I Am Thinking About Cheating

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 489 People

    Reason I Do Not Cheat

    Haha, its not a moral thing. Its just that Im not good at remembering two sets of information. Id get busted on my first try. Id try calling my date and end up accidentally calling girlfriend and outing myself. Plus then I gotta do all this sneaking around and have to plan...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Feb 12, 2008

    I have posted in many places.

    Where is my light at the end of this dark tunnel. I wish I could find someone who has the same situation as I. Who I can talk to and visit go out and become friends. My situation is I can't leave(divorce) until my children are old enough. That isn't until 12 more years. We aren...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 26, 2015

    Totally Confused

    Been married for over a dozen years and all of the sudden I am thinking about cheating.  I have a friend of the family that has been around for 6 years or so and we have always gotten along great!  He tells me he thinks about me all of the time but he knows I am married...
    pagirl pagirl
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 10, 2008

    Soul Love But Not Life Partners

    Is it possible to love a deep soul / spiritual level without the intention or agenda of becoming life partners? The life-partnership thing seems to break hearts. Understandably if someone wants it but doesn't get it. Is deep loving possible without that?
    DangerCat DangerCat
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

    Revenge

    I was unhappy in my marriage and started giving up on the thought that it would get better. I needed someone I could talk to that was just my friend. But over the years I lost most of "my friends" and the only friends I had left were "our friends". I met another woman, and we...
    ThePassionateMan ThePassionateMan
    26-30, M
    Aug 14, 2012

    HELP

    I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now and I love him more than anything in the world, but I met this guy randomly who I cannot stop thinking about. I've only met him once but haven't seen him since because I'm not sure what I want to do. I think I'm just fantasizing...
    Bree20 Bree20
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Feb 11, 2008

    My Subordinate

    I came onto a subordinate at work for whom I have tremondous affection, then apologized and I think I hurt her feelings.  I pretty sure that she is not interested. I'm her boss, and I am very, very disappointed in myself for having done this.  My come on was very subtle and I...
    conflictedheart conflictedheart
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Feb 23, 2012

    Lately I've been thinking about cheating on my

    bf. he's my first ever and we've been together for almost 7 years. Sometimes I feel unappreciated with all the small/big kind gestures I do for him all the time. Maybe that's why I'm so unhappy. I just feel like it's always about him. It's always a big deal if I'm acting a...
    norcalkaylala norcalkaylala
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Dec 4, 2014

    But Pleeeeease Let's Not Call It Cheating...

    Life is no game... finding a paramour is no cheat.
    JRSK007 JRSK007
    51-55, M
    7 Responses Dec 22, 2007

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alicacc11 alicacc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 19, 2015

    Almost Picking Lust Over Love

    This is my first time in 9 years that I had to change schools. I'm not what you call a social butterfly, but I'll talk when I need to. So far I'm doing really good here. A couple weeks ago a met this guy, he seemed to be really into me, and I was kinda into him too. But there...
    KandyKannne KandyKannne
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 15, 2013

    I love foreplay and oral.

    Only thing is I don't get enough of either. Been thinking a side chick just for those reasons alone. Anybody else feel/felt this way?
    Scythe511 Scythe511
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 27

    I normally have dreams about another person

    before I cheat on my husband..... I don't wanna when I'm thinking clearly.... It just happens......
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 15, 2015

    My husband and i have been together 5 years

    and the sex has never been great. I do love him but feel sexually unsatisfied. There is a man who I used to see who is also married that wants to hook up again. He and I have amazing sex and have been talking off and on for the whole time we both have been married but I have...
    kimmyh23 kimmyh23
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Oct 11, 2014

    So its now 2 months since I seperated

    and I have been bumping into this guy once a week at a social activity. Yesterday, when it finished we were having a chat and 4 hours later we were told the place was closing. We talked and talked and talked. i told him everything. He told me about his past. We were open books...
    BONBEACHER BONBEACHER
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jun 1, 2015
    SlaveRose53 SlaveRose53
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Aug 8, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 26, 2015

    How the hell does someone cheat?

    I can't even find one person to date me.. Smh.
    Irvyy Irvyy
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Nov 26, 2015

    I'm really considering cheating.

    My relationship is really starting to suck.
    Kford3 Kford3
    31-35, M
    Jan 29, 2015

    What happens after leaving

    My ex-wife and I were together since we were in college - over 10 years - but we really didn't get along.  She was a downer: she complained about all of the things that she did not like in our relationship, and never gives me any positive feedback.  We have talked about...
    imagosf imagosf
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Sep 19, 2009

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    toriccaa toriccaa
    26-30, F
    Nov 26, 2015

    Not necessarily thinking about it,

    just thought my topic would fit into the post. Romance at work....and not with the bf. Don't know how to respond.
    mermaids312 mermaids312
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 22, 2015

    i have been with my girlfriend

    for nearly 20 years and shows me no affection for the past year, no hugs kisses or anything what can i do
    trv33e trv33e
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2015

    Want To Cheat With Ex

    My first love, my ex-boyfriend, is on my mind all the time. I loved him more than he ever loved me and our 5 year relationship ended almost 10 years ago. I am married to another man who I have been with for 9 years, married 1. I have never stopped thinkging about my ex and I have...
    lifesshort lifesshort
    31-35
    3 Responses Nov 21, 2010

    I travel a lot for business

    and am in hotels all the time. I have a high sex drive and I'll watch chaturbate and j/o all the time. More and more as I get older, my desires and fantasies have increased where I want to try new experiences. I enjoy s-- with my wife but there's just more I want to experience...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    So I have a boyfriend

    and I met this guy who he is friends with. His friend is kinda the player type but he likes me and I like him and like if I cheat on my boyfriend it's not like I am gonna go into a serious relationship with his friend but like we talk and stuff and hes been trying to kiss me but...
    darleny2219 darleny2219
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2014

