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I Am Tired of Being Nice

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    I Am Sorry

    I Am Sorry But I Will Start Blocking People If You Message Me Only When You Need Me And Ignore My Messages When I Message You Or Add Me And Don't Message Me I Am Sorry But I Will More Then Likely Be Blocking You Sorry But No Point In Keeping In Touch With You I Love To Help...
    ILeo ILeo 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    Woud It Be So Horrible

    Really would it be that bad if i joined the masses. The people who dont care about anyone but themselves. The people with the ability to use people for their own gain. It seems like it would be easier to not care. At least I could go back to watching the news and the damn stories...
    holyfreakina holyfreakina 22-25, F Dec 22, 2009

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    Tired Of It All

    Why do the nice people get taken for granted. I mean I am only 23, but I will do anything and everything for people. I am the type of guy that gives money to the less fortunate, donates to charities, listen to all of my friends rants, and lets anyone and everyone into me heart...
    LtGhost LtGhost 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Tired Of Being The Nice Woman...but I Refuse To Stop.

    Disclaimer: feel free to interchange the terms, depending on your gender. I am so sick and tired of men talking sh!t about how much they want a good/nice woman. OK so they finally get one. She treats you like a King, doesn't give you drama, stick by you through thick and thin...
    MysticLioness MysticLioness 31-35, F Apr 2, 2011

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    I treat my girlfriend like my queen ,

    I love her ,there are indeed happy times as well as sad times , i know there are no perfect relationships , we will also have arguments and unhappy moments , but most of time I m the one who trying to be nice and fix the problem , even I m not the one who wrong , i admit...
    Yujiet Yujiet 18-21, M May 25

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    I am sick of being a good person.

    All I do is give and give and give and get nothing in return.People walk on top of me like I'm a rug. Everyone says that i'm a good person. I want to be known for something other than being a good kind hearted person. I want ro be known for real talents.The days of me going out...
    bjman188 bjman188 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    Why Do I Even Bother... The Underwear

    As I have said before in my posts my husband is very skinny he is 6'3 137 lbs and so he wear a size small underwear. He only likes short boxers with no flap and they have to made out of a certain type of cotton. He is super picky. Well I go out yesterday on a quest for new...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 7, 2011

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    I Am Tired Of Being Nice

    i love to do things for people whom i care about, its not all the time. on the same note, i love to forward beautiful e-mails, basically i like to share what i like or make people happy. Dont get me wrong. i dont let people step all over me, i am not always giving gifts. Just...
    chorus chorus 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    I just had a call from a friend

    that works for the local food bank. She knows about our financial situation and wanted to help by suggesting I ask for a Christmas basket (it's a few boxes with food and house hold products people and companies donate for families in need)... I accepted. Mr Blanche was not for...
    Blanche08 Blanche08 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    I'm So So Stupid

    Why do i put myself through hell all the time for other people. Why do i constantly put them before myself?! knowing i am damn well going to be let down and hurt. Problem is my heart is too big and i can't help it. But i feel like breaking down ... crying until i can't cry no...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Jul 9, 2013

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    Why?

    Why Are People So Whiney And Bigot On Here Especially Women A Couple Pervs Messaged You All Ladies Get That On Here Calm Down Just Block Them And Delete There Messages Or Comments Don't Get All Full Of Yourself It's Good To Know Your Worth But Have Some Self Control And Tone Down...
    ILeo ILeo 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    I Listen

    I pretty much listen to everyones problems.But when i'm down and out.I have nobody to turn to.I'm tired of being the giver and most  others being the takers.I go to a counselor.They asked me if i wanted to join a group and i said no.Because i don't want to...
    shan12stones shan12stones 36-40, F 9 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    Oh Ho Ho!

    Yes, being nice has gotten me into bad situations..should I let my ***** side out? The gates of Hell so to speak?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    Sometimes I think about how much my life would

    improve if I became more of a cold hearted b****. I often fantasize about how nice it would be to say "no" more than I did "yes", or how good it would feel to tell someone I cannot stand that they're a piece of s*** and not feel bad about it. How less stressful my life would...
    explainit2me explainit2me 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2014

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    Being Nice

    So far, I have been nice to everyone even the one's who have been ****** with me.  You know what?  I won't be tired of it...I'll continue being nice cause I AM a NICE person after all!
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 10 Responses Apr 30, 2011

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    Where do I even begin to explain?I am soooo

    tired of being walking all over due to being nice.I naturally am a very caring and have a huge heart.I always put people before myself.But all people are good for is using me.Do not take the time to understand me but want some sort of favor(s)from me.From now on I am...
    xdarkangelx666 xdarkangelx666 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    Way Too Nice

    I am way too nice and polite. People confuse that for being weak a lot and find out the hard way that isn't correct. I can't stop myself from being polite because that's just part of who I am but I am tired of being nice.
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 24, 2011

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    It Never Pays

    people just take what they can from you and step on your face to get higher. Nice people only get walked on. I should start being mean all the time, tell people off and act like jerks to them. I always wanted to fit in anyway and its what everyone else does
    FoolYourself FoolYourself 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2007

