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I Am Thinking About Cheating

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    So Unfulfilled

    Hi out there, Yes, I am thinking about cheating.  I just don't know how to go about it.  I am female and I want to cheat with either a man or a woman.  My 'fiancee', which just means we're together but not getting married or breaking up anytime soon, is a...
    mellonamin mellonamin 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Totally Confused

    Been married for over a dozen years and all of the sudden I am thinking about cheating.  I have a friend of the family that has been around for 6 years or so and we have always gotten along great!  He tells me he thinks about me all of the time but he knows I am married...
    pagirl pagirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 10, 2008

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    My friends and I are game of thrones fans.

    Whenever I think about cheating on my girlfriend I equate it to two paths: Ned Stark or Robert Baratheon. I could be Robert, I have no trouble flirting with girls and know plenty who I most likely could hook up with (I don't mention I'm a GOT nerd). There's a few girls who have...
    HombreOsoCerdo HombreOsoCerdo 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    Anyone Else Notice...

    how people who aren't thinking of cheating come in here and foist their opinions on us?   I think this is so rude.  
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 15, 2009

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    Let me explain my situation.

    My partner is 5 years older than me. She is at the stage she wants to settle down and I'm not. We use to have an amazing sex life. It was hot, passionate, loving and orgasmic. Now its almost non existent and boring. I may be a self diagnosed sex addict and I love to have sex...
    sassycat96 sassycat96 18-21, F 1 Response May 24

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    What happens after leaving

    My ex-wife and I were together since we were in college - over 10 years - but we really didn't get along.  She was a downer: she complained about all of the things that she did not like in our relationship, and never gives me any positive feedback.  We have talked about...
    imagosf imagosf 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    It Was Only An "Emotional" Affair But Still...

    I have been with my husband for 26 years and married for 23. Last year I found out that he had connected with an old friend from high school and they started a relationship. Our marriage was pretty rocky at the time and to be honest the year before I had told him I wanted a...
    LisasgotMS LisasgotMS 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2013

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    My husband and i have been together 5 years

    and the sex has never been great. I do love him but feel sexually unsatisfied. There is a man who I used to see who is also married that wants to hook up again. He and I have amazing sex and have been talking off and on for the whole time we both have been married but I have...
    kimmyh23 kimmyh23 36-40, F 7 Responses Oct 11

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    Only One

    I have been with and only with my wife for almost 20yrs. I still love my wife very much but I missed out on so much because we got together so early in our lives. I want to test the waters.
    Newbud73 Newbud73 41-45, M Sep 16, 2013

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    I Will Be In Dayton Ohio

    next week... I would love to find a lover to have some great sex with while I am in town....
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 15, 2009

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    I Don't Know What I Want.

    I am 22yrs old and I have been with my current boyfriend for almost a year now. Things are perfect between us. He's a great guy who treats me right,  very satisfing in bed, I have no complants at all. But here recently I have been contemplating on cheating on him. I don't...
    FayGO FayGO 22-25 3 Responses Aug 9, 2009

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    I am a married guy and I'm still friends with

    an ex, I really want to **** her really really bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    iwanthertocheat iwanthertocheat 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I Was Young..

    I was 18 when I met him.. Never felt wanted or needed so I rushed into this relationship he wasn't ready for either ..12 years later 4 pregnancies 3 of which were successful and he cheated on me while pregnant and stress caused loss of my 2nd one .. Still here with him .. He...
    pinkfloydkitty pinkfloydkitty 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2013

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    Want To Cheat With Ex

    My first love, my ex-boyfriend, is on my mind all the time. I loved him more than he ever loved me and our 5 year relationship ended almost 10 years ago. I am married to another man who I have been with for 9 years, married 1. I have never stopped thinkging about my ex and I have...
    lifesshort lifesshort 31-35 3 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    But I Think We'd Be Perfect Together...

    So, I've been married now for a little over 1 year to "Travis".  I work with this guy who is incredible, lets call him "Jake".  I have feelings for him and I found out a few months ago that he also has feelings for me.  He is single, I obviously...
    slinke720 slinke720 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 29, 2008

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    Revenge

    I was unhappy in my marriage and started giving up on the thought that it would get better. I needed someone I could talk to that was just my friend. But over the years I lost most of "my friends" and the only friends I had left were "our friends". I met another woman, and we...
    ThePassionateMan ThePassionateMan 26-30, M Aug 14, 2012

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    Soul Love But Not Life Partners

    Is it possible to love a deep soul / spiritual level without the intention or agenda of becoming life partners? The life-partnership thing seems to break hearts. Understandably if someone wants it but doesn't get it. Is deep loving possible without that?
    DangerCat DangerCat 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    Almost Picking Lust Over Love

    This is my first time in 9 years that I had to change schools. I'm not what you call a social butterfly, but I'll talk when I need to. So far I'm doing really good here. A couple weeks ago a met this guy, he seemed to be really into me, and I was kinda into him too. But there...
    KandyKannne KandyKannne 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2013

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    Is the table above enough to cheat?

    It shows number of encounters in that month. 2012 was a pregnancy year.
    mediterraneanman11 mediterraneanman11 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 27

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    Should I?

    I've been with my man for 3 years and suddenly this past year he hasnt had any sex drive. I haven't had sex in over two months. He is 31 and swears he's getting old. I'm am 24 and have a crazy sex drive so lately I have been wanting to cheat because I need to get it in...LOL...
    JNCrawford JNCrawford 22-25 4 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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    Is It Ever Ok to Cheat?

