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I Am Tired of Being Told to Accept My Mothers Behavior

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    My Mothers Relatives....

    I got an email back finally from my mothers side of the family this morning about when would be a good time to make a trip to see all of them as right now it is hard for us to be able to drop everything and go, and if we want to go on a trip we have to plan it at least a few...
    agirlnamedsue agirlnamedsue 22-25 1 Response Oct 23, 2009

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    My Fathers Recent Emails.....

    these are emails i have received or been forwarded from my father recently:   forwarded from my aunt-   Wednesday, October 14, 2009, 5:52 AM   Thanks.. I needed that.  I have told (agirlnamedsue) she can contact me if she wants to via cell phone or...
    agirlnamedsue agirlnamedsue 22-25 Oct 15, 2009

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    Omzxdfkl/nb

    i'm so sick of my mom's bi polar bullshit i hear the same thing over and over agian and the same threat to find out the next day there just talk who'd of guess?jesus she need so medical attetion everyone in the family is an enabler..she need rehab...again
    Lostinimage Lostinimage 13-15, F Apr 13, 2009

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    She's The One Who Needs To Do The Accepting.

    BLAH BLAH BLAH,She'll never change.She'll always stay that way,BLAH BLH BLAH.I DON'T CARE.Iam tiredof being toldto accept my mother'sBEHAVIORHOW ABOUT SHE ACCEPTS MINE??How about that??I'm the daughter,I'M THE ONE WHO'S SUPPOSED TO HAVE THE OUTBURSTSI am the one who's supposed to...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    My Father's Involvement W/ My Mother's Behavior

    this is something i started to write previous to starting this group on experience project:   "I am so tired of people telling me I have to just accept my mothers outrageous behavior.  Why does she get to act all crazy and then blame it on some completely...
    agirlnamedsue agirlnamedsue 22-25 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    My Mother Isnt the Person Everyone Thinks She Is....

    i am almost 24 years old, about to be a married woman. i have a child who left this world well before her time, at 2 1/2 mos. old as a result of sudden infant death syndrome, another that left this world before i could ever see them as a result of a miscarriage, and another child...
    agirlnamedsue agirlnamedsue 22-25 1 Response Mar 25, 2009

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    My Mother Is Poisoning My Relatives Around Me..

    i got this email from my uncle the other day:   You are not, nor will you ever be wealthy in soul until you free yourself of this baggage. Your Mother has serious issues, and you too have issues. Yet, instead of trying to set up a meeting with the best counselor in (nearby...
    agirlnamedsue agirlnamedsue 22-25 2 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    I Am Too

    she need to grow up and act like a mother not a friend
    Lostinimage Lostinimage 13-15, F Mar 25, 2009

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    Being told to "calm down" is the quickest way to push me over the edge! Yeah...I've got issues SURPRISE!!
    ThistleAndWeeds ThistleAndWeeds 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I guess being 17 (turning 18 next year) and still single is something that society is still not accepting. Some say, "Wow, you are something." And then the majority, 'You're a...
    Acezsinkillx Acezsinkillx 16-17 Oct 6

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    Today he did it again. Done something, he lied, and made it out so I'm the one in the wrong. Same **** he's always pulled. Yet, he has the balls to even bring up respect. I don't...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F Sep 27

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    Oh god no. I like be fun, crazy, and wild. Many have tried, but there's no taming happening any time soon. Accept my crazy life or stay out of it. Don't tell me to change. Because...
    MoniiiBabyy MoniiiBabyy 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    Cause it doesn't feel right to me to be told that it makes me feel uncomfortable i don't like being called unattractive either but i just like to be average
    steeleo steeleo 16-17, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Always have been like this. Earned me the nick name Rebel lol. I will take extra effort not doing something I want to do just because someone TOLD me to. Tell me to do the laundry...
    Bela21 Bela21 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    Everywhere i go, work, home, out and about i am constantly told what to and what not to do, where i can and can't go and they even try telling me who i can and can;t talk to. Not...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Oct 11

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    I'm choosing my options in January for gcse and I said to my parents I want to take Tripple science(instead of double), Art, German, History and Geography. My aunt and my form...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    Yeah, don't do that. Or I'll do the complete opposite.
    LadyWhatever LadyWhatever 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    If you tell me what to do, you better be ready for some sassy remarks.
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F Sep 27

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    Seriously has telling a pissed off guy to calm down ever helped a situation? Cause it sure as hell never helps me.
    rehn65 rehn65 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 30

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    I never follow all the rules. I have to break at least one.
    Brightfuture99 Brightfuture99 26-30, F Oct 1

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    Learn the rules like a pro Then break them like an artist
    missmosjer missmosjer 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    I hate it especially when its by an older guy who thinks i'm stupid apparently...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F Oct 1

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    I do things my way. I'm open to other ways but it would have to be right for me.
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M Oct 2

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    Some bosses are **** in the head to
    nicholas1974 nicholas1974 31-35, M Oct 2

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    Most churches dont care about jesus and your soul there just want the money in the basket in sunday have u been in to some off these preachers houses its like heaven in there!
    nicholas1974 nicholas1974 31-35, M Oct 2

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    Tell him to f off dont let a guy do that to u
    nicholas1974 nicholas1974 31-35, M Oct 2

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    Quoting: DONT TELL ME WHAT THE **** TO DOOO IM CRAZY IM CRAZYY!
    LadyWhatever LadyWhatever 18-21, F Oct 2

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    It's a girl thing. We're always right
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 2

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    For as reserved as I am, and prefer to hide I still rather less than follow :-)quite the weird personality
    Gypsydanger48 Gypsydanger48 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 2

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    I am very stubborn and set in my ways. I prefer to do things with my own methods.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    ...... by people who know sweet FA. Is it a new fashion to think you're an expert in everything? I don't even think I'm an 'expert' in things I've been doing well for years. They...
    Moonpenny Moonpenny 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    I don't listen so u DONT bother to give me a command
    jeniffer200 jeniffer200 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 4

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    Yea.. I just put on my headphones and sing whenever my mom ask me to do something. I'm not this rude to anyone else but she's trying to control me. I hate it! 😩
    iAmKD iAmKD 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    If I made my mother mad, she asked my dad to spank me. Clearly, my mother ran the house. My father was a quiet, determined man. He was kind, and not quick to anger by any means...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Oct 6

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    ​Out of the blue, this guy Blackdaddy22, just asked me about my spouses type and shoe size.Talking about being fascinated by human behavior!!Should have sent him this; 
    RobertCarlos RobertCarlos 46-50, M 3 Responses Oct 7

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    Mistress orders and i obey. There is no greater feeling than to know that i am doing what She wishes me to do and that through my actions, devotion and work She is pleased. The...
    SissySonja SissySonja 41-45, T Sep 25

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    Today my younger brother came to me and said "how is it that you have no friends? No one in this world lives the way you do, they all have friends! I mean you look hot, you are...
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    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    MOB MENTALITY- There's always been situation where the mob mentality occurs. I personally remember seeing it in elementary and middle school. Word would spread throughout the day...
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    CongratulationS CongratulationS 22-25, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I always thought mothers and their children had a connection,heard tales about how holy a mother's love is,its true that they are humans,but they've also accepted responsibility of...
    fortisparadys fortisparadys 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 3

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