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I Am Thinking About Getting An Abortion

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    I Did It And Heres My Thoughts And Story....

    When i was 17 i ended up pregnant. i did what i did because i had no job at the time, and really wasnt interested enough in that guy to have a baby with him. and right when you say that every person in the worlds comment is "oh you shouldnt have sex with someone you dont want a...
    taybjay20 taybjay20 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    I Wish He Cared More.

    My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we have a really good relationship i am lucky to have him. Two weeks ago we found out I was pregnant. At first he was very supportive and said everything was going to be fine. I knew what that meant without even asking. He was...
    styxko styxko 18-21 5 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    My Abortion Clinic Experience

    I am posting my story in this group because I think it is important hear it from someone who's been there. I hope this will put your mind at ease. I'm apologize in advanced for it being so long. But I wanted to make sure you had all the information. Please feel free to ask me...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    I Think I May Be Pregnant (again) And Am Considering An Abortion...

    I feel really irresponsible and sad because I should know better.. I am a 33 year old single parent of 4 kids (2 boys and 2 girls, the perfect pairing). I had my first child at 19, my second and 21, my third at 30 and my fourth at 32.) My youngest is just 6 months old and I...
    evanessa79 evanessa79 31-35 8 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    Need Support, Abortion

    **** First of all, remember this is a place to support people who are living difficult things, so please if your comments are about how bad you think abortion is, just shut up :) *** Ok, so I found out I was 6 weeks pregnant a few days ago, and as soon as I knew, I felt so weird...
    jessiejessy jessiejessy 18-21 1 Response Apr 6, 2013

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    Thinking About What To Do

    I have a five month old daughter and she is amazing. But recently I found out I am pregnant again and I am considering getting an abortion. I am 20 years old,haven't went to college yet and I know I am NOT ready for another baby. My boyfriend and I have a rocky relationship. Its...
    needtofigureitout needtofigureitout 18-21 10 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    Need Reassurance

    I'm 21 and around 4 weeks pregnant. I've always wanted a child but I am not in the position to have one now. I'm a student with no job. But the main reason I am not going to keep this child is because of my father. Don't get this the wrong way, my father is an amazing man and I...
    crdr2012 crdr2012 18-21, F 2 Responses May 26, 2012

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    Those With Issues Paying For Abortion Pill

    Hi, I am 23 Years Old in school with 1 year left. I have beautiful inside/out daughter who's 3 years old at the moment. I found out I was pregnant 1 week ago and I really do not want to keep this baby due to my financial & living situation (with my mom) and also the guy That this...
    LaurenDorsey LaurenDorsey 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2013

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    I'm 25 And Pregnant, He's 54. I'm Torn Over What To Do.

    Initially at the beginning of my relationship we discussed having no desire for kids.  My fiance travels alot, and I often go along with him.  Prior to the pregnancy our dreams included travelling, eventually buying a house, ect.  But, I became pregnant, and it's my first time...
    joybell8625 joybell8625 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    Looking For Advice

    Hello there, I hope someone out there will read this and maybe give me some advice on my situation. I am a whole-hearted Christian but still pro-choice. My boyfriend and I have been talking about marriage for a little while now, but nothing is planned yet. Dispite being on...
    lookingtothefuture lookingtothefuture 22-25 15 Responses Aug 9, 2010

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    I've been married for almost three years

    and my husband doesn't want kids yet. If I'm pregnant, will find out tomorrow, I don't know whether to put our marriage first or myself first. I've always been scared of being pregnant and all the hard work that come with it but I also imagine myself with a cute little baby and...
    atanaka111 atanaka111 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 6

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    Choices...choices...choices

    My girlfriend and I have been dating for only 3 months, and we have recently run into a situation of pregnacy. We have discussed whether to have the child or not. She is 18 and i am 20. Neither of us are ready to have a child yet. I don't know if it's the right thing to do...
    justadude56 justadude56 18-21 6 Responses Dec 11, 2008

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    I'm Thinking About Getting An Abortion.

