I Am Thinking About Getting An Abortion

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 171 People

    I went on vacation had a one night stand.

    Today I found out I'm pregnant. The guy is a loser has a drinking problem & is pretty much homeless. I am so alone & lost. No one will understand.
    CircusClown CircusClown
    36-40, F
    14 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    if you went to have an abortion

    and the ultrasound said you were pregnant with twins. would you still have the abortion?
    Kellies80 Kellies80
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Mar 1, 2016

    I Had A Surgical Abortion Yesterday..

    I dont need anyones judgments or rude comments this was my choice and its my body.FOR ANYONE WHO IS HAVING SECOND THOUGHTS ABOUT ABORTION BECAUSE YOU'RE SCARED OF THE PROCEDURE , READ THIS.I'm 20 years old, I already have a child who is 9 months old so I knew there was no way I...
    BAMM02 BAMM02
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Oct 26, 2011


    I'm 32 divorced living with MS and raising my daughter(7) and son(5). We have a beautiful but small home where there is no more physical or emotional abuse. We are very happy. I finally decided to start dating again after a year being divorced. Met a lot of duds and finally met...
    lelabugg lelabugg
    2 Responses Jul 31, 2012

    I had sex six weeks ago,

    and the condom broke. I took the morning after pill the following morning, but still haven't gotten my period and I'm getting scared. If I get a positive result on my pregnancy test, I'm getting an abortion. I'm going into my senior year of college, and a child is absolutely not...
    kcfrenchhorn72 kcfrenchhorn72
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 3, 2015

    Hi I'm 21 years only engaged to the fiancé

    who I plan on marrying next year... And I just found out I'm pregnant. I'm thinking on an abortion. I just feel like I am to young to have a child in other peoples eyes and I am also not married. My fiancé would love a child he is 26 years old.... Any ideas ?
    april16161616 april16161616
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 30, 2014

    So Unsure

    So, when considering an abortion, I feel you have no one to talk to, you don't want to be judged, looked down upon and you don't neccesarily want people to know your business. I have a 20 month old daughter, she is my world, her father and i were pregnant and married...
    singlemom143 singlemom143
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Sep 6, 2009

    I'm 6 weeks pregnant

    and have decided that abortion is my best option. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now and he's a great man but we both are not financially stable. We both have depended on our parents for basically everything and I can't imagine putting my parents through...
    nailea25 nailea25
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 18, 2015

    I found out I was pregnant about two weeks ago.

    My boyfriend changes his mind every other day about if he wants me to have it or not. At first he got so mad at me for even considering not having it. But now that I'm starting to have pregnancy symptoms it's getting harder and harder for me to think about aborting our baby. My...
    pinkie69 pinkie69
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Apr 30, 2014

    I'm almost 40, a single mom.

    Just got out of an abusive relationship and apparently the last time we had sex, I got pregnant. I'm devastated. I have a 5 year old and don't want anymore children. If I have this baby, my abuser will be in my life forever. He is manipulative and is trying to say we could have...
    PhishyLady PhishyLady
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2015

    Okay, hi. I am about 3 to 4 weeks pregnant,

    and am 110% ready for an abortion. I do not hate kids, I love them to death, but due to the fact that I'm starting college again soon, I do not have the ability to care for a child. And neither do my parents because my mother has cancer. Since I'm under 9 weeks, I was hoping...
    RedcatFringeAvenger RedcatFringeAvenger
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2015

    Somebody Help Me.. I Need Some Guidance..

    First off, I am a young adult (25 y.o.), unemployed, and I have quite a conservative family. I have tried a lot of times to come to a decision about my problem that I really think should be resolved at the soonest possible time. The issue is I am pregnant and am currently...
    pitycrown pitycrown
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2012

    I am confused, frustrated,

    and sad. I found out I am pregnant five days ago. I am 29 years old and this is my first pregnancy. I got off birth control about a year ago because it made me have terrible side effects and I was trying to live a life more natural life. I decided the fertility awareness method...
    JG1313 JG1313
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Mar 27, 2016

    I was 20 years old in college

    when I found out I was pregnant with my emotionally, physically, and sexually abusive boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years. I was terrified and didn't know what to do. I took a leave of absence and headed home to my parents house. They told me I had to get an abortion or I had to move...
    lovelylady20 lovelylady20
    18-21, F
    Jan 19, 2016

    You woman made the decision to have sex.

    if you make the decision then you need to be ready to take responsibility for your actions. I heavily shame you all. because you decided to have pleasure you're going to kill a life? an I born life ? THAT IS NOT OK. God is very unhappy with you all. I hope all of you realize...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    It Could Happen

    Whenever I have the good fortune of being invited to share sexual intimacy, I know there is always a risk of unplanned pregnancy. I take the role of father very seriously and do not want children who I cannot take part in their lives.  So in the back of my mind, the...
    MarkFree MarkFree
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2009

