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I Am Tired of Being the Nice Guy

Ever so tired of being the guy that woman like but never fall for, 22 People

    Tired of being the one they come to

    after they enjoyed there life, after they turned 30 after they had 4 kids, after he abuses her over and over, after she realizes his heart is not as big as his muscles.
    EBestest EBestest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23, 2014

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    Okay, this friend and I have been friends now

    for 10 years...Like best friends. Let's start with her family. Her mom has a major social anxiety issues and in these 10 years, I have only been in her house maybe 4 times. Her mom doesn't like to go out (may leave the house once every month or two), doesn't see her family...
    mkingsbury10 mkingsbury10 22-25, F Dec 27, 2013

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    Enough of Being the Nice Guy

    Since I have opened to others about my relationship issues (see the groups I belong to) I got loads of wonderful support and I could not thank all the EP people enough for making me feel so much better. One thing that has now started to bother me though, is how often I have been...
    HappyTime11 HappyTime11 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    being the nice guy has it benefits,

    but lately has been nothing but useless. im sick and tired of being there for everyone, helping others and offering my self to help. It doesnt give me any benefits because everyone forgets about how nice i am to them and never appreciate my acts. being the nice guy and living by...
    positiveperson10 positiveperson10 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    it's time for me to end the chapter of the nice guy .. getting stepped on all the time ... surrounded by fake friends..getting fired all the time for no reasons.. no more please...
    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    "nice guys finish last" is just the idea that being kind to someone will put you in the friend zone. Being nice is not what keeps one in the "friend zone". What keeps someone in...
    mic112 mic112 18-21, M 21 hrs ago

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    Alright. Obviously, I'm not a dude. I'm a dudette. No, not a transgender either if that's crossing your mind. My vagina was naturally made. Anyway, I made this group because I...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Hey I'm a nice guy but I'm not good looking I try to be confident which I am getting there I'm friendly easy to get on with and easily make friends but after really relaxing I tend...
    Tenchimasaki13 Tenchimasaki13 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Nice guys DO always finish last. I am a nice guy, and a guy that always tries to do the right thing. All it ever does is screw me, yet there is nothing I can do to change it.
    realbeerad realbeerad 36-40, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Nice is so arbitrary, do want for a nice guy but for one that is trying.
    hal48 hal48 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    somehow i found this page and i thought I'd be more than happy to be that nice guy to talk to you can vent or i can see if i can help in anyway or whatever I'm up for anything
    Jin777 Jin777 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    I've never won at anything. Literally anything. I'm always the first person there when someone is sad or alone. I try my best to talk to them and make them feel like someone cares...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    I am a nice guy only let good people in my world and hugs and flowers for all the ladies walking on earth
    yourtwist yourtwist 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    I am a nice guy I care to much
    1nicecharmer 1nicecharmer 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I wish I could find a good guy in my life. It sucks being me.
    starbud5678 starbud5678 22-25, F Jan 3

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    But Funny! OK so this guy contacted me in Sept with something that, well, it wasn't that bad nor obvious. He told me that he was in Alexandria in the north of my state. At 1st I...
    zmedleff1 zmedleff1 41-45 4 Responses Jan 6

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    We all want people to be nice to us . In today's world there are not too many nice people so I try to do my part to be nice to others
    cynthiajo52 cynthiajo52 51-55, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    USER - peternorth72 , likes to send pornographic pictures to teenage girls and young women, his avatar when he responded to a post of mine was of a woman blowing a man, he has...
    jessthemess11 jessthemess11 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 11

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    User FourPointFive! He keeps messaging me the same **** all the time. It's like a script and it's creepy as hell. He always starts with something like "I want to get a younger...
    LeChatCurieux LeChatCurieux 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 15

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    Well I hope they still do...they don't seem to be coming this way...
    easynuh easynuh 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 3

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    Because I've been dating one for a year now, and he's amazing.
    willibemissed willibemissed 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    This problem will never be solved no matter what lol
    Flamee Flamee 16-17, M Jan 17

