I Am Tired of Being Lonely All the Time

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    Growing Is A Loney Process

    I'm 17 and i guess its kinda a rough age for everyone. growing up sucks because it seems like everyone is on a different page than you. i don't open up to too many people and when i really do those people always seem to leave me behind. its always very disappointing because those...
    ALLISKSK ALLISKSK
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jan 13, 2010
    Amazingbarbie Amazingbarbie
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 27, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 1, 2015

    Recently I have become alone,

    as my family left the country. All I want is someone to talk to and if possible, some touch and hug. Im fed up of being so lonely after spending so much quality time with my family. Anyone there to share some time and give me a hug?
    Meetarjun Meetarjun
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 21, 2014

    Really, Really Tired!!

    I have felt so alone ever since i can remember. I have done everything on my own. I just thought that it's better to do things alone than to have someone do it with me. I just seem to be more stressed if I have to work while having to deal with somebody else's idea or attitude...
    depressed201 depressed201
    18-21
    1 Response Nov 30, 2012

    Feeling Alone.

    I feel really alone sometimes, like I don't have anyone to talk to, I'd love to have someone to talk/message/text/kik all the time, and just open up too
    xoxolezboxox xoxolezboxox
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Dec 2, 2013

    I really don't know what to do know matter what

    I say and do people just don't wanna hang out with me they don't want to be seen with a guy like me who is ugly as sin all they care about is cuteness Super down and depressed ( have thought about ending it all )
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 5, 2014

    I'm tired of feeling like it's impossible

    for someone to love me. I'm tired of people telling me that the only way to get a guy is to fake confidence 24/7.. I don't have the energy for that. I have loved the broken, but no one wants to love my broken prices. I hate how this world works.
    LostFury LostFury
    26-30, F
    Oct 12, 2015

    That moment you realize you're most likely to

    die alone and unhappy. Never being able to fulfill the dream of getting married and being happy with someone you want to share your life with. It's pathetic. No. I'm just pathetic. 17 and already wanting something that shouldn't even be on the minds of people 5-7 years older...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear
    18-21, F
    May 4, 2015

    I'm okay With it I got my music,

    my animals and family to love me
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 4, 2014

    I am so very, very alone.

    I feel drained, emotionally, physically, and mentally. It's like I lose all interest and will in everything and just want to sleep forever. I'm not suicidal, but I just don't know how to deal with being so alone. I just sit in my room. I've tried making friends, I really...
    WireBrass WireBrass
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2014

    I'm quick to cut a person out of my life .

    And the other half we just fall out quick
    YoungJoseM YoungJoseM
    18-21, M
    Oct 10, 2014

    Enough with relationships

    and putting yourself out there. Too few genuine people. Why can't I just find a good **** buddy? Lol
    Sicarium Sicarium
    36-40, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2014

    Only 17 But I Know Myself

    i'm a miserable, sad lonely person. i have no friends, and any guy who i date leaves because im too much too handles. i wont change because this is who i am so i will inevitably be alone for the rest of my life. ive dated a lot, ive seen so much, i've been through more than...
    megall2 megall2
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2012

    I spend almost every moment of my free time

    alone, wishing I had someone else I could spend it with. Right now, the number one thing that would just make my night is having somebody call me by their own will and just ask me how I'm doing. I am so damn lonely that it makes me feel cold and weak. I need attention. I need a...
    maulerrr maulerrr
    22-25, M
    Mar 8, 2014

    It sucks sometimes having to be alone all the

    time, but I get through as long as I have myself I am all I need to survive anyway.
    Nightfang109 Nightfang109
    16-17, M
    Oct 4, 2014

    Well I tried...I tried talking on here ,

    to my friends, family...no one ever stays around or cant handle what I say...now what?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 12, 2015
    tylercato6 tylercato6
    31-35, M
    Jan 14

    Must be a Saturday night.

    Lots of friends online.
    Givingup766 Givingup766
    36-40, M
    Aug 15, 2015

    I need an online friend/lover i dont care

    if it is stupid i just wana feel loved and warm up my dead heart..
    Imwhoiam93 Imwhoiam93
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 5, 2014

    It's the worst feeling in the world to me.

    ..I wish I could lose all memory.
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear
    18-21, F
    Jun 15, 2015

    I HATE THAT IM LONELY.

    I HATE THAT I CANT BE CONTENT IN MY OWN COMPANY. I HATE THAT I FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WHO CAN MAKE ME FORGET FOR A LITTLE BUT. I HATE THAT I FALL IN LOVE WITH PEOPLE WHO JUST MAKE ME A LITTLE BIT HAPPY. I HATE BEING LONELY. I JUST WANT TO FEEL LOVED AND APPRECIATED IN THE...
    kinglesswriter kinglesswriter
    16-17, F
    Jan 29

    I am 45 and my dad died

    when I was aged 22. My mom died when I was 36. I have no family. I live with an abusive man. I cannot afford to leave him. I am so lonely without my mom and dad. My friends don't make time for me.
    annefran annefran
    46-50, F
    Jun 8, 2014
    Taymilly Taymilly
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 19, 2014

    I wish I could be important to someone.

    .there may be someone who thinks highly of me, but I have no clue who it could possibly be. I find myself feeling pretty lonely all the time even with friends..it's nothing special to have friends, no one thinks of it as "being close" or "being important", it's just always having...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear
    18-21, F
    Dec 1, 2014

    As much as I hate being lonely,

    it's the reason I can play the piano.
    DanielleMaree DanielleMaree
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 5, 2014

    They Keep Saying It Will Get Better - When

    I was divorced last year ( Nov) and since the day he left in May I have never been this lonely. I was not the one who wanted the divorce.  He walked out one day said nothing and never came back.   Even if people are around I feel lonely.  They keep saying it will get better...
    tyringtolive tyringtolive
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jan 23, 2012

    I...

    I deserve better, damnit! I deserve better!
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    9 Responses Apr 18, 2009

    I been single for a while .

    I don't even want sex I just want someone to watch Netflix with and have fun together with. Some love like the one you see in 80s movie . Like "Can't buy me love"
    YoungJoseM YoungJoseM
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2014

    I am currently drinking a beer in the dark

    alone. I should be at a hockey game but my friends had to drop out at the last minute and I couldn't stand going to another function by myself. It shouldn't be so hard finding and connecting to someone.
    lostinthought17 lostinthought17
    26-30, F
    Feb 27, 2015

    Tired of Being Alone Too

    I am tired of being alone and lonely too pretty much for 5 years.  I dated here and there but nothing significant always unavailable men or men that later said they were not ready to be in a relationship because of their situation. The last man I recently dated just decided...
    daizy2 daizy2
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2009

    I love my little guy

    and his daddy. His dad works late and often though and he is in bed by 7. It leaves me pretty alone and sucks big time. I cannot connect with the people here well and after 7-8 years of trying to I just stopped trying. I know it's probably immature, but I just hate feeling so...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Oct 4, 2014

    I know it's mostly my fault,

    but I do hate being lonely all the time. I find it hard to make friends in the first place because I am horribly shy. I also have trust issues, and I unconsciously find a reason to push people away as soon as they get close enough to hurt me, and I convince myself they were the...
    CassidyRose4905 CassidyRose4905
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 5, 2014

    Nobody wants to be lonely,

    I know there's a man out thee for me. He'll turn my dark nights to beautiful mornings. That's not too much, that's all that I'm wanting. It's just another day alone, just me and my pillow Nobody to tell me "Good Morning" or "Have a good day." It's just sheets here It's just...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2014

    I enjoy my solitude but sometimes wish there

    was some one there ? When I needed them
    jasonurias1 jasonurias1
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2014

    Don't get me wrong, I'm not

    yet another desperado making posts each night asking if there's anyone out there for me. What I really need is a real friend. Right now the only person I talk with regularly is a 14 year old with dyslexia. Not that I don't like him or anything, but naturally we have some...
    dabram71 dabram71
    16-17, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2014

    I don't know what it is,

    but something always holds me back from trying to become closer to someone
    hebr0 hebr0
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 11, 2014

    It's really sad how I'm always at home,

    all alone, with no friends to hangout with, no one to talk to... I'm just sad that even i feel so invisible when I'm around with my family. I just feel like nobody really care about my existance. I often spend my time alone, thought about it all over again, and cry in my bedroom...
    NynnaDavis NynnaDavis
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 4, 2014

    I am tired of being tired of being lonely all

    the time :o. hope understood that xD
    EBestest EBestest
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2014

    I just really don't like being

    so lonely I know I push everyone away before I get too attached but I just want someone to actually want to stay but I guess that'll never happen
    meredithcher meredithcher
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Oct 4, 2014

    Lonely But Maybe By Choice

      i am 28 year old woman I am extremely lonely. But let first let me tell you something strange, it is kind of because of me. Well the place where i come from arranged marriage is the norm. and i fell in love with a guy and he wanted me to marry me. However, I said no and...
    PrincessJhali PrincessJhali
    26-30
    Jul 1, 2012

    Tired Of Being Lonely..tired Of Being Tired

    I never thought that I will end up so lonely. At 45 I feel the loneliness pressing heavily on my chest. No man in my life, my daugter has grown up and has her own life. I live in a country where it is not easy to find a sincere man...I just want to cry
    inness inness
    41-45
    6 Responses Jan 25, 2011

    Well lately i been feeling kind of lonely.

    i haven't gotten as many texts and calls from people. Also i haven't heard from my so called boyfriend in over a week and i tried calling and texting him but there's no response. i tried contacting one of his friends by text but he won't give me his phone number until i pay him...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 14, 2014

    I hate it when I find someone new to talk to

    because I always screw it up and they leave me...
    peacewalkerx peacewalkerx
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 9, 2014

    I feel so lonely right now.

    The tears only come out at night, when I'm alone and when I least expect it. Everyone is in bed. It starts as a tear, then a waterfall, then hysterical muffled sobbing into a pillow with occasional hiccups. Sometimes, I wish I could help myself.
    OriginalJuli3 OriginalJuli3
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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