I Am Tired of Being Alone

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    I am tired of being alone,

    and I am tired of living with my family. I am tired of feeling stuck here and never meeting any girls.
    FittingUsername FittingUsername
    22-25, M
    Dec 10, 2015

    A Slap In The Face

    I shared my first experience in this category some time ago, and in that story I mentioned a woman who had the nerve to mention, in the middle of sex, that she might be in love with someone else. Since then, I thought we had worked things out. She even came over last week and...
    Dragonhermit Dragonhermit
    36-40, M
    7 Responses Aug 26, 2010

    Why do some marriages look

    so sad? I keep hearing 'We've been marries for 10 years but all the romance is gone' Why does that happen? Can people really get that bored from one another in a marriage that they even barely talk to each other?
    iSatan iSatan
    13-15, F
    Apr 2
    miiamor miiamor
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 27

    It gets old , fast ..

    Can't do it anymore .
    snowmoon123 snowmoon123
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 18, 2014

    Today I made the courageous decision to come

    out to my best friend. With trembling fingers, I sent that fated text to her; waiting for her reply with two sweaty palms. She did, and it left me sort of disappointed. She said okay, and just drifted off into another topic. I somehow got mad, and then she started laughing, and...
    Songsofheart Songsofheart
    22-25
    1 Response Jan 26

    I get so jealous on tv shows

    when there is always a cute couple! Anybody else or is it just me with this problem haha? :p
    innocentflower innocentflower
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 5, 2015

    Sometimes, I feel that I am destined to be

    alone... Whenever, I feel close to someone... Bad things happen way out of my control. Good friends are leaving and it sucks to be left behind... I am not blaming them! They have their own free will.... It is just hard.... I guess I should be used to all these crap right now!
    QueenCersei08 QueenCersei08
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 17, 2015

    Do you ever feel invisible,

    like you're just looking out at everybody else but no one is noticing you? Feeling as if you're alone in the world yet surrounded by people saying "I'm always here" or "you can always talk to me" yet no one ever lives up to their word, but you. You do. You manage to be there for...
    BeingSara BeingSara
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 15, 2015
    samisamir samisamir
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    Everyone has someone.

    I have no one. Where is my someone? :(
    Scaredmonster Scaredmonster
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2014

    Besides of being tired of being alone

    for eons at this hometown, what else can I do to be not alone? How great I hope to get a peer to talk about my business, share life, discuss common interests, like when I was in school! But how to get one outside school? I know to enter school can make it. But before entering...
    ExileMyself ExileMyself
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015

    I don't know how many of you can relate to this,

    but it's like I could be in a room full of people and still be alone... I feel like I can no longer integrate after all I've been through. Throughout my life, I have watched SO many people turn their backs on me, when all I wanted to do was love them. I've always been this...
    AylaOatmeal AylaOatmeal
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Aug 13, 2014

    Alone again, alone again,

    alone again... Alone.
    stephane28 stephane28
    31-35, F
    13 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    yea i feel that way to i have alot friend

    but no care about me i care about people but no one understand me.. i feel like nothing do not matter in life people lie say be there for you and not there for you.. why i just sad about that. i just want someone understand me.
    cooldewain15 cooldewain15
    26-30, M
    Mar 27

    lately I've been growing frustrated about my

    inability to meet people. doesn't matter what I do, with whom I talk to, or what where I go in the end of the night I get this shiver that reminds me that I'm alone
    kiwisaurus kiwisaurus
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 17, 2015
    reese13church reese13church
    18-21, T
    Dec 5, 2015

    today and tonight has not been good.

    being alone is taking a terrible hold on me but I just don't want anyone. I want the right one for me.
    LadyLacey LadyLacey
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    I see everybody else with somebody

    and I just can't keep a relationship. I desperately want to but I'm just not outgoing enough. I'm good looking enough (6pack, strong chest and big biceps. all toned.) My problem is that i'm not outgoing enough I think or I just get to scared to try and be more than friends. I...
    Favoritejohnny Favoritejohnny
    16-17, M
    1 Response Oct 2, 2014

