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I Am Tired of Being the Nice Guy

Ever so tired of being the guy that woman like but never fall for, 25 People

    Okay, this friend and I have been friends now

    for 10 years...Like best friends. Let's start with her family. Her mom has a major social anxiety issues and in these 10 years, I have only been in her house maybe 4 times. Her mom doesn't like to go out (may leave the house once every month or two), doesn't see her family...
    mkingsbury10 mkingsbury10 22-25, F Dec 27, 2013

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    being the nice guy has it benefits,

    but lately has been nothing but useless. im sick and tired of being there for everyone, helping others and offering my self to help. It doesnt give me any benefits because everyone forgets about how nice i am to them and never appreciate my acts. being the nice guy and living by...
    positiveperson10 positiveperson10 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Enough of Being the Nice Guy

    Since I have opened to others about my relationship issues (see the groups I belong to) I got loads of wonderful support and I could not thank all the EP people enough for making me feel so much better. One thing that has now started to bother me though, is how often I have been...
    HappyTime11 HappyTime11 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Tired of being the one they come to

    after they enjoyed there life, after they turned 30 after they had 4 kids, after he abuses her over and over, after she realizes his heart is not as big as his muscles.
    EBestest EBestest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23, 2014

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    Gloriaboszaman Gloriaboszaman 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    missnicething missnicething 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    vegasguy56 vegasguy56 56-60, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Have you ever noticed that being "tired" means different things to different people depending on what they have going on in their life? A few months ago when I was battling some...
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    When will it ever end? I need someone to hold me tightly and tell me it'll be okay. I need the guy who will treat me right. I need to fall in love with them. but how am I supposed...
    ashlenamya66359 ashlenamya66359 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I like to think of that nice guy that your mom always tells you you should find, but I'm not gonna let someone take advantage of my kindness for weakness.
    hawaiinpunch hawaiinpunch 18-21, M Jan 30

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    I was on the plane and whenever I would look around for any reason, I would catch this old guy just staring at me. So then about halfway into the flight he just sits down on the...
    TwigOfLife TwigOfLife 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    I can't take this anymore...NO! NO! I refuse to be a normal teenage girl and freak out. But I can't take it. I really don't know what to do...or how to do it. I can't even...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 27

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    Today I made the courageous decision to come out to my best friend. With trembling fingers, I sent that fated text to her; waiting for her reply with two sweaty palms. She did, and...
    Songsofheart Songsofheart 22-25 1 Response Jan 26

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    I'm actually a jerk who occasionally does nice things. I mean it's not like I'm a sociopath, it's just that I'm not exactly a nice guy all the time either haha. If you don't like...
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    Im a lovely genuine sweet british guy i just people would give me a chance rsther than just jump to the conclussion that im just like every other guy who only wants 1 thing :( :(
    hotspot2016 hotspot2016 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 24

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    TornWanderer TornWanderer 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    I try my hardest to be nice to people, even if they come off as a bit rude. I feel like my kindness gets me hurt a lot, and I often feel like a doormat when I'm nice to people. I...
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    I have gotten to the point in my life where I'm crying out I'm trying, I'm trying, but I just can't stand failing at everything anymore and feeling like a loser. I hate being and...
    thaibangbang thaibangbang 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I was hoping I would have a Valentine's Day with a boyfriend again but unfortunately my current ex aka my childhood friend broke up with me because of something that happened in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 23

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    i just feel like i cannot do something good. is this a quarter life crisis? im so sad seeing people being abandoned. i always used to put my shoes on their own. earlier, i was so...
    blitzkrieg7 blitzkrieg7 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    I've struggled with being tired all the time despite what amount of sleep I get. I finally started trying to figure out why this is happening and my families response is more along...
    inzari inzari 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 22

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    My friend was helping me find people from my area to connect to, which was nice of him. He found someone, i go to the guy's profile, it says I have been blocked. Um, I don't think...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 21

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    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Jan 21

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    The fact that people walk all over you for being nice is sickening.
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I am really. I do not have any reason to be bad or impolite to start with. I can also stand to be offended First time is normally unintended.
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    The title of the experience says it all! I'm just tired of being single. I'm tired of those around me gloating about their girlfriends or boyfriends while I sit here thinking on...
    sm1ttay sm1ttay 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 18

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