Post

I Am Tired of Being Compared to Other People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 101 People

    Yea

    I'm Tired of feeling like a noodle wearing a wiener custom. and watching other people eating ball park that was comparing to my wiener, and don't forget...about....the....German Sausage. no matter what they always get Lucky!!!!!!!
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Seriously

    I'm so tired of being compared to other people every freaking day."If she can do it, why can't you?""Look at your cousin, getting straight A's! What happened to you?""Why can't you be more like them?"I am ME. Stop molding me to be something I'm not! It's like they just love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Did I Go Too Far??

    I am so SICK of being compared to my sister. For years i've just been ......'s little sister. Everything i did was compared to exactly what she did. It was always "oh, well, your sister liked this" or "......... did better than that". It's really hard for me...
    Farmgirl1994 Farmgirl1994 13-15, F Jul 20, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why Am I Not As Good?

    I hate being compared to my sister. Though i love her, i sometimes wish she didn't exist because im tired of being the black sheep of the family. I hate when everyone goes on and on about how great she is and then turn and ask why i can't be like her. It just really bothers...
    Lostsoul22 Lostsoul22 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am Me.

    Damnit!  I get so sick of people saying, "Well, this one did this" or "That one did that".  I don't give a flying ****!  I am me, Your Brand of Heroin (it is kinda funny that my initials are in there)!  I am going to do what I...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Tired Of Being Your Shadow

    Ha this is funny I had really tried hard to stop being jealous because you and her compared to me are perfect. I'm really tired of being compared to you guys because your moms favorite ...and she's moms 2nd favorite because she smart. You say mom loves me ha that's one of my...
    D3L13 D3L13 16-17, F Sep 2, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am Nothing Like Them

    I am constantly being compared to my cousins! I fcking hate it! Whenever i want to go somewhere or do something i can't. And it's only because they think I'm going to do stupid **** like my cousins would. News Flash: I am NOTHING like them! I am my own person. I just wish it...
    freshfrika freshfrika 16-17, F Jun 4, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am Me Not Her.

    For years I have been compared to my sister. We are not twins but oh they do think of us as twins. My parents as well as my entire family would make us look, act, and dress like twins. Everywhere we went we were forced to dress the same, have the same hair , eat the same meals...
    dreamer234 dreamer234 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 20, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Kinda Bothers Me

    I look a lot like my boyfriends ex gf. I think he had some sort of separation issue with her when she broke up with him. It took him forever to tell me all the things he did, and I took a chance on him. I'm happy, but I feel like he's afraid to lose me. I tell him I'm nothing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 1, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    My mom and grandfather ALWAYS compares me to other people my age. Mostly my mom. Constantly. Every. *******. Day. She compares me to other people around my age, telling me, "oh...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    it's so annoying to be compared to other People but much irritated to be compared with my older Brother. They always compared us from our physical aspects down to our different...
    kiminion14 kiminion14 18-21, M Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    We judge others instantly by their clothes, their cars, their appearance, their race, their education, their social status. The list is endless. What gets me is that most people...
    bitchybeck bitchybeck 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Today I woke up the day after reading an article about not caring what other people think and for the first time in quite a long while I feel free. 1. people are ALWAYS judging...
    Badtimanonymous Badtimanonymous 31-35, M 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me grow up
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love my children... no matter what and wouldn't miss a day with them! But OTHER peoples' kids? No babysitting, no running around my house, no parroting your idiot parents...
    MooMooKittyKat MooMooKittyKat 31-35, F Jul 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have always wondered how other people view and see me, like do they see me in a good or bad way, what's the first thing that pops into their head when they see me, I find it very...
    SarahBBZ SarahBBZ 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's not a secret that a lot of us think about how other people see ourselves. I've been wondering about that for a long time. And for half of my teenage years, I've been staying...
    AnEverWonderer AnEverWonderer 16-17, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hear people say I'm pretty or hot, but when I look in the mirror I don't understand and I remind myself of the guys who've let me go and think that there must be something wrong...
    flowerchloe48 flowerchloe48 13-15, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 31 years old going on 50 lol I'm mature for my age and prefer the company of older people. People my age tend to be self absorbed immature, nothing worse than someone who...
    Submissivekitten1982 Submissivekitten1982 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate it when people think I'm lying about my age! Just because I'm on a higher maturity level than other adolescents my age doesn't mean I'd lie about my age. Duh.
    XxbixtchybellaxX XxbixtchybellaxX 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    A lot of people my age are really immature but I'm super mature for my age
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have a sister that left a very large mark when she was on high school. A debator, pretty, a leader, and someone that everyone looks up to. She was an admirable person despite her...
    sukkiteiinayo sukkiteiinayo 13-15, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm just sick and tired of giving my all to someone and then being let down, I hate that **** so much and as much as I don't want to admit it, it breaks my heart. It's just so...
    Neshaxo Neshaxo 16-17, F Jul 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I come from and live in a place where people make others feel bad for being themselves. In this city, people have the same personality and style. I'm different. I thinks it's...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't want to say hate so I'll use the word dislike. I dislike when human beings try to bring other human beings down just boost their ego, make them feel powerful and more...
    wolflover1648 wolflover1648 16-17 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's gotten to the point that I can't even trust anyone anymore out of fear they are just playing with me like the many other times.
    Nightfang109 Nightfang109 13-15, M 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I would love to know what the fake people on here get from here. Does it make you feel secure to mess with people? are you that lonely that you have to create a personality? Does...
    giggles78758 giggles78758 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ok so I have DID (dissociative identity disorder aka multiple personality disorder) and I wanted to be on EP to meet others that have my disorder and become friends with them. But...
    MultipleRex MultipleRex 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am the oldest child of 3 children. We all share the same drug addict mother, however we each have different drug addict parents. I was Taken away from my mother right before my 1...
    secretdestiny secretdestiny 18-21, F Jul 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just got blocked by someone who is courage enough to judge me behind a screen even though she doesn't know me and smart enough to know that I'm a liar! Ms Brunette4U your...
    Allurance Allurance 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm usually the one that make people laugh. I like to make people laugh, it makes me laugh at my own silliness and it feels good to laugh even for a little while. Being this way...
    knls knls 18-21, F Jul 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just made this account and was somewhat enjoying a place where I can be completely honest and speak about situations that I gave never once spoken about or feelings but already I...
    oabutler oabutler 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm always being judged everywhere I go. I have never judged a person in my life so why do people judge me? People always assume that because I believe in the supernatural that I...
    wolflover1648 wolflover1648 16-17 2 Responses Jul 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am wondering what people say when I'm not there; what people think of me; how I come across to others. I'm just worried that people don't like me :(
    MyOwnSpectrum MyOwnSpectrum 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know how to change my outlook. Every time I check my Instagram there's someone with a best friend, someone going on holiday, someone being free and happy.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    EP has proven to me how much people can judge. Let me start off by saying that it's taken me 12 years to show my face on a social networking site because long ago when I first...
    JudeLeDude JudeLeDude 22-25, M 5 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate people who judge me when they have never met me and don't know me... Like, for example, on social media.... When people think they can judge me.. Telling me what I am and...
    mmello00 mmello00 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am always judged by people around me. People think I am slow or too weird and its really hurtful. I am never nasty to people I go out of my way to be nice to them, but everyone...
    joelex300 joelex300 18-21, M Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I would give my life for someone I don't know. I forgive too fast, I give too many chances to undeserving people. I love everyone, I do not have people that I don't like I try my...
    Kaylamarie9413 Kaylamarie9413 16-17, F Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really enjoy quietly spending time with my friends while I'm high, but I absolutely dread having to meet new people or be around new people while I'm high. Anyone else?
    spencerlong spencerlong 16-17, M Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    What do people think of you? I often wonder this, and I know I shouldn't care....but I can't help but wonder how I am perceived. To strangers on the streets, to people I just meet...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I do.... At time though, something i have noticed, is a lot of people posting certain stories, just to get on the popular age.. and i'm sure you all know what kind of posts i am...
    cbeneath cbeneath 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    after volunteering at places for the less fortunate I have come to see that people who has a lot to be grateful for are the ones who complain the most and become such a negative...
    rukesh3 rukesh3 18-21, F Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    becouse if people would really took the time out to know me they would get a different perspective an understanding of who i really am as a person :)
    lonelyLonny lonelyLonny 31-35, M Jul 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Yeah. How do people see me? There is a computer screen in the way! What is this, x-ray eyes? Anyway, sarcasm finished. How do people see me? I think I'm seen in two completely...
    InternationalDarkness InternationalDarkness 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Yea I don't give a **** if people don't like me the way I am i'mma do **** that make me happy as ****, if people don't like you then **** them :)
    blackpower15 blackpower15 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Mostly, I'd like to show them how wrong they are! Just kidding! I have 43 years of life experience and I'd like to think I have learned a few things. I do get great satisfaction...
    RaverFan RaverFan 41-45 Jul 2

    Your Response

    Cancel