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I Am the Wrong Person

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    My Other Self

    I have an idealized image about myself. In my mind I'm a man who plays in a rock band, rides a motorcycle, has a few but true friends, is bisexual or gay and has a male lover whom he's faithful to. My other self is always strong and just. He always does the right thing and never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 21, 2009

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    It's Hard To Explain....

    It's not that I don't like who I am. It's not like I am a bad person or anything. It's just - sometimes I get the feeling that I am not who I am supposed to be. I'll try to explain.    A few years ago I was an a**hole. I was a selfish little child, ignorant and...
    wardy131 wardy131 18-21, M Feb 13, 2010

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    I Was Supposed to Have Been a Beach-dwelling Loner.

    I love my life, but I was supposed to have been born into a scarcely populated tropical climate, enjoying the ocean every day of my life with no real worry of money.
    fascad3 fascad3 36-40, M 9 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    Accept Hello And Move On To The "right Person".

    Hello he said with a smile, I smile back and go on trying to remember the list of "needs" I shall pick up in this store and leave quickly. This is not the first time I have run into this man since moving into this town almost 2 years ago. He usually goes back to what he is...
    housemouse housemouse 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2010

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    I Am The Only Right Person

    between almost 100% NON-RIGHT totally brainwashed living in the Medieval Ages.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 1 Response Oct 13, 2009

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