    I would really love to have some hot luxurious intense sex that lasted on and off for at least a few hours.  Do people my age do that?  I'm still an attractive and highly sexual woman. I don't project the sexual aspect to just everyone...but in our bedroom I love almost...
    NoAngl NoAngl 51-55, F 14 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I Love My Husband, But...

    I am 32 and my husband is 30 and we've been married for 7 years now and have 2 boys. He's a great husband and he loves me very much and I love him. I just know in my heart he would never think of cheating on me. Sex with him is great. We do everything to spice it up and he is...
    EbonyKee EbonyKee 31-35 7 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    WANT to Find a Girl In Newhampshire Im Hooked On Cheating

    last week i went to my friends house to pick up his son so he could spent the weekend at my house and when i got there my friend whife had on her robe and asked me to sit down i did dhe sat next to me and started talking well about a half an hour later she told me that her and my...
    travispeed travispeed 26-30 1 Response Jan 13, 2009

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    Ready To Cheat

    I just saw the most beautiful woman in the world. I decided to start running again so I geared up and headed over to the track near my house. My marriage has been falling apart lately and I had been considering leaving. When I got to the track I saw this girl running. We were...
    iamawriter iamawriter 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 11, 2010

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    Here I Go Again

    I've lived in a sexless marriage for years now, For the last year I have been having an affair, but that hasn't been a bed of roses either. This other man and I haven't slept together for almost six months now, at first things were wonderful but now our relationship has boiled...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    She Is So Jealous

    Im 24 years old and I am in a relationship with a beautiful woman. However, she does not think so. In fact she has really low self esteem. I love her to death and I do not want to hurt her. The thing is, she is really really really jealous. I cant go anywhere with her without...
    dispfive0 dispfive0 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    I Want Some

    I am married to a man but want to find a women to b with. If I could meet tht one women I think I would.
    1331jean 1331jean 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    So I have a boyfriend

    and I met this guy who he is friends with. His friend is kinda the player type but he likes me and I like him and like if I cheat on my boyfriend it's not like I am gonna go into a serious relationship with his friend but like we talk and stuff and hes been trying to kiss me but...
    darleny2219 darleny2219 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    But Pleeeeease Let's Not Call It Cheating...

    Life is no game... finding a paramour is no cheat.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 7 Responses Dec 22, 2007

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    Lately I've been thinking about cheating on my

    bf. he's my first ever and we've been together for almost 7 years. Sometimes I feel unappreciated with all the small/big kind gestures I do for him all the time. Maybe that's why I'm so unhappy. I just feel like it's always about him. It's always a big deal if I'm acting a...
    norcalkaylala norcalkaylala 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 4

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    HELP

    I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now and I love him more than anything in the world, but I met this guy randomly who I cannot stop thinking about. I've only met him once but haven't seen him since because I'm not sure what I want to do. I think I'm just fantasizing...
    Bree20 Bree20 19-21, F 7 Responses Feb 11, 2008

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    I am just thinking ..

    .. I am married and have been for the last 5 yrs ( we have been together 7 yrs and have one son who is 6) we have always done everything backwards. Getting pregnant then marriage. Sometimes I feel like we jump into things without looking for example when we bought a house at 22...
    Brtkn33 Brtkn33 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Reason I Do Not Cheat

    Haha, its not a moral thing. Its just that Im not good at remembering two sets of information. Id get busted on my first try. Id try calling my date and end up accidentally calling girlfriend and outing myself. Plus then I gotta do all this sneaking around and have to plan...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 12, 2008

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    My Subordinate

    I came onto a subordinate at work for whom I have tremondous affection, then apologized and I think I hurt her feelings.  I pretty sure that she is not interested. I'm her boss, and I am very, very disappointed in myself for having done this.  My come on was very subtle and I...
    conflictedheart conflictedheart 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F Nov 28

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    It's not healthy for me to spend all my time thinking about my ex. starting the rubber band method maybe this will help and I've made a decision to stop checking her twitter...
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F Nov 26

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    Idioticnerd Idioticnerd 13-15, M Dec 1

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    I try to ignore you because I know that if I am able to see you, soon enough you will have to leave me again. And that's when I will long for you and my heart will ache. The more I...
    Karinas2 Karinas2 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    I'm no longer depressed or thinking about death. I am just going to make new friends enjoy my life and forget the bad! I may think of death sometimes but I know it gets better. I...
    Hellokittybbgrl Hellokittybbgrl 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 28

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    it's only been a week, and I tell myself not to think of him but I do. I know it's bad for me but I do. 2 years and gone. I can't stop thinking about him.
    VictoriaHall VictoriaHall 16-17, F Nov 28

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    This question for all that know me on EP , what are you thinking about right now as you read this message, ?
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 29

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    I haven't stopped thinking about him since I saw him earlier this month. I wasn't going to go to the event because I knew he'd be there, but at the last moment I changed my mind. I...
    SukYoung SukYoung 26-30, F Nov 29

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    I'm thinking about it since every single experience was demeed to inappropriate
    J1D8L J1D8L 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I'm thinking about getting some. One way or another. I will fulfill this mission. Failure to do so will mean ABSOLUTEly nothing..... '*****! comes to save the day!'
    feint30 feint30 26-30, M Dec 11

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    And I'm very turned on thinking about the ways I want to use you for my pleasure.
    iloveeasywomen iloveeasywomen 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    Always think about this one guy.. He's made such an impact on my life, brings a light and happiness to my life.. Hes not perfect.. But he's perfect to me! And nothing could change...
    catho catho 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    "Have you ever thought about how many people think about you? It's so bizarre. Imagine someone, out of the blue, thinking of your face. Something happens; they remember you. Your...
    paradox123 paradox123 16-17, F a week ago

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