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I Am Tired of Being Compared to Other People

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    I Am Me.

    Damnit!  I get so sick of people saying, "Well, this one did this" or "That one did that".  I don't give a flying ****!  I am me, Your Brand of Heroin (it is kinda funny that my initials are in there)!  I am going to do what I...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2009

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    Seriously

    I'm so tired of being compared to other people every freaking day."If she can do it, why can't you?""Look at your cousin, getting straight A's! What happened to you?""Why can't you be more like them?"I am ME. Stop molding me to be something I'm not! It's like they just love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2011

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    Yea

    I'm Tired of feeling like a noodle wearing a wiener custom. and watching other people eating ball park that was comparing to my wiener, and don't forget...about....the....German Sausage. no matter what they always get Lucky!!!!!!!
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    Tired Of Being Your Shadow

    Ha this is funny I had really tried hard to stop being jealous because you and her compared to me are perfect. I'm really tired of being compared to you guys because your moms favorite ...and she's moms 2nd favorite because she smart. You say mom loves me ha that's one of my...
    D3L13 D3L13 16-17, F Sep 2, 2011

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    Kinda Bothers Me

    I look a lot like my boyfriends ex gf. I think he had some sort of separation issue with her when she broke up with him. It took him forever to tell me all the things he did, and I took a chance on him. I'm happy, but I feel like he's afraid to lose me. I tell him I'm nothing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 1, 2011

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    I Am Me Not Her.

    For years I have been compared to my sister. We are not twins but oh they do think of us as twins. My parents as well as my entire family would make us look, act, and dress like twins. Everywhere we went we were forced to dress the same, have the same hair , eat the same meals...
    dreamer234 dreamer234 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Why Am I Not As Good?

    I hate being compared to my sister. Though i love her, i sometimes wish she didn't exist because im tired of being the black sheep of the family. I hate when everyone goes on and on about how great she is and then turn and ask why i can't be like her. It just really bothers...
    Lostsoul22 Lostsoul22 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    I Am Nothing Like Them

    I am constantly being compared to my cousins! I fcking hate it! Whenever i want to go somewhere or do something i can't. And it's only because they think I'm going to do stupid **** like my cousins would. News Flash: I am NOTHING like them! I am my own person. I just wish it...
    freshfrika freshfrika 16-17, F Jun 4, 2009

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    Did I Go Too Far??

    I am so SICK of being compared to my sister. For years i've just been ......'s little sister. Everything i did was compared to exactly what she did. It was always "oh, well, your sister liked this" or "......... did better than that". It's really hard for me...
    Farmgirl1994 Farmgirl1994 13-15, F Jul 20, 2009

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    I love my children... no matter what and wouldn't miss a day with them! But OTHER peoples' kids? No babysitting, no running around my house, no parroting your idiot parents...
    MooMooKittyKat MooMooKittyKat 31-35, F Jul 5

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    I have always wondered how other people view and see me, like do they see me in a good or bad way, what's the first thing that pops into their head when they see me, I find it very...
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    Not looking for a response or a comment by someone that wants to give me a life lesson or thinks he or she is a miss or mr know it all. However I just wanted to say don't judge me...
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    I'm just sick and tired of giving my all to someone and then being let down, I hate that **** so much and as much as I don't want to admit it, it breaks my heart. It's just so...
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    How did I get myself in a mixed up relationship ? Better yet how do I get out of it ?? Please help me. . I have been the other woman for a year and a half. I would have never...
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    I am American born,with West African Parents. People always ask me why I look Asian. They say you look like my Chinese friend except with dark skin. People say you have Asian...
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    I come from and live in a place where people make others feel bad for being themselves. In this city, people have the same personality and style. I'm different. I thinks it's...
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    I would love to know what the fake people on here get from here. Does it make you feel secure to mess with people? are you that lonely that you have to create a personality? Does...
    giggles78758 giggles78758 36-40, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am the oldest child of 3 children. We all share the same drug addict mother, however we each have different drug addict parents. I was Taken away from my mother right before my 1...
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    I just got blocked by someone who is courage enough to judge me behind a screen even though she doesn't know me and smart enough to know that I'm a liar! Ms Brunette4U your...
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    I just made this account and was somewhat enjoying a place where I can be completely honest and speak about situations that I gave never once spoken about or feelings but already I...
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    People judge me Right when they look at me they think I'm a stuck up ***** that's looks for a hot guy and that's all we'll I'm not and all I want is for people to know me before...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I haven’t posted in a while. It hurts too much to write sometimes. My MM and I broke up over two months ago. The last time we talked was April 29. We both love each other deeply...
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    I'm always being judged everywhere I go. I have never judged a person in my life so why do people judge me? People always assume that because I believe in the supernatural that I...
    wolflover1648 wolflover1648 16-17 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am wondering what people say when I'm not there; what people think of me; how I come across to others. I'm just worried that people don't like me :(
    CharlieSGisenburg CharlieSGisenburg 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It doesn't happen everyday, but when I am around positive people it's refreshing 😊 I feel like I need to push all that negativity that been in my life for years and just...
    drama16queen1997 drama16queen1997 16-17, F Jun 26

