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I Am Thinking About Cheating

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    So Unfulfilled

    Hi out there, Yes, I am thinking about cheating.  I just don't know how to go about it.  I am female and I want to cheat with either a man or a woman.  My 'fiancee', which just means we're together but not getting married or breaking up anytime soon, is a...
    mellonamin mellonamin 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Anyone Else Notice...

    how people who aren't thinking of cheating come in here and foist their opinions on us?   I think this is so rude.  
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 15, 2009

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    I Will Be In Dayton Ohio

    next week... I would love to find a lover to have some great sex with while I am in town....
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 15, 2009

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    But I Think We'd Be Perfect Together...

    So, I've been married now for a little over 1 year to "Travis".  I work with this guy who is incredible, lets call him "Jake".  I have feelings for him and I found out a few months ago that he also has feelings for me.  He is single, I obviously...
    slinke720 slinke720 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 29, 2008

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    Should I?

    I've been with my man for 3 years and suddenly this past year he hasnt had any sex drive. I haven't had sex in over two months. He is 31 and swears he's getting old. I'm am 24 and have a crazy sex drive so lately I have been wanting to cheat because I need to get it in...LOL...
    JNCrawford JNCrawford 22-25 2 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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    But Pleeeeease Let's Not Call It Cheating...

    Life is no game... finding a paramour is no cheat.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 7 Responses Dec 22, 2007

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    Ok, went on a adult site

    for fun find a few women to flirt and maybe adult chat. Even meet up and have a little hassle free fun. Im married and obviously i would be cheating in my wife, if i ever did meet up for fun. Trouble is I have started texting a women and I'm hooked on her, never met yet but i...
    Hercock Hercock 46-50, M Apr 21

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    I Was Young..

    I was 18 when I met him.. Never felt wanted or needed so I rushed into this relationship he wasn't ready for either ..12 years later 4 pregnancies 3 of which were successful and he cheated on me while pregnant and stress caused loss of my 2nd one .. Still here with him .. He...
    pinkfloydkitty pinkfloydkitty 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2013

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    Only One

    I have been with and only with my wife for almost 20yrs. I still love my wife very much but I missed out on so much because we got together so early in our lives. I want to test the waters.
    Newbud73 Newbud73 41-45, M Sep 16, 2013

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    Soul Love But Not Life Partners

    Is it possible to love a deep soul / spiritual level without the intention or agenda of becoming life partners? The life-partnership thing seems to break hearts. Understandably if someone wants it but doesn't get it. Is deep loving possible without that?
    DangerCat DangerCat 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    HELP

    I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now and I love him more than anything in the world, but I met this guy randomly who I cannot stop thinking about. I've only met him once but haven't seen him since because I'm not sure what I want to do. I think I'm just fantasizing...
    Bree20 Bree20 19-21, F 7 Responses Feb 11, 2008

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    She Is So Jealous

    Im 24 years old and I am in a relationship with a beautiful woman. However, she does not think so. In fact she has really low self esteem. I love her to death and I do not want to hurt her. The thing is, she is really really really jealous. I cant go anywhere with her without...
    dispfive0 dispfive0 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    All I Do Is Satisfy Her

    Hey guys, I've been married to my wife for 14 years now. We have 3 kids and yes life gets busy with the usual but I always find time to satisfy her needs if not over satisfy. I'm a great fan of oral sex and out full on sessions last about 45mins to an hour, not saying I'm a...
    Musk69 Musk69 31-35, M Jul 18, 2013

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    Want To Cheat With Ex

    My first love, my ex-boyfriend, is on my mind all the time. I loved him more than he ever loved me and our 5 year relationship ended almost 10 years ago. I am married to another man who I have been with for 9 years, married 1. I have never stopped thinkging about my ex and I have...
    lifesshort lifesshort 31-35 3 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    Let me explain my situation.

    My partner is 5 years older than me. She is at the stage she wants to settle down and I'm not. We use to have an amazing sex life. It was hot, passionate, loving and orgasmic. Now its almost non existent and boring. I may be a self diagnosed sex addict and I love to have sex...
    sassycat96 sassycat96 18-21, F 2 Responses May 24

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    It Was Only An "Emotional" Affair But Still...

