Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Am Tired of Being Nice

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 271 People

    I'm done with people I'm going to be how I want

    to be by myself **** everybody else
    Arcdapreslamort Arcdapreslamort 16-17, F Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Listen

    I pretty much listen to everyones problems.But when i'm down and out.I have nobody to turn to.I'm tired of being the giver and most  others being the takers.I go to a counselor.They asked me if i wanted to join a group and i said no.Because i don't want to...
    shan12stones shan12stones 36-40, F 9 Responses Oct 26, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yes,

    I agree with the person who says it never pays because it ******* doesn't. Tell me, name one nice person who ended up living a good life...It's the greedy, selfish people who get whatever they want. They know how to use people like us. They know how to suck up to others. They are...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yeah, Nice, That's Me

    If you ask people who know me to describe me in one word, the most likely answer would be "nice". I have been told sometimes I am too nice. Sometimes I wish I could be mean and say what's on my mind or tell someone off, but I can't. I would feel really horrible if I did. I have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Tired Of It All

    Why do the nice people get taken for granted. I mean I am only 23, but I will do anything and everything for people. I am the type of guy that gives money to the less fortunate, donates to charities, listen to all of my friends rants, and lets anyone and everyone into me heart...
    LtGhost LtGhost 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Tired Of Being The Nice Woman...but I Refuse To Stop.

    Disclaimer: feel free to interchange the terms, depending on your gender. I am so sick and tired of men talking sh!t about how much they want a good/nice woman. OK so they finally get one. She treats you like a King, doesn't give you drama, stick by you through thick and thin...
    MysticLioness MysticLioness 31-35, F Apr 2, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    No More Miss's Nice Girl!

    I have always been the "therapist" in my group of friends, and i am totally up for being the go to person when someone needs help. But two friends have ruined their chance to talk to me if they need it. They complain 24/7, about every single thing! They also make their life...
    EveryoneNeedsAHug EveryoneNeedsAHug 18-21, F Nov 27, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Where do I even begin to explain?I am soooo

    tired of being walking all over due to being nice.I naturally am a very caring and have a huge heart.I always put people before myself.But all people are good for is using me.Do not take the time to understand me but want some sort of favor(s)from me.From now on I am...
    xdarkangelx666 xdarkangelx666 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 16

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It's Getting Old

    It's getting old. People mistake my kindness for weakness, a badge that gives the green light for them to use me like a doormat......and get away with it. I'm getting reeeeaaally sick of putting myself out there to try and help others only to be taken advantage of and kicked to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 28, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Maybe Farewell....

    Gonna Be Deleting My EP Profile In A Month Or Two Maybe Less So If Your Gonna Talk To Me Do It Now :p I've Enjoyed My Time Here Somewhat And Met A Couple Awesome People :) Well Au Revoir
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 19, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Oh Ho Ho!

    Yes, being nice has gotten me into bad situations..should I let my ***** side out? The gates of Hell so to speak?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm So So Stupid

    Why do i put myself through hell all the time for other people. Why do i constantly put them before myself?! knowing i am damn well going to be let down and hurt. Problem is my heart is too big and i can't help it. But i feel like breaking down ... crying until i can't cry no...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Jul 9, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Woud It Be So Horrible

    Really would it be that bad if i joined the masses. The people who dont care about anyone but themselves. The people with the ability to use people for their own gain. It seems like it would be easier to not care. At least I could go back to watching the news and the damn stories...
    holyfreakina holyfreakina 22-25, F Dec 22, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am Tired Of Being Nice

    i love to do things for people whom i care about, its not all the time. on the same note, i love to forward beautiful e-mails, basically i like to share what i like or make people happy. Dont get me wrong. i dont let people step all over me, i am not always giving gifts. Just...
    chorus chorus 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This Is What Happens When You're Too Nice

    My whole life I have been a caregiver.  My older sister got very sick when I was three and shortly thereafter a mentally retarded younger sister was born.  I had to take care of both in various ways (pushing older sister in her wheelchair, taking younger sister with me...
    usedtobenice usedtobenice 56-60 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    No, I'm Not.

    For those who know me, and those that don't, I'm nowhere near done being nice. I just thought about it. What if that's why some, not all, old people are grumpy? Because they have spent all their lives being nice to everyone, and they just got tired of it, and started only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 23, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why Do I Even Bother... The Underwear

    As I have said before in my posts my husband is very skinny he is 6'3 137 lbs and so he wear a size small underwear. He only likes short boxers with no flap and they have to made out of a certain type of cotton. He is super picky. Well I go out yesterday on a quest for new...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 7, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sometimes I think about how much my life would

    improve if I became more of a cold hearted b****. I often fantasize about how nice it would be to say "no" more than I did "yes", or how good it would feel to tell someone I cannot stand that they're a piece of s*** and not feel bad about it. How less stressful my life would...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why?

    Why Are People So Whiney And Bigot On Here Especially Women A Couple Pervs Messaged You All Ladies Get That On Here Calm Down Just Block Them And Delete There Messages Or Comments Don't Get All Full Of Yourself It's Good To Know Your Worth But Have Some Self Control And Tone Down...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    No More!

