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I Am Tired of Being the Nice Guy

Ever so tired of being the guy that woman like but never fall for, 22 People

    Enough of Being the Nice Guy

    Since I have opened to others about my relationship issues (see the groups I belong to) I got loads of wonderful support and I could not thank all the EP people enough for making me feel so much better. One thing that has now started to bother me though, is how often I have been...
    HappyTime11 HappyTime11 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Okay, this friend and I have been friends now

    for 10 years...Like best friends. Let's start with her family. Her mom has a major social anxiety issues and in these 10 years, I have only been in her house maybe 4 times. Her mom doesn't like to go out (may leave the house once every month or two), doesn't see her family...
    mkingsbury10 mkingsbury10 22-25, F Dec 27, 2013

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    being the nice guy has it benefits,

    but lately has been nothing but useless. im sick and tired of being there for everyone, helping others and offering my self to help. It doesnt give me any benefits because everyone forgets about how nice i am to them and never appreciate my acts. being the nice guy and living by...
    positiveperson10 positiveperson10 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 16

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    Tired of being the one they come to

    after they enjoyed there life, after they turned 30 after they had 4 kids, after he abuses her over and over, after she realizes his heart is not as big as his muscles.
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    My mom says my dad is the nicest guy she has ever met... always willing to sepnd money he hasn't got to treat her.. will cook and clean for her when he knows she is tired etc. I...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M Sep 3

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    I know it. I've always tried to be nice and people don't appreciate it. There's no reward for being nice; people just patronise you and send you on your way. Well, I'm sick of it...
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    To any woman that complains about not being able to find a nice guy, just stop please.
    Sicarium Sicarium 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    If u girls out there keep falling in attractive jerks and aholrs , one day when they break your heart not come crying and telling that the world is so unfair and **** and why is...
    asianahyang96 asianahyang96 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    Sometimes girls can be so blind to who actually cares for them! Some girls have about half a dozen at their feet, but they still don't see them! Girls like me need guys like that...
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    Is there a nice guy here that would understand me and make things better?
    elenam84 elenam84 26-30, F Sep 10

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    I'm a nice guy, smart, funny, and cute, but yet I don't get many girls, at 18 your supposed to be getting girls and be loved by people other then your friends and family, I don't...
    Anil1996 Anil1996 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 12

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    I hate being nice to little ***** who don't deserve it. *******....
    BrutallyHonest316 BrutallyHonest316 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    Sometimes I think about how much my life would improve if I became more of a cold hearted b****. I often fantasize about how nice it would be to say "no" more than I did "yes...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I swear to God, i can't walk home from school without some creep honking at me, making sexual gestures at me, or pulling over in their cars to offer me rides like WTF?!! Just the...
    xRockGlossPrincessx xRockGlossPrincessx 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    Just one thing Some old guys r genuinly really sweet and r not trying to hit on you.. Cuz like one time instead of ignoring a creepy looking guy i accepted and we talked and he was...
    Karmalama Karmalama 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    Please guys stop it I'm sick of the amount of guys that hit on me done way older than me I just came on here for friends nothing else
    anestacia anestacia 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 30

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    So very ****** tired of it... Not so much on here as it was my old account. But I still get a few creeps a day... GET A BLOODY LIFE!! I AM A DEPRESSED TEENAGE GIRL WITH A BOYFRIEND...
    KittyKatLuvsYhu KittyKatLuvsYhu 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    Too all those guys I not ******* GAY STOP TALKING TO ME and to all the normal not creepy gays I'll talk to you but don't try to FIUCKIG FLIRT and to all those girls please do talk...
    drew725 drew725 13-15, M Sep 10

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    "Friend disguised as a creep" Well guys, I once again ended another friendship for my sake, and my boyfriend's sake. Let's just say this-so called "friend" of mine wasn't getting...
    takethispain takethispain 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    What's with old guys pinching my butt in line I'm 13 yrs old and these 40 yr old man pinching my *** it ****** me off!!!!
    hayhaytaytay hayhaytaytay 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    I feel that there a lot of guys who you think are genuinely interested, you get along well etc but then instantly they seem to want to get in your pants? What happened to a bit of...
    Kathryn2093 Kathryn2093 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 8

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    Yeah... pleeasasse stop adding me. first of all I'm not attractive at all so stop trying to get certain pictures of me! I'm definitely not interested in older guys so there is no...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M Sep 10

