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I Am Tired of Being Compared to Other People

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    Did I Go Too Far??

    I am so SICK of being compared to my sister. For years i've just been ......'s little sister. Everything i did was compared to exactly what she did. It was always "oh, well, your sister liked this" or "......... did better than that". It's really hard for me...
    Farmgirl1994 Farmgirl1994 13-15, F Jul 20, 2009

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    Tired Of Being Your Shadow

    Ha this is funny I had really tried hard to stop being jealous because you and her compared to me are perfect. I'm really tired of being compared to you guys because your moms favorite ...and she's moms 2nd favorite because she smart. You say mom loves me ha that's one of my...
    D3L13 D3L13 16-17, F Sep 2, 2011

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    I Am Nothing Like Them

    I am constantly being compared to my cousins! I fcking hate it! Whenever i want to go somewhere or do something i can't. And it's only because they think I'm going to do stupid **** like my cousins would. News Flash: I am NOTHING like them! I am my own person. I just wish it...
    freshfrika freshfrika 16-17, F Jun 4, 2009

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    Kinda Bothers Me

    I look a lot like my boyfriends ex gf. I think he had some sort of separation issue with her when she broke up with him. It took him forever to tell me all the things he did, and I took a chance on him. I'm happy, but I feel like he's afraid to lose me. I tell him I'm nothing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 1, 2011

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    Why Am I Not As Good?

    I hate being compared to my sister. Though i love her, i sometimes wish she didn't exist because im tired of being the black sheep of the family. I hate when everyone goes on and on about how great she is and then turn and ask why i can't be like her. It just really bothers...
    Lostsoul22 Lostsoul22 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    Yea

    I'm Tired of feeling like a noodle wearing a wiener custom. and watching other people eating ball park that was comparing to my wiener, and don't forget...about....the....German Sausage. no matter what they always get Lucky!!!!!!!
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    I Am Me.

    Damnit!  I get so sick of people saying, "Well, this one did this" or "That one did that".  I don't give a flying ****!  I am me, Your Brand of Heroin (it is kinda funny that my initials are in there)!  I am going to do what I...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2009

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    Seriously

    I'm so tired of being compared to other people every freaking day."If she can do it, why can't you?""Look at your cousin, getting straight A's! What happened to you?""Why can't you be more like them?"I am ME. Stop molding me to be something I'm not! It's like they just love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2011

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    I Am Me Not Her.

    For years I have been compared to my sister. We are not twins but oh they do think of us as twins. My parents as well as my entire family would make us look, act, and dress like twins. Everywhere we went we were forced to dress the same, have the same hair , eat the same meals...
    dreamer234 dreamer234 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    If you ******* compare me to someone else i will write down what you told me and put it in a blender and then shove it down your throat so you eat your ugly words.
    Kitry Kitry 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 21

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    People who don't even know me should just keep their thoughts to themselves... rather than, "No, no, no. That don't go with that," or anything like that. When I go and try on new...
    SamHarris SamHarris 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 17

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    I have no problem with letting other people seeing me naked if they wanted to, or are okay with me being naked around them. Likewise, I'm perfectly fine with those who want to be...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 13

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    i get frustrated alot when people think im annoying which im not...if they don't like what i say then they gotta deal w/ it & get over with.. it aint my problem if yall users on...
    RodrigoGalindo730 RodrigoGalindo730 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I get happy when I make other people happy. It's like it's my job to make other people happy. It's almost religious, but I don't want it to be.
    DocBonk DocBonk 18-21, M Oct 6

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    I have a major secret which sometime I am paranoid over.I am a male who acts girly when ever I am alone. The thing is "I wonder how other people view me"? When I am in my male...
    Miche1e Miche1e 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 14

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    Other people fascinate me... What makes them tick, how they handle life stresses, big and small... It's the little stuff though that I like learning about people those are the...
    tabby96 tabby96 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    One of the problems of dealing with other people is that they come with a specific point of view. Often based on their experiences, which is fair enough. But unless you know what...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    I do not like being around people just because i'm not a Christian person and keep telling me how to live my life. Why cant they just leave me alone.
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F 19 hrs ago

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    All people ever do is judge me. Im picky about my friends at school and kids im not friends with who I have never spoken to call me sl-ut and attention seeker and cocky and stuff...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    I love how some people just make u feel so **** about urself and make u start doubting urself how lovely :/
    Loverforsweets Loverforsweets 18-21, F 5 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    We have resumed our relationship after the last "break up". And I thought this time, we are going to be more stronger, but in fact, it hurts me even more. He used to ask me to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18