    I've always been a purist when it comes to my relationships and believed that being genuinely nice and not playing games with others was the way to do. This is especially true in my "romantic" relationships: I attract users and abusers like bees to honey. They know they can do...
    FaithInFate FaithInFate 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 27, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Being Nice

    So far, I have been nice to everyone even the one's who have been ****** with me.  You know what?  I won't be tired of it...I'll continue being nice cause I AM a NICE person after all!
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 10 Responses Apr 30, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Never Pays

    people just take what they can from you and step on your face to get higher. Nice people only get walked on. I should start being mean all the time, tell people off and act like jerks to them. I always wanted to fit in anyway and its what everyone else does
    FoolYourself FoolYourself 16-18, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am Sorry

    I Am Sorry But I Will Start Blocking People If You Message Me Only When You Need Me And Ignore My Messages When I Message You Or Add Me And Don't Message Me I Am Sorry But I Will More Then Likely Be Blocking You Sorry But No Point In Keeping In Touch With You I Love To Help...
    ILeo ILeo 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am tired of caring

    and doing stuff for people because part of the reason deep down is I want them to need me or appreciate it and they don't. So **** them and **** it all. This is scary for me because I don't really have much else to offer.
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Way Too Nice

    I am way too nice and polite. People confuse that for being weak a lot and find out the hard way that isn't correct. I can't stop myself from being polite because that's just part of who I am but I am tired of being nice.
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 24, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Ok people at school tell me I'm to nice and being nice is a good thing right so sometimes people will joke around and be mean to me because I'm to nice but if someone mean everyone...
    jaddielove024 jaddielove024 13-15, F Nov 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I done being nice to people and then having them turn around and treat me like garbage!
    Codycope17 Codycope17 16-17, M Oct 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Tired of being treated like crap by my wife. I haven't done anything wrong
    lostwindowz lostwindowz 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's just the little things that can brighten someone's day. Saw an opportunity today on the street and I decided to write something nice rather than mean.
    wonderwall12 wonderwall12 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I try to be nice all the time, to everyone I meet. It can be so frustrating though how many people take advantage of this or just think you're being nice and not genuine. I'm not...
    lovingleila329 lovingleila329 22-25, F 16 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    In the normal course of my life I present as a normal polite person. But I don't like being nice, especially to the ones I love because they need to understand the real me. I'm not...
    lccraze lccraze 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Today's mood: Bitchy with a chance of sarcasm. I'm in that stage where I can't open my mouth to respond to someone's greetings. I just feel like I don't wanna talk to people though...
    Callllie Callllie 70+, F 1 Response Oct 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've spent the last year if not longer..possibly my whole adult life feeling like someone just took a bottle an smashed it into a million pieces and i'm the shards left over. I...
    Chinsei Chinsei 26-30, M 4 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I was a little kid, my dad was always in and out of my life. I was happy that he was in it and that he was with my mom....Untill he did things...he started pushing me around...
    Blank593 Blank593 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    "Witness"Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired?Hollowed out and feeling uninspiredThe question I keep asking isWhat will it take to ease your worried mindYour worried...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been with my bf on and off for over a decade. The physical abuse started when I was about 16, I'm 26 now. The last year of my life has been pure hell on earth. It started off...
    26andHurt 26andHurt 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ok, so i sat here procrastinating a lot of my uni work, wondering how it has been a year, countless dates and still no man to really appreciate me in the same way as i have treated...
    Nhona Nhona 22-25, F Oct 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am so tired and fed up of trying to make up something from having "enough", of seeking mercy from other people. I am so tired of being OK, though inside is a turmoil of pain and...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F Nov 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    she wants a part time boyfriend. the only time she gives me attention is when I get so hurt that I get distant. she said I tell her I miss her too much. I love her too much. she...
    blue22red22 blue22red22 31-35, M Nov 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    One of those days. Up all night without a wink of sleep. Just couldn't sleep. Morning came and I still couldn't sleep. Had a slightly conscious dream (it's something only I can...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 3 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It happens too often because sometimes I'm too nice
    metalchick18 metalchick18 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am 21 years old and a college senior who plans to apply to medical schools this coming year. This summer after a long, tumultuous relationship, I met my current boyfriend and I...
    babyxhil babyxhil 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm not really a fan of Nicki Minaj but the other day I saw this on tumblr and I really liked it: "When you're a girl, you have to be everything, You have to be dope at what you...
    RobbieID RobbieID 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So over the summer I began a new job and worked with a 25 year old as well as a 29 year old man. They were both nice and funny, I didn't mind being friends with them. Then, the sex...
    foreversmiling14 foreversmiling14 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You Know something isn't right when you finish talking to someone and you leave feeling sad or hurt. For my it's anger. Even though the convo was ok I feel that everytime I talk...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love being submissive . I feel like giving myself to another person is the only way I know how to show them how much I love them . I'm submissive by nature but I try not to show...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I realized my life will never be normal, I'm a creative and that means I'm naturally ******* weird and do add ****. But who really wants to be "normal" and live a life in confined...
    jojo0915 jojo0915 31-35, M 46 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I met my ex boyfriend through work and he quickly became part of small group of friends who got together for after work drinks. He was engaged at the time but broke it off with...
    carinathecat carinathecat 31-35, F Oct 26

    Your Response

    Cancel