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    I'm about to delete my account because of this problem. If you want to talk to me, I recommend you do it now because tomorrow I'm going to be gone.
    AwkwardSince1994 AwkwardSince1994 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 26

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    Like please stop >.< I'm just a young teenage girl and not looking for old creepy, perverted men. Please find someone your own age and then hit on them. Ugh :p
    iAteYourCrayon iAteYourCrayon 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Sometimes I don't even reply to my messages because of all the creeps that I have encountered on here . Wish they could just go away..
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 7

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    I think there needs to be categories for the ladies on here, 1) that are on EP to pick up/talk dirty on here, show racy photos of themselves ( which is fine for them, that is...
    zelda14 zelda14 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    This discsuting pedo man Always coming to my work place makes me sick Probley got a wife who he locks at home like majority of his culture men do and kids, then goes and eyes up...
    saneelax saneelax 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    married ,divorced ,one child , I know many people and provide them with a smile on every occasion I can!
    hornpig hornpig 41-45, M Aug 24

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    if someone didn't even do anything to be disrespected then why do you feel like you have to be rude to them? treat people how you want to be treated.
    xolexissss xolexissss 16-17, F Sep 8

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    Ever feel like your sailing seas for someone who wouldn't even jump a puddle for you?
    livinliferight1 livinliferight1 16-17, F Sep 9

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    I'm not even going to ask what's wrong anymore if someone is upset because you wouldn't ask me what's wrong and if I'm okay so why should I do that for you? Tired of being nice to...
    JusttThatGirl JusttThatGirl 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I hate being judged by pathetic nasty people who have **** all better to do than be nasty and horrible to me and call me a creep etc for no ******* reason Just because I actually...
    caringcutie caringcutie 18-21, M 12 hrs ago

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    Observing our current society of my generation, I wonder does ethics and morals are relavent today? I mean why I heard from Aaron clarey, a mature YouTuber once stated that you...
    Storyguy007 Storyguy007 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I'm so tired of Meeting guys who my height or shorter then me Wtf they just keep coming my way what's up with that? I'm 5'9 Nobody seem to be taller then me
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I am at welcome week for my university and last night at the social I met a really nice guy. We walked around campus and it was nice and somehow relaxing and yes I have a boyfriend...
    annieannana annieannana 18-21, F Aug 24

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    I don't know why people sometimes don't accept the word "SORRY". I said it so many times but still getting back to the wrong thing that I did. I know being nice is not enough, I...
    ElleFrancene ElleFrancene 18-21, F Aug 28

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    I'm going to tell you now I am good at being nice and I'm not trying to come across as mean or rude but if you make me mad I will not hesitate to slap you
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    Ofcourse, being nice feels so good. And it's such an important trait in a person, too.
    pricilagudi pricilagudi 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    .....Fact! Don't feel sorry for me. I rather like being a guy!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    I am scared of the things that come with being gay. One would be is being alone, guys are very visual and I personally don't feel like I would be visually appealing to someone you...
    ZNior ZNior 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm sick and tired of having to play the role of a mother instead of just being a child. I'm sick of all the responsibility I'm sick and tired of people who use me. I'm sick...
    WelcomeTheSilence WelcomeTheSilence 16-17, F Aug 31

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    I HAVE TO SHARE THIS !!!!!! Today at work this older guy comes in, and just stopped every woman in her tracks ! He's was so handsome but had this rough scruffy look to him, dress...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 8

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    Soooooo I'm tired of hurting and being let Down by men! Trust me if I was to go into detail it would never end! But there is this one guy I just really which he would commit to me...
    prettyeyes331 prettyeyes331 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    My family, for the last few years, has treated me poorly. Sometimes as a child, I would get treated badly, I was obnoxious and loud, then again, what kid isn't at the age of 10? It...
    worromjw worromjw 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    High school life was supposed to be fun, right? But I couldn't fathom why I can't seem to be entertained with this life. Sure, I have very close friends who I really trust. I have...
    Cheyn Cheyn 13-15 3 days ago

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    I am so tired of life now that I am too tired to explain. 1st off I wasn't born beautiful which really ticks me off. This is my number one problem as vain as it sounds but it...
    toniyl toniyl 36-40, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    people define life to be miserable, but this misery can take many faces...mine takes the form of fear, acute disappointment, hopelessness, anger, repressed rage, or self harm...
    Nishitaa Nishitaa 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24

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