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I Am Tired of Being the Nice Guy

Ever so tired of being the guy that woman like but never fall for, 19 People

    being the nice guy has it benefits,

    but lately has been nothing but useless. im sick and tired of being there for everyone, helping others and offering my self to help. It doesnt give me any benefits because everyone forgets about how nice i am to them and never appreciate my acts. being the nice guy and living by...
    positiveperson10 positiveperson10 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 16

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    Okay, this friend and I have been friends now

    for 10 years...Like best friends. Let's start with her family. Her mom has a major social anxiety issues and in these 10 years, I have only been in her house maybe 4 times. Her mom doesn't like to go out (may leave the house once every month or two), doesn't see her family...
    mkingsbury10 mkingsbury10 22-25, F Dec 27, 2013

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    Enough of Being the Nice Guy

    Since I have opened to others about my relationship issues (see the groups I belong to) I got loads of wonderful support and I could not thank all the EP people enough for making me feel so much better. One thing that has now started to bother me though, is how often I have been...
    HappyTime11 HappyTime11 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Tired of being the one they come to

    after they enjoyed there life, after they turned 30 after they had 4 kids, after he abuses her over and over, after she realizes his heart is not as big as his muscles.
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I know they do, all women ever say is 'oh i want a nice guy' what they REALLY mean is 'so i can make hi my friend while i go for ******** and then ***** about them to him' Or "so i...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I love a guy who is nice to me and too others. I hate it when people say 'nice guys finish last'. I love a guy who is nice but can also stick up for himself and not be pushed...
    Shizuka000 Shizuka000 13-15, F Aug 16

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    Nice guys do really finish last the only ones that get girls are asshloes, players, jerks. I mean I'm a nice guys and nice guys never get girlfriends unless it's a miracle
    dominick5 dominick5 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I am in search for a nice guy. Not somebody to be with, but just somebody to talk to. As a friend. Im married, and i just need someone to text to get me going again. Make me happy...
    mirandatinsley mirandatinsley 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    My sisters boyfriend is a nice guy
    TheStillmanator TheStillmanator 13-15, M Aug 7

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    Hmmmm I think I see one now! Oh wait I'm looking in a mirror! Wait he's still a nice guy! :)
    TheTrollinator TheTrollinator 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    You CreepO!" Stop being such a creep when you know how old you are!! 50-60 or even 70's yr olds!! Get off this website!! Everytime I post something sexy some old guy likes or...
    TransAsian TransAsian 26-30, T Aug 6

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    If my appearance reflected my soul I wouldn't be so easy on the eyes- you would cringe at the mere sight of me. You would be repulsed- keep that in mind when your being superficial...
    1lostsinner2 1lostsinner2 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 6

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    Who not tired?....... I feel like punching each one of them
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    His name was Rian. He was cute and tall. Lol I like tall guys. We met at the bar yesterday. Had a great time and at the end we exchanged numbers. Feeling happy. Lol. He was really...
    marisemarrs marisemarrs 22-25, F Aug 10

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    People have asked me why I'm so nice to people who have been mean to me. Honestly I'm nice to people because in cases they're hurting inside and want others to feel their pain...
    SoulWriter17 SoulWriter17 16-17, M Jul 28

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    It gross me out !!! Please stop . If u over 25 & you a guy please stop writing me . I'm only interested into girls on here . Sorry not sorry !
    typicalprettygirl typicalprettygirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I hate all these guys in general asking me inappropriate stuff and asking for pics U PEOPLE LIKE THIS LEAVE ME ALONE
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    The pic of the creepy guy looks like a doctor I know.
    Kingshelman Kingshelman 31-35, M Aug 9

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    For all people above the age of thirty, I do not want to have a relationship with you... Not friends with benefits either. Sometimes I even get creepy girls hitting on me, but guys...
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M Aug 19

