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I Am Tired of Being Compared to Other People

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    Did I Go Too Far??

    I am so SICK of being compared to my sister. For years i've just been ......'s little sister. Everything i did was compared to exactly what she did. It was always "oh, well, your sister liked this" or "......... did better than that". It's really hard for me...
    Farmgirl1994 Farmgirl1994 13-15, F Jul 20, 2009

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    Why Am I Not As Good?

    I hate being compared to my sister. Though i love her, i sometimes wish she didn't exist because im tired of being the black sheep of the family. I hate when everyone goes on and on about how great she is and then turn and ask why i can't be like her. It just really bothers...
    Lostsoul22 Lostsoul22 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    Tired Of Being Your Shadow

    Ha this is funny I had really tried hard to stop being jealous because you and her compared to me are perfect. I'm really tired of being compared to you guys because your moms favorite ...and she's moms 2nd favorite because she smart. You say mom loves me ha that's one of my...
    D3L13 D3L13 16-17, F Sep 2, 2011

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    Yea

    I'm Tired of feeling like a noodle wearing a wiener custom. and watching other people eating ball park that was comparing to my wiener, and don't forget...about....the....German Sausage. no matter what they always get Lucky!!!!!!!
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    Seriously

    I'm so tired of being compared to other people every freaking day."If she can do it, why can't you?""Look at your cousin, getting straight A's! What happened to you?""Why can't you be more like them?"I am ME. Stop molding me to be something I'm not! It's like they just love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2011

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    I Am Me.

    Damnit!  I get so sick of people saying, "Well, this one did this" or "That one did that".  I don't give a flying ****!  I am me, Your Brand of Heroin (it is kinda funny that my initials are in there)!  I am going to do what I...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2009

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    I Am Nothing Like Them

    I am constantly being compared to my cousins! I fcking hate it! Whenever i want to go somewhere or do something i can't. And it's only because they think I'm going to do stupid **** like my cousins would. News Flash: I am NOTHING like them! I am my own person. I just wish it...
    freshfrika freshfrika 16-17, F Jun 4, 2009

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    I Am Me Not Her.

    For years I have been compared to my sister. We are not twins but oh they do think of us as twins. My parents as well as my entire family would make us look, act, and dress like twins. Everywhere we went we were forced to dress the same, have the same hair , eat the same meals...
    dreamer234 dreamer234 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Kinda Bothers Me

    I look a lot like my boyfriends ex gf. I think he had some sort of separation issue with her when she broke up with him. It took him forever to tell me all the things he did, and I took a chance on him. I'm happy, but I feel like he's afraid to lose me. I tell him I'm nothing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 1, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Seems like people around me love to compare me to other people. My mom, my dad, my acquaintances, my relatives, everyone. I'm really tired of it. Like for real, I am not them, I am...
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M Sep 29

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    If you ******* compare me to someone else i will write down what you told me and put it in a blender and then shove it down your throat so you eat your ugly words.
    Kitry Kitry 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Being around other people helped me realize I will always truly be alone. No one will ever understand me fully or have respect for me as an individual as a result. I am not a robot...
    Deadlynightshade5 Deadlynightshade5 22-25, F Sep 27

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    People who don't even know me should just keep their thoughts to themselves... rather than, "No, no, no. That don't go with that," or anything like that. When I go and try on new...
    SamHarris SamHarris 22-25, M a week ago

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    I have no problem with letting other people seeing me naked if they wanted to, or are okay with me being naked around them. Likewise, I'm perfectly fine with those who want to be...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    I get happy when I make other people happy. It's like it's my job to make other people happy. It's almost religious, but I don't want it to be.
    DocBonk DocBonk 18-21, M Oct 6

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    I have a major secret which sometime I am paranoid over.I am a male who acts girly when ever I am alone. The thing is "I wonder how other people view me"? When I am in my male...
    Miche1e Miche1e 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 14

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    As I get older I find myself becoming difficult as to whom I let into my life. Ppl love to see others fail however I have learned to surround myself with ppl that bring me up...
    kel25 kel25 26-30 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    All people ever do is judge me. Im picky about my friends at school and kids im not friends with who I have never spoken to call me sl-ut and attention seeker and cocky and stuff...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Through out my whole entire life I always put others before my own needs; The reason behind why I do so is because I never had any one to fully support me or stand behind me. So...
    Lstill1976 Lstill1976 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    We have resumed our relationship after the last "break up". And I thought this time, we are going to be more stronger, but in fact, it hurts me even more. He used to ask me to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    The phrase is you cast around too much for outside help particularly from women, and it is from The Trial by Franz Kafka. I think the idea behind it is about not being responsible...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Oct 5

