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I Am Tired of Being the Nice Guy

Ever so tired of being the guy that woman like but never fall for, 22 People

    Okay, this friend and I have been friends now

    for 10 years...Like best friends. Let's start with her family. Her mom has a major social anxiety issues and in these 10 years, I have only been in her house maybe 4 times. Her mom doesn't like to go out (may leave the house once every month or two), doesn't see her family...
    mkingsbury10 mkingsbury10 22-25, F Dec 27, 2013

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    Enough of Being the Nice Guy

    Since I have opened to others about my relationship issues (see the groups I belong to) I got loads of wonderful support and I could not thank all the EP people enough for making me feel so much better. One thing that has now started to bother me though, is how often I have been...
    HappyTime11 HappyTime11 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Tired of being the one they come to

    after they enjoyed there life, after they turned 30 after they had 4 kids, after he abuses her over and over, after she realizes his heart is not as big as his muscles.
    EBestest EBestest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    being the nice guy has it benefits,

    but lately has been nothing but useless. im sick and tired of being there for everyone, helping others and offering my self to help. It doesnt give me any benefits because everyone forgets about how nice i am to them and never appreciate my acts. being the nice guy and living by...
    positiveperson10 positiveperson10 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 16

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    Can we please stop with this nonsense? No, nice guys do NOT finish last. There's something called "compatibility." If you're nice, but have nothing in common-specially important...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    There's this guy at school and he's a creep. I'm 20 and he's 27, he's a tutor. Hardly talked to him all semester. A few weeks ago he offered to drive me to the Food Bank to get...
    XxWolverinaxX XxWolverinaxX 18-21 1 Response Dec 7

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    There was this 'nice guy' talking about how good he is while also blaming girls for making him horny and "taunting" him with their boyfriends. Now generally with "nice guys" they...
    Perdonal Perdonal 13-15 1 Response Dec 15

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    Nice guys do finish last that's how its always been. Girls love jerks that treat them like crap. Then we always find a nice and and automatically friend zone him. The point is that...
    LovingTheNewMe LovingTheNewMe 16-17, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a nice guy, but I guess being will fulfill my needs of having a girlfriend. I was raise by my mother to a good person, respectful, kindness and then I become more wanting to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 8

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    I tend to get stuck in the friend mode alot. I like to date but where guys are very aggressive I try and be more respectable I feel I have so much love and just can't share it nice...
    jasonisfun jasonisfun 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 16

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    I visited my grandmother yesterday, and I'm looking forward to seeing her at my parents' home on Christmas Day, so I was feeling good about myself when I waited at the bus terminus...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Know why?? I gave one a chance last night. Arranged to meet him at a certain place and time. I show up on time. He cancels on me. He had a panic or anxiety attack and just couldn't...
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 7

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    I am sick of being a good person. All I do is give and give and give and get nothing in return.People walk on top of me like I'm a rug. Everyone says that i'm a good person. I want...
    bjman188 bjman188 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I just had a call from a friend that works for the local food bank. She knows about our financial situation and wanted to help by suggesting I ask for a Christmas basket (it's a...
    Blanche08 Blanche08 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 5

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    Is there such thing as being too nice? Yes. I believe people think I'm a creep when I'm being too nice. That has caused a lot of them to stop talking to me. I'm sorry though, but...
    razac2 razac2 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 28

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    lol you know who you are. Stop being thirsty and tryna send **** pics. That's not what this is about.
    Lifefucksusall Lifefucksusall 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok men who are old Enough to Be my dad and ask me for a pic I'm gonna block you or /and sen you a picture of me with a fake blood like I did this guy lol
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 6

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    This would be nice.....right about now
    trappedgirl17 trappedgirl17 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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    A weird beast with a big heart want to lick it ? And nice flavour
    JUGGALOking JUGGALOking 70+, M Dec 17

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    I have been having problem that a guy could relate to more
    curiou98 curiou98 18-21, M Dec 4

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    I love all you nice people <3
    TerrabyteMcEwan TerrabyteMcEwan 16-17, M Dec 4