    I just found out that I'm pregnant. I'm considering getting an abortion because of numerous medical reasons. Number one, I'm VERY obese. Number two, I have heart palpitations when I'm pregnant and they push me into full panic attacks. (Happend with my first pregnancy, I now have...
    UnsureSara UnsureSara 26-30 10 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    I Had A Surgical Abortion Yesterday..

    I dont need anyones judgments or rude comments this was my choice and its my body.FOR ANYONE WHO IS HAVING SECOND THOUGHTS ABOUT ABORTION BECAUSE YOU'RE SCARED OF THE PROCEDURE , READ THIS.I'm 20 years old, I already have a child who is 9 months old so I knew there was no way I...
    BAMM02 BAMM02 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 26, 2011

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    Unsure

    I'm 19 and I'm 7 weeks pregnant. Im a sophomore in college and I wanna go on to law school. The father and I split up just after finding out about the baby. He wants the baby but I told him I had a miscarriage because I don't believe my child would be safe with him. I'm not sure...
    shayholmes shayholmes 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    Im 2 Months And Cant Handle It

    My boyfriend and I got pregnant 2 months ago. We have talked about aborting the baby and keeping the baby. Our main issue is that we dont have the money to afford it. SO,my main question is. I want to get one but cant pay for it,is there an easier way to do so?
    queenofgrace queenofgrace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    Hello, i am a 17 year old girl (very nearly 18)

    and to my horror i found out i was pregnant last week. I wish i could say i was happy but im really not. Ive been with my boyfriend for about a year now, and i have been on the pill since i was young due to problems with pubity. Therefore once i did need contraception the ovious...
    Flyaway28 Flyaway28 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 14

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    My Advice To Everyone Considering Abortion

    1st off, do put a lot of thought behind it. I am 99.99% pro-choice, but I still think abortion needs to be the last option. These are things based off my experience that I suggest 1) Tell everyone to shut it. They have ABSOLUTELY NO SAY in the matter. Not even the father. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 18, 2013

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    Thinking About Abortion

    I am a mother of 4 year old twins, My husband and I have breifly talked about this all he says is do what you want. Well honestly we cannot afford another baby and its career sucicide for me I just got hired 2months ago,no sick leave and I can only miss 4 days in the next 3...
    LadiBug22 LadiBug22 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    I Dont Know What to Do..

    I am around 9 weeks pregnant. I am 20 yrs old and my first son is 15 months old. I have been a single mom sense he was born and even though it has been so hard it has been 100% worth it because he is my world. I have been w. my boyfriend for a few months and we have moved so fast...
    AydensMommyo AydensMommyo 18-21 7 Responses May 20, 2009

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    I Will Take Your Baby

    This means exactly what it says. I really would. I'm serious. Just send a message. I'm really nice! :)
    Ste11aeres Ste11aeres 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    I Made My Decision..

    First off I want to say thank you 2 everyone who has wrote on my previous story. i appreciate it more than you know. So we have decided to keep it. I finally feel relief. I know it will be hard but I know that i will forget about it once i have a baby in my arms. My boyfriend and...
    AydensMommyo AydensMommyo 18-21 3 Responses May 22, 2009

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    I am split right in the middle about parenting

    or abortion. I was in a fling with a man for 3 mos in LA. He lives in NY and has an 18 month old son whom he says is his priority aside from his career. He does not want it and prefer that I abort it. I just want to make sure I am making the decision not because he doesnt...
    needguidance34 needguidance34 31-35, F 14 Responses Jan 7

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    Single Mom Of 2 And Considering Abortion Of 3rd?

    I am a 25 year old mom of a 5 yr old girl and 4 yr old boy. I split with they're father when they were 1 & 2. I got with the father of this one around that time and he basically took the role of father to my 2 children. He doesn't have any of his own. 3 years down the road, we've...
    Nana0102 Nana0102 26-30 10 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Somebody Help Me.. I Need Some Guidance..

    First off, I am a young adult (25 y.o.), unemployed, and I have quite a conservative family. I have tried a lot of times to come to a decision about my problem that I really think should be resolved at the soonest possible time. The issue is I am pregnant and am currently...
    pitycrown pitycrown 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2012

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    Thinking About Abortion?