    I have been with my husband for 26 years and married for 23. Last year I found out that he had connected with an old friend from high school and they started a relationship. Our marriage was pretty rocky at the time and to be honest the year before I had told him I wanted a...
    LisasgotMS LisasgotMS 46-50, F Sep 28, 2013

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    My Subordinate

    I came onto a subordinate at work for whom I have tremondous affection, then apologized and I think I hurt her feelings.  I pretty sure that she is not interested. I'm her boss, and I am very, very disappointed in myself for having done this.  My come on was very subtle and I...
    conflictedheart conflictedheart 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    I am a married guy and I'm still friends with

    an ex, I really want to **** her really really bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    iwanthertocheat iwanthertocheat 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My friends and I are game of thrones fans.

    Whenever I think about cheating on my girlfriend I equate it to two paths: Ned Stark or Robert Baratheon. I could be Robert, I have no trouble flirting with girls and know plenty who I most likely could hook up with (I don't mention I'm a GOT nerd). There's a few girls who have...
    HombreOsoCerdo HombreOsoCerdo 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    I Want Some

    I am married to a man but want to find a women to b with. If I could meet tht one women I think I would.
    1331jean 1331jean 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    Reason I Do Not Cheat

    Haha, its not a moral thing. Its just that Im not good at remembering two sets of information. Id get busted on my first try. Id try calling my date and end up accidentally calling girlfriend and outing myself. Plus then I gotta do all this sneaking around and have to plan...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 26-30, M 4 Responses Feb 12, 2008

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    Revenge

    I was unhappy in my marriage and started giving up on the thought that it would get better. I needed someone I could talk to that was just my friend. But over the years I lost most of "my friends" and the only friends I had left were "our friends". I met another woman, and we...
    ThePassionateMan ThePassionateMan 26-30, M Aug 14, 2012

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    WANT to Find a Girl In Newhampshire Im Hooked On Cheating

    last week i went to my friends house to pick up his son so he could spent the weekend at my house and when i got there my friend whife had on her robe and asked me to sit down i did dhe sat next to me and started talking well about a half an hour later she told me that her and my...
    travispeed travispeed 26-30 1 Response Jan 13, 2009

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    So I have a boyfriend

    and I met this guy who he is friends with. His friend is kinda the player type but he likes me and I like him and like if I cheat on my boyfriend it's not like I am gonna go into a serious relationship with his friend but like we talk and stuff and hes been trying to kiss me but...
    darleny2219 darleny2219 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Is It Ever Ok to Cheat?

    I would really love to have some hot luxurious intense sex that lasted on and off for at least a few hours.  Do people my age do that?  I'm still an attractive and highly sexual woman. I don't project the sexual aspect to just everyone...but in our bedroom I love almost...
    NoAngl NoAngl 51-55, F 14 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Here I Go Again

    I've lived in a sexless marriage for years now, For the last year I have been having an affair, but that hasn't been a bed of roses either. This other man and I haven't slept together for almost six months now, at first things were wonderful but now our relationship has boiled...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    It Wasn't All About Sex....

    I cheated...I didn't set out to cheat... and it wasn't all about sex... It was nice to have someone ask how my day went... and it was nice to have someone who listened to me when I talked and seemed interested in what I had to say... My mom had this funny saying...when you...
    pixelita pixelita 36-40, F 22 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    I Don't Know What I Want.

    I am 22yrs old and I have been with my current boyfriend for almost a year now. Things are perfect between us. He's a great guy who treats me right,  very satisfing in bed, I have no complants at all. But here recently I have been contemplating on cheating on him. I don't...
    FayGO FayGO 22-25 2 Responses Aug 9, 2009

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    I Love Older Women!

    I'm a 19 year old, that loves older women! I'm crazy about them!
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    I am just thinking ..