    Tired Of My Life

    Last year was hard for me, I had a best friend for 3 years but unfortunately she betrayed me I realized that she was my friend just to benefit me. & I loved someone so much but he doesn’t love me in contrast, he loves another one , So that’s why I had depression I become...
    Maeel Maeel
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Oct 21, 2011
    EndItAll515 EndItAll515
    18-21, M
    Nov 15, 2015

    It's like I am a single rock on a pathway of

    many rocks, they don't leave any stone unturned except for a single one, that one being me. Living in a world of solitude, no one cares enough to even ask if I am okay. Thy parents focus on my other siblings first and I am at the back of the burner. I am Xavior and I am Human! I...
    Donottellanyone Donottellanyone
    16-17, F
    Oct 27, 2015

    Tired, Lonely, And Low On Hope.

    I've read over many of the stories posted here, and I think I'm starting to understand why I'm alone. I see so many stories of women who were so mistreated that once their relationships ended they were the same as the men who abused, used, or flat out ignored them. Women always...
    Dragonhermit Dragonhermit
    36-40, M
    13 Responses Jul 23, 2010

    The dawn breaks on another dayTo get up

    and live in this dismayThere is no one that really caresNo one with whom I have to share.Its just another day in the lifeTo scurry around in the strifeTrying to find a sense of peaceA loving touch or a bonding release.But with all searches they are in vainThey control my...
    Dreampoet Dreampoet
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    I'm supposed to be the one in my family

    who never complains of causes trouble and I feel constantly overlooked because of it.Im tired of being the one with no friends who always has to listen without being listened to.
    ST1997 ST1997
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2015

    I wish I had somebody to spend time with

    but I don't. I have nobody to talk to and I am single and looking. wishing I had somebody to stay here with me and all I can do is keep on trying to find somebody I can cuddle with and be happy like everyone else...
    Ashley4Life Ashley4Life
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 23, 2015

    Not just romantically,

    although I have trouble with this (I don't like men, and I fall in love too easily with women unless I have someone to love already.) I can't do anything about it, and it's driving me crazy. I need intellectual discussion while holding someone tight, but the longer this goes on...
    PaladinVeritas PaladinVeritas
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 26, 2015

    Supposedly I have a significant other

    but I feel more alone when he's around. We have nothing in common but the kids. He is rarely here and when he is, we're in separate rooms. We barely speak to each other. He drinks daily which I'm sick of. I like to drink but not every day of my life. I think he's pathetic and he...
    SingleLizAgain SingleLizAgain
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Apr 13, 2014

    There was a time when I was married,

    and I was so lonely I would cry myself to sleep at night while my wife slept right beside me. In the end, I left her, and spent a few years with another woman who, it turned out, delighted in venting her frustrations by attacking me, insulting me, degrading me, and disrespecting...
    northguy northguy
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 29, 2015

    I don't want to be alone.

    This is not what I had planned for myself at this age. I was recently in a relationship & now its over. But I don't want to put the time or energy into trying to find someone else & going thru the whole getting to know each other stage, is he going to call or isn't he, etc...
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Sep 23, 2014

    Happening now: random crying in my room.

    I don't understand why. I tried. I still am trying not to feel this bad. I promised to be a more cheerful person. I'm going to make that possible, I swear. Tomorrow this would be better. He'll make me smile in an instant when I wake up. He always does. Long distance sucks.
    Qtrelle Qtrelle
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2015

    I have spent the majority of my adult life

    alone. I was blessed to be married for 17 years and raised my 3 adopted kids who are now adults themselves. But being without a soul mate or partner is lonely. I have friends and sometimes fwb. That is not enough. I seek that one person who cannot breath without me and me...
    Fatherofthedaughter Fatherofthedaughter
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Oct 10, 2015
    CuriousGirlll CuriousGirlll
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2015

    All my life I've had to pick myself up

    when I felt completely shattered. People who were supposed to be there for me used me. All I want is to not feel alone all the time. I want someone not anyone in particular just one voice to make me understand why all this suffering was worth it.
    StarPower42 StarPower42
    18-21
    1 Response Jun 27, 2015

    I have met some very awesome people in cyber

    world. We have wonderful conversations. They are so supportive and kind and gentle and just the right fun. But when the the phone is down and all is quite it doesn't change to fact I am alone. I want a man's touch. His kiss. His stare. I don't think I will die if I am never...
    baprel26 baprel26
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 16, 2015

    What's the point of even trying anymore,

    everyone leaves me anyway.
    blinkon12 blinkon12
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 10, 2015
    Josh1133 Josh1133
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 18, 2015

    Every person in my life is just another lesson.

    
 I’ve taken test after test,
 and they come in more complicated forms.
 What good are these trials if I never graduate?
    MarieIsHere MarieIsHere
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015

    I've been abandoned by my own parents

    as a child. I went to stay with family members, but they didnt want me also, and I ended up being a foster kid by the age of six. I've been hopped around from home to home. I don't even know what real love feels like because I havent had it. I ended up losing my virginity at a...
    CallMeNiesha94 CallMeNiesha94
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 17, 2014

    I could scream from the top of my lungs

    and still no one would listen but I'm not sure how much I can blame others when I'm too afraid to speak up... Just really wish I could have a real friend
    SincerelyMYlife SincerelyMYlife
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 8, 2015

    Surrender to Solitude

    I am so tired of being alone. I wake up every morning alone. Go to sleep every night alone. All I want is for someone to want me. I know that I'm not much, if anything at all, but I can't help feeling like I deserve someone. And yet, everyday shows me that I'm wrong.  He...
    ConStantlyQuesTioninG ConStantlyQuesTioninG
    18-21
    12 Responses May 30, 2009

    i look forward to finding a creative,

    open minded, music and art loving girl to connect with one day!
    ethankerouac ethankerouac
    18-21, M
    Dec 9, 2015

    I Get Tired Of Being Played.

    I have been told all my life I am a nice person and sweet. Well sweetness gets me nowhere. I have tried dating with no luck. I have been played more times then I can count. Just the other day I was on a job and the lady I was there talking to asked me a question. "Are you...
    Dreampoet Dreampoet
    41-45, M
    17 Responses Apr 26, 2012

    I Miss.....

    I miss being able to wrap my arms around a soft, warm, beautiful woman and lay my head on her belly and soak in the cosmic light and love she radiates. The only thing that makes the world right. I have fulfilled my purpose in this universe and without purpose there is nothing...
    livewire454 livewire454
    41-45, M
    7 Responses Jan 1, 2012

    I wish I could move somewhere

    where I could find great people that would be able to understand or even just accept me.
    BabyKyle14 BabyKyle14
    16-17, M
    Sep 24, 2015

    Hi I want to tell something

    that is in my heart
    NishanthRa NishanthRa
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 24, 2015

    I'm tired of trying to make myself feel content

    with being independent. I want someone who can listen to me. Someone who genuinely cares for me. Someone who understands me. I'm tired of doing this on my own.
    nine10 nine10
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 14

    Alone

    Is anyone else at home alone because they have no family or friends? This is how it is everyday for me when I get home from an exhausting job. I don't post on Facebook anymore because no one ever "likes" what I say. It's embarrassing. Two of my friends have died in the last 3...
    nofriendsnofamily nofriendsnofamily
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Jul 4, 2013

    Ok... this is me right now.

    The day after my 27th wedding anniversary. Sitting in a chair Alone. Again. I asked my husband if he wanted Chili for dinner. His response..."Sure". Now... let me preface this by saying: I have just woken from a 2+ hour nap because I have a miserable cold I say... okay then...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Apr 2

    My husband works all the time.

    We had an agreement that he would be home on the weekends to spend time with his family. Now he tells me he isnt coming home this weekend. Im tired of being alone and no car. My daughter has stopped asking when her daddy is coming home. She says she'd rather it be just us two...
    momof3grls2015 momof3grls2015
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 5

    I see people in relationships everywhere.

    Walking down the street, at work, etc. All I want is the same thing. I want someone to hold hands with when out and about. Someone to cuddle with. Someone to hold. Someone to kiss. Someone to talk to and listen to. Someone to come home to. Someone to wake up next to...
    DotNM DotNM
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jan 24, 2014

    What people don't realize is

    when you are quiet, there is just too much for you to say. So many problems, worries, or just normal thoughts. It's hard to put them into words. You can think of everything but the right words to say to make someone understand you. More things people don't realize is when you...
    artsydarling artsydarling
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2015

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