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I Am Thoroughly Over This Whole Abortion Debate

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    Sick of It

    I am pro-choice, I feel that it is a woman's choice as far as what to do with her body, I would never abort my baby but that is my personal choice-- no person should be governed by someone else. But I don't really want to debate about it anyway, because I am...
    katpunkhippiegirl katpunkhippiegirl 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 4, 2008

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    I Cant....

    I cant read any more stories. Look at any more pictures. Hear any more arguements. They destroy me. They turn me on myself. They cause a pain in my heart thats near impossible to express. They bring feelings of self loathing and guilt.... but not over what I did, but over how I...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    JuBear424 JuBear424 18-21, F Jun 14

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    There is so much controversy over abortion laws in different countries and those in the mindsets of the people around. A woman is looked down upon if she has had sex in India...
    TheNextSin TheNextSin 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 19

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    I was almost 17 and recently started dating my current boyfriend and the day I found out is still crystal clear in my memory. I was confused and scared about what to so both his...
    owens321bam owens321bam 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I had my second abortion 4 weeks ago. My first pregnancy happened around the same time last year. I keep having these "what if" thoughts. I made my decision because I want the...
    lovecooled lovecooled 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I was so damn quiet in my class n was nt much popular.. I was always alone.. I loved to sing but my music teachers never would take me into the school music team for any...
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    I'm 19 and I've scheduled an abortion for next week. Just yesterday I took two pregnancy tests...both we're positive. I was so certain that I couldn't be. The pulling out method is...
    Jpn811 Jpn811 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    I had a friend in high school who got pregnant when she was sixteen and she chose to have an abortion. I personally am against abortions but that's for myself, I would never get an...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Before I begin, I'm going to say that I'm not going to get into depth as to why I decided to get an abortion. This was a very difficult decision to make but in my current situation...
    kalexandria kalexandria 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I thought "there's no way I can be pregnant." I bought a pregnancy test so I could prove it to myself because my boyfriend was worried about it. People have late periods all the...
    sweetsydchris sweetsydchris 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Back in February, a few weeks after my birthday, I found out that I was pregnant. It was an unplanned pregnancy and I had no idea what to do with myself! Fortunately, I had some...
    Wattouat Wattouat 18-21, F Jul 6

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    It happened 4 years ago on January 13th 2010. I was in an abusive relationship (though I refused to admit it to anyone including myself.) I was 18 and terrified. I didn't even tell...
    omgxjean omgxjean 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I'm new to sharing about my experience but I will say that though becoming pregnant and having to make the decision to have an abortion saved my life. I had no appreciation for the...
    DizzieDazie DizzieDazie 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 5

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    I had an abortion 20 years ago and have always regretted it. My story is this. I got married at 19 and was very happy had my first son at 23 and he is beautiful now 21. Six months...
    keelina01 keelina01 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I am 25 and when I found out I was pregnant, I cried, full of despair and fear. I instantly new what I had to do and instantly realised that I would never get to know my baby, that...
    parislondonrome parislondonrome 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Last September, a month after turning 20, I found out I was pregnant. I took a month to make up my mind but knew abortion was the right decision at that time in my life. I didn't...
    DizzieDazie DizzieDazie 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Everything started when I met him. I met the love of my life last year. We grew close and became best friends and lovers. Before I met him I volunteered for a military deployment...
    lesspain2 lesspain2 22-25 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Murder by definition, is to lawfully kill a human being. An abortion, by definition is to end a pregnancy by removing the fetus or embryo. Abortion is a medical procedure. They are...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's a shame that abortion is not more accessible to women. It is also a shame that women who want to exercise their right to an abortion have to be shamed or called names...
    jaxson2014 jaxson2014 31-35, F Jul 17

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    For anybody who is thinking about or had an abortion, this is somewhat of an update of what I posted in one of my stories. Be sure that you do your own research. Do not get on any...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    When I was 15 I had an abortion on October 6, 2009. I thought I was at the most 8 week but I was a lot farther , the nurse at the clinic said at most I was around 4 months...
    xxbroken xxbroken 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I had an abortion the first week of October, 2013. I stopped using this as a support group because although I knew I wasn't alone, it was a constant reminder of my loss, but I want...
    af996 af996 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I had an abortion 5 years ago. I was 16 and in an abusive relationship. I was still in school and had no job. My parents wouldn't have been able to support me and my child. My...
    Cereal3 Cereal3 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    In October I had an abortion. I've gone through the stages of grief, though it was painful I understood it and so did others. But then there were the emotions and thoughts that I...
    DizzieDazie DizzieDazie 18-21, F Jul 5

