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I Am Tired of Being Compared to Other People

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    Why Am I Not As Good?

    I hate being compared to my sister. Though i love her, i sometimes wish she didn't exist because im tired of being the black sheep of the family. I hate when everyone goes on and on about how great she is and then turn and ask why i can't be like her. It just really bothers...
    Lostsoul22 Lostsoul22 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    Did I Go Too Far??

    I am so SICK of being compared to my sister. For years i've just been ......'s little sister. Everything i did was compared to exactly what she did. It was always "oh, well, your sister liked this" or "......... did better than that". It's really hard for me...
    Farmgirl1994 Farmgirl1994 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2009

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    I told my friend I liked her

    and she said I wasn't like her last ex and that it wouldn't happen because I'm not great personality wise like others.
    NerdyGalacticCupcake NerdyGalacticCupcake 16-17, T Dec 12, 2014

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    Tired Of Being Your Shadow

    Ha this is funny I had really tried hard to stop being jealous because you and her compared to me are perfect. I'm really tired of being compared to you guys because your moms favorite ...and she's moms 2nd favorite because she smart. You say mom loves me ha that's one of my...
    D3L13 D3L13 16-17, F Sep 2, 2011

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    When I was in 8th grade,

    I met this girl and she was like instantly my best friend, we were so close, we told each other everything. We would ignore our other friends and go off by ourselves to hangout and talk about everything. Nothing is awkward with her. We both speak exactly what is on our minds and...
    whydoifuckingexist whydoifuckingexist 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2014

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    Yea

    I'm Tired of feeling like a noodle wearing a wiener custom. and watching other people eating ball park that was comparing to my wiener, and don't forget...about....the....German Sausage. no matter what they always get Lucky!!!!!!!
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    I Am Me Not Her.

    For years I have been compared to my sister. We are not twins but oh they do think of us as twins. My parents as well as my entire family would make us look, act, and dress like twins. Everywhere we went we were forced to dress the same, have the same hair , eat the same meals...
    dreamer234 dreamer234 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Kinda Bothers Me

    I look a lot like my boyfriends ex gf. I think he had some sort of separation issue with her when she broke up with him. It took him forever to tell me all the things he did, and I took a chance on him. I'm happy, but I feel like he's afraid to lose me. I tell him I'm nothing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 1, 2011

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    I Am Me.

    Damnit!  I get so sick of people saying, "Well, this one did this" or "That one did that".  I don't give a flying ****!  I am me, Your Brand of Heroin (it is kinda funny that my initials are in there)!  I am going to do what I...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2009

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    Seriously

    I'm so tired of being compared to other people every freaking day."If she can do it, why can't you?""Look at your cousin, getting straight A's! What happened to you?""Why can't you be more like them?"I am ME. Stop molding me to be something I'm not! It's like they just love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2011

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    I Am Nothing Like Them

    I am constantly being compared to my cousins! I fcking hate it! Whenever i want to go somewhere or do something i can't. And it's only because they think I'm going to do stupid **** like my cousins would. News Flash: I am NOTHING like them! I am my own person. I just wish it...
    freshfrika freshfrika 16-17, F Jun 4, 2009

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    I have always been compared to my sister.

    ... even though we are nothing alike. I prefer the peaceful serenity of the night, whereas she is the pretty pixie loving the daylight. I get things like "Your nothing like her." or "Why aren't you like your sister?". It's annoying. We react differently. I handle pain with a...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F Dec 14, 2014

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    Related Experiences

    Just because I'm pregnant my mom compares me to other people my age and saying that they're not pregnant. God mom I'm not the only pregnant teenager in the world ugh
    addielove addielove 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    I no longer care what others think about me. This is who I am, I am who I am and I will NOT change for anyone. I know I am different than other people. I am in my own world. I...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M Jan 15

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    I am too ashamed to say what's on my mind right now. Feeling ashamed And I want to be totally honest I am afraid of what other ladies or other people might say.
    TimothyButler TimothyButler 41-45, M Jan 11

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    oh if I could see myself in other people's shoes I would
    ashleeyj5 ashleeyj5 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    i hate when people treat me like a child and expect me to act like an adult
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Last night he came over. We had passionate, amazing sex. He held me after, his arm around me with my head on his chest listening to his breathing slowing down. His eyes were closed...
    IamLisaSimpson IamLisaSimpson 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    OMG so I've had like the worst day at collage. I'm sick and tired of these girls looking down their noses at me and purposely being akward with me, I'm like "okai gurl i give it to...
    Prettygirl345 Prettygirl345 18-21, T 3 Responses Jan 14

