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I Am Tired of Being Nice

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    I'm So So Stupid

    Why do i put myself through hell all the time for other people. Why do i constantly put them before myself?! knowing i am damn well going to be let down and hurt. Problem is my heart is too big and i can't help it. But i feel like breaking down ... crying until i can't cry no...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Jul 9, 2013

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    This Is What Happens When You're Too Nice

    My whole life I have been a caregiver.  My older sister got very sick when I was three and shortly thereafter a mentally retarded younger sister was born.  I had to take care of both in various ways (pushing older sister in her wheelchair, taking younger sister with me...
    usedtobenice usedtobenice 56-60 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    Tired Of It All

    Why do the nice people get taken for granted. I mean I am only 23, but I will do anything and everything for people. I am the type of guy that gives money to the less fortunate, donates to charities, listen to all of my friends rants, and lets anyone and everyone into me heart...
    LtGhost LtGhost 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Woud It Be So Horrible

    Really would it be that bad if i joined the masses. The people who dont care about anyone but themselves. The people with the ability to use people for their own gain. It seems like it would be easier to not care. At least I could go back to watching the news and the damn stories...
    holyfreakina holyfreakina 22-25, F Dec 22, 2009

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    Sometimes I think about how much my life would

    improve if I became more of a cold hearted b****. I often fantasize about how nice it would be to say "no" more than I did "yes", or how good it would feel to tell someone I cannot stand that they're a piece of s*** and not feel bad about it. How less stressful my life would...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    Maybe Farewell....

    Gonna Be Deleting My EP Profile In A Month Or Two Maybe Less So If Your Gonna Talk To Me Do It Now :p I've Enjoyed My Time Here Somewhat And Met A Couple Awesome People :) Well Au Revoir
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 19, 2013

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    Being Nice

    So far, I have been nice to everyone even the one's who have been ****** with me.  You know what?  I won't be tired of it...I'll continue being nice cause I AM a NICE person after all!
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 10 Responses Apr 30, 2011

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    I am tired of caring

    and doing stuff for people because part of the reason deep down is I want them to need me or appreciate it and they don't. So **** them and **** it all. This is scary for me because I don't really have much else to offer.
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    Why Do I Even Bother... The Underwear

    As I have said before in my posts my husband is very skinny he is 6'3 137 lbs and so he wear a size small underwear. He only likes short boxers with no flap and they have to made out of a certain type of cotton. He is super picky. Well I go out yesterday on a quest for new...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 7, 2011

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    Oh Ho Ho!

    Yes, being nice has gotten me into bad situations..should I let my ***** side out? The gates of Hell so to speak?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    No More!

    I've always been a purist when it comes to my relationships and believed that being genuinely nice and not playing games with others was the way to do. This is especially true in my "romantic" relationships: I attract users and abusers like bees to honey. They know they can do...
    FaithInFate FaithInFate 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 27, 2010

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    It's Getting Old

    It's getting old. People mistake my kindness for weakness, a badge that gives the green light for them to use me like a doormat......and get away with it. I'm getting reeeeaaally sick of putting myself out there to try and help others only to be taken advantage of and kicked to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 28, 2012

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    Where do I even begin to explain?I am soooo

    tired of being walking all over due to being nice.I naturally am a very caring and have a huge heart.I always put people before myself.But all people are good for is using me.Do not take the time to understand me but want some sort of favor(s)from me.From now on I am...
    xdarkangelx666 xdarkangelx666 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    No More Miss's Nice Girl!

    I have always been the "therapist" in my group of friends, and i am totally up for being the go to person when someone needs help. But two friends have ruined their chance to talk to me if they need it. They complain 24/7, about every single thing! They also make their life...
    EveryoneNeedsAHug EveryoneNeedsAHug 18-21, F Nov 27, 2010

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    I Listen

    I pretty much listen to everyones problems.But when i'm down and out.I have nobody to turn to.I'm tired of being the giver and most  others being the takers.I go to a counselor.They asked me if i wanted to join a group and i said no.Because i don't want to...
    shan12stones shan12stones 36-40, F 9 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    I Am Sorry

    I Am Sorry But I Will Start Blocking People If You Message Me Only When You Need Me And Ignore My Messages When I Message You Or Add Me And Don't Message Me I Am Sorry But I Will More Then Likely Be Blocking You Sorry But No Point In Keeping In Touch With You I Love To Help...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    I'm done with people I'm going to be how I want

    to be by myself **** everybody else
    Arcdapreslamort Arcdapreslamort 16-17, F Jul 7

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    No, I'm Not.

    For those who know me, and those that don't, I'm nowhere near done being nice. I just thought about it. What if that's why some, not all, old people are grumpy? Because they have spent all their lives being nice to everyone, and they just got tired of it, and started only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 23, 2009

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    Yeah, Nice, That's Me

    If you ask people who know me to describe me in one word, the most likely answer would be "nice". I have been told sometimes I am too nice. Sometimes I wish I could be mean and say what's on my mind or tell someone off, but I can't. I would feel really horrible if I did. I have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6, 2012

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    Why?

    Why Are People So Whiney And Bigot On Here Especially Women A Couple Pervs Messaged You All Ladies Get That On Here Calm Down Just Block Them And Delete There Messages Or Comments Don't Get All Full Of Yourself It's Good To Know Your Worth But Have Some Self Control And Tone Down...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    Yes,

    I agree with the person who says it never pays because it ******* doesn't. Tell me, name one nice person who ended up living a good life...It's the greedy, selfish people who get whatever they want. They know how to use people like us. They know how to suck up to others. They are...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    Tired Of Being The Nice Woman...but I Refuse To Stop.