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    "Friend disguised as a creep" Well guys, I once again ended another friendship for my sake, and my boyfriend's sake. Let's just say this-so called "friend" of mine wasn't getting...
    takethispain takethispain 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I hope one day I'll find that guy! :( some who doesn't think they can get anyone! Someone who is funny, kind, helps me get through stuff and cares for me, I hope one day I'll find...
    kyarychan kyarychan 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    My wife tells me that I am "too nice." She also says I am not a man. I ******* jump out of planes, rappel out of helicopters, put out fires, shoot bears, and cut down trees for a...
    crono84 crono84 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    Met a really good guy but I guess the timing was bad. We've been hanging out for about 6 months now as my marriage has been crumbling. He's so very sweet to me but has his own...
    Curiouskitty77 Curiouskitty77 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    Is there anyone normal on here who doesn't have ulterior motives? Lord have mercy..
    kros10 kros10 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 6

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    Yes exactly this is my life!
    katd1234 katd1234 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    This explains what I feel about creepy noodle heads. Lots of them are on this site too.
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    What's there to say here...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I'm about to delete my account because of this problem. If you want to talk to me, I recommend you do it now because tomorrow I'm going to be gone.
    AwkwardSince1994 AwkwardSince1994 18-21, F 5 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    This is true. But we appear to be kinda rare! Everybody has an agenda of sorts. Your experiences lead you to where you are today! Sadly. Not all of them good! But me. Well. I don't...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Aug 3

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    i like to make people happy
    XmedicNow XmedicNow 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Where are all the men that believe in honesty, loyalty, compromise, protecting, and respecting their women? A lover and a friend. A partner in crime. Someone into family. The...
    jeniemari jeniemari 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    married ,divorced ,one child , I know many people and provide them with a smile on every occasion I can!
    hornpig hornpig 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    :D he looks cute and he wouldnt stop looking at me ;D so i spoke to him :) he helpped me chase my niece everywhere :P
    heeeeey heeeeey 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Being a nice guy and very giving and understanding comes at a price. Usually I end up being used and taken advantage of. I know that I have no one to blame but myself for this but...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Men always complain about nice guys losing out to a$$holes, well..nice women lose out to b*tches just as much. I think with both sexes we suffer from "superhero complex", where we...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Aug 4

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    Now don't get me wrong: I like NICE guys, especially if they're nerdy & my idea of the perfect man/lover/boyfriend/husband is Link! You know Link: the video-game elf dressed in...
    prettygirl366 prettygirl366 31-35 6 days ago

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    Observing our current society of my generation, I wonder does ethics and morals are relavent today? I mean why I heard from Aaron clarey, a mature YouTuber once stated that you...
    Storyguy007 Storyguy007 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am at welcome week for my university and last night at the social I met a really nice guy. We walked around campus and it was nice and somehow relaxing and yes I have a boyfriend...
    annieannana annieannana 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I find this so frustrating when girls say this there are so many guys just begging to meet use but most of the time you wouldn't give us the time of day just because we don't fit...
    Sproketsocet Sproketsocet 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    hard to think of being nice without thinking about patrick swayze in roadhouse. be nice, no matter what be nice, until it's time to not be nice, lol
    trailsonrails trailsonrails 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    I try being nice to people that absolutely hate me & have called me a ***** even though I had said nothing to them or interacted with them. I am proud of myself in a way though...
    kennalynn67 kennalynn67 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    My neighbor held me and his sister down and did things to us.....I never said anything ......I like both sexes now but get guilt after being with guys...love going down on men and...
    mannylancaster mannylancaster 46-50, M Aug 10

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    Before you comment, i'm not trying to stereotype anyone. I don't believe ALL girls are a certain way, likewise with guys. I guess i'm a person who views the lines between genders...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    My soul is tired my brain is tired and above all my heart is tired and yes i know life is never perfect then why i am even tired ..... But yet i am ever more than before , i am...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Im soooo tired of guys they are just something else why do guys act so selfish and don't think how a female would feel about what they did or say its like its all about them...
    Fabgal1 Fabgal1 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    U cant make anyone. Happy i cant find a guy who cares or a friend that trys to help. My family. Is always arguing. Mom says we dont that. Much but she needss to check. That im just...
    BloodDemon395 BloodDemon395 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    I started having sex when I was 15 my original plan was to stay a virgin. All of the people around me were having sex and I can admit I went through an experimental stage. In a...
    Toocrazy4u Toocrazy4u 18-21 3 Responses Jul 28