    I am scheduled for my surgical abortion tomorrow

    and am terrified. Does anyone have advice? Anyone been through it?
    thatdrizzygrl thatdrizzygrl
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

    So it's been almost a week I had sex with my be

    , when can I check I'm pregnant, is it too early?
    ShyBaby05 ShyBaby05
    18-21, F
    Apr 23, 2015

    I just found out yesterday

    that I am pregnant, something which I did not plan on. I'm 21 and still in school and still living with my conservative Indian parents. I'm not someone who engages much in sexual activites, but I just started dating a new guy for about 2 months and we decided one night to just...
    Dreamergirl099 Dreamergirl099
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 6, 2015

    I had sex with a friend three weeks ago

    and on Sunday I took a test and I'm pregnant. My friend has a girlfriend and he is much younger than me. He doesn't want me to have the baby. I am scheduled to have an abortion on the 14th of August. I want children just not with him...I am 38 and this could be my only...
    seamus123 seamus123
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    well I just made my appointment

    for the medical abortion (the pills) for the day after Easter, 3/28. I have so many thoughts going thru my head. I found out I was preggo on Saturday, told my bf on Sunday and we decided we have to get an abortion asap. Its $450 to get the pregnancy test, the ultrasound, the...
    evolstar evolstar
    31-35, F
    Mar 15, 2016

    I Love Judgemental People.

    wow, i love so much when people judge you on your experiences not knowing you or your beliefs they just judge you because something you do might not be something they would do.. exactly why we are DIFFERENT PEOPLE we have different dna we were not raised the same, we come from a...
    BAMM02 BAMM02
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 26, 2011

    Those With Issues Paying For Abortion Pill

    Hi, I am 23 Years Old in school with 1 year left. I have beautiful inside/out daughter who's 3 years old at the moment. I found out I was pregnant 1 week ago and I really do not want to keep this baby due to my financial & living situation (with my mom) and also the guy That this...
    LaurenDorsey LaurenDorsey
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2013

    Thinking About Abortion?

    Hmph. I didnt just think about it, I knew it was the only way out for me. Out of a relationship I grew to hate and without facing my conservative peers. But no matter how tough I thought I was, I miss my child everyday. I cry. I think about what would have happened. I wonder. I...
    Namiya Namiya
    3 Responses Sep 14, 2013

    I am 19 years old. I was seeing two guys at

    once. I was not cheating, they both knew of each other. Both knew I had an end goal of a relationship. The one Gentlmen explained he is not interested in a relationship, explained his reasons, and we are good friends. The other explained he often rushed into relationships too...
    vvhixx vvhixx
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 25, 2015

    I'm 28, I just found I'm pregnant

    and I deciding to get an abortion. this is the second one I have had. I feel shame for being irresponsible but I know what it feels like to be the child of unwanted pregnancy. i never want that for anyone.
    Amy1286 Amy1286
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 2, 2014

    Hi, I'm 17 years old

    and just found out that I am pregnant. The father, has been my boyfriend for 2.5 years and neither of us are ready for a child. I have decided to get an abortion (medical because I'm only 3 weeks) and he has promised to be behind me no matter what decision I make. I would like...
    laurenEMP laurenEMP
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 6, 2014

    I have a daughter, Hazel,

    with my boyfriend of over 5years. When I got pregnant with Hazel he wanted me to get an abortion because we "weren't ready" and we don't have much money. We were 19 and 20 at the time, and living at his mother's house. I thought about it for a while, but I thought I just couldn...
    MissLizzieD MissLizzieD
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 21, 2015

    Abortion isn't your only option.

    If you decide putting your baby up for adoption might be a better choice for you, please contact me.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2015

    What is it like to have an abortion?

    This is for anybody thinking about getting an abortion. And this is from my experience. The decision itself was very hard. I think because I was going against something I believed in at the time. But I knew that abortion was the best decision for me. Being that physically...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78
    31-35, F
    13 Responses Mar 2, 2016

    I Thought About It, And I Did It....

    First, take the time to read through the hundreds of stories expressing guilt, remorse and regret in the "I HAD AN ABORTION" Group. It may be eye-opening to see what results from going through with what you are thinking about... Going through with an unplanned pregnancy is a...
    lost12345 lost12345
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Apr 25, 2011

    I am a 30 year old mother of 2,

    ages 11 and 6. I have been with my husband for 13 years. Last month, I cheated on my husband. I found out that I'm pregnant. From baby's measurements, I got pregnant the day after I was with the other man. I feel that my only choice is to have an abortion. My appointment is...
    chantaliox3 chantaliox3
    31-35, F
    25 Responses Oct 29, 2014