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    Annoying habit I want to change..I hate saying it but I'm so obsessed with what people think of me sometimes,with comparing myself to others whether im better or there better than...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Ugh!!! People say I'm pretty or cute!! People I am not!!! I'm an ugly!!! I can't see what people see and when I look in the mirror I'm like " eww your ugly how can people call you...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F Jun 27

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    I hate people who judge me when they have never met me and don't know me... Like, for example, on social media.... When people think they can judge me.. Telling me what I am and...
    mmello00 mmello00 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I am always judged by people around me. People think I am slow or too weird and its really hurtful. I am never nasty to people I go out of my way to be nice to them, but everyone...
    joelex300 joelex300 18-21, M Jul 4

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    I would give my life for someone I don't know. I forgive too fast, I give too many chances to undeserving people. I love everyone, I do not have people that I don't like I try my...
    Kaylamarie9413 Kaylamarie9413 16-17, F Jul 6

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    I really enjoy quietly spending time with my friends while I'm high, but I absolutely dread having to meet new people or be around new people while I'm high. Anyone else?
    spencerlong spencerlong 16-17, M Jul 9

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    People are so judgemental it's pathetic. They don't realise how much their actions or words can be damaging to someone especially when they don't know the situation in full
    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    What do people think of you? I often wonder this, and I know I shouldn't care....but I can't help but wonder how I am perceived. To strangers on the streets, to people I just meet...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I do.... At time though, something i have noticed, is a lot of people posting certain stories, just to get on the popular age.. and i'm sure you all know what kind of posts i am...
    cbeneath cbeneath 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    after volunteering at places for the less fortunate I have come to see that people who has a lot to be grateful for are the ones who complain the most and become such a negative...
    rukesh3 rukesh3 18-21, F Jul 10

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    becouse if people would really took the time out to know me they would get a different perspective an understanding of who i really am as a person :)
    lonelyLonny lonelyLonny 31-35, M Jul 11

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    I really do cherish cooking for people. I enjoy the feeling of working for however long it takes to provide a meal that's not only composed of different ingredients, but also...
    Masterofbating Masterofbating 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    Yeah. How do people see me? There is a computer screen in the way! What is this, x-ray eyes? Anyway, sarcasm finished. How do people see me? I think I'm seen in two completely...
    InternationalDarkness InternationalDarkness 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Just Can't..I do not have the skill like some people have and SUFFER.....yes I made my favorite teacher laugh once... but I like to get the power to do it like every single day..
    allthewaysaround allthewaysaround 22-25, F Jun 25

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    Wouldn't it just be so awesome if we could see what we really are? Like, I wonder who I really am, what I really look like, what I act like, what people think of me. Because omg, I...
    TotesForReals TotesForReals 13-15, F Jun 27

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    When I see myself I see everything wrong, I hate how I look most of the time, but people say I am not ugly so WHY don't I see what they see?
    annieannana annieannana 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27