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I Am Tired of Being the Nice Guy

Ever so tired of being the guy that woman like but never fall for, 24 People

    Okay, this friend and I have been friends now

    for 10 years...Like best friends. Let's start with her family. Her mom has a major social anxiety issues and in these 10 years, I have only been in her house maybe 4 times. Her mom doesn't like to go out (may leave the house once every month or two), doesn't see her family...
    mkingsbury10 mkingsbury10 22-25, F Dec 27, 2013

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    Enough of Being the Nice Guy

    Since I have opened to others about my relationship issues (see the groups I belong to) I got loads of wonderful support and I could not thank all the EP people enough for making me feel so much better. One thing that has now started to bother me though, is how often I have been...
    HappyTime11 HappyTime11 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Tired of being the one they come to

    after they enjoyed there life, after they turned 30 after they had 4 kids, after he abuses her over and over, after she realizes his heart is not as big as his muscles.
    EBestest EBestest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23, 2014

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    being the nice guy has it benefits,

    but lately has been nothing but useless. im sick and tired of being there for everyone, helping others and offering my self to help. It doesnt give me any benefits because everyone forgets about how nice i am to them and never appreciate my acts. being the nice guy and living by...
    positiveperson10 positiveperson10 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    im am so fed up of being the nice caring good guy, as all I ever get in return is treated like sh*t so why should I bother being the nice guy ? im always there for my friends yet...
    rodwood rodwood 36-40, M May 11

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    Mr Nice guy, Google it, talk about it, and the shared story. You will notice that bad light shines upon does who walk the way of the nice guy. But what is a nice guy actually...
    TheChosenOne32 TheChosenOne32 22-25, M Apr 26

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    one of my coworkers was once telling me that all men are dogs. I stopped her and said yes maybe most or lots are dogs but not all. I also told her that I like to think of myself as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 days ago

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    Alright so I have come across several experiences or questions where people were either asking for help, or perhaps feeling so down which led to then posting stuff like "planning...
    starrywinter starrywinter 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My friend and training partner Etienne has been away in the UAE on business for the last week, he gets home to Paris today. So, the last few days I have been working out with three...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Don't mean to advertise, but there is a great subreddit called "creepypms"; if you guys and gals are sick of pervy messages, you can go there, post your messages for other people...
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F May 11

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    Of all things my niece has contributed her experiences here, people are completely ****** up, and now she has her account suspended. Listen, I won't be nice to anyone from now on...
    ZADoubleMesser ZADoubleMesser 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    is it just me or is this website the den of 40 year old pedophiles?
    Amacey Amacey 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    I apologize in advance for the rant, but if you are 25+ and can clearly see that I am under 18 why do you bother to message me? I don't care what the topic is about, a 40 year...
    kkaykiwi kkaykiwi 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 29

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    I don't understand why I'm bombarded with gross messages from lecherous men. I mean that. I don't get it. Sorry, desperados, you're going to have to find someone else to...
    harhailija harhailija 18-21, F 1 Response May 11

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    The crap I have to deal with on here. Smh.
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    That's what I've been told my numerous people at least. Talk to me, decide for yourself if you want.
    Stucat Stucat 16-17, M Apr 23

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    If you want to win in life, don't be afraid to bite, after all what's the worst you could do? Hurt someone's FEELINGS! Meh!
    AudioTravylerRavenwolf AudioTravylerRavenwolf 13-15, F Apr 27

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    Well, I really disagree. They don't finish last they finish first, as long as they stay in the game and don't get discouraged. They pull ahead when they stop thinking about first...
    JohnInKansas JohnInKansas 70+, M 6 days ago

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    One month in and we still haven't f.u.cked or done anything se.xual. Just enjoying getting to know him. Maybe this one is different. Maybe I'm different...
    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love giving people genuine compliments and making people smile. I can't go a day without making someone happy and I feel so good knowing I've possibly made a positive impact on...
    elementsonfire elementsonfire 16-17, F 1 Response May 1

