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I Am Tired of Being Told to Accept My Mothers Behavior

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    My Mother Isnt the Person Everyone Thinks She Is....

    i am almost 24 years old, about to be a married woman. i have a child who left this world well before her time, at 2 1/2 mos. old as a result of sudden infant death syndrome, another that left this world before i could ever see them as a result of a miscarriage, and another child...
    agirlnamedsue agirlnamedsue 22-25 1 Response Mar 25, 2009

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    My Mom agreed to come pick up Murphy (my dog

    ☺️) and take him to daycare bc I have a stiff neck and didn't want to drive. When she got here, she asked if she could have some Adderall for her trouble.. I said: "Or you could do something to help me out, bc you're my Mom"- Passively as I walked into the kitchen to...
    AlieVerde AlieVerde 26-30, F 3 Responses May 11

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    I Am Too

    she need to grow up and act like a mother not a friend
    Lostinimage Lostinimage 13-15, F Mar 25, 2009

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    She's The One Who Needs To Do The Accepting.

    BLAH BLAH BLAH,She'll never change.She'll always stay that way,BLAH BLH BLAH.I DON'T CARE.Iam tiredof being toldto accept my mother'sBEHAVIORHOW ABOUT SHE ACCEPTS MINE??How about that??I'm the daughter,I'M THE ONE WHO'S SUPPOSED TO HAVE THE OUTBURSTSI am the one who's supposed to...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    My Mothers Relatives....

    I got an email back finally from my mothers side of the family this morning about when would be a good time to make a trip to see all of them as right now it is hard for us to be able to drop everything and go, and if we want to go on a trip we have to plan it at least a few...
    agirlnamedsue agirlnamedsue 22-25 1 Response Oct 23, 2009

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    Control freakkkkk I have a very,

    very loudddd mother who's opinion is the only one that matters. very stubborn lady and holds a grudge. I am from a very large family and she is the " ruler " , but expects everyone to keep mouths shut. I love this women , but my gawddd respect is a 2 way street. I have...
    adonaldson80 adonaldson80 31-35, F Mar 21

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    Omzxdfkl/nb

    i'm so sick of my mom's bi polar bullshit i hear the same thing over and over agian and the same threat to find out the next day there just talk who'd of guess?jesus she need so medical attetion everyone in the family is an enabler..she need rehab...again
    Lostinimage Lostinimage 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2009

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    My Father's Involvement W/ My Mother's Behavior

    this is something i started to write previous to starting this group on experience project:   "I am so tired of people telling me I have to just accept my mothers outrageous behavior.  Why does she get to act all crazy and then blame it on some completely...
    agirlnamedsue agirlnamedsue 22-25 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    My Mother Is Poisoning My Relatives Around Me..

    i got this email from my uncle the other day:   You are not, nor will you ever be wealthy in soul until you free yourself of this baggage. Your Mother has serious issues, and you too have issues. Yet, instead of trying to set up a meeting with the best counselor in (nearby...
    agirlnamedsue agirlnamedsue 22-25 2 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    My Fathers Recent Emails.....

    these are emails i have received or been forwarded from my father recently:   forwarded from my aunt-   Wednesday, October 14, 2009, 5:52 AM   Thanks.. I needed that.  I have told (agirlnamedsue) she can contact me if she wants to via cell phone or...
    agirlnamedsue agirlnamedsue 22-25 Oct 15, 2009

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