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    im am so fed up of being the nice caring good

    guy, as all I ever get in return is treated like sh*t so why should I bother being the nice guy ? im always there for my friends yet when ever I need someone there no one there for me :( so no more mr nice guy I guess as ive been told im way to nice , good guys finish last that...
    rodwood rodwood 36-40, M May 11

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    It's Getting Old

    It's getting old. People mistake my kindness for weakness, a badge that gives the green light for them to use me like a doormat......and get away with it. I'm getting reeeeaaally sick of putting myself out there to try and help others only to be taken advantage of and kicked to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 28, 2012

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    I still am nice and want to be,

    it's just tiresome being nice to others when they seem to only use me. Whenever they need something from me, they expect me to always help and comply which I usually do since I like helping others. But lately it seems that whenever I need them or aren't able to help them, they...
    CeruleanWolf CeruleanWolf 18-21, F Jun 5

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    Yes,

    I agree with the person who says it never pays because it ******* doesn't. Tell me, name one nice person who ended up living a good life...It's the greedy, selfish people who get whatever they want. They know how to use people like us. They know how to suck up to others. They are...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    This Is What Happens When You're Too Nice

    My whole life I have been a caregiver.  My older sister got very sick when I was three and shortly thereafter a mentally retarded younger sister was born.  I had to take care of both in various ways (pushing older sister in her wheelchair, taking younger sister with me...
    usedtobenice usedtobenice 56-60 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    Yeah, Nice, That's Me

    If you ask people who know me to describe me in one word, the most likely answer would be "nice". I have been told sometimes I am too nice. Sometimes I wish I could be mean and say what's on my mind or tell someone off, but I can't. I would feel really horrible if I did. I have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6, 2012

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    No More Miss's Nice Girl!

    I have always been the "therapist" in my group of friends, and i am totally up for being the go to person when someone needs help. But two friends have ruined their chance to talk to me if they need it. They complain 24/7, about every single thing! They also make their life...
    EveryoneNeedsAHug EveryoneNeedsAHug 18-21, F Nov 27, 2010

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    Maybe Farewell....

    Gonna Be Deleting My EP Profile In A Month Or Two Maybe Less So If Your Gonna Talk To Me Do It Now :p I've Enjoyed My Time Here Somewhat And Met A Couple Awesome People :) Well Au Revoir
    ILeo ILeo 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 19, 2013

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    No, I'm Not.

    For those who know me, and those that don't, I'm nowhere near done being nice. I just thought about it. What if that's why some, not all, old people are grumpy? Because they have spent all their lives being nice to everyone, and they just got tired of it, and started only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 23, 2009

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    No More!

    I've always been a purist when it comes to my relationships and believed that being genuinely nice and not playing games with others was the way to do. This is especially true in my "romantic" relationships: I attract users and abusers like bees to honey. They know they can do...
    FaithInFate FaithInFate 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 27, 2010

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    I am tired of caring

    and doing stuff for people because part of the reason deep down is I want them to need me or appreciate it and they don't. So **** them and **** it all. This is scary for me because I don't really have much else to offer.
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2014

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    I have to be strong because there's no space for weakness but I'm tired of it I can't just keep it to myself a lot of people don't like seeing me down and get annoyed with it so I...
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    I'm tired of being compared to my siblings. All three of us are in band and my older brother and I are percussionist. My sister plays French Horn. He is a music performance major...
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    I try so hard and when its not good enough im not a nice girl and I always feel like I should stop beinh nice, but then I stop and remember that I live for other people im here to...
    Remi4ever Remi4ever 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Tired of myself, tired of my body, tired of people, tired of this house, tired of this world...There's so much going through my head every day and night, i can't deal with it!I'm...
    PureBlueLight PureBlueLight 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    Being kind and considerate and a joy is the best way to receive that back. Hateful rude comments are not needed on a social site where people come to gather to escape the crap of...
    LbQueen961 LbQueen961 46-50, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    There are honestly not enough nice people in this world so I like to take it upon myself to pass on as much niceness as I can to friends, family, and even strangers. I love...
    ThatOneGemini ThatOneGemini 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I came to realize that I have been completely single since October of 2014. I have called myself dating guys but they always leave or use be for sexual experiences. Im so tired i...
    tasha1555 tasha1555 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    yeah they do exist! but I think that the ones who claim to be nice, actually aren't nice at all. :/ someone who says that you don't love him cause you rather being treated bad...
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Most of the time I try to be. I believe treating people as I would like to be treated myself. But I have to admit there are situations and people I just can't be nice in.
    paleryder paleryder 56-60, M 3 days ago

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    I shall be reminding myself of these words quite often today... Open your mouth only if what you're about to say is more beautiful than silence. ~arabic proverb
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well isn't it fun being tired but you can't fall asleep?
    insanecrazyweird insanecrazyweird 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Besides of being tired of being alone for eons at this hometown, what else can I do to be not alone? How great I hope to get a peer to talk about my business, share life, discuss...
    ExileMyself ExileMyself 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I can never seem to get enough sleep. I'm always feeling wiped out. Always tired. I'm tired right now. I got some sleep last night but not enough. It's always the same. I have a...
    FriendlyBryan FriendlyBryan 46-50, M 2 Responses a week ago

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