    Hmph. I didnt just think about it, I knew it was the only way out for me. Out of a relationship I grew to hate and without facing my conservative peers. But no matter how tough I thought I was, I miss my child everyday. I cry. I think about what would have happened. I wonder. I...
    Namiya Namiya 26-30 3 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    Why Me???

    i've just turned 19 and i am 19 weeks prgnant today. ive bn on n off with my partner for 3 years but this year things have been goin so well. We were so delighted wen we found out i was 4 weeks pregnant and started planning for our future. up to wen i was 10 weeks...
    PLZHELPME PLZHELPME 18-21, F 16 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    Torn

    I'm 20 years old and I've been on and off with my boyfriend/bestfriend for three years now and I had been taking my pill diligently... but life found a way. I'm completely torn about what to do. I'm still in college about two years away from earning a bachelors degree and then I...
    seeksclarity seeksclarity 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    Wrong....again

    I'm 32 divorced living with MS and raising my daughter(7) and son(5). We have a beautiful but small home where there is no more physical or emotional abuse. We are very happy. I finally decided to start dating again after a year being divorced. Met a lot of duds and finally met...
    lelabugg lelabugg 31-35 2 Responses Jul 31, 2012

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    What I Would Tell Someone Who Is Considering Abortion

    Hello ladies, I posted this story in the I Had An Abortion group and thought I would post it here. So here it goes.... The only person that can tell you what it is like to have an abortion, is from a woman who actually had the procedure done herself. If you hear from judgmental...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 2, 2013

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    I just found out I am pregnant yesterday.

    I don't know what to do. It was a drunken irresponsible night with a guy I met 3 weeks ago. To give you a little bit of his background, he is 27 years old. He didn't graduate high school, he already has a 5 year old daughter. He is currently waiting a couple of a days to move...
    Cantsleepatall Cantsleepatall 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 15

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    I Don't Even Know Where To Begin

    I just found out that I'm pregnant yesterday, on my boyfriend's birthday of all days. I was going to hold off telling him for a few days, after seeing a doctor perhaps to make it "official" (given my symptoms and two positive pregnancy tests, I'm fairly certain about what the...
    TheUnsinkableLittleBunny TheUnsinkableLittleBunny 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 20, 2013

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    It Could Happen

    Whenever I have the good fortune of being invited to share sexual intimacy, I know there is always a risk of unplanned pregnancy. I take the role of father very seriously and do not want children who I cannot take part in their lives.  So in the back of my mind, the...
    MarkFree MarkFree 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 28, 2009

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    I Thought About It, And I Did It....

    First, take the time to read through the hundreds of stories expressing guilt, remorse and regret in the "I HAD AN ABORTION" Group. It may be eye-opening to see what results from going through with what you are thinking about... Going through with an unplanned pregnancy is a...
    lost12345 lost12345 22-25, F 13 Responses Apr 25, 2011

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    I Love Judgemental People.

    wow, i love so much when people judge you on your experiences not knowing you or your beliefs they just judge you because something you do might not be something they would do.. exactly why we are DIFFERENT PEOPLE we have different dna we were not raised the same, we come from a...
    BAMM02 BAMM02 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2011

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    So Unsure

    So, when considering an abortion, I feel you have no one to talk to, you don't want to be judged, looked down upon and you don't neccesarily want people to know your business. I have a 20 month old daughter, she is my world, her father and i were pregnant and married...
    singlemom143 singlemom143 22-25, F 12 Responses Sep 6, 2009

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    Conflicted And Confused

    I had an abortion 4 years ago. I was in an abusive relationship, entering my BA program at school. I told only a select few people, even tho word got out eventually. I regretted my decision, I knew it was the right thing to do at the time, but I was mad at myself for letting...
    SophieFaith SophieFaith 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Confused

    I am thinking about having an abortion, I just know that I am not ready to be a mother nor do I have any sort of love or feelings for the father, he also has a drinking problem but I feel like so many things are influencing my decision. The thought of having one makes me so sad...
    jmarie4 jmarie4 18-21, F 15 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Contemplating Abortion....

