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I Am Tired of Being Nice

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    No, I'm Not.

    For those who know me, and those that don't, I'm nowhere near done being nice. I just thought about it. What if that's why some, not all, old people are grumpy? Because they have spent all their lives being nice to everyone, and they just got tired of it, and started only...
    Strikerfreeze Strikerfreeze 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 23, 2009

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    Yeah, Nice, That's Me

    If you ask people who know me to describe me in one word, the most likely answer would be "nice". I have been told sometimes I am too nice. Sometimes I wish I could be mean and say what's on my mind or tell someone off, but I can't. I would feel really horrible if I did. I have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6, 2012

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    I Am Sorry

    I Am Sorry But I Will Start Blocking People If You Message Me Only When You Need Me And Ignore My Messages When I Message You Or Add Me And Don't Message Me I Am Sorry But I Will More Then Likely Be Blocking You Sorry But No Point In Keeping In Touch With You I Love To Help...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    Woud It Be So Horrible

    Really would it be that bad if i joined the masses. The people who dont care about anyone but themselves. The people with the ability to use people for their own gain. It seems like it would be easier to not care. At least I could go back to watching the news and the damn stories...
    holyfreakina holyfreakina 22-25, F Dec 22, 2009

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    Tired Of Being The Nice Woman...but I Refuse To Stop.

    Disclaimer: feel free to interchange the terms, depending on your gender. I am so sick and tired of men talking sh!t about how much they want a good/nice woman. OK so they finally get one. She treats you like a King, doesn't give you drama, stick by you through thick and thin...
    MysticLioness MysticLioness 31-35, F Apr 2, 2011

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    Tired Of It All

    Why do the nice people get taken for granted. I mean I am only 23, but I will do anything and everything for people. I am the type of guy that gives money to the less fortunate, donates to charities, listen to all of my friends rants, and lets anyone and everyone into me heart...
    LtGhost LtGhost 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Way Too Nice

    I am way too nice and polite. People confuse that for being weak a lot and find out the hard way that isn't correct. I can't stop myself from being polite because that's just part of who I am but I am tired of being nice.
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 24, 2011

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    Being Nice

    So far, I have been nice to everyone even the one's who have been ****** with me.  You know what?  I won't be tired of it...I'll continue being nice cause I AM a NICE person after all!
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 11 Responses Apr 30, 2011

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    It Never Pays

    people just take what they can from you and step on your face to get higher. Nice people only get walked on. I should start being mean all the time, tell people off and act like jerks to them. I always wanted to fit in anyway and its what everyone else does
    FoolYourself FoolYourself 16-18, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2007

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    Yes,

    I agree with the person who says it never pays because it ******* doesn't. Tell me, name one nice person who ended up living a good life...It's the greedy, selfish people who get whatever they want. They know how to use people like us. They know how to suck up to others. They are...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    I am tired of caring

    and doing stuff for people because part of the reason deep down is I want them to need me or appreciate it and they don't. So **** them and **** it all. This is scary for me because I don't really have much else to offer.
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    This Is What Happens When You're Too Nice

    My whole life I have been a caregiver.  My older sister got very sick when I was three and shortly thereafter a mentally retarded younger sister was born.  I had to take care of both in various ways (pushing older sister in her wheelchair, taking younger sister with me...
    usedtobenice usedtobenice 56-60 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    Maybe Farewell....

    Gonna Be Deleting My EP Profile In A Month Or Two Maybe Less So If Your Gonna Talk To Me Do It Now :p I've Enjoyed My Time Here Somewhat And Met A Couple Awesome People :) Well Au Revoir
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 19, 2013

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    It's Getting Old

    It's getting old. People mistake my kindness for weakness, a badge that gives the green light for them to use me like a doormat......and get away with it. I'm getting reeeeaaally sick of putting myself out there to try and help others only to be taken advantage of and kicked to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 28, 2012

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    Why?

    Why Are People So Whiney And Bigot On Here Especially Women A Couple Pervs Messaged You All Ladies Get That On Here Calm Down Just Block Them And Delete There Messages Or Comments Don't Get All Full Of Yourself It's Good To Know Your Worth But Have Some Self Control And Tone Down...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    I Listen

    I pretty much listen to everyones problems.But when i'm down and out.I have nobody to turn to.I'm tired of being the giver and most  others being the takers.I go to a counselor.They asked me if i wanted to join a group and i said no.Because i don't want to...
    shan12stones shan12stones 36-40, F 9 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    I Am Tired Of Being Nice

    i love to do things for people whom i care about, its not all the time. on the same note, i love to forward beautiful e-mails, basically i like to share what i like or make people happy. Dont get me wrong. i dont let people step all over me, i am not always giving gifts. Just...
    chorus chorus 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    No More!

    I've always been a purist when it comes to my relationships and believed that being genuinely nice and not playing games with others was the way to do. This is especially true in my "romantic" relationships: I attract users and abusers like bees to honey. They know they can do...
    FaithInFate FaithInFate 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 27, 2010

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    The New Me

    One mistake I keep repeating in my life is being too nice to people. Apparently lots of people when they see someone nice they like to take advantage of them. Well I can't speak for everyone. What I can speak for is me. Most people meet with me when they learned I'm a nice...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Nov 26, 2013

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    I'm So So Stupid

    Why do i put myself through hell all the time for other people. Why do i constantly put them before myself?! knowing i am damn well going to be let down and hurt. Problem is my heart is too big and i can't help it. But i feel like breaking down ... crying until i can't cry no...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Jul 9, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I think it's nice if one would just leave even when he/she disagrees, because this is a place to share, not to debate.
    Iamlouis Iamlouis 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Yes. Because I don't believe in being mean to people. Although ignorant people may get on my nerves.. I just politely ask them can they go and be immature somewhere else. (:
    CadyWelch CadyWelch 13-15, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Im not desperate for a relationship, but what bugs me is no one seems to give me a chance. Im decent looking, well educated, great self-control and extremely welcoming and nice...
    Jonesing4nice Jonesing4nice 18-21, M Apr 9

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    I honestly don't know what I'm doing wrong, I can't believe I live in a country where being nice and respectful to girls has become frowned upon in the dating scene. I'm so sick of...
    Aaron91 Aaron91 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I work. Get home. 23. Live with my mother. Not sure what to do with my life. No College. No Car. No Motivation for life. I am not sure why. It could be my addiction to video games...
    SuohSin SuohSin 22-25, M 10 hrs ago

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    I noticed that nearly every time I'm shopping in a predominantly white neighborhood, whether it's for clothing or food or whatever, there's a store employee trying to follow me out...
    adorea adorea 70+, F 9 hrs ago

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    I am not a hateful person but by choice I become one especially those who infect me with their pessimism and negativity. Maybe I am magnet for all jerks to dumped their...
    ayachan ayachan 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I hate when my "friends" just don't care. I might be superficial but it really bothers me when I'm ignored in social media for example. I have lost my interest to update anything...
    sukke sukke 26-30, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    This was the first topic I clicked on after I signed up. I thought it was odd, that a woman claiming to dislike being hit on by creepy men, should post a body shot of herself...
    warp9pnt9 warp9pnt9 36-40, M Mar 30

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    Never as tired as when in waking up.
    tarkovsky tarkovsky 26-30, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I am so done. I'm tired of always been depressed. I'm tired of never being good enough for anybody. I'm tired of always coming in second place to my friends. I'm tired of being the...
    unfaiir unfaiir 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    In advance this will be sloppy, due to me writing this while upset. I feel trapped with no way out, i feel i will never amount to anything and i will never get to see the world...
    EmbodimentofDespair EmbodimentofDespair 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    i am so tired of: fake friends who act so nice but backstab me. they only approach me when they need something drama liars not being appreciated being ignored getting hurt
    huangzichen huangzichen 18-21, F Mar 28

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    I am just so tired of being depressed. Tired of being angry. Tired of having anxiety. Tired of my anxiety getting so bad that it manifests physically. Tired of the down days. Tired...
    NoClueWhoIam NoClueWhoIam 18-21, F Apr 7

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    My one spanking from grandma. My maternal grandfather was a Baptist preacher, and my grandma was a teacher. They raised my mom strictly with spankings through her teens, and were...
    StarterStar StarterStar 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I think I have reached the point where I am sick and tired of everything. I am tired of sending out job applications, tired of getting my hopes up that I might actually get a job...
    Kookycookie Kookycookie 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I'am tired, tired of everything. Tired of feeling this way, tired of people, tired of this feeling in my chest that gets bigger and bigger each day, tired of not having anyone to...
    jaylawr jaylawr 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    -I'm tired of caring about you guys so much. -I'm tired of hearing one of your guys' names and my heart stops and I can't stop thinking about one of you. -I'm tired of you guys...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Whenever I look in the mirror I think about how I used to weigh 210 pounds. And when I think about that, it makes me hate the person I see in the mirror, and it makes me want to...
    Technickcolor Technickcolor 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    It's all just pain... I'm so tired pretending.. I'm so tired holding on to someone I can't really have. I'm tired of being all alone. I'm tired of feeling all these feelings...
    kaaat101 kaaat101 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm tired from crying from cutting from being lonley from fake friends from lies from all the dramas from the pain from wishing to die from breathing from blinking from smiling and...
    rawan99 rawan99 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm just sick and tired of it all. The feelings and being so emotionally sensitive all the time. The mood swings and not being happy for long. The stupid thoughts of you and I and...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I don't actually hate him. I hate the fact that he still crosses my mind, even after being broken up for a year and a half and how badly he hurt me. It was one of the worst break...
    pomoc pomoc 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I am so tired of everything I am tired of being tired I am tired of stupid people I just wish everyone would just leave me alone and kind their own business stop spreading rumors...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I woke up this morning with so much on my mind. It's rare for me to just burst out into tears, but I just couldn't help myself. I'm the type of person that just like to brush...
    CallMeNiesha94 CallMeNiesha94 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I'm tired of having this constant need and emptiness in my heart. I'm tired of being in love with love. I just want to love myself and be a whole and complete person with out the...
    Allrandom Allrandom 26-30, F Apr 14

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    I am tired, so very tired of people who do not care. I am so very tired mentally and physically and this should never have happened to me. I am ANGRY. Basically I have been...
    LindaNKVermey LindaNKVermey 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    There are a few people here at work who really **** me off. I try to talk once in a while and be nice to them and they just look at me like I'm from the zoo. I try to not let it...
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    This will be my venting area for the topic. I just need to say this. Being an ******* does not make you witty. Acting like a ***** does not make you seem more mature or wiser. In...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 31

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    i'm not desperate to be with someone, more like a 100% trusted friend to have or yeah it would be nice to have a significant other. going through such stress, i need more affection...
    basedgodschild basedgodschild 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Oh Psoriasis... such a wonderful word.. I am a 28year old greek living in England for the last 4 years. I was first diagnosed with Psoriasis 5-6 years ago when I had no idea what...
    tiennoeis tiennoeis 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    I have never felt beautiful in my entire 19 years. A few years ago, my cousins who I have always been close to told me I was ugly. I felt really horrible and my self-esteem...
    willneverbepretty willneverbepretty 18-21, F Apr 15

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    I am tired of working hard for little pay. I am tired of the workers that are paid more, aren't qualified and don't care. I am annoyed that I work hard and he doesn't. I am...
    blicky1234 blicky1234 22-25, M Mar 23