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I Am Tired of Being Single

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    This year i will be 19 years old.

    Ive never been in a relationship. All the people ive graduated with and my friends are engaged, have babies or are having babies. I feel like I'm behind in life. Everyone I know has been in a relationship. I think its because I'm fat. And ive been fat my whole life. im about 6...
    mariahsaron2013 mariahsaron2013 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    Looking For Love

    I wish I could find a girl that loves me 4 who I am. I have been in many bad relationships . I wish I could find my one true love.
    bossman248 bossman248 18-21, M Sep 29, 2013

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    LONELY

    I am 23 and I am still single. I have had a couple of boyfriends but nothing serious. I am now at the stage in my life where I want someone to share it with me. I am really lonely. I get really depressed about this sometimes. I start to think that maybe there is something wrong...
    prettygal prettygal 22-25, F 9 Responses Dec 31, 2008

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    But I don't know how to get out of it!

    Every time I see a girl I would like to ask out, I think, "Get real, dude. She's way too pretty to be single."
    animatedman animatedman 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    jo1609 jo1609 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Forever Alone

    Im single because everyone ive been with cheats on me.. or either just doesn't want to be in a relationship am I that bad?<|3
    KittyKayKat KittyKayKat 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2013

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    Want To Be A Part Of Something Again

    I have been single for 6+ years (nearly 7 years) and for a while I was happy not to be tied down and in an unhappy situation.  but now that I am all healed from the past and want to move on, people have become more jaded, less interested in quality and just want sex. ...
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    I Just Want To Be Loved

    Im A Single 20 Mixed Male I have never had a woman in my life however i would love to have someone one of these days . Im fit , i go to college and i have a good moral standing i feel . Im not sure if anyone else is single and looking but i know i am . im just fed up with...
    Friendlyfacehere Friendlyfacehere 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 30, 2013

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    I want to be in a loving,

    romantic relationship, but it is a chore finding a clear cut honest man who want the same.
    faye75227 faye75227 41-45, F Mar 16

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    For so long I being single

    that at this point of my life it hurts so much, my heart was broken when I was 15 yo since then I never trusted my feelings to anybody because it hurt so much that I never want to felt the same way, but now that I'm 26 yo and after of being in short relationships I just feel so...
    Darkheartres Darkheartres 26-30, M Feb 3

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    Never Had A Boyfriend

    And I'm 20...21 in may, I find it depressing :(
    Alysh7 Alysh7 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    I tell myself I love being single,

    but sometimes I get so lonely, I have not been in a real relationship since the girl I was in love with broke my heart, it's been about 3 years... and now I feel like I dont know what to do...
    johnm07 johnm07 22-25, M Mar 3

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    Ive been single for 4everyears

    and its annoying. Plus I truely miss that sweet feeling...
    SweetAlone13 SweetAlone13 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Literally no matter what I say

    or do it's not enough for him. He says he's lonely and wants someone to be there for him. He wants a girlfriend. Everything he has said he wants in a girl is what I've been and done because I care about him and his happiness. Why can't he see it??
    jgh16 jgh16 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    Love? Whats That?

    Love in my life doesnt exist...
    BloodyTale BloodyTale 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2013

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    Im getting really tired of this everyone I know

    is getting a girlfriend ,girls I like are getting boyfriends, no girl shows even the slightest amount if attraction to me, I dont think im so unattractive that no girl seems interested in me when I actually care if they are. I find a girl im interested in, and sooner or later...
    Infowarrior76 Infowarrior76 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    Tired Of Being Single....Like You Have No Idea

    I'm o tired of being single. Everywhere look I see these happy couples and I'm like...I want that, I want what they have.yet I'm unable to have a relationship...I guess because I don't make the cut for the guys at my school..... =/
    bloodrayne2 bloodrayne2 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    Being Single When Amongst Couples

    Nothing brings home the pain of being single more than being the only single person in a group of married, engaged and otherwise attached friends. Today I experienced this to an excruciating degree when spending an evening with three happily married friends and their partners and...
    TabulaRasa26 TabulaRasa26 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2013

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    Singleness

    I am smart, educated, have ambitions and life goals. I am adventurous, motivated, and fearless. I have strong morals and have high values. I am a musician and a athlete. Why am I still single? What is possibly wrong with me? I have so much love to offer, I want to take care of...
    ykar ykar 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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    Relationship

    I know I am only 23 and have PLENTY of time finding someone to be with in my life. But it kind of gets annoying seeing a bunch of people together when you have no one like that. I want the companionship, and caring of a relationship. Someone who likes me for me and wants to be...
    jazzyking jazzyking 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 1, 2013

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    It's been over three years

    since my last relationship and I am really tired of being alone. I've gone on plenty of dates, but never felt any sort of connection. My last girlfriend was really attractive and we had a pretty good connection, feel like I haven't found anyone that was like that. Tried getting...
    Jbezzers Jbezzers 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    I'm tired of being single it

    so annoying I am ready for a relationship I been hurt before so it hard for me to love again because I'm afraid I'm get hurt again I give my all and my heart just got stomp on like it was dirt but it sucks being single I'm ready to give love another chance but the right guy did...
    Bre142 Bre142 18-21, F Jan 20

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    I Am Tired Of Being Single..