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    In October I had an abortion. I've gone through the stages of grief, though it was painful I understood it and so did others. But then there were the emotions and thoughts that I...
    DizzieDazie DizzieDazie 18-21, F Jul 5

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    I just had an abortion this past Thursday. My fiance and I made the choice together...inexplicably, I found myself on the other side of the coin. I never thought I would ever...
    LJC2 LJC2 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I have been lucky enough to never have to have one. My boyfriend was not so lucky His ex girlfriend lied, and said she had a coil. She got pregnant and then kept saying she had...
    ananchor ananchor 22-25, F Jul 8

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    I have been lucky enough to never have to have one. My boyfriend was not so lucky His ex girlfriend lied, and said she had a coil. She got pregnant and then kept saying she had...
    ananchor ananchor 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    My girlfriend is pregnant, potentially with another man's baby. She regrets the mistake, but we had an agreement for her to explore what was out there. She needed final validation...
    MediPhil MediPhil 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Have you talked to your family about your abortion? It's like they don't want to hear it. I don't understand why they give me that horrible look, when I try to talk to them about...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Abortion is birth control. When a woman had an abortion, she is keeping a birth from happening. When a woman has an abortion, she is terminating a pregnancy. So for someone to say...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    On 12th June 2013 I did the test, my boyfriend of 3 months sitting on my bed. We both knew before I came back in from the bathroom what my result would be. I was pregnant. On 3rd...
    littlelil1 littlelil1 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    Somebody posted a so called abortion video on Facebook. I happened to look at the video. And because I don't want to trigger anybody, I won't go into details. But I will say, that...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I found out I was pregnant a week before my 21st birthday. I had just broken up with the guy. I freaked out. I spent a few weeks debating on my choices. I told the guy about my...
    kaleyashley kaleyashley 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    My boyfriend is very supportive. He knows about my abortion story. And has a story himself. He's always been great. But recently, I've had a hard time talking to him about what...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I was 23 years old when I had an abortion. It was the most difficult decision, but as it turned out it wasn't my choice. I am now 59 years old and still think of what happened. At...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I was just sitting here listening to some music my husband was playing when something occurred to me. I was listening to the lyrics of a black artist and it was a positive upbeat...
    Tory1979 Tory1979 31-35, M Jul 19

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    I had an abortion this year in February. Here is my story.. I was at work (dance studio) my phone was plugged in the AUX cord and I was stretching the girls just jamming out to...
    UnknownNYC728 UnknownNYC728 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I recently had an abortion. I did it for all the wrong reasons. My boyfriend wasn't ready for a baby and I felt pressured to do it. In reality, I am obviously at fault because I...
    runnergirl722 runnergirl722 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    So you know how I tell you ladies, that talking about it makes you feel so much better? I have been doing some talking. I guess I am at a place in my life, to where I can talk, and...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F Jul 3

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    So I'm still crying all the time, and emotionally hurt, from my Abortion back in January, I'm always having a moan at my ex as I he made me have an abortion when I never wanted too...
    PrincessBailey20 PrincessBailey20 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Whether you're with abortion, against abortion or undecided about abortion it is still murder. I mean there's nothing to change that, it is still flat out murder. Idk how to put...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I am 100% against abortion. If you decide to have intercourse, without proper protection...why be responsible enough to get in her pants, but not deal with your own mistake you...
    MickaelaLovesZachLin MickaelaLovesZachLin 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I had an abortion I am not proud of and I am having a hard time getting past it . I don't support abortions unless they have a meaningful reason for the procedure . I was pressured...
    strugglemade strugglemade 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I want to say something. I used to be against abortion until I realized the real world. Not everyone can afford a child or should have a child. Some people aren't responsible so I...
    LovelyDeadly LovelyDeadly 16-17, F 15 Responses Jul 18

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