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    It seams like this society that I live in just loves to stereotype and judge males for being males. I can't stand it. Everywhere I go, the media is out to hurt all males, and ruin...
    Zzarcon1 Zzarcon1 18-21, M Dec 3

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    No.. I don't want to check out your ******. No.. I don't want to show you my privates. That is all
    LadyJunebug LadyJunebug 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 7

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    They're better than Douche Bags. Just saying.
    SoulWriter17 SoulWriter17 16-17, M Nov 29

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    One of the best of British
    Onefrog1979 Onefrog1979 31-35, M Dec 2

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    Nothing I do is ever good enough for people I'm getting sick of being the nice guy
    Jwolf1342 Jwolf1342 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I spent two roller-coaster years with a guy I met when I started college, and nearly a year and a half of that time was long distance. He joined the navy and left a week after we...
    SydneyKarine SydneyKarine 18-21, F Nov 26

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    Ok ... Help me please.... There is this guy at work that is a nice guy. I am not interested in him in any which way. He's a bit dorky, weird, innocent, and odd. Well ... He...
    sunshinegirl76 sunshinegirl76 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 2

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    This happened to me three times while working at this resturant. 24-28 year old black guy that speaks slangish but very proper when need to. Always happy and in good mood, don't...
    Icanhelpjustask Icanhelpjustask 26-30, M Dec 6

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    "Would you like some wassail?" Wuzzat? :/ It was like drinking apple pie. I kind of liked it. I enjoyed the tea party, even though I still think the idea of having a tea party is a...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 26-30 1 Response Dec 10

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    I've done no wrong, I'm just being nice and being respectful to others feeling. Trusting someone is not hard for me, but why i'm always being lied to. I have choices, but i choose...
    EEA1991 EEA1991 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Why? Why am I being lied to? Is it cuz of my age? Or me being a guy? I don't get it. Whatever the truth is that u are hiding, u can tell me anything and I will understand. U don't...
    biggerbro biggerbro 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm so tired. I'm fighting sleep right now but I don't know why
    Rosebox Rosebox 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I am so tired of wasting my tears over things I know I have no control over. Ever since I was little, I'd cry at the tiniest things like accidentally hitting someone, which now...
    EmEn1125 EmEn1125 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    I'm finding that I enjoy a nice glass of a fine full bodied red wine. Very tasty!!
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 1 hr ago

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    Heya ladies, I'm getting pretty tired of being told, “You can't write this or that.” I've decided that's ok though because I've found a new website. I've only been here for 2...
    DevilishTongue DevilishTongue 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    Im tired of going to the library everynight to study hard for the test I will have in this week. It will be nice if after that test I could relax and have some time for me, but no...
    mosbyy mosbyy 18-21, F Dec 13

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    *(I'm a girl and I study in an all girls school right beside our neighboring all boys school) It strated when when the school volleyball varsity that I was in decided to have a...
    bgale12399 bgale12399 18-21, F Dec 7

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    im sick and tired of not being loved, or appreciated...im sick and tired of being beat on and abused by the man I love most in the world. I tired of being put down and not feeling...
    openlycurious openlycurious 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    Any guy👌 I'll make sure to answer. I could go for some guy friends bc I don't have any in reality lol
    Xunig11 Xunig11 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I'm tired of being surrounded by unhappy people. I'm tired of being the only good thing in everyone's life. Or the only thing that "keeps them going". I'm tired of making stability...
    absolutionist absolutionist 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    HappyChub300 HappyChub300 46-50, M Dec 4

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    I was raised with a very distinct perspective on body image. I didn’t even realize it until much later in my life. No one ever explicitly articulated it to me; nevertheless it...
    HappyChub300 HappyChub300 46-50, M Dec 4

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    Like foreal y'all don't even know... I am absolutely tired of being used by guys. I am not some freaking toy for you to play with. I am not some pawn on the chess board for you to...
    sarahspanked43 sarahspanked43 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    *Apologize in advance for being mopey during the holidays* Happened again. Met someone. Went out a few times. It's going great. Up until she fills me in on her "situation...
    NewShoes12 NewShoes12 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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