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I Am Tired of Being the Nice Guy

Ever so tired of being the guy that woman like but never fall for, 24 People

    Okay, this friend and I have been friends now

    for 10 years...Like best friends. Let's start with her family. Her mom has a major social anxiety issues and in these 10 years, I have only been in her house maybe 4 times. Her mom doesn't like to go out (may leave the house once every month or two), doesn't see her family...
    mkingsbury10 mkingsbury10 22-25, F Dec 27, 2013

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    Tired of being the one they come to

    after they enjoyed there life, after they turned 30 after they had 4 kids, after he abuses her over and over, after she realizes his heart is not as big as his muscles.
    EBestest EBestest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23, 2014

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    being the nice guy has it benefits,

    but lately has been nothing but useless. im sick and tired of being there for everyone, helping others and offering my self to help. It doesnt give me any benefits because everyone forgets about how nice i am to them and never appreciate my acts. being the nice guy and living by...
    positiveperson10 positiveperson10 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Enough of Being the Nice Guy

    Since I have opened to others about my relationship issues (see the groups I belong to) I got loads of wonderful support and I could not thank all the EP people enough for making me feel so much better. One thing that has now started to bother me though, is how often I have been...
    HappyTime11 HappyTime11 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    First of all, I don't believe that. I don't want to be associated with this group. I think there are nice guys but I also think there are guys who don't like themselves and be...
    AltF4 AltF4 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    They definitely do. But the problem with girls like me(extremely extroverted and opinionated,) is that sometimes nice guys can be push overs which doesn't set well with me...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    Nice Guys & Nice Guy syndrome :These men who view themselves as prototypical "nice guys," whose "nice deeds" are in reality only motivated by attempts to passively please women .
    samanthathegreat samanthathegreat 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Nice guys still exist but they think they know everything more then the next guy. Some nice guys are dangerous in the head.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I've met a few ,and i'm usually put off by them at first not because he's nice ,but hes just too much like 'HEY I'M THAT GUY" and that's when i'm like hey buddy what are you...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl 70+, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    The nice guys slowly get turned into not so nice guys by bitchy girls
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    Nice guys finish last. Too many times this has happened to me. Story of my life.
    jonbz17 jonbz17 22-25, M Mar 6

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    Honestly, I believe there are nice guys out there but their either never interested in me, already in a relationship, or I haven't met them yet. I'm someone who craves a serious...
    Raewyn95 Raewyn95 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    What is a "nice guy" to you?
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 19

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    They out there somewhere, nice guys don't make fun of people for no reason, they open the door for girls or old woman even if they don't know them, they give there gf compliments...
    ciarajones179 ciarajones179 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    A smile can change a person's whole day. A compliment can turn a day around. It doesn't have to be big things, being nice is easy and can have a huge impact on someone.
    musicluva199 musicluva199 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I know that nice genuine guys still exist. But where the hell are they all at? I keep getting creep perverts coming after me. Where's the guys who want real conversations and...
    Philli8807 Philli8807 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    Many assume I'm weak because I'm nice. They think I'm a pushover, and use that to get their way. The thing is, a guy can only take so much. Like the quote goes, "Even the devil was...
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    It is so simple. Just be nice. Look at the person you're interacting with and understand that what you see, what they show you is just the tip of the iceberg. The crabby salesgirl...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    But others I don't really know what I am. There have been others at school that thought that I was hardcore and say that" I'm bad as ****." Well I did do cool things, I was really...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T Mar 13

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    nice is one thing, smart is another
    Rain0069 Rain0069 26-30, F 21 Responses Mar 18

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    of course we exist but any girl wants a kind and lovely guy expecialy if he have blue hair
    AndySiixx AndySiixx 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 18

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    If you have to ask a stranger to look at your **** to have an opinion about your own size, then it's probably too small. I'm really getting sick of this ****. Seriously, go away...
    LeChatCurieux LeChatCurieux 18-21, F Mar 3

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    No, I will not send you pictures of me, my boobs, my stomach, or feet. Stop.
    gingersammy gingersammy 22-25, F Mar 17

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    I find older men talking to me and saying they find me attractive so creepy... Like, dude, I'm not attracted to old men in real life...and much less here. Like wt*, don't try to...
    TheArtisticOne TheArtisticOne 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 20

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    Like seriously... If you are old enough to be my father, and you flirt with me.... That is so disgusting. I find that so disturbing so stop please.
    JustineMusey JustineMusey 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sandy11cc sandy11cc 26-30, F Mar 9

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    But where are they at though lol .
    momo335 momo335 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    They are out there...somewhere
    gingersammy gingersammy 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    I was in an abusive marriage that has ended in divorce - but I know there are kind men out there - sad that I lived trough that abuse for 20 years and my kids witnessed it
    Joyjoyful7 Joyjoyful7 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kelly11aa kelly11aa 26-30, F Mar 17

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    One direction basically!!!
    Zjmsmyking Zjmsmyking 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    we exist...girls just don't want us because we don't look like models
    cmicsilvels cmicsilvels 22-25, M 6 Responses Mar 18

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    I feel like I'm the loser between the 2. idk whether I try too hard to make the guy like me or I just am. it the likeable type. Or maybe a combination of both. I am a likeable...
    khushali11 khushali11 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I have completely had it with the rude men on EP....just because I have mature content on my profile, and a picture of myself for an avatar doesn't mean that I am interested in...
    sistahgirl39 sistahgirl39 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    The internet world is a world full of intrigue.One constant is the fact when humans interact with other humans.Jealousy may exist between each other. Our brains over react to...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I feel for you nice guys out there trying to find a nice girl to chat with on here. Unfortunately, there are so many nasty guys out there that my default position when you message...
    Littlemissshy7 Littlemissshy7 41-45, F 71 Responses Mar 19

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    And I don't know why. My coworker has been ignoring me for about a couple of weeks now for no apparent reason. We were never real friends but we used to be friendly at work and now...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets 22-25, F Mar 9

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    Met my husband at age 19 I was with group of nudist friends mostly younger like me. We went skinny dipping and just hung out. He was a real nice guy but all the other male nudist...
    sweetcheeks45 sweetcheeks45 66-70, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Very tired. Just want all the emotional an physical pain to at least ease up, give me a break....just for a little while....
    GhostOfGrey GhostOfGrey 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    I really shouldn't complain, I have a good life, I have a very good family. But I'm just so tired of being single, I'm so tired of waking up in the morning, and not having that one...
    Elkins91 Elkins91 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 10

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    Guys who hit women are cowards. As guys, we're meant to love and protect women, not beat on them!
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 5 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I met a guy several years ago and he is 8 years older than me. He began to talk to me but suddenly he began flirting. When I was 18 he began to tell me about his personal life and...
    GalacticMermaid GalacticMermaid 22-25, F 2 hrs ago