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    I'm in college, 3rd year, and I will admit I don't really know any people like that and I never tried to make an effort to. Sure I talk to others, but I've always been that one to...
    vadupree vadupree 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    My name is Angel Orion Nevarious, and I am a hybrid; as in half angel, vampire. I can walk in the day as well as the night by day by night. I have not met any others like myself, I...
    AngelOrionNevarious AngelOrionNevarious 22-25, M Jan 2

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    making people smile makes me happy. i know how hard it can be to smile without it being a fake one so when i see a real smile on someone's face it just makes me happy to see that...
    xxpawprintsxx xxpawprintsxx 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    The one thing that irritates me more is when people from other countries just see me as a 'Typical English white guy' type and instantly tarnish me with the same brush as their own...
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Back when I was younger, I used to like to be around people and big crowds. Now these days I do not. I like to be left alone, and away from others. It would be nice if it was meant...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M Jan 15

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    We all have lived through experiences, whether good or bad, that we could hardly imagine. And these experiences frame us who we are; what we are. So let's not be impulsive in...
    hiddentears hiddentears 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    There are so many times I would like to grab the putrid flesh being by the head and smash it into the ground. But people are too sensitive nowadays and deem that as unacceptable.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    Why is it that people think they can "change" my sexuality. I never made a choice about who i was attracted to. It wasnt because of a bad experience, it wasnt because i woke up one...
    Ashleyy2 Ashleyy2 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 4

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    I hate being judged and have people make their assumptions about me and my life without them knowing me. So frustrating. People look at me and my condition and just assume what...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I can feel others emotions and pain..if someone has guts to share their thoughts and pains but no melodrama please ..sick of the perverts who just do that for the sake of attention...
    deephuman deephuman 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    I just hate when people judge me even though they never met me and dont know who i am. Just gimme a steel chair and i'll wack their *****. Like, who raised you people ? Dont you...
    annaambrose annaambrose 13-15 Jan 12

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    Whenever I am bored I always wonder how people see me. Do I seem like a friendly and open individual? Reserved? Do I look pleasant to the eyes? I am not a self-conscious girl, oh...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I try to be as nice, understanding & non-judgmental as I can. Problem is, I worry about saying the wrong thing and making things worse, which would make me feel depressed as well...
    nightpatroller78 nightpatroller78 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    you know when you walk into a room full of people and everyone just stares at you to the point that they make you feel exposed and naked LOL?
    Bayzar Bayzar 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    If you judge people based on looks or rumors you have heard, then you deserve the **** you get from those you deem 'worthy' of talking to you. I never judge a person without trying...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jan 1

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    No matter what happens, people will always judge you. It depends on you if you'll give a damn **** about them :)
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I know this world everybody going to judge u n you have to accept it even if it's good r bad but damn I hate it people should WANNA get to know me b4 u judge me the worst when it's...
    Moneea Moneea 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    Have you ever just watched someone from a distant? Not in a creepy or stalker way just see them and think she's pretty, or she has a cute butt, I like the way she smiles, or even...
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 13

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    I do this all the time and it bugs me EVERYTIME I walk in a store or somn I think hmm what are these people thinking bout this dude who just walked in
    Funnychase66 Funnychase66 16-17, M Jan 19

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    Trust me if I want your attention I'll ask. I don't not know why people tell me I'm seeking attention even I was minding my own business and blame me for their problems.
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    F**king hate it when people are judged by strangers; just because you know exactly what they like/love, and know what you want in life. Don't judge me when you don't know me...
    Varjo Varjo 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate that some people come to say mean things about me and they don't even know me... What have I done that makes them hate me?
    shethia shethia 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love to make people happy go subscribe to my comedy channel on YouTube! It's called VivaLaVid! I just uploaded a new Indian taste testing video where I taste tested Indian snacks...
    lostdream4 lostdream4 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I respect your right to your opinion, but I hate stereotypes. I know some of them are true, but you should always err on the side of caution. If I have offended you, if I have...
    moonchild0315 moonchild0315 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I haven't been on here in a while. I'm glad im back. Anyone wanna chat
    mischifmaker mischifmaker 16-17, F Dec 30, 2014

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    I'll do things on my own time . I don't need to fit in
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    We repaired the 12 busted machines You get the criminal while Their the machine ..not after You will never see their face
    ok444 ok444 51-55, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Just like **** off already!! XD :P
    shortfry3 shortfry3 13-15, F