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I Am Tired of Being the Nice Guy

Ever so tired of being the guy that woman like but never fall for, 23 People

    being the nice guy has it benefits,

    but lately has been nothing but useless. im sick and tired of being there for everyone, helping others and offering my self to help. It doesnt give me any benefits because everyone forgets about how nice i am to them and never appreciate my acts. being the nice guy and living by...
    positiveperson10 positiveperson10 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Tired of being the one they come to

    after they enjoyed there life, after they turned 30 after they had 4 kids, after he abuses her over and over, after she realizes his heart is not as big as his muscles.
    EBestest EBestest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23, 2014

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    Enough of Being the Nice Guy

    Since I have opened to others about my relationship issues (see the groups I belong to) I got loads of wonderful support and I could not thank all the EP people enough for making me feel so much better. One thing that has now started to bother me though, is how often I have been...
    HappyTime11 HappyTime11 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Okay, this friend and I have been friends now

    for 10 years...Like best friends. Let's start with her family. Her mom has a major social anxiety issues and in these 10 years, I have only been in her house maybe 4 times. Her mom doesn't like to go out (may leave the house once every month or two), doesn't see her family...
    mkingsbury10 mkingsbury10 22-25, F Dec 27, 2013

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    Even in the midst of ******** that are blocking the view. It's just a hard thing to rap my head around nowadays. After all the failed attempts at having a good, healthy...
    GhostBride GhostBride 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 1

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    For good reason. Many of the supposed "nice guys" who love to complain this are actually even worse douchbags than the supposed "jerks" who get all the girls. When a guy can only...
    Nevermore99 Nevermore99 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I think most of the time there's always that one nice guy who's learned how to be nice and stick up for himself but still look like the nice guy. I think it's the aura around bad...
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    Nice guys finish last? Nice guys don't finish at all.
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    I am probably one of the nicest guys out there. I wouldn't in the world lay a finger on my girl. Guys who do that are ******* cruel and should be burned in the deeper depths of...
    whatupdoc54 whatupdoc54 18-21, M Feb 10

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    im a nice guy with a kind heart but i never get given the chance to show it i just grt pushed aside
    mustangkid2021 mustangkid2021 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 3

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    This post is just a really big thank you to all those really nice guys who are amazing friends, who you can go to and know they'll do their best to help you with anything, who are...
    Vicruiz Vicruiz 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    I'm really getting sick of getting vulgar, immature, perverse messages in my inbox. Some actual examples from the past 10 minutes: "Heheheh you have big boobs?" "I want to be...
    LeChatCurieux LeChatCurieux 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    Especially the guys that are old enough to be my dad.
    Rosieeeee Rosieeeee 18-21, F Feb 13

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    just ******* stop if you're a good guy or girl you can talk to me. but I don't want creeps talking to me and hitting on me.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I am nice unless you mess with me
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    I know a few. good guys exist. they're just aren't many left that haven't been corrupted.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Watching her bounce after him. Realizing I'm not what she wanted at all. Respect and courtesy...wasted on some people. They can get that from their grandpa. She wanted a little...
    rustyskills rustyskills 41-45, M Jan 28

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    Amillionstars Amillionstars 36-40 4 Responses Jan 28

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    I don't understand what they are expecting when they do this. What do they think they'll accomplish? Don't they realize that a majority of us aren't interested and don't appreciate...
    xKatlyn xKatlyn 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I don't think I should think this, but I don't want to block anyone or say mean things back what if it hurts their feelings?
    UnfinishedStar UnfinishedStar 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    im not trying to sound rude, but if you are old enough to be my father, thats disturbing. im 22 years old, if i was single, the oldest i would go after is 27. when they try to talk...
    mstasia316 mstasia316 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    We always do. It seems morals values or integrity are not accepted in society these days.
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M Feb 1

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    I just need to vent and get things out of my system, tired of feeling like an outcast in my own house, because my mother and brother are such **** wads that it annoys me to even...
    Tyfly Tyfly 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 5

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    It's 3 in the morning and she's over here again. What she's talking with my roommate about, I have no idea. I'm trying to stay awake so they can talk it all out, for the better...
    Teedge Teedge 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My kids are grown and live out of state, and no other family. I have been seeing a really nice guy that I care about for the past 3 years. He lives 45 minutes away, but I don't get...
    CarrieSue CarrieSue 51-55, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    So....for women who ARE looking for good guys on EP, here's a group with some nice honest NON-PERVERTED guys who are looking for friends or something more. EP Link How can you...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F Jan 30

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    i wont change for no one!! ok, granted that when the going gets tough,i stand firm and stand up for myself, but what i dont get, is why so many nice people,want to become...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    Do you guys believe I'm a genuinely nice person? Or is being nice too much that will hurt me later on. Would you guys hang out with me? Do I seem like a fun person
    JEJ2259 JEJ2259 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm tired of people walking all over me. I get taken advantage of so much lately, and I'm sick of it. I'm not your freaking doormat! I'm done being nice...it's way too much anymore...
    bemyforeverlove97 bemyforeverlove97 16-17, F Feb 13

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    Good "nice" guys always complain about how they end up being friendzoned and how women always fall for the bad boy but here's the thing.... I don't feel bad for them! Dating the...
    Notquitesurewhatimdoinghere Notquitesurewhatimdoinghere 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    I don't try I just naturally am. Why be bitter or unsociable? I just go through each day being an easy going nice guy.If I need to get upset,I'll deal with it if it happens.I'm not...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M Feb 18

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    im 37 and he is 46. we've been dating for over a year now and he cheated on me with my best friend 8 months into our relationship. it's been 6 months since he cheated and I am...
    lifecanberough lifecanberough 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Hi, my name is Katie. I am 26 years old and I am from California. I am a nice person. Not everyone is a nice person. I guess that I am nice, because I am sort of a "good" person...
    ksmith0315 ksmith0315 26-30 1 Response 3 days ago

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    People say I'm too nice for my own good but its just in my nature. I consider myself a very ugly and selfish person and THAT'S WHY I HIDE IT BY BEING NICE. I forgave my...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I would like to meet any nice guy period. As long as his sweet, handsome, know how to open doors, pull out chairs for the lady, call them beautiful through text, good in bed I'm...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    This has been an issue in the past. When you're nice and you're in high school, more often than not, people say screw being nice back and use you for money or whatever.
    tgf12 tgf12 18-21, M Feb 13

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    Seeing everybody on here whether it's responding to someone's post or they're making their own post, being nice it's so sweet. Argh I love everybody on here! Haha (and I just put a...
    Dreamer2221 Dreamer2221 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    To me, being a ***** is way better than being nice and getting taking advantage of. If I'm a ***** no one wants to be around me or talk to me which I'm completely fine with. Being...
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    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    marinadelmonroe marinadelmonroe 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    AngelWithoutWingsx AngelWithoutWingsx 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I miss the way being with a guy makes me feel. I miss feeling important and cared about. I miss the feeling of femininity that comes with it. Usually I don't feel very feminine...
    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F Jan 27

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