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I Am Thinking About Cheating

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    WANT to Find a Girl In Newhampshire Im Hooked On Cheating

    last week i went to my friends house to pick up his son so he could spent the weekend at my house and when i got there my friend whife had on her robe and asked me to sit down i did dhe sat next to me and started talking well about a half an hour later she told me that her and my...
    travispeed travispeed 26-30 Jan 13, 2009

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    Want To Cheat With Ex

    My first love, my ex-boyfriend, is on my mind all the time. I loved him more than he ever loved me and our 5 year relationship ended almost 10 years ago. I am married to another man who I have been with for 9 years, married 1. I have never stopped thinkging about my ex and I have...
    lifesshort lifesshort 31-35 3 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    My Subordinate

    I came onto a subordinate at work for whom I have tremondous affection, then apologized and I think I hurt her feelings.  I pretty sure that she is not interested. I'm her boss, and I am very, very disappointed in myself for having done this.  My come on was very subtle and I...
    conflictedheart conflictedheart 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    I Love My Husband, But...

    I am 32 and my husband is 30 and we've been married for 7 years now and have 2 boys. He's a great husband and he loves me very much and I love him. I just know in my heart he would never think of cheating on me. Sex with him is great. We do everything to spice it up and he is...
    EbonyKee EbonyKee 31-35 7 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    But I Think We'd Be Perfect Together...

    So, I've been married now for a little over 1 year to "Travis".  I work with this guy who is incredible, lets call him "Jake".  I have feelings for him and I found out a few months ago that he also has feelings for me.  He is single, I obviously...
    slinke720 slinke720 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 29, 2008

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    I Will Be In Dayton Ohio

    next week... I would love to find a lover to have some great sex with while I am in town....
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 15, 2009

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    But Pleeeeease Let's Not Call It Cheating...

    Life is no game... finding a paramour is no cheat.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 7 Responses Dec 22, 2007

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    So Unfulfilled

    Hi out there, Yes, I am thinking about cheating.  I just don't know how to go about it.  I am female and I want to cheat with either a man or a woman.  My 'fiancee', which just means we're together but not getting married or breaking up anytime soon, is a...
    mellonamin mellonamin 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Almost Picking Lust Over Love

    This is my first time in 9 years that I had to change schools. I'm not what you call a social butterfly, but I'll talk when I need to. So far I'm doing really good here. A couple weeks ago a met this guy, he seemed to be really into me, and I was kinda into him too. But there...
    KandyKannne KandyKannne 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2013

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    I Love Older Women!

    I'm a 19 year old, that loves older women! I'm crazy about them!
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    Totally Confused

    Been married for over a dozen years and all of the sudden I am thinking about cheating.  I have a friend of the family that has been around for 6 years or so and we have always gotten along great!  He tells me he thinks about me all of the time but he knows I am married...
    pagirl pagirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 10, 2008

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    She Is So Jealous

    Im 24 years old and I am in a relationship with a beautiful woman. However, she does not think so. In fact she has really low self esteem. I love her to death and I do not want to hurt her. The thing is, she is really really really jealous. I cant go anywhere with her without...
    dispfive0 dispfive0 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    I Want To Watch My Wife With Another Man.

    Can't get the thought out of my mind seeing my wife with another man. I want her to come to me and tell me she has a friend she wants to have fun with, and she wants me to watch them go at it. I want him to be good looking, fit, preferably black with a huge dong. I want to...
    SimpleGuy77 SimpleGuy77 36-40 5 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    Reason I Do Not Cheat

    Haha, its not a moral thing. Its just that Im not good at remembering two sets of information. Id get busted on my first try. Id try calling my date and end up accidentally calling girlfriend and outing myself. Plus then I gotta do all this sneaking around and have to plan...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 12, 2008

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    Here I Go Again

    I've lived in a sexless marriage for years now, For the last year I have been having an affair, but that hasn't been a bed of roses either. This other man and I haven't slept together for almost six months now, at first things were wonderful but now our relationship has boiled...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    Is It Ever Ok to Cheat?

    I would really love to have some hot luxurious intense sex that lasted on and off for at least a few hours.  Do people my age do that?  I'm still an attractive and highly sexual woman. I don't project the sexual aspect to just everyone...but in our bedroom I love almost...
    NoAngl NoAngl 51-55, F 14 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    So I have a boyfriend

    and I met this guy who he is friends with. His friend is kinda the player type but he likes me and I like him and like if I cheat on my boyfriend it's not like I am gonna go into a serious relationship with his friend but like we talk and stuff and hes been trying to kiss me but...
    darleny2219 darleny2219 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    HELP

    I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now and I love him more than anything in the world, but I met this guy randomly who I cannot stop thinking about. I've only met him once but haven't seen him since because I'm not sure what I want to do. I think I'm just fantasizing...
    Bree20 Bree20 19-21, F 7 Responses Feb 11, 2008

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    Anyone Else Notice...

    how people who aren't thinking of cheating come in here and foist their opinions on us?   I think this is so rude.  
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 15, 2009

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    I Want Some

    I am married to a man but want to find a women to b with. If I could meet tht one women I think I would.
    1331jean 1331jean 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    I am just thinking ..

