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I Am Tired of Being the Nice Guy

Ever so tired of being the guy that woman like but never fall for, 27 People

    being the nice guy has it benefits,

    but lately has been nothing but useless. im sick and tired of being there for everyone, helping others and offering my self to help. It doesnt give me any benefits because everyone forgets about how nice i am to them and never appreciate my acts. being the nice guy and living by...
    positiveperson10 positiveperson10 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Okay, this friend and I have been friends now

    for 10 years...Like best friends. Let's start with her family. Her mom has a major social anxiety issues and in these 10 years, I have only been in her house maybe 4 times. Her mom doesn't like to go out (may leave the house once every month or two), doesn't see her family...
    mkingsbury10 mkingsbury10 22-25, F Dec 27, 2013

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    Tired of being the one they come to

    after they enjoyed there life, after they turned 30 after they had 4 kids, after he abuses her over and over, after she realizes his heart is not as big as his muscles.
    EBestest EBestest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23, 2014

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    Enough of Being the Nice Guy

    Since I have opened to others about my relationship issues (see the groups I belong to) I got loads of wonderful support and I could not thank all the EP people enough for making me feel so much better. One thing that has now started to bother me though, is how often I have been...
    HappyTime11 HappyTime11 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    yes. But only if your not someone I dislike.
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    I know it because I 'm a nice guy.I'm not a weak guy or a push over guy or a guy that you feel sorry for.I'm a genuine easy going,nice guy.Why live life bitter or filled with hate...
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    Silently crying to myself under my covers because I'm ugly. I hate the way I look. No matter what I tell myself & what people tell me I still feel like such an ugly ******. Really...
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    I'm a good guy, not a "nice guy" a good one. It comes down to respecting yourself. I will never start a fight, but if you want to fight I'm good to go. I think there is a serious...
    Rerelaxed Rerelaxed 36-40, M Aug 21

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    Dear EP gods: I appreciate your review and reinstatement of my avatar. Thank you for processing my request and notifying me that "my girl" is back where she belongs.
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 20

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    Of course they do, like nice girls do. It's just a pity there is so much crud to shift through.The perfect proved needed of gad's existance.
    Gavriella Gavriella 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Same story. I like being nice if it helps some one or makes them feel better, but sometimes I think some people take advantage of my inability to say no. this has some times...
    CreativeKitty CreativeKitty 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    So, I met a guy at work... He's cute in like a nerdy way. He's funny, and we have a lot in common. He just moved here from out of state and doesn't have any friends. So I got to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I know this because I have several in my life. One of which came to my rescue when a guy who I used to call my friend, crossed the line. I'm lucky to have him
    Salsaconqueso1124 Salsaconqueso1124 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    Because my mom has one in her life and he's awesome
    Chanelbettis Chanelbettis 26-30 3 Responses Aug 17

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    no, I don't really know this. I'm jus trying to believe it....
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 17

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