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I Am Tired of Being Compared to Other People

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    Yea

    I'm Tired of feeling like a noodle wearing a wiener custom. and watching other people eating ball park that was comparing to my wiener, and don't forget...about....the....German Sausage. no matter what they always get Lucky!!!!!!!
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    Kinda Bothers Me

    I look a lot like my boyfriends ex gf. I think he had some sort of separation issue with her when she broke up with him. It took him forever to tell me all the things he did, and I took a chance on him. I'm happy, but I feel like he's afraid to lose me. I tell him I'm nothing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 1, 2011

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    I Am Me Not Her.

    For years I have been compared to my sister. We are not twins but oh they do think of us as twins. My parents as well as my entire family would make us look, act, and dress like twins. Everywhere we went we were forced to dress the same, have the same hair , eat the same meals...
    dreamer234 dreamer234 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    I Am Nothing Like Them

    I am constantly being compared to my cousins! I fcking hate it! Whenever i want to go somewhere or do something i can't. And it's only because they think I'm going to do stupid **** like my cousins would. News Flash: I am NOTHING like them! I am my own person. I just wish it...
    freshfrika freshfrika 16-17, F Jun 4, 2009

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    Did I Go Too Far??

    I am so SICK of being compared to my sister. For years i've just been ......'s little sister. Everything i did was compared to exactly what she did. It was always "oh, well, your sister liked this" or "......... did better than that". It's really hard for me...
    Farmgirl1994 Farmgirl1994 13-15, F Jul 20, 2009

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    Tired Of Being Your Shadow

    Ha this is funny I had really tried hard to stop being jealous because you and her compared to me are perfect. I'm really tired of being compared to you guys because your moms favorite ...and she's moms 2nd favorite because she smart. You say mom loves me ha that's one of my...
    D3L13 D3L13 16-17, F Sep 2, 2011

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    Seriously

    I'm so tired of being compared to other people every freaking day."If she can do it, why can't you?""Look at your cousin, getting straight A's! What happened to you?""Why can't you be more like them?"I am ME. Stop molding me to be something I'm not! It's like they just love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2011

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    Why Am I Not As Good?

    I hate being compared to my sister. Though i love her, i sometimes wish she didn't exist because im tired of being the black sheep of the family. I hate when everyone goes on and on about how great she is and then turn and ask why i can't be like her. It just really bothers...
    Lostsoul22 Lostsoul22 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    I Am Me.

    Damnit!  I get so sick of people saying, "Well, this one did this" or "That one did that".  I don't give a flying ****!  I am me, Your Brand of Heroin (it is kinda funny that my initials are in there)!  I am going to do what I...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2009

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    Ever since I can remember that's all I had to grow up with- Being compared to others. "Why can't you be more like ____?" "Why don't you try to act like____." "I wish you grow...
    NicoBunny6 NicoBunny6 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I have a stressful job so when I say I am stressed that means I am unusually so. Lately, my hair is falling, I sleep lesser hours, my skin is dry and my hyperacidity is acting up...
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    I have seen quite a few, (mostly young) people asking about how you know if you're really in love, and plenty of the "I'd like to fall in love again" posts, so I decided to share...
    shellseagirl shellseagirl 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 18

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    I have been judge so many times just for be black. I have been told that I won't amount to any thing, I'm just a waste of space, and so many more hurtful thing. The saying "sticks...
    Frannyj Frannyj 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Let's not even bother with mentioning genders. People who abuse other people suck. It doesn't matter what gender they are.
    blargendee blargendee 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    I can't help but feel happy when I make other people truly laugh or smile, not just the laugh people do when they have no idea what you said or are just doing it not to make you...
    camryn00 camryn00 13-15, F Aug 13

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    I realize that a lot of my experiences are a lot of bad **** that I went through. But in the last three years I've been on my own and my life is changing. And I love to make other...
    ICRETO ICRETO 46-50, M Aug 21

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    I hear people say I'm pretty or hot, but when I look in the mirror I don't understand and I remind myself of the guys who've let me go and think that there must be something wrong...
    flowerchloe48 flowerchloe48 13-15, F Jul 30

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    Hmm, maybe I should not even be in this experience, as I actually have disciplined other people´s kids a few time. That is if my sister´s kids count in that respect. But anyway...
    Susanna3 Susanna3 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    I cry when other people cry. Also when the sunlight or a light is too bright, and if a girl has worn WAY too much mascara, I start crying! AUUGH, so annoying! Does anyone else have...
    Docdaughter1 Docdaughter1 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Sometimes I really want to know how other people see me but I'm scared that the way they see me, I won't like...
    Vagabond01 Vagabond01 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm always compared to my "perfect cousin" Angel you should be like her Angel you should dress like her Angel you should talk like her Angel you should try and be pretty...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    My mother compared me to other more family-oriented girls. My ex compared me to his ex. My friends compared me to other friends and people they didn't like. I'm never taken as me.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    We'll be having our family reunion again and I am pissed as hell.Why? Because my relatives would always compare me to my cousin.In their eyes, she's the angel and I'm the devil...
    MyUnspokenFeelings MyUnspokenFeelings 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm new here. I recently made the decision to uproot my life and move far away from my MM. I just got tired of dealing with it all. His broken promises, his lies.....everything...
    movingon2014 movingon2014 41-45, F 20 hrs ago

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    It's such a bad feeling... I am going through something that nobody (except a select few) knows about. My stbx is trying to complicate things further and humiliate me in the...
    Lovinu0429 Lovinu0429 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    Ok so I have DID (dissociative identity disorder aka multiple personality disorder) and I wanted to be on EP to meet others that have my disorder and become friends with them. But...
    MultipleRex MultipleRex 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    It's part of my reason for choosing anonymity and wanting to preserve it. Honestly, people are so stupid and judgemental sometimes using nothing but prejudice they're too blind to...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    people should not be judged by their skin color, sexuality, or the way that they dress. People should only be judged by the way they act towards you as well as how they act towards...
    madiek madiek 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Free yourself from negative people. Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and like-minded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people...
    MeJustBeing MeJustBeing 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    So my friend out of nowhere asks me if I asked a guy we go to church together if I asked him to smoke. **** him lieing. I quit that ****. Then people judge me for ever doing it. Ya...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    So my friend out of nowhere asks me if I asked a guy we go to church together if I asked him to smoke. **** him lieing. I quit that ****. Then people judge me for ever doing it. Ya...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    i get judged alot of for not spelling things right, trying to be my self and people laugh at me
    AkariMei AkariMei 13-15, F Aug 12

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    I can not go outside without a lot of makeup . Once I lost all my makeup and could talk to nobody until I bought more. I am told I am beautiful when I have makeup on but not...
    xandrif xandrif 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    OK target me for being who I am just because you do not agree or like what I say. I'm a sub in an open D/s relationship,i watch **** with or without my master, I was abused by my...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    When people judge you for being a country girl who got abused since you were two grow up I am who I am!!
    maddog1000 maddog1000 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Still don't know how I got here. Typical I guess, he came after me, said they were over, crazy love. They went as far as talking to a lawyer and then one day something happened and...
    LazyLittleLion LazyLittleLion 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I hate the fact people can be so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 10

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    I have had my fair share of fake and toxic people in my life who were sweet to me in person and I later learn that I'm a wicked *****. Really? I can't honestly think of anything...
    PlasticRobot PlasticRobot 36-40, F Aug 12

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    People on here judge me because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I really do! Not only on EP but also in real life. But sometimes I feel that people don't want to be helped. They just want to complain and are stuck in a vicious cycle/rut...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    I hate negativity. I negative people. It's like a disease 😒 I know things that happen in life can be very hard to handle or you probably got hurt so much but at least see the...
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F Aug 6

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    I hate it. Life sucks sometimes. People judge me with the way I look.
    Music4Us Music4Us 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Those people who take one look at you and decide what kind of person you are, who do not even say one word to you or give you the opportunity to talk to them because their...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    People think that all women that are pretty are dumb but I'm a lot smarter than you think
    Adrianacute Adrianacute 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    Sometimes I wonder, do people really need help, can we truly help them ? YES WE CAN! PEOPLE JOIN EP FOR A REASON, EVEN THE PERVERTS. I will help everyone and anyone!
    SilentRawr SilentRawr 18-21 4 days ago

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    Not many friends here so far. Do people think me weird because I am a little crazy?
    Gaspard91 Gaspard91 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 2

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    I'm not very experienced in worldly problems, but I'm able to lend an open ear to people that need it. Feel free to PM with anything you need help with and I'll do whatever I can...
    shenlong977 shenlong977 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    Tis true... I see things and get weird feelings and all the stuff most people don't believe in...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F Aug 15