    Disclaimer: feel free to interchange the terms, depending on your gender. I am so sick and tired of men talking sh!t about how much they want a good/nice woman. OK so they finally get one. She treats you like a King, doesn't give you drama, stick by you through thick and thin...
    MysticLioness MysticLioness 31-35, F Apr 2, 2011

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    Way Too Nice

    I am way too nice and polite. People confuse that for being weak a lot and find out the hard way that isn't correct. I can't stop myself from being polite because that's just part of who I am but I am tired of being nice.
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 24, 2011

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    I Am Tired Of Being Nice

    i love to do things for people whom i care about, its not all the time. on the same note, i love to forward beautiful e-mails, basically i like to share what i like or make people happy. Dont get me wrong. i dont let people step all over me, i am not always giving gifts. Just...
    chorus chorus 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    It Never Pays

    people just take what they can from you and step on your face to get higher. Nice people only get walked on. I should start being mean all the time, tell people off and act like jerks to them. I always wanted to fit in anyway and its what everyone else does
    FoolYourself FoolYourself 16-18, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2007

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    I ******* hate not being able to tell people to **** Off....>:( I hate not being able to hate someone, I hate caring about everyone even the people that bully me.... I just...
    Chocolate29 Chocolate29 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 15

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    Honestly I don't know why anyone would not want to be nice. It makes other people feel happy around you but making yourself happy also. I adore helping people all around me, I love...
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    I figure it's hard to be evil to people being nice to you... So I'm always nice first :)
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    Today's mood: Bitchy with a chance of sarcasm. I'm in that stage where I can't open my mouth to respond to someone's greetings. I just feel like I don't wanna talk to people though...
    Callllie Callllie 70+, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've thought about giving up in life many times. One thing that's kept me going is the saying that ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I'll admit, some...
    Cece4 Cece4 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I'm so tired of people telling me what I should think, feel, how I should act, what I should keep to yourself and what I should share. I'm tired of when I am true to myself...
    PinkyScarlett PinkyScarlett 36-40, F 5 hrs ago

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    was awake for 36hrs straight, slept 4hrs, and again I'm awake for like 28hrs now. Strange thing is I'm feeling good, not tired at all. Maybe I'll just try to make it 48hrs this...
    ryan015 ryan015 13-15, M 6 hrs ago

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    Tonight I'm just tired of everything!! I'm tired of being too damn nice. I'm tired of being patient. I'm tired of having to wait for the right one. I want it all and I want...
    Latinloverguy Latinloverguy 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 8

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    Tired of trying to make friends Tired of trying to be the nice guy Tired of trying to stay a virgin Tired of trying to fit in Tired of trying to find the right girl Time to...
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    "Witness"Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired?Hollowed out and feeling uninspiredThe question I keep asking isWhat will it take to ease your worried mindYour worried...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    From the few experiences that I have read...most are young. Believe me, you still have time. People used to tell me to lose the weight before I turned 40 because it was harder to...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 10

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    Not sure why, my mind is just so tired. Feel trapped here. I am only 20 and feel as if I have been here for 70 years. So sick of the feeling. Tired of the horrible atrocious...
    Artimas Artimas 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5

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    Ok, so i sat here procrastinating a lot of my uni work, wondering how it has been a year, countless dates and still no man to really appreciate me in the same way as i have treated...
    Nhona Nhona 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    So tired. I'm tired. My mind tires me. These thoughts that flow and spread and drain me. It's hard to even find the strength to type about it at times. Even when I type I feel that...
    Shippo Shippo 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    I am tired of being tired of being lonely all the time :o. hope understood that xD
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5

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    I have started to get to the point, where I find it completely useless to try to become friends with anyone. All my friends act like I am really annoying, and they criticize me...
    dogsareCute16 dogsareCute16 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    So tired of being single. Tired of family and friends all the time. Would prefer a woman that i could spend my time with. I can cook, work, and im working towards other goals...
    DarkKnightPEKKA DarkKnightPEKKA 26-30, M Oct 7

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    I was rejected all of my life ....all of my crushes left me but not only that, i was blamed and two of them played games with my mind to actually make me believe they like me but...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 9

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    Tired of my crazy *** mom . Tired of my crazy *** family that hates me . Tired Of My Narcissistic *** Boyfriend . I'm ready to take a razor to my wrist to end it all . I'm tired of...
    BeautynBrains4 BeautynBrains4 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 18

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    It happens too often because sometimes I'm too nice
    metalchick18 metalchick18 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am 21 years old and a college senior who plans to apply to medical schools this coming year. This summer after a long, tumultuous relationship, I met my current boyfriend and I...
    babyxhil babyxhil 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am so tired of everything I just want my bed a nice cup of tea and Netflix and ill be the happiest little lady in this world...
    kay203 kay203 18-21, F Oct 5

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    i'm tired of always being the second priority, tired of being always in the last list of those person i set as my top priorities. I'm always just an option to them :'( and i couldn...
    ElizabethSwannTurner ElizabethSwannTurner 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I'm so tired of not being able to sleep properly and the way it makes me look and feel x
    Magdamay Magdamay 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 13

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