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I Am Tired of Being Nice

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    Way Too Nice

    I am way too nice and polite. People confuse that for being weak a lot and find out the hard way that isn't correct. I can't stop myself from being polite because that's just part of who I am but I am tired of being nice.
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 24, 2011

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    I'm done with people I'm going to be how I want

    to be by myself **** everybody else
    Arcdapreslamort Arcdapreslamort 16-17, F Jul 7

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    Oh Ho Ho!

    Yes, being nice has gotten me into bad situations..should I let my ***** side out? The gates of Hell so to speak?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    Being Nice

    So far, I have been nice to everyone even the one's who have been ****** with me.  You know what?  I won't be tired of it...I'll continue being nice cause I AM a NICE person after all!
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 10 Responses Apr 30, 2011

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    I Listen

    I pretty much listen to everyones problems.But when i'm down and out.I have nobody to turn to.I'm tired of being the giver and most  others being the takers.I go to a counselor.They asked me if i wanted to join a group and i said no.Because i don't want to...
    shan12stones shan12stones 36-40, F 9 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    Tired Of Being The Nice Woman...but I Refuse To Stop.

    Disclaimer: feel free to interchange the terms, depending on your gender. I am so sick and tired of men talking sh!t about how much they want a good/nice woman. OK so they finally get one. She treats you like a King, doesn't give you drama, stick by you through thick and thin...
    MysticLioness MysticLioness 31-35, F Apr 2, 2011

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    No More!

    I've always been a purist when it comes to my relationships and believed that being genuinely nice and not playing games with others was the way to do. This is especially true in my "romantic" relationships: I attract users and abusers like bees to honey. They know they can do...
    FaithInFate FaithInFate 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 27, 2010

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    Where do I even begin to explain?I am soooo

    tired of being walking all over due to being nice.I naturally am a very caring and have a huge heart.I always put people before myself.But all people are good for is using me.Do not take the time to understand me but want some sort of favor(s)from me.From now on I am...
    xdarkangelx666 xdarkangelx666 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    This Is What Happens When You're Too Nice

    My whole life I have been a caregiver.  My older sister got very sick when I was three and shortly thereafter a mentally retarded younger sister was born.  I had to take care of both in various ways (pushing older sister in her wheelchair, taking younger sister with me...
    usedtobenice usedtobenice 56-60 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    I am tired of caring

    and doing stuff for people because part of the reason deep down is I want them to need me or appreciate it and they don't. So **** them and **** it all. This is scary for me because I don't really have much else to offer.
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    Tired Of It All

    Why do the nice people get taken for granted. I mean I am only 23, but I will do anything and everything for people. I am the type of guy that gives money to the less fortunate, donates to charities, listen to all of my friends rants, and lets anyone and everyone into me heart...
    LtGhost LtGhost 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Woud It Be So Horrible

    Really would it be that bad if i joined the masses. The people who dont care about anyone but themselves. The people with the ability to use people for their own gain. It seems like it would be easier to not care. At least I could go back to watching the news and the damn stories...
    holyfreakina holyfreakina 22-25, F Dec 22, 2009

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    Maybe Farewell....

    Gonna Be Deleting My EP Profile In A Month Or Two Maybe Less So If Your Gonna Talk To Me Do It Now :p I've Enjoyed My Time Here Somewhat And Met A Couple Awesome People :) Well Au Revoir
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 19, 2013

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    It's Getting Old

    It's getting old. People mistake my kindness for weakness, a badge that gives the green light for them to use me like a doormat......and get away with it. I'm getting reeeeaaally sick of putting myself out there to try and help others only to be taken advantage of and kicked to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 28, 2012

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    I'm So So Stupid

    Why do i put myself through hell all the time for other people. Why do i constantly put them before myself?! knowing i am damn well going to be let down and hurt. Problem is my heart is too big and i can't help it. But i feel like breaking down ... crying until i can't cry no...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Jul 9, 2013

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    Yeah, Nice, That's Me

    If you ask people who know me to describe me in one word, the most likely answer would be "nice". I have been told sometimes I am too nice. Sometimes I wish I could be mean and say what's on my mind or tell someone off, but I can't. I would feel really horrible if I did. I have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6, 2012

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    Sometimes I think about how much my life would

    improve if I became more of a cold hearted b****. I often fantasize about how nice it would be to say "no" more than I did "yes", or how good it would feel to tell someone I cannot stand that they're a piece of s*** and not feel bad about it. How less stressful my life would...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    I Am Tired Of Being Nice

    i love to do things for people whom i care about, its not all the time. on the same note, i love to forward beautiful e-mails, basically i like to share what i like or make people happy. Dont get me wrong. i dont let people step all over me, i am not always giving gifts. Just...
    chorus chorus 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    It Never Pays

    people just take what they can from you and step on your face to get higher. Nice people only get walked on. I should start being mean all the time, tell people off and act like jerks to them. I always wanted to fit in anyway and its what everyone else does
    FoolYourself FoolYourself 16-18, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2007

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    Yes,

    I agree with the person who says it never pays because it ******* doesn't. Tell me, name one nice person who ended up living a good life...It's the greedy, selfish people who get whatever they want. They know how to use people like us. They know how to suck up to others. They are...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    No, I'm Not.

