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I Am Tired of Being Compared to Other People

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    I Am Nothing Like Them

    I am constantly being compared to my cousins! I fcking hate it! Whenever i want to go somewhere or do something i can't. And it's only because they think I'm going to do stupid **** like my cousins would. News Flash: I am NOTHING like them! I am my own person. I just wish it...
    freshfrika freshfrika 16-17, F Jun 4, 2009

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    Tired Of Being Your Shadow

    Ha this is funny I had really tried hard to stop being jealous because you and her compared to me are perfect. I'm really tired of being compared to you guys because your moms favorite ...and she's moms 2nd favorite because she smart. You say mom loves me ha that's one of my...
    D3L13 D3L13 16-17, F Sep 2, 2011

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    Did I Go Too Far??

    I am so SICK of being compared to my sister. For years i've just been ......'s little sister. Everything i did was compared to exactly what she did. It was always "oh, well, your sister liked this" or "......... did better than that". It's really hard for me...
    Farmgirl1994 Farmgirl1994 13-15, F Jul 20, 2009

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    Seriously

    I'm so tired of being compared to other people every freaking day."If she can do it, why can't you?""Look at your cousin, getting straight A's! What happened to you?""Why can't you be more like them?"I am ME. Stop molding me to be something I'm not! It's like they just love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2011

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    I Am Me.

    Damnit!  I get so sick of people saying, "Well, this one did this" or "That one did that".  I don't give a flying ****!  I am me, Your Brand of Heroin (it is kinda funny that my initials are in there)!  I am going to do what I...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2009

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    Kinda Bothers Me

    I look a lot like my boyfriends ex gf. I think he had some sort of separation issue with her when she broke up with him. It took him forever to tell me all the things he did, and I took a chance on him. I'm happy, but I feel like he's afraid to lose me. I tell him I'm nothing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 1, 2011

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    I Am Me Not Her.

    For years I have been compared to my sister. We are not twins but oh they do think of us as twins. My parents as well as my entire family would make us look, act, and dress like twins. Everywhere we went we were forced to dress the same, have the same hair , eat the same meals...
    dreamer234 dreamer234 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Why Am I Not As Good?

    I hate being compared to my sister. Though i love her, i sometimes wish she didn't exist because im tired of being the black sheep of the family. I hate when everyone goes on and on about how great she is and then turn and ask why i can't be like her. It just really bothers...
    Lostsoul22 Lostsoul22 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    Yea

    I'm Tired of feeling like a noodle wearing a wiener custom. and watching other people eating ball park that was comparing to my wiener, and don't forget...about....the....German Sausage. no matter what they always get Lucky!!!!!!!
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    Seems like people around me love to compare me to other people. My mom, my dad, my acquaintances, my relatives, everyone. I'm really tired of it. Like for real, I am not them, I am...
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    Being around other people helped me realize I will always truly be alone. No one will ever understand me fully or have respect for me as an individual as a result. I am not a robot...
    Deadlynightshade5 Deadlynightshade5 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I've been influenced by the media alot so most of my decisions are based on things that other people do. Trends and cliques I felt as though I should have the same mind frame as...
    chickensoup17 chickensoup17 18-21, M Aug 31

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    I just really really don't like other people (aside from my mother and sister); being around anyone at any time, talking to anybody, anything like that... I hate going outside...
    TriforceTapioca TriforceTapioca 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    It's rather annoying. I get adults assuming I'm stupid because of my age (and what some girls my age did last year...), I have people tell their kids not to socialize with me, that...
    CanYouHearTheSilence CanYouHearTheSilence 13-15, F Sep 15

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    Every time I get close to people, I start over-scrutinizing their faults, sort of like a defense mechanism. My brain's like "oh you don't want to be with that person, he texts...
    janeastin janeastin 22-25 Sep 5

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    Just for a day I'd like to see how other people see me. I'm pretty convinced that no one sees me for who I actually am. I care a lot more than anyone knows. I don't really know...
    Isntitironic Isntitironic 31-35, F Sep 22

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    I don't know why I ever agree to "work together" with other people on assignments, because they always let me down. You might as well ask me if you can just copy everything I've...
    econmajor econmajor 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    My mom always compares me with my sister. Like she is so ******* good and I need (or should I say HAVE) to be like her. She was accepted in the best university in my country. And...
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    As I enter Year 6, everything in my life altered. I dread my class, my so called 'friends', and the crazy events.. I can't handle it anymore! My class MOSTLY FRIENDS- Not to be...
    ihatemylife236 ihatemylife236 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I always afraid about being 'other woman', you know love makes people so stupid.. Hopefully ive never been the other woman and yes i really like innocent part of love ...
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F Sep 1

