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I Am Tired of Being Nice

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    I Listen - I pretty much listen to everyones problems.But when i'm down and out.I have nobody to turn to.I'm tired of being the giver and most  others being the takers.I...
    shan12stones shan12stones 36-40, F 9 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    I'm So So Stupid - Why do i put myself through hell all the time for other people. Why do i constantly put them before myself?! knowing i am damn well going to be let down and hurt...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Jul 9, 2013

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    No More! - I've always been a purist when it comes to my relationships and believed that being genuinely nice and not playing games with others was the way to do. This is...
    FaithInFate FaithInFate 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 27, 2010

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    Tired Of It All - Why do the nice people get taken for granted. I mean I am only 23, but I will do anything and everything for people. I am the type of guy that gives money to the...
    LtGhost LtGhost 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    I am tired of caring and doing stuff for people because part of the reason deep down is I want them to need me or appreciate it and they don't. So **** them and **** it all. This...
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Woud It Be So Horrible - Really would it be that bad if i joined the masses. The people who dont care about anyone but themselves. The people with the ability to use people for...
    holyfreakina holyfreakina 22-25, F Dec 22, 2009

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    Yes, - I agree with the person who says it never pays because it ******* doesn't. Tell me, name one nice person who ended up living a good life...It's the greedy, selfish people...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    Yeah, Nice, That's Me - If you ask people who know me to describe me in one word, the most likely answer would be "nice". I have been told sometimes I am too nice. Sometimes I wish...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6, 2012

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    I Am Tired Of Being Nice - i love to do things for people whom i care about, its not all the time. on the same note, i love to forward beautiful e-mails, basically i like to...
    chorus chorus 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    "Noo i will not text him even is he says sorry ..he needs to do way more hmp!"Ok i no i sound like a ***** but first hear what i have to say. It all started a day ago we had a day...
    missunperfectly missunperfectly 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Way Too Nice - I am way too nice and polite. People confuse that for being weak a lot and find out the hard way that isn't correct. I can't stop myself from being polite because...
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 24, 2011

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    It's Getting Old - It's getting old. People mistake my kindness for weakness, a badge that gives the green light for them to use me like a doormat......and get away with it. I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 28, 2012

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    Why? - Why Are People So Whiney And Bigot On Here Especially Women A Couple Pervs Messaged You All Ladies Get That On Here Calm Down Just Block Them And Delete There Messages Or...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    The New Me - One mistake I keep repeating in my life is being too nice to people. Apparently lots of people when they see someone nice they like to take advantage of them. Well I...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Nov 26, 2013

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    Tired Of Being The Nice Woman...but I Refuse To Stop. - Disclaimer: feel free to interchange the terms, depending on your gender. I am so sick and tired of men talking sh!t about...
    MysticLioness MysticLioness 31-35, F Apr 2, 2011

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    Maybe Farewell.... - Gonna Be Deleting My EP Profile In A Month Or Two Maybe Less So If Your Gonna Talk To Me Do It Now :p I've Enjoyed My Time Here Somewhat And Met A Couple...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 19, 2013

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    I Am Sorry - I Am Sorry But I Will Start Blocking People If You Message Me Only When You Need Me And Ignore My Messages When I Message You Or Add Me And Don't Message Me I Am Sorry...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    No, I'm Not. - For those who know me, and those that don't, I'm nowhere near done being nice. I just thought about it. What if that's why some, not all, old people are grumpy? ...
    Strikerfreeze Strikerfreeze 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 23, 2009

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    Being Nice - So far, I have been nice to everyone even the one's who have been ****** with me.  You know what?  I won't be tired of it...I'll continue being nice cause I AM a...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 11 Responses Apr 30, 2011

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    It Never Pays - people just take what they can from you and step on your face to get higher. Nice people only get walked on. I should start being mean all the time, tell people off...
    FoolYourself FoolYourself 16-18, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2007

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    This Is What Happens When You're Too Nice - My whole life I have been a caregiver.  My older sister got very sick when I was three and shortly thereafter a mentally retarded...
    usedtobenice usedtobenice 56-60 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    I've decided I'm not being nice any longer. Not only is it a waste of money, but also a waste of effort. For me to be so much younger, and kinder, than most people.. such a waste...
    majesticmaddy majesticmaddy 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Im not desperate for a relationship, but what bugs me is no one seems to give me a chance. Im decent looking, well educated, great self-control and extremely welcoming and nice...
    Jonesing4nice Jonesing4nice 18-21, M Apr 9

