I Am Tired Of Being Taken For Granted

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    I Am Sick Of Falling For Fake People

    Just when I thought I had found someone special who understood me .. and allowed him to enter into my life.. He up an poofed... deleted everything.. without a word shared.. I just don't understand how a man can take up a woman's life for about 6 weeks solid and then just disapear...
    cooki66 cooki66
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Oct 22, 2013

    I Always Do Stuff For People

    I always do stuff for people and they often don't return the favor unless i directly ask for someone to help me. I get tired of it and just chill alone cause I get so frustrated with people, i feel invisible sometimes, music helps! I always see when people/friends are upset but...
    sociallyawk sociallyawk
    18-21, F
    Jan 30, 2011

    Ever since the people I used to consider to be

    close to me just became distant and flaky, I've really changed my attitude about any sort of relationship I'm in or will ever be in. I was so deeply hurt feeling like a ghost. I used to think, "if only I could just shut off my feelings." I was only able to because I was treated...
    kissthedeadly kissthedeadly
    22-25, F
    Jul 12, 2014

    I'm tired of being a people pleaser only to be

    consider their second place or plan B. I am sick to death of worrying about people only to have them careless. I just feel like I am everyone’s second place. . . the worst part I think I am even second place in my own life. . . I just such a dumb-*** people pleaser that I...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 9, 2015

    Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by

    the person you thought won't never hurt you.
    Charmeeee Charmeeee
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2015

    My boyfriend (maybe ex) asked

    for space. I haven't been with him for 3 weeks now and bow he's asking for space. I know he's busy with his career and for the past 3 weeks I only talk to him over chat. Now he's asking for space. I don't get it. I asked him until when is this space and he said until I realized...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 11, 2015

    No one ever gets tired of loving.

    But everyone gets tired of waiting, assuming, hearing lies and hurting.
    JuanaChange JuanaChange
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 9

    Directed to a person guy adult dude that's my

    mom's boyfriend: You tell me that I don't do enough at home, you tell me I don't walk the dog enough, don't wash the dishes enough, don't vacuum the house enough.. Yet I'm not the one who leaves food on the plate after the dishes, I'm not the one who leaves dust bunnies...
    DoorMattress DoorMattress
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Jun 18, 2015

    I Am So Tired Of It.

    I AM A VERY NICE PERSON. I DELIGHT IN HELPING OTHERS. I CAN ALWAYS BE COUNTED ON TO LEND A HELPING HAND. UNFORTUNATELY NOT EVERYONE IS LIKE THAT AND NOT EVERYONE APPRECIATES THOSE FINE QUALITIES. THEY THINK BECAUSE SOMEONE IS HELPFUL OR ACCOMODATING THAT THEY ARE A PUSHOVER OR...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 15, 2012

    I'm usually the one everyone asks

    for help. I like helping people but can't help but notice it's rare for people to offer to help me when I need it. Just seems to be a general trend.
    katariffik katariffik
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 17, 2014

    Why is it that when we let the person we love

    see our vulnerability, it gets used against us? Why do we always have to play games even with the one person that means the world to us? Is it wrong to want to be in a happy, loving relationship? If all we are doing is putting on a façade then how/when do we give ourselves the...
    evagould evagould
    31-35
    1 Response Jul 12, 2014
    monatonie monatonie
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 22, 2015

    It seems as though my friends never call me,

    ask me to do fun things with them. I'm the one they call when they need a phone number or to babysit, but not just ask how I'm doing. It's very hurtful!
    Sweetgirl4u2 Sweetgirl4u2
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Jul 12, 2014

    People seem to take whenever,

    but never give. I don't understand how some people can be so selfish. I feel like I've got mug written across my forehead a lot. It's like people enjoy taking you for an idiot. The worst thing is knowing your giving and people just take, take and take. But they never look at...
    danyellelakin danyellelakin
    22-25, F
    May 27, 2015

    It happens too often

    because sometimes I'm too nice
    metalchick18 metalchick18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2014

    My Family

    I come home and nobody is there, I talk and nobody listens, I do things but no one appreciates, Do I even exist in this world?
    arianne19 arianne19
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2010

    Sometimes or most of the time i think i am taken

    for granted... There are a lot of insensitive people around us
    stiffadak stiffadak
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 12, 2014

    I'm A Honest And Loving Person

    When you are with me for what ever reason, I will always listen, be honest, care, and protect you....But it seems like all the people that I have ever allowed in my life always take me for granted and our relationships are all one sided...I'm always there for them, but they are...
    cooki66 cooki66
    46-50, F
    Sep 29, 2013
    nemike nemike
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 13, 2015

    So if somebody can help me out with this,

    I would really appreciate it. So i have never been a materialistic girl. It doesn't matter that much to me. a while ago it was my bday, and neither did my best friend or boyfriend give me anything. like nothing. And i cant help but think about it every night. Cause i love them...
    piscespieces piscespieces
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 24, 2015

    This is for all the people who're never

    appreciated or loved, no matter how hard they try or what they put in... Love What do you know? What do you say? Never give up On what you have Never get stabbed Right in the back Kicked in the sack Punched in the rack No more life hacks Face what you had Never get sad...
    GreenManley GreenManley
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 18, 2014

    I'm a nice person, I had friends I've known

    for years ask me for money and a while later I bring it up that they owe me money and they go around and say I am antagonizing them... I'm tired of being a welcome mat for rudeness to trample Tired of making friends and them questioning my choices in life... Tired of people...
    4NeonFun 4NeonFun
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 8, 2015

    Tired of being so innocent

    and modest... So judge me, I couldn't care less.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 9, 2015

    Every time I enter a relationship,

    I give it my all. I make that person my sun, moon and stars. I make them my everything. I want to be the perfect girlfriend. I want to give it my all. I want to be understanding. I want to be non-clingy. I want to be the "cool" girlfriend he can show off to his friends. I want...
    regretlesswriter regretlesswriter
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2014

    After so many years of the same,

    unchanging behavior, I begin to wonder why I still associate with some people. Is the friendship really worth it at this point in my life? Does my friendship really mean anything to them when advice is continuously ignored? Am I the only one who hasn't given up hope that someone...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 11, 2014

    I have a brain, but it's not here

    for you to poke and pry until you get what you want out of it. Just saying. : /
    shiranai97 shiranai97
    18-21, M
    Apr 9, 2015
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