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    I love my mm so very much. But there are times when he pulls away and I am sick of the games. I know it would be better to be without him. But I just cant seem to let go. Our...
    blue963 blue963 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I'm tired of explaining and proving my thoughts and my feeling to the ones who don't believe me... Nobody believes me. I just don't know why do people judge me as they don't even...
    FullTimeAloneBoy FullTimeAloneBoy 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 12

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    What is better than being in love? Helping others find love and be happy. I believe that every woman's capable of creating the love life she's always wanted. I've been on more...
    chloeloveactually chloeloveactually 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    Hmm. I thought I was mostly over that. Well, now I know my next step. I was originally supposed to have the weekend off, which is rare, since evidently I'm the only person they...
    OneEarth2 OneEarth2 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 13

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    They say be yourself,but people today judge you quickly . For example, I am always called a weirdo behind my back at school because when I clap I do it like a seal or because when...
    loonylynx loonylynx 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    Often times people have different sets of values or rules for themselves and quite scathing ones for others !!!!
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    We all judge people I understand that. What I hate when I say judge.. I mean.. being misunderstood. Being misjudged because of someone's assumptions & prejudice. After a long...
    Noobzz Noobzz 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Ok so I hate being judged in general. I would be more open about my crossdressing to people I know IRL but I'm afraid to hear there reactions and they would think differently of me...
    Poopoohead17 Poopoohead17 18-21, M Sep 3

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    Hey! Who's sick of judgment and ready to take back their power? Who's ready to take it to the "JUDGY" people in their life? You can challenge your "judgers" to a fight court, where...
    CastNow CastNow 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Omggg! I feel like I'm going crazy... My friend is always bombarding me with her issues & right now I'm going through my own. I mean I love being there for my friends but sometimes...
    Sels90 Sels90 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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    I hate when people judge me and don't take the time to get to know me. I had to find out the hard way that people like that aren't even worth my time. People tend to judge me...
    rayray87 rayray87 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 2

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    I always try to make others happy and if they seem sad, I'll check on them and ask if anything's wrong but people barely do that for me. Maybe it's just supposed to be like that.
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Sep 2

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    I find I get pleasure and satisfaction from responding to others here. The questions posed by people seeking advice on a topic give me a chance to ponder the topic to see where my...
    cuddles1266 cuddles1266 56-60, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I'm so sick of people labeling me from a distance as some weirdo that shouldn't be associated with :( I get that I'm not exactly normal by anyones definition but until you actually...
    Kurokat Kurokat 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 6

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    There is a growing trend of people posting selfie here and asking for people's comments. I've come to realise I actually enjoy seeing othet people posting their selfie, though i...
    HappieStinger HappieStinger 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    i cant get interested in ukip, as they are packed full of haters, i wont be freinds with people who are bigots, as their negativity grinds me down. i take people as i find them...
    krushonu krushonu 26-30 Sep 8

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    I actually became aware of it as a child. I noticed some people with large pure colored auras and I noticed others with small dark and cloudy auras. Even at that age I could feel...
    undisclosedone undisclosedone 70+, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    I can't stand being looked and judged on How I may act based on how im dressed. It's ridiculous! Get to know me and then judge whether you hate me or not please
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Everyone tries to put a label on me. Emo, goth, scene, etc... I really don't care what you call me, people will either avoid or bully me. Well, by the end of the day, all I have is...
    Lexi3is0dreaming Lexi3is0dreaming 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    People are so ******* messed up.They suck.Society tells you to be yourself and then judges you and messes with you and make you fall. They don't know anything about you, and then...
    SerialChiller SerialChiller 13-15, M 3 Responses Sep 12

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    Well this week was almost **** but almost great at the same time. Like what do you expect for a 13 year old girl that's still learning the rules of life? I mean it's irritating I...
    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F Sep 14

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    People are like your to small to carry that giant backpack or why are you such a short nerd. Well just because im smart and short doesnt give you any damn right to judge me Excuse...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 16

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    I mean I really don't care about what people think about me to a point but I definitely wonder what some people think about me.
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 19

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    so I made a post about how I can read a person and their intentions from how they type, their screen name, and the first five experiences. normally I'm right. so this guy is gonna...
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    People should just mind their own business and shut up. It's my life, not theirs.
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    My operation has brought a whole new perspective. I always say "I don't care for what people think of my appearance" and for the first time in my life; I actually mean it. Why...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    "Your to young for me to talk to" Bla bla bla I hate people who are like that!
    Forders2 Forders2 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I do and it is usually with some kind of spiritual advice. Now that doesn't mean that I am preaching about the God and Goddess. What that means is I like to help people through...
    Jericho7 Jericho7 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 4