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    Hey :) Just thought I'd introduce my self I'm chase I like riding fourwheelers, talking, acting goofy and stuff lol I'm here for my friends so if you need to talk message me I...
    Funnychase66 Funnychase66 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    The opportunity to save someone's life is one of the best things in the whole world
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    I've been writing entries (by hand...ICK!) into a book called Leave Your Legacy which has been quite gratifying to remember experiences as a kid that will someday be handed down...
    MeTooNice MeTooNice 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    I've been trying out this online dating thing since I'm having trouble meeting nice guys anywhere else and it seems that every time I'm interested in a guy, we will go in a date...
    Angelsonthemoon Angelsonthemoon 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    This is my life. "Oh he's nice, always so calm, friendly" translation: decent guy to know (superficially it seems) "You're like a brother to me" translation: because you don...
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 5 Responses Jan 9

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    If there's one thing I hate more than anything it's being taken for granted, now anyone who knows me knows that I'm a naturally nice guy and that I hardly ever get angry unless...
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    I was working in a company were the tea boy is from other country that is economically weaker and backward but i treated him with respect but in return he spoke well did well and I...
    psycruler psycruler 31-35, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Did I do something wrong? I chose Nate and he knows I'm in love with him SO WHAT DID I DO WRONG? All I did was invite naomi and Chris to the amusement park with us and for some...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm scared of guys I don't know why I just always have been its stopped me getting in to relationships I'm shy aswell. There is one guy I'm not scared of and he's asked me out...
    anestacia anestacia 18-21, F Dec 30, 2014

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    being nice can be a challenge and it can be really easy and SNAP! I go from being mild-mannered and nice to being a friggin' monster ready to break someone's *** in half But, I do...
    Doviov Doviov 41-45, T 1 Response Jan 15

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    I try to be nice to people that I meet. I never want to hurt anyone's feelings. Always put mine on the back burner. Never worry when mine get hurt as long as the other person doesn...
    crafty36 crafty36 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    When someone I don't know starts being nice to me the first thing I do is get my guard up and give him a rocket launcher for one hand and a minigun for the other and say "Shoot the...
    CaptainKurMujunShang CaptainKurMujunShang 18-21, M Jan 12

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    I like to be independent. When guys open a door for me, I know they are being nice, but i just would rather do it myself. Nothing against chivalry though.
    juliettecf juliettecf 13-15, F Jan 12

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    He's perfect in every way. So perfect it hurts. I've never met someone who has had this much of an effect on me before. He is the nicest guy I've ever met and he genuinely likes me...
    juliakats3 juliakats3 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Why do i get blocked it upsets me..im a nice guy yet people throw it back in my face
    mustangkid2021 mustangkid2021 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 15

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    is it selfish of me to want to have someone to talk to right now? A woman I can actually enjoy life with? Every time I think I find someone, I get let down. I don't know...
    JustMe5600 JustMe5600 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    If I were to see you in person or talk I am a nice guy and i am caring....the only time I will bet mad is of you mess with my friends then we got a problem
    trew5432 trew5432 13-15, M Jan 15

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    I will never understand why people are mean. There are some people who go into every situation with a negative attitude. I think being nice can get you a long way. There will...
    enviouseyes enviouseyes 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 3

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    I'm someone who is really friendly, I don't really say no to a good time. I work hard, I try to be as talented as I can, and I do a lot of things but no one seems to care. I just...
    LusiusBlack LusiusBlack 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    All I do is lose everyone in my life. im like non existent to guys. I just feel horrible and empty inside I need someone who will love me... but that seems impossible. and my...
    hippiegirl9696 hippiegirl9696 18-21, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    i'm tired of being that friend that is alway's there for you and listens to all your problems and in return gets ignorned when i have a problem or need help end vent :)
    sefphera sefphera 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    I believe in being kind and caring, and giving people the benefit of the doubt... but... misjudging my kindness for naivety is a mistake that some people make. Actions and words...
    WithGracefulness WithGracefulness 46-50, F 5 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    1. has a good job 2. has a place of his own, no roommates 3. money to spend on me 4. easy on the eyes 5. has a nice body 6. great sense of humour 7. vehicle 8. take me on...
    lovemycrazylife95 lovemycrazylife95 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago