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I Am Tired of Being Nice

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    Tired Of Being The Nice Woman...but I Refuse To Stop.

    Disclaimer: feel free to interchange the terms, depending on your gender. I am so sick and tired of men talking sh!t about how much they want a good/nice woman. OK so they finally get one. She treats you like a King, doesn't give you drama, stick by you through thick and thin...
    MysticLioness MysticLioness 31-35, F Apr 2, 2011

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    I am tired of caring

    and doing stuff for people because part of the reason deep down is I want them to need me or appreciate it and they don't. So **** them and **** it all. This is scary for me because I don't really have much else to offer.
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    No More Miss's Nice Girl!

    I have always been the "therapist" in my group of friends, and i am totally up for being the go to person when someone needs help. But two friends have ruined their chance to talk to me if they need it. They complain 24/7, about every single thing! They also make their life...
    EveryoneNeedsAHug EveryoneNeedsAHug 18-21, F Nov 27, 2010

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    It's Getting Old

    It's getting old. People mistake my kindness for weakness, a badge that gives the green light for them to use me like a doormat......and get away with it. I'm getting reeeeaaally sick of putting myself out there to try and help others only to be taken advantage of and kicked to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 28, 2012

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    No, I'm Not.

    For those who know me, and those that don't, I'm nowhere near done being nice. I just thought about it. What if that's why some, not all, old people are grumpy? Because they have spent all their lives being nice to everyone, and they just got tired of it, and started only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 23, 2009

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    I Am Sorry

    I Am Sorry But I Will Start Blocking People If You Message Me Only When You Need Me And Ignore My Messages When I Message You Or Add Me And Don't Message Me I Am Sorry But I Will More Then Likely Be Blocking You Sorry But No Point In Keeping In Touch With You I Love To Help...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    It Never Pays

    people just take what they can from you and step on your face to get higher. Nice people only get walked on. I should start being mean all the time, tell people off and act like jerks to them. I always wanted to fit in anyway and its what everyone else does
    FoolYourself FoolYourself 16-18, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2007

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    No More!

    I've always been a purist when it comes to my relationships and believed that being genuinely nice and not playing games with others was the way to do. This is especially true in my "romantic" relationships: I attract users and abusers like bees to honey. They know they can do...
    FaithInFate FaithInFate 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 27, 2010

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    I Am Tired Of Being Nice

    i love to do things for people whom i care about, its not all the time. on the same note, i love to forward beautiful e-mails, basically i like to share what i like or make people happy. Dont get me wrong. i dont let people step all over me, i am not always giving gifts. Just...
    chorus chorus 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    Where do I even begin to explain?I am soooo

    tired of being walking all over due to being nice.I naturally am a very caring and have a huge heart.I always put people before myself.But all people are good for is using me.Do not take the time to understand me but want some sort of favor(s)from me.From now on I am...
    xdarkangelx666 xdarkangelx666 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    Yes,

    I agree with the person who says it never pays because it ******* doesn't. Tell me, name one nice person who ended up living a good life...It's the greedy, selfish people who get whatever they want. They know how to use people like us. They know how to suck up to others. They are...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    Woud It Be So Horrible

    Really would it be that bad if i joined the masses. The people who dont care about anyone but themselves. The people with the ability to use people for their own gain. It seems like it would be easier to not care. At least I could go back to watching the news and the damn stories...
    holyfreakina holyfreakina 22-25, F Dec 22, 2009

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    I'm So So Stupid

    Why do i put myself through hell all the time for other people. Why do i constantly put them before myself?! knowing i am damn well going to be let down and hurt. Problem is my heart is too big and i can't help it. But i feel like breaking down ... crying until i can't cry no...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Jul 9, 2013

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    Oh Ho Ho!

    Yes, being nice has gotten me into bad situations..should I let my ***** side out? The gates of Hell so to speak?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    This Is What Happens When You're Too Nice

    My whole life I have been a caregiver.  My older sister got very sick when I was three and shortly thereafter a mentally retarded younger sister was born.  I had to take care of both in various ways (pushing older sister in her wheelchair, taking younger sister with me...
    usedtobenice usedtobenice 56-60 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    Maybe Farewell....

    Gonna Be Deleting My EP Profile In A Month Or Two Maybe Less So If Your Gonna Talk To Me Do It Now :p I've Enjoyed My Time Here Somewhat And Met A Couple Awesome People :) Well Au Revoir
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 19, 2013

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    Why?

    Why Are People So Whiney And Bigot On Here Especially Women A Couple Pervs Messaged You All Ladies Get That On Here Calm Down Just Block Them And Delete There Messages Or Comments Don't Get All Full Of Yourself It's Good To Know Your Worth But Have Some Self Control And Tone Down...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    Way Too Nice

    I am way too nice and polite. People confuse that for being weak a lot and find out the hard way that isn't correct. I can't stop myself from being polite because that's just part of who I am but I am tired of being nice.
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 24, 2011

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    I'm done with people I'm going to be how I want

    to be by myself **** everybody else
    Arcdapreslamort Arcdapreslamort 16-17, F Jul 7

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    I Listen

    I pretty much listen to everyones problems.But when i'm down and out.I have nobody to turn to.I'm tired of being the giver and most  others being the takers.I go to a counselor.They asked me if i wanted to join a group and i said no.Because i don't want to...
    shan12stones shan12stones 36-40, F 9 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    Tired Of It All

    Why do the nice people get taken for granted. I mean I am only 23, but I will do anything and everything for people. I am the type of guy that gives money to the less fortunate, donates to charities, listen to all of my friends rants, and lets anyone and everyone into me heart...
    LtGhost LtGhost 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Why Do I Even Bother... The Underwear

    As I have said before in my posts my husband is very skinny he is 6'3 137 lbs and so he wear a size small underwear. He only likes short boxers with no flap and they have to made out of a certain type of cotton. He is super picky. Well I go out yesterday on a quest for new...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 7, 2011

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    Being Nice

    So far, I have been nice to everyone even the one's who have been ****** with me.  You know what?  I won't be tired of it...I'll continue being nice cause I AM a NICE person after all!
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 10 Responses Apr 30, 2011

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    Yeah, Nice, That's Me

    If you ask people who know me to describe me in one word, the most likely answer would be "nice". I have been told sometimes I am too nice. Sometimes I wish I could be mean and say what's on my mind or tell someone off, but I can't. I would feel really horrible if I did. I have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6, 2012

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    I don't know why people sometimes don't accept the word "SORRY". I said it so many times but still getting back to the wrong thing that I did. I know being nice is not enough, I...
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    hard to think of being nice without thinking about patrick swayze in roadhouse. be nice, no matter what be nice, until it's time to not be nice, lol
    trailsonrails trailsonrails 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    This whole year I've dedicated myself to being as nice as possible. Putting all others before me. And I have not gotten anything in return should I change or continue
    Gian1865 Gian1865 13-15, M 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I could sleep for a month straight and still be tired .-. I never seem to get enough sleep :|
    ButtersTheMerciful ButtersTheMerciful 13-15, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Am dead tired but can't sleep.
    pangitako pangitako 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    I'm tired and ******* out after a long squawk 👄
    zuese zuese 46-50, M 2 hrs ago

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    This has happened a few times. I find it interesting, I am aware of my nudity. It is interesting to watch peoples reaction. I am not body conscious so they try to look away from...
    Zdenka Zdenka 18-21, F 7 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    well it nice to have anything u ever wanted to have and go where ever u wanted to to
    hhhappylife hhhappylife 41-45, M 11 hrs ago

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    I have learned that some people who seem "nice" are just back stabbing gossipers. They stay friends with people they claim are treating them badly and claim are fakes, because...
    Myfairlady1 Myfairlady1 46-50, F 10 hrs ago

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    I wish I could eat a nice large extra cheese pizza so hungry right now
    Mamiproud Mamiproud 26-30, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Tired of being the one they come to after they enjoyed there life, after they turned 30 after they had 4 kids, after he abuses her over and over, after she realizes his heart is...
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Tired, dancing back and forth with my SO. Tired of not making ends meet. Tired of having the feeling I do not control my life. Tired of feeling sorry for myself. Tired of wating...
    Blanche08 Blanche08 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    Being a nice guy and very giving and understanding comes at a price. Usually I end up being used and taken advantage of. I know that I have no one to blame but myself for this but...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Im soooo tired of guys they are just something else why do guys act so selfish and don't think how a female would feel about what they did or say its like its all about them...
    Fabgal1 Fabgal1 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    i ve been married 10 years, i love my husband and his family hates me,it feels like i dont have one mil but three my fil and my sil are both just as worse.i ve 3 beautiful boys ,i...
    rainblue rainblue 31-35, F Aug 20

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    I think I am just emotional exhausted. I am tired of feeling. I am tired of crying, of being depressed. I am tired of the occasional bouts of happiness that give me false hope. I'm...
    littlegirl03 littlegirl03 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    of feeling guilty. i am tired of people telling what to do and what to not do. i guess that's why I've stopped listening to people. i guess i'm surrounded by controlling people. i...
    boredandreading boredandreading 18-21 Aug 1

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    I am sick and tired of everything. I am tired of my parents always blaming me for every wrong thing my sister does. I'm tired of being judged. I'm tired of feeling lonely and...
    wherehorizonsmeet wherehorizonsmeet 16-17, F Aug 3

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    Isn't the point of being free being able to exploit and live in the freedom you have? I'm not tired of keeping peace with people who hate me, they can keep on hating me but I...
    WinterSkyout WinterSkyout 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Of course I am 'Nice', but who doesn't enjoy tipping the balance!
    lu3elle79 lu3elle79 31-35, F 6 hrs ago

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    I started having sex when I was 15 my original plan was to stay a virgin. All of the people around me were having sex and I can admit I went through an experimental stage. In a...
    Toocrazy4u Toocrazy4u 18-21 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I don't why I can't make friends. I have a friend from high school who I see maybe once a year and the man I've written about before. I've been in the same University for 2 years...
    ayndostoy ayndostoy 26-30, F Aug 4

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    Lower back work outs? How would you get rid of that? A little extra advice besides running would be nice:)
    cassb848 cassb848 22-25, F Aug 13

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    My ex was upset and was thinking about killing him self yesterday and he calls me and I talked him outta of all that and then we talked all night and he thanked me before we got...
    xxjuiletxx xxjuiletxx 13-15, F Aug 13

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    I have a bf, however he doesn't live with me. We talk everyday, and it's nice...but I still feel lonely. Like, I just want an attention grabber, excitement, a friend, conversation...
    JustKnee JustKnee 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago