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I Am Tired of Being Single

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    Single, Bored And Lonely

    I'm literally screaming those words. I say in all modesty that I am a good looking single girl ( people's observation). I have been single for a while now and it's baffling that these days I haven't even had any guy try to chat me up etc. they all seem to think I'm in...
    BouquiO BouquiO 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    I am 30 yrs old, have a good job,

    own my house and car but yet still single - I'm wondering if something is wrong with me.... :/. *open to advice*
    jkwright83 jkwright83 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 5

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    I just need someone to love me

    for WHO I AM.! Tired of immature ********.. I'm 16 only guys that arranged 17-19 message me please! Someone to guide me the right way! I will tell you my story when we start talking.. I'm a very bubble person. I always laugh and sometimes I cry but we will talk about that later...
    ChattyCathy16 ChattyCathy16 16-17, F Apr 11

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    JNye8798 JNye8798 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    Strict Dad

    I want to try this new hairstyle but my dad won't let me and I can't do it until I move out, can some guy come and rescue me already... Propose or something so that I can leave this house!
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Single and im bisexual

    but honestly prefer girls...I want someone to love me my self harm scars love me through my chemo and all of my surgeries :'(
    blondiebieber17 blondiebieber17 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Waking up to the news

    that my sister is getting married and moving to NY Ahhh I'm going to miss her so much but I guess that's what makes her happy so it's ok the good part is that I'm going to have an excuse to go to NY the bad part is that I just notice I'm the only one in my family who is single...
    Itsmarline Itsmarline 18-21, F 1 Response May 26

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    I've been single since freshman year 😏

    now gonna be a junior 😏 #struggle
    BeccaK1 BeccaK1 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Tired Of Being Single....Like You Have No Idea

    I'm o tired of being single. Everywhere look I see these happy couples and I'm like...I want that, I want what they have.yet I'm unable to have a relationship...I guess because I don't make the cut for the guys at my school..... =/
    bloodrayne2 bloodrayne2 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    Storm1991 Storm1991 22-25, F 3 Responses May 28

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    I have been looking 4 a girlfriend 4 a

    while now. I'm tired of seeing people my age everywhere who has somebody. I need somebody!.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 18

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    I have been single for 3 years :/ *sigh* I miss

    holding a girl I love, telling her she's beautiful, and giving her kisses :(. I'm a nice guy and girls now a days don't want nice guys :/ why?
    TheGamerGuy95 TheGamerGuy95 18-21, T Jun 18

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    Alone

    I've always been fine being single, but lately I'm just sick of it. I want to feel loved. I want someone to share my life with, someone who will be there for me when no one else is. And it seems like I always go after the wrong guys, I always end up hurt. I just wanna be happy...
    Marie1992 Marie1992 18-21 5 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    Someday...

    Well, I am 29 years old and the single mother of an 11 year old son. I am surrounded 99% of the time by happy couples. At my house, I live with my younger sister and her husband their two daughters. I also live down the street from my older sister who is newly married and just...
    cchavez84 cchavez84 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2013

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    Single since i was born heheheh :)

    so don't feel too bad for yourselves.there is hope and while you wait have as much fun as you can and improve yourselves.
    redroseofgrace redroseofgrace 18-21, F Jun 29

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    Think It Is A Curse

    have no idea what it is so hard to find that other person for our lifes think in my case it is age but it has been the same sense my wife was killed at 19
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 4 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    Is That Wrong Being Single?

    Why everyone so busy to take care of my relationship? About a minutes ago my two friends just make fun of me, I know it was joking but it's like a sharp sword that turn my heart into a pieces! They told me that I am not normal and they said "I think you are homo, because We never...
    ChocolateNz ChocolateNz 22-25, F 10 Responses Feb 7, 2013

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    I feel bad for the educated exception out there.

