I...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 6 Responses Mar 25

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    Ugh I actually miss the night shifts I used to work in a restaurant I am so not a morning person and I always feel sluggish and foggy in the morning. I uses to work 10 pm to 6am...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Ppl say its wrong to love who I do but Idc I love this person and will always fight their corner
    lifecansuckmydick lifecansuckmydick 13-15, F Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3