    .. I am married and have been for the last 5 yrs ( we have been together 7 yrs and have one son who is 6) we have always done everything backwards. Getting pregnant then marriage. Sometimes I feel like we jump into things without looking for example when we bought a house at 22...
    Brtkn33 Brtkn33 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    What happens after leaving

    My ex-wife and I were together since we were in college - over 10 years - but we really didn't get along.  She was a downer: she complained about all of the things that she did not like in our relationship, and never gives me any positive feedback.  We have talked about...
    imagosf imagosf 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    Almost Picking Lust Over Love

    This is my first time in 9 years that I had to change schools. I'm not what you call a social butterfly, but I'll talk when I need to. So far I'm doing really good here. A couple weeks ago a met this guy, he seemed to be really into me, and I was kinda into him too. But there...
    KandyKannne KandyKannne 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2013

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    I Love My Husband, But...

    I am 32 and my husband is 30 and we've been married for 7 years now and have 2 boys. He's a great husband and he loves me very much and I love him. I just know in my heart he would never think of cheating on me. Sex with him is great. We do everything to spice it up and he is...
    EbonyKee EbonyKee 31-35 7 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    Ready To Cheat

    I just saw the most beautiful woman in the world. I decided to start running again so I geared up and headed over to the track near my house. My marriage has been falling apart lately and I had been considering leaving. When I got to the track I saw this girl running. We were...
    iamawriter iamawriter 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 11, 2010

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    Totally Confused

    Been married for over a dozen years and all of the sudden I am thinking about cheating.  I have a friend of the family that has been around for 6 years or so and we have always gotten along great!  He tells me he thinks about me all of the time but he knows I am married...
    pagirl pagirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 10, 2008

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    About two weeks ago, my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me ovelyr text. 8 months doesn't seem like a long time, but it was the longest relationship I've ever had. I trusted him...
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    I recently was a bridesmaid in my cousin's wedding. There was a guy there, and I can't get him out of my mind. We had a small conversation, and kept stealing glances at each other...
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    I can't stop thinking about you. Not even something as cliché as your smile... I just can't stop thinking about you, as a person, how you acted, how you laughed, how you'd tell me...
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    My mind can't stop thinking about a girl that I still like. I mean, I asked her if she wanted to do something this summer, she said maybe we will see each other sometime. Then...
    TheGordman TheGordman 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I cant stop thinking about this fuking girl first in school we never talked i just made her laugh alot cuss she sat in front of my desk. I walked home wit her sat in lunch wit her...
    StaticMajor StaticMajor 13-15, M Jul 21

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    I wish you would talk to me instead of demeaning me. I hate I am a bad guy in your eyes because of what you mean to me. I know you are hurt and I have caused it but stop and take a...
    scooterp23 scooterp23 36-40, M Jul 17

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    I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend. He means everythjng to me. My family hates me and treats me like crap every day. There's nonstop screaming and yelling and name calling...
    saxophonegal22 saxophonegal22 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm thinking about someone special wondering how I can make her day better
    swordman94 swordman94 18-21, M Jul 21

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    As I open my eyes, I look to see if you're there....seeing you is always a great start to my day. The day gets better as it goes along. The random messages I receive always puts a...
    SweetHawaiianHoney SweetHawaiianHoney 36-40, F Jul 22

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    I can't stop thinking about him... Of how his lips felt against mine. So gentle and passionate. The sparkle in his eyes when he looks at me. Its like he's seeing me for the first...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    Well I'm thinking about fat more and more. So I decided to get fat. I'm 6'0" and weights 220 pound. I want to get bigger
    HugeBelly34 HugeBelly34 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    It is amazing to me how just thinking about something I thought I was over just put knots in my stomach. I wonder why this morning it had such an effect on me. I've moved on and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 a week ago

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    Can't stop thinking about him and how much he has hurt me. I wasn't in love with him until recently. We had a fling during Summer then he had to move to a different state then he...
    Vickyovox Vickyovox 18-21, F a week ago

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    I try to imagine how him taking me into his arms would feel. Could I find myself safe with my head on his chest and his arms tangled around my body with his hands resting gently on...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I can't stop thinking about you and how I want to be in your arms and then lean over to your chest and then creep down to your pants and watch you get hard and I want to slip my...
    SaraRose0616 SaraRose0616 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been sleeping with a guy friend. Can't stop thinking about him. He's not extremely attractive or fit, I don't get it. He said he'd go out with me, that he cares for me. But I...
    failure94 failure94 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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