    For the first time in my life I am contemplating having an abortion. I am 29, married, and mother of a 3 yr old. I have never considered myself pro-life or pro-choice. It was always something I left others to debate and it didn't concern me much, until now. I am 5 weeks...
    boondocksaints boondocksaints 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2011

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    Scheduled To Have An Abortion Tomorrow Morning Im So Afraid And Confused

    Im scheduled to have an abortion tomorrow morning and I dont know if I'll be able to do it. Im so afraid of the procedure and whats to come after its all said and done. I know for a fact that im not babyready to have A baby non the the less 2 I am 11 weeks pregnant with twins...
    1Beautifulgirl 1Beautifulgirl 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    Need Outside Advice..

    I am 29 year old single mother. I am currently raising my 9 year old daughter and 17 month old son. I started a relationship about a year ago with someone from work. Come to find out months down the road he was married. I had feelings then and listened to lie after lie of he was...
    mthomas0709 mthomas0709 26-30 4 Responses May 3, 2013

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    I Need Serious Help.... Please

    Ok I've been contemplating on having an abortion for a while but my heart and emotions take over every single time i make an apointment I never go through with it.....My mind is telling to do it because honestly its the best thing for please " please read my other story...
    1Beautifulgirl 1Beautifulgirl 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 9, 2012

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    Thinking About A Termination

    Hi, I have three children and my youngest is 6 months and i just found out im pregnant again!This has just really confused me. My husband wants me to have the baby but i dont think i can do it all again so soon.This didnt happen because i was careless i was breastfeeding and on...
    sarahnfam sarahnfam 26-30 11 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    Ugh Help

    I don't want to be pregnant but I don't want to have an abortion either, I need advice please
    jmarie4 jmarie4 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    I Thought I Was Infertile

    When I was a teenager I was told I had severe PCOS and that I would not be able to have a child. When I was in my early 20s this diagnosis was confirmed again by another doctor. I was again told I had severe PCOS and that pregnancy would be a virtual impossibility. I accepted...
    cephaloscotti cephaloscotti 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    I Am Thinking About An Abortion

    I am 23yrs old, not had the best of luck in life and not the healthiest girl either but its not life threatening I am 8weeks pregnant and found out at 6weeks, first of all it was a shock because i have been told for 3 yrs by doctors that its a 95%chance that i will never have...
    pocketluby pocketluby 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    The Abortion Pill

    I read so much about regret, depression, hope, life, and death... I couldn't help but actually feel slightly alone with my experience and so I'm sharing this just because I feel like I shouldn't be the only one in this situation - I feel no regret.I am twenty six years old and...
    ebb427 ebb427 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    Not Because I'm Pregnant.

    Which I guess sounds weird? It's simply something I felt I should think about before having sex. I could get pregnant no matter the contraceptives we use unless we don't have sex at all (not an option to me). I think it's something important to consider before being pregnant or...
    SofiaGrowsFlowers SofiaGrowsFlowers 18-21, T 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    I have been thinking about it. I have made a few friends in college who were in the military. I'd never personally known anyone before who had served. And while I used to not like...
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    I know that may sound odd but I honestly think about it almost everyday. I do not want a child right now but thinking about gives me a satisfying feeling. Just imagining myself...
    Slumbergirl92 Slumbergirl92 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I don't even know where to start, I just wish I could just stop thinking about my future assuming I even have one. I stay thinking about what I'm going to do with my life and what...
    Unlucky242 Unlucky242 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I can't stop thinking about a guy I barely know- He works with my mum and I've seen him in the pub a few times too. Since my uncle is dating his mum, I was quite keen on knowing...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Poem: Late Night Thought ShowI'm sitting here with a small cigarsmoking it down to the quicksipping wine, kicking backand...Don't know whyI'm thinking about youbut I ammaybe...
    bemyvalentine bemyvalentine 51-55, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I can't stop thinking of my master. He is my world, I would give up everything for him. He may be a little older than me but I truly love him and I feel that he loves me too. If he...
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