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    What I show to people is I think a general goodness, why being mean if you could be kind. But I know you could not just please everybody, I hate the thought that my actions are...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I used to be constantly judged. I still am but not at the same magnitude. I do not hate those who judge me or even blame them. We all judge people. Even if we subconsciously go to...
    chaoshead chaoshead 13-15, M 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    The phrase is you cast around too much for outside help particularly from women, and it is from The Trial by Franz Kafka. I think the idea behind it is about not being responsible...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Oct 5

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    The world is a horrible place. Finding your way in this world is hard enough without people putting you down at every turn. It costs people nothing not to be a decent human beings...
    touchofthereaper touchofthereaper 26-30, M Oct 22

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    Ya I make mistakes...I am human...we all do...maybe not to same level or anything but we still make them...but what really gets me is that people that don't even know me or take...
    CanadianFunk CanadianFunk 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    So what if I'm married! Just because I'm on EP doesn't mean I'm a cheat! I don't have to prove my wife is on EP. You don't know what works for us, you don't know all the new...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 14

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    If only they were capable of being helped.. I speak generally of course, some are still open to putting the effort in to fix their issue; others just want to complain for the sake...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Oct 21

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    hi, upon reading some of the experiences for days here in EP i decided to share a bit of my life.. I met this man on-line, i decided to find someone on-line because there are lots...
    ShadesofWhite67 ShadesofWhite67 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Over the last 2 days I have had a friends kids staying. In total I had 9 kids. She needed "me" time so I took them. I feel I did it as she is my only friend but she never takes my...
    bj345 bj345 31-35, F Oct 5

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    As I get older I find myself becoming difficult as to whom I let into my life. Ppl love to see others fail however I have learned to surround myself with ppl that bring me up...
    kel25 kel25 26-30 2 Responses a week ago

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    But alas, it is a thing we cannot escape. But to others credit, I am a loser. A cool loser.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I enjoy being judged by my outside cover, and being told I'm not "hang-out" material, yep and one last thing, it's hilarious how people underestimate me, and what I can do. Yeah...
    Versipora Versipora 26-30, M 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    There are many types of people, one unfortunate type I've had experienced would be the people who are stuck in the same rut so to speak. They have a way of ******* everything up...
    Anngeleyes Anngeleyes 26-30, F Oct 1

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    when we live among the positive people , we find ourself getting positive vibes from them without we!being realized..
    yashwith yashwith 22-25, M Oct 17

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    And now I seriously don't care coz I'm responsible for myself. If I don't look after me, who will? It's wrong to expect people to do the same and I cannot blame anyone but myself...
    NtshaK NtshaK 22-25, F Oct 2

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    I do care what people think of me. If people don't like my colored lipstick I remove it. Or eyeshadow look. I remove that off my face. I don't want to be talked about. I used to...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 6

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    Like most, I've always been judged either as a posh git to the polar opposite who was probably bought over the Internet. Just a quick disclaimer, I have graduated university with...
    EstuaryRivers EstuaryRivers 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    I don't know why I thought I could share online to strangers cause I can't bare to share with my friends.. when people are just cruel. How do you say horrible things to people you...
    tracmacp tracmacp 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    A couple of days ago I was on the train and on my way to school these three people started talking about me making fun of my hair and making fun of what I was wearing, it really...
    Melissa7414 Melissa7414 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    The most people that i jealous of is those people who have a true bestfriend that they can do things together , go travelling together, ect.. Its real hard to find one ...
    Unstableteen Unstableteen 13-15, F Oct 2

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    Which hurts like hell when you realise most people dont give a damn about you. Im the sorta guy that don't mind lending money if you need it, who will wait patiently for you to...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M Oct 6

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    Thinking ! I maybe wrong with writing this, for today right now that all that matters. I may not be the brightest crayon in this big box. Sure I have made some stupid choices along...
    Keith4k Keith4k 46-50, M Oct 7

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    I am bubbly and crazy. But sadly some people think I am attention whoring... *Goes to corner* :c *Le sob*
    ArcticPotato ArcticPotato 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    I want to "Be there" for people. Message me to talk.
    summertimeluv summertimeluv 26-30, M Oct 14

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    I've never really been able to relate to people's emotions... or at least, I haven't been able to in the last year or so. I know I sound completely horrible, but I don't know how...
    VeronicaVoom VeronicaVoom 18-21, F Oct 15

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    I hate people who judged me and worst come to worst those who doesnt even know me. Hello? who the hell r u to judge me by means in the bus or down the street. Just becus im fat n...
    llamaxxi llamaxxi 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 21

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    I dislike that people are unable to engage in meaningful discourse if their perception of issues or ideology is compromised in any way, shape, or form.
    trextrex1029 trextrex1029 41-45, M Oct 21