    For those who know me, and those that don't, I'm nowhere near done being nice. I just thought about it. What if that's why some, not all, old people are grumpy? Because they have spent all their lives being nice to everyone, and they just got tired of it, and started only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 23, 2009

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    No More Miss's Nice Girl!

    I have always been the "therapist" in my group of friends, and i am totally up for being the go to person when someone needs help. But two friends have ruined their chance to talk to me if they need it. They complain 24/7, about every single thing! They also make their life...
    EveryoneNeedsAHug EveryoneNeedsAHug 18-21, F Nov 27, 2010

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    Why?

    Why Are People So Whiney And Bigot On Here Especially Women A Couple Pervs Messaged You All Ladies Get That On Here Calm Down Just Block Them And Delete There Messages Or Comments Don't Get All Full Of Yourself It's Good To Know Your Worth But Have Some Self Control And Tone Down...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    I Am Sorry

    I Am Sorry But I Will Start Blocking People If You Message Me Only When You Need Me And Ignore My Messages When I Message You Or Add Me And Don't Message Me I Am Sorry But I Will More Then Likely Be Blocking You Sorry But No Point In Keeping In Touch With You I Love To Help...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    Why Do I Even Bother... The Underwear

    As I have said before in my posts my husband is very skinny he is 6'3 137 lbs and so he wear a size small underwear. He only likes short boxers with no flap and they have to made out of a certain type of cotton. He is super picky. Well I go out yesterday on a quest for new...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 7, 2011

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    Honestly I don't know why anyone would not want to be nice. It makes other people feel happy around you but making yourself happy also. I adore helping people all around me, I love...
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    I can be a sweetie, polite etc. but I can be bitchy when someone ****** me off.. For example, someone talked sh!t about my uncle when he's behind the bar, pick on my little sister...
    FebeBab3 FebeBab3 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I figure it's hard to be evil to people being nice to you... So I'm always nice first :)
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    Singing has always been one of my passions. I'm not shy at all and people keeps telling me I'm good at singing but sometimes I think they're just being nice to me.
    Michelleeli01 Michelleeli01 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    I just hurt. like i just hurt. Nothing else just pain, and hurt. And i hate it. and talking doesn't help. I could have talked to my teacher and told him whats going on but I...
    SavanahSav SavanahSav 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    The Doctor has given me some sleeping tablets . I tend not to sleep . Dyslexics are light sleepers or they are really heavy sleepers . While autistics ten to wake early and get...
    Drwho1963 Drwho1963 51-55, M 17 hrs ago

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    Tonight I'm just tired of everything!! I'm tired of being too damn nice. I'm tired of being patient. I'm tired of having to wait for the right one. I want it all and I want...
    Latinloverguy Latinloverguy 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 8

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    I honestly believe that there are nice guys that still exist just as there are nice girls that still exist. My friend falls in the category of a "nice guy" but he just has to get...
    iCas92 iCas92 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    its all getting stressy and complicated now. Work, friendships, family, bills, drugs, etc... im so tired of this things.... i just want to sleep.... forever
    noname1712 noname1712 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    I am! I am tired from having this food baby. We ate like zombies tonight and now I just want to sit here and be a fat bear. Grrrrr!
    NoVADad703 NoVADad703 31-35, M 2 hrs ago

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    Tired of trying to make friends Tired of trying to be the nice guy Tired of trying to stay a virgin Tired of trying to fit in Tired of trying to find the right girl Time to...
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    I'm tired Tired of being in love with her when she no longer loves me I'm tired Tired of fighting this losing battle to keep her heart when she threw mine away a long time ago I'm...
    cesarjames cesarjames 22-25, M Sep 22

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    From the few experiences that I have read...most are young. Believe me, you still have time. People used to tell me to lose the weight before I turned 40 because it was harder to...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 10

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    I'm tired of flirting... I really am. I'm tired if the ******* ******** who claim they care about me but in reality don't. I'm tired of the pretty boys who only care about having a...
    PunkRockUnicorn PunkRockUnicorn 13-15, F Sep 25

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    Not sure why, my mind is just so tired. Feel trapped here. I am only 20 and feel as if I have been here for 70 years. So sick of the feeling. Tired of the horrible atrocious...
    Artimas Artimas 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5

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    Just had a nice weekend hanging out with people that don't throw their crap around, that are honest and decent.
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I think i'm too nice to be a good police officer. Police officers swear to arrest anyone who breaks the law, but I would find it difficult to throw somebody in jail over something...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I'm tired of being judged, of being bullied, of being abused, of being alone, but most of all, I'm tired of being alive.
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 30

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    Yeah... that's right. I'm tired of being the one doing all the talking in private message on EP. I'm tired of always being the one to break the ice. I'm tired of opening up to...
    Cristofori Cristofori 41-45, M Sep 21

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    I'm in a really depressed state right now and feel so hopeless. Life keeps throwing one thing after another at me and it's exhausting. I can't sleep, I barely eat, and I'm just...
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 21

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    OK..let's see...I have sleep apnea, restless leg syndrome, depression, anxiety, Fibromyalgia, Borderline Personality Disorder, PTSD, I'm overweight...which doesn't help a damn...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    So tired. I'm tired. My mind tires me. These thoughts that flow and spread and drain me. It's hard to even find the strength to type about it at times. Even when I type I feel that...
    Shippo Shippo 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 2

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