    WANT to Find a Girl In Newhampshire Im Hooked On Cheating

    last week i went to my friends house to pick up his son so he could spent the weekend at my house and when i got there my friend whife had on her robe and asked me to sit down i did dhe sat next to me and started talking well about a half an hour later she told me that her and my...
    travispeed travispeed
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 13, 2009

    I'm an idiot. I have a wonderful guy

    who adores me, and yet I cannot help myself by talking to someone else. This other guy is someone I was seeing before my current guy. The other guy disappeared on me, again, and I moved on. He reappeared a few months ago telling me he was sorry and that he wanted to fix...
    Nbgff Nbgff
    26-30, F
    Feb 22

    My friends and I are game of thrones fans.

    Whenever I think about cheating on my girlfriend I equate it to two paths: Ned Stark or Robert Baratheon. I could be Robert, I have no trouble flirting with girls and know plenty who I most likely could hook up with (I don't mention I'm a GOT nerd). There's a few girls who have...
    HombreOsoCerdo HombreOsoCerdo
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 23, 2014

    So Unfulfilled

    Hi out there, Yes, I am thinking about cheating.  I just don't know how to go about it.  I am female and I want to cheat with either a man or a woman.  My 'fiancee', which just means we're together but not getting married or breaking up anytime soon, is a...
    mellonamin mellonamin
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Oct 10, 2009

    Is the table above enough to cheat?

    It shows number of encounters in that month. 2012 was a pregnancy year.
    mediterraneanman11 mediterraneanman11
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Oct 27, 2014

    I would like to get you thoughts I was going

    to meet my girlfriend at a party well I found out that there was a guy that was going to be there that I did not like so I called my girlfriend and told her I was not going to go she had already left with some friends and had no way to leave at the party the guy I don't like...
    Aj03051980 Aj03051980
    18-21, M
    Nov 24, 2015

    I have been with my wife

    for 15 years we haven't had sex in 6 months and we've agreed to go see other people I really want to be with a woman again I really miss having sex
    SeanPHung77 SeanPHung77
    36-40, M
    1 Response May 20, 2015

    There are 2 men both whom I work with

    that I find myself thinking of. Both are married as am I . I don't think one of them even knows how he affects me. The other may have not sure. Anyway for some time now I have innocently flirted with both of these men. We have been having troubles with equipment a work lately...
    sensualsusan sensualsusan
    41-45, F
    11 Responses Mar 13, 2015

    The crazy thing is, my relationship has been up

    and down with lots of downs the last few years. Last year, I was so depressed about our physical and emotional connection that I even told her my eyes are wandering and I've thought about cheating. She absolutely said "NOTHING". WTF! I couldn't believe it. Just because I'm...
    L7guy L7guy
    41-45, M
    Aug 7, 2015

    Only One

    I have been with and only with my wife for almost 20yrs. I still love my wife very much but I missed out on so much because we got together so early in our lives. I want to test the waters.
    Newbud73 Newbud73
    41-45, M
    Sep 16, 2013

    I Love My Husband, But...

    I am 32 and my husband is 30 and we've been married for 7 years now and have 2 boys. He's a great husband and he loves me very much and I love him. I just know in my heart he would never think of cheating on me. Sex with him is great. We do everything to spice it up and he is...
    EbonyKee EbonyKee
    31-35
    5 Responses Aug 25, 2009

    ive been with my partner

    for 20 years and i cant remember the last time we were intimate, very frustated and feel unloved, she always seems to have more time for everyone else but me so im definately thinking about having an affair as i need some excitement in my life
    trv33e trv33e
    41-45, M
    Feb 26

    But I Think We'd Be Perfect Together...

    So, I've been married now for a little over 1 year to "Travis".  I work with this guy who is incredible, lets call him "Jake".  I have feelings for him and I found out a few months ago that he also has feelings for me.  He is single, I obviously...
    slinke720 slinke720
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 29, 2008

    I am just thinking ..

    .. I am married and have been for the last 5 yrs ( we have been together 7 yrs and have one son who is 6) we have always done everything backwards. Getting pregnant then marriage. Sometimes I feel like we jump into things without looking for example when we bought a house at 22...
    Brtkn33 Brtkn33
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

    Is It Ever Ok to Cheat?

    I would really love to have some hot luxurious intense sex that lasted on and off for at least a few hours.  Do people my age do that?  I'm still an attractive and highly sexual woman. I don't project the sexual aspect to just everyone...but in our bedroom I love almost...
    NoAngl NoAngl
    56-60, F
    14 Responses Jul 18, 2008
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 26, 2015

    I am a married guy and I'm still friends with

    an ex, I really want to **** her really really bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    iwanthertocheat iwanthertocheat
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2014

    Im thinkin bout cheating my bf .

    Well the problem is that he doesnt let me do nothing , im living with him for like 3 years already , i wanna be single and enjoy life with other guys , hang out , but with my bf he doesnt take me out , we dnt do nothing , he doesnt work , doesnt go to college , doesnt do nothing...
    Ddghhtddghyg Ddghhtddghyg
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 31, 2014

    please help I am at my wits end me

    and my husband have been together 9'years married 2 years am starting to regret it I am 29 he's 46 and for the last 2 years we have had nothing no sex no passionate kissing no intimacy no nothing am feeling unwanted and unloved any advice
    lastwitsnikki lastwitsnikki
    26-30, F
    28 Responses Jun 1, 2015
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