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I Am Tired of Being the Nice Guy

Ever so tired of being the guy that woman like but never fall for, 26 People

    Tired of being the one they come to

    after they enjoyed there life, after they turned 30 after they had 4 kids, after he abuses her over and over, after she realizes his heart is not as big as his muscles.
    EBestest EBestest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23, 2014

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    Okay, this friend and I have been friends now

    for 10 years...Like best friends. Let's start with her family. Her mom has a major social anxiety issues and in these 10 years, I have only been in her house maybe 4 times. Her mom doesn't like to go out (may leave the house once every month or two), doesn't see her family...
    mkingsbury10 mkingsbury10 22-25, F Dec 27, 2013

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    being the nice guy has it benefits,

    but lately has been nothing but useless. im sick and tired of being there for everyone, helping others and offering my self to help. It doesnt give me any benefits because everyone forgets about how nice i am to them and never appreciate my acts. being the nice guy and living by...
    positiveperson10 positiveperson10 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Enough of Being the Nice Guy

    Since I have opened to others about my relationship issues (see the groups I belong to) I got loads of wonderful support and I could not thank all the EP people enough for making me feel so much better. One thing that has now started to bother me though, is how often I have been...
    HappyTime11 HappyTime11 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    like i've always identified as female and I like being a girl...but some days I want to try it out, y'know? some days i want to wear boy clothing and try out male pronouns but most...
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    okay so once again my so called boyfriend is blaming me for something I swear he blames me for everything I'm getting so tired of it actually I'm not getting tired of it I am tired...
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    Yourfavnextdoor Yourfavnextdoor 16-17, F Jul 22

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    I am tired.Tired of being sad. Tired of being threatened and tortured. Tied of being lied to. Tired of being treated unimportant and stupid. Tired of being scared of saying or...
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    I prefer not to be nice though, being nice gets you nowhere.
    UnlovingAlex UnlovingAlex 16-17, M 7 Responses Jul 20

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    00dom00 00dom00 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Being nice is not easy, when efforts are just not appreciated. We'll I'm used to this, people will just take me for granted. What I wanted was to let people special, but now I also...