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    we met in 2012 or so, the way met was so uniqe, maybe that is why its so hard to leave you. it was Valentines day 2012. i went to buffalo wings and rings with my freind willy and...
    itsram2015 itsram2015 36-40, M May 4

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    I am so tired of being victimised for just leaving my house. I'd rather hide every day and I try to but life involves food to live so means leaving the house. It's not a common...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Apr 22

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    I am so sick of trying to get girls to pay even the slightest bit of attention to me. It just feels like no matter how hard I try, no matter how much time I spend with a girl, how...
    AwkwardSarcasm AwkwardSarcasm 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    You know a long time ago I thought family was evrything... but I was wrong Yet I can't do anything about since it's not my choice in the matter right? every single day I and hurt...
    Shrous Shrous 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    does being nice backfire, i feel that being nice is the way of life to treat others
    jitsheng jitsheng 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 23

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    It’s all exciting, but yet frightening when trying to date someone new. When you are used to one person for about five years, it’s definitely a new thing going out and dating...
    Haywee123 Haywee123 22-25, F May 3

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    Don't get me wrong I'm not a monster, I've actually been told I'm a real life Dexter from the TV series, I don't have the need to kill but I have the dark passenger, only truly bad...
    LukeShaggyJones LukeShaggyJones 18-21, M 1 Response May 1

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    I was shopping today when a 9-10 year old boy walks by me with an "excuse me, miss," which was in itself nice to hear. I heard him say something else quietly so I looked up. He...
    BleuGardenia BleuGardenia 26-30, F 2 Responses May 4

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    Woudn't it make a better world? I mean there're lots of suffering and pain because of people being stupidily rude to each other After being a victim of bullyng for years I think...
    ChubbyFox ChubbyFox 18-21, M 2 Responses May 13

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    Mostly I try to be nice.But I don't feel like being nice with liars.I met someone here .He told me he had hardly any sex with his wife.I felt like blocking him but wanted to catch...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 46-50, F 4 Responses May 3

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    Nothing like shaving down there and being nice and smooth ;) hehehe
    deleted deleted 26-30 28 Responses May 6

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    Had some me time, so decided to go with a more bold blue bra. I needed to do some grocery shopping, but figured a sweatshirt would cover the evidence of my bra. At the store did...
    julia09 julia09 56-60, M 3 hrs ago

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    I had bullies in high school, but they were mainly this group of guys. The reason they bullied me was because I didn't take kindly to their racist humor. So the worst of it was my...
    behavedmisfit behavedmisfit 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I am always tired now.All I want to do is curl into a ball and cry.I have to go to school and I'm finding it hard to stay awake now I really am sick of this.I can't wait for summer...
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 10 hrs ago

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    Ok, I am going to go back to not looking. Open but not looking. I can't take dating idiots anymore or jerks, or guys who try to assault me. But... it's hard sometimes. Hard...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    Independence is nice, but so is being involved with someone. I like the freedoms of living alone, but it is nice being woken for sex. I'm not sure if Etienne has being a couple...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 28

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    When it rains it freaking pours here. Up at 630 for track practice. Swimming after wards. "Im tired, im hungry, water is too cold, its hot, no she hit me first,no she started it...
    emtDannny emtDannny 41-45, M 6 Responses May 2

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    It felt like everything negative in my life was starting to get a grasp around my throat; my friends, my family, and my ex-girlfriend. Didn't start that way. The year was 2012 and...
    Orchards Orchards 22-25, M May 12

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    I've been with 4 guys and loved it but sometimes feel guilty too.
    wyoguy1110 wyoguy1110 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    I am so tired of always being the nice one. I'm always the first one to ask if you are okay but I get nothing back. I'm always the one who is there for everyone and cares but no...
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 3 Responses May 10

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    I'm in the part of my life where facing big problems is something that I can't handle alone anymore. In the past, I used to think is a good thing to fight and deal with your...
    silence99 silence99 26-30, M 1 Response May 5

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    Im tired of pretending to be ok, Im tired of being alone, Im tired of crying, Im tired of missing people, Im tired of being different, Im tired of feeling worthless, Im tired of...
    Socalsunset Socalsunset 22-25, F