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    The world is a horrible place. Finding your way in this world is hard enough without people putting you down at every turn. It costs people nothing not to be a decent human beings...
    touchofthereaper touchofthereaper 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    We all judge people I understand that. What I hate when I say judge.. I mean.. being misunderstood. Being misjudged because of someone's assumptions & prejudice. After a long...
    Noobzz Noobzz 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    So what if I'm married! Just because I'm on EP doesn't mean I'm a cheat! I don't have to prove my wife is on EP. You don't know what works for us, you don't know all the new...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 14

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    If only they were capable of being helped.. I speak generally of course, some are still open to putting the effort in to fix their issue; others just want to complain for the sake...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    Over the last 2 days I have had a friends kids staying. In total I had 9 kids. She needed "me" time so I took them. I feel I did it as she is my only friend but she never takes my...
    bj345 bj345 31-35, F Oct 5

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    There are many types of people, one unfortunate type I've had experienced would be the people who are stuck in the same rut so to speak. They have a way of ******* everything up...
    Anngeleyes Anngeleyes 26-30, F Oct 1

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    when we live among the positive people , we find ourself getting positive vibes from them without we!being realized..
    yashwith yashwith 22-25, M a week ago

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    I can't stand being looked and judged on How I may act based on how im dressed. It's ridiculous! Get to know me and then judge whether you hate me or not please
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    Everyone tries to put a label on me. Emo, goth, scene, etc... I really don't care what you call me, people will either avoid or bully me. Well, by the end of the day, all I have is...
    Lexi3is0dreaming Lexi3is0dreaming 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    And now I seriously don't care coz I'm responsible for myself. If I don't look after me, who will? It's wrong to expect people to do the same and I cannot blame anyone but myself...
    NtshaK NtshaK 18-21, F Oct 2

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    I do care what people think of me. If people don't like my colored lipstick I remove it. Or eyeshadow look. I remove that off my face. I don't want to be talked about. I used to...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 6

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    Like most, I've always been judged either as a posh git to the polar opposite who was probably bought over the Internet. Just a quick disclaimer, I have graduated university with...
    EstuaryRivers EstuaryRivers 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    I think the world would be a better place if people cared more for themselves and others.
    BillyJean82 BillyJean82 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I don't know why I thought I could share online to strangers cause I can't bare to share with my friends.. when people are just cruel. How do you say horrible things to people you...
    tracmacp tracmacp 18-21, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    "Your to young for me to talk to" Bla bla bla I hate people who are like that!
    Forders2 Forders2 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 28

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    The most people that i jealous of is those people who have a true bestfriend that they can do things together , go travelling together, ect.. Its real hard to find one ...
    Unstableteen Unstableteen 13-15, F Oct 2

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    Which hurts like hell when you realise most people dont give a damn about you. Im the sorta guy that don't mind lending money if you need it, who will wait patiently for you to...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M Oct 6

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    Thinking ! I maybe wrong with writing this, for today right now that all that matters. I may not be the brightest crayon in this big box. Sure I have made some stupid choices along...
    Keith4k Keith4k 46-50, M Oct 7

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    I am bubbly and crazy. But sadly some people think I am attention whoring... *Goes to corner* :c *Le sob*
    ArcticPotato ArcticPotato 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    I want to "Be there" for people. Message me to talk.
    summertimeluv summertimeluv 26-30, M Oct 14

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    I've never really been able to relate to people's emotions... or at least, I haven't been able to in the last year or so. I know I sound completely horrible, but I don't know how...
    VeronicaVoom VeronicaVoom 18-21, F Oct 15

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    I hate people who judged me and worst come to worst those who doesnt even know me. Hello? who the hell r u to judge me by means in the bus or down the street. Just becus im fat n...
    llamaxxi llamaxxi 13-15, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I dislike that people are unable to engage in meaningful discourse if their perception of issues or ideology is compromised in any way, shape, or form.
    trextrex1029 trextrex1029 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    Even tho ur not happy,you keep making others happy a smile is a prove of happiness..
    Nano567 Nano567 16-17, F Sep 25

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    I would like to help people on EP I hope my advice could help them
    LSCouple LSCouple 26-30, F Sep 27

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    Is this how people see Emos? For real?
    KOOLKAT446 KOOLKAT446 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    Not jealousy (Well, maybe a little) but it's so spoiled! I hate lotteries in general. First of all, it's like a game to be rich. You bet on your own personal money that you earned...
    DarkZircon78 DarkZircon78 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 13