    26 years and still single.. i am tired of it!!!
    jitheshkrishnan jitheshkrishnan 26-30 3 Responses May 21, 2012

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    I think it's because of Christmas coming soon

    that I feel so alone :/ sucks though, I've been single for almost 6 months, :/
    sykepleierstud07 sykepleierstud07 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    I Can'T Stand It!

    So, I'm single. Usually, it's no big deal whatever. But, I'm almost seventeen now, and I've only ever had one boyfriend. And we broke up last year. Sure, being single isn't a bad thing, but it's not a great thing either. I wish I had someone I could imagine a future with...
    IcySongBird IcySongBird 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    Is That Wrong Being Single?

    Why everyone so busy to take care of my relationship? About a minutes ago my two friends just make fun of me, I know it was joking but it's like a sharp sword that turn my heart into a pieces! They told me that I am not normal and they said "I think you are homo, because We never...
    ChocolateNz ChocolateNz 22-25, F 11 Responses Feb 7, 2013

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    I am actually okay with being single

    but sick of all the comments that come with it . U are single because u don't compromise , because you set high standards , because you don't smile , because I work too hard ... Why label me ?!!?!!
    yellowribbonflower yellowribbonflower 31-35, F Apr 4

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    Sick Of It

    People at my school don't know how lucky they are in their social lives.They have relationships that are awesome. They have tones of friends. They are high on the social pyramid. Im sick of being alone while i walk around and see all the happy teenage couples. I go on Facebook...
    noahark543 noahark543 13-15, M 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    My wife and I met on this site (www.

    blackwhitepeople.com) 2 years ago. It took me a whole year before she would even go out with me on a date .We met at Fridays it was just for happy hour . We ended up talking for 4 hours and then she went with me to a cousin's cookout the next day . She is the most warm and...
    Allenm13 Allenm13 41-45, M Apr 10

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    Please Read

    I'm not sure what to do anymore. This whole thing we all do is just not making any sense anymore. Being 21 and still single (seems young but this thing inside is so strong it mimics me feeling older) is just too much now. I've realized that after a few breakups in my school...
    TheForestOfGnomes TheForestOfGnomes 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 8, 2012

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    I Want To Be Wanted

    I was in a long distance relationship for over 6 years. He was a love that I had never experienced before, that a lot of people don't ever experience. We began making plans to be at a short distance, and then he began to ignore my calls, my texts, and my e-mails. So, what does...
    eudrup eudrup 56-60, F Nov 30, 2013

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    I am 30 yrs old, have a good job,

    own my house and car but yet still single - I'm wondering if something is wrong with me.... :/. *open to advice*
    jkwright83 jkwright83 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 5

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    I'm new here and my status speaks to how I feel.

    I want a man that takes care of me for once, honest, loyal albeit not many of them left, drama free and can hold an intelligent conversation, laugh and enjoy life. I'm tired of babysitting them and I'm independent so don't need a man but would love one. I've been single for so...
    Yella2 Yella2 46-50, F Mar 29

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    Ok so I'm tired of being single,

    now I'm not the best looking guy I am pretty tall like 6 foot 6, 6 foot 7 tall also I am pretty fat and I guess seeing as most woman want a big strong man with six pack abs it kinda makes me feel unwanted and I know losing abit of weight wouldn't kill me, hell if I don't do...
    FabulousYetiMan FabulousYetiMan 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 10

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    Another Dance Alone

    Last night was Homecoming. I went by myself--as i do every other dance i go to. Of course, i danced with my friends...my girl friends, actually. I have never actually danced with a guy. I mean, yes, i had fun. I did. I was also kind of glad that my best friend didn't have a date...
    Snow1353 Snow1353 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2013

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    I'm Lonely, But I Just Can't Date Anymore.

    Dating sucks. I've been in a relationship before, I've been in more than one. They've had their ups and downs. I love being with someone when it's good, but dating, getting to the relationship point, really sucks. It seems like lately, it sucks more the older I get. I'm not...
    inama inama 36-40 3 Responses Sep 2, 2013

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    I'm Single Not Because I Want To Be

    Yeah I know. What normal girl wants to be single for during her prime youth? I turn 19 on july 19th and as record counting, I am one of those NBSB girls (No Boyfriend Since Birth). Maybe part of it is my fault you know? I'm kinda insecure with myself since by I was overweight...
    ChicaDee94 ChicaDee94 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    Someday...

    Well, I am 29 years old and the single mother of an 11 year old son. I am surrounded 99% of the time by happy couples. At my house, I live with my younger sister and her husband their two daughters. I also live down the street from my older sister who is newly married and just...
    cchavez84 cchavez84 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2013

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    ...

    So it's been 2 months since we broke up and it hasn't gotten any easier, we still talk everyday and hang out once or twice a week. I'm glad were still in touch and hang out but it hurts after five years of a relationship it is killing me. For the past 5 years I've had someone to...
    BarbiesAreFake BarbiesAreFake 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26, 2013

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    Alone

    I've always been fine being single, but lately I'm just sick of it. I want to feel loved. I want someone to share my life with, someone who will be there for me when no one else is. And it seems like I always go after the wrong guys, I always end up hurt. I just wanna be happy...
    Marie1992 Marie1992 18-21 5 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    I've been single (as in no "relationship"

    lasting more than threeish months) for about four years now. I'm successful, smart, in shape, nice, people say I'm funny. For a while being single and dating casually was a lot of fun but now it's becoming concerning. By now I thought I would have been able to find a great girl...
    hellochris06 hellochris06 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 9

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    Cant Keep a Man

    i never get comfortable in a relationship because im sure it wont last... dont get me wrong i dont expect it to fail, i go into a relationship with all my hopes of this guy being the one, but it just always crumbles. Im not ugly at all and im not the worst human being any has...
    daprincessregardless daprincessregardless 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    Strict Dad

    I want to try this new hairstyle but my dad won't let me and I can't do it until I move out, can some guy come and rescue me already... Propose or something so that I can leave this house!
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Single, Bored And Lonely

    I'm literally screaming those words. I say in all modesty that I am a good looking single girl ( people's observation). I have been single for a while now and it's baffling that these days I haven't even had any guy try to chat me up etc. they all seem to think I'm in...
    BouquiO BouquiO 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    I Have Never Had A Girlfriend

    I have never had a girlfriend in my life. I used to love someone, which always stopped me from moving on. But that was 6 years back, and it still lingers. I honestly want a relationship now, someone who can understand me. Someone who cares. Someone who I can share my life with...
    samm11 samm11 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2013

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    I just need someone to love me

    for WHO I AM.! Tired of immature ********.. I'm 16 only guys that arranged 17-19 message me please! Someone to guide me the right way! I will tell you my story when we start talking.. I'm a very bubble person. I always laugh and sometimes I cry but we will talk about that later...
    ChattyCathy16 ChattyCathy16 16-17, F Apr 11

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    First Day After 2 Years

    Well, me and my gf broke up so im single now. It hasnt even been a whole day yet and im already sick of being lonely and having no one there. I swear im literally driving myself insane hoping that she will realize what she is missing and come back. I mean it kind of makes me...
    ChevyKid2694 ChevyKid2694 18-21 2 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    Story Of My Life

    I have spent most of my young adult life single... I have had someone briefly and have dated but it usually ends up heading south. I dont run after A**holes or anything cuz thats not what I want....I just havent ended up with the right person. I know it'll happen eventually. Just...
    sgoodlow87 sgoodlow87 22-25, F 3 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I'm only a kid, so it's not really that big a deal (me being single), I'm just being winey. I like this girl I know, I think we're kind of friends. I try and talk to her, but I'm...
    adamwwilson11 adamwwilson11 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    i am so tired of being single
    amiya55 amiya55 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    tired of being single , its boring 😞😭
    yourlittlemsft yourlittlemsft 16-17, F Mar 30

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    I'm tired if being single. While everyone else has boyfriends
    ashleyrocksxoxo ashleyrocksxoxo 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's horrible to say, the consequence is if I leave I'm alone.. but what's the difference when you beg for love? I've been with my fiancé/boyfriend for about 3 years now and...
    krorenae krorenae 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I've been single my entire life. I did have times where guys do try and ask me out and stuff. One guy out of maybe lets say 4 had realllllllyyy tried but in the end i messed...
    Lalafancy Lalafancy 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Being single isn't that bad. Actually I quite like it. I didn't spend almost 2 decades under my parent rule just to leave and have to answer to someone else. No thank you. I like...
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I actually love being single. Cause I can just be my goofy self when I talk to my guy friends..who are my only friends and I don't have to worry about anything except myself
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F Mar 21

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