    .. I am married and have been for the last 5 yrs ( we have been together 7 yrs and have one son who is 6) we have always done everything backwards. Getting pregnant then marriage. Sometimes I feel like we jump into things without looking for example when we bought a house at 22...
    Brtkn33 Brtkn33 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    What happens after leaving

    My ex-wife and I were together since we were in college - over 10 years - but we really didn't get along.  She was a downer: she complained about all of the things that she did not like in our relationship, and never gives me any positive feedback.  We have talked about...
    imagosf imagosf 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    Soul Love But Not Life Partners

    Is it possible to love a deep soul / spiritual level without the intention or agenda of becoming life partners? The life-partnership thing seems to break hearts. Understandably if someone wants it but doesn't get it. Is deep loving possible without that?
    DangerCat DangerCat 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    I Don't Know What I Want.

    I am 22yrs old and I have been with my current boyfriend for almost a year now. Things are perfect between us. He's a great guy who treats me right,  very satisfing in bed, I have no complants at all. But here recently I have been contemplating on cheating on him. I don't...
    FayGO FayGO 22-25 2 Responses Aug 9, 2009

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    Should I?

    I've been with my man for 3 years and suddenly this past year he hasnt had any sex drive. I haven't had sex in over two months. He is 31 and swears he's getting old. I'm am 24 and have a crazy sex drive so lately I have been wanting to cheat because I need to get it in...LOL...
    JNCrawford JNCrawford 22-25 2 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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    I can't stop thinking about a guy I barely know- He works with my mum and I've seen him in the pub a few times too. Since my uncle is dating his mum, I was quite keen on knowing...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Poem: Late Night Thought ShowI'm sitting here with a small cigarsmoking it down to the quicksipping wine, kicking backand...Don't know whyI'm thinking about youbut I ammaybe...
    bemyvalentine bemyvalentine 51-55, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can't stop thinking of my master. He is my world, I would give up everything for him. He may be a little older than me but I truly love him and I feel that he loves me too. If he...
    792kiss 792kiss 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    ... More like thinking about all the things he did. I had a dream about him last night and woke up so angry. When will I let go of that part of my life :(
    Lucky1217 Lucky1217 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    It was a chance encounter. It was only a chance encounter 294 days ago, but I cannot get him out of mind. On a whim, I took a trip up north last summer. At the last minute I wasn...
    CaliLove87 CaliLove87 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I know that may sound odd but I honestly think about it almost everyday. I do not want a child right now but thinking about gives me a satisfying feeling. Just imagining myself...
    Slumbergirl92 Slumbergirl92 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Im seriously thinking about it....I used to like this page and i met here some really nice and kindhearted people, but...Im having problems with inappropriate adverts appearing...
    Slavinka Slavinka 18-21, F Apr 8

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    Im seriously thinking about it....I used to like this page and i met here some really nice and kindhearted people, but...Im having problems with inappropriate adverts appearing...
    Slavinka Slavinka 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Well I'm not thinking about a particular one, more like reminiscing about my single life. I'm good being married but damn I really did it up when I was single. I had so much fun...
    CallMeFriday CallMeFriday 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I had a weird dream last night.. it was an affair dream, but now that im awake & can remember what i was dreaming about i cant stop thinking about him,. my boyfriend that is, i...
    memilyivy memilyivy 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Although I'm still young, I think about it too. If I'm talking to a guy that's older than me, my mind goes straight to thinking about sex and his ****. I wonder what it would...
    vanmaury vanmaury 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I've had a lot of minimum wage jobs in a variety of different fields that never took off in a career direction. Now I am in another minimum wage job making barely above minimum...
    DJM8 DJM8 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    yes and it sucks when you know that person isnt thinking about you..
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F Apr 9

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    You chased me for weeks. I knew you were a liar and all kinds of wrong. I hate myself for it, but I can't stop thinking about you.
    anjay813 anjay813 22-25, F Apr 10

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    I'm a Christian girl, and I don't believe in pre-marital sex at all, but I love thinking about it so much! Not sex with just anybody though. I only like imagining sex with my...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    You dominate my thoughts, my actions and my life. I heart is a prisoner to you, I would follow you where ever you may go. I would ruin everything I have at your request because I...
    Bunny2014 Bunny2014 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    i always thinking about with you.
    epmember4 epmember4 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I am thinking about sex now, right in front of the mirror looking at it.
    mab2014 mab2014 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    Im thinking about him. But i know i shouldn't be.
    deviness deviness 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    So when I seem to be moving on I see your face and all those memories fall into place. I can't stop thinking about the way you held me tight. The way your voice sounded like. The...
    BabyDgay BabyDgay 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I have been thinking about it. I have made a few friends in college who were in the military. I'd never personally known anyone before who had served. And while I used to not like...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Has anyone tried it? I do lots of bikram yoga, where the sweat pours off, and always thought about doing the class naked
    yogi51 yogi51 46-50, M 13 hrs ago

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    I have been in a relationship for four years. I used to be such a nice girl I was mistreated by him for a while. Now I'm not excusing myself but he is a good guy, too, but I met...
    AprilBurden23 AprilBurden23 18-21, F a week ago

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    New here... Not sure if I just have issues... I'm not content and I constantly think about the fun, beginning stages of another relationship. The flirting, kissing etc.
    Serena1974 Serena1974 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 22

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    Thinking 'bout life Thinking 'bout you Thinking 'bout everything Idek.
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F Apr 11

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    After relationship nonsense after relationship nonsense, I began to realize I don't need that crap while I'm still trying to figure out who I am. For days and days on end I would...
    imryll imryll 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I am a pretty normal guy, no big deal about me, no psychotic behavior so far or anything... But i dont get this one girl from my old school outta my head... And this is going on...
    Sovo095 Sovo095 18-21, M Apr 10

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    The past is a horrible thing. You dig deeper and deeper into the soil, thinking that if you were to make the grave deep, the past will never be able to come out alive. You throw...
    soultrove soultrove 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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