    I just found out this morning

    that I am pregnant. I took a pregnancy test and I could not believe it. I took plan B after the condom broke and now I am pregnant 2 weeks and 5 days after my boyfriend and I had sex. I live in a country where abortion is illegal. However abortion pills are available over the...
    Viola17 Viola17
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 1, 2016

    before you have an abortion,

    understand there can be complications, and you may not always deliver where you think you are.....what if you knew? https://youtu.be/RgqUL0Y8WcE
    deleted deleted
    Sep 5, 2015

    hey guys I NEED HELP so I'm 16

    and I have sex with my boyfriend like 3 days ago and it was the day after my period came to a end so I had sex and when he got it out the condom broke, so does that mean I'm pregnant? if so can u guys tell me how abortion is? How it feelS? What they do? If I do abortion and...
    dddssssyyyy dddssssyyyy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2015

    The Abortion Pill

    I read so much about regret, depression, hope, life, and death... I couldn't help but actually feel slightly alone with my experience and so I'm sharing this just because I feel like I shouldn't be the only one in this situation - I feel no regret.I am twenty six years old and...
    ebb427 ebb427
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 24, 2013

    Once again I'm in the same situation a year

    later. I had an abortion a year ago which was really rough for me. I aborted at 18 weeks I waited so late because In the back of my mind I believed I was going to keep it but the more I thought about it wasn't the best decision. I had a two day procedure. I had two kids already...
    Latricehar Latricehar
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

    I Did It And Heres My Thoughts And Story....

    When i was 17 i ended up pregnant. i did what i did because i had no job at the time, and really wasnt interested enough in that guy to have a baby with him. and right when you say that every person in the worlds comment is "oh you shouldnt have sex with someone you dont want a...
    taybjay20 taybjay20
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2013

    I found out on the 26th

    that I am pregnant again. I have a 2.5 year old daughter who is my absolute life and am not ready for another. All I can do is cry about it. I feel so awful that I don't want this baby right now and even worse I'm scared I will end up in hell as it will be my 3rd abortion...
    lifeisbeautiful89 lifeisbeautiful89
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2015

    I just found out I am pregnant.

    I am on birth control and I guess it didn't take. I already have one child. a little boy whom happens to be affected with autism. He really is my entire world. his therapies and drs appointments take up most of my time. My boyfriend wants me to keep it but I know I just couldn't...
    Elegancetorsadee Elegancetorsadee
    31-35, F
    Feb 24, 2015

    today I went to get an abortion.

    I found out I was pregnant with identical twins. I decided to hold off on the abortion so I could think about things. my boyfriend of 5 years is mad at me now. He says I ruined his life and he wants to kill himself. He says I'm an idiot and wishes I would die. He says he regrets...
    Kellies80 Kellies80
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Feb 8, 2016

    I found out on Monday

    that I'm pregnant (I'm not sure how far I am, until I get my ultrasound on the weekend). But my boyfriend is giving me one choice and one choice only. He said if I kept the child or put it up for adoption, I'd be doing it alone. So I'm kind of forced to have an abortion because...
    kmarie2222 kmarie2222
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2016

    I'm 25, married for over a year

    and we've been together for almost 7 years. I just found out I was pregnant yesterday. I kept thinking I was just stressed and delaying my period. Finally worked up the courage to take a test and it was positive. I spent most of the day crying feeling completely overwhelmed. I...
    Blondiegal8908 Blondiegal8908
    26-30, F
    Apr 6, 2015

    I am 34 and a mother of two girls ages 14 & 15.

    I have had mirena for two. I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. He has two children also. I am about 4 weeks pregnant. I'm 99.999% sure I want this abortion. I have been working in a job I greatly dislike for the past 11 years and have finally decided to go back to...
    tswill tswill
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015

    I Thought I Was Infertile

    When I was a teenager I was told I had severe PCOS and that I would not be able to have a child. When I was in my early 20s this diagnosis was confirmed again by another doctor. I was again told I had severe PCOS and that pregnancy would be a virtual impossibility. I accepted...
    cephaloscotti cephaloscotti
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Jan 8, 2013

    I found out I am pregnant yesterday night .

    Going to get my abortion this Friday and I'm feeling terrible about it. Me and my husband decided that we are not ready to have a kid yet. He absolutely supports me, but I feel horrible the whole day, all of my friends are far away from here( I am from a different country , I...
    Yaanaa Yaanaa
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 12, 2014

    https://youtu.be/iPyn2_Tdizs This is what we

    murder.Abortion Is a cruel inhuman act of murder
    deleted deleted
    Sep 3, 2015

    Why Me???

    i've just turned 19 and i am 19 weeks prgnant today. ive bn on n off with my partner for 3 years but this year things have been goin so well. We were so delighted wen we found out i was 4 weeks pregnant and started planning for our future. up to wen i was 10 weeks...
    18-21, F
    16 Responses Nov 20, 2008

    I am a 38 year old widow with 3 adult children

    and a 15 year old. I ended a relationship that practically devoured my self esteem. In the interim of trying to make myself feel better and move on, I had PROTECTED sex with another man that I have known as a mutual friend for a very long time. I find myself pregnant now. After...
    Tenanye Tenanye
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 25, 2015
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