    BEcause truth be told, I am tired. I really am. My heart can't take much more. Swimming against the current. I know there are nice guys there. They have contacted me before, I have gone on dates with them. I just lack... the energy. I was open these past couple months, I...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    Never Had A Boyfriend

    And I'm 20...21 in may, I find it depressing :(
    Alysh7 Alysh7 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    While I was out grocery shopping with my sister

    tonight I saw so many couples. Both of my younger siblings have boyfriends who they have kids with. Me, being the oldest feel like I am behind in life being single and having no children. I am lonely and just want someone to notice me.
    sandramay87 sandramay87 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I am tired of being lonely,

    I'm tired of all these couples in movie theaters, streets, amusement parks, at the park, in school, and I'm here like, "I like food" my sister is dating all my cousins are dating people, like wtf, even my niece is "dating" someone in preschool. I wish I had a gf from ages 13-16...
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M Jul 17

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    I feel like no guy likes me.

    I haven't got asked out in like a year or two. I don't think I'm that ugly but u may be wrong. I don't want to sound like a conceded ***** or thirsty person. But h don't know why no guy likes me....
    Aniyiah Aniyiah 13-15, F 5 Responses May 26

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    Anyone else feel like you were meant to be

    single?? No one will ever love you unconditionally?? Love is never enough??
    Dereklynn Dereklynn 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 12

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    I am actually okay with being single

    but sick of all the comments that come with it . U are single because u don't compromise , because you set high standards , because you don't smile , because I work too hard ... Why label me ?!!?!!
    yellowribbonflower yellowribbonflower 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I'm new here and my status speaks to how I feel.

    I want a man that takes care of me for once, honest, loyal albeit not many of them left, drama free and can hold an intelligent conversation, laugh and enjoy life. I'm tired of babysitting them and I'm independent so don't need a man but would love one. I've been single for so...
    Yella2 Yella2 46-50, F Mar 29

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    I'm tired of being single

    but I just can't control myself now. I use to be so kind and faithful. Then I got played and betrayed. I cant trust people anymore and I dont want to look like a fool in a relationship. So now I dont even care about feelings anymore just sex. Im really tired being single though...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 19

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    I tell myself I love being single,

    but sometimes I get so lonely, I have not been in a real relationship since the girl I was in love with broke my heart, it's been about 3 years... and now I feel like I dont know what to do...
    johnm07 johnm07 22-25, M Mar 3

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    I'm not really sure what to do anymore.

    A guy says I'm his best friend and he wants to cherish our friendship but at the same time he "can't resist me". What am I supposed to think?
    LacedYoung LacedYoung 18-21, F Jul 17

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    Single since 6th grade.

    .....im graduated and going to college now....please, tell me how bad you have it that you've been single for a few months...must be lonely! I contemplate giving up.... :/
    Chrispy793 Chrispy793 18-21, M Jun 19

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    LONELY

    I am 23 and I am still single. I have had a couple of boyfriends but nothing serious. I am now at the stage in my life where I want someone to share it with me. I am really lonely. I get really depressed about this sometimes. I start to think that maybe there is something wrong...
    prettygal prettygal 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 31, 2008

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    I don't even know what to say here haha iv dated

    but it's always ended bad, and iv learned I'm hard to deal with. Honestly I just don't know anymore
    kintobeans kintobeans 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 18

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    Been single for about a year now

    and really not liking it
    tylerstevens97 tylerstevens97 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    i'm 41. i do not dare to flirt women,

    i'm not ease with girls i always wanna date girls and women, but they always say no laurent
    steack2 steack2 41-45, M Apr 23

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    I'm Single Not Because I Want To Be

    Yeah I know. What normal girl wants to be single for during her prime youth? I turn 19 on july 19th and as record counting, I am one of those NBSB girls (No Boyfriend Since Birth). Maybe part of it is my fault you know? I'm kinda insecure with myself since by I was overweight...
    ChicaDee94 ChicaDee94 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    My wife and I met on this site (www.

    blackwhitepeople.com) 2 years ago. It took me a whole year before she would even go out with me on a date .We met at Fridays it was just for happy hour . We ended up talking for 4 hours and then she went with me to a cousin's cookout the next day . She is the most warm and...
    Allenm13 Allenm13 41-45, M Apr 10

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    But I don't know how to get out of it!

    Every time I see a girl I would like to ask out, I think, "Get real, dude. She's way too pretty to be single."
    animatedman animatedman 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 15

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    First Day After 2 Years

    Well, me and my gf broke up so im single now. It hasnt even been a whole day yet and im already sick of being lonely and having no one there. I swear im literally driving myself insane hoping that she will realize what she is missing and come back. I mean it kind of makes me...
    ChevyKid2694 ChevyKid2694 18-21 2 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    Wondering if ill ever find

    that right person that well just full up the emptiness in my heart....
    PenguinLovercx PenguinLovercx 16-17, M 2 Responses May 12

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    Im getting really tired of this everyone I know

    is getting a girlfriend ,girls I like are getting boyfriends, no girl shows even the slightest amount if attraction to me, I dont think im so unattractive that no girl seems interested in me when I actually care if they are. I find a girl im interested in, and sooner or later...
    Infowarrior76 Infowarrior76 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I am very attracted to a girl

    that is a jr. In high school. She has always been really friendly to me , but tends to treat me more like a kid. Last time I tried to talk to her she avoided me, this has been going on for the past 2 days. What do I do? I really like her and hope she can see past age for a...
    rmedndngrus rmedndngrus 13-15, M May 19

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    "Classy is when a woman has everything to

    flaunt, but chooses not to show it"... Sadly this is one of the many reasons I'm single lol. My generation doesn't appreciate class or modesty. You have to be over the top and 'ratchet', those are the kind of girls who always got a man 😒
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 4

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    This Just Got To End

    ok, i have always yerned a boyfriend some one who i can love take care of hold kiss make love to and just give happiness too but it dosent come to easy i had chances of finding him but or having him but my mind always blows over to i know he just want sex and thats not what i...
    awhitemanlover18 awhitemanlover18 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2013

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    Singleness

    I am smart, educated, have ambitions and life goals. I am adventurous, motivated, and fearless. I have strong morals and have high values. I am a musician and a athlete. Why am I still single? What is possibly wrong with me? I have so much love to offer, I want to take care of...
    ykar ykar 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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    I Want A Woman In My Life!!

    I want a WOMAN in my life to come Home to., to Lay NAKED in each Others Arms., To Taste., to Inhale her scent, and to WHISPER too in the DARK.
    6wolf9 6wolf9 46-50, M Dec 8, 2012

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    I'm tired of living The single life.

    Just to have a girl be there for me as well as me for here would be great. I am use to being Alone since I've never been in a relationship But when I go out places like the movies for example I always think of how I'm not here With a girlfriend. Maybe I'm just a loser
    DaftPnk DaftPnk 18-21, M May 28

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    Ive been single for 4everyears

    and its annoying. Plus I truely miss that sweet feeling...
    SweetAlone13 SweetAlone13 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    jo1609 jo1609 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I've been struggling,

    no type of female friend off of here, hahaha I forever alone. :( :)
    chunckymunky chunckymunky 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Cant Keep a Man

    i never get comfortable in a relationship because im sure it wont last... dont get me wrong i dont expect it to fail, i go into a relationship with all my hopes of this guy being the one, but it just always crumbles. Im not ugly at all and im not the worst human being any has...
    daprincessregardless daprincessregardless 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    Want To Be A Part Of Something Again

    I have been single for 6+ years (nearly 7 years) and for a while I was happy not to be tied down and in an unhappy situation.  but now that I am all healed from the past and want to move on, people have become more jaded, less interested in quality and just want sex. ...
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    Please Read

    I'm not sure what to do anymore. This whole thing we all do is just not making any sense anymore. Being 21 and still single (seems young but this thing inside is so strong it mimics me feeling older) is just too much now. I've realized that after a few breakups in my school...
    TheForestOfGnomes TheForestOfGnomes 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 8, 2012

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    =,= it isnt going to change,

    ill be 21 in 1 week, i have been alone and ignored for 7 years now....7 years of helping people, making sure their relationships don't end, making sure they don't end up like me, and yet, im still the one alone. Im learning to accept that i am not going to find "her". If i could...
    Chrispy793 Chrispy793 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Related Experiences

    I been single for almost 2-3 years its not that I do t want a relationship it's just I haven't been in the right environment to find one I'm interested in that's all and every time...
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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