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    I honestly don't know what I'm doing wrong, I can't believe I live in a country where being nice and respectful to girls has become frowned upon in the dating scene. I'm so sick of...
    Aaron91 Aaron91 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    It's all just pain... I'm so tired pretending.. I'm so tired holding on to someone I can't really have. I'm tired of being all alone. I'm tired of feeling all these feelings...
    kaaat101 kaaat101 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    It is no use. I cannot fight anymore. I am tired. Nowadays, psychological games are being played. Stoking and sensitization. Who is this I want to know. I am not so physically...
    aproudwoman aproudwoman 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    I've lived in the city my whole life but I've always loved nature. Sometimes I wish I could just pack a bag, and go into the woods and walk until I'm tired. Or just lay down on...
    teejayy23 teejayy23 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    Have been listening to this song a lot lately…Have been short with people recently… I know I can be mean sometimes…Not everyone will understand or believe me...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I love terms of endearment but recently discovered that to some people, these words are derogatory, objectifying, and trigger negative connotations. I do understand that argument...
    sailor764 sailor764 46-50, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    This was the first topic I clicked on after I signed up. I thought it was odd, that a woman claiming to dislike being hit on by creepy men, should post a body shot of herself...
    warp9pnt9 warp9pnt9 36-40, M Mar 30

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    I am so done. I'm tired of always been depressed. I'm tired of never being good enough for anybody. I'm tired of always coming in second place to my friends. I'm tired of being the...
    unfaiir unfaiir 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't really know how to start this but I'm looking for advice on what to do. So back in November of 2013 I started talking to this guy named Logan. He's a senior into high...
    olivia9716 olivia9716 16-17, F Mar 18

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    i am so tired of: fake friends who act so nice but backstab me. they only approach me when they need something drama liars not being appreciated being ignored getting hurt
    huangzichen huangzichen 18-21, F Mar 28

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    I am just so tired of being depressed. Tired of being angry. Tired of having anxiety. Tired of my anxiety getting so bad that it manifests physically. Tired of the down days. Tired...
    NoClueWhoIam NoClueWhoIam 18-21, F Apr 7

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    My one spanking from grandma. My maternal grandfather was a Baptist preacher, and my grandma was a teacher. They raised my mom strictly with spankings through her teens, and were...
    StarterStar StarterStar 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm so tired. This isn't a post about self-harm, it's just a post about being so damn tired. Of pushing and pushing. Of having to be so, so strong. Being so, so alone. All the time...
    RubyLemon RubyLemon 22-25 1 Response Mar 17

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    I'am tired, tired of everything. Tired of feeling this way, tired of people, tired of this feeling in my chest that gets bigger and bigger each day, tired of not having anyone to...
    jaylawr jaylawr 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    This is so true that-its not-even funny...... there is absolutley next to no sisterhood left at all. I have a rediculous amount of friends and aquaintances and maybe three of them...
    EternalOptomist31 EternalOptomist31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I married out of need. When my ex dropped the pregnant bomb I freaked. Not cause of that, but cause I really didn't love her that much. At the time . Then she said it was twins. So...
    IyaAveer IyaAveer 41-45, M Mar 20

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    Whenever I look in the mirror I think about how I used to weigh 210 pounds. And when I think about that, it makes me hate the person I see in the mirror, and it makes me want to...
    Technickcolor Technickcolor 18-21, M Apr 6

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    I'm just sick and tired of it all. The feelings and being so emotionally sensitive all the time. The mood swings and not being happy for long. The stupid thoughts of you and I and...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I woke up this morning with so much on my mind. It's rare for me to just burst out into tears, but I just couldn't help myself. I'm the type of person that just like to brush...
    CallMeNiesha94 CallMeNiesha94 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I'm tired of having this constant need and emptiness in my heart. I'm tired of being in love with love. I just want to love myself and be a whole and complete person with out the...
    Allrandom Allrandom 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I have been friends with a person for 2 years, my whole time I had been at school, until now. He was my best friend, I thought we were actual friends that would never stop being...
    dragon001 dragon001 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    There are a few people here at work who really **** me off. I try to talk once in a while and be nice to them and they just look at me like I'm from the zoo. I try to not let it...
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    This will be my venting area for the topic. I just need to say this. Being an ******* does not make you witty. Acting like a ***** does not make you seem more mature or wiser. In...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 31

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    i'm not desperate to be with someone, more like a 100% trusted friend to have or yeah it would be nice to have a significant other. going through such stress, i need more affection...
    basedgodschild basedgodschild 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Oh Psoriasis... such a wonderful word.. I am a 28year old greek living in England for the last 4 years. I was first diagnosed with Psoriasis 5-6 years ago when I had no idea what...
    tiennoeis tiennoeis 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have never felt beautiful in my entire 19 years. A few years ago, my cousins who I have always been close to told me I was ugly. I felt really horrible and my self-esteem...
    willneverbepretty willneverbepretty 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm tired, I'm tired of being tired! Having idiopathic hypersomnia drives me crazy. I have to make the most of it when I have some energy which is pretty rare. I just wish that...
    squishyarmadillo squishyarmadillo 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I am tired of working hard for little pay. I am tired of the workers that are paid more, aren't qualified and don't care. I am annoyed that I work hard and he doesn't. I am...
    blicky1234 blicky1234 22-25, M Mar 23

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    Im tired of being a good friend. Most of my friends knew what i had to go through during middle school, now it's high school. I have a friend of mines, she immature-ish. Whenever...
    ThatOneGirlWhoSmiles ThatOneGirlWhoSmiles 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 23