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I Am Tired of Being Alone

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    At high school, I may have a lot of people

    around, but at the end of the day, I have no friends, family I love but, I want to connect with a person outside of my group. I'm sad and just want to get this over with.
    GravelTack19 GravelTack19 13-15, M Aug 6

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    A Beautiful Night...BUT

    As I type this I am sitting on a hill overlooking the small country lake on which I live. The wind is blowing gently through the many tall trees around the lake and there is a large patch through the canopy where a vast portion of the starry night sky can be seen. There are no...
    dragunfleye83 dragunfleye83 31-35, M Aug 26, 2013

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    A Slap In The Face

    I shared my first experience in this category some time ago, and in that story I mentioned a woman who had the nerve to mention, in the middle of sex, that she might be in love with someone else. Since then, I thought we had worked things out. She even came over last week and...
    Dragonhermit Dragonhermit 36-40, M 7 Responses Aug 26, 2010

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    Last night while trying

    so hard not to hear my sister talking happily with her boyfriend on the phone, a thought came to me. Maybe I should consider staying in a hotel for some time. To forget about him. To be alone, to be in a different place--be in a different environment, to not hear and envy my...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I just had this epiphany

    that I really wish I wouldn't have had. Ever since I was little people have been leaving me. At 4, my mom and older brother and sister moved away. My mom came back twice since and left both times. My best friend Lily moved two years ago and I haven't spoken to her in about a...
    Jgil99 Jgil99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I don't have a lots of friends,

    I don't have a therapist, I don't like to bottle up my feeling cause I get an anxiety attack.
    EnigmaticCasper EnigmaticCasper 18-21, M Aug 1

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    Tired

    I am tired of being alone.. I want a good healthy realationship. The one that will make my heart skip a beat, make my knees weak in the knees or knots in my stomach.. One who won't judge me cuz I am a bbw or that I have kids living with me.. I am getting older and want to be...
    sunsure sunsure 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Lonliness is the worst feeling I hate that

    even tho I have friends that I feel no one really knows me and just feeling so alone like no one is there for me or cares I'm tired of feeling this way
    Daletheloner Daletheloner 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I just want a friend.

    Someone who I have things in common with. My best friend from high school and I have nothing in common any more. She's a lawyer and just looks down on me for having kids. We never have anything to talk about any more, except the people that we went to high school with almost 10...
    jaisikae jaisikae 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Alone...

    Alone…Alone in bed with a second pillow.Resting sideways next to me.As though a second personis there with me It’s not there for me to cuddle, hug, or anything.Though…I’ve…done that before.It’s there to take up space.And fill an imagined void So as I fall sleepI don...
    Sarahbellas Sarahbellas 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I Miss.....

    I miss being able to wrap my arms around a soft, warm, beautiful woman and lay my head on her belly and soak in the cosmic light and love she radiates. The only thing that makes the world right. I have fulfilled my purpose in this universe and without purpose there is nothing...
    livewire454 livewire454 41-45, M 7 Responses Jan 1, 2012

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    This will sort of be a stream of consciousness

    vent. I don't feel totally comfortable writing this here. Putting out my problems on the internet like this for strangers to read but I'll try it out. I'm one of those people who lurks on forums and social media and reads things but never has the courage to comment or post. I...
    fibrodoodle fibrodoodle 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I Am So Tired Of Being Alone.

    This may sound silly, but I am so tired of being alone. I feel like I have no one. I was always a quiet person but it's never been like this before. A couple of years ago I got so sick to the point where i almost died. After my experience I knew that it was only God who kept me...
    sweetiepoo sweetiepoo 26-30, F 13 Responses Aug 9, 2010

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    SkyllarDallas SkyllarDallas 13-15, F 2 Responses May 25

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    Surrender to Solitude

    I am so tired of being alone. I wake up every morning alone. Go to sleep every night alone. All I want is for someone to want me. I know that I'm not much, if anything at all, but I can't help feeling like I deserve someone. And yet, everyday shows me that I'm wrong.  He...
    ConStantlyQuesTioninG ConStantlyQuesTioninG 18-21 12 Responses May 30, 2009

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    I Get Tired Of Being Played.

    I have been told all my life I am a nice person and sweet. Well sweetness gets me nowhere. I have tried dating with no luck. I have been played more times then I can count. Just the other day I was on a job and the lady I was there talking to asked me a question. "Are you...
    Dreampoet Dreampoet 36-40, M 18 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    I Realized Something About Myself

    bear with me while i illustrateive been lying here in my bed for quite some time thinking about today. but it only took a few seconds for this part of me to become clear. im so desparate for people to be near me ill do anything. im just so tired of being alone that i will do...
    cnherr cnherr 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    sometimes I can't help

    but drown my self in my years because time goes and I'm stuck in the past with no left to go
    DaniDemented DaniDemented 13-15, F 4 Responses May 11

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    I'm leaving now. I'm tired of being alone,

    no one understanding me, no one even listening without interrupting me and telling me either that it's my imagination, that it's not true, that I'm some kind of name, or chewing me out because I'm a little messed up, different, and can't even be the Innocent little girl that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 28

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    Fuckit all I'm done. Just let me die.

    When you're all alone what's the point?
    Nightshade777 Nightshade777 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I'm tired of being single

    and acting like I don't need anyone because I'm getting more and more lonely lately I'm 17 and never dated anyone, I don't have friends bc I'm too withdrawn and girls at my age only talk about boys so I wouldn't have anything to talk about with them I can't express my feelings...
    mag2705 mag2705 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 1

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    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 1 Response May 5

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    I see people in relationships everywhere.

    Walking down the street, at work, etc. All I want is the same thing. I want someone to hold hands with when out and about. Someone to cuddle with. Someone to hold. Someone to kiss. Someone to talk to and listen to. Someone to come home to. Someone to wake up next to...
    DotNM DotNM 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 24

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    Today I had a day off

    and and went to some new therapy thing today called art therapy it was really good...was so tired after opening up all my scars with the therapist that I came home and had a nap, which was nice. I feel so lonely wish I had a friend who gets me :(
    pardz pardz 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 25

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    Am I An Alien??????

    Sometimes, I wonder, why was I born.....Actually, I wonder it alot, just less often (maybe)If you've read my other stories you know the condition of my life's begin current stage.I look around at all the different types of relationships that exsist today, and really.  I'm...
    jay35 jay35 31-35, M 5 Responses Dec 31, 2010

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    ever feel like you're pouring your heart out to

    people who don't really care? all the time.
    shuthafukup shuthafukup 26-30 Aug 10

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    Anyone else feel like you were meant to be

    single?? No one will ever love you unconditionally?? Love is never enough??
    Dereklynn Dereklynn 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 12

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    I'm tired of being the person

    who is alone. I know I'm not the only person alone on the planet however it sure feels that way a lot. Friends tell me to keep busy, put myself out there and that someday that will change... however it's been over 7 years... still try to keep busy, still putting myself out...
    DeeAlone DeeAlone 56-60, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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    Tired Of Being Lonely And Having A Nonexistent Social Life.

    I am experiencing depression after accepting the truth about a relationship I was previously in that didnt work. I have two sons 5 and 9 and, I am basically a single mother who goes to school full time while working and maintaining a home but I dont have any real friends and my...
    prettyintense27 prettyintense27 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    Is It Time To Go Home Yet?

    It's an eerie thing to be married for sixteen years and yet still feel tired of being alone. I guess only somebody in an abusive marriage would understand such a thing. Well, let me put it this way:     I have long given up discussing anything with my wife, because...
    northguy northguy 46-50, M 6 Responses Nov 15, 2010

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    Bored And Lonely

    It is more my time now kids grown on there own and divorced there years now ! Just seems harder to find someone to spend time with as I get older and for someone to care about even harder to find that girl you connect with ? Don't like the bar scene and work always creates...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    katelve katelve 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Supposedly I have a significant other

    but I feel more alone when he's around. We have nothing in common but the kids. He is rarely here and when he is, we're in separate rooms. We barely speak to each other. He drinks daily which I'm sick of. I like to drink but not every day of my life. I think he's pathetic and he...
    SingleLizAgain SingleLizAgain 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 13

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    Why does it feel like I'm begging him to care

    about me and love me? I loved him deeply. I deserve to be loved, too, don't I?
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    It's not really about being alone

    but more about being the only one trying to maintain my relationships. I find myself being the first to text anyone. They never go out of their way to hang out or whatever. I always see them being with other friends and I'm wondering why I'm such a damn loner. The only one who...
    savannah764253 savannah764253 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I'm so alone. Anytime someone says they will

    hang out with me they end up not showing up. Even my best friends bail on me. What am I to do?
    DeadDropGoth DeadDropGoth 16-17, M Jun 8

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    Living The Dull Life

    Ever since I moved to a new house in the middle of 5th grade, I became less and less interactive with people surrounding me, closing my world and just living most of my life inside my house, aside from school and sports. I spent much time watching television, playing video games...
    MagneticRadiation MagneticRadiation 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 28, 2011

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    I feel like I have no one in the world

    that cares. I want someone to care whether it's a guy or girl I don't care just someone!
    RealJ92 RealJ92 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    Tired, Lonely, And Low On Hope.

    I've read over many of the stories posted here, and I think I'm starting to understand why I'm alone. I see so many stories of women who were so mistreated that once their relationships ended they were the same as the men who abused, used, or flat out ignored them. Women always...
    Dragonhermit Dragonhermit 36-40, M 12 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    Tired Of My Life

    Last year was hard for me, I had a best friend for 3 years but unfortunately she betrayed me I realized that she was my friend just to benefit me. & I loved someone so much but he doesn’t love me in contrast, he loves another one , So that’s why I had depression I become...
    Maeel Maeel 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    So my best friend has gone to her dads

    for 2 weeks and I'm soooooo lonely!! It sux):
    MaddiJade16 MaddiJade16 13-15, F Jun 13

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    I don't know how many of you can relate to this,

    but it's like I could be in a room full of people and still be alone... I feel like I can no longer integrate after all I've been through. Throughout my life, I have watched SO many people turn their backs on me, when all I wanted to do was love them. I've always been this...
    AylaOatmeal AylaOatmeal 22-25, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    It gets old , fast ..

    Can't do it anymore .
    snowmoon123 snowmoon123 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Sitting at home watching Dateline.

    I hate spending so much time alone. They say that "Loneliness is unwanted solitude." I should find some kind of hobby I guess...
    CopperHeart CopperHeart 41-45, F 2 Responses May 17

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    I've been abandoned by my own parents

    as a child. I went to stay with family members, but they didnt want me also, and I ended up being a foster kid by the age of six. I've been hopped around from home to home. I don't even know what real love feels like because I havent had it. I ended up losing my virginity at a...
    CallMeNiesha94 CallMeNiesha94 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Alone

    Is anyone else at home alone because they have no family or friends? This is how it is everyday for me when I get home from an exhausting job. I don't post on Facebook anymore because no one ever "likes" what I say. It's embarrassing. Two of my friends have died in the last 3...
    nofriendsnofamily nofriendsnofamily 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 4, 2013

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    Perpetualy Alone

    im a women who has many issues. i like being alone but i hate it at the same time. im a little anti social- but i am a great actress and pretend to be fine with people, im tired of being like this any pointers? and please try not to judge me to much.
    shadowhuntersoforegon shadowhuntersoforegon 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    My husband works out on the road

    for two weeks at a time and come homes for two days then leaves out again. We talk for a total of ten minutes a day about nothing so we don't really have a relationship anymore and I'm tired of being alone and feeling alone. Recently I have reconnected with my online friend...
    LilDrgnFly LilDrgnFly 18-21, F Aug 7

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    I wont give up on my marriage just yet,

    but I feel like I need to take a stance about the issues that I am having. I am neglected, cant remember the last time I got a hug from my husband or a kiss......Or the last time he did something special for me. I also feel like I have neglected myself and my image.....Just...
    cravebee cravebee 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    When Is Enough Enough?

    I think that being with some one and still being alone is the absolute worst. Its like being alone and not having the option to find someone. I am with a person who just does not have the time or want to be with the person she is supposedly so madly in love with. She hides the...
    madz28 madz28 26-30, M 5 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    There she is again. My sister.

    Talking on the phone with her boyfriend. I feel so alone.
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F Jul 4

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    Don't mean in the relationship way.

    ..I'm a military brat moving has always been my way of life from one place to another go go go only problem I'm Having with it is I'm always going and doing thing alone for instance going to a concert or even a movie to the bar.....the list goes on and on....I just don't want to...
    teardrop12 teardrop12 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Every time I do something wrong

    or something that is not what my mother wants me to do, she stops talking to me or she limits what she says to me. I am tired of having to hold my opinions inside in order to make everyone feel good about themselves. Every time we get in an argument, I find myself alone and to...
    troubledchild2 troubledchild2 18-21, F 2 Responses May 10

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